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Work ethic is a valuable feature that companies look for in their employees. But the devil is in the details.

Yes, an excellent work ethic can get you special projects because you're reliable, dedicated, and disciplined. But at which point does putting your job first start to take a toll on you?

That's exactly what Twitter users are trying to find out in this viral thread. Inspired by Samuel Pollen's humorous tweet about the differences between European and American out-of-offices, people from all over the world are sharing what's expected of them in the workplace.

Pollen's initial tweet, the one that started this discussion, was born out of his own work. "I live and work in the UK, and I have a lot of US clients," he told Bored Panda. "They send emails at all times of day, and never go on holiday. Conversely, our Swedish clients disappear all summer! So it was very much informed by my direct experience."

However, he wouldn't describe its subject matter as work ethic. "You can have a great work ethic and still appreciate the importance of family time, your health, and proper rest and relaxation," Pollen said. "But there are many legal and cultural factors at play. The cliché is that Europeans work to live, and Americans live to work. That elides many different individual experiences, but there’s a great deal of truth in it. Things like having a set number of sick days seem completely absurd to people on this side of the Atlantic!"

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Likely fired as did not answer the phone while getting anaesthetics.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Something definitely wrong with this thinking when you think going on maternity leave is time off.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is time off though. TIme off work. Not vacation time, but by definition still time "off".

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Germany: if you get sick during your holiday, those days will count as sick days (there is no limit to those if a doctor confers) and you get your holiday days back to take another time.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Germany:Each parent can take up to three years of parental leave per child. In the case of the mother, however, this three-years-long parental leave includes the legally prescribed, six-weeks-long after-birth maternity leave during which the mother has to stay home. Fathers can start parental leave (the earliest) at the childbirth and mothers can start theirs' after the end of their (six-weeks-long) maternity leave. Both parents have to take at least a part of their parental leave before the child's 3rd birthday and they need to conclude it before the child's 8th birthday. Apart from that, as a parent, you can freely choose the beginning and the end of your parental leave. You and your partner do not have to both go on parental leave- only one parent may go on parental leave if you prefer so.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Parental leave is an unpaid break from work offered to new parents to look after their children. The parental leave can be up to three years, and the time can be split between the two parents. A parent can decide to not work at all or only work part-time (up to 30 hours a week). Even though parental leave is an unpaid break, new parents can apply for parental allowance (Elterngeld). If you apply to basic parental allowance, you can expect to receive between 300 and 1.800 euros per month. As a rule, it is 65% of your net income before giving birth. If you apply to parental allowance plus, you can expect to receive between 150 and 900 euros per month. The amount of parental allowance plus is limited to half of what you would theoretically receive as basic parental allowance.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am German. Here it is even LEGALLY REQUIRED that an expectant mother goes on maternity leave 6 weeks before the due date. and then stays at home 8 weeks after the birth. Then you can go to work. Or you stay 1-3 yrs at home. But I don't know anybody who takes the full 3 years... Fathers can take leave also.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the U.S. "family values" is a term thrown around by the Republican party who means by that that everyone should be forced to attend church and every woman should be forced to be married and be a housewife. Also that they should be white and Protestant.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do you have any idea how hard it was in the U.S. for women to make a living, because employers wouldn't hire them in fear that they eventually might get pregnant? And with the attitude that EVERY woman would become pregnant eventually, they just really didn't want to hire women. And for a long time, they only wanted women in "non-critical" positions. Government regulation finally made that illegal and also provided tax bonuses to offset the businesses' reluctance, but it was a long uphill fight. If the U.S. were to become as liberal about maternity leave as Europe, I fear how businesses here will react. Will need stringent continued government support of women's rights for this to keep from drastically impacting womens' employability again.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you always duck down and kiss the business's feet, nothing will ever be done. Don't just take the unfairness lying down - fight! At LEAST fight for women having six weeks off after giving birth - that is the lowest bar to take. Goddammit, they just squeezed a bowlingball through a keyhole! And don't think the government and the businesses in Europe just gave those times out of the goodness of their hearts. It's been hard work to get it there, so don't expect anyone to just GIVE you something. Don't be so stoic, man - you are apparently a nation of rebels and fighters, but you kiss ass of big corporations as if you like it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not true for all, sadly. Once went on vacation with my German dad. During our hike to the mountaintop he was in a conference call.

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Daniela Strobl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm German and working in my free time too sometimes (what isn't good) but I only have to if necessary and that's the point. I can't be fired for taking my time off.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my wife just took 18months of Mat leave, we are Canadian. i was able to take 5 weeks to help her.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i really don't understand you expect to have an employer pay you a years salary everytime you choose to voluntarily have a kid and hold your job and pay somebody else to do your job while you aren't there?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But some poor amazon workers were talked into vote against syndication.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We got 2-4years PAID parental leave in my country CZ, EU. You got a budget and devide the money as you like in this time period. Also social and health insurance full covered for mother and baby. And covered education up to university degree. (all of the degrees you can get) I wouldn't live anywhere else.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. I was on paid maternity leave for 16 months. Thank you Swedish Social insuranse system :)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once my favorite start for a holiday was a week long hike in Lapland wilderness. No cell phone reception and If someone would have really liked to contact me the search area would have easily been at least 1000 km2 :D

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel more shocked that someone would ask to reach a colleague in the Swiss alps than anything. Leave people on vacation alone. Maternity leave sounds miserable so I would understand if that person were still available but don’t bother someone on actual vacation!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had paid leave for months. I am the father. That this is not the norm saddens me deeply, and I have sympathy for anyone who suffers from being deprived of taking care of their baby due to broken social systems.

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There are numbers to back up these statements, too. For example, Brits tend to put in fewer work hours than Americans (OECD data places average hours worked per year in the U.K. at 1,538 and in the U.S. at 1,779).

Then there's desk dining—the sad act of having your lunch where you work. A 2015 survey found that only 1 in 5 Americans actually spends their lunch break away from their desks, with most eating their midday meal while they continue to work. Plus, millions of Americans are skipping lunch altogether to continue working.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My German brother in law, working in Germany, once found himself locked out of his office. He hadn't taken a vacation in three years and Personnel decided that this behaviour was bad for his health.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually I'm (German) jealous of some Skandinavien work places. They practice 6h per day (instead of 8h) 5b days a week and studies show, that you can accomplish the same amount of work in that time. They get paid full time. And I know for a fact that it is true, I can be as productive in 6 hours (or even more productive) than in 8h.

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At the time of writing the tweet, Pollen thought he was exaggerating things for comic effect but as you can see, the replies tell a different story. "There was the woman who gave birth on a Thursday and was back at her desk the next Monday. There was the person whose colleague literally had a heart attack in the office, and they sent paperwork to the emergency room for him to sign. And there were people from other countries – India, Israel – who described a work culture just as bad."

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"My favorite story was from someone who visited Italy, and spotted a sign on a sandwich shop: 'It was a nice day so we went out.' That's a sentiment I can get behind," Pollen recalled.

"If you’ve been working through this pandemic you better believe you deserve a break," he added. "I hope you all get one!"

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People need a healthy work/life balance. I would go mad if every hour was just work.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my son was born I took 1 week off as paternity. It was not worth taking the second week off as it would have cost me too much in lost wages and there was no shared parental leave at the time. I booked the week after as paid holiday instead

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And you'll still need that second and possibly third job so you don't have to sell your food stamps to pay the rent.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember when I had that much vacation, I had a union job and had worked there for 20 years.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My boss said we had to give him a vaccine schedule 1-2 weeks in advance just in case you might have to be out. He also suggested to tough it out if you don’t feel well right after.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah, it is mostly like that. We don't want you to call us on our holiday. If you do and we pick up, you have to be prepared for the fact that we are on holidays, not IN the OFFICE.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trust me, we'd LOVE more time off. We're just not offered the chance. Workers here are considered replaceable at any time. If we're taking time off we can be fired. We have to have our days off approved most of the time. It's very very frustrating to worry about your job if you want to go to things at your kids school or appointments or have to leave early to take care of an emergency. If you don't have any time off left you're in real danger of disciplinary action.And we don't get much time off.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Only people who think that they are indispensable do that. The majority will tell you that you shouldn't even dare to consider contacting them during their holidays.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do this. Call me before a) we lose a customer b) i have to do damage controll afterwards. It works well if your team knows what an emergency is.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also unlimited sick days. (I was so bewildered to learn that some countries limit them. As if you can decide if you get sick.)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ouch. Yeah that hits home. I work when sick because I will use all 5 of my "sick" days to take care of my kid through the year.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First child back after 6 weeks. Second back after a week. I was self employed. If I didn't work I didn't get paid. Also after insurance her birth was $8k

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Things don't close in the UK over August, but as soon as the schools are off the whole pace of businesses slows down. Roads are noticeably less busy in the morning. I personally don't schedule any significant work for the month of August as it's too quiet to get much done.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uh.. what would have been the solution without him taking one of his vacation days?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that's when think of your own and the baby's health and get out without even answering the fool.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd be pisssed if I HAD to take 4 weeks in a row in summer. That would eat up two thirds of my vacation days and I want/need those days at other times of the year. I like to take more time off around Christmas and New Years.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the big surprise is, nothing, absolutely nothing bad happens if you don't check your emails.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you that you did. I has minor surgery a few years ago and had two weeks off medical leave. It took that long for the aesthetic to wear off enough for me to be somewhat functional.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get what this is saying, but there's some part of me that breaks out in a cold sweat thinking "yes, but what if there's a deadline and you watching the world cup instead of being in the office means that your counterpart in the US doesn't make their deadline? What if they get reprimanded? What if they get fired?"

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My cousin is legal counsel for Greensill. Between their current catastrophe and the American work culture, i have never seen a human being crumble into a shell faster. 18 hour days for years and panic every second of the way.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lol, in the USA a bank holiday is only a day that banks take off. No one else.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, boss. Just let us know when it's convenient for you. Her mother will hang in there until you find an opening in your agenda.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My job: 'yeah, we should plan too much from June up to October, people take holidays then.'

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My UK-based wife once considered a job offer in her company's New York office. Not talking scrubbing toilets- a good white collar publishing job on 85,000. More pay than the same job in London, but by the time we worked out the costs of things like health insurance that difference was wiped out immediately. And then there was the fact her paid leave would be less than HALF what she gets now, and the company wouldn't give her a contract with guarantees of basic workplace expectations such as a guaranteed notice date or even a guaranteed FIXED leave entitlement (company's US hiring policy document actually said *leave entitlement subject to change). It turns out that for not a lot more money we would have a terrible overall package. I think you'd need to be earning well over £150,000 a year to make moving to America work out better than in the UK- and that is about the top 2.5 percent of earners here. I don't understand why the middle class put up with it in America.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

teacher here too--Covid rules- if health dept quaratines you then 14 days off with Personal Days no email/no work (close contact/tracing etc)..if you become sick without notifying the health dept the you take sick days and are still responsible for your class via zoom in your classroom (we're in school, not remote)...we also don't have a union

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tricky, what country can this be?? It's so hard to guess!!! *rolling my eyes*

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My (US) company has an office in India. Even though we try to be cooperative and balance meeting times so fewer people get the bad end of it on late evening meetings, it's not unusual for me to be starting work in my morning, which is their late evening, and they're still at it on our group chat, or staying up past their midnight so they can collaborate with the US team. Also, their managers don't seem to hesitate to give them weekend work whereas something better be on fire here for our managers to mandate it. Sure, we sometimes do it anyway because of our deadlines, or we'll take courses on our own time, which I imagine would appall our European pandas, but that's far less often than our India teammates. The standard work week in India is 48 hours, and from what I can tell, that's a minimum, at least in tech.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They have this amazing invention called a "kitchen". You can find one in all German houses. You use it to prepare and cook your own food because adults should be able to feed themselves. They have time to do this because they don't live in a backward country where they work ludicrous hours and have no holidays.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The world makes fun of us for not being worldly and untraveled and ignorant of other cultures. This is why. A Canadian friend of mine asked me why i would travel to a far away place for only 5 days. I told her that even that was stretching it and that is all i could possibly muster for that period of time.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure the American reaction would be "I hope I don't get fired, because if I do, I won't be able to pay for my mother's insulin injections."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm in end stage renal failure and am on dialysis (3/week at 4 hrs/session, plus travel time) and work full time. The only way I get in 40 hours is to skip all lunches, start at 7:30 am. I keep my laptop up and running next to me all evening and answer e-mails immediately. Why? Because it's the first job I actually wanted that would hire the sick girl who can't work until 11:00 am every Tuesday and Thursday. My mom told me to NOT tell potential employers I'm on dialysis, but how do I explain that absence every week? I hope when we're back in the office, they'll let me work from home on Tuesday and Thursday, otherwise, I'll have a hard time getting in a full 40 hours. Plus, I'm kind of a mess after treatment. It sucks the soul out of you and you just want to not be around people. Working remotely those 2 days is a gift!

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