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Ever had anything mansplained to you? You know, when a guy starts explaining something to (most likely) a woman about something that they very well know themselves in a condescending or patronizing way.

Sure, it is definitely a serious issue, one that hints at sexism and rudeness, among other things, but also one that can be satisfying and even funny—particularly when the one being mansplained to claps back with an educated response that makes the mansplainer rethink their decisions.

In celebration of the recent Valentine’s Day, Twitter user @J_Dot_J asked people what was the most obvious thing that was mansplained to them. Dozens upon dozens of people shared their best mansplaining stories, not only voicing their frustrations, but also pointing out how nobody should ever assume that you don’t know things.

Image credits: J_Dot_J

Bored Panda has collected some of the best responses from the Twitter thread and made it into a list for you to enjoy. While you’re scrolling, why not share your thoughts and vote on the ones you liked the most, and share your mansplaining stories, if you have any, in the comment section below!

Oh, and if this ain't enough, Bored Panda has two other articles on the topic here and here, so be sure to check them out once you're done here!

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Raine Soo
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'The Queen's Gambit' comes to mind. I suck at chess, by the way.

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    elStiJneriNO
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since he is a natural, you should take his advice on it

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    Madison Feehan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best part is that you get to give out the final marks.

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    Madison Feehan
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look on the bright side, cement proof that he did you a favour by showing you his true colours.

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    Buttered_Crumpet
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To the 'Mansplaining Deniers' out there : The point is that those men make the assumption that the woman knows nothing, without knowing anything about her. When we meet a new person, we could all just assume they are equally intelligent as us.

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    Joonscrab
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YOU TELL HIM! I'm tired of men trying to explain s**t that I know better.

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    Pixie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "young lady" - so condescending 🤬

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    Diddlybop
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously men need to at least know what they are talking about when they do this

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    Madison Feehan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that was the last time that OP's husband was ever seen.

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    EA
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got a C in art once for ‘plagiarising’ Devil Wears Prada (had just come out at the time). We had to design a shoe. I made mine into a dragon with a tail going up the leg and scales all over looking like fire. All the work showed it was inspired by Smaug from The Hobbit. The art teacher who was ALSO and English teacher said what’s the hobbit? Who’s Tolkien? Said I was lying and still gave me a C for ‘plagiarising’ Devil Wears Prada 🤦🏼‍♀️

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    Raine Soo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The men: "La, la, la, la, la...I can't hear you!"

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    MRSS
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am 45yrs old and am in full blown menopause. I started peri menopause when I was 38-39yrs old. I had a man child explain menopause and proceed to tell me that it is impossible for a woman to start it that young and to be in menopause at my age. While it is not common it does happen and my last period was actually almost 6yrs ago. He said it was something else and insisted that the Gynecologist was wrong due to her being a woman and I NEED TO SEE A MALE DOCTOR to be correctly diagnosed. I had blood work done and am currently on hormone therapy. Kicker....... this Man/Child was 22yrs old and was going to college for a degree in physical education. LMFAO SMH

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    Raine Soo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes you wonder how this guy was raised.

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    Madison Feehan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't be able to stop laughing if somebody insulted me like this.

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    Francis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is anyone just answering to a convo they are NOT part of??

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    Madison Feehan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    (Dungeons & Dragons in case you were wondering)

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    Rod Egret
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can you be an engineer and not understand pH, it's so basic! (no pun intended)

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    Lunar Bicycle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop with the made up Covid nonsense, “doctor”! You’re just distracting us from the real and imminent threat of the Lizard People from Planet X! Not to mention the cannibals in the pizza basement.

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    Lunar Bicycle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If “girls” can’t play bass, then what was Carol Kaye doing on all 10,000+ recording sessions she played on? If he’s ever enjoyed a famous bass line from the last half of the 20th century, she probably played it.

    Diane Aguilar
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or how about some other badass bassists in music such as Tina Weymouth, Patricia Morrison (of The Sisters of Mercy), and Kim Deal (of The Pixies/The Breeders)?

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    Gold roses
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If girls can’t play bass give me a bass imma play the life out of it

    zims
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interrupting a show? Should have hit him with your guitar.

    Amelia Grace Smith
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Btw girls can produce/write/make music just fine, Thank You Very Much!!

    Peter Rogers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's actually the main source of Dolly Parton's fortune- she's written over 3,000 songs!

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    Cip IESAN
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tal Wilkenfeld! And other ladies playing bass with Jeff Beck!

    Hotdogking
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Listen to Zombie by the Cranberries. The base is incredible

    Kay Mari
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Don't under stand music theory," spoken by a man who cant read music.

    Frank Hassler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    D'arcy Wretzky. Melissa Auf der Maur. And that’s just The Smashing Pumpkins.

    End Knot
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my all time fave bass player is a very talented Japanese lady. Her name is MISA.

    Michael Naretto
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lenny Kravitz would disagree. His bass player is a woman.

    Craig Reynolds
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe he needs to research Tina Guo, a heavy metal exceptional cellist that can play literally any stringed instrument and has written and performed many Hollywood theme music. She is beyond awesome.

    Diane Aguilar
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dare anyone to listen to a Talking Heads or Tom Tom Club song and not think the bass lines are straight fire. Or a song by the Pixies or The Breeders. Each of those songs featured bass work by some incredible women in music, Tina Weymouth and Kim Deal, and that's just off the top of my head.

    Cherry Lane
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then Arnold Schwarzenegger should be a bass player.

    Kay Mari
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Music theory.... says the guy who defiantly cant read music.

    Juliette Dauterive
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Still looking for that killer Asian bass playing woman played with Micky Hart at Jazzfest 10 years back or so.

    Jon Stuart
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ida Nielsen, one of my favorite bassists.

    JP callaghan
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen a lot of girls play bass on YouTube, most of them are better that the guys

    Michael Capriola
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And was that silver-tongued devil clueless enough to ask you out on a date?

    Nathan Girard
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've played with quite a few badass female bass players!

    Penny Kemper
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh man do I have a list for him!

    Brielle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have pretty small hands and play double bass and bass guitar. I don’t understand why people still try to insult women and girls for simply playing an instrument.

    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should have played a killer riff, then asked him if he was familiar with Carol Kaye.

    Sasha Kuleshov
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rosetta Tharpe would like a word with you ;D

    Eggplanto
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if we cant play bass, what are we meant to play?!?! a mini fiddle??! *i actually do play violin tho*

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    Raine Soo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You could be showing it to him on a cutting board, and then putting it together on a sewing machine, and he'd still say that you were wrong.

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    Samantha Lomb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah that's really annoying when you aren't even interacting with them and men still insist in butting in and "showing off"

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    Samantha Lomb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In fairness it often feels like Texas doesn't have science. Like when they make energy policy, or claim that wind turbines and solar panels don't work in cold weather . . .

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    Watching
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked for attorneys for 22 years. One time a three-year practicing attorney was looking for a plea on a criminal case. I advised him it's called an Alford plea, he argued with me, continued to try to think of what he believed it's called and then proceeded to get a book to find the answer. Which was. And Alford plea.

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    Carol Emory
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell him he can shove a D20 where the sun don't shine....

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    Lucy Skinner
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fictional TV from the eighties is ~totally~ more valuable that modern research.

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    Vorknkx
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His source is Nickelodeon... we need some new and special kind of facepalm for this.

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    Raine Soo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, that ending was dark and unexpected.

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    Combine Elite Soldier
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But how is it pronounced? Is it Woo-ster? Now I'm curious.

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    jazz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would comment something witty, but I can't think of anything right now...I'll just leave this here as a placeholder I guess

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    Capelli rosa e patate
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A bit odd he felt the need to explain it to you as if you didn’t know, but maybe he was just trying to relate? I dunno, seems more like he was trying to “fit in” as it were rather than look down on you...? 🤷🏻‍♀️🙂

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    Cold Contagious
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where's the 2nd part? Ppl are upvoting a story that doesn't tell what she was waiting on or what happened?

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