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34 Moments Guys Got Turned On By A Woman Due To Something Non-Sexual, As Shared In This Online Group
Family and relationships always remain one of the most important aspects in the lives of each of us, so it is not surprising that choosing a partner - a person who will be with us throughout our lives (in an ideal case, of course), is so important. Otherwise, you cannot avoid angry or simply disappointed posts in the AITA Reddit community...
However, you can’t do without Reddit anyway. For example, in the AskReddit community, someone recently asked this question: “Guys: What’s something non-sexual that would attract you to a woman?” A rather rare situation, by the way, is when the number of comments in the resulting thread is almost twice as large as the number of upvotes - 2.3K against 1.3K. Anyway, here’s the selection of the most interesting opinions there, made for you by Bored Panda.
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#1
Being funny. I met a woman recently who did different voices to describe an interaction she’d had. It was so charming and entertaining.
FakeOptimist 2 years ago
Totally ! And apart from it being nice to be around, a sense of humor is also a sign of intelligence and being able how to interact with people.
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#2
If they have a similar sense of humor to mine and get my jokes and can make funny jokes themselves. Able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves to seriously. I swoon every time. That s***s more important than looks. Looks fade, personality lasts forever.
Lil Miss Hobbit 2 years ago
So true. I have a 15 year old friend (female) who tells the BEST dad jokes ever.🤣
Sans Serif (Sans) 2 years ago
My kids have forbidden me to engage in dad jokes - cramps my style as a dad! 8-(
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BlueMarthaTheSonicHedgehogDog 2 years ago
It's illegal in this site to swear unless you really need to.
Huddo's sister 2 years ago
According to poles there is a much higher chance that you will date someone based on their sense of humour, rather than their looks in Australia than in the US
detective miller's hat 2 years ago
This. I have never in my life dated someone based on their looks. I've only ever fallen for personality.
#3
Deliberately dancing badly when a bad song is being played.
Almost any woman can dance well or dance sexily but to openly clown around like that is far more attractive.
That's what actually attracted me to my wife. I later found out she wasn't trying to be funny, she was just really bad at dancing.
Fussy1 2 years ago
Unrelated, but I hope with all my being that the girl in the picture with the virgin skin put on a bottle of sunscreen before her performance or tomorrow is going to be a very bad day!
Sans Serif (Sans) 2 years ago (edited)
You'd think she'd take cues from the guy she's talking to - likely her dad...
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Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
I tried that once and about 8 people whipped out the phone and started recording. You think I want to be on tiktok? Héll naw bro. I'm all about being myself, but not in public.
FakeOptimist 2 years ago
Disagree : seeing someone (f or m) dancing who clearly has a lack of rythm hurts my eyes.
Red PANda (she/they) 2 years ago
That’s me! At school dances I don’t care who’s looking, I just want a fun time with my friends :D
Edgar Rops 2 years ago
Agree about clowning around part. Society pressures girls into being the responsible one since the age of ten. Someone able to let it go is definitely strong and confident
Of course, choosing a partner is definitely a two-way street, and each person has their own criteria for finding the ideal - or close to ideal - person to live with. One of the most comprehensive studies on this topic ever was conducted in 2018, by the University of Gottingen together with MyONE Condoms. The survey included 68,068 people from 180 countries around the world.
And so, according to the study results, among the main features that interest women when choosing a long-term partner were their kindness, supportiveness, intelligence and education. As for men, kindness also confidently takes first place, followed by supportiveness, ethnic similarity and intelligence. As you can see, the main factors almost always coincide for men and women. But what's more interesting is how different the criteria are when it comes to short-term partnerships...
#4
Her being an animal person. I've had multiple pets my whole life so it's pretty much a requirement for me to be in a relationship with someone.
Also if she's the type of person that doesn't play mind games and is direct about how she feels.
SnackbarKaat 2 years ago
My hb wasn't an animal person at all, but I am glad to say I saw that change :)
Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
The way people treat animals and small children are the best test of character.
The Doom Song 2 years ago
When I met my partner my dog was 7 years old and still unsure of men. My boy took to my partner straight away. I knew I loved him when I came home on day and they were cuddled up sleeping together. My partner and my boy had 8 years together.
H.J. carlson 2 years ago
This is big 👍 also watch the way animals react to the person. Critters know when someone's bad or good & they're very seldom conned! 😁
#5
Humour, geekiness, mischief, artistic ability, storytelling ability.
That’s how I knew my wife was the one.
CheshirePhrogg 2 years ago
I think I lean more nerd but I have completed five NaNoWriMos. I've just given up on ever being published
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H.J. carlson 2 years ago
I question geekiness and mischief? Mischief can be hurtful and suspicious.🤨
#6
If they love to read, as it's something that's deeply attractive since very few people I know are avid readers.
That and a good sense of humor, especially dark humor :D
Celtic Pirate Queen 2 years ago
My husband & I. Our humor is really dark & we basically speak to each other in movie quotes.
H.J. carlson 2 years ago
Gotta say yes but if the books are leaning towards the extreme....?! 🥺
So, speaking of short-term partners, among women in this survey the leader is 'attractive face', then kindness and confidence. For men, accordingly, the most important factors here are 'attractive body' and 'attractive face' - that is, mainly physical features. Yes, the criteria vary greatly, but sometimes it happens that short-term relationships develop into long-term ones - and then we desperately wonder why the person with whom it was so good at the beginning turns out to be completely different in the long run...
#7
Intelligence and charisma.
Having a good talk with a woman has always been a huge turn on for me. I never understood clubbing hookups, doesn’t give me anything, drunk people are a mess…
BoredPossum 2 years ago
Yes, intelligence. I'd take smarts over looks any day. I couldn't stand an unintelligent partner no matter her looks.
H.J. carlson 2 years ago
My best friends were never glamorous nor high society but unique & intriguing just being themselves. 😁
#8
Quick wit. If she can drop a smart/funny comment in the middle of a conversation, I am in love.
#9
Apparently , my bf was blown away that I cook.
He is used to dating party girls. Skinny, really pretty, club-scene girls that like to do some molly & coke on the weekends and go wild.
Me? Im a single mom and im coming out of a 10 year marriage.
No idea wtf he sees in me.
Marcellus II 2 years ago
Yeah playtime is over, time to get real for him.
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“Food is symbolic of love when words are inadequate”— Alan D. Wolfelt
Bored something 2 years ago
He sees someone who is able to do the long haul of a genuine relationship. Not just a fun time shallow thing.
Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
I'm impressed he doesn't mind that you already have kids! Some fellas take off when you tell em you have little ones.
H.J. carlson 2 years ago
True, can't blame them for running if they can't deal with kids & past baggage. Anybody who can cook well is admirable.
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“In fact, all these criteria that people love to talk about are all great, but often things don’t work like that at all,” says Irina Matveeva, a psychologist and certified NLP specialist from Ukraine, whom Bored Panda asked for a comment here . "You always need to remember two things. First, we are not choosing a new car or smartphone, and in the case of relationships, all impeccable logical reasonings often go straight to hell. Secondly, it can always happen that the perfect match, as it seems from our side, doesn’t look like that at all from the side of a possible partner.”
“Some writer... unfortunately, I don’t remember who exactly, once wrote a wise phrase that our psyche is nothing more than an accidental coating on the endocrine glands. So everything we think about and logically justify when we are asked about choosing a partner can always be thrown aside as soon as we feel that very incredible feeling... In the end, love does not ask us when to come,” Irina summarizes.
#10
Hugs
Mycroft1967 2 years ago
I might be weird, but I am a cuddler. Perfect night, eat a good dinner then snuggle and watch TV for a couple of hours.
Jonathan Brady 2 years ago
such a difference between a good and bad hug. It's like getting a dead fish handshake when someone gives the 1 arm side hug
H.J. carlson 2 years ago
This isn't something you want done by strangers or without warning. Being suddenly grab would release the bad me and somebody would get hurt 😂
Isa's left eye 2 years ago
YES. One of the biggest reasons I like my crush is because they give really good hugs
#11
Passion and expertise in her hobby of choice. Geeking out is super cute.
FakeOptimist 2 years ago
Yep. Even if she's talking about something I don't know or understand : love enthousiasm about something.
#12
My lady will drop new vocab words on me sometimes and I swoon.
Sara Wilson 2 years ago
My ex husband did like my larger vocabulary. He's a math brain and I devour books like crazy, so I'm a word person
Rudy van Disarzio 2 years ago
I am the same way! In my relationship, I'm the math/scientist and he's the "word talkin guy". It drives me wild when I throw the toughest words from my books at him and he always seems to know. Hot cha cha
Kimberley Dillon Chapman 2 years ago
That's the same with my husband. He can do math in his head that I can't do on a calculator. But he can't spell or do simple crossword.
PlatinumThe8-BitCat 2 years ago
I love to do that, usually to insult people that don’t know the word
CheshirePhrogg 2 years ago
Any one who can keep up when I drop brobdingnagian in a conversation is my cuppa
However, it is always interesting to read what criteria people use when choosing partners - even if these are just words. Or just beautiful words. We choose, we are chosen... how often this does not coincide, and yet we do think this list is pretty interesting to read and discuss. So please feel free to scroll the selection to its very end, and share your own ideas in the comments as well - because we are always very interested in hearing your opinion!
#13
Being a good person. I was really into this girl who seemed kind and generous, she did some fundraisers for disadvantaged people and stuff like that which made her seem like she would be a really good partner. But then Australia had a referendum on whether or not gay people should be allowed to get married, and she said she was going to vote no because they were unnatural. Immediate turn off.
Sarah Webster 2 years ago
It wasn't a referendum - but I agree it was dystopian.
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Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
I don't understand why ANYONE cares or makes it their business who other people choose to love. Why? How does it hurt you or affect you? It doesn't! Live and let live. I can't believe we still live in a world where choices like THIS are made for everyone by a voting system when it doesn't apply to half. It's disturbing. Live and let live.
Janet Graham 2 years ago
Having the same values or at least compatible values is extremely important in a long-term relationship. Especially if you choose to have children, both parents need to be on the same page.
Huddo's sister 2 years ago
I changed my opinion on my stepdad's brother because he is voting no on the upcoming referendum about enshrining first nations as custodians of our land into our constitution. I really thought he was more progressive than that.
#14
The ability to enjoy themselves. Not always needing something to complain about. Actually happy.
Brenda 2 years ago
I was once told that I was "too happy" all the time. Seriously? You'd think that was a good thing!
Dick Fint 2 years ago
Been there, VA doctors always told me I was too happy/relaxed about the physical troubles I was having because I was always cracking jokes & acting upbeat. Said to the Docs, you can't fix it, I can't make it go away! I'm not crying over spilt milk.
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Just happy & enjoying themselves isn't something everyone can do. I agree about the complaining and snipping, too many people do that too much!
#15
A capable woman who does what she does well.
#16
Cute aberrations, like imperfect teeth or messy hair.
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 2 years ago
Well, I shouldn't have any trouble, then. I have bad teeth, ugly hair (although it was nice when I was younger), and I'm fat enough that if I sing, everyone leaves!
LizzieBoredom 2 years ago
(Sorry in advance)So it really is all over when the fat lady sings .
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Dread Pirate Roberts 2 years ago
Good, I'm not the only one who finds flaws in appearance to be endearing or cute X>
BoredPossum 2 years ago
I need something that sets her apart from everybody else. I have a terrible memory for face's.
#17
Liking Geek/Nerd stuff. I'm telling ya ladies if you're wondering where the good men are, consider dating a geek
Luke Branwen 2 years ago
I consider a long, meaningful talk about deep Star Wars lore a foreplay /lh
Lakota Wolf (she/her) 2 years ago
We'd get along well ;) Alas, I am somewhat ancient. A NERDY ancient, but ancient nevertheless. XD
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Tracy Wallick 2 years ago
My guy, geeks are the main thing that drive women out of geeky, nerdy things. Personally, I've been drive-by harassed for wearing a Star Wars shirt while daring to be female, had random men demand I answer their trivia questions to see if I'm "on the level" (as if they had any right or authority to determine who was a 'real' fan), had friends who were sexually assaulted because they were in cosplay...
Auntriarch 2 years ago
Not necessarily. Depends on what you are geeky about. For me, it was Jeeves and Wooster....
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Ichi as usual 2 years ago
Not necessarily. My geek friends are inexperienced people who like the idea of people, but kind of expect their partner to be a mother to them without the slightest understanding that they are not the main character of a show and the world does not revolve around them. Who I recommend then? Blue collar worker guys. 2 of my friends who's caring attitude I adore the most: 1 electrician and 1 carpenter. Most giving and understanding people there are.
Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
I tried that. The problem was I wasn't into the same stuff he was into. I didn't care that he liked D&D or whatever; you're an adult you make your own decisions. But instead of looking at what he had (i e I wasn't making him quit, I just had no interest in it) he got píssy about it and started comparing me to the ex girlfriend (who did EVERYTHING). Ladies, when you start getting compared to the ex, it's time to go.
Daycare Attendant Sun 2 years ago
I always cosplay as male characters despite being a woman. And usually it's with a full mask. So, when I take the mask off, people are always surprised. The amount of conversations I get into, despite me not thinking I'm very attractive, is pretty high. But I've been told I'm intimidating.
Kimberly Carlson 2 years ago
10/10 agree with this. If you cant go from Disney to Starwars to Game of Thrones, to Tabletop M:TG and D&D, retro video games / retro arcade nights out and have an affinity for Rock-Rap, Metal, Screamo, and 90's - 2000's music, then we wouldn't make good friends lol. These are all prerequisites because if you don't like at least some of these your not going to have fun hanging out with me, in my home, or doing things we like to do. I can get along with anyone and have a convo just for their sake if they dont like what we do they arent going to enjoy themselves unless they want to introduce us to their interests which we are open to new things always.
#18
The way she looks at you. Eyes are my weakness.
Luke Branwen 2 years ago
Yes. The ultimate correct answer. Beautiful eyes are a full frontal attack on my very being.
Brenda 2 years ago
The big 3 for me (f) are: eyes, (fore)arms and behinds. Eyes are expressive. No matter what someone says, what their face may imply, their eyes will tell the truth. Arms just are sexy to me. Don't know why, but certain ones make me feel like I would be safe/comfortable there. Behinds - well, they're behinds. Everyone likes their!
Celtic Pirate Queen 2 years ago
I met my husband online 16 years ago. We both connected because of our eyes.
#19
I like a woman’s mind, her personality. Being transgressive and creative is very appealing. Being comfortable in who she is. A woman who can just throw on some old clothes and go on an unscripted adventure.
Mabelbabel 2 years ago
Is transgressive really the word he wanted here? Transgressive behaviour is not an attractive quality in anyone. It doesn't mean someone who is comfortable in who they are, it's someone who deliberately sets themselves at odds with human society and violates standards of normal behaviour, cultural, ethical, and moral standards.
Lakota Wolf (she/her) 2 years ago
It's possible he meant that in a lighter way - as in, he wants someone who is "transgressive" against the societal notion that a woman must be perfectly dressed, coiffed, manicured, and be-makeup-ed in order to be worth anything as a woman. Though, you are entirely correct - "transgressive" in its literal definition does NOT imply a lightness of interpretation, so what he's really saying is that he wants a social/moral anarchist XD He is probably just uncertain of the word's actual definition and meant something closer to "progressive" instead, perhaps?
Load More Replies... Sans Serif (Sans) 2 years ago
None of my relationships would ever have supported the unscripted adventure. Sad in hindsight...
#20
actually caring about me.
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 2 years ago
Because that's the little piggy that went to market.
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#21
I'll need to see a Spotify playlist thanks.
InfiniteZeek 2 years ago
I don't like to judge people on their tastes in the arts. That is a personal thing that no one should be judged for or made to feel bad.
hitex 2 years ago
🤣 they'd garner nothing from mine! My Playlist has 6-7 different genres in it!
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 2 years ago
I've been judged/teased for loving 80s love songs/love ballads before. I GREW UP IN THE 80s OKAY WHAT DO YOU WANT 😭
Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
I love those old ballads. 70s too. 90s had great soundtrack ballads
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Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
I have over 10,000 songs. You would have to listen to the most played list I guess
Star Anäis 2 years ago
How about no and you go. Lol. Music is a personal preference and not a measuring stick. I've been told I've got terrible taste in music when playing BB King on Vinyl. I don't like country, my dad can't stand heavy metal..no judgement.
Daycare Attendant Sun 2 years ago
Joke's on you: I don't have Spotify. I curate my music playlists on YT like a millennial who grew up with myspace XD
#22
Not sexual, but still physical: an emotive face.
Nose scrunch. Active eyebrows. Playful smirk.
Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
This could go badly if someone does not come about these things naturally and decides to incorporate them into the next date...
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 2 years ago
It would guarantee a memorable date, though.
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Clear idea of what she wants out of life beyond a relationship.
Whiskey Tango Delicious 2 years ago
Totally this! Relationships cannot survive hinged solely on the partner. Applies to all relationships, find what drives YOU, don't expect your partner to fulfill 100% of you, that's unreasonable and you're wasting everyone's time. Communicate your needs both inside, and outside your relationship before it's too late. Don't ask how I know...
H.J. carlson 2 years ago
No. I'd be put off by that. If he/she is honest is ok but prejudging how the relationship will go?! Life doesn't work that way.
#24
If she's an Intelligent conversationalist. Able to talk about a myriad of topics from anthropology to digital systems integration, and everything in between. Opinionated but not argumentative.
I want to be around you.
Kristal 2 years ago
Well, I just so happen to be in an Anthropology PhD program *wiggles eyebrows sensually*
Rudy van Disarzio 2 years ago
Well hopefully your opinions align with his because he won't tolerate it if you argue.
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BlitheSpirit 2 years ago
What I’m getting from this is he likes a healthy m, intelligent debate… not someone who is going to find him ti be in the wrong just because his opinion is different. It is waaayyy too prevalent right now.
Doodles1983 2 years ago
Odd. I’m getting, she will have to toe my line eventually.
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Freckles.
Pheebs 2 years ago
Speaking of freckles, I am currently upset that my favorite freckle got ruined by an allergy-induced zit. It was the top of my equilateral triangle freckles, and now it’s half the freckle it used to be (color-wise). Ruined my triangle. :(
Totally happy Panda 2 years ago
I don't have them but I empathize with you.
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Groaver Andout 2 years ago
Yes! I admit to laughing when I heard what Cartman called those on a girl's chest. I'd never heard the expression before.
#26
Smiles. It was how my wife smiled that made me take interest in her.
For most guys, nothing is more attractive than a woman who smiles or laughs with them.
Pheebs 2 years ago
My hubs told me this was how he became interested. I got called in to an unexpected meeting with him and some higher ups at the company we worked for. Most people who worked there were miserable due to constant threats of being fired, so he was surprised I walked in with a smile. Me, I learned early on in life that starting most interactions with a smile will put you on better footing, so I always try to smile even when I hated my job. Unless the situation called for being firm and serious.
#27
their ear, tucking their hair behind them.
I'm not sure why. Simply... HHHNNNGGGGH
#28
Glasses
Mark 2 years ago
You shouldn’t. People with glasses bring their own charm.
Load More Replies... Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
The old saying was "boys don't make passes at girls who wear glasses". But I disagree. Glasses are cool. 🤓
Catharina Geerts 2 years ago
Strange. People used to find me ugly with glasses and as a child, classmates often made ugly remarks
H.J. carlson 2 years ago
Wasn't insulted when I first got glasses but was uncomfortable with thinking " Oh hell.. can't be pretty now" . Btw also not tall, blonde and skinny.😉
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#29
Driving manual transmission
LakotaWolf (she/her) 2 years ago (edited)
My dad taught me to drive automatic AND manual. He also taught me how to do basic car maintenance and repairs (heck, I can even replace disc brakes). I'll never forget when I was 14-15ish and I was hanging out with my best friend; his aunt drove us to a mall to hang out while she shopped (it was the 90s, okay?!) and then drove us back... and when we got to my house I told her to pop the hood of her van because I could hear something was wrong. I checked a few things and then I realized the sounds had been her timing belt getting close to breaking. The "O_O" look my male friend gave me when I knew what to do around a car and he didn't... XD we still had some outdated gender ideals back then. I wanted to be a mechanic when I grew up... my dad told me it maybe wasn't a good idea since people might not "trust" a female mechanic to know what she was doing :( My dad meant well, but I still wish I'd pursued it anyway.
Janet Graham 2 years ago
It is not too late! My sister wanted to be an engineer her high school counselor talked her into becoming a biologist because there were more jobs. When she finished her BS in Biology, Master's, and Doctorate in Microbiology, the field was over-run and the pay was shrinking. But. at the same time, there was a huge demand for engineers. She was a bit upset at that high school counselor and decided that she would become an engineer. But, she had a family to support. When she had put in her years and could retire with a good pension, she went back to college and got her degree in Electrical Engineering. She got her first job in that field at age 60.
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Mila Preradović 2 years ago
A) come to Europe, we all drive manual but plenty of us never drove/are scared of driving automatic. B) what's with the baby hand in the picture?! How can they reach the clutch? So unreal 😅
Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
I'm willing to learn it. On an unrelated note, is that the best photo they could come up with?
Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
I tried. My ex-boyfriend had kind of a "rom-com" view of relationships and I felt like he was always trying to recreate things he saw in movies. He tried to teach me stick but not really. He let me drive for like 5 minutes and it was a lot of screeching and slamming. He was just laughing and saying how adorable it was. Later, I found my copy of the Notebook at his house and found a lot of similar "recreations" upon rewatching...
Beth Lovett 2 years ago
I drive manual , automatic, tractors, diggers... funny how most men find it a bloody turn off 🤣 😂
#30
Any girl that plays the guitar. I find it super hot for some reason
Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
I think its hot when guys play instruments... particularly guitar, piano, drums... and I have fallen madly in lust many times watching musicals or a lead singer that had an incredible voice
#31
no makeup and flat shoes
Bored something 2 years ago
Well, they'd love me. Haven't owned make up 10 years and the highest heels I own are probably an inch, so really just a thick sole.
CheshirePhrogg 2 years ago
Yeah but no makeup and Birkenstocks and everyone assumes you play for the other team
wee.wee.croissant (ollie) 2 years ago
I don't like this comment very much because I feel like it assumes that women who wear makeup are not confident, or fake. sometimes people wear makeup because its fun, like me.
Lem Johnson 2 years ago
Not really, this is just a man saying he personally doesn't find those things attractive. It's not a personal attack and he's allowed to find women who don't wear make-up or heels more appealing than those who do.
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Her voice is definetly one
Nice Beast Ludo 2 years ago
I just thought of the guy who called the pizza place then canceled his order and walked in to try to record the girl's voice lol...
Sans Serif (Sans) 2 years ago
That was quite the sketchy and disturbing post!
Load More Replies... Red PANda (she/they) 2 years ago
Really good singing voices are very attractive to me. I love a rich bass or a sweet tenor or a smooth alto or lovely soprano, and everyone in-between :)
Rudy van Disarzio 2 years ago
Apparently I sound just like Pam Poovey when I want to. Think there's a market of men somewhere for that?
#33
Athleticism.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 2 years ago
Been a bit burned by this one in the past with someone who wanted me to share their EXACT brand/intensity of athleticism. It was fine that that's what he wanted, but I'm a nerdy geek pudding made of books and computer games. I trip over my own feet most days XD
Auntriarch 2 years ago
Nerdy geek pudding. I'm going to steal that if you don't mind
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#34
I would like to say some form of energy exists. An aura perhaps. There are without question particular women amongst a sea of them that distinctly draw my attention, just for the passing moment. It is observable that it is not some ultra superior beauty. It is just some
Mabelbabel 2 years ago
The poor woman was probably thinking "why the hell is this stranger staring at me, why is he being so creepy??" and covering her name badge, and desperate to get off at the next stop and hide.
Rudy van Disarzio 2 years ago
She most definitely picked up on his wave of salacious horning. We all do. It happens every day. And yes, it makes us uncomfortable.
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anne sane 2 years ago
C'mon people. OP said there was nothing sexual about it. I, as a woman, have had this happen before and it was amazing and not creepy at all. If anything, it was humbling. I had never felt so seen in my life. He just stopped and smiled.I literally stopped dead in my tracks. It was glorious. And we never saw each other again.
zububonsai 2 years ago (edited)
Can confirm, happened to me (F, hetero) as well, several occasions, completely un-sexual, intensive encounters, never saw them again. I felt blessed (and I'm atheist).
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RandomEpiBioPerson 2 years ago
This sort of thing could be positive sometimes, but the way the individual wrote this, it seems like they just found the various people attractive but didn't want to seem shallow, so tried to play it off as they weren't hot, it was an "energy". Also, borderline stalker tendencies. The individual should be careful about that.
Janet Graham 2 years ago
In one line it's her libido, the next line is there was nothing sexual about it. Later, it must be pheromones. Well, it is obvious that it is sexual and you are trying to deny it.
Paddling Panda 2 years ago
Maybe I'm super creeper our by this guy. Major stalker vibes on this one.
WhiteClawOfDeath 2 years ago
I have the sameon some days, seducing men just with some unknown presence. Feromones I guess, but they also are effective through cars. A lot of fun and just a game.
Totally happy Panda 2 years ago (edited)
Poor guy. He expressed himself honestly. Maybe he can learn to admire women without creeping the hell out of someone
What do you think ?
Jared Robinson 2 years ago
lol I'm sorry but EVERY response missed the point. Title of this is what TURNED YOU ON, not just something that attracted you. You telling me you got a raging uncontrollable boner cause a girl made you go hehe? pull the other one mate, it's got bells on.
Tracy Wallick 2 years ago
I'd really like to know what men like about women that have nothing to do with sexiness. Every day it feels more and more like men only view women as sexual objects, I really want to know what they like about us as people.
UpQuarkDownQuark (he/hey you) 2 years ago
I’ll speak for me. I love that my wife is intelligent and insightful, that she is unendingly f***ing hilarious, that she cares deeply about those around her, especially animals, that’s she’s silly, and that she’s sensitive but strong.
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Red PANda (she/they) 2 years ago
Reading this has made me both more confident about myself and not confident at all at the same time. I don’t think I’m quick-witted or particularly funny (my brain feels like it’s buffering most of the time lmao) but I’m intelligent, artistic, and musically talented, and I love to read :P
Philler Space 2 years ago
When you bring up something random out of the blue with no context and she immediately recognizes it as part of a conversation you were having three days ago and you slide back into that conversation. So much of my interaction with others involves trying to express what I mean without misinterpretation or finishing my point; when my wife shows she's on the same page as me like this I just want to kiss her.
David A Paterson 2 years ago
A woman who is comfortable with silence, doesn't need makeup or perfume, is interested in things rather than people, has a hand that looks like mine. Someone like Amy from Big Bang Theory.
Huddo's sister 2 years ago
I wish I had both those things (not counting the bottled red hair I have at the moment)!
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Mystery Egg 2 years ago
yeah yeah. You can be all these things but unless you are slim and attractive, a man will look straight through you as if you don't exist.
DP Nerill 2 years ago
I'm an older single guy, widower, and I see lots of females, all shapes and sizes that I think are attractive. I just usually glance and often notice they might glance back. But, despite how I might feel about that person, I always look away with a resting face and never look back or make lingering look. Frankly, I frightened of being accused of leering, or getting an irritated what the hell are you looking at pervert. There's too much of that actually happening by mouth breathers, and I don't want to get lumped in with THAT group. I don't know if how I feel is common, but I believe there are plenty, in this #me too era, that aren't oblivious but work at trying not to offend.
Load More Replies... Jared Robinson 2 years ago
lol I'm sorry but EVERY response missed the point. Title of this is what TURNED YOU ON, not just something that attracted you. You telling me you got a raging uncontrollable boner cause a girl made you go hehe? pull the other one mate, it's got bells on.
Tracy Wallick 2 years ago
I'd really like to know what men like about women that have nothing to do with sexiness. Every day it feels more and more like men only view women as sexual objects, I really want to know what they like about us as people.
UpQuarkDownQuark (he/hey you) 2 years ago
I’ll speak for me. I love that my wife is intelligent and insightful, that she is unendingly f***ing hilarious, that she cares deeply about those around her, especially animals, that’s she’s silly, and that she’s sensitive but strong.
Load More Replies... Red PANda (she/they) 2 years ago
Reading this has made me both more confident about myself and not confident at all at the same time. I don’t think I’m quick-witted or particularly funny (my brain feels like it’s buffering most of the time lmao) but I’m intelligent, artistic, and musically talented, and I love to read :P
Philler Space 2 years ago
When you bring up something random out of the blue with no context and she immediately recognizes it as part of a conversation you were having three days ago and you slide back into that conversation. So much of my interaction with others involves trying to express what I mean without misinterpretation or finishing my point; when my wife shows she's on the same page as me like this I just want to kiss her.
David A Paterson 2 years ago
A woman who is comfortable with silence, doesn't need makeup or perfume, is interested in things rather than people, has a hand that looks like mine. Someone like Amy from Big Bang Theory.
Huddo's sister 2 years ago
I wish I had both those things (not counting the bottled red hair I have at the moment)!
Load More Replies... Mystery Egg 2 years ago
yeah yeah. You can be all these things but unless you are slim and attractive, a man will look straight through you as if you don't exist.
DP Nerill 2 years ago
I'm an older single guy, widower, and I see lots of females, all shapes and sizes that I think are attractive. I just usually glance and often notice they might glance back. But, despite how I might feel about that person, I always look away with a resting face and never look back or make lingering look. Frankly, I frightened of being accused of leering, or getting an irritated what the hell are you looking at pervert. There's too much of that actually happening by mouth breathers, and I don't want to get lumped in with THAT group. I don't know if how I feel is common, but I believe there are plenty, in this #me too era, that aren't oblivious but work at trying not to offend.
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