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Dating and relationships are difficult even on a good day. And good days are pretty rare. Unfortunately, that is the reality everyone lives in when navigating the romantic world. Especially women. But at least they have a place to vent.

The subreddit r/FemaleDatingStrategy has 175K members (or as it calls them, queens), constantly discussing their love lives, and that includes all the nonsense that arises too. Continue scrolling and check out what they have to say.

#1

Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

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To help you get a better understanding of these posts, Bored Panda got in touch with dating coach, 2 million view TED speaker, and media personality Hayley Quinn. She believes that "dating is different for men and women. However, you'd be wrong to think that one gender has it easy."

"Instead men and women often face equal and opposite problems to one another," Quinn said. "Guys might struggle to think of how to approach a woman, and women (who traditionally and maybe wrongly) have been told they can't make the first move and so panic over where they can find all the guys that want to approach them."

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    #2

    Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

    Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

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    #3

    Poetic Justice

    Poetic Justice

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    In the world of online dating, Quinn also sees noticeable disparities. "Guys may feel like they're having to move heaven and earth to get one lousy response from a woman, whilst women can feel overwhelmed and harassed by unsuitable suitors," she explained. "Men could usually learn from women that they need to have higher standards for the women they interact with, and women could take a leaf out of men's dating and learn how they too can be proactive."

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    #4

    Some Men Need To Learn This

    Some Men Need To Learn This

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    #5

    “Nudes?” He Asked Hopefully

    “Nudes?” He Asked Hopefully

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    In 2020, the Pew Research Center surveyed Americans to find out more about their love life. While single-and-looking men and women reported equal levels of dissatisfaction with their dating lives and the ease of finding people to date, women were more likely to say they have had some particularly negative experiences.

    Most women who were single and looking to date (65%) said they have experienced at least one of six harassing behaviors asked about in the survey from someone they were dating or had been on a date with, such as being touched in a way that made them uncomfortable or rumors being spread about their sexual history.

    #6

    Oops

    Oops

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    #7

    Stop Normalizing Men’s Immaturity

    Stop Normalizing Men’s Immaturity

    eleguagirl , _withawhy Report

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    "Though men might think women have guys queuing up to date them (which sounds great right?) in reality women face plenty of dating challenges," Quinn said. "They may feel emotionally drained by dating, as they push through dates where they don't feel a connection. If they're seeking a relationship they may struggle to tell which guy's going to be in for the long haul, and who will disappear at the first inkling of commitment. They may even not know how to get offline and actually meet men in real life; and get stuck in the belief that all the 'good men' have run out, and it's impossible to meet someone."

    The dating coach added that women also face significantly more judgement around things like their age, which can be a challenge on dating apps; and more scrutiny for expressing their sexuality. "So don't think that just because she's got a queue of potential suitors that she's not having a hard time dating."

    We all can be douches to one another. Let's not.

    #8

    That Really Puts It In Perspective

    That Really Puts It In Perspective

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    #10

    Shrug

    Shrug

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    #11

    100% True For Me

    100% True For Me

    cinderella_rising , PatrickStrud Report

    #12

    A Queen Grandmama

    A Queen Grandmama

    Dormouse_in_a_teapot Report

    #13

    Cracks Me Up Every Time

    Cracks Me Up Every Time

    Pasdepromesses Report

    #14

    They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

    They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

    TheOGJammies , blackwomensday Report

    #15

    Speaks For Itself

    Speaks For Itself

    yggiwtmiih Report

    #16

    Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

    Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

    copingwithsht Report

    #17

    Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

    Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

    OhDionne , OhDionne Report

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    #18

    How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

    How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

    anonymous , AmySilverberg Report

    #19

    Keep It Real Out There

    Keep It Real Out There

    supremelyparanoid , wsteyrrself Report

    #20

    Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

    Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

    Big-Paleontologist13 Report

    #21

    I Got You, Babe

    I Got You, Babe

    Myplummms , ASAPBEAZ Report

    #22

    Nothing But Truth

    Nothing But Truth

    ScarletFate779 Report

    #23

    Where Is The Lie?

    Where Is The Lie?

    reddit.com Report

    #24

    Being Decent Isn’t Difficult

    Being Decent Isn’t Difficult

    mermaid1120 Report

    #25

    Geee I Wonder Why

    Geee I Wonder Why

    ishika_23 Report

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    #26

    This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

    This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

    jfk31989 Report

    #27

    Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

    Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

    _xyoungbellax_ , iamaroadtrip Report

    #28

    Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

    Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

    Lucifers_Treasurer Report

    #29

    The Message

    The Message

    Brown_chick45 Report

    #30

    Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

    Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

    sassyheather Report

    #31

    Why Are Males?

    Why Are Males?

    MarbleWorld , EazyBreezyJay Report

    #32

    Leave Him In The Dust

    Leave Him In The Dust

    cinderella_rising , efowlz Report

    #33

    This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

    This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

    elementalvirago , sarahradz_ Report

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    #34

    Keep Your Friends Safe!

    Keep Your Friends Safe!

    reddit.com , AthenaBozios Report

    #35

    Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

    Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

    reddit.com Report

    #36

    Thoughts?

    Thoughts?

    liondale , BIndlovukazi Report

    #37

    Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

    Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

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    #38

    Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

    Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

    Zayelle Report

    #39

    Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

    Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

    therebellioustiger Report

    #40

    Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

    Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

    Shefthegooddog , iamsedem_ Report

    #41

    Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

    Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

    Journalist_Full , BridgieCasey Report

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    #42

    Say It Louder For These Predatory Men!

    Say It Louder For These Predatory Men!

    Booty_Hair , creep4yrbonez Report

    #44

    Seriously

    Seriously

    normabelka2 Report

    #45

    Reminder

    Reminder

    tahliaw , brownandbella Report

    #46

    We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

    We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

    MysteriousLife7 Report

    #47

    Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

    Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

    Twohagsover30 Report

    #48

    Never Settle For Less Than You Deserve

    Never Settle For Less Than You Deserve

    PrettyMochaDoll , DManuel70 Report

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    #49

    It Never Ends

    It Never Ends

    Lucifers_Treasurer Report

    #50

    *internal Screaming, Forever*

    *internal Screaming, Forever*

    anonymous , NikkiCallowayy Report

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    #51

    Be That Kind Of Direct, Lol!

    Be That Kind Of Direct, Lol!

    o-no9 Report

    #53

    Call Their Bluff 2020

    Call Their Bluff 2020

    pascalines , emilychyanne_ Report

    #54

    Imagine: It’s Your Life

    Imagine: It’s Your Life

    mycatpukesglitter Report

    #55

    100% Accurate. Never Let It Slide

    100% Accurate. Never Let It Slide

    Balkanka Report

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    #56

    Women Are 6x More Likely To End Up Divorced If They Are Diagnosed With Cancer Or Ms, Than If Their Male Partners Were Facing The Same Illness

    Women Are 6x More Likely To End Up Divorced If They Are Diagnosed With Cancer Or Ms, Than If Their Male Partners Were Facing The Same Illness

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    #57

    Please Share Stories Of Some Weirdly Specific Rules You Set After *that* One Guy

    Please Share Stories Of Some Weirdly Specific Rules You Set After *that* One Guy

    PallaviGunalan , PallaviGunalan Report

    #58

    Never Let Them Get Comfortable!

    Never Let Them Get Comfortable!

    aclick1999 , Spericaa Report

    #59

    We All Know Why

    We All Know Why

    What_u_callme Report

    #60

    Ladies, Let’s All Do Our Best To Teach The Next Generation Of Women This. While Sexual Adultification Affects Young Black Women The Most, It Definitely Occurs To Young Women Of All Backgrounds

    Ladies, Let’s All Do Our Best To Teach The Next Generation Of Women This. While Sexual Adultification Affects Young Black Women The Most, It Definitely Occurs To Young Women Of All Backgrounds

    lovexani , lovexani Report

    #61

    'compromise!!'

    'compromise!!'

    cutsforluck Report

    #62

    Love A Good Roast

    Love A Good Roast

    howdoilogoutt Report

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    #63

    A Trend I've Noticed Among Lvm

    A Trend I've Noticed Among Lvm

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    #64

    If You Catch Feelings Easily, This Might Help! Stay Strong!

    If You Catch Feelings Easily, This Might Help! Stay Strong!

    totally-not-lame Report

    #65

    Psa: As Soon As Man Says That, Run The Opposite Direction Sis. This Is Red Flag. Manipulation

    Psa: As Soon As Man Says That, Run The Opposite Direction Sis. This Is Red Flag. Manipulation

    wordy_fries , _lifeofjada Report

    #66

    It Do Be Like That

    It Do Be Like That

    anonymous , classicalfk Report

    #67

    Potent

    Potent

    theterminatress Report

    #68

    Facts

    Facts

    HoneyBouquet Report

    #69

    Reason #6567 Why Being Single Is Better Than Settling

    Reason #6567 Why Being Single Is Better Than Settling

    hikurangi2019 Report

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    #70

    Exactly

    Exactly

    Brown_chick45 , tamsalexa Report

    #71

    Enough Said

    Enough Said

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    #72

    So Glad He Is Her Ex

    So Glad He Is Her Ex

    divination__ , Flanjam Report

    #73

    Made Me Chuckle. Accurate!

    Made Me Chuckle. Accurate!

    m4dam3x , lesbtsn Report

    #74

    Girlfriends/Wives Are Not On The List Of In-Network Therapists

    Girlfriends/Wives Are Not On The List Of In-Network Therapists

    honeybeeroll Report

    #75

    Mic Drop

    Mic Drop

    JacquelynGill , JacquelynGil Report

    #76

    This Is Nice But If You’re On A Date At Hooters It’s Already Not Going Well

    This Is Nice But If You’re On A Date At Hooters It’s Already Not Going Well

    elementalvirago Report

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    #77

    My Wish For 2021 And Beyond Is That More Women Realise That They Don’t Have To Put Up With Callous, Selfish Behaviour In Their Relationships

    My Wish For 2021 And Beyond Is That More Women Realise That They Don’t Have To Put Up With Callous, Selfish Behaviour In Their Relationships

    BasieSkanks Report

    #78

    For Real Though

    For Real Though

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    #79

    That’s Gonna Be A No From Me

    That’s Gonna Be A No From Me

    Flums666 , kiwikeeks Report