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Dating and relationships are difficult even on a good day. And good days are pretty rare. Unfortunately, that is the reality everyone lives in when navigating the romantic world. Especially women. But at least they have a place to vent.

The subreddit r/FemaleDatingStrategy has 175K members (or as it calls them, queens), constantly discussing their love lives, and that includes all the nonsense that arises too. Continue scrolling and check out what they have to say.

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Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

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BlackestDawn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Took me a sec to realize it, but good going. You have to consider yourself first.

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To help you get a better understanding of these posts, Bored Panda got in touch with dating coach, 2 million view TED speaker, and media personality Hayley Quinn. She believes that "dating is different for men and women. However, you'd be wrong to think that one gender has it easy."

"Instead men and women often face equal and opposite problems to one another," Quinn said. "Guys might struggle to think of how to approach a woman, and women (who traditionally and maybe wrongly) have been told they can't make the first move and so panic over where they can find all the guys that want to approach them."

#2

Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

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denzoren
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never understood this...if you lose control over what a woman wears then you need some serious help. The problem definitely isn't the clothes.

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In the world of online dating, Quinn also sees noticeable disparities. "Guys may feel like they're having to move heaven and earth to get one lousy response from a woman, whilst women can feel overwhelmed and harassed by unsuitable suitors," she explained. "Men could usually learn from women that they need to have higher standards for the women they interact with, and women could take a leaf out of men's dating and learn how they too can be proactive."

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#4

Some Men Need To Learn This

Some Men Need To Learn This

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This goes for everybody. Treat others the way you want to be treated

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In 2020, the Pew Research Center surveyed Americans to find out more about their love life. While single-and-looking men and women reported equal levels of dissatisfaction with their dating lives and the ease of finding people to date, women were more likely to say they have had some particularly negative experiences.

Most women who were single and looking to date (65%) said they have experienced at least one of six harassing behaviors asked about in the survey from someone they were dating or had been on a date with, such as being touched in a way that made them uncomfortable or rumors being spread about their sexual history.

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"Though men might think women have guys queuing up to date them (which sounds great right?) in reality women face plenty of dating challenges," Quinn said. "They may feel emotionally drained by dating, as they push through dates where they don't feel a connection. If they're seeking a relationship they may struggle to tell which guy's going to be in for the long haul, and who will disappear at the first inkling of commitment. They may even not know how to get offline and actually meet men in real life; and get stuck in the belief that all the 'good men' have run out, and it's impossible to meet someone."

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The dating coach added that women also face significantly more judgement around things like their age, which can be a challenge on dating apps; and more scrutiny for expressing their sexuality. "So don't think that just because she's got a queue of potential suitors that she's not having a hard time dating."

We all can be douches to one another. Let's not.

#8

That Really Puts It In Perspective

That Really Puts It In Perspective

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Nadine Bamberger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And it's always on us, don't dress that way, don't walk there, don't provoke. When it happens we didn't fight enough, fought too hard, didn't say no, didn't mean it when we said it. If we report it we get blamed, re traumatized by questions and rape kits that are then left untouched, called liars.

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#11

100% True For Me

100% True For Me

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Legen ( wait for it ) dary
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel a drop off interest on men (thanks a lot) when I say my husband is a police officer or a jujitsu master.

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#14

They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

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#15

Speaks For Itself

Speaks For Itself

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Ana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm still thinking about the time women had to use hat pins to defend themselves from handsy men. They were covered in fabric from head to tow. It's never about the way you dress, it's about being decent.

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#16

Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

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#17

Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

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Rachel Peterson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always support the allies, reminding them how much I value them.

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#18

How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

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K Witmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom was convinced she was just a miserable person. She eloped w my dad when she was 15 he was 19. She was 25 when she got divorced she then realized she was a very outgoing extrovert that loved to smile and be herself

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#20

Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

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#22

Nothing But Truth

Nothing But Truth

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Dennis Troelsen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i'm just going to assume that most here are Americans, being from denmark myself i have been to parties (in denmark) sitting or standing next to a few women and they end up talking sex good and bad experiances partners and so on and never have i thought anything shaming about them but good for them that they have been curious and learned a few things like one i remember very clearly when trying a**l ALWAYS remember lube and lots of it and take time, most of this shaming comes from bad parenting and trying to be the cool/alpha male, bad boy, and for my part korrect if some guy i knew started to brag about rape i would not shame him he would (maybe) wake up in the hospital at some point.

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#26

This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

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#27

Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

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#28

Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

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#29

The Message

The Message

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Choose to empower your kids by considering them now and in the future. Spot on

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#30

Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband stayed with our kids as infants while I worked. Everyone went on and on about how amazing he was (and he was) but then we switched roles this past year and I hear how “lucky I am to GET to stay home” and how bad they feel he works long hours. B****! I pumped breast milk on the floor of a unisex bathroom while still taking phone calls.

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#31

Why Are Males?

Why Are Males?

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would call him out, get management and then call the cops! Effing dirty slob.

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#32

Leave Him In The Dust

Leave Him In The Dust

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El muerto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

some time it bothers me, some women think they don't have a choice because they are in love.

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#33

This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

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#34

Keep Your Friends Safe!

Keep Your Friends Safe!

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#35

Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

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#36

Thoughts?

Thoughts?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I ever actually find somebody I'd want to marry I would never propose with anybody around. I would want to eliminate any peer pressure and create an intimate environment

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#37

Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

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Xottel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not about locating the witness. It's about scaring the bad guy by becoming a potential witness. Some women even resort to making fake calls on their way home. I'd say it stops at least some horrible people so that's an improvement.

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#38

Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

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Ana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still think Anne of Cleves got the best deal. She didn't have to remain married to Henry VIII and even got a sweet castle and money to boot and she never ever had to get married again.

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#39

Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

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Lauren Caswell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like the guy who yells "hey pretty lady" and approaches a woman they don't know, and when she "walks fast" to get away or tells him to stop, she has a "bad attitude"

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#40

Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

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#41

Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ummmm... my wife and I support our family. I work long hours. My wife takes care of 90% of the household stuff. I clean the kitchen every night and get home by dinner time every night to have family time with her and our kids. I don't support her and she doesn't support me. We support each other.

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Tea

Tea

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QueenMiri
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women who could tell stories about crazy ex boyfriends rarely make it out alive. That's why you only hear about crazy ex girlfriends.

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#44

Seriously

Seriously

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Guido Pisano
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

helping your wife means that most of the job is on her shoulder. I prefer say that I do my part...

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#45

Reminder

Reminder

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J. F.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a misanthrope- I actually enjoy to not have to deal with somebody on a daily basis. I must be a quite rare man according to this article

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#46

We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True if you date a self centered douche who doesn't care about your pleasure...

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#47

Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know about any 'bro code'. But any friend of mine cheating on his SO (also probably a friend of mine by association) and expecting me to keep it a secret isn't really my friend.

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#50

*internal Screaming, Forever*

*internal Screaming, Forever*

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El muerto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really think that he was honest and realize that she should move on...now, not brushing is unhygienic, but she can move on as hi said...there are no victims here

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Flip
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see no problem here. Lol a guy I knew in church would ask me for chewing gum. Hey I didn't have time to brush my teeth and I smell out of my mouth. Oh here, have one. He was so fun. He also walked around barefoot. If the guy would have told her she smelled out of her mouth, it would have been considered rude, I guess. Apparently it's normal if a woman flat out tells him that. Hey you smell lol.

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James
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not trying to be sexist to turn it around on women here, but this reminded me of a woman I went out with a few times. At one point she told me that she never brushes her teeth and that our mouths are naturally designed to cleanse themselves. Yeah, there wasn't another date after that. I don't care what gender you are, basic hygiene is a must. I felt disgusted that we had kissed before that.

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Michelle M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'Mouths are naturally designed to cleanse themselves' That's a new one. Why wouldn't you ever brush your teeth??!!!

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OCDRobot
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brushing everyday is too much for you? YIKES! Wonder how often he bathes. Actually... I don't wanna know.

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Seabeast
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Find someone you think is better than me." Well, that's setting the bar low.

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An Co
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She can DEFINITELY find someone better than him. My only question is what she saw in this guy in the first place.

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Ellie Rosser
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well he was honest and made a valid suggestion. So much better than it's being made out to be.

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Rens
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personal hygiene and grooming is important; I'm not touching anything that's less hygienic and groomed than I am! And I don't have unrealistic expectations either. Brush your teeth; wash your hands and clean and trim your nails; bathe regularly; I don't care about body hair, just be clean and tidy; and there is a difference between natural body smell and body odour!

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Jon S.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had this difficult convo with my wife. I cannot persuade her to brush her teeth more than once-twice a week :(

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Cold Contagious
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. Speaking in person may have gotten a different outcome. I would have been put off by reading something like that in a text.

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BigFish Artwire
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once I dated a guy who didn't wear deodorant. He lived in Barcelona, so in the summer his BO was impossible to tolerate. I kindly asked him to start wearing deodorant and he said that if I liked him that much I wouldn't care about his smell. How do you explain Basic hygiene to an adult?

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WildBerry
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wearing deodorant isn't necessary all the time. Just wash your armpits several times a day if they stink.

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Zaza
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This shouldn't be on here. Sure, expecting someone to brush their teeth daily isn't too much to ask, but he was honest about his unwillingness to do so and not rude about it

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Flip
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh I thought he told her to brush her teeth and she said probably not lol.

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Canada
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do men think it is Ok to be unshowered and sloppy . Expect women to think it is manly and except it but if a woman spends one day in sweats with no make up all hell breaks loose.

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Nikki Owens
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude handled that like a boss. Y'all are missing the point in this one. He brushes his teeth. He just knows this girl isn't worth it & blew her off cool as a cucumber. He couldn't care less.

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Emma London
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and Good luck to you also, sir, for your search of a woman who don't mind your lack of basic hygiene!

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Sarah Mccullough
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the dude realized she was kinda rude and is being sarcastic with his probably not response

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Elizabeth Molloy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I NEVER understand this! You WANT bad breath? You WANT gum disease? You want toothache? Brush your damn teeth you disgusting Neanderthal!

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Kathryn Baylis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, that still leaves a huge portion of the population for me to date; those who practice good basic hygiene every single day. Thanks!

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Robert Thompson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should have found some one better before going to bed, and left this guy at the bus stop. Or in some cases nothing is better. That is to say that sleeping alone would be better than this guy.

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DarkAngelNic
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No dude brushing your teeth once in the morning isn't going to fix the decay happening.

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Rainy Day Wolf
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When guys plan to stay the night they never bring clean clothes for the next day (not even underwear) and never a tooth brush... I don't know a single woman who plans to spend the night and don't bring a whole bag, with clothes, make up, tooth brush, etc

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Claire Murray
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why can't he brush his teeth every day? Is something preventing him? He is an absolute moron.

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Lena Flising
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He really doesn't like being told to do stuff, so he tells her to find someone else? Besides, she wasn't telling him to do something, she asked him to do something that is basic hygien.

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Glirpy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend that has really bad breath. All the time. I haven’t said anything to him, as I’m afraid to, but it’s pretty difficult to have a conversation with him and not make a face of some kind while talking. I don’t know if his wife knows and hasn’t said anything either, or if she’s just used to it? I couldn’t date anyone with bad breath. It’s incredibly hard to kiss someone. Just as hard to kiss someone who smokes (cigarettes or pot).

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Holly Stevens
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My ex husband would only brush his teeth if I told him to do it. His teeth now when I see him years later...

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Katherine Boag
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly I like this. Green person asked for what they wanted (yeah i know its basic hygiene) and he said no and recognised they were incompatible.

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KT
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hygiene is so important. It's good you got rid of him when u did a lifetime of bad breath and rotting teeth yeck

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cybermerlin2000
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brush twice a day! Once after breakfast and once before bed! No excuse for that!

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June
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lack of hygiene is waaaay too common. I've had to educate my ex. Bro, brush your teeth before going to bed. How can you feel it's ok to not do so?

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Michael Parker
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Apparently benefits of having butt breath outweigh the benefits of brushing your teeth. Don't think I'll test this anytime soon lol.

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Victoria Pitt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lol. This is so funny. Just last night I wen to bed and after smelling my fresh breath, my bf says to me that he brushed his teeth earlier before he came over. OK so for context in-between him coming over and going to bed he ate a giant sushi dinner... I was like, you do realize you should brush after you eat? Not just like a random time during the day. lol He's a nice guy just a bit silly.

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May
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good luck finding someone willing to kiss your disgusting self. Ewww!

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Margita Otto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one is different. They have spent maybe one night together. Who knows, he forgot a toothbrush? She should have asked about the reasons in private, not in written (we see here what happens to written texts, he knows that too). At first he agreed to work the problem. "Everyday" if they are not together is out of line indeed.

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Margita Otto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Generally i think this is a communication issue here, and not a hygiene one. He simply got defensive.

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Lynn Smith
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When he's in his 30's and his teeth have rotted out - you'll know what a bullet you missed.

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Donna Leske
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"In bed in tears" NOT, you dodged a bullet! What if they said 'yeah!' and after you get entangled (2 kids and bills) they slide back to what's comfortable.

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Legen ( wait for it ) dary
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hope you have tears of só much laughing, because if it's any other kind of tears, then you need a slap to wake up to life.

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Yurie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is some next level disgusting. Just imagine such bacteria filled mouth near your lips, neck etc. EW

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Kt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thats so gross. And him saying good luck as if shes not gonna find someone who brushes their teeth regularly... 😐

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Roxy Eastland
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, good luck finding a man that brushes his teeth every day . . .

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Bob Knob
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

bet he insists she be clean shaven every where all the time too

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