When faced with injustice, you generally have three ways how you can react. You can ignore it, keep your head down, and get on with your day without making any waves. You can try to be sneaky and make subtle 5D chess moves to outplay the situation to your own advantage. Or you can call the injustice out and shine a light on it for everyone to see, bold as brass, sometimes using humor to do it. That way, it’s harder to hide the injustice.

This list is about the times that women and men called out sexism and misogyny, as shared on the r/TrollXChromosomes subreddit. People from all walks of life, from everyday employees and parents to skilled professionals, confronted sexism on social media head-on to help everyone. Upvote the responses by these brave people that you agree with and let us know what you think in the comment section below.

#1

With Pleasure, Julianne

With Pleasure, Julianne

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Becklass
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1 month ago

She’s a future leader!

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#2

Too Many Of Us Have An Uncle Randy

Too Many Of Us Have An Uncle Randy

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Lauren Caswell
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1 month ago

Ew

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#3

I Agree

I Agree

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago

I agree.

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The r/TrollXChromosomes will be celebrating its 10th birthday on the last day of March. "We're currently in the middle of intensive planning for the 10th Cakeday celebrations. It'll be so much better than our 5th Cakeday shindig, folks will cry. But we can't tell you more than that, lest our plans are foiled," the moderators told Bored Panda when we reached out to them.

They’re also steadily moving toward the 1 million member mark. Currently, they’re at just over 802k, so consider joining them and giving them a boost. They post about a variety of topics. In their words, they’re a subreddit for “rage comics and other memes with a girly slant.”

However, this doesn’t change the fact that the subreddit is also home to some serious posts that show how deeply sexism is enrooted in our society. Even to this very day. And while sexism can be subtle and covert, it can also be very overt. One example of this is women getting harassed on the streets. So while it’s one thing to confront sexism online, it’s a whole other ball game when it’s done in real life.

#4

Just Going To Leave This One Here

Just Going To Leave This One Here

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago

Priorities!

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#5

This Hurts Deep Because It’s True

This Hurts Deep Because It’s True

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giovanna
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1 month ago

So true. Also, they are afraid of him.

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#6

I’ve Never Heard This Explained So Succinctly (Credit Fu**k_patriarchy On Instagram)

I’ve Never Heard This Explained So Succinctly (Credit Fu**k_patriarchy On Instagram)

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K.
Community Member
1 month ago

Crop top summer days coming up!! ☀️🏖 Even if I did this for the next ten years, it’ll never catch up to the times I covered up my body because i have to protect myself, or I’m looking suggestive, or the many other reasons. I wore hoodies in the summer...Enough of this s**t.

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Bored Panda spoke about how women should respond if they’re ever in a situation where they’re either being catcalled or openly harassed on the street with Emily May, the co-founder and the executive director of ‘Hollaback!’ The organization aims to end harassment in all of its forms.

May explained that women should always trust their instincts. “Listen to what your gut is telling you. There is no ‘right’ or ‘perfect’ response to harassment; however, studies show that having some kind of response (either in the moment or later) can reduce the trauma associated with harassment. If you decide to respond, do it for you.”

She said that it’s always all right to do nothing, smile, and keep walking. It’s always up to you to decide what’s right for you and if you want to confront your harassers. It’s always harder to do this in-person than behind the safety of your screen.

#7

Yuuuuup

Yuuuuup

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago

Take that!

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#8

Parenting Tips

Parenting Tips

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giovanna
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1 month ago

So true

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#9

As An Extremely Gay Lady, I’d Like To Co-Sign The F**k Out Of This

As An Extremely Gay Lady, I’d Like To Co-Sign The F**k Out Of This

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Truth Monster
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1 month ago

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I find this comparison weird. Comparing lesbians to men seems....homophobic?

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As May put it in an interview with Bored Panda, your safety is the main priority. However, if you feel safe and choose to respond to your harassers, there are three main approaches that you can take: setting boundaries, engaging bystanders, and documenting the situation. Let’s go into detail about each approach.

“Set the Boundary. Tell the person harassing you exactly what you want them to do and why. Look them in the eye and denounce their behavior with a strong, clear voice. Many people prefer to name the behavior. For example, you can say, ‘Do not [what they’re doing], that’s harassment.’ You can also simply say ‘that is not okay’ or ‘don’t speak to me like that.’ Say what feels natural to you,” May from ‘Hollaback!’ explained.

#10

Good Lesson

Good Lesson

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Agatz
Community Member
1 month ago

My friend told me she was so happy she is turning 40, because finally people have stopped with the baby questions, because now they think maybe she does not have kids because she is too old. And now she does not have do defend herself for not having kids. Jeez, why can't people just back off? Like, do people ask a women questions like that because they think they forgot to have kids and they need to be reminded?

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#11

Where’s The Lie

Where’s The Lie

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Teucer T
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1 month ago

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It's the same logic that states single men can't be foster parents to girls, but we don't take daughters away from widowers.

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#12

Funny How Rarely This Comes Up With Christians

Funny How Rarely This Comes Up With Christians

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LazyPanda
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1 month ago

Nice.

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“The important thing is that you aren’t apologetic in your response, and that you don’t engage with them after you set the boundary. Oftentimes, people who harass may try to argue with you or dismiss you through further conversation or by making fun of you. As tempting as it may be to get into a verbal war with them, we don’t recommend it. The attention may further feed their abusive behavior and cause the situation to escalate. Once you’ve said your piece, keep it moving.”

The second approach is engaging bystanders by telling them what’s going on and what they can do to help you. “Not all bystanders have been trained to respond, but typically people do understand that street harassment is not okay and they want to help you, so what can you do to ask for that help? You will need to loudly announce to people around you what the harasser just said or did and identify them, like: ‘That man in the red shirt is following me. I need help!’” May explained.

#13

I Want To Meet This Heroic Mystery Woman

I Want To Meet This Heroic Mystery Woman

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Missy Moo Moo
Community Member
1 month ago

Absolutely!! We don't even wear makeup or paint our nails to impress men. If there were no men in the world we would look exactly like we do now - but wear much less clothes....

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#14

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Now #394,939,684,293,584,384,595,327,475,283,485,684,384,583,584,000,000,000,000,000

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#15

Be A Proud Spinster !

Be A Proud Spinster !

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Lauren Caswell
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1 month ago

And yet it's been given such a negative connotation :(

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She continued: “Then tell people what you want them to do, like, ‘Can you wait here with me? Can you call the police?’ Remember that it is okay to ask for help, it does not mean that you are weak, in fact, it means that you are strong because you’re acknowledging that street harassment, in fact, hurts.”

#16

The Only Way To Get Republicans To Care About Black Lives

The Only Way To Get Republicans To Care About Black Lives

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George-Florin Constantin
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1 month ago

So many issues approached in just a dozen words. Clever girl.

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#17

The List Could Go On And On...

The List Could Go On And On...

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Truth Monster
Community Member
1 month ago

Try it with race too. "First White Astronaut", "First White President."

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#18

They Should Both Be Free

They Should Both Be Free

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Coleonema
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1 month ago

Yep, in my country they give condoms for free, to help prevent spread of STDs, many people want them to do this with Tampons, Heck, even just get rid of the VAT on Tampons.

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The third and final approach is documenting the situation. If you feel that you’re safe and not currently in danger, you can consider taking a picture or a video of your experience. Or you can ask a bystander to do so.

“This could include the person harassing you, their license plate, or the scene. Some people use photos or videos to report an incident—for example, if the person was at work when this happened people may choose to report it to their employer.”

#19

Women Are Not Free Therapy

Women Are Not Free Therapy

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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1 month ago

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Gold digger is a misunderstood term. A gold digger offers her looks and typically youth and sex and clout to a man (usually) in exchange for money. That is a fair trade, not a thief. So that is sexist on its own as if the man doesn’t get anything in the exchange. A man looking for a woman to do emotional labor isn’t going to be giving shît back in return, so he is the only gold digger.

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#20

This Is So Accurate

This Is So Accurate

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giovanna
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1 month ago

"How convenient it was when we could assault them and they would just shut up... good ol' times"

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#21

This Tweet Hits Hard

This Tweet Hits Hard

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K.
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1 month ago (edited)

I surprised myself by how mush I got after @asexual avocado expressed empathy so I had to delete the original message.

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May detailed: “Others use it to share their story on social media or anonymously through ihollaback.org. Many find it to be empowering to turn the lens off of them and onto the person harassing them. It often has the potential to be hugely transformative. If it feels right to you then do it. It doesn’t work that way for everyone so ask yourself, ‘Does it feel right for me?’ or ‘Is there another way to respond?’”

According to May, there is no such thing as a ‘perfect’ response to harassment: “There is no such thing as a perfect response, this is not your fault, and you are not alone. Take the time to recover and employ strategies for taking care of yourself.”

#22

I Swear, The Audacity

I Swear, The Audacity

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Iapetos
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1 month ago

YAH! This.

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#23

Someone Said It!!!

Someone Said It!!!

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nanashi
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1 month ago

mayonnaise for the slip and slide sounds fun though, not gonna lie.

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#24

This Is What We Want. Not The Future, Now

This Is What We Want. Not The Future, Now

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Joonscrab
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1 month ago

Yes. Consent is the MOST BASIC thing to know... It's what makes us human.

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One thing that you can do is to develop a ‘quick ritual’ to help you ‘shake off’ what happened every time that you get harassed. Having a friend that you contact when this occurs can also help. Sharing your story with the people you trust can be very powerful and healing. What’s more, affirming to yourself that you deserve better and that you won’t let ‘the haters’ get you down is another response.

“The idea here is that you want you to develop resilience so that you can get out there and keep being you in the world,” May told Bored Panda.

#25

So Basically

So Basically

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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1 month ago

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Never talk to anyone again. Nobody needs your gross disease.

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#26

Let Her Name Be Known

Let Her Name Be Known

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She did not invent a "sanitary pad" like shown. She invented the "sanitary belt" that looks more like a mix of a chastity belt and a toilet roll. Mary-Beatr...Kenner.jpg Mary-Beatrice-Davidson-Kenner.jpg

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#27

Invasive, Huh?

Invasive, Huh?

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Serial pacifist
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1 month ago

The entire Trump presidency was invasive.

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#28

My Boyfriend Didn’t Appreciate This One As Much As I Did

My Boyfriend Didn’t Appreciate This One As Much As I Did

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Javiera Gotelli
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1 month ago

This made me laugh out loud. For real.

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#29

Success Is The Best Revenge

Success Is The Best Revenge

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matthew owen
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1 month ago

Sexist AND racist. He must be fun to be around...

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#30

Unfortunately True

Unfortunately True

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K.
Community Member
1 month ago

I don’t shame hypocrites for having the same amount or more sex than others. I just like seeing them flustered while they try to work out why it’s okay for them.

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I’m a fan of poet Dylan Thomas’ lines: “Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage, rage against the dying of the light.” While the context is important, you can interpret the words to mean that you should fight for what’s right instead of giving in to the pressure placed on you to stay quiet. Just remember that your safety is paramount: online and IRL.

#31

F**k The Patriarchy

F**k The Patriarchy

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River Webb
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1 month ago

this hasn't aged well in Australia

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#32

Truth

Truth

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James016
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1 month ago

It's also none of your neighbour's business

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#33

Mansplaining Fail

Mansplaining Fail

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Linus Nilsson
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1 month ago

Haha! I wish I could have been there to laugh in his face

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#34

It Never F**king Ends

It Never F**king Ends

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Mewton’s Third Paw
Community Member
1 month ago

Wow, they cry you didn’t like sports? I figured it would be a relief to many men who don’t like the pressure of having to enjoy sports when they don’t. I’ve never dated a guy who seriously cares about sports. That’s so cringe and middle America basic.

Leo Domitrix
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1 month ago

"cringe and middle America basic"? With respect, people around the whole globe love or don't like sports. It's not an indicator of anything except... they like or don't like sports.

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Marianne
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1 month ago

If my partner wants to have children and I don't, the obvious answer is not to marry him.

Teucer T
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1 month ago

Pretty much. Don't try to make a square peg fit into a round hole.

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Ozacoter
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1 month ago

I had a gynecologist (and woman) ask me if I wanted kids and then reply to my negative yelling at me the old "what if your husband wants them?" First thanks for assuming that I want to marry or that I am straight. And second if my partner wants kids he can go look for a woman willing to have them with him. Its not my problem at all.

Troux
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1 month ago

As a man, I've gotten the question of "But what if your future wife wants kids?" and I just think...we probably would have discussed this and reached some conclusions about our life priorities and future trajectories before someone became my wife?

Hannah Banghart
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1 month ago

I was told by my brother that I needed to not be so opinionated right away, but to let a guy get to know me first. "Opinionated" is me. Why would I waste my time on a second date with guy who can't deal with that?

Mama Panda
Community Member
1 month ago

My mom told me the same thing. She said I will never land a guy because of me being opinionated. I laughed at her and told her that he not being that landed her an asshole. (My parents and I are not on good terms and will never be either)

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zovjraar
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1 month ago

i never wanted children, and no one would ever tie my tubes. people suggested my husband get a vasectomy instead. i said, "it's MY choice not to have children, not his." i'm not going to burden him with the infertility that i want. been on birth control since i was 15, can't wait to see what menopause is like after living on fake hormones my whole life!

Catlady6000
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1 month ago

It's basically reverse adolescence. You may even have some emotional issues that you didn't have before. I got very paranoid, thankfully I recognized it, so was able to control it, with the help of family and medication. Hot flashes in one of the coldest winters for that area, my heating bill was almost non existent. Now that I'm done, it is absolutely wonderful! And the money I save on supplies! I still get an occasional warm flush, Dr says those may be life long, worth it!

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Deb Johnston
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1 month ago

2 weeks after I got married, I went to my hairdresser, and asked to have all my long hair cut off. My hairdresser asked what my husband was going to think about that? I said, you mean my bald husband who has no hair?? I didn't ask him, because it's my hair. We have been married 25 years now.

Ryan Deschanel
Community Member
1 month ago

It is weird, but I have seen it happen too. I hope it will change someday. People should not be expected to change in order to please someone else, especially if it is not mutual.

Seabeast
Community Member
1 month ago (edited)

And yet, people still trot out that old trope about how "Men marry women hoping they'll never change while women marry men hoping to change them." No, we are expected to change for men before we've even met them!

Leo Domitrix
Community Member
1 month ago

I love sports. Husband doesn't. We are not clones, mirror images, etc. We will respect each other's interest/disinterest, and not get so wound up about it.

Random Anon
Community Member
1 month ago

I never understood this thinking. Even when you're a couple, you are still two individuals. You do you and he do him, right? But then I see a lot of my friends trying so hard to "share" every aspect, and it led to so much resentment.

DeeDee M
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1 month ago

I'm not into any of the same s*** my husband's into. He's a wrencher who loves old crummy vehicles. I think they're hunks of junk that take up space, but he loves them. He's also obsessed with sci-fi, comics, and video games and baseball. While I love cooking, baking and romance novels, and writing. He has never once made me feel inadequate for our differences. In fact, it keeps things interesting. Maintaining a vestige of individuality is extremely important when you're in a long term relationship.

Carrie Elizabeth
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1 month ago

I had to take a great photo of myself off the dating app bc none of the Neanderthals knew about the nasty woman campaign and thought I was actually “a nasty woman”. Meaning I was “slutty” and wanted d**k pics. I don’t know how I lucked out meeting my boyfriend on a dating app. 🤦🏻‍♀️

pebs
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1 month ago

This is true, but it is also true that women often find it obvious that a man should change after marriage. I have heard several of my friends (very nice people, by the way) say: "After we are married, he will never have to do this or that again." I think that, when it comes to imposing one's opinion, both men and women are equal, albeit perhaps on different topics.

Khavrinen
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1 month ago

Boy, this one sure gave me a bittersweet laugh. Speaking as a guy who hates sports, doesn't drink beer ( or anything else alcoholic ), never wanted kids, and used to regularly watch "Style with Elsa Klensch", I spent so many years having every woman I attempted to ask out respond with utter contempt that I've long since given up even trying.

Zedrapazia
Community Member
1 month ago

The last time someone asked me: "You don't want a baby, but what if your partner wants to have one?" I told them: "Then he should become pregnant himself and carry out the baby, I'm surely not going to do that for him." I love my man and I'm aware this isn't the most senseful answer either, but it works perfectly fine to shut those idiots up.

Arctic Fox Lover
Community Member
1 month ago

Mmm... I'm just now realizing this. My father once told me that I need to get myself involved in at least one sport, and I also NEED to like football. Mainly for three reasons: One, he has a history with football and used to be a football player with fans, two, I should keep myself active and healthy by playing a sport, and three, I won't be able to find a husband as easily unless I like football. 😐

Penny Kemper
Community Member
1 month ago

It's weird because no one ever talked Ike this to me when I was a teen in the 80s are we going backwards?

Piper McLean
Community Member
1 month ago (edited)

No one should ever change who they are for whatever reason

El Dee
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1 month ago

Y'see, this is why you put all this stuff on your profile. It avoids people who don't want all that in someone from going through an entire relationship to discover it. So, if they're so much into sport and want to share it with someone like minded (fair enough) then she is doing them a favour..

Mike Beck
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1 month ago

Never got that myself. "What if they don't like it?" And? Drop them, someone else out there will adore it.

Daria Z
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1 month ago

This!!

A_BadlyDrawnBearPic
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2 weeks ago

Men hypocrites-

Jackie Porter
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1 month ago

When my mum married my dad she didn't want kids. She was kind of persuaded by dad's family to have kids. She had two (inc me). She loved us and cared for us but she developed bipolar disorder after having my older sister and she really struggled to cope. My sister and I both have mental health issues too and both refuse to have children. She's now in her 50's and no longer able to have kids, I'm menopausal and single and have had no kids. We don't want to pass any issues we have on to any children we may have had. We would have been bad parents

SimplySarcastic40
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1 month ago

successful relationships are about compromise. thats all...thats the comment.

Neill Powell
Community Member
1 month ago

150% Feminist? Wow, that's effectively Anita Sarkeesian, her royal highness of the Femnazi-order. No wonder men, children and sane women run in fear! That's the type of woman that refers to eye-contact as "sexual assault"

Hanpea23
Community Member
1 month ago

Im a cis female, married to a male and people go crazy when i tell them we're not having kids! They ask if my husband is ok with our decision, and i politely remind them that he wouldn't have married me if he wasn't!

Allison Baker
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1 month ago

I cut my long hair short. It looked fab according to all of my friends (and me) but not my then boyfriend. He dumped me. I was pregnant. I have an awesome son who has only met his father a few times. Thank God. We don’t need his kind of judgement and negativity in our lives.

Damo Lee Park
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1 month ago

don't worry. You'll find a partner who doesn't expect you to watch sport, and prays you don't expect him to watch fashion shows. My step-daughter isn't a big sports fan. Her fiance IS. So when he started whining that he wanted to watch the game with her and their kids, she bought him over to my place, and said "poppy will watch the game with you boys" and now I have to watch the game and pretend I like sports so she doesn't have to. There's always a work around. If there isn't, piss him off

Vivi
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1 month ago

True, this is so sad.

Ayia Grace
Community Member
1 month ago

(On second post) I assume before you get married having children will come up (as it should) say you don't and they do. Talk it over and share why and you reasonings in general. You can attempt a compromise or end it off in a break up which can be easier than a divorce.

Elizabeth Molloy
Community Member
1 month ago

I had a (woman) doctor say that exact thing to me when I asked about sterilisation. My body, my decision!

Grace
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1 month ago

How do i upvote something twice

MandaPanda
Community Member
1 month ago

My sister is dating a guy who likes sports and anime, she doesn't care for either of those things. She supports him watching it but he doesn't make her watch it with him. I was (am) into anime as a kid and my sister liked reality tv. We'd watch stuff together and give each other's show a try. We didn't stick with each other's preferred tv but we still spent time together.

Micah Patchen
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1 month ago (edited)

My ex husband insisted that I do all his hobbies with him. He moaned long enough that I went to his all guys d&d game with him. Everyone was hostile for a woman being there, I was hostile I was there. They had been friends since 3rd grade. I didn't need to go, didn't want to, wasn't welcome, but because ex thought marriage meant 24/7 togetherness. I have zero hobbies other than bored panda because he ruined me on hobbies. And no, I wasn't allowed to do my hobbies because they were solo (making a wreath for the door), and he thought they were boring anyway.

Nancy Lynch
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1 month ago

If you want a weekend day for watching sports, I get the other day for my shows. Pick your day.

Lj
Community Member
1 month ago

All this is so true!!! I, at least, have experienced it in my life, ever since I was a teenager. And it becomes ingrated in us. Now, finally as I approach 40, I feel more free (from internal and external sex-based biased pressures/expectations that limit my options and don't allow me to be me. But to be honest though, I still feel a little embarrassed/ashamed at my cockiness when I'm opinionated, assertive (which is 95% of the time) or happen to be more talented than the men around me, if there's no woman present. It's stupid and it sucks).

Maria Ines Molina
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1 month ago

so true

Kesondra Key
Community Member
1 month ago

This makes me want to rage rant because of how accurate this is.

Bradley Jordan
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1 month ago (edited)

Lets reverse this: “I put on my Tinder profile that I love beer, hate romcoms and am 150% masculine all day all the time and so many females are like ….offended? One girl was like ‘What if the girl you like loves the ballet, you won’t even’t go to a show with her?’ And I asked, would you level up a World of Warcraft character so you can get up at 8am to do a dungeon raid because that’s what I’m really interested in. And she said ‘I don’t really find that interesting.’ And I’m like THEN WHY THE F**K WOULD I CARE ABOUT BALLET FOR YOU OMG!"

Bradley Jordan
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1 month ago

"This is not an isolated thing. Men are expected change for women. If you don’t want to have children (ever) someone is bound to say to you: well what if your wife wants to have children. There’s the ongoing jokes about men being forced on boring shopping trips with their significant others…but hey, they gotta do it cause…Happy Wife Happy Life? Men are warned against doing this or not doing that or else women won’t date them. Many a man has had to consider his hobbies on the basis of wether women would find said hobby attractive. We’re expected to lose weight, gain muscle and dress a certain way to appeal to women. We’re expected to be less opinionated, less assertive (and more assertive at the same time….depending on where it counts I guess)…and to top it off…bust our asses at being more accomplished than women if we ever want a chance with them…it never f*cking ends..” How's that sound?

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Timmy
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Why are women on Tinder? It’s not a dating app. It’s a hook up app.

Bored Batgirl
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1 month ago

Tinder's own description of itself in the app store uses "date" or "dating" 9 times. It doesn't use "hookup" once. So to answer your question, women are on Tinder to do whatever the f*ck they want with another consenting adult.

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And women expect men to change

Teucer T
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I find this one strange because in my experience it te ds to be the woman who tries to change the man... While the man will just say "not happening" after the first couple of dates... And then get vilified for it.

Catlady6000
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1 month ago

Frankly, both are a result of this attitude, the woman is always expected to change for someone else, therefore, expects her significant other to change for her.The man rarely, if ever, hears these same statements, so feels free to move on. The vilifying comes from the hurt at the injustice of the double standards

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Punished Edward
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1 month ago

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Men sit through s**t reality TV all the time. It’s called a compromise and not being aware of them is why that person is still on tinder

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K.
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1 month ago (edited)

I look forward to my periods (kind of). I am either in a near death state of being, or I push myself at the gym to get through the things I hate at the same time. (Exercise is good for you. I can have a hate/love relationship with it.) EDIT: I have passed out, vomited, and were sent to the hospital from pms pains. For some odd reason, I push myself even more during “let the gates of hell open” week. I still got three tubs of ice cream.

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#36

"Women R So Emotional"

"Women R So Emotional"

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago

They do.

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#37

Yep

Yep

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago

Definitely social conditioning.

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#38

And The Sinister Version, "If She Has Boobs, She's Biologically Ready For Sex"

And The Sinister Version, "If She Has Boobs, She's Biologically Ready For Sex"

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Iapetos
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1 month ago

That last thing with SpongeBob won't change.

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#39

Bless The Boys

Bless The Boys

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J. Zingler
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1 month ago (edited)

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No Emma, you fail as a parent in allowing a 45 minute "meltdown".

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#40

So True

So True

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kevin
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1 month ago

When I was in high school, the teacher asked for boys to help her with carrying things. A girl asked why she's only asking boys. The teachers response "Its really heavy." I know much of the girls in that room can carry much more than my male body.

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#41

Girls Are Always Taught How To Stay Safe, It's Not As Common To Teach Boys To Not Create Unsafe Situations

Girls Are Always Taught How To Stay Safe, It's Not As Common To Teach Boys To Not Create Unsafe Situations

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Bob
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1 month ago

Wait i don't understand what Matt Pearce is saying. Would someone explain?

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#42

How Come Tho?

How Come Tho?

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Teucer T
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1 month ago

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Ummm... "Daddy Issues" doesn't actually exist. Nobody even knows where the phrase originated from. Some attribute it to Freud, but Electra Complex (female version of Oedipus Complex) does not mean anything close to how "daddy issues" is used.

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#43

F**king Truth

F**king Truth

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matthew owen
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1 month ago

Exactly! Victim blaming is never useful.

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#44

Yes, Just Like That

Yes, Just Like That

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago

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Then, like how?

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#45

Misogyny Running Deep

Misogyny Running Deep

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago (edited)

That is so 19th century mindset! What a shame some people in 21st century still hold on to that!

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#46

This Explains A Whole F**king Lot, Actually

This Explains A Whole F**king Lot, Actually

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K.
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1 month ago

Spoiler alert. Quite a bit of females/women perpetuate the misogyny they’ve learned from other females/women and a society that treats them less. They teach us to police others who fall outside of their ideals, breeding another generation of misogynists. Gross.

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#47

Unconstitutionality

Unconstitutionality

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Something
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1 month ago

Talk about a nanny state.

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#48

I Don't Know Why This Made Me Laugh So Hard

I Don't Know Why This Made Me Laugh So Hard

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Mohsie Supposie
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1 month ago

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Of course you would. Anyone can win a debate against dead babies!

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#49

Take Notes Hallmark

Take Notes Hallmark

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Helen Haley
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1 month ago

Please

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#50

"Why Do They Say 'Women And Children First'? What About The Men? Why Is Society Anti-Men?"

"Why Do They Say 'Women And Children First'? What About The Men? Why Is Society Anti-Men?"

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Helena Houzarová
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1 month ago

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Children go first because they are the future. Women go with them because they are competent and able to get the children to adulthood. Simple logic.

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