they should say 'for the girls water for the boys water too'... why do people poison their kids at such a young age? no wonder why they are getting bigger if their parents are supporting an unhealthy lifestyle..

Ugh, I'm so sorry. I have when people think saying you lost weight is a compliment. It doesn't take into account why the weight loss has happened. Also, it's none of your business what my scale says.

The worst body-shaming comments come from relatives; they feel like it's ok because they're family.

Such coaches should loose the job. I remember also a school sports teacher who would exclude a boy from ball games because he was too fat. Way to make sure people will not find fun in sports!

Wow...someone should loose his or her approbation.

Keep it up! People are ridiculous. They should never shame someone for trying to be active and healthy!

I'm so sorry. I am on antidepressants that have caused weight gain and I have experienced such negative feed back. People can be cruel.

Body shaming from a different perspective. After a nasty break-up in December i started suffering from depression and just stopped eating. I was down to 44kg in no time and people kept telling me how awful i looked. I knew that it looked terrible, but no need to keep f*cking telling me that all the time. That really hurts. Now I am getting better each day :)

Since when do boys not want fat girls?!? Maybe not all of them, but still a lot of them. Your mom would be surprised...

Looking beautiful with a swimsuit doesn't have to do with a girls/womans weight or body shape! It has to do with self-confidence, and feeling comfortable for who you are! You look amazingly beautiful!! P.S.:Great choise of swimsuit!

That's so sad :(

Disgusting

Stupid dad.

Same thing happened to me... I was 15 and it was my aunt. I never wanted to be a model anyway but why say such a mean thing?

So sad. Why would you say that as a parent??

I get that nonsense from time to time. Guess what? I'm 54. I plan on doing whatever I want for the rest of my life and I need muscle and bone mass to do it.

and that was the last time Nan came over for dinner... I hope

"No, I'm just hear to eat the jerks she doesn't like". A*s

Omg!

Success is the best revenge!! Well done you!!!

It makes no sense: at 13 yo, she's responsible for you and moreover she's supposed to be supporting you and love you no matter what

Why is grandma so mean??

I can't believe how horrible some moms are!! Reading these posts makes me really angry and sad. Love my mom more than ever after seeing this...

Honestly, I would kind of expect this from a thoughtless jerk of a teen sibling, it's the parents that make me see red!

Yeah, some doctors should change their job. I really don't get it. Okay, if someone really has an unhealthy body, especially as a doctor you should be honest and help your patient. But this argumentation makes no sense and is just rude. Also if mental issues aren't your field of work, you should be careful with words. (Not only because weight gain could be a side effect of depression)

That's so bizarre. You wouldn't look like you anymore.

"ex" it the key word here. Getting rid of toxic people in one's environment is the best way "to loose weight"

I knew a girl in college who was a power-lifter. If you didn't know that, an a*****e would assume she was overweight. I think she was about 240lbs of muscle.

And that's how many girls and women get anorectic!

:( Don't worry, that guy was an a*****e anyway.

OMG sooo sad, reminds me of when I was 13 and my friend told me guys that date fat girls only date them for 1 thing...yes and she was supposed to be my best friend, funny thing was I wasn't even fat at the time as I look back at pics I looked great, sometime a persons motives can be jealousy as well.

That has to be the most horrible thing someone could say to their child :-(

A three year old?? A three year old NEEDS some chub - they're growing very quickly! A skinny toddler is a sick toddler most of the time!

Mom and Granma are sooo wrong. A hell lot of men love big girls.

Why would he look at 10 y/o girls' thighs in soccer shorts, huh? But srsly, such a jerk

DUDE SHE IS GROWING A HUMAN PERSON IN HER UTERUS. SHE WILL GAIN WEIGHT. WHO GIVES A S**T ABOUT THE SHORTS!?

Aaaaarrrrgh!!

Such a shame you stopped going to your behavior classes.

I could never out on weight before I had my daughter and used to get a lot of comments too which are very hurtful "you are too bony" "Ooo careful you might snap a leg" but it's not your fault

this is so sad, My brother does this to our sister, she has the same problems but diff background as me, our brother lost tons of weight after getting all his med problems fixed, we haven't, our sister has the opposite of me {im under, she's over} and our brother calls her whale, bakery, fat, chub chub, and other words, she's 28 and 200 pounds, he is 24 and weighs 160 pounds with me at 29 at 120 pounds, our brother even got on tv for losing his wight.....{i guess pm or message me if you want that link}

what an a*s!

I am sorry, but this is the most idiotic, wrong, mean and simply absurdest thing I ever heard a mother saying to her daughter. Seriously.

So, like someone pointed out so accurately above this post, they are supposed to be taking care of you! So, if they think this, and all those other nasty thoughts, why not say these things instead... let's all take a walk after dinner, it's such a nice night! Hey let's go to the beach and play frisbee before the sunset! You know, daughter, I've put on some weight. I think I need a walk, would you take one with me and keep me company? We could walk the dog together, how about that?

What's she supposed to do about her boob size? Anyway, this is horseshit. No guys care about boob size. They're all good!

I know this one. The sister of my ex boyfriend told him I looked better when I've been a bit skinnier and with Make up.

It is so awful how people are treating such young kids : (

I have very big calves too. I didn't mind until someone pointed out that I looked like a weight lifter. It made me feel bad about it for a while then I decided to just love them just the way they are. They make me look strong, they have a nice shape, and they make me win races! Too bad for the skinny jeans!

i think you are def already pretty.ive never seen you before but i can just tell.

:-( I'm sorry but Mom is a real moron