Wow what a stupidiot

granted the name-calling isn't necessary, but to suggest that anything could excuse this sort of behavior is ridiculous; and even if he weren't clearly aware and sorry and horrified and concerned, and even if we could argue that in such circumstances doing this might be okay ( which I still don't think it is, personally ), it would at best make her just as bad as he is.

What could have possibly happened to make this right??

It doesn't matter what happened between them. I've had some impossibly s****y exes and I would never do this to any of them. I'd be lying if I said I've never wanted to inflict a fair level of physical pain on at least one of them, out of fear and some admitted spite, but even he I'd never want to cause emotional pain by playing with his heart. What's more, I couldn't wish so much of an ounce of any sort of ill will at all if he had clearly been as aware and sorry for what he had done and concerned about my well-being as this guy obviously is with this girl. Whatever he did he clearly is now aware of it, feels terrible about it, is horrified that she seems to be blaming herself, and is very concerned about her even without the possibility of them getting back together in his mind. That deserves some damn acknowledgment.

She's right

Right!!

There is a Very big difference between karma and revenge. Look up the definition. Off the top of my head I would say that revenge is inflicting a bitter action upon someone else as a result of a wrong doing, as opposed to where karma is when you leave it to fate to decide what happens as a result of a good Or bad action that is either selfless or selfish. You can not inflict or control karma-that is what makes it karma. In what you are saying she can and did. She did not because that is physically impossible. She was being petty and bitter toward someone who most likely was an a*****e but there is no better way to inflict revenge than to ignore someone completely. The perfect time would have been to pretend he dropped off of the face of the earth when he asked her out on a date. Too bad she gave him reason to hate her rather than being the bigger person. She could have walked away as the one wronged rather than doing her share.