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It’s 2020 and a fresh new decade has started. However, this doesn’t mean that absolutely everything will be different right from the get-go. People will still be imperfect and things like stereotypes and misinformation will still exist.

That’s why the ‘What Women Don’t Want From Men’ hashtag exists on Twitter—it’s a reminder from women about what not to do and what not to act like. Bored Panda collected some of the very best tweets with this hashtag, so scroll down, and upvote the ones you think are right. And read on for our interviews with Elizabeth Arif-Fear, writer and founder of the Voice of Salam which promotes interfaith humanity and human rights, as well as with Suzanne Degges-White, professor and chair in the Department of Counseling and Higher Education at Northern Illinois University.

Be sure to check out our previous article about men talking about which myths about them are 100% not true. And let us know in the comments below what you think of the ‘What Women Don’t Want From Men’ hashtag, and whether you believe the tweets are accurate or if they revolve around stereotyping men.

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Colin Leetham
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No kidding. Partnership is equal.

Blue Shadow
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally agree. I look at my relatives and am always astonished at how both partners work, but one is also expected to take care of the kids and manage chores.

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John
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a stay at home dad, I'm filled when with a low level wage whenever I hear guys say they're babysitting their own kids.

Id row
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one bothers me a lot.

Shinomi Chan
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. You helped making the baby you help RAISING the baby

Kori K. Warriner
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's not forget the cringeworthy term "babysitting." Your own kid. PFFFT

Miraculous Klutz
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Helping definition - To assist someone. This implies that it is primarily the female’s responsibility. Bzzz! That is false!

Luther Alanxander
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Denise Mclean
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not as Bad as Dusting ;-) We give them a Break and they Break it ? Don't need it !

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    #2

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, a long time ago, at the crossing of the 1930a and 1940s, a little man called Adolf has thrown a tantrum because of "His Struggles". Guess what happened next? It doesn't matter what's between your legs. You need what's inside your head to rule a country and the world.

    Pan Narrans
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just look at Angela Merkel. Compare her with Trump. Give me Merkel every day. But then, think about states led by idiots, Turkey, China, North Korea, even the US. Would you send a nice smart Lady or an evenly metal case as Trump? All in all, Europe's foreign police is rather lacking in results.

    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... or if we're not too emotional or unstable...**ahem** how often have you heard this? "Well, she's obviously just a cold, unfeeling b***. Can't trust her to care about any of us" - it's just set up to ensure that there is always a "reason".

    Brandy Grote
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Studies proved post menopausal women are "less hormonal" overall than men. Makes sense, and is visible as seen here.

    Trash Panda
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Each one these guys pictured are s**t humans. Trump has proven, time and time again, that he is petty, vindictive, incompetent, and that he is a compulsive liar. Gym Jordan is either not real smart or just plain stupid but I haven't figured that out yet. I just can't stand that he lied about standing by while the student athletes in his care were sexually abused. Lindsey Graham is a bitter, closeted little man. Any form of moral compass he may have ever possessed disappeared around the time his good friend, John McCain, died. Maybe McCain was the only thing keeping him tethered to ethics. Cavanaugh did exactly what he was accused of. I know I can't prove it, I just have a gut feeling and know it's true. For that, he should never have been allowed to sit on SCOTUS. Each one of these men should be removed from office.

    Id row
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When a man does it, he's passionate. When a woman does it, she's hysterical and/or on her period.

    Steena Steelia
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This right here makes my blood boil. Anytime I encounter this at work (I work with about 40 men), I want to throw a tampon at them and say, "Here, you need this more than me".

    Becca Gizmo the Squirrel
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kavanaugh's face really stressed me out during those hearings.

    AlphaPuck
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    5 years ago

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    Very tolerant. Your hate is showing

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    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny how with abortions Pro-lifers are seeking to punish the women, not the men who got them pregnant, as if they don't realise you need two people to make a baby. If a woman is punished for getting an abortion, then the man needs to be punished for getting get pregnant when she doesn't want to be.

    KatKaleen
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I' ashamed to say that I never thought of that. Only women and doctors that perform the procedure are persecuted (prosecuted? Sorry, English isn't my native language)? It takes two to tango.

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    Ivy D
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would never get an abortion myself, but if someone else wants to who the f**k cares.

    Amberly Middlemiss
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    people who give a damn about the unborn lives of innocent children car, that's who. (and surprise, we actually do care about the mothers life too.)

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    Amberly Middlemiss
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's not just men saying this. just sayin'

    Amberly Middlemiss
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in fact the majority of pro lifers in America are women.

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    Annabell H.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe in using alternate forms of birth control first, and if they don’t work for some reason then getting an abortion. Other people have their own opinions and ideas on how to prevent pregnancy, which I respect.

    Shadow The Idiot
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. People should use other forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, but if it fails they should consider the options and only use abortion as a last resort. If someone didn't want to become pregnant and truly don't think they can handle raising a child or going through the birth and putting it up for adoption, they have the right to choose to abort.

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    Id row
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy c**p, this should be #1. They should have zero say in the laws that govern our bodies and male judges should not preside over rape cases. They've proven time and time again that they are unfit.

    Gin Marie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ana J., stop vomiting up all those anti choice lies. There have been various studies that estimate the rate of impregnation for ADULT women is roughly ten percent. The younger the victim, the more likely it is that an older family member is committing rape, and regularly at that. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnancy_from_rape Wikipedia is useful as a starting point because it links to people who have actually studied the issue. No anti choice site can be trusted.

    Monika Soffronow
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @Gin Mari, you cannot argue with a troll, nor with someone who is mentally unstable or with a fanatic, neither can you argue with a paid worker at a factory in Leningrad, oh, sorry, St Petersburg, churning out opinion swaying pseudo comments.

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    India Frost
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe in 2020 this is still in anyway an argument. Female bodily autonomy should be a given. Period.

    Patrick O'Brien
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My opinion is that anti-abortion is more about a control factor: some people just have to control people and if it weren't abortion, they would find another reason to exert control. And those who claim they are doing God's will, it's always struck me as absurd that God needs someone to do his will. Certainly, he should be able to manage for himself. Also, the assumption that God does not condone abortion flies in the face of thousand of years of human history, during which time human beings have been slaughtering one another without as much as a peep from God. How can you claim that he cares about a fetus when he evidently has so little regard for human being killing one another otherwise? But this not the time or place for such a discuss. My apology.

    Trash Panda
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you listening Alabama and Texas?

    YoyoSthlm
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well if the man doesn't want the woman to have an abortion there should be a law so that the dad has to take care of the baby alone for the rest of its life.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No that isn’t good enough. Women can die during child birth. Especially in the United States. It’s too dangerous to just wave away the part where she has to carry the baby and birth it. I’m not going to put my life at risk for a baby I’m not even keeping.

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    Elizabeth Arif-Fear, writer and founder of the Voice of Salam which promotes interfaith humanity and human rights, told Bored Panda that the main things that make women lose respect for men are a misogynistic attitude and lack of respect for people around them.

    Bored Panda was also interested to hear Arif-Fear’s opinion about what character traits she’d like all men to have. This is what she had to say: “Egalitarian values, respect for women and all human beings, kindness, compassion, loyalty. A sense of humor is also good, as is a bit of romance.”

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    Daria B
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you're a professional photographer she hired.

    Miguel Ángel
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Photographer here. You don't even say that. You try to get your subjects the more relaxed, natural and themselves as possible. Saying "smile" will only get you an awkward lip contorsion.

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    Pryjmaty
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had stopped to get gas as I was on the way to the funeral home to make arrangements for my deceased husband. A male said this to me. To this day, I don't know how I didn't end up in jail that day.

    M DR
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS. This is why no one should tell a stranger to smile. You have no idea what they're dealing with.

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    Elisabeth Hals
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't ever tell people to smile, period. A smile is an expression of happiness - if you want someone to smile, try to make them happy, don't tell them to be.

    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I order you to act like *I* want you to feel. Wait... why aren't you okay with this?"

    KT Trondsen
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had this said to me so many times. Disgusting men

    SusanS
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And even if you have met her, DO NOT SAY SUCH BS to them

    elfin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just ask "Why?" Without smiling, of course. Look interested in the answer.

    Non-New-Toni-An
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a good one. The most annoying chat up line of all time, which never fails to annoy the person on the receiving end.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would smile for the love of God, but not for the love of god.

    Shinomi Chan
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the same as if I went to random guys and told them to get girlfriends. It's rude and uncalled for

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    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Babysitting implies it's a job for you, something you do a for a few hours. No mom talks about babysitting their kids, but I've heard many dads say this. It's not babysitting, it's you spending time with and taking care of your own damn kids.

    Ellen Turner
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heck, they're not getting paid for it, so it's parenting, not babysitting.

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    Sasy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even watching them is weird, you aren't spending the night watching your kids, you are going home to spend time with your family.

    John
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fury when people say this. You can't babysit your in kids.

    Shinomi Chan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they wanna babysit then they can as well live elsewhere. Clearly they don't want a full time job. Oh wait that's parenting.

    Cathrine Simone
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Super thankful I never knew a man that said this in regards to his own kids. Just wow. smh

    Erika Jones
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By the way, the above picture is adorable.

    Deidre Lippnik
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair i hate it when wives leave the husband with the kids for a night out and calls it "babysitting". Ive heard that too...and that is also horrible

    Stille20
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I rarely hear dads saying this, but I do hear friends, grandmothers, coworkers, etc saying it. So this isn't specifically coming from men

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    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guys will also make fun of teenage girls crying and being emotional about seeing/meeting a band they like, but then the same guys will get emotional if their favourite football team wins or loses

    WillemPenn
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No joke. My dad used to be so emotional about football that he would get violent and throw things at my head if the Redskins didn't win. Resulted in PTSD. But yes, I was the overly emotional gender queer kid.

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    Erika Jones
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate that the only "acceptable" kind of outburst from men is anger - not the message I want my son to learn!

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I'm standing there confused, asking "What just happened?"

    D. Pitbull
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But you know didn't you know **turn on heavy sarcasm mode** "ANGER" isn't an EMOTION??? It's just Man-spression!!! It's totally FINE! "wow, she just cries at anything! why can't she act like me and punch a wall or just yell at the other person in anger? Geezus... *women* AmIRite?"

    Lorraine R
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently a lot of men think that "being emotional" only means weeping. They don't seem to get that anger is an emotion.

    Charlie Piff
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    You can’t fumble a pass 🤦🏻‍♂️, get back in the kitchen

    - kool -
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men really can't come up with any other response to women than a sexist comment huh? I can see this tweet applies to you, bud.

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    Louis Holler
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    5 years ago

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    fumble a pass???????

    Ello...
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    5 years ago

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    Ok ok everyone calm down ALRIGHT

    Stille20
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    5 years ago

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    This kind of generalizes men though

    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How? It doesn't say anywhere that all men do this

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    The founder of the Voice of Salam had some advice on how parents should raise their sons. “Raise them with a sense of positive masculinity and egalitarian values. Positive masculinity, to teach them that it's ok to cry, that they should not be scared of their feelings, that they should be proud of who they are and that being a man doesn't mean controlling or feeling threatened by women.”

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    “Raise them as proud feminists with an ethos of positive masculinity. This leaves no room for misogyny or misandry either. Avoid rigid toxic gender stereotypes—let them develop as individuals into who they are, whilst nurturing a sense of strong respect for them and people of all sexes and genders.”

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    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why if a guy offers to buy me a drink, I accept but immediately tell him not to expect anything, I'm not going to sleep with him. The offer for the drink is usually taken back pretty quickly.

    daniel280456
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The offer to buy a drink is a way of asking: ''Do you find me attractive ?''. Just say no, they'll understand.

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    D. Pitbull
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh... HAHAHHA... oh... my gawd. I think I wrote this on another post once... had a boyfriend once (looong ago... dodged bullet!!!) - who LITERALLY said to me once after making a sound of disgust: *Guhhh* "C'mon. I have been nice to you for a WHOLE WEEK and you STILL don't want to? THIS is why I haven't proposed. What do you WANT?" Yep... verbatim. That stuck in my head... it's when I started to seriously realize "ohh... so this is all a vending machine transaction" ie: he puts in 'money' (aka: being-nice-actions), expects to have 'willingness to f**k' as his purchase and right... then screams and swears (or worse, tries to break into) at the vending machine if he doesn't get it. Wow. just... wow...

    Raylene Mckenzie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even my ex-husband, when we were together. If he did anything "nice" or actually just did s**t around the house, or made an effort to just be affectionate. Then it was like he should be rewarded, whether I felt like it or not. So glad he's my ex.

    litalaney
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad you got rid of a guy like that! I had a similar experience with an ex-boyfriend who expected sex in exchange for him doing chores

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    SusanS
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only the GOP believe that.

    Erika Haynes
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, in general, this belief that being a basic dude somehow makes you entitled to the attention and affection of any woman you choose....Oh, yay you aren't a rapist or a smelly creep. Now, what actual personality traits, interests, hobbies, conversational skills do you bring to the table? None? That's what I thought. Keep walking, bucko.

    kathryn stretton
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always say "thanyou, but the next one is on me". This way you can spend time getting to know a guy without either them, or you, feeling that the price of a drink means anything at all.

    Katherine Boag
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See also the woman who asks for a non-alcoholic drink or a snack instead, and then the men get angry. They're buying lowered resistance.

    Monika Soffronow
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are absolutely right on. In fact, asking for a non-alcoholic drink or a snack is a great way to find out if they are genuinely nice guys or, as you say, they are hoping to get you drunk in order to lower your resistance, or have sex with you anyway because you have been rendered incapable of putting up enough resistance.

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    Twitch Mitchell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I accept and it's up to the man to figure out that I owe him nothing. Bc that's what he's gonna get. You do not do things just to get something out of it for your own selfish reasons.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Hello, Beautiful, would you like to f...oops, I mean dance."

    Id row
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is very simple to navigate. Just say, 'no, thanks, but I don't mind chatting if you want' (if you're interested in him, that is).

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    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who says we don't need feminism anymore are either really ignorant or really misogynistic. We need feminism until there's equality and until women stop being treated like lesser humans everywhere in the world

    Terry Reaux
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are weaker and not very stable mentally or emotionally and you want EQUALITY? That is stupid

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst is having to be fearful of men, because you can't tell which ones are the psychopaths, just by looking.

    Id row
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd say, 'take a 30% pay cut and get back to me on that'.

    Lil' Cookie
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IDEA FOR A REALITY SHOW: Men are given supplies and makeovers to BECOME WOMEN. They live as a woman for one year, then we see how they feel about this stuff.

    D. Pitbull
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's funny is the MOMENT you bring up **any** of the myriad of observable, tangible things that are NOT equal or even ClOSE (ie: salary/pay for the same job, being doubly qualified but guy getting hired instead, accusations of nonsensical-histrionics about real pain/issues that could kill us...) it's like their hearing turns off. They literally don't hear it. The response is "Uh. yeah yeah... whatever, so what're we all doing for dinner?"

    KAREN-LEIGH SCHMOCKER
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With Republicans trying to roll back women's rights in every sphere...any man who claims women have rights should be smacked upside the head...women's rights are not carved in stone like white men's rights. It is always tentative, maybe, watch out and it is NOT ACROSS THE BLOODY BOARD.

    Steve Jones
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me have their own issues like they are the vast majority of suicide deaths, workplace deaths, custody issues , get much longer prison sentences, are 10x more likely to be killed by police, military conscription, just to name a few. Not trying to play the who has it worse game just pointing out we have our own s**t to deal with

    HighNMightyBigshot
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fascinating, how white women will sound like these WM when race is brought up.

    Stille20
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being in the dating world I am baffled by self proclaimed feminist men who are unaware of the percentage of women who have been assaulted and harassed. They don't understand why I only pick restaurants with well lit parking lots and insist on knowing their full name before meeting them.

    Leah Helbig
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    5 years ago

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    Until!.....transgenderism which has completely gutted the feminist movement. Which I find hilarious. Cuz no boys can be girls and vice versa. So feminist arguement is null and void if you accept transgenderism. I am sorry its true.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they will keep arguing until you "understand."

    Sasy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone else love that she said nonsense 😍

    Drew Sauveur
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're too kind explaining it as "full of nonsense". Most Men I know are full of a waste product that is produced by horses.... ;)

    Ryutobi
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why some of us guys do that i can't understand. And i probably never will.

    Lorraine R
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Read Rebecca Solnit's "Men Explain Things to Me". It's brilliant.

    Lorraine R
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    5 years ago

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    AV7
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    5 years ago

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    I wish men could say the same.

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Said by no man...ever

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    Arif-Fear continued: “I'd like to add that raising sons to be feminists (knowing what that really means) and to respect all women and people of all genders and sexualities, is not just about teaching young men to respect women, but also critically teaching and modeling a sense of positive masculinity. Men should not feel 'ashamed' to cry or ashamed to be male due to the suffering of women.”

    “Rigid gender norms need to be addressed. Equality, compassion, and respect for everyone should be taught, including (and due to the state of society today) a spotlight on how to treat women, women's rights, and what makes a good son, brother, father, husband, friend, colleague, neighbor.”

    “Raising sons as feminists and with a sense of positive masculinity should and must go hand in hand, whilst also allowing for gender fluidity, individualism and ignoring rigid gender stereotypes,” Arif-Fear explained her position.

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    mryanerdek Report

    nanashi
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or assumed that all women wanted to be mothers.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel bad for the little girls who are forced into marriage/ motherhood.

    EC Moustache
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um Ana and Leo, you know contraception does fail, sex isn't always consensual, people make mistakes. Does this mean they should be forced into a dangerous and painful procedure for it? No! They shouldn't have to risk their lives for something that isn't even a life yet, taking that risk is their choice, not yours. 11 year olds rarely but sometimes get pregnant, would you force them to give birth, knowing that giving birth at a young age entails higher risk? (Sry for any mistake English is my second language, my first being French)

    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ana and Leo don't actually give a s**t about children, if they're completely fine with a young child giving birth to her rapist's child, and they also couldn't give less of a s**t about the baby after it's out of the body! The baby to them has more worth inside the woman, once it's out you can chuck it in a trash can for all they care

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    Shinomi Chan
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well literally being FORCED to do anything you don't want to do goes against your rights so.

    April Siegel
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Help end child marriage (mainly effecting girls) in the US - unchainedatlast.org

    daniel280456
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a NY Post article titled ''Childish men are the reason for women having children late in life''.

    Kori K. Warriner
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It happens. A LOT. And the legal term for the motivation is "entrapment."

    Robert J. Williamson
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is far more common the other way around.

    John Vanderveer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Impossible...since a man's orgasm inside her vagina is the only thing that causes pregnancy..a women can separate orgasms from possible procreation, men cannot...so as i see it, he made his choice when he CHOSE to ejaculate inside of a womens vagina..end of story

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    Nora Ask
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women do this to men as well.

    Gerry Higgins
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    5 years ago

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    Forced? Don't act like you have no choice in the matter. Unless it's a rape of course, that's the only time you're "forced" into motherhood.

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    LarkynSimony Report

    kurisutofu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, there are many women who would disagree with her.

    Nikki Wilcock
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well Leo I have a first class honours degree and my husband works in a factory. I also earn much more. Perhaps you need to work on your personality instead of your bank balance!

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are women who would be impressed by those things. They're called gold diggers.

    D. Pitbull
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The trend I've seen in my life (can't speak for the rest of you!) - is when someone thinks this way... it's really a sign that reads either: "I will always value these things more than I value you." or "I'm looking to add you to my list of possessions - and that's all you mean to me".

    Id row
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being independent is the biggest gift you can give yourself. I couldn't imagine relying on a man for financial anything. I would feel so trapped and disgusted with myself.

    Conrad Strucker
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    imagine censoring hole and not a*s

    Ace
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why does it censore out hole but not a**?????? What?

    Stille20
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree in that I don't want to be supporting someone else. I've worked really hard to get where I am. You don't have to make more money than me, but I certainly wouldn't mind.

    Robert J. Williamson
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It might not impress her but when I made a lot of money I suddenly found very beautiful women wanted to date me, when I lost that money they were no longer interested. Money and success absolutely attracts women more than anything else, we all see it every day. Rich a******s are with stunning women poor nice guys are not.

    Clare E
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This implies that all you value in women is looks. So you're just as shallow as them.

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    #12

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    _Megan_Roberts1 Report

    Nela Rothenbach
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That reminds me of a plumber that came to fix my clogged sink. I told him how and why it was clogged and that he couldn't fix it by changing the siphon which he just did and left. It was worse afterwards. I called the company so they would fix it. When I explained what had happened the other plumber just shook his head. Ended up changing the whole pipe.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why does a dummy like that still have a job?

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    athornedrose
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same experience when getting my car battery replaced. i'd done a lot of research and told the middle aged mechanic behind the counter what brand and model i wanted and that that's all i needed, and he kept trying to add things, saying i didn't understand because i was a women. god bless the senior mechanic who looked at my car while counter mechanic was calling me a stupid little girl; he told the man to shut up, that i was totally right and only needed a battery replacement, and that he knew they had that model in stock. i made sure to write to their manager a scathing review and a glowing one for each respectively.

    Hilliary Smith
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a slow leak in a tire. Took it in, told them which tire. Still had the leak, took it back. They told me they had fixed a different tire (never came and talked to me at the time), then tried to charge me again for fixing the slow leak. Had to point out forcefully that this was wrong, and that we live in a small town, and word-of-mouth is a killer.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would report him and exaggerate the everloving f**k out of the situation too. His boss, his manager, his coworkers - someone he works with is a woman. He needs to be retrained.

    iluvanimals
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My stepfather was having issues with his computer. I researched and did as much as I could do but realized the problem beyond what I fixed was an IT problem on his company's side. The IT guy from his company came over to fix it. He would not listen to me nor look at all my notes on what I was able to fix and what was broken. Never could figure out even close to what i did and had to change it on company's side. If he would have listened to me he would have saved himself a lot of time and never would have needed to come over. I still have no clue how he made such a mess of the computer in the first place.

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    Now that we know some of the things that women don’t want, what are the things that women do need? “There are a couple of different types of cross-gender, non-romantic relationships. There are true platonic friends and then there are the friends-with-benefits friends,” Degges-White told Bored Panda. “In true platonic friendships, compared to FWB relationships, there is typically a lot more investment of time and energy in the relationship’s well-being. Compared to what they offer their FWBs, true friends are more likely to offer emotional support and constructive feedback; help out each other more often; share their feelings and seek support from one another; and involve one another in their larger social network.”

    “Women typically do not need to “co-opt” a male friend’s attention and time, as they typically do in a romantic relationship. In romantic relationships, women tend to expect more exclusive attention from their partners and also they engage in more “territorial” behaviors than they would in a friendship. These might include engaging in PDAs and expecting a romantic partner to be receptive to these shows of affection as well as expecting a partner to initiate these as well. Women might also expect their romantic partners to prioritize them in ways that they do not expect friends to do—while we totally get that friends have other friends and busy lives, women may expect their romantic partners to put her ahead of others and other commitments in their lives.”

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    #13

    What-Women-Dont-Want-From-Men-Tweets

    BrandonBurner66 Report

    Maria Rohlen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any man who says that should get grabbed by the nuts, hard!

    Leigh C.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't want anyone grabbing my cat either.

    Id row
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought his campaign was done after that, I still can't believe people saw that (and several equally damning clips against women) and thought he was the best possible candidate to lead our country. It's astounding. The women who voted for him are even worse.

    Amanda DuPont
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why isn't this higher on the list

    Colin Leetham
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does everyone remember the accusation by a Jane Doe against him and Epstein? Remember her dropping them from being intimidated into silence? Does anyone want to revisit this, please.

    Shinomi Chan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously if anyone BELIEVES in this. Don't get children please.

    Blarrg
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Genuinely curious here. I am aware of one disgusting example of a member of my gender claiming that's a great way to meet women, but I have to think (hope) he's a statistical outlier. Is the 'out of the blue' grab an actual thing?

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't speak for all women, but I think out of the blue grabs of the a*s are much more common!

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    Ryutobi
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    does he even have a penis?

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    #14

    What-Women-Dont-Want-From-Men-Tweets

    Sillyshib Report

    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's winter, I'm not shaving xD "you" shave! (If the guys had to shave like we did... Well some do. I'm sure they don't like it either :p expensive and tedious)

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it really creepy that some men want women to be completely hairless, even their pubic area, like little girls

    Tiny Dynamine
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    5 years ago

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    Some of us find it more enjoyable to orally stimulate without getting hairs in our teeth.

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    Shinomi Chan
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Newsflash everyone has body hair! *surprised gasp from the audience*

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or expecting a woman to be so thin, that she looks like a child. I once saw a grown woman and an 8 year old girl standing next to one another, and their hips were the same size. Seriously.

    Sheila Weila
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us have no hips. Sorry. I wish I did. If I gain weight, it goes on my belly, not my hips/butt.

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    Liz
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t shave because a man expects it, I shave because I want to.

    Barb Lane
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was starting to think I was the only woman in the world that doesn't like body hair on herself lol

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    Jessica
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't shave often because without fail no matter what tricks or products I try I get an obscene amount of ingrown hairs that get infected so if a man wants to try to get me to shave for him I will for the sole purpose of an object lesson in why he needs to stfu. Either that or comply on the condition that we shave at the same time on the same places so he can fully understand what an inconvenience shaving can be.

    Stille20
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was pleasantly surprised to find mature men don't really care or at least don't express their opinion about body hair.

    Jessica
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They know better at least some of them do

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    Deidre Lippnik
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want me to shave thats fine...but your doing it to!!!!

    Sjo Auga
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what's so beautiful about being a lesbian. I thank my lucky stars that I don't have to deal with this sexist s**t. Women do not care about shaving and only do so because they can't break free from male oppression. Men have ridiculously high standards compared to women. Sure, a straight woman can choose not to shave their legs, but whenever they chose not to, guys lose their marbles. and say that women with body hair are disgusting and unkept. While they can be hairy af and not bat an eye, and claim it isn't bad hygiene. Way back when, I was dating a guy before I came out, I made the rule, "If you're making me shave, then you have to shave everywhere too" Lesbians just don't care. We know about our bodily functions, we know the emotions and our deeds go unnoticed and with no strings attached...like what "nice guys do". We know women grow hair, we know what vagina, clits and labias are for and how to make our girl feel good. I'm so thankful to be lesbian

    Blacksheep
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That I don't mind because I like my men clean shaved everywhere except the beard (which still needs to be clean and visibly taken care of though). If he doesn't shave he can go back to his mommy's house, he is not welcome anymore in mine. It's his choice: he wants me or not.

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    AdeleIsla Report

    El Dee
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Active Listening' underrated and super rare..

    Mimi M
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to teach my (communication) students: 'hearing is done with the ears' (like a microphone, recorder, any mammal, etc). 'Listening' is done with the eyes (eye contact) and with the mouth (actively engaging and responding verbally).

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    Blarrg
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this one. 'Here's what I would like from people,' rather than overgeneralizations about either gender. Thanks!

    RaroaRaroa
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank yo for stating the real point. We don't want any of these things from our own sex either.

    Analyn Lahr
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is "performative wokeness"?

    daniel280456
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bullying is seen as normal among adult women.

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    She doesn’t want performative wokeness yet she makes sure to declare that she doesn’t want the same things from women as men? That looked performatively woke to me.

    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you misunderstand what you read? She said she doesn't want the same thing from men that she doesn't want from women. Meaning she wants the same thing from men and women

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    Leo H
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    No you want a man to be a woman

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    The professor continued: “In essence, friendships imply less concentrated/focused attention between the two people; a lot fewer discussions about the relationship itself—“defining the relationship” isn’t typically necessary in open and clear friendships; and no worries about a friend’s flirtation or sexual interest in other women.”

    “Romantic relationships, however, often require partners to talk about the state/status of their relationship. There are also expectations about monogamy, fear of infidelity, and level of commitment/permanency of the relationship. However, the healthiest romantic relationships also include the basic elements of a healthy friendship—with the added bonus of mutual romantic and sexual attraction. Typically, romantic partners expect one another to prioritize their needs over those of friends and to devote time and attention to the relationship in ways that they would never expect friends to do.”

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    DLHarpz Report

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These types of guys don't actually respect you, because respect isn't currency. All you should get back with respect is mutual respect, that's it.

    El Dee
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It ISN'T a transaction..

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, I've known a few of those...

    Jay Loren
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will agree with this one, "nice guys" are really annoying and do believe they are entitled to something for being nice.

    Annie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG! This pic is a perfect illustration of their expectation!!

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    This is taken out of context..and has nothing to do with a man respecting a woman

    Darth Kittius
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a meme... with an image that makes sense to the situation...

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    similarly
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, my Dad used to use the term "all dolled up" ... but not about women. He used it about himself whenever he got dressed up to go somewhere. I find myself doing the same. I don't use the term about other people, just myself, lol.

    Not what you think.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always thought "all dolled up" meant being extra ready with nice clothes, nice shoes, extra meticulous grooming with nice expensive cologne ... something you'd do for a special occasion like a first date or dream job interview ... may be your wedding. Never thought it could be offensive. Glad I am shy in IR so only used this on few people who are really close to me.

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    Avital Pilpel
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OK. I am a man. I never sent anyone obscene pictures, nor know anyone else who did. Does this really happen? WTH is wrong with people.

    Jenica Thomas
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes it does happen, but to be fair not all men do this obviously (and thankfully). Also to be fair, women send nudes too! I have gotten nudes, twice, from two different women that had my number by mistake. And the fact that the photos came before any sort of conversation doesn't leave much to the imagination of what they really wanted. That's pretty bold of someone to send something so ermmm, revealing, and to assume they have the number 100% correct lol.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What do they actually expect the recipients of those texts to do, send back pics of their vaginas?

    Shinomi Chan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get what is it with the last word but it gives me goosebumps.

    Jessica
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last one I don't mind so much as it is something that people I care for have used to acknowledge that I put effort and skill into my makeup and or hair that day and complementing me not as an object but as an artist who made a look that was notable. Unless they are assuming I got all dolled up for them it's not really a problem imo.

    Deidre Lippnik
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    INSTEAD OF OUTLAWING ABORTION..OUTLAW UNSOLICITED D**K PICS AND COOTER SHOTS. SEND THOSE MEN TO PRISON AND HAVE THEM BE IN PRISON..NAKED.. THE WHOLE TIME! THAT WILL TEACH THEM

    John C
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't send d**k pics, never have, and no plans to start. But is it really SEXUAL AGGRESSION? I can understand the desire to assign a label that lends some gravitas, but sending a non-threatening note/picture/message is not aggressive, no matter how much you don't like it.

    Jane Alexander
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Correction to #2, Mansplaining; We Don't Want to Hear you!

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Yet women proudly display their breast like kim k...is that sexual aggression

    litalaney
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I doubt Kim K is sending pictures of her naked breasts to guys she doesn't know online.

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    Aki Ryosuke
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cut your hair short and don’t ogle every man you see? apparently you’re a lesbian

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reject some sleazy guy at a bar? It's because you're a lesbian

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    Carol Emory
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two drunk guys were walking through my apartment complex making a racket at 2am. I kindly said "Hey fellas..we're all trying to get some sleep..can you keep it down please." To which one of them replied "STFU Dyke!" I replied with "I'm in here trying to sleep next to my husband..while you're walking around drunk at 2am with a dude. Who's the gay one?" His friend was laughing..he was cussing. And my neighbor yells out at them in his deep booming voice "You need to leave now, little boys...because I don't take too kindly to people talking to my friends like that." I'm sure they saw his 6'3" frame in the front door. They quickly left. I love my neighbor.

    DamnBecky
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I spent 4 years of high school trying to convince people I wasn't a lesbian bc the FIRST guy who asked me out Freshman year, that I politely declined, nodded seriously and said "Oh you're a lesbian, Im sorry" and proceeded to let EVERYONE KNOW. This idiots first reaction to being politely turned down was "she must not like men" and not "she doesn't even know my name, and its the first day of school and I didnt call her by the right name either, so of course she didnt accept my weird offer."

    Drew Sauveur
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wear comfortable shoes? Lesbian. Run a construction crew, (like the site super I have working with me), MUST Be a Lesbian. Drive a pickup, Lesbian. Don't engage with a guy after they lay some lame a*s pickup line on them at the club, LESBIAN. Am I right?

    Leslie Cully
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Got a bad, too-short haircut years ago (though now it would be in style), and was called a "f***ing lesbian" by a total stranger. :(

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Refuse to have sex with you? She must be a Lesbian!

    Shinomi Chan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I have been called a lesbian cause I wasn't interested in a guy who bullied me for like 10 years of my life.

    RoseTheMad
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or just as bad, when a man assumes a lesbian just "hasn't found the right guy yet, give me a chance" ... no. just no. I will not.

    Jane Alexander
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Show no interest in the oaf who's hitting on you; -must be a lez.

    daniel280456
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women do that too. When she's not getting attention: ''Is that guy gay ?''

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Yeah that whole dressing like a dude or getting a butch hairstyle has nothing to do with it

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    According to professor Degges-White, the number one thing that most likely leads to women losing respect for men is “duplicity which leads to a loss of trust. This can be enacted through promises that aren’t kept, untruths that are told, or emotional or actual infidelity—sexual or platonic.”

    She added: “Once a person has lost trust in another, respect evaporates just as quickly.”

    “Cross-gender friendships can be awesome as they provide women and men with new perspectives, however research suggests that both genders fear that a partner’s cross-gender friendship will lead to infidelity,” Degges-White said. “However, women and men both believe that they can maintain a platonic friendship with a cross-gender friend. The important thing for partners to do with one another is to be open and upfront about their friendships with people of the opposite gender. If you try to hide a friendship, partners will assume that you are trying to hide something even bigger than “just a friendship.”

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    Lisa loves cats
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being a parent is a full time job, either you take it or you dont, you are not a babysitter to your own child.

    pusheen buttercup
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Watching the kids just has to happen sometimes, whether you earn breaks from it or not. Watching the kids doesn't equal obligatory treat. It must be done, for their own good. Would it be nice to plan for a break at some point? Yes. Should you expect it every time you watch the kids or even think that it "can" happen often? No. Welcome to Parenthood.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure there are young moms who would love to have a whole weekend away.

    iluvanimals
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is with all repetitive subjects? 2 and 19 are the same thing. Naughty BP!

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Er people say this about husbands that look after their own kids

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    daniel280456
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Emotional abuse is considered normal when women do it to men.

    daniel280456
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    5 years ago

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    In the US, lesbians have the highest percentage of domestic abuse. Where is their Gillette ad ?

    Mary Jo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's false. Of course, you know it's a lie yet here you are, saying it.

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    Maria
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see at least four blokes in this picture.

    Viviane
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shawn, you're free to support women strictly in the hope of getting laid, but I think you'd have better luck being upfront about sex in a bar.

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    Twitch Mitchell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The next time a man has a period or shoves a kid out his d**k is when he can say anything at all about my body and how it works.

    Zay S
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aaand a wild trans man has appeared. But the trans man knows to respect other people's decisions and not tell others how it is, so your point stands. :)

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    Erika Jones
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great picture of the Women's March!

    iluvanimals
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't 3 and 18 the same thing? Anyways...I have never had an abortion and even made the hard choice of giving baby for adoption when I was in a really bad marriage. But I am so angry that men have a say over womens bodies. In the US a bunch of House/Senate just signed something trying to get Roe V Wade turned to make abortion illegal. There are states that created such laws like no abortions after 6 weeks of pregnancy, etc so abortions can become nearly impossible to get. When womens suffrage happened 100+ years ago, nothing was ever put on paper that I could find regarding only women have power over their own bodies. I am absolutely angry and fearful for the younger generation of women. WHY ARE MEN ALLOWED TO DECIDE WHAT WOMEN DO THEIR BODIES, AND MOSTLY ONLY MEN(most politicians are Male). Men who support womens rights on this issue, thank you. But we need you men to speak up, because silence brings no change and makes it look like you agree with these other guys.

    Ryutobi
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a man who believes in principle over "human laws". The most simple one i believe is a woman's body is THEIR business. The State doesn't own them, the country doesn't own them, I sure as heaven and hell don't.

    John C
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought women didn't like to be associated with pink.

    Rebecca Schultz
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I see Ian McKellen in the background.

    Shawn
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    5 years ago

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    Well then it's our opinion if we wanna provide child support if we didn't want it since yall can kill it even if we were ro want.

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    Degges-White looked at what women aged 18 to 75 need from the men in their lives.

    According to the professor, women look for fairly similar qualities in romantic partners that they look for in male friends: they want to be treated fairly. But there are some differences in what women expect and need from men depending on the closeness of their relationships with them.

    Dr. Degges-White explains that women expect all the men they meet in their lives to have moral integrity. Meanwhile, they also value “relational sensitivity” when it comes to male friends and partners. But when it comes to romantic partners, what the professor describes as “satisfying intimacy” is incredibly important to keep “the romantic spark burning.”

    “Women should be given the same respect that men offer other men. When a person is made to feel disrespected or patronized, the relationship is likely to end sooner rather than later. In terms of romantic relationships, even when you’re angry or disappointed by a partner, respect should be maintained,” professor Degges-White explains.

    The professor continued: “Women need men to show kindness, patience, understanding, empathy, and compassion. Regardless of the type of relationship, men and women should be considerate of each other's feelings.”

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    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Looking” isn’t harassment. Everyone looks and glances around at people and objects. Staring and being a nasty piece of s**t is.

    Noez 🇸🇪
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried explaining this to a guy friend once. I won't try again. I don't think they can understand.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he does this, he IS a perverted a*s.

    John C
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I take offense at you calling my resting facial expression "perverted a*s". Yet I get in trouble if I do that to a woman. #doublestandard

    Gerry Higgins
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't like men looking at your boobs? Stop putting them on display. Don't wear the low cut, tight tops. And don't tell me you have the right to wear anything you want, you do - but if you put it out there men will look. You wouldn't leave a steak on the floor then blame the dog for enjoying it.

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    daniel280456
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Watch Michael B Jordan on The View. He almost got dryhumped by the grandmas. Double standards everywhere.

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Looking isnt harassement

    Daria B
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually it is. And in Korea, by law, you're entitled to report it too. But usually people don't do it because it's not worth the trouble and because it doesn't happen that often. So, when it happens to me, I just let them know I'm not pleased.

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    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The reason they do certain stuff in porn is because they get PAID. Don't expect every regular woman to want to do all the gross stuff you see in porn

    Aine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @Luisa "Agree on trying at least 1 time to see how do you feel about it." I think that if the thought of what is proposed disgusts, scares and repulses me, a simple "no" will suffice...

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    Jenica Thomas
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It all comes down to preferences. I'm sure there are plenty of women who are willing to and actually want to do all that stuff seen in porn. But there are also both men and women who aren't as comfortable with, or open to, a lot of things. The thing is to think of the person you are with. If you want to try something, have a conversation about it. Sure... it might be awkward at first. But at least then you and your partner have a safe opportunity to talk it out... who knows, maybe a lot of fun things will come up lol.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it’s trash how the “progressive” opinion is that porn is normal and healthy. It seems very unhealthy and toxic to me. I’ve watched a little porn in my day but if it’s a regular thing, it really seems awfully close to cheating. People’s relationships can suffer big time.

    Shinomi Chan
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah this one is just... WHY. Obviously porn isn't something that has ACCURACY or THE TRUTH about how reproduction works

    Noez 🇸🇪
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A guy told me he wanted to put his penis between my breasts and - while I held my breasts squished together - have sex with me that way. I fondly think of him as that "weird but nice dude".

    Ryutobi
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Porn is just eye-candy (though some of terrible taste.)

    John C
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And men don't want to be expected to reenact all the stuff you see in romantic comedies. If your spouse has unrealistic expectations for your real-world relationship that's seeded in fiction, then that's something to sort out. No need for gender bashing.

    Bogdan Constantin Dinu
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    5 years ago

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    Yeah...porn women always orgasm...THAT'S TOXIC!

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    What type of porn are you watching..99 percent of it is m/ f normal sex

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    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Female orgasm actually does serve a reproductive purpose so even that's not an excuse for guys to be selfish in bed anymore

    DrGirlfriend
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does serve as a purpose,.. actually.. when it contracts during peak moments it pulls in like a suction if I'm correct to help .... Them swimmers get to egg ... Orgasms are actually key components for both, but doesn't have to be a prerequisite. We all know shut happens

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, it does serve reproductive purpose. Whoever said it didn’t needs high school biology

    Elida Lechuga
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Calling it a "female orgasm" is where the problem begins.

    Sandra Aspol Smith
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The female orgasm DOES serve a reproductive purpose. Some men just don't "science" enough or at all. Just like a male orgasm is not needed to reproduce. PRE cum anyone?

    KCN
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the f***? Men are still thinking this???

    Colleen Marie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously no call back for that idiot.

    Ryutobi
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. Sex is about reaching ecstasy TOGETHER. A "f**k" is self gratification. Unless I'm mistaken. Please enlighten if i am.

    Sjo Auga
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly the only men who say this have no idea how to give a woman an orgasm. They think ramming their d**k into everything means pleasure when in reality it's EXTREMELY RARE for a woman to have vaginal orgasm. Clitoral orgasms are the way to go. Unfortunately most men refuse to acknowledge other body parts and demand their partner to perform oral sex but refuses to return the gesture. I get asked quite a lot by straight dudes how lesbians have sex and I'm just like.. "You really lack imagination don't ya? Have sex by not using your penis, you have to atleast know by now the female anatomy?" I will always thank God I was born gay so I don't have to deal with this sense of entitlement.

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    Bored Panda also talked to Jacqui, for whom loyalty and respect are the most important qualities for men to have. "I would like men to appreciate what they have and be loyal and honest with not just their partner but themselves and although women can be just as bad these days. I'm speaking from my own perspective and I am old-school and loyalty is a big thing to me. And a lot if men I come across seem to be lacking this quality and others. Which has resulted in my being single for a long time."

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    "I have a son and I always have taught him and he knows that being honest is the best thing to do and be. As you will always be respected more for telling the truth. And that one woman is enough for any man. And that no matter what neither party should accept any kind of abuse or lack of putting there needs first. And always remember if treat her like Queen she will will treat you like a King."

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    Magpie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh i just love having my neighbour explain diabetes to me. 1 - he has it wrong, 2- I'm a nurse and know a bit. 3- he has it soo damn wrong it is dangerous.

    Gin Marie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had some basement-dwelling incel tell me women weren't in combat. I was in Iraq at the time, recovering from.....combat.

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    deanna woods
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a male manager who does this. It gets so annoying. Unless I need your help, leave me alone.

    Daniel (ShadowDrakken)
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wish women would quit this s**t too. Doesn't matter what gender you are, it's annoying, so just p**s off already.

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    Jason M
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd say there are some men/women who want the "Dominance" but more in more of a "kink" situation.

    PotatoNinja5000
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the same with a lot of things. If a person likes something in the bedroom, others take it as that person wants that thing in all aspects of their lives. It isn't just men who jump to that conclusion either. Take BDSM for example- sure some people will wear a collar 24/7, but the majority would not.

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    RaroaRaroa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one wants these things from anyone (except if it's some kind of fetish). Why did this whole post have to makeit sexist.

    Terry Reaux
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No they have women who thrive on all of those things. Those are all things women say they are looking for in a man. Except maybe for the disrespect one and ignorance

    Shawn
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    5 years ago

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    Oh look the same things nobody would want gettin anyone else

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    I d say the same thing about women

    YoyoSthlm
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg Leo you are exactly the man that women don't want. Go back to your Incel club.

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    Niko
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    5 years ago

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    a.k.a being nice in every single time

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    pusheen buttercup
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my God I couldn't agree more. Telling someone- anyone- to calm down has never been a good idea for me. You need to be more constructive than that- or leave them alone, normally one of those.

    Jane Alexander
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes Pusheen! Worse thing ever to say when someone's upset. Congrats on really hitting some nerves with the mucky pucky little boys who commented here.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see that the incels have invaded this post.

    Colin Leetham
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is there ever a phase less calming, more condescending or patronizing than "you need to calm down." You want calm dude? StFU and back off for a minute.

    Erika Jones
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Telling someone to calm down can make them feel like you are telling them their emotions are wrong. Not cool.

    Mimi M
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody should tell anyone to 'calm down'.

    Kiss Army
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah! Nothing makes me "calm down" quite like being told to calm down...

    youshouldseemeinacrown
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you tell me to calm down and it makes me 2 times angrier

    Leigh C.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get told that by women, too, especially being asked a question and trying to explain an answer.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with this one. Most people don’t like being told to calm down, man or woman. But I actually kind of appreciate it because it makes me feel like my partner isn’t mad at me being mad. He just wants me to relax. Maybe not true for jackasses that you’re not in a relationship with, but my boyfriend can tell me to calm down and it kinda helps.

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    So a man should sit there and take verbal abuse without asking the woman to please calm down and stop abusing them. OK, thanks, I'll keep that in mind.

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one said about asking the woman not to abuse you? You just made the leap of the century. In my experience, if you tell an abuser to calm down, they will get even more angry

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    Jacqui continued: "All men are not the same: some men do appreciate and man-up, own and hold the own. It just seems these men are already spoken for. Maybe I've just had bad luck. So sometimes being very loyal and everything in one is sometimes not good enough for men. But this can also apply to women. In this day and age, I believe that males and females can be as bad as each other."

    "But the sad thing is when someone as loyal and decent as myself who just wants a happy, settled life seems to get a kick in the teeth. Don't you find that this is common? Maybe they have been hurt too much, as I know I have, and stayed single for years because of it, but it seems no matter what you do or how secure I try to let them feel, pride is a big thing with men also. If you really love, care, appreciate, and value each other, then it shouldn't so hard. If it takes too much effort and drags you down, then it's nothing more than a toxic unhealthy relationship that will end in disaster. Men can be selfish and women, too. But sometimes you have to grow up and stop that nonsense and learn that if you can't be what your partner needs, let them go."

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    Ola Polowczyk
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't. Tap. Me. On. My. Shoulder. Don't touch me. Seriously. I can hear an "excuse me"

    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if you must touch, shoulder or upper arm is the best choice, I think

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    Patrick O'Brien
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, a simple "excuse me" would seem to serve the same purpose while avoiding the uncertainty of a touch. Most women I know have ears, and if you say excuse me to get their attention, they'll usually turn their head in your direction. It's worked just about every time for me.

    Carol Emory
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a woman and I've actually said "excuse me" several times without being heard or blatantly ignored. I will touch someones back between their shoulders as I pass behind them to make sure they don't step back into me..but I say "excuse me" again as I pass. I've had one or two women take offense and get upset with me for touching them. I respond with "I'm sorry if my saying "excuse me" 40+ times didn't quite make it clear I needed to get past you. And I wasn't aware you bruise so easily. Next time I'll shout it at the top of my lungs so everyone will realize you were in the way."

    Risa Jackson
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm hard of hearing (HoH) and communicate with other people as if they are hard of hearing also. So I use my hands a lot to gesture and will touch people's shoulders in crowded places when I'm trying to get by. I have never touched anyone at the waist; there's no need for that. YOU MAY NOT LIKE A STRANGER TOUCHING YOU ON YOUR SHOULDER BUT I DON'T WANT A SWIFT ELBOW IN MY EYE BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T KNOW I WAS BEHIND YOU....

    Shawn
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only do that in extremely crowded places where people will most likely be moving constantly and I do it men or women while saying excuse me. I don't like fully touch but I'm ready to stop you from backing into me. Specially if I'm carrying a drink.

    Jenica Thomas
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh, I don't think this is mansplaining. This is basically what I would do in the same situation (I'm female), regardless of if the person was male or female. There is always the chance that someone doesn't like to be touched and may act back toward you in an unexpected way. But that probably isn't likely to happen often and you would never be able to tell if they would unless you know them... and if you know them, then you probably already know not to touch them.

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    Leslie Cully
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind a touch for attention followed by an "excuse me." I DO mind an arm around my waist, a rubdown, or a two handed grab.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even like people touching my shoulder.

    Charlie Piff
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the author of this post hasn’t been in a crowded bar in Manhattan

    phantom buni
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, I tap guys on the shoulder and they notice, but it’s not weird for them to tap me on the shoulder, but you do you!

    Leigh C.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate being tapped on the shoulder. I always have a sore spot and people do it so hard.

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    Octavia Hansen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time a man says he wants an old fashioned women . . . I agree to quit my job, stay home or shop at my convenience and wait for him to die early and leave me EVERYTHING. But that's not what they had in mind . . .

    Noez 🇸🇪
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, thanks for the laugh 😆😆 An old fashioned man would be handy, hard working, dress properly, and respectful towards women, soooo... Give me a man like that and we might talk about me quitting my job!😊😊

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, the good old 1950's. When women wore dresses and pearls to vacuum the floor.

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    The 0s would be nice cause a couple could survive on just one paycheck

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    Mimi M
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men and women not understanding that not everyone physically enjoys casual sex, so we don't have it. It isn't because we have outdated morals or any issue with it, And we don't judge people who do enjoy it. we just don't get off on being with someone that we arent in an intimate relationship with. And it isn't a defect in our sexuality, and we arent 'demi' anything.

    Jay Loren
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now where is the "what men don't want from women" article? Or is that smexist? (I'm a female btw in case you were about to go ape ish on me)

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Al Bundy, are you paying attention?

    KoalaLa
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, couple of pumps, some jizz and a weak a*s 'was it good for you?"

    Ryutobi
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Care to enlighten me on how sex can be "lazy". That's a new one for me.

    Sjo Auga
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    God I'm so glad I'm lesbian. We atleast acknowledge that vaginal orgasms are rare than being struck by lightening and we can nut within 3 minutes it you just listen to her body and flick that bean. But nah men can't be bothered with that because it doesn't directly make them orgasm.

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    daniel280456
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sharing your intimate thoughts with the wrong woman is just giving her ammo for later.

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Wow this woman really drank the kool aid

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    Carol Emory
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or the inability to flush. Ffs, wipe the seat and lid, put the lid down and flush the damn toilet. How hard is that?

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, my son hasn't figured it out.

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    Ed Souza
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a guy and I agree with this one.

    LaDonna Hulcy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SIT YOUR A*S DOWN! it's not rocket science people!

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    Carol Emory
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any guy that tells me I should wear a dress, I tell them "You first."

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a boss who demanded that I wear dresses on the job "like the other girls." Well, those girls didn't work in a dirty warehouse like I did.

    Craig Lee
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    5 years ago

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    Sounds like you're dating guys based on how they look, rather than who they are inside. Guess what, that's hypocrisy at its finest. You reap what you sew. How about instead of dating guys that want to control you, date a guy who treats you well and respects you? Oh that's right, he's not hot enough for you. If you seriously don't get to know a guy before you're fully committed, that's just as much your fault. How about getting to know who someone is before spreading your legs? Relationships are a two way street, if neither of you spent the time getting to know who each other truly are, both of you deserve what you get.

    Little Wonder
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where did she mention dating? Women get this from friends, workmates, strangers in the street. She also didn't mention sex, but you seem to be a bit obsessed with it, frankly. Almost like you think women are all sluts.

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    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Er women do this all the time

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worse if they don't bother lifting it in the first place. 😬

    Maria Rohlen
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sit down to pee even if you'r a man, it's actually healthier!

    Sarah Kate Lamming
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My man does this and it's great... I never have to deal with "bad aim" puddles! He says he just prefers it... so we are both happy

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    Andres Tejeda
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a bit of a silly one. If the seat it is up, put it down. You're an adult, just like if a guys makes a puddle he should clean it up.

    Liam Walsh
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you flush you should put the lid down to stop germs flying free into the air. Makes the seat down or up point moot.

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    MADELEINE KIMBALL
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    eh... not always true. My mom really wanted this one kitchen appliance because it would help her baking business and she was really excited when she got it. On the other hand, it can also be a lame gift, and especially if she didn't say she wanted it.

    Little Wonder
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's a good rule of thumb, but some people DO want appliances and that's fine too! As long as they've said "I'd love a new iron" or "My toaster needs replacing and I'd love a new one". Know your crowd on this one I reckon.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I personally enjoy those kinds of gifts, because they're practical. I got a new popcorn air popper. My old one died, rest it's soul.

    Avital Pilpel
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disagree on this one. Some women like new appliances.

    Kurtz Frausun
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh how terrible. "I know you love to cook darling, and you're great at it, so I bought us a new stove with all the features you've been wanting."

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got a fancy espresso machine for my birthday from my fiance. I use it all the time and it’s awesome. I wouldn’t have got something like that for myself.

    Hanneke Legerstee
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband asked for an drying rack for the washing this year! Lol!

    misteriosa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think it's necessarily true. If a person is passionate about cooking and its gadgets, they'd feel excited they got sth like that more than if they got a perfume for example. Or if you know they need a new one, trust me, new useful appliance would make them more happy than any other semi-useful c**p. Though, kitchen gifts from one spouse to another, that's a no :D

    Kaisu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess if someone asks for one then it's fine to give one! But don't give your wife or mother appliances for Christmas otherwise

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    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Gell id love someone giving me expensive new appliances that has to be atleast 400 buvks

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    earringnut
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or that the pay gap is "fair."

    Justin Nixon
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    Where is at? Ive asked everyone i know about this and nobody has a single example. Show me evidence.

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    5 years ago

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    Not even if there are facts to back it up?

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    Carol Emory
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the main one. It's ok to tell a girl "Hey..I had fun..but I'm just not into you enough for a serious relationship." She will get it..and if she doesn't..then you can ghost her. Also..don't expect sex from a girl and then expect that she won't be burning up your phone. Because while you just saw it as a roll in the sack, we see it as the beginning of a relationship. The only reason you never told that to a girl up front was because she would most likely put the brakes on sex. So don't be surprised if the consequences of your dishonesty is a clingy girl. And, for the record, I've had guy friends with bennies. No commitment, great sex..but totally honest with each other.

    Andres Tejeda
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this one goes both ways though, people are just a******s.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to ghost a platonic friend. But then again, she was a stalker. I did try talking to her but she wouldn't listen.

    Ed Souza
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want the same from women... how ironic.

    Shawn
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    5 years ago

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    What men want is a non trifling b***h.

    Darcey Young
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't decide if you are just some silly incel troll who is mad at all womankind because he's not getting any, or if you are such a misogynist that the idea of women expressing their own opinions is damaging your fragile ego thus making you lash out with such venom. Either way I'm sure your mother would be really proud to know how you speak to people; I just hope that it's the anonymity of being a keyboard warrior that makes you feel able to express such toxicity for I would fear for any woman you come into contact with if you are this abusive in real life.

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    Bobby's Girl
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The question is, did she want it? If she did, then what exactly is the problem?

    Lorraine R
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They should have had her say, "Great! I am going to crush the triathlon this year!"

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They have no idea why you are not smiling more. Perhaps you just lost a loved one, or you are in pain, or your spouse left you, or your child was just diagnosed with cancer. MYOB

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    Batwench
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This picture just proves that Supernatural has a gif/pic for everything LOL

    Phi
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Crowley! We miss you <3

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like my Christmas list. Or my to-do list, whatever.

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    Kim Lee
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shawn, I'm pretty sure no one wants you here. You're either a lonely old creep or you're under 18 and trolling. Every single thing you have said is sexist and idiotic and adds nothing to the conversations here. All your comments are being downvoted and hidden, so you're only wasting your own time. That's sad

    Kim Lee
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For all those interested: Concerning Shawn, just ignore him. If you look him up, he's stupid enough to use the same nemisis98 username all over the internet and appears to be an under 21 'kid' that plays Overwatch on Twitch a lot. His "name" is Nemisis Dragneel from my FB dev search, but that's only his little fairy tale name since he doesn't live in reality outside of anime and video games (and is still immature enough to watch 'Shane Dawson gossip videos). He's in the Philippines.

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    Shawn
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    5 years ago

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    What men don't want from women, Control over their wallet in certain situations!! Unwanted pregnancy *cough, cough*

    Sunniva Jønsson
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go and make your own list then, rather than taking over this one:)

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    pusheen buttercup
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg!!! Agreed- from anyone it's bad. Is it on your head? No? Then f**k off.

    *MINTYMOONS*🌸
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i have short hair on my head and long hair on ma pits and idc what any man thinks about that btw i loaf ur user Screenshot...9a2f82.png Screenshot-2020-01-01-at-21148-AM-5e0f07f9a2f82.png

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    Sarah Kate Lamming
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really hate the way men feel it's ok to say they like women with long hair or without make up, or in skirts not jeans... I don't get why they think they have a say! When I was first with my partner I was contemplating a big hair change and I asked him if he would mind... he looked at me as if I'd grown three heads... and told me that what I did with my hair was totally up to me and that he loved me not my haircut. It was a revelation to me. Together we have worked through all sorts of issues I had gathered from previous relationships. I didn't realise how much I'd allowed people to alter my world view just because of their own insecurities.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, people are absolutely not in the wrong for saying they like a certain look.

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    Pittsburgh rare
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've NEVER had a man commenting on my hair. Not even my bf after a (very) noticeable hair cut 😂😂 So this is news for me

    John Louis
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a question: I complimented a woman on her beautiful hair (it was gorgeous). Is that wrong?

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the situation. Was it a friend of yours or something? Because that’s totally fine. Or if it was a situation where people were mingling that’s fine too. It’s creepy and lame if you just walked up to a stranger in the grocery store or something and said that.

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    Sasy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am going to side with guys on this...in so many movies tv shows etc Women get upset that the guy does not notice their new hairdo, like all the time it is hilarious how often, that has to be programmed into some to feel as though they are genuinely complimenting, trying hard to pay attention etc.

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    Aki Ryosuke
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is also what women don’t want from other women lmao

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s worse from other women honestly. Just SIT on the f*****g toilet seat so we can all sit. All that hovering to pee and then MISSING and not even wiping it up is disgusting and ruins public restrooms.

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    Annabell H.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why has every comment been downvoted here? I just don’t get it. Except for Shawn’s comments, I get that

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn’t want someone to be leading such a separate life from mine that there was such a thing as “my money” and “his money.” We live in the same house, have the same bills, eat the same food. It’s gross to me that people act like that about money rather than just pooling resources like an actual family / couple.

    BusLady
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    daniel280456
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until it's time to ask for alimony.

    Shawn
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    Good then pay for your dinner and shut the f**k up.. but yet every b***h expects a man to pay for every date except that one rare m**********r.

    Darcey Young
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What women want: not to have men get all angry and deny the existence of a problem lots of us face just because they haven't experience themselves... to not be sworn at, called abusive names and threatened by men who don't know how to disagree with a statement in any other way.

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    Julia King
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first boyfriend used like 10 of these. Should've been the first red flag. :(

    Shawn
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    Hardly anybody uses cheesy pick up lines and most guys don't want to come up and just introduce themselves. Cause 18 out of 20 women approached would end up just being a straight up b***h to the guy taking the chance to come up and try to introduce himself.

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    5 years ago

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    What men don't want is womanspalining..

    slackjack
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    That's what this whole article is!

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    Annabell H.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought for a second that it was like a patronus... I’d be flattered if I were someone’s Patronus lmao

    Shawn
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    Guess what men don't want that either.. nobody f*****g does!

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    Zoe's Mom
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Boy Shawn..you some issues or maybe you just don't like women and that's okay but no need to be so ugly.

    Evil Little Thing
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe he is warming up for the mansplaining conference in Florida this spring?

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    Shawn
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    Like women vsnt be f*****g controlling.. bwahaha these whole post is nothing to equality it's more I wanna be elevated over you cause I'm a women.. if equality and fair treatment was the goal then on stuff that goes both ways they wouldn't act or make it sound as tho only women recieve this treatment yet never dole it out..

    Chu Yue Ling
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some women can be terribly controlling, evil, and abusive. I think the post is meant to be specific to women's views on conventional sexism though. I'd say it goes without saying no one wants abuse or control from either side. Personally I think a man's protective instinct should be encouraged and I appreciate gentlemanly gestures. Some have had very bad experiences though. Both should be respectful and polite to each other, of course.

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    Daria B
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one depends on the situation, but it really does sound gross indeed when used as merely synonymous to "women".

    Zoe's Mom
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be called 'chick'. URGH!!!

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of the time it can be condescending and I don't like it in the professional environment. Just call us women, girls implies less experienced and educated.

    Hotdogking
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call females girls because I'm a teenager and mainly around girls. If this offense you I'm sorry

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, I think being called a “woman” still feels weird. Seems like something you call an older person. Girl is just a description of gender. I prefer girl.

    Sasy
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most women will say girls, I am going out with the girls, had the girls over, the girls and I etc, all of those sound weird with Women instead.

    Lea S.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh damn. I like being called firk

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is when you say "Buh bye."

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody cares what some lying a*s ghetto trash pro life misogynist thinks. It has no right to be on this list and BP should be ashamed for not checking this better.

    Shawn
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    5 years ago

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    What men don't want from women is to be forced to pay for SOMETHING WE DON'T WANT, Yet if we're want the child and yall don't. Welp bye bye it's gonna be killed! Yeah that's not fair so f**k off c***s.

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    pusheen buttercup
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *hides collection of stuffed cat plushies* ... Ok, so not all grown women like them- and I can see how that could be taken the wrong way- but I have been dropping hints at my bf to get me a stuffed animal for years!! Can we trade

    The Random Merp
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ikr!!! My mom's favorite gifts are those little Gudetama plushies and keychains. She loves to put them around her kitchen, and even has one on her car ring.

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    Chu Yue Ling
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love cuddly toys...!!

    Carol Emory
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey! I like stuffed animals!! I'm also very proud of my Minion collection!!

    Georgia Valentine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or any generic gendered gift unless you know they'll like it. How hard is it to find out what someone likes?!

    Annabell H.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love plushies they’re so cute I’d accept plushies

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my plushies! They stay on my bed.

    Marge Flanders
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would not object to a baby yoda stuffed toy

    Octavia Hansen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better to get a stuffed animal instead of them assuming you're lonely and they dump a REAL animal/pet on you . . . another thing to take care of!

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