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Recently we've shared a look into the bedrooms of Americans, and today the house tour continues. This time it's thanks to a Milwaukee-based professional photographer called Lois Bielefeld, who traveled the States (and parts of Luxembourg) documenting people during their Weeknight dinnertimes, revealing the amazing variety of people and their habits.
“I’m super nosy about people’s habits,” Lois explained to Feature Shoot. “I’ve always craved going into people’s homes- it’s inspiring, curious. It gives so many sometimes subtle and sometimes blatant insights about someone, and I just love to reveal that in my photography art.”
Some of the people you see have already been featured in her other photo series, but some are complete strangers to the photographer, found online and through old-fashioned info bulletins.
The only instructions Bielefeld shared with everyone was to go about their dinner plans as they normally would on any given weeknight, capturing the ordinary meals and the casualness of the whole thing.
While Lois suspected that some people did put extra effort in preparing for that particular dinner meals, she doesn't mind, because it only gives the series new layers to explore.
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Thursday: Frances & Joan
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#2
Monday: Joalice
CelSlade 8 years ago
I know you guys are all being kind, and that is very sweet, but I think assuming she is lonely is a mistake. I am alone by choice and often eat alone, and I know many other people who are the same. Being alone is not always the same as being lonely. I've been married twice and was more lonely during those marriages than I have ever been when I am on my own. Some of us just prefer our own companionship.
#3
Wednesday: Willie Mae
#4
Wednesday: Norbert & Marie-Josée
#5
Monday: Zoe, Dave, Emma, And Karen
#6
Monday: Rina And Giuseppe
#7
Monday: Steven And Jomo
#8
Tuesday: Alex, Sophia, Kathy, David, Claudia, Eva & Ana
Beatrice Alighieri 8 years ago
This one looks quite disturbing. A fancy dining room with a single casserole on the table, a father with a blank stare, a mother with a "help me" stare, and kids with various faces ranging from "What am I doing here?" to "Is that the face I'm supposed to make?".
#9
Wednesday: Marc & Jan
#10
Wednesday: Glynis, Liam, Jorin, And Mona
Embel Stee 8 years ago
I love eating on the floor while watching t.v. as well. It's the same as our family.
Phemonoe 153 8 years ago
Dinner time isn't the only time you can bond with your family. We get very hangry. Dinner is always with a favorite show, then tv goes off and full attention is on conversation and activities. Relax people. There are lots of ways to bond.
Linda Jaeschke Edwards 7 years ago
I’d say they look like a close family and eating on the floor is not an every night occurrence.
Will Graham 7 years ago
So many people disagree with a family meal in front of the TV. Yes not every night, but once in a while. Especially when we complain about families not talking, yet "stop talking with your mouthful" is what my son and I get from my wife 😃
Kikka io 8 years ago
ugly habit eating with all the attention spotted on television. apart from the fact that it digs much worse, but also the chance to face the family goes to the devil like that. you can do it once for a very special thing that everyone wants to see, but it must be really a one-off
Dana Dara 8 years ago
Sad that this recommend is downvoted. It shows what America has come to.
Load More Replies... Vanellope Buttercup 8 years ago
It's just a little sad that they're all watching TV instead of talking to each other. Although this can be an awesome family dinner from time to time ;)
Helie Santillan Salazar Bautista 8 years ago
I believed these are staged pictures. Dinnertime across America are happy time, and have not encounter otherwise.
Denise Payne 8 years ago
You would prefer they all sit at the same table and stare at individual screens?
Krystine Patterson 8 years ago
Jeez, use a table much? No family bonding here...how was your day, shhh, watching Fox News.
Mihaela Staicu 8 years ago
I don't like this family. Dinnertime is very important, just to feel that you have a family around you, not a TV kimg.
#12
Thursday: David And Cathy
#13
Wednesday: Kathy
#14
Tuesday: Seynabou, Rui James And Marie
#15
Wednesday: Danno And Amelia
#16
Monday: Paul & Linda
#17
Monday: David, Felix, & Dani
#18
Tuesday: John And Janet
#19
Wednesday: Nathaniel
#20
Wednesday: Natalia And Maryanne
#22
Wednesday: Summer
#23
Wednesday: Ernesto
#24
Monday: Dennis & Denise
#25
Monday: Joel And Florence
#26
Tuesday: Cheri & Allen
#27
Monday: Nuco
#28
Tuesday: Juanita And John
#29
Monday: Eric And Sally
#30
Thursday: Bob, Franki, And Joe
#31
Wednesday: Leo And Michael
#32
Wednesday: Colin And Makeal
Rebecca Marvel 8 years ago
I love the furniture "on a budget". Lawn chair and the wood/wicker table/chair was probably found on the curb or for $1 at a yard sale. Been there, done that!
#33
Monday: Jude
#34
Wednesday: Emilio, Rhonda, Benedetto, Skylrae, Jacomo
#35
Wednesday: Irena And Steve
#36
Tuesday: Alden & Alan
#37
Wednesday: Brandy And John
#38
Tuesday: Matt And Ruth
#39
Wednesday: Bruce, Heather And Wyatt
Eleanor Orser 8 years ago
Most of these photos are sad and depressing. Many alone, lots of pills, lots of pre pkg meals. Many not eating at a table or together in same room. The pictures portray dark and gloomy looking meal times. My childhood memories were loud, everyone talking and lots of laughing. Perhaps not the fine manners some think a meal should be but it was catching up on everyone's day and family time together. Miss those days!
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Debra Wheels 8 years ago
There is only 1 identifiably "elderly" person eating alone. And eating alone isn't sad. About 40% of this country does this on a regular basis. It is actually kind of nice, to make exactly what you want, in exactly the right amounts, when you want, and to eat in your own cozy home. After decades of shopping and cooking for other people, and catering to their tastes and desires, it's really peaceful - and even indulgent - to cook many of my meals to suit myself alone, and eat in my pretty house, maybe with some music playing, or a magazine or book. Eating alone doesn't necessarily mean loneliness.
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George Porter 8 years ago
It could have been titled "Misery Across America" or "Supper After the Funeral" or "Photos for Wrist-Slitters" or "How America Meets Death" I can hardly wait for the depression to set in.
Nancy E 8 years ago
I was fascinated by the people , the food they ate , their surroundings , & their dining habits. I learned from all of this how people's dining has changed. I grew up around a table with lively discussions, laughter, & sharing of one's day. When do many of these families do that ?
Maya N 8 years ago
same here... also saddened by how many people with kids are not around a table.. eating in front of TV, on the floor..
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KT Trondsen 8 years ago
I find most of these to be rather depressing to look at. Most of the families look miserable, angry, or exasperated. It is deliberately depressing I think, so not really a good form of art, there should be variety of families, not just looking for unhealthy ones and trying to display it as most families
Abygayle Donovan 8 years ago
These people don't look very happy, most of them don't look like they are even speaking to each other.
Ayra 8 years ago
I'm looking at them while sitting in front of my computer... eating dinner... kind of ironic ^^'
Enomfon Asuquo 8 years ago
It's really cool to see the different personalities come out through their bedrooms.
Stephen Bloch 8 years ago
Gorgeous pictures. Incredible lighting. So many families don't ever sit down to dinner together, so why is this depressing an many of you indicated???
Allana Rose 8 years ago
Yes, I am beginning to wonder if the photographer told them to look serious and set the lighting to make everything look gloomy as hell. My family was loud and we all talked and laughed at the dinner table. It was a time that we shared our day. We caught up on the news and what was happening. Sometimes we fought or had a lecture that made dinner an uncomfortable time, but that was life! What most of these photo's lack is LIFE!
cyberbird 8 years ago
Thank you all for allowing us invade the intimacy of your sacred home and family space, hope you enjoy your metal.
Marcella Potts-Fletcher 8 years ago
They are definitely NOT all in the USA based upon the products on the table. There is one that jumped out at me that had a tub of margarine that is available in Europe.
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This Is Me 8 years ago
This is deliberately dark & depressing. Why? Personally, I like my art to be uplifting. Reality is tough right now. Maybe the photographer reminded them who's leading the US right now.
Pobin Rice 8 years ago
Great stuff......needs more information such as WHERE?? A little BACKGROUND STORY etc etc
Jennifer Richardson 8 years ago
Agreed. When the title is "how different dinnertime looks across the USA"and then doesn't actually list ANY state or city names, I feel a little annoyed. I actually really wanted to know where some of these were!
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Karen Waddell Butler 7 years ago
I hope there are families who gather around the table (without) t.v. to enjoy their families during dinner.
Sandra Drummond 7 years ago
Were these pics taken in the 80’s? The homes look so outdated. Everyone looks so miserable.
Kristy Stauffer 7 years ago
It's actually depressing. It makes them look like they hate being together or eating anything. The ones that are not smiling or distant from each other, the ones alone seem to be like eh what ever. The couple's seem to be distant and the families look like their pissed off. It makes me think of not enough food to go around the dinner table and their going hungry. others make me think at their own will or they are forced to be there against their being. Others just seem a lone basically or distant from the world. Each of us have a story to share some say it in expression and in looks and this was like depressing. I felt sad for these people. Maybe the photographer told them to be serious or give the expression of day to day life but the faces tell I all like I am exhausted, tired , lonely, Moody, anxious etc. People live lives that are unexplainable to others and tell stories with their facial expressions. My opinion anyways.
Andy Popov 7 years ago
I like photo #8, it is best on my taste. <3 <3 There is also one more photo number 10, where all the family is sitting just on the floor. It looks like it is not USA, as if it is - Kazakhstan! Ha-ha-ha!
Anthony Mitchell 8 years ago
I find it interesting how American's have large bowls of food and plates and take food from them in the UK we plate the food directly onto the dinner plates much less space taken on the table and much less dish washing too!
Jennifer Richardson 8 years ago
A generalization: Everyone likes peas. Everyone eats in the dark. Everybody looks so unhappy.
Malinda Washburn 8 years ago
Makes me wonder what people would think of my family's dinner time. We have no dinner table, so we all sit in our living room chairs with our laptops while we watch TV.
Nicole Holt 8 years ago
Yeah, they all look like they hate life. There's no way everybody is always this unhappy. Come on!
Glynis Lailann 8 years ago
It is interesting to see what people have for supper. One third of the photos show balanced meals sitting at their dinner tables, others show fast food (with I think is terrible) and the others show very dis-jointed families, couples and individuals eating in front of the computer, TV on the floor. I was brought up to believe that supper times were shared family times when you connected with each other with no outside distractions.
Hanna 8 years ago
Horribly depressing photos. Bad decorators too. Gosh some of these pictures look like these people live in the 60s. Most of them also look like they don't really take care of themselves. Just not a pleasant photo shoot. If that was what the photographer was aiming for... he succeeded.
Laura Mish 8 years ago
Smile more.....really. And put some damn lights on. Where’s the “families” at a regular kitchen table? I understand that’s not how it is for everyone, but some of that could have been added in just to show different dinnertimes. This is mostly people eating alone or middle aged-older men and women. Boring.
Cindy Larkin 8 years ago
Jude made me sad. The empty chair and walker next to her, was she eating alone because she had lost her partner?
Jillian Leigh 8 years ago
Why do they all look so miserable?? Guessing it was a direction from the photographer...at least hoping so, haha! Bizarre.
Morgan O'Rourke 8 years ago
I don't know why but I started looking at their feet - bare feet, socks, slippers, shoes - I need my shoes off at home - I couldn't eat at home while wearing shoes - not relaxing for me
Andrew Petersen 8 years ago
The lighting and interiors almost all look like they were from the 1970s. Very set up shots.
Kent Clayton 8 years ago
I'm sure the lack of smiles is purposeful, however I don't understand why. In my experience people normally smile at meals, or at least don't look so glum.
CelSlade 8 years ago
I found this very staged and seemingly deliberately depressing. I agree with all the comments saying that everyone seemed like they were told not to smile. It felt like they were told to not move or breathe either. Don't know what the photographer was going for, but if it was a representation of average life on an average night, I think they completely missed the mark.
Helie Santillan Salazar Bautista 8 years ago
These pictures are staged. Not the Dinner Across America, I know and observed!
Helie Santillan Salazar Bautista 8 years ago
I do not believe in any of these pictures. These are not the looks of dinner across America that I experienced and I know!. I honestly believed these are staged pictures. Dinner are always a happy time whether you are by eating by yourself or with company. LOL! :D
Gordon Driscoll 8 years ago
Eating together, aka 'Breaking Bread Together' is essential, to any kind of cohesive relationship... I grew up, with the 'family meal' I carry on that tradition, even if it's just two of us. I recently saw , a Family that 'ate at will', with no unity, fall completely apart...but, I'm sure that has nothing to do with anything ...there was a total lack of any real communication in the house... It starts, at the table.
Shirley Wilson 8 years ago
These def look staged! Hopefully no-one is that unhappy at meal time. My husband and I are in our seventies, We eat a sit down meal together every night, We still chat and enjoy each others company. Our children rarely visit especially for meals. The younger generation have too many food fetishes.Vegan, Vegetarian, gluten free, Most of them have imaginary food allergies. We use to like to have people over for meals or make and bake and send to our neighbors. Now we don't bother, but we still enjoy normal food and each others company.
Dorothy DeCann 8 years ago
I get Ernesto's life. A lot of people had proper dining rooms, kitchens, and couches, and most were in a house. Made me realize how poor we are. A lot of these dinners though, you can tell something is wrong with the family due to the distance from each other, and a few look like divorces waiting to happen.
Christine Claytor 8 years ago
these are interesting, but for the most part they really only show one segment of society...there are MUCH poorer people, metropolitans out on the town, cafeteria people, people eating over desks at work...could've been much more broad...interesting just boring
Sill Marien 8 years ago
Ok, first things first- pictures are very good. Now, how about don't eat so heavy fat food, and lots of it in the evening? The whole concept of "dinner" seems unhealthy to me
Isabel Tamayo 8 years ago
I have nothing against the photos but I hope you can get the chance to visit somewhere in Asia... Southeast, East... And try to capture their dinner time :)
Sijan Kolay 8 years ago
even in my family nobody eats dinner at the same time... my brother after coming work eats his oatmeal on the bed, me after he is done in the living room, my dad also in the living room when he's home after 11oclock and my mother at last....
Patrick McKenna 8 years ago
I love this project (thank you lois) , I love bored panada, and I love America.
Susan Forbes 8 years ago
I kinda wonder if the photo was taken with low lighting and a long exposure to account for the seriousness
Angela George 8 years ago
WoW !1 everybody is really eating veggies these days !1 every plate just about had them on it !!
Whitney Kay 8 years ago
So many of these look depressing. Not Leo and Michael though. TV and white wine. They know what's up. (Photo #30)
Daria B 8 years ago
I thought this was interesting. It shows us a side of the U.S.A. that we are not accustomed to see in their films and series.
Load More Replies... Debra Wheels 8 years ago
There is only 1 identifiably "elderly" person eating alone. And eating alone isn't sad. About 40% of this country does this on a regular basis. It is actually kind of nice, to make exactly what you want, in exactly the right amounts, when you want, and to eat in your own cozy home. After decades of shopping and cooking for other people, and catering to their tastes and desires, it's really peaceful - and even indulgent - to cook many of my meals to suit myself alone, and eat in my pretty house, maybe with some music playing, or a magazine or book. Eating alone doesn't necessarily mean loneliness.
Load More Replies... George Porter 8 years ago
It could have been titled "Misery Across America" or "Supper After the Funeral" or "Photos for Wrist-Slitters" or "How America Meets Death" I can hardly wait for the depression to set in.
Nancy E 8 years ago
I was fascinated by the people , the food they ate , their surroundings , & their dining habits. I learned from all of this how people's dining has changed. I grew up around a table with lively discussions, laughter, & sharing of one's day. When do many of these families do that ?
Maya N 8 years ago
same here... also saddened by how many people with kids are not around a table.. eating in front of TV, on the floor..
Load More Replies... KT Trondsen 8 years ago
I find most of these to be rather depressing to look at. Most of the families look miserable, angry, or exasperated. It is deliberately depressing I think, so not really a good form of art, there should be variety of families, not just looking for unhealthy ones and trying to display it as most families
Abygayle Donovan 8 years ago
These people don't look very happy, most of them don't look like they are even speaking to each other.
Ayra 8 years ago
I'm looking at them while sitting in front of my computer... eating dinner... kind of ironic ^^'
Enomfon Asuquo 8 years ago
It's really cool to see the different personalities come out through their bedrooms.
Stephen Bloch 8 years ago
Gorgeous pictures. Incredible lighting. So many families don't ever sit down to dinner together, so why is this depressing an many of you indicated???
Allana Rose 8 years ago
Yes, I am beginning to wonder if the photographer told them to look serious and set the lighting to make everything look gloomy as hell. My family was loud and we all talked and laughed at the dinner table. It was a time that we shared our day. We caught up on the news and what was happening. Sometimes we fought or had a lecture that made dinner an uncomfortable time, but that was life! What most of these photo's lack is LIFE!
cyberbird 8 years ago
Thank you all for allowing us invade the intimacy of your sacred home and family space, hope you enjoy your metal.
Marcella Potts-Fletcher 8 years ago
They are definitely NOT all in the USA based upon the products on the table. There is one that jumped out at me that had a tub of margarine that is available in Europe.
Load More Replies... This Is Me 8 years ago
This is deliberately dark & depressing. Why? Personally, I like my art to be uplifting. Reality is tough right now. Maybe the photographer reminded them who's leading the US right now.
Pobin Rice 8 years ago
Great stuff......needs more information such as WHERE?? A little BACKGROUND STORY etc etc
Jennifer Richardson 8 years ago
Agreed. When the title is "how different dinnertime looks across the USA"and then doesn't actually list ANY state or city names, I feel a little annoyed. I actually really wanted to know where some of these were!
Load More Replies... Karen Waddell Butler 7 years ago
I hope there are families who gather around the table (without) t.v. to enjoy their families during dinner.
Sandra Drummond 7 years ago
Were these pics taken in the 80’s? The homes look so outdated. Everyone looks so miserable.
Kristy Stauffer 7 years ago
It's actually depressing. It makes them look like they hate being together or eating anything. The ones that are not smiling or distant from each other, the ones alone seem to be like eh what ever. The couple's seem to be distant and the families look like their pissed off. It makes me think of not enough food to go around the dinner table and their going hungry. others make me think at their own will or they are forced to be there against their being. Others just seem a lone basically or distant from the world. Each of us have a story to share some say it in expression and in looks and this was like depressing. I felt sad for these people. Maybe the photographer told them to be serious or give the expression of day to day life but the faces tell I all like I am exhausted, tired , lonely, Moody, anxious etc. People live lives that are unexplainable to others and tell stories with their facial expressions. My opinion anyways.
Andy Popov 7 years ago
I like photo #8, it is best on my taste. <3 <3 There is also one more photo number 10, where all the family is sitting just on the floor. It looks like it is not USA, as if it is - Kazakhstan! Ha-ha-ha!
Anthony Mitchell 8 years ago
I find it interesting how American's have large bowls of food and plates and take food from them in the UK we plate the food directly onto the dinner plates much less space taken on the table and much less dish washing too!
Jennifer Richardson 8 years ago
A generalization: Everyone likes peas. Everyone eats in the dark. Everybody looks so unhappy.
Malinda Washburn 8 years ago
Makes me wonder what people would think of my family's dinner time. We have no dinner table, so we all sit in our living room chairs with our laptops while we watch TV.
Nicole Holt 8 years ago
Yeah, they all look like they hate life. There's no way everybody is always this unhappy. Come on!
Glynis Lailann 8 years ago
It is interesting to see what people have for supper. One third of the photos show balanced meals sitting at their dinner tables, others show fast food (with I think is terrible) and the others show very dis-jointed families, couples and individuals eating in front of the computer, TV on the floor. I was brought up to believe that supper times were shared family times when you connected with each other with no outside distractions.
Hanna 8 years ago
Horribly depressing photos. Bad decorators too. Gosh some of these pictures look like these people live in the 60s. Most of them also look like they don't really take care of themselves. Just not a pleasant photo shoot. If that was what the photographer was aiming for... he succeeded.
Laura Mish 8 years ago
Smile more.....really. And put some damn lights on. Where’s the “families” at a regular kitchen table? I understand that’s not how it is for everyone, but some of that could have been added in just to show different dinnertimes. This is mostly people eating alone or middle aged-older men and women. Boring.
Cindy Larkin 8 years ago
Jude made me sad. The empty chair and walker next to her, was she eating alone because she had lost her partner?
Jillian Leigh 8 years ago
Why do they all look so miserable?? Guessing it was a direction from the photographer...at least hoping so, haha! Bizarre.
Morgan O'Rourke 8 years ago
I don't know why but I started looking at their feet - bare feet, socks, slippers, shoes - I need my shoes off at home - I couldn't eat at home while wearing shoes - not relaxing for me
Andrew Petersen 8 years ago
The lighting and interiors almost all look like they were from the 1970s. Very set up shots.
Kent Clayton 8 years ago
I'm sure the lack of smiles is purposeful, however I don't understand why. In my experience people normally smile at meals, or at least don't look so glum.
CelSlade 8 years ago
I found this very staged and seemingly deliberately depressing. I agree with all the comments saying that everyone seemed like they were told not to smile. It felt like they were told to not move or breathe either. Don't know what the photographer was going for, but if it was a representation of average life on an average night, I think they completely missed the mark.
Helie Santillan Salazar Bautista 8 years ago
These pictures are staged. Not the Dinner Across America, I know and observed!
Helie Santillan Salazar Bautista 8 years ago
I do not believe in any of these pictures. These are not the looks of dinner across America that I experienced and I know!. I honestly believed these are staged pictures. Dinner are always a happy time whether you are by eating by yourself or with company. LOL! :D
Gordon Driscoll 8 years ago
Eating together, aka 'Breaking Bread Together' is essential, to any kind of cohesive relationship... I grew up, with the 'family meal' I carry on that tradition, even if it's just two of us. I recently saw , a Family that 'ate at will', with no unity, fall completely apart...but, I'm sure that has nothing to do with anything ...there was a total lack of any real communication in the house... It starts, at the table.
Shirley Wilson 8 years ago
These def look staged! Hopefully no-one is that unhappy at meal time. My husband and I are in our seventies, We eat a sit down meal together every night, We still chat and enjoy each others company. Our children rarely visit especially for meals. The younger generation have too many food fetishes.Vegan, Vegetarian, gluten free, Most of them have imaginary food allergies. We use to like to have people over for meals or make and bake and send to our neighbors. Now we don't bother, but we still enjoy normal food and each others company.
Dorothy DeCann 8 years ago
I get Ernesto's life. A lot of people had proper dining rooms, kitchens, and couches, and most were in a house. Made me realize how poor we are. A lot of these dinners though, you can tell something is wrong with the family due to the distance from each other, and a few look like divorces waiting to happen.
Christine Claytor 8 years ago
these are interesting, but for the most part they really only show one segment of society...there are MUCH poorer people, metropolitans out on the town, cafeteria people, people eating over desks at work...could've been much more broad...interesting just boring
Sill Marien 8 years ago
Ok, first things first- pictures are very good. Now, how about don't eat so heavy fat food, and lots of it in the evening? The whole concept of "dinner" seems unhealthy to me
Isabel Tamayo 8 years ago
I have nothing against the photos but I hope you can get the chance to visit somewhere in Asia... Southeast, East... And try to capture their dinner time :)
Sijan Kolay 8 years ago
even in my family nobody eats dinner at the same time... my brother after coming work eats his oatmeal on the bed, me after he is done in the living room, my dad also in the living room when he's home after 11oclock and my mother at last....
Patrick McKenna 8 years ago
I love this project (thank you lois) , I love bored panada, and I love America.
Susan Forbes 8 years ago
I kinda wonder if the photo was taken with low lighting and a long exposure to account for the seriousness
Angela George 8 years ago
WoW !1 everybody is really eating veggies these days !1 every plate just about had them on it !!
Whitney Kay 8 years ago
So many of these look depressing. Not Leo and Michael though. TV and white wine. They know what's up. (Photo #30)
Daria B 8 years ago
I thought this was interesting. It shows us a side of the U.S.A. that we are not accustomed to see in their films and series.
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