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Weddings are one thing. But the juicy wedding anecdotes that get passed around from guests in real life is another. From fussy bridezillas to nightmarish decor, hilarious invitations, accidents, "what da heck was dat" moments, and even full-blown fights… Some people live for the nuptial gossip.
And the chances are they belong to this quirky online community that deliberately targets some shame-worthy weddings. Captioned "let’s shame those weddings," the subreddit r/weddingshaming is the online home for roasting wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding parties, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors, and more. “You name it, we shame it!” states the community’s description.
Created in 2018, the controversial subreddit now has 151k members who love digging through anything wedding-related. So let’s take a look at what they dug up and shamed down below.
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#1
Imma Use This One Sometime
Full of Giggles 5 years ago
Dude should have hoped in the plane and flown as far away as he could from this girl.
Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
My hubby proposed while I was sweaty, in eyeglasses, wearing bike shorts, and cramming for exams... in my dorm room. It's the marriage, not the wedding'/ proposal, folks!
స్టీఫెన్ ఆండ్రూ 5 years ago
This stinks of the idea that the proposal is all about her and what she can brag to her friends about later. A proposal should be a special moment between two people rather than an event which makes one (or both) parties feel like a celebrity for a fleeting moment.
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#2
Photographer Shaming A Guest
Rabbit Carrot 5 years ago
I guess it depends. At my wedding I was glad my guests took photos as my photographer turned out to be awful. 😭
Louloubelle 5 years ago
Maybe he was awful because the guests got in his way? Chicken and egg?
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YupItsMe1234 5 years ago
But but but, facebook likes! How else will she get reminded that she is important if the little red icon by facebook doesn't notify her that somebody likes her every couple of minutes?
Johnny 5 years ago
She's not even taking a picture, that photo on her iPhone screen doesn't match the actual scene.
Chris Sprucefield 5 years ago
Had a good few of these... The funniest one was the couple asking me afterwards - we saw you after the wedding during the group shots, but nowhere before or after... were you even there?? We're not paying for this! (until I showed them the 1500 odd pictures from nearly every angle and moment throughout the wedding of them and their guests, plus a bunch of video clips of important moments - they though I was part of the catering staff, as I dressed up as them to completely blend in). They, their parents and guests had all the pics available online for browsing as they arrived on their honey moon..
AzKhaleesi 5 years ago
I do photography on the side, and if you're a good photographer you know how to get around people with phones, or you tell the bride / groom that there are no phones allowed during the ceremony. It's not that difficult. And to be honest, my iPhone sadly takes just as good if not better pictures than my 1k camera does. lol. But in the end, people want the professional look of a bulky camera. Also if you're good at editing you can edit that person out.
Traci-Ann Dis 5 years ago
that iPhone is not taking a photo of the bride and her dad (though dad looks like the groom?) look at it again. I call shenanigans on this photo
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Just Hope There Isn’t A Third...
Malakai 5 years ago
Idk, if the couple has a good sense of humor it might go over well
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MellonCollie 5 years ago
LOL. It could be funny if the groom & new bride have a sense of humor. Otherwise you're risking greatly.
chi-wei shen 5 years ago
It's not ok because not everyone is back. The people on the side of the bride are new to this.
Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
Not always! Several entries higher up are about this, "my ex marrying my ex-BFF" etc.
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Ronel du Plessis 5 years ago
Since my brother-in-law is a real player and dated every single girl in our small town, I wanted to RSVP "maybe your next one". No I did not, was very tempted to so...
The world of wedding shaming offers real-life drama combined with sassiness and a fair share of roasting, all in the comfort of a virtual environment. Groups like the “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming” Facebook group, which has 80.6k members, and the r/weddingshaming subreddit with 153k members have become somewhat of a phenomenon in the past 2 years. It turns out there’s something universally irresistible about ripping apart someone’s supposed best day of their lives.
Luna, the moderator from Australia at “That’s it, I’m wedding shaming,” told Wired that “There’s something about weddings, whether you’re invited or not, that just brings out the worst in people.” She suggested that this is precisely what gives the group a feel similar to reality TV shows.
This online shaming trend became a hit back in August 2018 when a post from a group shamed a bride for asking her guests to pay about $1,500 towards her wedding. The story went viral after it was shared by model and social media star Chrissy Teigen.
#4
4 Weddings And A Cat Party
Bengü Taşkesen 5 years ago
No sane cat person would take their cats to a wedding, firstly out of concern for the cats.
Team Tokyo 5 years ago
There might have been people that were allergic to cats at the wedding though...
Load More Replies... Fieke Engelen 5 years ago
I would love to hear the end of that wedding. So feeling for that poor bride
Leigh Hogan 5 years ago
I mean, I'm feeling for her since stress caused her not to understand the florist has no interest in bringing her cats, but she's also so far off the mark, not comprehending that some flowers will require greater care and effort than others for the florist.
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#5
Found On Twitter
Katrina B. 5 years ago
A lot of couples do it to put information on local hotels, directions to the venue for both the ceremony and reception (if they're in two different places). They also link their wedding registries. Sometimes a couple includes fun things to do in the area (My brother did that for his).
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FABULOUS1 5 years ago
I believe in karma and I believe your ex and best friend will get theirs. My daughters ex after 8 years and her best friend of 12 just had a child together and are expecting their second. Its rather sad and funny, the girl has mimicked everything my daughter has done, car she drove, changed to her hair color, moved in to her apartment complex, the list goes on.
Marvin HoG 5 years ago
Nah you should absolutely show up and make a speech telling the magical story of how they met.
Cheryl Skina 5 years ago
Both need to be reminded of the old saying, how you get them is how you lose them...
Naomi Armitage 5 years ago
Sounds like the guy who stole my idea for a Facebook group, and when he was interviewed by his local paper about HIS group, he said he got the idea from "a friend". I don't know this clown from a hole in the ground, nor do I want to.
Ashley Wright 5 years ago
If there’s an option to comment on their “wedding website” 🙄 by all means, do. And set the record straight.
#6
Bride Cancels Vendor For Supporting Black Lives Matter
Marilyn Ransberry 4 years ago
Non refundable. They’ll be throwing away that $ on the lawyer.
Load More Replies... Katy McMouse 5 years ago
That's a class move. Hope their " attorney" shut down this entitled, ignorant pursuit or made way more in legal fees than the deposit this moron put down.
blugeagua 5 years ago
Yes....... "all" lives matter and that obviously includes black lives. Therefore you should have no issue supporting blm.
Cheryl Fontaine 5 years ago
oh good, another racist, bigoted couple getting married who will no doubt breed and bring more trash like themselves to the planet.
But many people are not so positive about this new trend, claiming that “beneath those silly nuptial stories lies an online playground of hate.”
Bored Panda reached out to Darlene Lancer, clinical psychologist and the author of “Codependency for Dummies” and “Conquering Shame and Codependency.” Darlene said that wedding haters and shamers are not members of a “hate group,” according to the FBI.
She explained: “hate groups” direct their hatred against a particular race, religion, gender, ethnic group, or people of a particular sexual orientation. The FBI investigates these hate groups to protect democracy and individual liberty.” In that sense, wedding shamers are not one of them.
#7
This Is Terrible
Raine Soo 5 years ago
"Hey! Why let a little inconvenience such as COVID spoil our big day?" was the general concensus of the wedding party. This how COVID multiplies at an exponential rate.
Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
At least it will be memorable. "Honey, what was our wedding date?" "Three weeks before your auntie died, so that was last week of August... 23?" "Ah yes, right".
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J. Normal 5 years ago
I have been called every nasty name in the book , for reporting non-compliance... I am at a point why bother. I will stay home, order online, and VOTE in person! I am old and pissed
Raine Soo 5 years ago
J. Normal: You did your civic duty. Those people cited for non-compliance should be ashamed of themselves.
Load More Replies... Stannous Flouride 5 years ago
Can you imagine a national 'leader' doing something as needlessly stupid as exposing the people closest to him to such a virulent disease?
Naomi Armitage 5 years ago
I read about people who just moved their weddings to their backyards and such when the venues cancelled on them. Folks still got COVID. Just not worth it, people.
rgr8 5 years ago
This remind me of somethings in my county. Some people had a party during Covid (like that is a good idea) with like 100 people. And someone went to the party knowing that they had Covid. That person spread it to like 100 people, and caused the cases to surge.
WildBerry 5 years ago
Like 100? Like that isn't cool. Like they shouldn't, like do that.
Load More Replies... Jo Choto 5 years ago
It was a really bad decision, but I also understand that young people can spend a year or more and a lot of money to make one day happen, and they would lose all the money, the staff, the venue and everything else if they canceled, and wouldn't just be able to redo the day later. Moral of the story is: weddings really shouldn't be such big deals IMHO.
Stille20 5 years ago
At a wedding of 150+ people and you think no one has COVID? That in itself is a stretch.
Jennifer Crompton 5 years ago
Really depends on where and when this was. My daughter's boyfriend lives in rural Illinois and there have been 0 cases in the whole town so far
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What A Hilarious Prank!
Foxxy (The Original) 5 years ago
I am pretty sure I read this a couple of months ago and apparently the bride and groom did ditch that so called friend.
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madmickx 5 years ago (edited)
I have a similar story. I was a picture framer and had prepared a window matt with several openings for photos with the idea that all the guests would sign on the margins of the matt at the reception and the photos would be inserted and the whole thing framed after the event. The boyfriend of one of the bridesmaids who was only there as a "plus 1" drew a quite offensive cartoon on a blank space slap in the middle of the whole thing. Fortunately a trophy shop I used had a laser cutter and they were able to burn out the offending article and create another small opening in its place. I hope the bridesmaid also burned that guy out of her life.
Katinka Min 5 years ago
Why would anybody become a wedding planner?? That must be the most hell-ish job on the planet.
Lululoohoo 5 years ago
what an absolute asshole and I hope not only was he kicked out as a groomsman, but kicked out of the entire wedding PLUS out of the groom's life as a friend because that is NOT a friend.
Eulalie Grace 5 years ago (edited)
With my family, that guy would have never been heard from again.
#9
I’m All For Using An Uber Sure But Come On
earringnut 5 years ago
Did you get mad at the rest of the passengers for being rude enough to take your bus?
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That Screaming Hamster 5 years ago
At least they’re both stupid and if they get married no one else will have to deal with them on dates
Lindy Mac 5 years ago
Raine Soo : the difference is about $400...wild guess.
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Jennifer Cassada 5 years ago
Getting an Uber is one thing, as long as you plan ahead of time, but come on, it's your wedding day. You should be springing for Uber Black!
Darlene further explained that “Ironically, public displays of extravagant and ostentatious weddings may also be fueled by shame where the emphasis is on impressing other people of the family’s wealth and status.” Such behavior can be a compensation for not feeling adequate or sufficiently respected.
Shaming others, the clinical psychologist suggests, is a way of protesting and ridding themselves of shame people have inside, which is often hidden and unconscious.
“It may be fueled by anger and envy because of the widening discrepancy between classes of haves and have-nots. Aggression and envy are also defenses to shame,” Darlene concluded.
#10
Real Life Soap Opera
Mimi777 5 years ago
You are allowed to cut toxic people out of your life even if they are family.
Katy McMouse 5 years ago
I did and the improvement of my mental health has been undeniable.
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WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
"Good friends is all you have." You choose all your friends and they can be family members, but not all family members are good friends.
lara 5 years ago
Friends are the family you choose for yourself. Related family are people you wouldn't have in your home if you weren't related to them.
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Elaine Mattingly 5 years ago
Sorry about your luck if that is the family. Family reunions must be a real good time. The bride will now throw her water balloon instead of flowers. Your Aunt was so wrong in so many ways. Guess her daghter took after her. I think you are lucky to walk away and go to a brighter future.
Lynn Greene 5 years ago
You are being bullied by your aunt. Family is all you have? I doubt it. You have you and you can honour your own feelings. You can o somewhere far away from the wedding, someplace you really want to go, someplace wonderful and you can have a memorable adventure on their wedding day.
#11
Bridezilla Wants All Her Bridesmaids To Cut And Dye Their Hair So They Look Identical
GirlFriday 5 years ago
I was in a wedding a couple of years ago and the groom's mother told all of us bridesmaids that we had to have the same hairstyle for the wedding. Not a big deal, until you realize that two of us had pixie haircuts, two of us are black - one white, one was 13 at the time and the other two were in our 40s. Other than wigs there was no way to make that happen. In the end, we ignored her.
IlovemydogShilo 5 years ago
My hair is halfway down my back. I would keep that length and dye it purple with green highlights.
Raine Soo 5 years ago (edited)
Why would the bride (okay, bridezilla) want her bridesmaids to look as if they were cut from the same cookie cutter?
BlackestDawn 5 years ago
Because too many brides treat them as props rather than people. It's her "day" and everything has to be "perfect".
Load More Replies... abby smink 5 years ago
Nope, actually, asking to have it cut is too much. You shouldn't be asking people to alter something about their appearance for your preferences.
Lindy Mac 5 years ago
I think it is bad enough if they have to pay the dress the bride chooses for them to wear.
Load More Replies... lara 5 years ago
I think this brides should discover, on the day of the wedding, that she has NO bridesmaids, or better yet, they all dye their hair purple or orange or green.
Louloubelle 5 years ago
I read things like this and am wondering if I'm sheltered that I've never met anyone like this, or ask if this is just a story. It's so incredible, it just can't be real.
deanna woods 5 years ago
You are not sheltered, you just don't have anyone that's batcrap crazy in your life.
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#12
It Can’t Just Be The Bride’s Big Day, You Know
Raine Soo 5 years ago
I don't understand the need for some people to steal someone else's thunder. Was the mother-in-law that insecure?
Cori 5 years ago
I found out I was pregnant right before my brother's wedding, but I didn't want to tell anyone and take away from their day. So I spent the entire reception inventing reasons for not drinking champagne.
Dippin Dot 5 years ago
I moved my wedding date up a week because my aunt had originally said (very seriously) that my wedding could double as her birthday party. She still used my wedding as her family Christmas Card photo shoot, and followed us to the brewery where we had our photos taken. For her to make the day about her was just on-par as to why I never liked her (she did this at my HS graduation party 5 years earlier too).
Binxyminxem 5 years ago
I'd have thought that the day would be special for her because her son was getting married?!? Some people are so selfish.
Rita Shapiro 5 years ago
A friend's mom did the exact same thing, only not BEFORE her daughter's wedding, but AT THE SAME TIME. Minister would recite crap and turn from one couple to another for a response. So afterwards, when she STOOD IN THE RECEPTION LINE FIRST, I asked her how long it took for her previous vows to expire, and how long she expected this "do over" to last. Her look of outrage made me smile.
Paula Swanson 5 years ago
At that point you say screw that...ELOPE! Take all the money you would spend on a wedding and elope...use that money to start your new life together.
Mama Panda 5 years ago
My lovely sister and her bf at the time went to my cousin's wedding. They had the audacity to get married the same day, a couple of hours prior to the event and then talk about it to anyone who would listen at my cousin's reception. They even had the DJ make a special toast to them and asked for gifts from the guests because it would have been the same crowd if they had done a normal separate wedding.
deanna woods 5 years ago
I can't stand it when people want the attention on them on someone else's special day.
WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
So you cancel your wedding and refuse to attend the "renewal of vows". That's what I would have done if I was the groom and my mother would have tried this.
#13
You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was ***not*** The Bride
Full of Giggles 5 years ago
A glass of red wine and a fake misstep would easily rectify this situation.
Retro Dan™ 5 years ago
You are the most wicked person I've ever wanted to marry based on a single mean-spirited line of text. YOU ARE NOW MY SPIRIT ANIMAL.
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Theodore Theodora 5 years ago
No need to fat-shame. Enough to shame here without stooping to that.
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Iris Wolfie (づ ◕‿◕ )づ 5 years ago
Lady, if you're so desperate to get married, MAYBE don't wear a bridal gown at a wedding WHERE YOU ARE NOT THE BRIDE!!!1
GirlFriday 5 years ago
When my cousin got married, her mother-in-law did this. The MIL went out and bought a wedding gown and wore it to the wedding and insisted on having photos taken without the bride.
Toujin C'Thlu 5 years ago
I've read about some MILs doing this. It's rather creepy if you think about it...
Load More Replies... NMN 5 years ago
If I had had a fancy wedding I wouldn't mind someone using that, but that's just me
Eulalie Grace 5 years ago (edited)
Yeah, but go to a professional and have it dyed another color.
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Celtic Pirate Queen 5 years ago
What kind of attention whore does that? A friends stepmother (attn whore) did that at her sisters wedding. Luckily, she was spotted getting out of the limo she had rented and stopped at the door. She was informed that if she wanted to attend the wedding she would have to go home and change into something more appropriate (45 minutes away) and NO, they would not postpone the wedding for her. The kicker? Her Dad was giving her away and was in the limo with this nutcase. He was heard saying, "I told you that was disrespectful. I guess I'll see you at the reception". She started throwing a fit & the Dad literally shoved her back into the car and told the driver "GO". She never did make it back for the reception, which I'm told was absolutely gorgeous. The bride didn't know anything about it until AFTER they got back from the honeymoon. THOSE are the friends you want at your wedding.
Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
Was it a ghost haunting the venue? Groom's ex? What? We should be told more details.
Paizleypie 5 years ago
SOMEBODY just can't stand not being the center of attention. For SHAME!
#14
Karen Thinks Artists Are Ripping Her Off For Charging $1000 For A Live Painting Of Her Wedding Ceremony. Expects To Get A Literal Picasso For That Price
Stannous Flouride 5 years ago
They had those at Hogwarts but I doubt they'll show up at muggle wedding.
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Jo Choto 5 years ago
Do they not realize how long it would take and how much skill to do a good rendering?
Curry on... 5 years ago
No some people don't realize it, and they don't care. They have little respect for artists.
Load More Replies... Louloubelle 5 years ago
As someone with the name Karen, this is so hurtful. Why can't we please just say entitled? Because that's what it is. Using Karen as a slur is bullying at it's purest form. It's simply name calling. If you don't think so, insert your name into these memes for the next couple of years, and then tell me how you feel.
Marty BlackEagle-Carl 5 years ago
live painting, wtf, find a wonderful picture, and have someone make a painting of it.
Banjo Peppers 5 years ago
I have an actual BFA in art (illustration - my speciality is watercolor) and I will kill the person marked in red if she says that again.
#15
This Girl Is An Icon. She Really Spilled Some Tea!
Kathryn Patterson 5 years ago
My daughter had half the invitations written and mailed for the May 15 wedding, & less than a week later she had to send regrets to those people. She has 6 living siblings, & the groom has 3. Then we were hit with the 10 person rule (the 4 Catholic bishops in Iowa agreed so this was statewide), including the priest, photographer, organist, readers, ring bearer, flower girl, etc. You can see where this is going, can't you? Anyway, canceled our venue etc, getting the money back. It was easy to get our refunds, as the governor shut the state down--everything. The bridesmaids returned their dresses; they were not custom made. And the bride & groom, not wanting to decide which of their sisters & brothers had to not be there decided none were going. The groom's mom & stood up for them. We had the priest, organist, photographer, bride & groom, & the witnesses, for a total of 7. Told guests the reception will be NEXT May 15th, and to save the date!
K. 5 years ago
1. Whatever happened to the art of gratitude and writing a “thank you” note? 2. The pandemic has affected many people, some more devastating than others. It’s okay to vent, but it’s important to acknowledge that you’re reacting to the stress and keep the psychological/emotional lashing out to a minimum or do something productive with it. It’s the marriage that’s important, not the ceremony. 3. I love the person peacing out of that group.
Shinomi Chan 4 years ago
1. Always thank people for coming to your wedding/buying gifts. 2. Do not hold a wedding or a large scale event during a goddamn pandemic. 3. How dare you even assume, that your friends and family aren't treating you 'special enough?' What do they have to do? Get out from hospital after being tested positive on covid and are in an emergency ward, just to get to your wedding?
ChickyChicky 5 years ago
I'm normally against "Grand Exit" posts, but this one is appropriate.
#16
Mother Of Bride Wearing Bridal Gown!
Mama Panda 5 years ago
My asshole mother tried to pull this s**t on my wedding day. I told her if she brought it, I was going to shred it and stain it so she wouldn't be able to wear it. Guess what? She brought it! Guess what else? I destroyed it lol. And she had the balls to get mad because she wanted to look good. We don't have a relationship anymore. (there were a lot of other things that killed it not just this bs)
AndyR 5 years ago
There's no context. The bride posted it but was she shaming her mum? It would be unusual if they hadn't at least had a conversation about outfits.
Selena4life 5 years ago
Mum's dress looks...weird. Brides dress is beautiful! I love how you didn't go all out!
#17
We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money
Downunderdude 5 years ago
We don't like you enough to actually invite you, but give us money anyway.
Ekate 5 years ago
I would send a photocopy of a cheque for $1000, saying "As much as I would like to give you this money, sadly, my money is not for everyone. I'll be sure to keep you in my heart while I send it to someone who cares about me enough to want me to share in their life"
Blackheart 5 years ago
Much as I would like to contribute, my wallet cannot accommodate everyone... and please use spell check
AndyR 5 years ago
I got a very similar card from my cousin. Gave in as the rest of my family decided to chip in. Didn't get a thank you card. Same when they had a baby, though we did get a thank you card just in time to remind us it would be baby's 1st birthday soon.
Becca Gizmo the Squirrel 5 years ago
Miss Manners would say send them money. She says you aren't paying for a seat at the wedding, you are gifting them for the occasion. I don't agree.I think begging for money because you got married is tacky.
Azziza 5 years ago
Miss Manners would say NO SUCH THING. Have you ever even READ her books? I've read every single one and she *always* says that wedding gifts are optional, you do NOT have to give a gift if you don't want one and the couple should never require or ask people for gifts, money or even put where they are registered on the invitation/announcement.
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TickingEmotionBomb 5 years ago
In unformal terms: We don't like you, but we're sending a card to ask for money to let us go on a trip for a crappy wedding that you weren't invited to.
Ashley Wright 5 years ago
Probably THE RUDEST I’ve ever seen a soon-to-be-married couple. I’d have to think on this one, but I’d definitely respond—and it would not be nice! P.S. tell your friends they misspelled “cannot” and “acccommodate” 😂😂😂😂
#18
A New Wedding Theme For You To Consider....
Katy McMouse 5 years ago
Stupid virus? Stupid bride. Insurance honeypot? Mandatory? Oh, I can't even...
Elaine Mattingly 5 years ago
Your little honey pot wouldn't begin to pay the cost.
Load More Replies... Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
Clearly a few $100 go a long way towards an ICU stay in the USA?
WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
From what I've been reading it covers the time you occupied a seat in the waiting room.
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Arctic Fox Lover 5 years ago
She's trying to prevent corona by having people drop money that God knows where it's been into a honeypot full of other people's money, and then using that germ-covered money to try to pay for insurance for people who do get sick??? What the living quack?
Daniel (ShadowDrakken) 5 years ago
Ignoring all the other glaring issues here, does she not realize those diagrams of viruses are always false color?
Cold Contagious 5 years ago
Another pathetic moron. Such disgusting and vile behaviors. That would be the end of their existence in my life.
M Kate McCulloch 5 years ago
How about - we're going to be married in a private ceremony - we'll have a lovely reception for everyone when this all clears up- Wish us luck!
Stannous Flouride 5 years ago
That's the exact same color as the White House super-spreader event two days ago that paid people to show up and wear their hideous shirts. 601db2a4-0...4-jpeg.jpg 
#19
Do Not Talk To The Bride At All
Raine Soo 5 years ago
This is a wedding planner who spelled 'ceremony' as ' seramony'. Ha, ha, ha! There are plenty of other errors, but I've decided not to be a grammar Nazi.
Lauren Caswell 5 years ago (edited)
Seramony...argh(acceptance...admited...) I've worked as a proofreader before, and this is just so awkward to read!
MellonCollie 5 years ago
And not just because of the terrible writing skills!
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Iris Wolfie (づ ◕‿◕ )づ 5 years ago
Me: *comes in wearing ivory, arriving 15 minutes late, dyed hair, wearing full face of makeup, chats with bride, brings $5, toasts with beer, and records during "seramony"*
Troux 5 years ago
Do not wear anything other than a basic bob or ponytail. So it's a nudist wedding?
cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
I seriously doubt this was from the wedding planner. More like a bridezilla pretending to be the planners to dictate the wedding but with the 'No talking to the bride' line I'm more inclined to think its the groom. Besides, a wedding planner who can't spell?
Toujin C'Thlu 5 years ago
Could be a family member trying to take control of the wedding, too.
Load More Replies... Arctic Fox Lover 5 years ago
The next day: You have 35 emails. Subject: Canceling Subject: Sorry, but... Subject: Cancelling Subject: I Am So Sorry Subject: I Am Just Too Busy 30 more...
Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
"Seramony"? "Must have $75 cover charge gift"? This isn't a wedding. It's a shake-down.
StardustRainO8 5 years ago (edited)
I get the don't wear cream, white or ivory, but everything else is just over the top. Wow.
#20
Gahhh This Is Bad
Pamela24 5 years ago
Honestly - I wouldn't be that surprised if it did. If she's *that* tolerant and considering, she'll probably accept almost anything (and I feel sorry for her, this seems like a little too much).
Load More Replies... Fieke Engelen 5 years ago
I didn't catch on!! It is NOT funny, just too sad
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Dynein 5 years ago
Wow. WOW. I had to let this sink in for a while. Seriously, no matter how much in love you are with a man like that... chances are the heartache from breaking up hurts LESS. In fact, you might find that you hardly notice the heartache over the relief from not being treated like a nuisance.
Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
Maybe she likes her Saturdays free, and undisturbed Sunday mornings while he snores on the couch. Diff'rent strokes etc.
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Iris Wolfie (づ ◕‿◕ )づ 5 years ago
If this happened at my wedding, there would be a loooooot of men clutching at their nuts
Fish Boden 5 years ago
Awesome! There are seven more highly eligible bachelors, girls and boys!
Fieke Engelen 5 years ago
That's what I think, hope. They got married on a Friday for whatever reason and his 'friends' just took the opportunity for the photo
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Everyone In The Comments Is Calling Her Out. How Can You Think This Is A Good Idea?
Khadeja 5 years ago
"I like people and I'm having a wedding soon! Hey, what a good idea! I'm going to use people as decor and tie them to the table! Has anyone ever used people as decor before?"
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Ekate 5 years ago
Cruel and wrong as this is, I do feel she deserves to have the s**t-and-slide floor that that many puppies could make! Anyone seen a brown wedding dress before? :)
cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
I love puppies too! I love them so much that I WOULD NOT TREAT THEM SO BADLY! Personally I would say to guests that they are welcome to bring their dogs and I would provide food water and facilities for them including somewhere for them to sleep but never would I tie them to tables as decorations!
Nomadus Aureus 5 years ago
I would like to include portraits of shelter dogs on each table in hopes of people adopting them.
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kira griffin 5 years ago
This is a terrible idea of incorporating puppies into the decor, and what I would've done, is go to the animal shelter and ask them If they want to bring some puppies there for people to adopt possibly. what this girl did is not okay, though.
Melody Lanzatella 5 years ago
I actually can think of a way to MAKE THIS a good idea! If you REALLY love dogs that much and are a GOOD PERSON, have your local shelter come and set up somewhere outta the way, but still there, and see if anyone wants to adopt, AND give the shelter some of your WEDDING MONEY as a donation! There ya go! And everyone is happy! #WOOF
Tiffany Zhu 5 years ago
that's actually a brilliant idea! puppies get adopted, and you have them at the wedding without them being props.... I hate how the person in the picture said that they wanted to use puppies as decor.
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Wedding Guest Shaming
Stannous Flouride 5 years ago
@googleman1234 You took the time to criticize someone else's missing apostrophe with a comment that itself is missing FIVE of them and misspells rhetoric? (and btw- many of the Bored Pandas commenting here do not have English as a first language so check yo' bad self)
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Lauren Caswell 5 years ago
I'd love to come to your wedding. I bring with me the gift of potentially causing a superspreader amongst your nearest and dearest
MellonCollie 5 years ago
I agree with you, but if 1. masks are mandatory for everyone in the country these people live in, it is not OK anyhow, and 2. the person writing the messages asks about "us" not wearing masks. So I'd say sorry, but you'd better stay home then.
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Phil Vaive 5 years ago
This one could have been a lot worse. The guest could have shown up and caused a scene at the wedding, but instead texted the bride to express their regrets. Do I agree with them for not wearing masks? Not at all. But I do appreciate that they aren't being maskholes about it.
Johnny 5 years ago
They should send back a dictionary page with the word "required" circled since this person seems to think "required" means "only if you feel like it"
Louloubelle 5 years ago
Well, welcome to Wisconsin. That's what they think here.
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#23
Yikes Yikes Yikes
Downunderdude 5 years ago
The chance that people might pour alcohol into the bowl didn't occur to their tiny little brains?
Sent From The Slytherin House 5 years ago
I can understand goldfish. Because they would be cute. But you MUST TAKE CARE OF THEM!! A: no one wants to look at a dead fish and B: they're animals! they're innocent and when you signed up to buy them, you said you would take care of them! they cant take care of themselves, and if you cant either, give them a new home.
Miah Robinson 1 year ago
My aunt did this at one of her weddings and everybody loved it, beforehand she had people that had agreed to take the fish after the wedding though and they weren't placed in the bowls until right before dinner so they weren't in there for very long before being taken to there permanent homes. One of my uncles took 2 of the fish and even named them after my aunt and her husband, they lived for almost 20 years which is at least 15 years longer than the marriage lasted.
Load More Replies... Katy McMouse 5 years ago
Not only is this cruel and tacky, but who in the holy hell wants to watch a fish deficating while they're trying to eat?
Nomadus Aureus 5 years ago
The only thing I can think of is that in some cultures goldfish symbolise good luck? Surely a dead one would be bringing misfortune?! Possibly in the form of a massive fine.
Load More Replies... Among Us 5 years ago
Don't put them in tiny fishbowls. Fishbowls were only used as temporary placeholders for fish that would have lived in huge ponds in the Roman (I believe) times. People would only put fish in bowls to show them to guests, then put the fish back in the ponds. Animals are not decor.
Tobias the Tiger 5 years ago
Yep, toy fish or even a screen display showing fish.
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Mother Of The Groom And The Groom On Their Special Day
Toujin C'Thlu 5 years ago
As I said in an earlier comment, I've read about some MILs doing this. It's incredibly creepy.
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cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
Went to a wedding where the grooms mother wore a wedding dress and the vicar went "Is this the woman you are marrying? No? Then why is she dressed like the bride" He then refused to perform the ceremony until she got changed. She ended up wearing the clothes she had packed for the evening reception. The vicar shook his head but did marry them as she was now dressed in a very short skirt and a tight top. She was in her 50's and not in the best of shape
David Buchanan 5 years ago
The bridesmaids failed. Aren't they supposed to spill wine on anyone with a white dress besides the bride?
#25
“Please Shoot People So We Can Have Our Wedding Illegally”
Downunderdude 5 years ago
Words fail me. 'Tyranny defense device'? FFS. Look, no offense, Americans, but no wonder your democracy is on the point of total collapse.
Lady Vader 5 years ago
Offense taken. Not offended by you, but I'm offended by my entire stupid country. Unrelated, are you single and willing to have a visa wedding so I can get out of here once we're no longer banned from other countries?
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Viviane 5 years ago
I'm looking forward to the wedding video: It's a romantic comedy! It's an action thriller! It's a disaster movie! It's ONE WEDDING AND 26 FUNERALS!!!!!
Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
"Come heavily armed and ready to shoot cops" is not an invitation to a wedding. It's an invitation to a jail cell.
The Upset Kitten 5 years ago
So lemme get this straight...the Bride and Groom and others are willing to lock,load, and open fire on Cops who would show up to shut down their "wedding party" because of the pandemic? Fackin hell, I am so glad i live in Canada where: had to pass gun school with 70% minimum, have background checks, mental health eval, criminal history check, get my local P.D to sign and stamp my application, multiple character references, etc. which this whole process can over a year b4 you're allowed to own guns. I'll stay here in the land of the Moose and Beaver, thanks.
Anna roberts 5 years ago
Problem here is there is no mental health evaluation for the cops, I know first hand as I was one. Dammed scary bunch in some cases
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cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
I would laugh if they turned up to find armed police surrounding the venue with orders to shoot to kill if the wedding party and guests refuse to drop their weapons and go home
WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
Next post: "I can't believe this is happening. I can't get a Covid test!!!! I need some people with a tyranny defense device to get me a covid test."
#26
Bride Freaks Out After Finding Her Own Post On Reddit
chi-wei shen 5 years ago
For those who don't know the dress code see the attached screenshot. dress_code...35-png.jpg 
Samantha Lomb 5 years ago
Love how all the fat people must be camouflaged either in camo or all black.
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Ryan Ambrose 5 years ago
Jesus! What a psycho bitch. I'm just surprised she has friends to invite.
Mohammad Azhaan 5 years ago
The most we Indians could ask is for you to wear traditional ethnic attire ( which isn't as outrageous as her demands). She is being downright offensive.
Katy McMouse 5 years ago
$99 polygraph from Amazon? What's she going to do once that fails? Start in on the toenails?
Brenda Couvee 5 years ago
If they're psychic, how come they need a polygraph to figure out the guilty party/parties? They should be able to do it themselves.
That Screaming Hamster 5 years ago
Wait until she find out every single one of them “ratted her out”
Analyn Lahr 5 years ago
Camouflage? Soda hats? That doesn't sound like any spiritual healers I've heard of. Unless you're from some backwoods snake handling church.
Leigh Hogan 5 years ago
And most of those would consider soda hats a moderate evil and condemn pricey clothing as high toned. Pride is a sin afterall.
Load More Replies... cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
Camouflage and Soda Hats? WTF? What was the 'psychic' smoking that day? This wedding is going to be a disaster
Paula Swanson 5 years ago
Wow...I mean.....the word "Nuts" is not even close to describe this spud
#27
$250 Min Gift To Attend
RaroaRaroa 5 years ago
Some people should just appreciate what their guests have all ready paid to make it. Possibly accomodation, new clothes, taxis and/or flights, maybe even paying to put the dogs in the kennels, or mind the kids, while they go away. On top of all that, I think a $100 gift is plenty. Many of your wedding guests will have paid out way more than the price of food and drinks just to get there. To celebrate with you - not set you up financially for life.
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Rose the Cook 5 years ago
It is not only the price, "a gift for either me or Christian", wedding gifts used to be items for the couple's joint use not for one or the other.
MellonCollie 5 years ago
WHAT??? Anyone ever been to a Dutch wedding, where you'd get €20 from your aunties?
Full of Giggles 5 years ago
What shocks me is that neither the bride nor the groom made the effort to personally or properly invite this person. Mike was suppose to tell them. But the snobette had no problem texting this person directly to inform them there was a mandatory and ridiculously high price value minimum on the wedding gift.
abby smink 5 years ago
Sooooooooooo much people have confirmed?? There's actually people who would agree to such a thing??
#28
Ah Yes, The Good Old "Get Pregnant So I Won't Need To Be In A Bridal Party" Scheme. Works Every Time
Downunderdude 5 years ago
No problem here, sweetie. If she's REALLY a good friend, she'll have an abortion so that she doesn't ruin your day with messy kids. Over-reacting? No, of course not: it's all about YOU, not her.
Monday 5 years ago
Definitely! How dare she do anything even remotely related to her own dreams in life when they so CLEARLY affect the poor bride's perfect wedding plans! /s
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Deborah B 5 years ago
1) Congratulations, I am so excited for you! 2) Let's talk about what will make the bridal shower, hen night etc, pregnancy friendly, because you are one of my best friends, and I want us to share this special time in both our lives. 3) Please let me organise a baby shower. 4) Of course we will make an exception to our child-free policy if you are able to attend, and not comfortable leaving the baby. 5) If you aren't able to attend or need to resign from bridesmaid duties, we will completely understand, and hope that you will be honorary bridesmaid/with us in spirit/ witness our vows via skype. Not hard, if you stop being a self-centred bridezilla for two minutes.
MellonCollie 5 years ago
Oh dear. Time for the pregnant friend to find a new best (non-toxic) friend.
Wreathy 5 years ago
This exact thing happened to a girl I used to be close to. She fell out with her best friend because the best friend dared to get pregnant and the due date was close to the wedding. 'She could have thought about the dates before letting it happen.' The kicker: this girl left her husband after 18 months of marriage for the guy she was sleeping with...
Raine Soo 5 years ago
Be happy for your pregnant bridesmaid, as I am sure she is happy for you.
Anna roberts 5 years ago
Anyone want to go kidnap the poor groom until he comes to his senses and RUNS?
Load More Replies... Donna Leske 5 years ago
Note to all of my bridesmaids; no one is to have any sexual contact including invitro for 10 months before My Wedding Day. Make it 11 months if you're already chubby or suspect you can't get the prego weight off by The Big Day. Love you all lots, but don't be lovin' anyone else, Bridezilla
#29
She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride
IlovemydogShilo 5 years ago
Just walk past her holding a large very large glass of red wine and “accidentally” trip when you get next to her. If she protests just say “well at least it’s not a REAL wedding dress”
Monday 5 years ago
That would be such an asshole thing to do...I love it!
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Raine Soo 5 years ago
Is she an ex-girlfriend or something? That placement of his hand looks overly friendly.
Louloubelle 5 years ago
Is it truly so hard to find a dress in any other color but this? Bull cookies. There needs to be a rule for guests that goes like the mother of the groom rule "Wear beige and shut up".
Connie Martin 5 years ago
And he is posing for a picture with his hand on her ass. Oh, maybe he's her father. That's okay then, right?
Dorothy Parker 5 years ago
Do we know she's not the bride and someone just wanted to post something?
#30
I’m All For A Nudist Wedding But The Kid?
Analyn Lahr 5 years ago
Is there a joke I'm not fully grasping? Because that's camo not nudist.
NMN 5 years ago
Yep, the joke is that camo makes things invisible, so you can joke in two ways: 1. Their clothes are invisible (so nudes). 2. Only the non-camo person is visible at all (the others are all invisible)
Load More Replies... TickingEmotionBomb 5 years ago
This is a wedding? I can only see a guy in uniform looking extremely uncomfortable
Jeff Requier 5 years ago
Its perfectly fine to wear your Dress uniform for your wedding, a camo wedding dress and the rest in fatigues is just tacky
The Upset Kitten 5 years ago
I dont understand this wedding photo. Why is there only one solitary military dude here?
SHSL Hope Bagel 5 years ago
i mean... i’m down for russian roulette, i wanna die!
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Eulalie Grace 5 years ago
Noticed that, too. And not sure if I reeeeeealy want to know 😝
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More Depressing Af Cake Toppers, Just Why?
Dynein 5 years ago
Holdover from the days when there truly wasn't much of a choice... There still FAR too much around of that attitude, if you ask me. It's amazing how much of something kike that sticks around in bits and pieces of the culture. Stag parties at the brothel to make as much as possible of your "last days of freedom", "jokes" about how you have to comply with your spouses annoying rules now that you are in the shackles of marriage...
#32
Tell Your Wedding Guests To Die
Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
You ever tried to paint 200 ampersands in a row? You MONSTER!
Load More Replies... Sent From The Slytherin House 5 years ago
Are cute but you could've used a slash, or put the E first
Tara Brooks 5 years ago
These are actually quite gorgeous, with the exception of the death threat and all
*sigh*, The Yellow Teletubby 5 years ago
ok that's it I'm marrying someone who's name starts with D
#33
Politics At Non-Political Events Is Probably My #1 Pet Peeve
Jarno Flinkers 5 years ago
Hey dad, I have a riddle for you. How many Trump supporters do you need to put in a light bulb? None, because they are shooting at the room for being black.
#34
Bride Urges Guests To Uber To Her Wedding In Order To Avoid The “Quarantine Police”
Vorknkx 5 years ago
Don't mean to sound cruel, but some people just *deserve* to get the virus... even if only as a form of karma.
Pamela24 5 years ago
The medical workers who might have to care for them don't, though.
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PhantomBuni 5 years ago
Oh yikes, I was dragged to my cousins wedding by the mother of the bride, we adhered by Covid rules for the ceremony, but at the reception, there were easily forty people, all unmasked
WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
If being infected with Corona only would affect the idiots, I'd say let them have a ball. But sadly it will also affect people that haven't got anything to do with these idiots. I'd really like to see some courtcases where people actually get convicted for spreading a deadly virus and get a life sentence.
Dorothy Parker 5 years ago
So she knows it's wrong but she just doesn't care. Better remove in sickness and in health from the vows.
Katy McMouse 5 years ago
Was this that Maine super-spreader that killed people who were not even there?
Anna roberts 5 years ago
Kids don't get to choose, nor the teachers that they come in contact with...JS
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Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centrepieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Op’s Mother’s Best Friend’s Child
Vorknkx 5 years ago
Where I live (the Balkan region in SE Europe), the mere notion of a child refusing to do something or generally disobeying their parents is unthinkable. And you can be sure there would be a punishment for such behavior.
cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
I'd tell them no for the ceremony and wedding meal afterwards and the lion outfit is OK for the reception if they argue then I would cancel their invites. They are not family and they do not decide on what happens at someone elses wedding
Sue Prewitt 5 years ago
I don't think the bride is out of line at all on this one. And the kid "refuses to wear normal clothes"? What kind of spineless parents does this kid have?
Anna roberts 5 years ago
Work in an elementary school, you'd be amazed, and not in a good way. A lot of conversations start with, "That may be the way you do it at home,..."
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Analyn Lahr 5 years ago
You're being reasonable. You shouldn't have to change anything from just one person.
More! 5 years ago
What’s wrong with this? She has a valid and fair point. The best solution may be to leave her at home with a babysitter .
Friedlander Rosenzweig 5 years ago
As Ann Landers used to say, “ I’m sorry, but you’ll be sorely missed.”
#36
The Bride Is On The Right
cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
Should have turned her away before she even walked through the doors
Samantha Hurrell 5 years ago
There shouldn't be people asking, who's the bride when they see a photo, it should be obvious.
WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
Why put people up with this kind of crazy? Throw her out the second she enters the venue.
Anna roberts 5 years ago
Wedding dress with the girls front and center. Seems she has a problem with the attention being on someone else. If that is the groom is this maybe a plural marriage?
#37
From Pinterest. I Really Dislike Things Like This... Is Someone Forcing You To Get Married!?
Katy McMouse 5 years ago
I'm sick to death of cutesy signs every time you turn the hell around.
Stephanie Did It 5 years ago
Clearly they stuck this sign on a toddler, probably the traditional ring bearer. What a nasty way to use a child for a troll prop!
#38
I Can’t Believe You’re Afraid Of Covid, What About My Wedding?
Lauren Caswell 5 years ago
How dare You not risk you life to watch me walk around in person rather than waiting til it's safe. Ur selfish desire to live is breaking my heart.
Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
"People will continue to die": TRUE. The death rate hasn't even gone up during this whole so-called crisis --- it's still one per person.
Katy McMouse 5 years ago
Seriously doubt this will be that woman's only "once in a lifetime event".
Raine Soo 5 years ago (edited)
If the bride goes through with the wedding, it may be the last thing she'll ever do in this lifetime. Don't you just love her meltdown?
Monday 5 years ago
I know I shouldn't wish it on anyone...but I really wish this bride would catch a serious bout of covid (and slowly recover) so she can re-evaluate her priorities.
Load More Replies... WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
"IT'S A ONCE IN A F**KING LIFE TIME EVENT!!!!!" "Yes, and with a little luck Covid has hit before you were able to procreate..."
Becca Gizmo the Squirrel 5 years ago (edited)
I didn't even go to my son and his girlfriends baby shower a few months ago because of covid. Just sent presents.saw pics from the shower, only my son and his girlfriend were wearing masks. They thought it was going to be family only but her mother invited pretty much everyone they knew. It was a guy/girl party. They were really upset about all the people. Glad I didn't go, her grandfather ended up dying of covid.. My son had it too but is ok now. All probably because if the shower.
Becca Gizmo the Squirrel 5 years ago
No one on our side went, except my son.it was only alllll her side and friends. Still her moms fault, she threw the party.
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
Somehow, I doubt this will be this person's ONLY F**cking wedding, y'know?
Thomas Turnbull 5 years ago
Not really with this bride she will be able to go to her next one as that marriage ain't gonna last
#39
Normal Thing To Do...
cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
Just saw the date 8th of December 2019. I think none of them will be getting what they want
#40
A New Low?
Kel Gal 5 years ago
I can’t believe that a professional photographer would want his name on this! Atrocious and beyond tacky!
WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
From his website: "The modern Photographer Michel Klooster lets you relive the most beautiful moments." Yes, he's Dutch, and No, not all Dutch people are this "classy"....
#41
I Don’t Even Know Where To Begin
#42
While We’re On The Topic Of Cake Toppers....i Can’t Stand The “Woman Trapping The Man And Keeping Him From Things He Likes To Do” Trope. There Are Far Too Many Versions Of These
chi-wei shen 5 years ago
And why is that groom always portrayed as being insultingly immature?
Samantha Lomb 5 years ago
why is gaming considered immature? It's a fine hobby like any other
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cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
I agree. My fiancée and I are gamers and we would love a topper of the bride and groom playing with Xbox controllers, tongues out and in one of those gamer positions each
#43
Videographer Refuses To Do Same-Sex Weddings
Pamela24 5 years ago
"We'd rather lose a good portion of money than support people who love each other in expressing that." How ridiculous. Especially during COVID times.
Deborah B 5 years ago
How about cut the middle paragraph out, and just say: "Unfortunately we will not be able to film your wedding due to a personal conflict. We wish you all the best for your special day. " If you aren't supportive of gay marriage, you aren't obligated to film one, but if you truly want to be tactful you don't need to air your discriminatory views.
Cecilia Bivald 5 years ago
There is no such thing as tactful homophobia. It’s a derogatory view of a group of people, you can’t do that “politely”
Load More Replies... Samantha Lomb 5 years ago
Replace "homosexual" with any other adjective. Jewish, Black, Muslim and you have legally actionable discrimination. Same should apply here.
Load More Replies... Dave P 5 years ago
Person was respectful, not rude, etc. I know many religious people where participating in a gay wedding would violate their religious beliefs. Respect this person's religious beliefs as much as they respect this gay couple. I think too many people think we should force people against their will to provide goods and services. You don't have a right to their labor, just as much as they do not have a right to stop your choice of whom you marry
MellonCollie 5 years ago
I recently visited a webshop on a Sunday. It was closed for business because Sunday. I thought that was ridiculous and outdated, but the message was respectful, and it's their choice to not want to business on a Sunday. This is kind of the same idea. They do not wish to do business on same-sex weddings. That's a shame, and an outdated point of view in my opinion, but the message is respectful. The act in itself maybe not so very, but these people also have the right to express their opinion, as long as they don't interfere with other people's freedom. I'd even go as far as saying it is rather brave to stick to principles like that in these days. One may certainly disagree with them, but they sent a very polite message declining.
Kisses4Katie 5 years ago
I just don't see how not serving people on a Sunday is the same as not serving an entire group of people.
Load More Replies... Theodore Theodora 5 years ago
Mm. This is one of those rare moments when I say, don't censor. Tell the world the name of this wretched business so we know whom to avoid.
Caroline 5 years ago
Why though? I get that it's their choice, but what's the difference between a heterosexual wedding and homosexual wedding?
Dave P 5 years ago
SOme people's religious beliefs prohibit them from being involved in something their faith says will hard their soul. Respect their beliefs, they arent pushing it on anyone, so dont force them to violate it for their own convience
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My Idiot Cousin Is Getting Divorced. After My Friend Told Me How They Got Engaged, I’m Not Surprised. Karma
Arctic Fox Lover 5 years ago
Ok, if I were at my wedding, and one of my extremely close friends did that (and were invited, lol) then I'd find that really sweet, but if it were them, I swear, I would have murdered them in their sleep.
#45
Bride In The Middle, Cow Who Turned Up To The Wedding In A White Dress With A Train On The Right
Nicola Roberts 5 years ago
In my younger days I worked as a barmaid in hotel. The bride got around this by asking her guests to wear black or white. She made a grand entrance in a red dress and truly stuck out from the rest of the wedding. I cannot stress how stunning she looked. For the guests they had real trouble identifying who were guest and who were staff at the hotel - it was quite funny!
NMN 5 years ago
red is beautiful and stunning! Great wedding dress i imagine (better than the boring ol' white/cream)
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Marcellus the Third 5 years ago
All the men dressed more or less like the groom, so fair enough all the ladies should make similar effort.
#46
Is It Wedding Shaming If The Groom Doesn’t Even Know They’re Dating?
Candace Fitzpatrick 5 years ago
Sorry, but I feel like this has to be fake. Regardless if she misheard him or whatever the case would’ve been.... planning a wedding for 7 months and they didn’t even have ONE conversation about how it was coming along? I don’t buy it
cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
Either he is just using her as friends with benefits or she took his friendship and read more into it than there actually is. either way she should just walk away
Lauren Caswell 5 years ago
Tricking him? Oh dear this is unhealthy. They really need to teach the emotional side of stuff when they teach kids sex ed. Like how to know if the relationship is or isn't a healthy one
#47
Taken From A Party Planning Site, Advising How To Have A Free Wedding. Other Gem Advice Was To Get Mother-In-Law To Make The Wedding Cake
Foxxy (The Original) 5 years ago (edited)
We had a budding “photographer” that was a friend of my BIL take photos at our wedding coz we were on a budget. In saying that in return my hubby did a small concreting job. He ended up with the better end of the deal coz the photos were crap. That is the only thing I regret from our wedding, wished we hired a professional. Sorry went on a tangeant. Lesson is don’t cheap out on professional photography (but don’t need to go overboard)
Load More Replies... Katy McMouse 5 years ago
Hah! This happened to me in high school. My godmother's neighbor was a real asshole with money problems ( he wouldn't spend any). He found out that I had taken my very first photography class in my junior year and thought he'd save a few bucks by "hiring" me to be their photographer. Being a somewhat shy and meek teenager, I didn't have the balls to say "no way". I did it, they were processed and it was a disaster. He then had the nerve to be pissed at me, calling me a stupid girl and lamenting the $100 I was paid. I tried to make him understand beforehand that I basically knew nothing. I felt horribly guilty for a long time until I finally realized how stupid, cheap people deserve every bit of disappointment coming to them.
Mama Panda 5 years ago
We used a family member to take our wedding pics, worst mistake ever! She claimed to be really good and later we found out that she was using her ex hubby's photos as her own. He was the photographer not her. I learned my lesson the hard way.
AF 5 years ago
If I were asked to do photographs for "the exposure" I would be so tempted to agree, show up, take pictures, and then put a HUGE watermark, logo, etc., over all the photos, so that maybe a few square millimeters show of the actual wedding, 'because you said it's for exposure."
Roxanne D'souza 5 years ago
That is the only correct way to do it. Let them pay for each individual photo and then only you can remove the water mark.
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Jess-a-men 5 years ago
My parents got my grandmother's second husband to make the pictures and they paid him for it. Just because he's family doesn't mean that he should have to do his job for free.
John Baker 5 years ago
There are few things more insulting to a professional than suggesting he/she should work for free for the "exposure."
Michael Willems 5 years ago
A waste of good money, eh. As a photographer and photography teacher, I see many of these cases where “the nephew shot the wedding because he has a camera”. And without fail, these always result in massive regret.
#48
We Both Got Covid But All That Matters Is That We’re Married
Raine Soo 5 years ago
150 people may have contracted COVID, and "it was still all worth it". Can I throttle these newlyweds?
Mama Panda 5 years ago
I wouldn't sweat it. If these 150 people went to a wedding during covid, then they would have gone anywhere and contracted it then. It's just 150 stupid people.
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#49
Well Ok Then....
Ekate 5 years ago
They just need a dog about 6 paces behind with a shirt saying "The Divorce".
NMN 5 years ago
should have a "sex" in small letters in the guy's jacket. And some other word for the gal (dictator isn't sexty), like "the Master" then it would be fun
Load More Replies... Thomas brennan 5 years ago
I mean, it is tagged from Romania, entirely possible the full meaning of the words was lost in translation and it went from light hearted and tacky to unsettling and inappropriate
Samantha Lomb 5 years ago
Romania has had a dictator in recent memory. And as mentioned below they are also a Latin based Romance language country. This is in really bad taste
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Madeleine Flowers 3 years ago
If the jean jackets hadn't said that I would've loved those outfits. The color of the bride's dress and the jacket are perfect together, but I don't love the bouquet.
somnomania 5 years ago
"marriage sucks and we don't know why we're doing it" and subtle encouragement of fascist regimes. classy as f*ck.
Vorknkx 5 years ago
Romania did have a dictator until about 30 years ago, so it could be a play on that theme... a weird choice of theme, still.
Nomadus Aureus 5 years ago
Themed weddinging aren't really a thing in this part of the world. This was most probably a photoshoot, rather than an actual wedding.
Load More Replies... Lauren Caswell 5 years ago
Whichever way round it's just so wrong *facepalm*
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Brilliant Job By Videographer
*sigh*, The Yellow Teletubby 5 years ago
I'm sorry I know this is serious but I think if this was my wedding video I'd burst out laughing and keep it lmao
aussie snowdropper 5 years ago
https://www.indy100.com/article/wedding-video-muppets-kermit-miss-piggy-watch-9154316
somnomania 5 years ago
oh god i remember this, it's from a few years back, most of the internet thought it was hilarious
#51
Girl I Rarely Speak To Anymore Asks If She's Invited To Our Wedding. After Telling Her That She Isn't She Tells Me I Should Rethink Marrying My Fiancé
Sent From The Slytherin House 5 years ago
My goodness. This is terrible- using God as an excuse!
WilvanderHeijden 5 years ago
I wonder why people even feel the need to respond to such lunacy. The only appropriate action is blocking her.
somnomania 5 years ago
man, don't even respond in depth, just be like "okay bye", block her, get on with life
cybermerlin2000 5 years ago
Prayed for her? Religious nutter! I bet that's why they stopped talking in the first place
#52
"Hey, I Have An Amazing Idea For A Super Unique Pic!"
Pamela24 5 years ago
Weird choice but compared to many others here...I don't see that much of an issue.
Laugh or not 5 years ago
Yes, it was probably meant to be funny for everyone. Weird sense of humour, but not malicious or mean.
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#53
I Don’t Know What To Say About This
Lauren Caswell 5 years ago
Way to make a young probably teens step child feel even more embarrassed about their braces than they already were. I would never want someone who would be so oblivious to be my child's step-anything. Thank God my son's stepmum is a gem, she always treats him as one of her own, as I tell my boy, parental decisions are made between the three of us (myself, his father and his stepmum). I don't think that's common though we are quite lucky.
K. 5 years ago
Lauren, I hope your son knows how loved he is. Finding the grace to appreciate the new spouse does not always come easy or at all, no matter how wonderful they are.
Load More Replies... Sent From The Slytherin House 5 years ago
I guess I can understand the frustration, butt if you really love her, you won't worry what she looks like just that she's there and happy.
YupItsMe1234 5 years ago
Because we all know how often you go back and look at your wedding pictures....
Stephanie Did It 5 years ago (edited)
If the bride to be just got out of braces 'a few years ago' then she is clearly too young and childish herself to invest in an adult commitment like marriage, let alone be stepparent to an eleven year old. Sounds like FH will have two daughters to raise.
MellonCollie 5 years ago
Well, adults can get braces later in life as well, if they wish to or have to. So this woman is not necessarily very young. But she IS having a unbelievably egoistic fit about the whole thing.
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Yikes
Sent From The Slytherin House 5 years ago
So Sunshine doesn't care if it's COVID day
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
"I don't care about the virus for one day!" is the one day the virus takes a very deep interest in YOU.
K. 5 years ago (edited)
I understand the need for forget and avoid the uncomfortable and difficult, but that just means others have to put in your share of the work. In this case, just no. It’s not fair to healthcare workers and people who have sacrificed and want to get back to a semblance of normalcy when it’s safe.
#55
Making Fun Of Corona And Blm At Your 200+ Person Wedding. Yes This Was The Only Time Anyone Wore Masks
somnomania 5 years ago
not even that, they just look like white trash assholes who are a lot of the reason the situation is still as bad as it is in this country
Load More Replies... Lauren Caswell 5 years ago
Heads up their asses god I think they read that other post on how to be a douche!
#56
Uh Oh... Shame. On. Us. (18k In The Group On Facebook)
Troux 5 years ago
"Whichever one of you" "We both know who you are" I'm pretty sure you have no idea.
#57
Because We All Want Our Guests Knowing We’ll Be Too Drunk For Sex On Our Wedding Night
#58
Great Wedding Photos
Everybody Say Love! 5 years ago
Pretty sure that' Carole Baskins and her missing husband, right?
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AzKhaleesi 5 years ago
Carol baskins and her now dead husband whom I'm assuming she fed to a tiger
#59
Found In A Disney Shaming Group- I’m Sure Ashley Tisdale Would Be There!
Monday 5 years ago
...are these people mature enough to get married? I have nothing against marrying young, but this just seems...weird.
DamnBecky 5 years ago
They may not be as young as you think. HSM came out when I was at University and Im in my early 30s now.
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Rabbit Carrot 5 years ago
Like they don’t have better things to do other than go to random weddings.
#60
I Didn't Realize A Pandemic Stopped Once You Are "Over It"
PhantomBuni 5 years ago
Hey, we all are honey bun, I have six compromised people in my life, and I’m not giving them up because you and your sub-man over there want to sneeze and puke rainbows everywhere
#61
"People Are Still Afraid." I Mean, It's Not Like The Pandemic Is Still Happening, Right?
Janelle Madison 5 years ago
I lovvveee cookies but just wait until after COVID to have a wedding that way people can stay safe.
#62
I’m Sorry, You’re Trippin About Your Ex At Your Wedding? Wat
Monday 5 years ago
Yeah, the style on the right looks great on her body type.
Load More Replies... #63
This Trend Is Universally Bad, But This Iteration Is The Worst I've Personally Seen To Date
Jenn 5 years ago
Ok so I think we can all agree this is in really bad taste but, the women are all in red and (to me) looks like they are bowing down in some sort of awkward play on handmaid's tale . Not sure why anyone would do this.
Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
Anyone asking me to do this had better have a gun to my head. And be prepared for me to shove it in their teeth.
*sigh*, The Yellow Teletubby 5 years ago
for a second I thought they were bowing to their respective men, but... this might be worse than that...
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KombatBunni 5 years ago
My partner and I are going to wait until it’s safe again to have our wedding. Not sure when that will be but we are 100% certain that we don’t want to risk anyone’s heath..I have no issues with waiting :)
CamlikesCookies 5 years ago
That may have been a hard decision to make, but it was the right one :)
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Cecilia Bivald 5 years ago
I got the sudden urge to have a wedding where everyone is in white dresses and I’m dressed in black.. how’s that for a white wedding?
westwing 5 years ago
Man, There are a lot of selfish, willfully, ignorant hillbillies getting married who get their health advice from Donald Trump, a guy who isn’t smart enough to take care of a hamster....LOL
Steve 5 years ago
Actually, Mama Panda has as a point. Guests wearing wedding dresses, demanding huge gifts, tying puppies to tables and 97% of the rest of this has nothing to do with Trump, just bad taste
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Cathelijne van Weelden 5 years ago (edited)
Sometimes I feel a lot of people are putting way too much emphasis on all the external display and rules on how a wedding should be. In the end the only thing that it is all about is love.... Not the amount of people, how big your cake is or your car. It's about the love between 2 people nothing more and certainly nothing less...
Steve 5 years ago
Weddings in India can last over a week, and sometimes they invite everyone in town. Not just a US thing
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
The marriage matters, not the wedding. IMHO. Weddings are one day. Go say the vows, in a nice outfit, then have lunch, and spare yourselves and the world all the drama.... Did it that way, no regrets!
Helen Haley 5 years ago
Why does everyone seem to think that getting married means you can be a diva, the world owes you something, or that you can shake people down for presents?
Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago
So many people have lost sight of the fact that it is the marriage, and not the wedding, that is the most important thing here. So, if you were going to have a big wedding that happens to fall during quarantine, go ahead and get married, even if by Zoom. Then later, once the threat has passed, have the ceremony and party. Who cares if it’s not exactly your real wedding day—-it’s still a celebration of your marriage!
Kathryn Patterson 5 years ago
That is what my daughter and son-in-law did!
Load More Replies... Mohammad Azhaan 5 years ago
We have a family in our neighbourhood (18 members) who come to every family wedding with the whole crew, eat graciously and as a wedding gift, give us an envelope full of 10 Rupees ( $0.14 ). I mean if you want to be stingy, just dont give anything, why such meagre sum as if we are broke beyond means?
Viviane 5 years ago
These posts range from questionable taste on the part of the bride and groom (relatively harmless) through the inconsiderate (restrictive rules and/or demands for expensive gifts) to the truly dangerous. I'd attend the first, reconsider the second and definitely skip the third.
Eulalie Grace 5 years ago
My spouse and I had a nice wedding with good friends and family in attendance. didn't ask for anything - got nice gifts anyway. What people could afford, or not. Didn't care - just wanted everyone who was there to be there. Had an open bar - BIG HIT! Great food, family style. And lots of FUN! We just celebrated 25 years this summer. How long are these lovely ladies (🙄) and that crazy gun-toting maniac and his blushing bride going to be together?
KombatBunni 5 years ago
My partner and I are going to wait until it’s safe again to have our wedding. Not sure when that will be but we are 100% certain that we don’t want to risk anyone’s heath..I have no issues with waiting :)
CamlikesCookies 5 years ago
That may have been a hard decision to make, but it was the right one :)
Load More Replies... Cecilia Bivald 5 years ago
I got the sudden urge to have a wedding where everyone is in white dresses and I’m dressed in black.. how’s that for a white wedding?
westwing 5 years ago
Man, There are a lot of selfish, willfully, ignorant hillbillies getting married who get their health advice from Donald Trump, a guy who isn’t smart enough to take care of a hamster....LOL
Steve 5 years ago
Actually, Mama Panda has as a point. Guests wearing wedding dresses, demanding huge gifts, tying puppies to tables and 97% of the rest of this has nothing to do with Trump, just bad taste
Load More Replies... Cathelijne van Weelden 5 years ago (edited)
Sometimes I feel a lot of people are putting way too much emphasis on all the external display and rules on how a wedding should be. In the end the only thing that it is all about is love.... Not the amount of people, how big your cake is or your car. It's about the love between 2 people nothing more and certainly nothing less...
Steve 5 years ago
Weddings in India can last over a week, and sometimes they invite everyone in town. Not just a US thing
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 5 years ago
The marriage matters, not the wedding. IMHO. Weddings are one day. Go say the vows, in a nice outfit, then have lunch, and spare yourselves and the world all the drama.... Did it that way, no regrets!
Helen Haley 5 years ago
Why does everyone seem to think that getting married means you can be a diva, the world owes you something, or that you can shake people down for presents?
Kathryn Baylis 5 years ago
So many people have lost sight of the fact that it is the marriage, and not the wedding, that is the most important thing here. So, if you were going to have a big wedding that happens to fall during quarantine, go ahead and get married, even if by Zoom. Then later, once the threat has passed, have the ceremony and party. Who cares if it’s not exactly your real wedding day—-it’s still a celebration of your marriage!
Kathryn Patterson 5 years ago
That is what my daughter and son-in-law did!
Load More Replies... Mohammad Azhaan 5 years ago
We have a family in our neighbourhood (18 members) who come to every family wedding with the whole crew, eat graciously and as a wedding gift, give us an envelope full of 10 Rupees ( $0.14 ). I mean if you want to be stingy, just dont give anything, why such meagre sum as if we are broke beyond means?
Viviane 5 years ago
These posts range from questionable taste on the part of the bride and groom (relatively harmless) through the inconsiderate (restrictive rules and/or demands for expensive gifts) to the truly dangerous. I'd attend the first, reconsider the second and definitely skip the third.
Eulalie Grace 5 years ago
My spouse and I had a nice wedding with good friends and family in attendance. didn't ask for anything - got nice gifts anyway. What people could afford, or not. Didn't care - just wanted everyone who was there to be there. Had an open bar - BIG HIT! Great food, family style. And lots of FUN! We just celebrated 25 years this summer. How long are these lovely ladies (🙄) and that crazy gun-toting maniac and his blushing bride going to be together?
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