Rumors and gossip don’t equal the truth. What you’ve heard about some of the best holiday destinations in the world might not actually be what going there is really like.
And pretty much each and every place that’s worth going to has some stereotypes about it. From the romantic and culture-infused Paris to the party beaches of dozens of different towns and countries. But the locals are here to set the record straight.
A group of redditors dispelled the myths about their home cities and countries in a viral r/AskReddit thread, and we’re bringing their insights to you, dear Pandas. Read on and when you’re done, drop on by the comment section to tell us all about the myths about your home town.
Bored Panda got in touch with former art gallery director Shelby Bercume to have a chat about some of the myths about her home state, Florida, a place that got over 122 million visitors in 2021 alone.
"The sun shines all the time. I know we are called the Sunshine State but do recall this is also the land of hurricanes and floods. Also for whatever reason, our ads are always at these solitary beaches and stuff. We are so crowded! I don’t know where people got the idea we’re this laid-back remote beach place. If you know about Florida, so do all your friends. And they are all here to visit." she quipped. Scroll down to read the rest of Shelby's great insights, how to easily recognize tourists, as well as her warning about alligators in freshwater sources.

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I live in Las Vegas. Listen. What happens in Vegas stays on the internet and also in the stories of every local who saw you do it. Don't do stupid [things].
Wasn't there some ask reddit post years ago where a girl was concerned that if she got pregnant in Vegas her baby would have to stay there?
What? I wonder why not many people are exploiting this loophole
Load More Replies...I saw a baby jumpsuit once with the slogan "I'm What Happened In Vegas".
It used to be, you go holiday in some city, have a good time, get sh*tfaced and make a royal fool of yourself. Then you go home and whatever happened remains as a story you reminisce upon when you're out with the BFFs. These days, with the internet and smartphones, you may end-up crucified by public opinion, getting canned and probably go into witsec for stupidity while hammered. If that isn't so 1984 I don't know what is lol.
Unless you're into the Vegas/ Vegas history scene there's not much there that you can't get other places. I didn't think it was that gross when I visited there but I'm not a city person so it wasn't really my cup of tea. Decent food selection but you can get that virtually anywhere now. Not advocating you visit there, just saying it's really not a gross as people make it out to be.
Load More Replies...I lived in Reno for a couple of years. The biggest misconception people have is that gambling is fun. You sometimes see people playing craps having fun because it is a social game, but most gamblers are miserable.
Remember this: "The money you bring to Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas."
And if you’ve ever been to Vegas more than once you know it’s the armpit of America. Everything about it is a scam. While on a work trip there once, I went to dinner at a nice place with my brother. A lady befriended us & tried to convince my brother to sell me to her when I left to use the restroom. It’s a thing there.
Shelby told us a bit about what's popular in sunny Florida. "Key West is super popular. It has the typical Florida experience with the beaches and the huts and the drinks and the cute beach houses," she shared with Bored Panda.
"Orlando is also a fun one for the theme parks. If you are a little more adventurous you may also enjoy an airboat ride in the swamps of Everglades National Park," she gave some awesome suggestions.
Australia is big, varied, and safe. There are dangers here, but your biggest risk is yourself. Just read the signs (not a metaphor - there's signs about every danger everywhere) and use common sense.
Honestly, I've seen Americans and Canadians, who have been near f*cking grizzlies, freak out over a lizard. Just relax man, it's nice here.
Yeah, but in Canada if something wants to kill you, you can usually hear it coming. :P
There is nothing in Australia that wants to kill you. If you're stupid enough to swim where you've been told not to swim, that's on you. The snakes and spiders are more scared of you than you are of them and virtually no one does from snake and spider bites. Honestly, it's safer than being in North America. Also, no rabies.
Load More Replies...Don't forget to pay attention to the signs that say 'NO SWIMMING' - we do t put them up for shits and giggles - it's because there are either crocodiles or sharks. They're not pets so we do tend to not try to feed tourists to them where we can but if you insist well, what can I say
Or rips or undertows or stingy type jelly fish. They are definitely not to be ignored.
Load More Replies...For the love of everything do not, and this is a big don't, go anywhere near kangaroos in the wild. They are not skippy the bush kangaroo and don't want to be in your selfie.
We had roos come to us and snooze in front of our tent when we came back from a hike. One of them stole bread out of my hand! (Eastern Grey, so not the huge ones or we'd have just let them have the tent)
Load More Replies...It is nice in Aussie but there are many things that want to sting, bite, chomp and kick you to death. But still, if you use your common sense then you'll be ok!
My common sense tells me to STAY INDOORS whenever I'm in Australia -- or maybe go as far as the hotel pool.
Load More Replies...I’ve lived in Australia for 20 years and have lived in different cities and visited many others including some desolate ones. I’ve never had to be scared of anything. Yes, the most poisonous snake in the world, the Inland Taipan lives here but they’re extremely shy and only found in certain parts. Australia is amazing.
Hi! Canadian here! I'm one of the ones who yells at people who pull over on the side of the road to take pictures of the moose eating, or the bear out for a stroll. I promise we aren't all idiots here, the idiots just make the news.
Australia always seems like a really nice place to visit and travel around the countryside.
I mostly agree, but "common sense" has to do with what you learned growing up. There are not venomous insects in Germany, no poison plants and virtually no animals that can or would harm you in the wild. So I have got no clue. And from what I have heard about Australia, I would totally freak out over a lizard.
That's actually very true. I think we Aussies forget that we grow up with the warnings. Literally from birth!
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Los Angeles, specifically Hollywood. Literally everything about it is underwhelming. The Walk of Fame is cool for 2 seconds, Grauman's Chinese Theatre is smaller than you'd think, the Hollywood sign is just a big a** sign, and no, you're not going to run into a celebrities walking around. All the while it's incredibly crowded, smells terrible, and you have to dodge costumed street performers in droves.
Agree with things here. But yet… Santa Monica, Venice Beach, Malibu, Laguna Beach and Griffith Observatory are just awesome places. And don’t forget the amazing weather all year around.
Laguna Beach is in Orange county so it's not part of Los Angeles, but the beaches are beautiful.
Load More Replies...if you want to meet celebrities, go to an AA meeting in the Valley or West Hollywood.
or head to Calabasas lol. A good bunch of them don't even live in LA, they just come out here to work. I live in Sherman Oaks and I see many here or in Studio City or Encino.
Load More Replies...I always am hearing about how phony people in LA are -- that a huge percentage of people there only are interested in you if you can do something for their career. It sounds very dysfunctional and untrustworthy.
There are something like 4 million people in Los Angeles. As someone who was born in LA, I can promise not everyone is phony. In fact, most of them aren't.
Load More Replies...If I ever go to LA I will mostly be there to see all the places mentioned in Michael Connelly book lol :)
I visited Hollywood Boulevard and boy was I disappointed. I was also shocked by how dirty the place was.
It's turned into a landfill, pretty much. I work at the studios and my drive to and from work is always a treat...NOT
Load More Replies...Loved Santa Monica when I visited from Australia. Yes, Hollywood was hot dusty underwhelming.
According to Florida-based Shelby, it's always easy to spot someone who isn't a local. "You can literally tell how long a tourist has been here by how bad their sunburn is. That aside, it is really easy to spot a tourist though. Lots of pictures, walking slow, driving slow, stuff like that. As far as I am concerned, as long as you stay off the road during rush hour and are respectful of others, you are all good in my book," she subtly noted that tourists have to be considerate of the actual locals, too.
"If you are visiting Florida, assume that there are gators in every source of freshwater. DO NOT go swimming or let your kid or your pet swim in unfamiliar waters. Even if you think, 'This is a manmade pond. There can’t be gators,' trust me, there can and there are. Stay out," she warned everyone to be extremely wary of freshwater sources that they are unfamiliar with.
Tokyo here. I could name a few, but the one that always gets me is the misconception that people are going to accept (or even respond politely to) outrageous weebishness. If you roll up in Shibuya with a Naruto headband and a Hello Kitty backpack, trying to communicate through a handful of anime catchphrases while creepily leering at schoolgirls, people are rightly going to give you a wide berth.
Common sense has "common" in it for a real good reason. And then you live long enough to see the rather ironic humour in that the phrase. It is actually an oxymoron. Good sense isn't common and most people you meet lacked sense.
In Germany it's healthy human sense. For if you lack it, you're insane. Makes sense...
Load More Replies...Yeah, I think that's the issue more than the other things.
Load More Replies...Japan is still a traditional and conservative society. Yes, some folk rebel against this and get into nerdy culture, but they are the minority. It's kind of like if someone thought all of America loved Rick and Morty, played D&D, dressed up as Captain America etc.
Only lived there for a few months, but yes to all this. One particular aspect of Japanese culture (and not a particularly dominant part in my experience) is overly fetishized by deluded Western anime lovers who turn up in Tokyo with their dyed hair and kawaii outfits thinking they'll find their place or something - the majority of the population will give you more side-eye than you'd get back home.
None of this surprises me. I found the people in Tokyo (out on the street) to be incredibly unfriendly/unhelpful (and no, I wasn't a creepster like the one they describe)
Perhaps you were the problem. Japanese people cater to foreigners.
Load More Replies...my mom would love to go see Tokyo and i just realized that Kyoto is an anagram to Tokyo
Kyoto is the older city, therefore Tokyo is an anagram for Kyoto. Kyoto is cooler.
Load More Replies...Thats coz they are gonna think you are straight out nuts, unless you went to an Anime Con or something, though the leering at schoolgirls thing, doesnt sit well in any country.
I only lived there for a little while, but it’s a common misconception that Hawaii is a great place to live. Don’t get me wrong - it might be the most beautiful place on earth and there are many, many exceptional things about living there. But it’s terribly expensive just to grocery shop, let alone try to buy a house. Many people just live with their parents and grandparents because no one can afford to move out. So many houses and apartments/condos are bought as vacation properties, which drives up the price. Then, houses/apartments in residential neighborhoods have a revolving door of vacationers coming in and out, which is disruptive to normal life. (People on vacation care very little about how much noise they’re making, etc.) It’s a catch-22 because so much of Hawaii’s money comes from tourism, but tourism is making it impossible for locals to buy homes.
Groceries are super expensive if you continue to eat what you ate on the mainland. It's significantly more affordable if you transition to eating foods grown, manufactured, or packaged locally.
The expenses with groceries are due to the Jones Act from 1916, which states that to do Cabotage (Movement of products internally within a country via water routes) in the US, the ship must be 100% made in the USA, using 80% USA steel and metals, must be registered in the USA with an 100% American crew. US Made cargo vessels cost 2.5x what a German made one costs, then US Registry is expensive, and an all American Crew is also more expensive. This drives up costs of shipping goods via water routes in the US. Its why we Hawaii, Alaska, etc, are so expensive, and why we send so much goods via trucks down the East Coast rather than via boat
Load More Replies...The worst thing about living about living in Hawaii are the a*****e entitled tourists who have to respect for the land, wildlife, culture, and the people who lived here. It was so wonderful at the start of the pandemic when there were no tourists here.
Spam is so beloved by the locals the shop have to keep it behind mesh, locked to stop theft.
I thought Washington was bad. I saw that on Zillow, most places in Hawaii you want to buy land are at least $1,000,000. Forget about a house.
Banff, Canada
The bears aren't friendly, if you feed them, they will come back.
All deer are not Bambi, they will hurt you.
Cougars are not kitty cats, you look like a nice steak dinner to them.
Don't go hiking or skiing in the back country if you aren't prepared. You make my job as a search & rescuer hard when you make stupid decisions like that.
Yes snow may be fun for 2 or 3 days of your trip, but from September to July, it gets dull fast.
Am I salty about tourists? You bet
If I'm ever killed by a mountain lion, just know my last words were, "here, kitty, kitty!" Okay, but seriously -- anyone who thinks they're cuddly kind of deserves to be lunch.
I've been to Banff and it was one of the most beautiful places I ever saw! I came across a huge moose at one point, remembered what I'd read about the bastards, and kept my distance.
I lost count of how many times I had to tell idiots off for f*cking with wildlife during camping trips. Look you can observe, if you're quiet. Why the need to touch? We're miles in the jungle and on foot. If you get stung by something vemomous, the rest of us need to haul your a**e out to the jeep. That's a ruined trip and there is no guarantee you'll live either.
Loved Banff <3 But the number of people I've seen who litter or try to get close to wildlife is baffling. I'm Dutch, I've never seen a bear outside of the zoo, nor any other predator because we have literally none here, and even I could figure out that bears aren't cuddly.
We've had a few people eaten by lions here because they thought it was a cute kitty. https://edition.cnn.com/2015/06/08/world/africa-lion-attack-photo/index.html
Yep...people are surprisingly stupid when it comes to wild animals. In Florida we've had people injured by alligators because they think it will make a great photo to show all their friends, and in the west I hear lots of tourists want to take cool pictures with bison...
Load More Replies...The Australia post: "not everything here is trying to kill you! It's fine! Come on over!" The Canada post: "everything here is trying to kill you! It's dangerous! Stay home!"
The litter since the start of covid is disgusting. People leaving dirty diapers in parting lots, trash on hiking trails...
People treat nature like it's their own personal petting zoo, and then are stunned when they get mauled.
We also don't control when the animals appear, where they appear, or how often they appear. Your bridle party isn't "cute and unique" there's usually at least six other stag/stagettes in town at the same time as your group, all wearing the same stupid I'm getting married gear, and all think they're as important as your group does. The locals have private Facebook pages created to make fun of the tourists because of this stuff.
Professor Christine Vogt, the Director of the Center for Sustainable Tourism at Arizona State University, went into detail about traveling and respecting other cultures with us.
She said that learning a bit of the local language and about the local customs is a must when you’re going abroad. "More than likely that is what draws a person to visit a certain place. The more local knowledge a traveler has, the more a traveler can feel like a local and fit in," she told Bored Panda during an earlier interview.
"Local customs can include how a traveler dresses, eats, uses a cell phone, etc. When a traveler is out in a community such as walking in a downtown area or eating in a restaurant, these local customs can come into play,” Professor Vogt said.
Scotland is seen as a wild and untamed land. In reality our hills have been burned for grouse or grazed into oblivion by sheep and deer after all of our large native predators were hunted to extinction. A lot of those iconic barren hills used to have actual scrub and plant life on them. Livestock farming and hunting have ruined our countryside. A report came out the other day that also states that wildlife is declining faster in Scotland than anywhere else in the uk. The people want change - particularly doing away with the big estates causing a lot of the destruction - but money talks like anywhere else. I still love my country with all my heart which is why it is incredibly difficult to watch it being destroyed.
Your country is absolutely beautiful and I'd like nothing more than to see it revert back to its true glory in the countryside and its creatures come back into their large numbers again.
I thought that the larger estates were good for the Scottish environment as they managed the moorland for hunting. Also good news that the Africc Project is set to rewind half a million acres in Scotland!
Nah, the esates are s**t for it. They control the enviroment to be best for hunting deer and grouse. which means burning everything so there's freash shoots for grouse chicks and shooting any animal that could give them fleas or ticks. The enviroment is prefect for two animals....nothing else.
Load More Replies...A lot of people equate green rolling hills of England and Scotland as beautiful, but these are the sterile barren, treeless hills vacant of wildlife after thousands of years of complete deforestation. Nothing thrives in nothing. There are no trees left! That is NOT natural landscape. Scotland/England was covered in forest 2000 years ago. Where is it?
But OMG, the illustration is NOT going to succeed at keeping away!!!!
I live a 20 min walk from where this pic is taken. There's a view like this around most places in Edinburgh, except the streets where I live. They're a sh** hole. Just like the film Trainspotting, there's wealth and history here but there's also a huge amount of poverty that tourists don't see. The countryside is pretty though!
I’d love to visit Scotland, mostly because it’s the home of Primal Scream. What a band!
I'm curious about what were Scotland's native predators. Wolves, I guess. But were there others?
As a budding ecologist 20 years ago, I didn’t know exactly what was going on, but I actually found the Scottish moors creepy as much as I found them beautiful. At that latitude, in that climate, there should have trees. Lots of trees. Where are the trees???
why not introduce wolves into your country it could help with the deer and sheep population control
Hahahahahahahahaha.... Ha. Sorry. I'm guessing they'll have the same (if not worse) problem that they have in Germany with the return of the wolves. Edit: not the wolves are the worst part of the problem - it's the humans who don't like the wolves because they might eat their sheep of their dogs or 'their' deer.
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Florida here.
It's called the 'Sunshine State' but it rains every single day in the spring and summer. Tourists always seem surprised by that.
No there is no dome over Disney to control the weather or the bugs - though Disney does have a great mosquito control program.
Also, Miami is nowhere near as sexy as they make it seem on TV. That's like 2 streets by the beach and that's it, not that you want to be in that area because everything is more expensive and also sinking into the ocean so things keep collapsing.
The wealth disparity is disgustingly clear.
The REST of Miami is full of poverty, construction that gets abandoned, and tons of homelessness because of the batsh*t housing prices. Florida is only fun for the rich-rich. Don't come here if you're not, you WILL struggle.
From a Florida native, the Florida man is real. However, if you get to see the Florida man in his natural environment it means you vacation probably is in the process of ending tragically or in jail.
Load More Replies..."rains every single day". Yes, but you neglected to mention that when it rains in Florida, it rains for 5-10 minutes and it's all dried up within 20-30 minutes after. That is *very* different from so many other place where rain can last from an hour to many, many hours. Source: I grew up there (Tampa), 1966-1984
Exactly rain doesn't usually last very long at all. Plus when it rains in Tampa or Lakeland it isn't raining at all in Clearwater or st. Petersburg.
Load More Replies...If Ohio is the armpit of the US, Florida is the arsecrack. Worst place ever. Too hot and humid to enjoy during the day, too many mosquitoes at night, too many stupid laws by a crazy Governor, and the Florida Man. You name it, Florida's got it!
Gotta defend Florida as it's a state that is a victim of prejudice. Like all states there are good & bad places. Like all states there are rich & poor. Yes it rains for like a minute, alot in the spring & it's a welcome mist to cool you off. Just like Every Tropical Location. We have the most amazing produce & farm fresh food. An incredible variety of cultural foods from Latin to Indian & of course Caribbean. We make Great BBQ. We have Free Outdoor concerts. We have people who care about the Ecology, the Beaches & each other. Most of our bad press is from the overwhelming tourist population & relocating retirees. People move/visit here & leave their manners, if they ever had them ,where they came from. Pre 2020 Florida was incredibly affordable. Post covid relocators have boomed the real estate to New York levels. So if you wanna visit my state, act like a guest and treat it with the same respect you'd want shown to you. Stop trashing my beaches &driving like an a$$.
Load More Replies...And no not every local spends all their time at the theme parks, they are expensive and crowded, and if you work at one you want to be there less.
AMEN. I've lived here all my life, I went to Disney on opening day, and have been to some of the other theme parks, but not for 30 years. I have a couple friends with astronomically priced annual passes to the parks, but they are in the extreme minority.
Load More Replies...I love summer rain. I'd love to visit Disney in the rain, sound awesome to me 😍 (from Sweden)
Florida also sees more lightning strikes than anywhere else in the US. It's not "summer rain," it's thunderstorms.
Load More Replies...I went to Florida years ago, but i have fun in Disneyworld, Universal Pictures and others entertainment places. I only miss the Kennedy Space Center for an hurricane alert but I have enjoyed the trip
We lived on the beach in San Diego for years and apparently everyone who comes to visit thinks we like to party 24/7. Especially the AirBnB next door to us. We would ask nicely the day before to please knock off at 3am but often they would party til 5 and there's no reasoning with drunk young people. Since we woke up and left by 7:30am, we would put on a YouTube video titled "12 hours of a crying baby" and turn up the stereo and let it play the 5 or so hours we'd be away. It certainly opened the channels of dialogue and respect from there on out.
I would report it to AirBnB, tbh. My sister rented a house for her bridal party, but the renters had to take it down because people who lived in the neighborhood full time didn't like the parties and noise. (Edit - this is not a post pointing fingers or blaming the neighbors, as I would have done something similar. It is an observation of what I have experienced and what can be done about said noise.)
I don’t blame residents for wanting peace and quiet at night when they’re home and trying to sleep, because they have to get up early and go to work in the morning and/or they have babies/small children who need to sleep. I lived in a beach resort for ten years, and hated the fact that condo buildings were mixed year-round residential units and tourist rental units. Even single family houses in what should’ve been residential neighborhoods could end up next door to a weekly tourist rental. Considering just how f*****g expensive those houses were, it was infuriating that you spent that kind of money to spend entire summers being kept awake all night by the frat house behavior of the tourists in the house next door.
Load More Replies...I was born and raised in San Diego, the city is HUGE; this could be anywhere in the city. Also, SD has a big homeless problem, a lot of areas downtown reek of piss, and you do NOT want to pop down to Baja now that the cartels made Mexico too dangerous.
As a San Diegan, it’s really a kind of quiet chill place when you’re not downtown
After a long summer, our neighbor finally took his house off of airbnb. Living in a dense historic neighborhood, homes are very close. All night parties lasting till 4 am. At 6 am, my husband turns on his show tunes at full volume. We turn the lawn mower on and the leaf blower on for hours. My air compreßor in the garage just gets left on. Oh, we have kids and dogs, so all the kids were in our yard using the pool. The grill and smoker going.Even Airbnb tried to reach out to us about our morning routines.
Airbnb had some balls on that one, i like your style though
Load More Replies...Absolutely love the concept of fighting fire with fire via crying baby videos.
When we used to live in an apartment (only had people on one side of us) they would be so noisy. Hubby and I were both early risers for work. Our bedroom wall butted up against theirs. We had an awesome stereo back then. 2 foot tall speakers that hubby had built himself. So one weekend, we had had enough. We were going to go away for the weekend and we turned those speakers to right up against the adjoining walls, set the stereo to come on at 3am for 5 minutes and put on a record of the 1812 Overture (with real canons) and cued it up to just before the canons go off., and we left for the weekend.
“For example, in Buddhist countries, a woman who has not covered her shoulders or legs may not be allowed into temples or even a restaurant. Learn as many local customs as you can and a few key words to enhance your experience," she urged.
Unfortunately, some tourists are so disrespectful, they even take ‘souvenirs’ from historic sites. According to Professor Vogt, the locals can post the penalties for stealing, set up signs that would discourage this sort of behavior, and set up cameras to catch any rule-breakers.
Even something as setting up a display of items that have been returned by tourists can help motivate people to respect the local culture and history.
Alaska. Where to begin?? It’s not always dark. In fact, in the summer it’s quite light. Hence some difficulty viewing northern lights in summer months. Ditto cold — we do have summer. In Fairbanks we regularly hit 80° in the summer, sometimes hotter. But also our state is HUGE. So what’s true of Fairbanks isn’t necessarily true of Anchorage. Or Juneau. In fact southeast (Juneau, Ketchikan, etc - the cruise ship circuit) is almost like a separate state. They’re more like Seattle than the rest of AK.
People don’t ride around all day on dog sleds. We don’t live in igloos. We are Americans. Our Indigenous cultures are diverse and are not all Eskimo. Oh, and most of us can’t see Russia from our back yards.
As a non-Alaskan thank you for confirming this!!
Load More Replies...I went to Anchorage once on a trip (and some other places), and it was genuinely wonderful. It was over my spring break, so it was admittedly pretty cold and foggy almost every day. However, I did see some AMAZING orcas, seals, bears, wolves, and etc! In some of the less populated areas, you can see amazing wildlife. Honestly, a great place for a trip if you like nature and don't mind the cold.
Eskimo? Thought we left that one behind in favour of Inuit in the 90's? Feel free to correct if wrong!
I'm not sure about Americans but I know in Canada we use Inuk or Inuit.
Load More Replies...It is hard to grasp the sheer size of Alaska. Most mainlanders think CA and TX are big....Alaska is bigger than CA TX, and MT combined.
Hi! Neighbour Canadian here! We're so close we offer helicopter rides to Ketchikan, we can see Alaska on a clear day from the top of a mountain and we're along your cruiseship route! We love you guys!
(Bahamas) What's funny is when people come to the main island, and are surprised to find out that the entire place isn't a clean, beautiful, sandy tropical island no matter where you go. It's also funny when they find out the murder rate (which is high in comparison to the size and population).
Other popular misconceptions by people who know nothing about us are that we are (and I have seriously heard every last one of these) loin cloth wearing savages that fish all day, drink out of coconuts, and live straw houses, and sleep in hammocks. That does however perfectly describe the native people who were killed off by the Spanish hundreds of years ago soon after the western world was discovered. Someone once seriously asked me, "Do you guys ride dolphins or are they just friends." My response, "They are our main form of transportation as decreed by King Aquaman."
Remember this - there will always be someone stupider than you think should be possible.
Load More Replies...WOW!!😳 i was shocked you guys have such a high murder rate, you just kissed my mom's dreams of going to the Bahamas goodbye.
My grandpa is from Dominican Republic and when we went we stayed at a resort. Then we did an activity outside of the resort and I was quite surprised! It was full of poverty and was not very nice like people said. I still love it thought!
To be honest i did not expect murder rates to be higher in the bahamas.
I live in the Caribbean and a lot of people (foreigners) seem to think in my island we live by the sea sipping coconuts all day.
In reality my country is struggling.
We had a hurricane like 3 yrs ago and people still live in sh*t (the government has helped a lot of people with housing to be fair) The man in power may or may not have stole like 1.5 billion dollars, this led to a major protest the other day and election is coming soon so yay more drama.
In other words the Caribbean is not a heavenly get away where nothing bad happens.
"Speaking of bad things, as a random side note" if you take a trip to any Caribbean island rape, robbery especially of white tourists (not really a race thing but a lot of people falsely think they are rich cus white skin) and human trafficking are a very real problem stay safe guys.
I noticed the same about folks from developed countries going to less developed countries. It's not as safe as your home country. I lived in these cities for work before. Imagine you going into the shady parts of your city, where you wouldn't want to be walking alone at night. Now that is the norm in a lot of these places.
Worked in India for a couple of weeks, not a tourist area, seriously poor, and absolutely safer than my home country. As long as you didn't try to drive. Just one tiny, tiny part of India, but without the 'corruption' of the tourists, easy money walking around, it was fantastic.
Load More Replies...The Caribbean encompasses many areas so I'm curious exactly where this person is referring to. Been to the Caribbean about 3 times and loved each and every time. Never felt like I was in danger.
This! There are 16 countries in the Caribbean and they can't all be the same. It's like saying "I've been to Europe, didn't like it there"... Well... Be more specific!
Load More Replies...My friend is a FEMA manager, who was sent to Puerto Rico immediately after Hurricane Maria hit. She is an incredibly adventurous soul; born in North Africa, she's lived in about 15 different countries. She told me Puerto Rico was one of the most beautiful, and saddest places she'd ever been. Tourist places are always in better nick than their surroundings, it seems to me, but she said the poor people who lived away from the big tourist towns were in such dire need that she said some would not survive. Most of the islands struggle just to survive, I think.
Yeah drug and weapon trafficking is big in the Caribbean so it's easy to get there and people thing that if they have a gun they are bold... Like no joke when you live in the Caribbean you just have to take a look at Snapchat to find a ton of 13yo playing with guns thinking they are whatever gangster. Also kids tend to get tatoos, strat drinking and consuming drugs early there too and I know a lot of them that dropped out and didn't even finish high school because they would rather stay on the street... I mean that's the sad reality of it
Again, where? The Caribbean is large and diverse and not all islands are this way. Where my family comes from education is excellent and kids strive to leave the island for better opportunities. I've also studied parts of the Caribbean as a research assistant in college and, no, it is not true accross the board. Some islands or nations may have extremes, and all islands have it to some degree as with most countries, but it is not wise to generalize like this. Tourists in touristy areas are generally safe unless they are just truly oblivious and in that case it really couldn't be helped no matter where they went. If you're a target, you're a target in both nice and bad places, whether it's the hotel manager charging you double or the pickpocketer. Don't try to be a world traveler staying in hostels etc if you're not equipped
Load More Replies...I am crossing my fingers that your country get better with the human trafficking and such so it does have a good rating because this one broke my heart but i am glad i got this info before i think about going there
Tourists go to these developed little enclaves where everything is clean and luxurious. It's true in the Caribbean, and also over much of Asia. Oftentimes tourists have no idea of the poverty and struggle that the people are going through in the "real" country, because they never see it. They stay in their little bubble and think everything is luxury. I get quietly irritated by people talking about "Oh Bali is SO lovely. Oh Jamaica is SO lovely. Oh, Maldives is SO lovely." Honestly, I know those people are clueless.
Indeed. Its the same in India. Tourists go and see the few famous monuments while staying in their fancy hotels. They talk about how wonderful and spiritual it is. My partner lived there for some time and yeah, no. It is a really harsh place unless you are rich. He was living in a normal area and he talks about people defecating in the streets because they were too poor to have a toilet, homeless and hungry, women being treated like s**t. They kept trying to scam him because white=rich in their mind and a shady couple even tried to sell him a kid.
Load More Replies...Some years ago, it was assumed Cuba was the safest country for women. Not sure if that was really true or not.
London. People think it's really quaint and idyllic and we all fart around drinking tea and twirling canes. A huge majority of it is a sh*thole. The buses look very nice on a postcard but they generally stink of piss. The Thames could probably kill you if you dip a toe in. The London Eye is boring as sh*t.
Pubs are good though.
That's if you live there. Also when people plan to visit London they don't intend to roam around alley ways and have a picnic on the road. Central London has a lot to and the city's museums are among the best in the world. The Thames and the London eye are meh I agree, but then again for tourists it's something new.
This article is literally about the misconceptions of tourist cities written by people who live there. So yes, that is “if you live there”, because whoever wrote this blurb does live there.
Load More Replies...Also, don't come to Oxford Street for the shopping any more. Unless you like American Candy stores. We counted 26 (!) in just about any vacant lot while walking between Marble Arch and Piccadilly Circus. Who the hell needs that much American Candy!! (Yes, we know it's a money laundering thing)
Has this person even been to London? There’s lots to see and do, amazing museums, beautiful parks, historic landmarks, world class galleries etc. The view from the London Eye is pretty spectacular actually and it’s well worth a visit, but avoid Madame Tussaud’s, it’s pretty naff and expensive and don’t bother with Piccadilly Circus, it’s literally a traffic roundabout.
This person lives in London. The literal title of this article is “60 People Who Live In Vacation Destinations Dispel The Most Irritating Misconceptions About Their Cities”.
Load More Replies...The Thames is pretty clean actually except for microplastics, where it has a real issue. That's why you get sea horses, seals, sharks (yes really). In total it is home to over 115 species of fish and wildlife according to the latest study. Not sure when the OP lived there but if you die in the Thames, it's because you drowned.
I think that's the point - the Thames will kill you as soon as look at you. Tower RNLI is the busiest lifeboat station in the country, followed closely by Chiswick. Don't fall in. If your dog falls in, call 999 and let the lifeboat sort it out. My OH kayaks on the Thames, we treat her with respect.
Load More Replies...Going to Hyde Park when the weather permits - with a coffee and a book use to be my pass time. And then there are also load of other little parks that are less popular and therefore much quieter. Covent Garden.... just around the corner from the tube station is also another favorite.
This person has a negative and twisted view of London. I've never been on a London bus that smelt of piss, they are generally amazing and we are incredibly lucky to have night transport through the city. When I was in Tokyo I was shocked to find they didn't have night buses. You really do get stranded after the last train there.
I've been told by people who live in England and my family who've been there to visit to just not bother with London. Go to the other towns and cities. But any city, big or small, is going to have it's less charming aspects no matter where you go in the world. If you really want experience a countries culture, get out to the small villages.
I live in Munich. We just had Oktoberfest. The most aromatic of all events. Vomit. Urine. Mostly vomit.
Some parts are really nice, like when the Bavarian towns all in their traditional clothes playing traditional music procees down major streets! But other than that, I agree. Go to Frühlingsfest for a carnival experience without drunk Australians
Oktoberfest is wonderful even if you don't like beer, because there's a huge amusement area where some rides are over a hundred years old. BUT my husband insists leaving before 8 pm. That's when all the young people start puking. (And quite a few start early.)
i live close to oktoberfest (0,4 miles) and have friends , which litterally live 10 yards beneath (there are normal houses all around the location), so they go on holiday, when it starts - too crowded, too mixed smells. the last 2 years, oktoberfest was suspended due to corona, these were calm times and we did the rollerskates and longboard at the empty field. apart from that, i enjoy living here, its a green city with good air, and a river, which cuts the heart of the city in two, to use for dogwalking, have a sunbad or do naturism.
Actually not. I'm from Munich and the Oktoberfest is for everybody. It's just, as local, I can't go there anymore. Way too much people, pissing and pucking everywhere, drinking their brains to trash and all. And the prizes!!! Once it was nice. But it gets worse every year.
Load More Replies...I love Munich! I spent 3 weeks there in the summer of ‘99. Beautiful city!
For some reason this reminds me of an end of season episode of Buffy The Vampire Slayer called "Beer Bad". Heh.
I think tourists are probably the same at any sort of festival. I can only imagine it is like New Orleans during Mardi Gras... tons of drunk tourists pissing in doorways and puking everywhere. I had a friend who lived just outside the French Quarter who had to move because she couldn't take it anymore. Our big event is Bike Week, which has cleaned up a lot, but used to be a real problem for the locals.
I lived in Amsterdam for five years. I realized pretty quick for the rest of my life saying you lived in Amsterdam means people assume you’re really into weed, illicit drugs, crazy parties, hookers, or a combination of all that. In actuality, most of my going out was for drinks with colleagues, I don’t like pot, and only ever went to the red light district when someone visiting me was curious enough to see it.
Amsterdam native here: we think weed is for teenagers and look down on all the grown ass tourists that are to stoned to function and vomit on our streets.
Went on a stag do to Amsterdam, none of us smoked weed, we visited some beautiful museums, got our geek on looking at art, avoided the red light area, enjoyed the city, all had a few beers (no-one threw up), had a great time and managed to completely avoid being an embarrassment to our country (I hope!). The benefits of stag dos for 40+ year olds 😀
Load More Replies...And please, if you are new to cycling in cities, just walk. You are a danger to yourself and us.
I don't think it's about biking in cities, it's about biking in Amsterdam. When I was there for a conference, I only went by foot, and I would sometimes spend 10 mins at an intersection trying to cross safely. In the streets that I took, there was barely any crossroads, and everybody drives crazy (cars, bikes, motorcycles, buses and trams alike). I was really baffled that there is not more accidents as it felt like there are no rules and everybody just does what they want.
Load More Replies...Contrary to popular belief, only ~25% of the Dutchies have ever tried weed. Also, weed isn't legal, it's condoned, and it's MUCH stronger than weed from other countries. Tourists who come here for the drugs and prostitutes annoy the s**t out of the Amsterdammers.
Exactly, people have so much misconception of Amsterdam. Sadly, there are some people have the idea that one can buy weed out on the street. Speaking of prostitutes, isn't it illegal to take pictures of them?
Load More Replies...This is what you get while being Dutch everywhere. They always ask you if you're selling or if you want to buy drugs. Weird thing is that I've been in several cities throughout Europe and the drug use in the streets is way more abundant than I've seen in any city in the Netherlands.
Red light districts are areas where sex workers are available, whether or not it's legal. These were often created by the authorities, to keep the prostitutes away from the civilians in town. In the southern US, (I know because I've seen it) and maybe other locations, prostitutes would signal their profession with a red light on the porch. I've read that the brothels used to use red lights inside for two reasons, first, you can come and go in red light without your eyes needing to readjust every time, and second, because red light hid the sores and bruises on the worker's bodies. I don't know how much of this is true, but I do know that I was very curious about the house around the corner with the red light and all the visitors when I was a kid.
Load More Replies...Amsterdam is nice compared to a lot of other capital cities. I still prefer the Hague though (biased, I lived there a while).
Amsterdam is a small town compared to any actual city. It's the Randstad in general that gives us this dense population with some actual numbers in people. Also having lived in one of the poorer parts of Amsterdam for twenty years, it's ok. Nothing special, lots of the same issues as other places.
Load More Replies...I was born there. I like Amsterdam on a sunny Tuesday in November (seriously, find the video called 'Amsterdam, a day in Autumn' on YouTube. Shot it on my phone but it shows the city at its best) when it's not full of people and the atmosphere is calm but buzzy. I never smoked weed, I never went to a prostitute (very much respect them though), I'm not a wild person. I do like cheese. But jeez, every time you talk to someone, especially from the USA, they ask about our weed policy. It's decriminalised and that's all. You can own a bit, you can sell it, but you can't own tons do don't ask where the shops get it from.
If Op said to me "I live(d) in Amsterdam my assumptions would be: 1. owns a good bike, and somehow their whole family manags to store their bikes in tiny partments; 2. does not own a car and probably does not have a driving licence; 3. is RICH ; 4. tiny apartments/flats 5. ets a lot of fish; 6. smokes a lot of cigarettes; 7. tried pot more than once; 8. has a friend who works in red district
I live in California. Non-Californians be like "ohhh wow I love all the palm trees and the beaches, you are so lucky!".
I live in the middle of a desert. Nothing but dirt, joshua trees, 70 mph winds, and sagebrush.
For real. The beach? Optimistically, that's an hour and a half away. Disneyland? That's at least an hour, maybe two. Six Flags? Two, three hours, easy. But we've got two Amazon warehouses and an old Air Force Base in town, so if that seems like paradise, by all means, come visit.
I live in Northern California, pine trees, mountains, snow and 2 lane highways. Our worst traffic jams are when long haul semi drivers use Google maps and think that they can drive through our canyon. They can't as there are hair pins turns(really tight corners) and they become stuck and have to wait for the highway patrol to get them back to where they came from. Happens about 1-2 times a week.
I live in the Northern CA wine country. It's not actually party country. Here, wine is an agricultural product, not a fashionable lifestyle. We're generally an informal lot and neighborhoods tend to shut down by 10 pm. We'll assume you're tourists if you dress up to dine out & throw late night parties.
same with Florida. I thought it would be hot, exciting, fun, the beach was always there... no. It rained for months, the closest beach was 3 1/2 hours away and when you do not have money... there will not be much to do.
That's how I feel about my state - Florida. I don't care for the beach, absolutely hate palm trees, not a fan of the non-indigenous oak trees, humidity can be suffocating, and in Central Florida, there's no breeze and a lot of mosquitoes. However, 97% of places have air conditioning, the colors are gorgeous, Cuban /Spanish cuisine is sooooo good and people are generally nice.
Not all of New York City is as crowded as the touristy areas. The vast majority of us aren't navigating through Times Square as part of our daily commutes (but mad sympathy to those who actually have to).
I've heard people say that they've been to Brooklyn but not yet to NYC. Brooklyn IS PART of NYC.
Load More Replies...Also, people can be really nice. I actually found people nicer in NYC living there for ten years, than I did in Indiana, where "hospitality" is part of the state slogan.
I have lived here my whole life, exactly been in Time Sq just once in over 3 decades. Passed under it on the subway. Many residential neighborhoods all over NYC, we have a federal wildlife preserve in NYC, there is even still one official farm left in NYC. And Staten Island gets forest fires all the time. Most people think all NYC is, is just the area from 110th and south in Manhattan. There are five other boroughs, including the one where both airports you flew in are.
I'm jealous that you've only been to Times Square once, lol
Load More Replies...My husband took me to New York for my 40th and we absolutely loved it! Would love to go back some day.
Visiting & living there are completely different. I don't recommend living there.
Load More Replies...It's all insanely crowded. At least from the perspective of literally anywhere else in America.
NYC is one of the few places in the US that is built more around public transport than motor vehicle transport. It's fairly similar to some tourist cities in Europe only there's a lot more people living in NYC or there for business than said European cities.
Load More Replies...I was very surprised to learn that Staten Is. has deer, turkeys, and driftwood beach huts.
I just went 2 weeks ago with my kids and we loved it. We only had 2 full days to explore but I definitely want to take them back so we can explore the other burrows.
I think you may have meant boroughs. Burrows are holes in the ground 😂😂😂
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I live in Las Vegas. People are occasionally shocked when they hear I work at a school. I've been told several times, "I didn't even think Vegas had schools."
Where else are the kids going to learn how to play slots.
Load More Replies...This one I can believe. I've met people who thought Las Vegas was strictly a party town and no one actually lived there.
Well, how else and who else will teach you about gambling and casino work?!
I think a lot of folks think Vegas is just The Strip. Tourists tend to only see the "attractions" and never see any of the rest of the area. In NYC it's probably Times Square, in Orlando it's theme parks, in New Orleans it's Bourbon Street.
My cousin lives in Henderson and only ever goes to the strip if someone is in town.
Vegas is a big inland desert city, that happens to have two strips of casinos in it briefly. Living there and not gambling is no different to living in Phoenix.
Idk if Ireland necessarily counts as a vacation destination but something that gets really old really fast is that tourists expect us to be drunk and roudy all the time? We are pretty proud of how friendly and welcoming we are, even in our biggest cities there's always someone willing to help a lost tourist close by. We are not always drunk or always looking for fights.
Never had anyone assume we’d be drunk and rowdy when I worked in hospitality. Have to say, Canadians were the sweetest (do you all travel with gifts or was I just lucky?), Americans were always so grateful for information about Dublin but the English? They were actually so rude. (Just the English, Scots and Welsh were lovely)
I can attest to that. We asked for directions and the person walked us to the restaurant. Very friendly, extremely nice people in Ireland AND fun!
I'm half Irish and half Canadian ... i am all kinda friendly 😃
😂 The one bit of that episode I found annoying was the beer bottles on the runway. They were all brown. No green or clear bottles! The rest of it I laughed my socks off at.
Load More Replies...Also, yes you will be walking a lot. No we have no interest in hearing how you're Irish too.
I live in Paris and all the tourists go to eiffel tower or the louvre museum. Sorry but noooo, there are so much other superb place in Paris. Also I hate how everybody says Paris is city of love. Sorry but noooo, you walk out of your appartment and you have 1 000 cigarets/meter on the street. It's just disgusting. PS: To all tourists, please go to other cities in France, there are many better places in France, Paris is the worst.
Been to Paris and loved it, even drove my car through the city and was impressed by the flow of traffic. And at the end of the day found some acceptable kebab for like 5 euros...
Hmm So went there and it wasn't that disappointing to me, mostly was surprised by the thing of people not picking up their dog poop.
humm :" Some New Yorkers just can’t seem to bring themselves to pick up after Fido: The borough had the most 311 complaints — 740 — for “dirty conditions” caused by dogs in fiscal year 2014, according to city data. Following closely was Queens, which had 728 complaints. Brooklyn had 614; Manhattan had 220. Staten Island had the lowest number of complaints — 140 — — for the 12 months ending in June. In total, the city fielded 2,442 complaints for the year."
Load More Replies...But if you love art, go to Paris. There are other galleries besides The Louvre, which are smaller and less daunting.
I'm not that knowledgeable on art but there are so many galleries indeed of sculptors, painters, various collections of foreign (like I think ethnical is the word) art, designers galleries... I've visited some of them and as not that big of an art fan my favorite was the "musée Grévin" which has stunning wax reproductions of famous people I genuinely loved it and I think it's a fun place to go with family
Load More Replies...I live in Paris and I can’t say he’s right. Sure, France as a LOT of beautiful places to see, exquisite countryside, cute villages and beautifull town but if you go to France, you had to see Paris at least once. The Eiffel tower is boring (I never go there), but the Louvre museum is really nice. There is a lot of good museums or other places to see, tho. The city is nice when you’re here as a tourist, but it’s a nightmare as a parisian.
Paris is a great place to visit, but living there can be very very hard
Completley agree with this one. Never caught what people find about Paris (and I've even never lived there). There are so much nicer cities.
there must be many stupid people in the world since Paris has been the second most visited city in the world for years ! lol
Load More Replies...Paris is a great place to spend a day when flying into France before heading elsewhere in France
Australian here.
Sydney and stuff are expensive. But the one thing that people underestimate about our country is the sheer size of it, people go to the hotspots like Uluru, GBR, Sydney and Melbourne but they forget that it is a country nearly the size of USA. It's not small and you will meet people who have never left their state before.
The bigger mistake people make is not realising that Australia is virtually unpopulated. So while it's as big as America, you can't cross it like you can America. You can't even get to quite a bit of it, or at least not without a lot of expense and trouble.
One of the most dangerous things tourists can do in Australia is "just get in the car and drive". An English tourist said that to me many years ago. He'd just been road tripping around New Zealand and thought he could do the same here. I said "mate, people DIE in this country because they do that. And people are literally never seen again!"
Load More Replies...Don't think of Sydney as a destination but rather a jump off point for the hundreds of other amazing places we have on offer here such as Newcastle, the Hunter Valley, The Soutern Highlands, the Blue Mountains just to name a few and that's just NSW. Our country is vast, and we offer everything from fabulous wines, gorgeous vistas and the most beautiful flora and fauna which are specific to Australia such as wombats, koalas, quokkas, kangaroos, echidnas and platypus. You can do as little or as much as you like, be totally adventurous or be a tranquil tourist, the choice is yours. Just be respectful of our laws and treat our animals with respect
If you're arriving in Sydney you're highly unlikely to see a quokka. They really only live on Rottnest Island, which is near Perth - 3300km (2000 miles) away. It's quite lovely, and worth seeing, it's just a really long way away from the east coast.
Load More Replies...Similar size ignorance in Canada: My Mother had an aunt visiting from Cheshire, England. She liked southern Ontario a lot, but she really wanted to drive over to the Calgary Stampede, as she'd seen it on the telly. We had to disappoint her that the drive would be a week out and a week back.
I live in Australia and still haven't seen a lot of places- including Tasmania, Western Australia, Adelaide etc. I have been to Alice Springs though and it was about 24 hours to get home. There are plenty of things to do in each state, so if you only have time for one, there is a lot to occupy your time.
I think it is true for many places of the world that tourists see more of the country than the natives. I've seen Tasmania, Kakadu NP, Townsville, Cairns, been scuba-diving in the reef, Sydney, Melbourne, Uluru (and Kata Tjuta (sp?)) and Alice Springs and Great Ocean Road (not made it to Adelaide, though). Great country but I think I've seen more of it than I have of my own country (Germany)
Load More Replies...And we don’t all live near Bondi bloody Beach and go surfing every day. To live in Sydney, as in Canberra, you need a job so we don’t spend all day at the beach: we’re more likely to be standing sweating on a bus commute trying to afford our $600 a week rent.
As a Sydney-sider, you can visit a range of incredible destinations in Australia alone. Just travelling from one coast to another will give you completely different scenery.
Our biggest issue? Have you watched the news lately?
Load More Replies...I used to live in Bangkok, Thailand. Not all Thai women are prostitutes and easy. In fact, they're pretty conservative and preserved. Most of female millennials are educated white collar workers. And we're more into Korean or Japanese culture/people than the western. Everyday BKK women won't approach men first because it's a big NO NO unless they're from certain areas. Those who work in sex industry come from the poor parts of Thailand or near by countries where there're not many job opportunities.
It is sad that many have reduced Thailand to these shitty stuff... Never been there but want to visit for its beauty and all..
Why the heck would they think ALL WOMEN there are prostitutes ?!? I mean there's probably some as everywhere but it's so disrespectful to assume that wth ?
I've never think about Thai women in that way, but due to western men with their habit about sex tour, I avoid to go there alone, 'cause at my age I would be considered like a perv sex tourer right after passport check... I believe not to be the only one to think this. sorry to miss a chance to see that beautiful and ancient place.
That New Yorkers are rude.
We can be totally. But it’s because you mess up the flow of the rest of us who need to get somewhere.
If you get lost a New Yorker will jump at the chance to help. Need a photo taken for your vacation someone will take the snapshot.
New York really did surprise me with this. Super nice people and if I was looking at a map, people would voluntarily stop and ask if I needed help. Even a guy that didn't speak English could tell I was looking for a connecting bus to get me to the airport. He made sure I got on it. New Yorkers are awesome people.
My experience exactly! New Yorkers are fantastic people.
Load More Replies...When I was in NYC, I caught a taxi and asked to go to an address in downtown NYC. The taxi driver was so kind and honest. He said he could take me there, but it was just around the corner. So kind!
NYC was ranked in a study as the most helpful city and the most rude city in NYC. And its true. I was once walking, saw someone drop a huge stack of papers, everyone just bent down, picked up the ones nearest to them, handed off to the person, and we all walked on our own way without saying anything. We all had places to go, but helped out. Also it can get annoying when Tourists ask questions, like right in front of Macy's Herald Sq, asking where the Empire State Building was. I told them to look up, pointed at the building, and said "just walk that way" and I went on my way. They probably thought I was rude. But I was in a rush, and I gave them 100% accurate directions.
I was late for work and some tourists tried to get me to stop to take their pic. I answered them, "sorry, I'm late". I heard them say, "see? NYers are rude". I turned around and told them, "I gave you an answer, it just wasn't the answer you wanted. Rude would've been not answering you at all".
Load More Replies...Yes for the love of Odin, move faster or stay out of the effing way. It's entirely possible to take in the sights while not blocking traffic. Super pet peeve, watch your hellspawn. Artemis forbid, you let them loose and they get hit anything going at speed, including humans.
Why are you mentioning so many different mythical gods?
Load More Replies...I found NYers to very friendly and helpful - especially when I was in the way and they wanted me to move.
We had a great example of this while visiting about 15 years ago. Mom and I standing on a street corner with our map, trying to figure out how to get to a museum. A jogger stopped to help us, then another pedestrian. We ended up with 5 New Yorkers talking about the best way to send us. Then one said "you'll get lost, follow me" and took us there.
When I was in New York as s kid everybody was super friendly, not even taxi drivers where cussing each others, real shock!
Yup! Mentioned this above. People in NYC are really, really nice. Much nicer than in the midwest, where you expect people to be nice.
I remember my first time in NY, I had this misconception… until a businessman in a suit carried my bag up the STAIRS at Penn Station. Didn’t say a word, just carried my bag up, and went on his way.
More context; I was like 100lbs, and my bag was heavy as f*ck… thank you random guy!
Load More Replies...I’m in my sixties now, and I’ve decided that people everywhere fall into two basic categories: nice people, and assholes. Sometimes assholes can be nice, and sometimes nice people can be assholes, but you generally fit into one category or the other—-and it is up to other people, NOT you, to decide which one you are. So yeah, some New Yorkers are assholes, but others are the nicest people you could ever meet. PS It is my greatest wish that the ratio is only one a*****e to one hundred million nice people, though it feels like there are way more assholes than nice people these days.
I don’t live there, but a lot of my family does and I’ve been there (Jamaica)
It’s a paradise
No, it isn’t. A lot of people can’t afford food, water, and electricity at the same time (apparently electricity used to be cheaper but since the government is a total assh*le they sold it to some company and now it’s expensive)
Probably not a misconception because it’s sadly one of the things we are known for (especially if you live in the uk) crime. Our crimes are pretty bad. Not as bad as Latin America, but it’s still bad, and our job market isn’t exactly helping its case (it’s pretty bad, and the mlms also are not helping) (do keep in mind that some places are saferthan others, like port Antonio)
The people here are nice
Well yes, but actually no. We tend to be vain and general assh*les to other Jamaicans . We will treat tourists nicely if your a tourist because your basically one of the few things that fuel our economy
And don’t come if your gay, they won’t mind killing you and your spouse for being bad to the Bible or some sh*t.
The country is nice, but we could really use a do over..
I feel like homophobia is a big thing in the Caribbean... Like you would expect it to be the thing of 50+ yo's that would call you out on it but NO even teenagers are this way ! Like I'm a boarder at my school and like girls and boys are separated and they are like those two gay guys THAT ARE NOT EVEN TOGETHER but still getting sh*t about the fact that them being gay means they must be having s*x and they are over criticized by a lot a people, from the students to the cafeteria workers... Still I admire how brave they are to not give a s**t and still put their make up on and carry on with their day after getting all of that !
I never have any plans to go to Jamaica - there's better places to go if you want the tropical or island experience, without having to go to a place full of garbage and crime... and worse of all, the rampant homophobia. The Greek islands are fantastic!
I was so sad when our Sandals All-Inclusive Resort bus took us on a trip across Jamaica to Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville. It was a real wake-up call (and bummer!) to witness the living conditions of the locals while riding a bus on my way to buy a $20 hamburger. While I'm glad to have shattered my illusions, haven't been back since.
Jamaica is on a lot top ten lists of where not to travel 🏳️🌈😵🏳️⚧️
there are mass garbage mountains everywhere in Jamaica and it is pretty dangerous.... resorts and tourist attractions are very pleasant. But going in to the towns, villas and rural areas, they are very run down and dangerous. I love Jamaica .... but it definitely is a third world country.
I once vacationed in Jamaica alone. Never again. The resort where I stayed - very pretty and safe. Venturing out into the local areas? I felt so out of place, stupid, and vulnerable. I had to fend off so much b******t. And seeing the widespread poverty outside of the resort areas made me feel like an a*****e. I knew I was getting the postcard experience and kind of hated myself for it. Also, the men were EXTREMELY aggressive. I spent the last three days of my vacation hiding in my hotel room.
"Not as bad as Latin America". In fact Jamaica it more dangerous than most of Latin America.
Jamaica’s Alright (If You Like Homophobes) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Npmb8whrJF4
New Zealand here. It's sold as a clean green eco country where there are views out every window and you can romp along the empty tracks and beaches to your heart's delight... The realty is a lot different. The country is going through an eco crisis, water quality in most rivers has dropped to the point where they are not swimmable, old school sewerage overflows are contaminating the beaches and every track of international note is shuffling room only. While there is still stunning scenery, the rest of the country is struggling to keep up with an influx of people alongside a housing crisis that's made home ownership a pipe dream for many.
Tourists often think that, being such a small country, they can drive from A-B in X hours as that's what it would take back home for that distance. The realty is that the majority of our roads/highways are single lanes on winding roads with one way bridges and few chances to overtake. The drivers suck and you will cop a gesture or two if you dare look at another driver.
For the most part people are nice and friendly but it's like every other developed country. Leave something of value in your car and it'll get nicked. Walk down a dark Street at night and some P head will try one over on you. Flash a bit of coin and someone will figure out a way to part you with it.
New Zealand's a great country but it is a heavily developed country which comes with all the associated problems. It's a long time since it's been 100% Pure.
Please do not make it sound as though a lot of this happens up and down the whole country. It does not.
As a non native reading OPs post I didn't read it like that. I read it more as a "if you play stupid names you get stupid results" kind of thing if that helps
Load More Replies...Kiwi here, agreed 100%. most of the beautiful scenery/LOTR scenery is in the south Island, not the north. I've road tripped the country many times in all seasons and it's gorgeous, but our cities are like every other city. They're not that awesome. And everything is expensive. My god it's so expensive to live here.
Nah .... Amazon packed them all up and took them to the UK .... we're finally free again !
Load More Replies...You just broke my heart. I would love to move to NZ, and I still would, but I realize that it's just like every other place... good places, bad places, safe places, not so safe places. True the world over, I guess.
It can't be that bad. I mean what country isn't dying in waste and pollution.
The meth problem is definitely real , but it's not in your face every minute of every day . And due to covid the walking tracks are currently relatively empty ... but that'll change as soon as international tourists start coming back . And stay on the track and advise someone of your plan , don't expect cell-phone coverage when you're in a mountain range .
Load More Replies...Yup also don't assume it's safe to wander off in the back country. It gets really cold, really quickly
Not cold all year but the bush/back country can be very dense and it is easy to get lost. People die.
Load More Replies...True. Clean green...well yes the water is green with algae and nitrates. Parts are pretty, so are many bits of the rest of the world. It's damn expensive. And not as safe as people think, even small towns. I've lived all over small towns and big city.
I'm a Londonder born and bred and we think of it expensive too. But I'm intrigued to know the comparisons of your (to me) beautiful country. So on a scale from "Not bad, I'll take it" to "Crikey am I in Geneva!" how much is a portion of chips and a pint? London: chips = £3 - £4. A pint: a fiver.
Load More Replies...I agree about the roads. I definitely underestimated how long it would take me to drive - and I drove all over the US! I only saw one 4-lane highway that looks like a US highway right outside Auckland. The rest of the roads are indeed two-lane ones. there are a lot of winding roads but they have nooks on the side every few kilometers or so, so slow drivers (like me) can stop and let of others behind them pass. But there are also long straight lonely roads - like in Marlborough region - where you literally go for miles without seeing anyone. Those are dangerous, too, especially for a tired driver who's not used to driving on the left side of the road - I snoozed a few times and moved to the opposite lane because the road was empty...
My wife and I did the cheesy thing and hired a camper van and drove NZ for three solid weeks (north island and south island) and the original poster is not kidding if you think you can drive from A to B in a day (in most cases). Also don't think you can just park by the side of any road to camp (you can't). And they hide their speed cameras so if you see a speed limit sign and wonder why all the locals stick to the speed limit, you'll find out why when you hand your camper in...
I would still live there in a heartbeat though. Most beautiful place in the world IMHO
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Tokyo. It's not the perfect paradise people imagine it to be. It's a major city, just like London, New York, Toronto, etc, and has major city problems.
The trains run at 130% capacity; garbage & graffiti almost everywhere; rats, cockroaches, feral cats, & attack crows (no robots just yet) roam the city; the homeless population just gets shunted around or thrown in jail (little support for them)...
Umm, compared to other major world cities, garbage and "graffiti" (vandal smearing is my preferred term) is quite well under control. But yeah, way fewer robots than people imagine.
spent a week there travelling around, loved it, wife would live there, trains ran on time, sure we didn't go at peak times, no graffiti, no loud teens, the bullet trains are incredible.
Load More Replies...I honestly never considered Tokyo a perfect paradise. Do people really think that? About anywhere???
I think your last sentence is the biggest point of all these posts.
Load More Replies...This is so untrue as to be bizarre. I've lived here for over 40 years and have lived/been to other major cities to compare. I can't imagine this poster has done much traveling. The trains are only packed at rush hour, and much less since the pandemic. Also, they arrive on time to the second, and if they don't someone immediately apologizes and gives the reason why. And the crows coexist with us. The only time they might try to frighten us off is during nesting season (and that's never even happened to me, in a very crow-filled neighborhood). Tokyo isn't heaven on earth by any means, but I encourage people to take this post with a large helping of skepticism.
Sorry people, I tried to do paragraphs, but BP condensed everything into this big block of text. :(
Load More Replies...I must have gone to a different Tokyo. Mine was clean and tidy and I saw no crows or cockroaches...
Was it all perfectly white and was there a woman running about on top of all the buildings?
Load More Replies...Literally never saw a single piece of garbage anywhere in Tokyo and I explored at least 60% of the city. I also saw zero feral cats. I take feral cat photos (I manage a colony in the states) and have feral cat photos from all over the world, none from Tokyo though. Saw plenty of cats in cat cafes there though. Also, if there were tons of feral cats, you wouldn't also have tons of rats, so...
homestly, Attack Crows make me want to visit Tokyo
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I watched a tv show and they showed one person being attacked by swooping crows . It seemed to be because of the persons clothing color. I believe it was black but I wear black and have never been swooped on. It’s not like the birds in Hitchcock. The crows can actually be friendly. There was a priest who drank sake with his crow pal. I’ve received presents from crows, old bread weird shiny stuff because they ate the flowers I had on the balcony.
Load More Replies...I also would have to disagree with the graffiti - yes, there really is the occasional one (which is a lot when compared to the rest of Japan), but even the all the grafitti in greater Tokyo would be less than a smallish town elsewhere in the word. The same for garbage: excepting the day garbage is put out on the streets to be hauled away by municipal services, there is almost no garbage lying around. Except in the touristy areas, and most of that comes from tourists.
I live in a touristy part of Wales and would like this cleared up.
We don’t all suddenly switch to speaking Welsh when an English tourist arrives.
There are genuinely people that believe as soon as an English person enters a pub, say, that all the Welsh people who were previously speaking English suddenly switch.
Yep. They don't, the visitors hear the person that had been speaking Welsh before they entered continuing to speak it, because it's distinctive if you're not used to hearing it. I live in less touristy a place but we're big enough that tourists stop into the convenience shops or the pubs, and this area is very heavily Welsh speaking, so get to hear this claim said often.
If you are a not Welsh but speak Welsh you occasionally get to overhear some hilarious shade being thrown on inconsiderate lackwit tourists. All of it justified, I assure you. What you more commonly hear is a heated debate about the rugby.
Yeah, they all talk in those long Welsh words, but notice how many of them have the last name "Jones".
Next you'll be telling me the Tardis isn't parked in Cardiff most of the time.
Appalachian tourist destinations. Unless stuff in the giftshops is advertised as locally made, you can get it in bulk for cheaper off the Internet, because that's totally where the boss did. And the locally made stuff is sometimes nice, sometimes makes you miss Regretsy. The food stuff, check the labels. No, the locals do not like to be called hillbillies, except Hillbilly who owns Hillbilly's Junkyard, and he is a character, let me tell you. Yes, we genuinely are this friendly and really do like to talk with strangers this much, but it comes from either the terrifying isolation of deeply insular small towns where everyone knows everyone else's business or being a transplant who has to drive three solid hours to so much as a decent-sized Costco. Some of the kids get backpacks full of food every Friday from volunteers at the schools because even if their folks had the money for groceries, they might not also have the hour and back's worth of gas to get them that week from the nearest store. No, we are not paid a living wage at this tourist site. Incidentally; management is a family and doesn't understand why $8/hr isn't enough to live on. When I lived there, I had four jobs and the two that were tourism-related were purely to stave off the boredom and have an excuse to see people." But if you go about four, maybe five hours that way, depending on the traffic, it's our nation's capital, so...yeah.
I have lived in the mountain part of Western North Carolina for over 30 years now, the people are awesome, the countryside is beautiful. Having grown up in Flint, MIchigan (left in 71 to join the Air Force) I say thank you every day for living here.
As a southerner, I think we are often misunderstood... sometimes people think anyone with a southern accent must be a 'hillbilly" (which is definitely not true, I am nine hours from the mountains), or that people with southern accents are stupid. Calling someone a hillbilly is a sure way NOT to make friends.
Yay! Nice representation. That’s pretty much right. If you go to a West Virginia hollar with a foreign accent you will not be able to open your mouth without making friends (as long as being asked your life story and hearing someone else’s counts as friendship to you).
Living in Bali. Yes there are some beautiful places but its really dirty here. There is literally garbage everywhere as the local government doesn't have a trash collection program. People burn their trash everywhere. Also tons of corruption by police that try to supplement their income. Lots of poverty and poor people from whole of Indonesiz trying their luck here. There is a reason why the Indonesian government is trying to steer tourist to the "new Bali's" : it is overcrowded.
The tourist spots were over crowded, mainly in the southern part of Bali. There are many hidden gems in the island that are still very beautiful. Untouched by the drunk tourist. See the problem?Overcrowded drunk tourists. Oh about the homeless dogs. When tourist stay for months and decided they want a dog, and then abandon the dogs when the decided to go back to their country. This is the root of the stray dog problem. If you're a tourist in Bali please take care of it too.
I'm pretty sure the problem with homeless dogs is the same everywhere: no spay-and-neutering and too many people just dumping their dogs when they don#t want it.
Load More Replies...I spent 2 months there and realized that pretty quickly. I did absolutely love Ubud, though. I traveled all over to the other islands as well. I went to Gili Trawangan which was beautiful.
Was in Bali for a month for a writing internship/retreat and yeah it's sadly filthy. Most tourist places are run by white people which is just sad, and there are so many homeless dogs :(
Living in Bali for 16 years now, and while Bali, as so many developing places, has a trash problem on certain places, the island is still very rich with stunning beauty and culture. And there are a lot of initiatives to try to tackle the waste problem. That most tourist places are supposedly run by white people is simple completely untrue as it is against Indonesian law. Companies that cater for tourists sometimes are owned by westerners but they always have to obligations to employ a number of locals hence providing employment. Balinese are also amongst the most hospitable and tolerant people on the planet. Even though a lot of the street dogs are in bad shape it is a part of the local culture as well. If you stay away from the crowded south where most tourists are, Bali has so much to offer.
Load More Replies...that's sad. I dont want to go there now. Grand Turk was covered in trash too. The ride from the airport to the hotel was shocking. My mouth just dropped open from the shocking site of all the trash just blowing everywhere. We stuck close to the compound bc I just didn't want to spend my vaca in tears. What a trashy paradise.
'They hunt sea turtles too, and place them upside down to 'store them' before butchering them.
I came to Bali several years ago on a work junket and found it so very dirty and hated people pawing at me asking for money. The Javanese are just rude but the Balinese are sweet people. Mozzies galore especially up near Abud, but the filth and poverty were the two things I couldn't cope with so will never return there again
I'm from Spain, we don't drink Sangría and we don't have Paella (not PAELA, PLEASE) every day. And there's more than football, every time I meet someone and they ask me where I'm from, the one and only question appears... Madrid or Barcelona? F*off
Spaniard here. I love my country but it is true that there are many topics that are so false it is almost insulting: No, shops don´t close at midday because it is siesta time. Flamenco is typical from the south of Spain, but not the whole country. Please, everytime somebody says pa-e-la, we have a stroke, so, in order to pronounce paella correctly, say pah-EH-yah. The running of the bulls is just 1 week in July in Pamplona, so don´t ask if that is happening in December in Seville. 85% of population is against bullfighting. And, no, Portugal and Spain are not the same country.
Fully agreed. Spaniard here, too. I don't care about football/soccer, and sangría is OK sometimes in the summer... But, since I am from Valencia, I still have Paella 3 times per week if I can ;)
If there's one thing I know about soccer fans (football fans) just don't ask about which teams they support no matter where you are. Some may get offended just by you asking.
I think the last part goes for most countries. Oh you are from The Netherlands? You live in Amsterdam?
And Portugal isn't Spain
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My Mom was born in Madrid so we had relatives there and travelled to the capital an awful lot. You can get Sangria in any of the pubs there but its not the only thing they drink. There were more people drinking red wine, than beer but its just as diverse as any other place. The one thing I liked more about Madrid than say London was the climate. Whether it was cold or hot, it was dry(except when it rained obviously). There was none of this painful humidity that England has that really messes up my joints and has done so my entire life. Dry heat, feel hot? Go in the shade. Dry cold, feel cold? wrap up warm and you'll be fine. It might be humid on the coast, but in the city was dry.
Listen, I'm NOT from spain (or Italy) and I would LOVE to drink Sangria every day....This is not a bad thing lol.
Cape Town, South Africa. Firstly, the moment people see AFRICA, they think we all own baby lion cubs and ride on elephants from A-B.
They also expect great things due to our rich culture and history. Table Mountain, penguins at Boulders beach, you name it.
Sadly, They don't think we have Internet or any other form of modern technology.
Big surprise when they get here.
I think the biggest surprise is the way our poverty will hit them when they land in Cape Town. We have a "settlement" filled with clusters of shacks right next to the airport. So the scenic drive from the airport to the main city is filled with shacks. It can be very... Underwhelming.
It’s like this all over South Africa, massive unplanned settlements that sprawl for miles. It was a real shock to me to see the poverty and the disparity between the haves and the have-nots. A real eye opener.
Yep we have the distinct infamy of being the most unequal society on earth, highest Gini coefficient. Worse than the states.
Load More Replies..."But is South Africa like...in Africa? Like Africa Africa?" - a question heard far too often in online gaming lobbies.
I have a friend who was playing an online game and told someone he lives in South Africa, their reply was "But... how can you have internet if you live in South Africa?"
Load More Replies...Ah, I was looking for a South Africa entry. Yes, that drive from Cape Town International into the city must be a real shocker. I always wish I could see the country through the eyes of someone who's never been here, just because I'm curious. It's sad but it's beautiful, I hope some day we'll actually sort out our s**t.
If you want an explanation that isn't just DA propaganda, do the maths. Public servants including teachers are something like 40% of the budget. The rest is for delivery. So, take about 720bn and divide by 60m people. Result: R 12000 per annum per person, or R 1000 per month. Can't fix anything with that.
Load More Replies...I used to teach about Africa in American schools. First assumption was that there were no white people in Africa. I would have to tell them that white people have been in Africa longer than white people have been in America. Second assumption was that everything was wild and everyone lives in mud huts. I would explain that while those communities do exist, the cities look like cities from around the world and the same mod cons and technology exist. Last correction I would always have to make: THERE ARE NO TIGERS IN AFRICA.
The reason for the stereotype about animals and grasslands is that people do not see what Africa really looks like in most movies. I think Blood Diamond is reasonably accurate. Here's a photo of my city, Johannesburg. Some of the towers are visible on the horizon. Basically it's the economic powerhouse of Africa. Speaking of Internet, our astronomy centre in the Karoo desert, has 4 terabits (4 000 000 megabits) speed. 2021-11-07...769784.jpg
I find it funny, the only people I know in South Africa does have those animals because they own a safari park :)
Load More Replies...I don't think poverty and poor people should be a deterrent to visit a country. They're just people. But that's just mho
i don't find that surprising, everyone will have some form of civilization etc I know the crime there is horrendous, that people living in houses all sleep upstairs because of the frequent break ins and own next to nothing in their homes. Robberies on the roads happen frequently. Not a nice place to visit, but then if you go out far enough its amazingly beautiful but still the poverty is horrid. People never owning a pair of shoes their entire life
I lived in Cape Town for 2 years and absolutely hated it. The city is terribly planned, the people are cliquey, and the poverty is astonishing. And I lived in SA all my life so you'd think I'd be used to it. If you enjoy Cape Town, you were either born there, you're just visiting, or you're rich enough that nothing phases you.
On some occasions, here in Italy, when visiting medieval towns tourists ask where people go at night when the city closes thinking of it is an amusement park
Those type of tourists make me laugh. Just because they have no buildings more than 400 years old they think all of them are like their fake ones in theme parks.
"Paris Syndrome
is a condition exhibited by some individuals when visiting or going on vacation to Paris, as a result of extreme shock at discovering that Paris is different from their expectations. The syndrome is characterized by a number of psychiatric symptoms such as acute delusional states, hallucinations, feelings of persecution (perceptions of being a victim of prejudice, aggression, or hostility from others), derealization, depersonalization, anxiety, and also psychosomatic manifestations such as dizziness, tachycardia, sweating, and others, such as vomiting.[1] Similar syndromes include Jerusalem syndrome and Stendhal syndrome. The condition is commonly viewed as a severe form of culture shock. It is particularly noted among Japanese travellers"
"It is particularly noted among Japanese travellers" and avid watchers of Emily in Paris. Hahahahaha
Paris particularly I have noticed that many tourists assume that everyone speaks English. They don't. The number of times I have found myself interpreting for people because they are speaking in sometimes very broken English (not their native tongue) and the French person cannot understand a word that is being said. Tip for any travel. Get a phrase book. Highlight key phrases you might want to use. Or write your own cheat cards and hold them up if necessary. It's better than speaking very loudly in English to someone who is not going to understand at any volume.
I had a shock, how shitty it was, how rude they were and lazy. I worked on several occasions 2~3 weeks at a time. They were always making excuses, finding ways to drag the work out. Not finishing jobs. Being awkward and difficult to work with.
Compared to North America in general, the level of efficiency for just about anything in France is below zero. Between the constant strikes and the incredibly slow processes of any government agency, I don't even know how this country is still standing. Nonetheless, some French people can be fairly welcoming, however their mastery of the English language, compared to most countries in the world, is subpar at best.
Load More Replies...New Orleans. Seriously, just visit us outside of Mardi Gras. It's a crowded cesspool during Mardi Gras season. We know how to entertain you all year, but the city isn't a nonstop drunk party all year long. The cajuns don't really live in New Orleans...many of the accents in the city sound closer to a Jersey/Brooklyn accent. Also, the people working in tourism use 'Nawlins' because you're expecting it. None of us refer to the city that way...a thick accent pulls off maybe a 'Nu'ahlehns' at the worst.
Several visits to "Nawlins", which is how my friend from Covington says it in his long drawl. Never on Mardi Gras. Beautiful City. Bourbon Street district is very old school historical. Outside is Very Garden-like & Deep South Southern. Great Music. Excellent french-inspired Coffee, pastries & cajun cuisine. If you can chill with their vibe, you'll fit right in & make new friends.
I'd like to add that there is zero necessity for nudity to get beads. Mardi Gras is family friendly outside the Quarter and most parade attendees have small kids. Also, Mardi Gras last from Epiphany to the day before Ash Wednesday. Several weeks. Pace yourself. The best parades are the week/weekend before Mardi Gras Day.
Ok, so it is New Orleans, and not N'Orlins? I've never been there but that's what I've been told. Would be helpful to understand the correct pronunciation.
That "jersey" accent is called a "yat"accent.i usually associate it with the east bank like Algiers and marrero
I'm amazed that there aren't more New Orleans posts. my parents, who are usually smart people, are convinced that it's all the stereotypes all the time. In a good way, at least - it's their favourite place to visit, but they never bother looking at where people actually live, just the tourist stuff.
I’m from Hawaii. People live here, full time- and not in grass huts. The poverty back home is terrible, drugs are rampant, and our beaches are being destroyed by foreigners (including mainlanders) that don’t respect our land. Yet, I moonlight working in an industry that is pretty tourist-centered, because that’s what brings in money. It’s a vicious cycle.
Yes I've read that there is quite a lot of homlessness and disadvantage amongst the indigenous population in Hawaii, and I've always wondered ( as an Australian , where indigenous rights and post colonialism are a major issue with a long way left to go) do indigenous Hawaiians feel like a state or a colony of the USA? Is there real recognition of their culture and rights to the land and sea? It might be offensive to americans , sorry, but I've always wondered how strong the land rights issue is amongst Hawaiians? Do you feel like your land has been stolen?
Would you believe they also give tax breaks to multimillionaires to set up residency here.
LOL My mom thought people lived in grass huts in Hawaii until she went. I'm like, did you not look at pictures or do any research, or did you just think Blue Hawaii was not on a Hollywood set.
I live in Orlando, so basically we only exist as a tourist destination. It’s actually a fun city away from the Disney and tourist area. Downtown and Winter Park, one of the suburbs, have great local restaurants. Also a short drive away are a few springs which really give you a really wonderful nature experience.
FL native here. Orlando is just one big construction zone. Once a highway/rd project is finished, they rip it up and start over. It's total BS.
Just like Cincinnati OH, they’re not happy unless they’re screwing up the roads
Load More Replies...OMG. Orlando is a cess-pool. Gimme a break with "it's actually a fun city". It's Disney/Satan/Tourist hell!
I used to live in Madrid, Spain. I usually avoided tourists in the city because of how loud they are. The most irritating thing I find is how they think that taking high school Spanish is equivalent to the Spanish we speak in Spain. (Just of everyone to know we speak Castilian Spanish). Another thing, we don't eat tacos and burritos; that's Mexican food. Sorry to disappoint but Mexico and Spain are two different countries with two different dialects and cultures.
If you are irritated that someone is trying to communicate to you in one of the languages of your country, because it's not the language you speak specifically, but you can understand it just fine, then you are probably an a*****e.
I think that its because people get tired of being confused with mexicans by USA tourists
Load More Replies...Yeah, tourists can't do right for doing wrong. If they're trying to speak the language, that's good
I agree that it is quite shocking when tourists mix Spain and Mexico (I had a USA teacher once asking me how far was Mexico so they could see if during the fre time they could get the metro to get there and visit it. I told them our metro system was way shorter, as the distance was around 9000km. The insisted that he meant the real Mexico, you know, mariachis and stuff". But I don´t agree about the language.... I think it is awesome when somebody is trying to get out of his/her confort zone and speak a language that he/she has been studying... I think it is brave and shows respect to the people of the place you are visiting.
Actually, my high school Spanish teacher ONLY taught us Castilian Spanish. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Except that most Spanish speakers here in America, speak "Mexican" Spanish (I'm sorry if this is offensive, I promise I don't mean to be, I just don't know the proper term, if there is one). My Mexican friends can still understand me, though. It's like the difference in speaking, say, American English, & British English. It's still basically the same language. They just use different words for certain things. Like, here in the US, we say "truck". But Brits might say "lorry". In Castilian Spanish, the word for car is "coche" (pronounced koh-chay). My Mexican friends just say "carro" (car-o). So it might sound a little odd to my Mexican friends, if I speak Castilian Spanish. But they still know what I'm saying. And they don't mind it. In fact, they think it's funny (not in a bad way, & I don't mind at all, because I like to make them laugh), & they like to help me learn. :-)
Seems like OP is being a little snooty about that, honestly. It's hard to learn another language. And it takes courage to try to use that skill, with someone you know is a native speaker. But at least some people do try. That's better than the ignorant people who think if they just speak English more slowly and loudly, the Spanish person will understand them. Or get mad that the Spanish person doesn't speak English, simply because they're in a touristy area. OP seems rude and pompous. If I were a tourist in Madrid, I'd avoid THEM, too, lol!!
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NO IN HAWAII WE DO NOT COMMUNICATE PURELY BY ALOHA AND MAHALO
When I tell people I live in New York, they think I live in a penthouse overlooking Central Park. Let me be clear there’s much more this state has to offer.
I was watching Peabody and Mr. Sherman with my daughter and when I saw his penthouse, I was like, "oh so he's rich as f*ck, too".
Load More Replies...Boston. If you're expecting everyone to talk like a Ben Affleck movie you'll be sorely disappointed. Also, all caps for those in the back, HARVARD YARD IS A PEDESTRIAN ONLY AREA. SHUT THE F*CK UP ABOUT LEAVING MOTOR VEHICLES THERE!! No a single person calls this place Beantown. None. Zero. Zip. Nada. Now the Beanpot....that's some good local sh*t and you should totally go if you're in town in February.
When I was in Boston, most people were pretty nice. People had the attitude of, "Lucky you ran into me, because I'm a nice Bostonian, but everybody else here is rude." I did get snapped at by a deli counter worker who didn't approve of what I ordered, but I chalk it up to having the true Boston experience.
The "True Boston Experience" was way more chill pre Tom Brady when locals were still humble lol
Load More Replies...Entertainment accents are awful. Real home new england accents are delightful, and if you go to the packie that's by the rotary, people know where you are from.
I used to think that Floridians were the worst drivers in the world. But since living here I've discovered that it's actually New Englanders who live in Florida half time and get Florida tags on their 5th car for tax reasons who are the sh*tty drivers.
They're yours now, Florida- us northern new Englanders are sick of them 🤣
Think you meant to say Northeastern as a whole. when you have people from New York, Mass & New Jersey driving their hyper-aggressive style with laid back locals & even more chill Canadiens it's just a mess. Speeding up to cut off car to get one spot closer stops the traffic you were trying to get around
The infamous snow-bird invasion made driving a huge risk. Who stops in the middle of four lanes to wait for all the cars to pass so they can make a turn. Did they do that where they live? Don't they know you can go up a block, even two make a u-turn and then catch your turn? FL actually puts in places to make U-turns everywhere so they are legal. If you see every car dodging you since you are sight seeing, pull over or just move to the left lane. People are going to work or just out to shop they live there. If you are lost, get off the road and figure it out. It's been years since I lived there but I do visit. It is amazing how many common sense driving rules are tossed when tourists arrive. When I lived there I was pushed out of my lane twice. People paid no attention to the lines in the road and at a sharp turn they just drifted into my lane. Fortune was on my side for that one, the oncoming traffic saw it and shifted so I had time to get back into my lane.
Gotta be brutally honest. I've driven back and forth from Indiana to Kentucky many times. And the Florida highways are one of my absolute least favorite places to drive (the other being the stretch of interstate that runs through Atlanta, GA, but that's another subject for another post, lol). No matter who owns the cars. If you're not doing at least 80mph-in the SLOW lane-you will get tailgated, flashed with high beams, and honked at. Constantly. I freaking hate it. Rather drive through the mountains of Tennessee at night (in fact, the mountains are MUCH easier for me, believe it or not). Any day of the week.
Try driving behind someone with a Kansas plate.youll die of old age before you get to your destination.or new mexico.statistically the absolute worst drivers in the country
I grew up on the seacoast of Maine. You've definitely seen a picture of my hometown at some point in your life. Lots of people spend their summers here. Which is cool! But they mostly don't interact with the locals, so their ideas about what real Mainers are like is largely influenced by stereotypes and internet inside jokes. One thing in particular that stands out is tourists ordering coffee brandy with milk at the bar because they think that's what locals do. While it's true that Allen's Coffee Brandy is the #1 selling liquor in Maine, that's because locals put it in our coffee in the morning. It gets wicked cold up here, bub!
🤣 I spent a bit of time in Maine many years ago, was at a restaurant with a friend and she pronounced it banger to the waitress. The look she got from the waitress was absolutely terrifying. I wanted to crawl right out of there lol
Load More Replies...I’ve read every book and short story that Stephen King has ever written. I know EVERYTHING about Maine and Mainers. /s But sarcasm aside, I actually did learn about certain cultural aspects of Maine natives from his books :) Ayuh!
"Ayuh" makes us cringe- it's more of and eh yeh sound 😜
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Florida here.
The best beaches are on the gulf coast, not South Florida and definitely not the Keys.
Alligators are mostly big shy scaredy-cats . Attacks are very rare. They’re not out there eating everybody.
We love the Florida Man meme more than anybody. But most of the people and events here are just as disappointingly normal and boring as they are where you live.
Florida is not a very homogeneous state culturally. The panhandle and most of north Florida is “the South”, but the rest is this mix of Midwest, Northeast and Cuba.
To clarify, they mean that the northern part of the state is part of 'The Deep South', which to any non-Americans is a region that includes several states such as Georgia, Louisiana and Alabama. The southern part of Florida itself has been overrun by people from the Midwestern and Northeastern states, and Cuba. It's sort of a meme that old people go there to retire since it's warm and because they have money to do so.
One more clarification. The west is the 'Gulf Side'. The east is the 'Ocean Side'. it goes down the whole state from North to South. Agree Gulf Side is cleaner, white sands, clear water & gorgeous sunsets. Also, 'Gulf Side' is Midwest people. 'Ocean Side' is Northeastern. You better know Spanish or Creole to go to any part of Miami outside of South Beach. The middle of the state is more real Florida country. So completely different interactions & driving.
Load More Replies...I grew up in Florida. A lot of people don't know that the Atlantic beaches suck and the Gulf of Mexico beaches (at least some) are like paradise.
I lived in Hawaii for many years. You wouldn't believe how many people legitimately think everyone in Hawaii lives in grass huts or who are shocked to find out everyone there speaks English or don't know Hawaii is part of the United States, including quite a lot of Americans.
I'm American and it baffles me that others don't know that Hawaii is a state. In elementary we learned the states and in music class in third grade we learned the Fifty Nifty United States Song. Animaniacs also had the Wakkos Fifty state capitals. We also have United States maps. Hawaii is there on all of them.
🎵"Baton Rouge Louisiana, and there's Helena Montana, and Columbus is the Capital of O-hi-o!" 🎶 😂
Load More Replies...I lived Liverpool for a long time, American tourists in particular used to be amazed that not everyone was obsessed with the Beatles.
My home town, so much culture, brilliant galleries and museums. Other brilliant bands from the area though we are proud of the Beatles. Just as famous for football. Also not English, Scouse.
I can understand. That's like when my Dad asked if my boyfriend likes Oasis just because he's from Manchester. I'm in Winnipeg and I ain't a fan of The Weakerthans or Burton Cummings.
I used to live in Puerto Rico. No, not everything is just life on the beach and having a good time. And contrary to what many people, the beautiful and picturesque sights that you often see in photos are specifically taken to attract tourists, so not everything in the island looks like that.
My friend lived in a town in Puerto Rico with one stop light. Told me to keep driving through it at night or I get carjacked. Have to say most of where we drove was captivating. Love the old spanish style architecture.
Not unless people have let loose pet boa constrictors.
Load More Replies...I live in Seoul but moved here from the UK, so I'd probably say it's how everyone expects it to be super high-tech, convenient, and modern because South Korea managed to get that reputation due to having (at the time) crazy fast internet. The super high-tech/convenient stuff (in my opinion) would be: Constant wifi, even in the subways. Almost every PC Bang (essentially gaming cafes) I've been to allows you to order food and drink FROM your computer and people will bring it over for you. I thought it was really interesting that they had their system for ordering food and drink without leaving your chair. In the 5 or so years I've lived here, I've never lived in or been in apartment that still uses physical keys. Usually it's an electronic number lock and you will usually get a card that unlocks it as well. The less than modern / inconvenient things would be: Doing almost anything online requires you to have a phone contract that's bound to the ID card you're legally required to carry at all times. Banks charge fees for EVERYTHING. Even my own bank charge me like 50c to withdraw cash. Online banking usually requires you to use third party security software, which is starting to get better but still an issue. I literally just use my phone to do all my banking because it's soo much easier. Korea websites usually look like a 2005 forum, like the whole website is made using tables. If you live in an older part of Seoul or in a less modern city in general, you'll probably have terrible sewage systems that require you to put used tissue in a bin, rather than flushing it down the toilet.
I grew up on the jersey shore near seaside heights. I hate that people think we are like the dingbats who come to visit. They are all from NY and North Jersey. Locals are not tanning bed fried rageaholics.
It's True. The Jersey Shore after Labor Day with just locals is like the midwest. So chill.
I live in Florida between Disney and Universal. Everyone things we live and breathe theme parks and that neon signs are everywhere. We have regular neighborhoods just like everyone else and we have working days just like everyone else. And we know better than to go to the parks on weekends, holidays, etc
Actually, there's not really much to do in FL if you're not a tourist. Beaches... again? Theme parks... not! Springs are crowded with littering tourists. Space industry is boring and not exciting w launches every 3 days /s. (I live 6 mi from the Cape). Golf is for the old folks constantly in your way. I liked it better back in the 70-80's... less people.
Our town in the 70's (when we moved there was ugly) If we went to the beach and sat in a group the oldsters would call the cops on us. We were playing cards and being quiet, we had to move. The beaches were beautiful, free parking, and rarely full. Now that town is lovely, yes it draws tourists but it just looks nicer. Lots of greenery, brick side walks and awnings. Nice looking apartment buildings.
Load More Replies...From what I understand, the area directly adjacent to Disney is actually pretty run down, because the Mouse ate all the real business, and what's left are mostly cheap or even fleabag hotels, and chintzy knockoff souvenir shops that are riding his coattails. Or is that a stereotype too? Please correct me (nicely, I beseech you) if I'm wrong.
They're always like" hey u got like 30 bottles of maple syrup right" and they end up somewhere else because of my response that goes Canadians don't only eat maple syrup.
Maple syrup still gets thrown into a lot of snacks and sauces. We even have maple syrup Coca Cola. Is it good? That depends. It adds an additional sweetness, for sure.
Do people say "Eh" to you (Canadians) a lot, because they think YOU guys say it constantly? Because I've heard that stereotype, too. If so, that's got to be annoying. ETA: I would TOTALLY try maple syrup Coke. Not sure if I'd like it, or not. But it sure sounds pretty good, lol!!
Load More Replies...A little late, but I grew up and live in Hawaii and the most common misconception is that it's paradise. The scenery is amazing with the unique mountains and actual beaches, but the cost of living is extremely bad. In my house hold getting a month or 2 worth of groceries cost easily a minimum of $600 for 3 people. A small 3 bedroom house goes for half a mil. Being a local the food, family, and friends are really the only reasons why I would keep living here... that's if I can afford it
3-bedroom houses go for over one million where I live. And 1-bedroom, 500 square foot condos start at $650,000. *sigh*
Like Jihana said, $600 for 1-2 months of groceries for three is the same as where I live (in North Carolina). And while I live in a nice neighborhood, yes, 3-bedroom houses here go for half a million, too.
600$ for 1,5 month for 3 people is a lot? That's 133 per person per month. That's 4,5$ a day per person. Doesn't seem a lot to me.
OP didn’t state how much minimum wage is/how much money jobs pay on average in Hawaii. If it’s hard to make money/get a well-paying job, then $133 a month IS a lot. It may not “seem” like a lot to you, but that just means you’re more fortunate than OP.
Load More Replies...I'm in Chicago. Despite its reputation for gang violence tourism is surprisingly strong. All the places tourists go are mostly safe.
New Orleans here for tourist the city always seems to stop and start in the French Quater there really is so so much more to see and do.
I live in Miami. Everyone thinks all of Miami is like in the movies: beaches, parties, clubs, tropics. Yes, we are part of a tropical climate. But the party lifestyle is only a small fraction of Miami (Brickell, SoBe, Miami Beach, Wynwood)....everywhere else is basically...tropical suburbs. Lots of immigrant/latino & hatian working class neighborhoods. Yet there’s an influx of gentrification because people from other states/other countries are buying cheap/urban areas and making them hip. People from other states fall in love with 'X hip new neighborhood' and buy a condo/luxury apartment. That neighborhood slowly gets eroded and becomes 'hipster hood #3' or so and now those working class families can't afford to live there anymore. It sucks. Everyone is hating how expensive it is, more people are forced into homelessness daily, but it doesn’t seem like it’s gonna get better anytime soon.
Austin, TX - People who arent from Austin tend to think of it like a cool hipster town. Lots of good craft beer, quirky and fun stuff to do, nice bars, live music, good food. While all that is true, at least for parts of the city, it wasn't always the case. Somehow we got really popular, drew in a lot of tech talent and tourists, and anything that was a local hangout or some kind of Austin legend got pushed out or bulldozed. Yeah some of the new eateries are cool, but anything over 15 years old probably isnt around any more, and a lot of it was better and cheaper. Now we have expensive condos where our pubs, clubs, and burger joints once stood. It's like Austin was known for being a college town where you could live off street tacos and cheap beer, and then everybody figured that out and it all just vanished. It's a well known fact that Austinites hate tourists. I'd say we dont really hate tourists (unless they're on those stupid scooters and then yeah, definitely), we hate what their traffic did to our city. Another misconception about Austin is that I can afford to live here and enjoy all the city has to offer. Cost of living is a joke, and so is the job market. Can't enjoy SXSW or ACL if i have to work through it to pay rent, you know?
I love Portland but Portland kinda reminds me of a cool quirky pretty ex girlfriend who has changed so much in 10-15 years I feel like I don't even know her anymore and her new boyfriend some guy who moved here from California
Load More Replies...I literally know nothing about Austin. I've never thought of it as anything
Austin was quite well know is certain circles. Don't be offended that you missed the train on it. I remember 20 years ago hearing it was a lot like Portland and vice versa, but now it seems it is faces a lot of the same problems Portland has been going through.
Load More Replies...I lived in Katy, Texas for 5 years before I moved, and would only ever go to Autin for ACL. But I can understand why Austinites would find it difficult to enjoy.
Went there once... it felt like there's one big street where everybody hangs out (6th ave I think), pedestrian in the evening, over crowded... but I was just so much disturb by the police on horse, walking through the crowd. 6 horses, next to each other, moving forward, pushing peasant away, every 30 minutes... I felt like police was just everywhere, and it makes me feel really uncomfy
Napa Valley Wine country is really just that ...country. Lots of cows and their ...smells
Here in Sonoma Co. we've still got lots of dairy cows. The Sonoma Aroma lives.
Load More Replies...Never really got the allure of visiting vineyards. They're grape farms.
Ridiculously expensive to go wine tasting. $80+ and not offset against bottle purchase. If you're not into $100+ bottle of wines, go to Sonoma Co., Solano, Co, foothills. Many, many other areas in CA where they make superb wines. There are many great restaurants in Napa.
Was just there last weekend. Wine tastings were $25 to $30 a person and were offset if you bought six bottles. This was true at all three wineries we visited.
Load More Replies...Phoenix People plan a desert resort vacation then complain the entire time that they’re in a desert. It’s mostly brown if you come from a place with lush vegetation, the air is as dry as it gets so if your skin likes humidity, you probably won’t like this city & it’s quite possibly one of the most sprawling cities in the US with a heavy emphasis on suburbia so it’s not like it’s poppin’ all over like Scottsdale/downtown Phoenix. Seen people book an Airbnb in Gilbert & bitch the whole time that it was just surburbia. Yes. Yes it is. Do your damn research. Also it is NOT warm in the winter. It may be warmer than the Midwest/northeast (thank god for that) but it’s pretty much not warm enough to swim from October to May & the warmest it gets between December and March is maybe 75-80 if we’re having a warm winter. Don’t expect 90+F in January my dudes. It doesn’t happen regularly, if at all.
Let me add a couple of other things. 1- it's no joke hot. If you come between late June to mid October, it's hot. Not what you think is hot, but hot as hell. There is a big difference between 98 (36 C) and 115 (46 C). Make sure to hydrate and stay out of the sun. If you plan to swim, do it at night. 2- Dust storms (Haboobs). They can come on fast and aren't predictable . If you get caught in one while driving, try to get off the interstate. If not, pull off the road, turn off your lights and stay off the brakes. Don't try to drive. Visibility is about a foot in front of you. If you are not driving, stay indoors. The dust gets everywhere, including in your camera and phone cases. It can also carry a bacteria that causes Valley Fever. This isn't curable. 3- Check your shoes for scorpions before putting them on. 4- Don't damage, vandalize, or cut down the cacti. They are protected.
Phoenix was one of the uglier cities i've visited. No desire to go back. Tucson, otoh, was pretty nice. of course i didn't get to see all of either city, so ymmv
Above 70 is hotter than Summer in UK, so swimming all year might be possible. The North Sea is cold all year round and people swim
Dubai. That just because people have expensive cars doesn't mean they can drive them well. At all...
Unless you're really rich, there's no point in visiting Dubai. The place seem like a giant shopping mall. If you don't want to shop, then there's nothing.
I have family there, so I go to Dubai to spend time with them and our friends. Surfing, snorkeling, desert camping, dinner parties at each other's homes. There is much to see and do OUTSIDE the city; the UAE is beautiful.
Grew up in SoCal (LA area), Norcal(SF area), and spent 5 years+ on Oahu. LA and SF is crowded af (obviously). The tourist traps of downtown LA isn't all that great. The walk of fame is good for a second, and that's about it. the Graumans Chinese theatre (TCL) isn't all that big. The Hollywood sign is a pain in the ass to get to and isn't worth the drive/traffic. SF, Fisherman's wharf is highly priced sea food you can literally buy if you travel 5 miles away. The Golden Gate Bridge is just a bridge. Lombard Street is just a Street. Dolores park is filled with hippies and homeless people (including mission district). Downtown is filled with traffic, homeless, and smells of uniqueness. Oahu, the "you're so lucky you live in Hawaii" from friends and family gets tiresome. When they visit, you HAVE to play tour guide. It gets rather expensive. Driving down to Honolulu/Waikiki area is a pain due to traffic and the amount of overly priced parking spots (unless you're military...wooo for the halekoa) A lot of tourist that visit have limited English and don't follow rules about littering in the ocean / staying off the coral reefs. The amount of people that try to do the stair way to heaven hike is stupid as most get injured. Same goes with a VERY touristy hike of diamond head. A lot of tourist get heat stroke due to the elevation and humidity. Yes living on Oahu was great, but the thing they don't tell you, flying cockroaches and centipede. Those f*cking centipedes!
SF Native here: Respectfully disagree. Lombard street in SF is not JUST a street. It's a crooked street with Multi-Million dollar homes with an amazing view. Sure it's a tourist destination but worth it for the view. Everything else that was posted is spot on.
Honestly it sounds like San Francisco when I was there in 90s
Load More Replies...The flying cockroaches and centipede's were some of the biggest learning curves, the pigs appearing out of no where, and the different life style -getting used to chickens or the goat walking into the outhouse -no door, don't ask- was shocking for the first week. Lived outside Honokaa, Big Island.
Time Square is garabage. If I even have to go into the 42nd street train station my day is just ruined. Also on new years or any holiday I can't even go into the city because the trains are so backed up. Speaking of the trains, unless you live in Manhattan or a really gentrified part of BK or Queens the trains dont even work half the time. They claim that they are fixing the mta but the trains from the 6 line are the same as they where I'm the 90s. But yeah screw Time Square
From Blue Ridge Mountains: Bears will, do, and can hurt you. Stay. In. Your. Room. Or. Car. If you cannot grasp that a baby bear means Mama is nearby. She didn't abandon them. As with human toddlers, they're exploring a little, but she *does* know how to get to them at light speed.
I love being a tourist, but I hate how tourists can behave. Take some time to learn about your destination, how people live there and the living standards, and for f**k's sake take your s**t with you afterwards. I've visited Greece a few years back when the country was on the verge of going bankrupt (or so I was told), and prices for hotel rooms etc were incredibly low. Parallel to that, lots of Greek people were either working non-stop or were just sitting at their empty hotels, it was really sad. We left feeling incredibly priliveged (which we are).
I grew up in a little village in the UK that became a bit of a tourist attraction. Yes it’s very pretty but people actually live here. Please don’t stop in the middle of the road to shout loudly about “It’s so quaint y’all”. Please don’t all cluster around your umbrella wielding tour guide, standing on people’s flower borders and blocking the pavement. Really, don’t trespass and peer in people’s windows, I shouldn’t have to tell grown adults that’s rude. We live here, we’re not entertainment.
Actually peering in your windows?? I cannot fathom the stupidity of some people...just wow!
Load More Replies...I live in Southern California in a beach town. Had a friend visit from Arizona. She was stunned to learn that I don’t go to the beach every single day. I also don’t go to Disneyland and/or Knott’s every day, even though they’re only about a half hour away. XD
I've often lived in or near tourist hotspots. I have to say, for the most part, tourists are respectful and interested and happy to learn and adapt. But the ones that aren't ruin it for everyone else. Working as a safari guide in Africa was so eye-opening. I lived in the town of Victoria Falls, next to the actual falls. The things people would do... trying to explain to them that you can't play with the baby vervet monkeys because the mother will bite you and then you will have to go through the rabies treatments. Explaining that a hippo can run at 30 kph. That the baboon in the rain forest will tear your face off if you challenge him. That the lions WILL eat you if you hang around the wrong place at the wrong time. That you can't swim in certain places, because the crocodiles WILL eat you. That some water is not safe because of bilharzia. And no, we cannot "turn the sound down" at night. That is what the wild animals night chorus actually sounds like, and we have no control
Not a misconception, more of a common mistakes by tourists. In Montreal, the best restaurants are NOT in the Old Montreal! Most of it, like more than 85%, is overrated and overpriced. A short 10-15 minutes subway rides and you can find some really good restaurants in other neighborhoods with fair prices.
It can no longer really be called a holiday hotspot, and I don't think it ever was one internationally, but Blackpool's domestic seaside holiday image still persists, despite the fact it is also consistently at the top of the "most deprived" and "most miserable" places to live list. People don't live here, they survive. Jobs are seasonal at best. Crime rates are scary high and there is significant racism against Romany (connected to the temporary and seasonal nature of the jobs, as well as the crime rate - chicken and egg applies). People only ever see the Illuminations - lots of coloured lightbulbs that haven't been updated in more than 40 years - or the Tower. Blackpool is LGBT welcoming - and that *baseline level* is the best thing I can say.
I know there is a big push for tourism in Manitoba. People think it's all about Winnipeg or Churchill. If you want to go to Churchill it has to be in the summer months, since the only way to get there is by a seasonal train. Winnipeg downtown as some interesting sites, but they are spread apart and most of the whole inner core is desolate, especially after office business hours. Most places are closed by 6pm. If you really want to experience more of Manitoba it's best to get out into the other parts of Winnipeg, and ask the locals of those communities where the locally owned shops and eateries are. But don't expect everyone to know where everything is. It's a vastly spread out city, and a lot of the independent places are going out of business these days. Just because we're geographically in the middle of the continent doesn't mean we don't have beaches and plenty of lakes and rivers. Manitoba has thousands of lakes and rivers. Grand Beach is not the only one but most crowded.
On that note, Winnipeg is not the only city in Manitoba. You can visit Brandon. I believe there is still a bus that goes there from Winnipeg. And there's also Portage La Prairie. Morden has a cool museum of ocean dinosaur fossils found locally. There are many festivals around the province. It just takes some planning. Also take note that even though McLean's Magazine has deemed Winnipeg "the most racist city" it was met with a lot of backlash by Manitobans. Racism is everywhere. We're not perfect. There's not any more of a problem here than anywhere else in Canada. No matter where you're from, you'll be safe as anywhere else in Canada.
Load More Replies...From Blue Ridge Mountains: Bears will, do, and can hurt you. Stay. In. Your. Room. Or. Car. If you cannot grasp that a baby bear means Mama is nearby. She didn't abandon them. As with human toddlers, they're exploring a little, but she *does* know how to get to them at light speed.
I love being a tourist, but I hate how tourists can behave. Take some time to learn about your destination, how people live there and the living standards, and for f**k's sake take your s**t with you afterwards. I've visited Greece a few years back when the country was on the verge of going bankrupt (or so I was told), and prices for hotel rooms etc were incredibly low. Parallel to that, lots of Greek people were either working non-stop or were just sitting at their empty hotels, it was really sad. We left feeling incredibly priliveged (which we are).
I grew up in a little village in the UK that became a bit of a tourist attraction. Yes it’s very pretty but people actually live here. Please don’t stop in the middle of the road to shout loudly about “It’s so quaint y’all”. Please don’t all cluster around your umbrella wielding tour guide, standing on people’s flower borders and blocking the pavement. Really, don’t trespass and peer in people’s windows, I shouldn’t have to tell grown adults that’s rude. We live here, we’re not entertainment.
Actually peering in your windows?? I cannot fathom the stupidity of some people...just wow!
Load More Replies...I live in Southern California in a beach town. Had a friend visit from Arizona. She was stunned to learn that I don’t go to the beach every single day. I also don’t go to Disneyland and/or Knott’s every day, even though they’re only about a half hour away. XD
I've often lived in or near tourist hotspots. I have to say, for the most part, tourists are respectful and interested and happy to learn and adapt. But the ones that aren't ruin it for everyone else. Working as a safari guide in Africa was so eye-opening. I lived in the town of Victoria Falls, next to the actual falls. The things people would do... trying to explain to them that you can't play with the baby vervet monkeys because the mother will bite you and then you will have to go through the rabies treatments. Explaining that a hippo can run at 30 kph. That the baboon in the rain forest will tear your face off if you challenge him. That the lions WILL eat you if you hang around the wrong place at the wrong time. That you can't swim in certain places, because the crocodiles WILL eat you. That some water is not safe because of bilharzia. And no, we cannot "turn the sound down" at night. That is what the wild animals night chorus actually sounds like, and we have no control
Not a misconception, more of a common mistakes by tourists. In Montreal, the best restaurants are NOT in the Old Montreal! Most of it, like more than 85%, is overrated and overpriced. A short 10-15 minutes subway rides and you can find some really good restaurants in other neighborhoods with fair prices.
It can no longer really be called a holiday hotspot, and I don't think it ever was one internationally, but Blackpool's domestic seaside holiday image still persists, despite the fact it is also consistently at the top of the "most deprived" and "most miserable" places to live list. People don't live here, they survive. Jobs are seasonal at best. Crime rates are scary high and there is significant racism against Romany (connected to the temporary and seasonal nature of the jobs, as well as the crime rate - chicken and egg applies). People only ever see the Illuminations - lots of coloured lightbulbs that haven't been updated in more than 40 years - or the Tower. Blackpool is LGBT welcoming - and that *baseline level* is the best thing I can say.
I know there is a big push for tourism in Manitoba. People think it's all about Winnipeg or Churchill. If you want to go to Churchill it has to be in the summer months, since the only way to get there is by a seasonal train. Winnipeg downtown as some interesting sites, but they are spread apart and most of the whole inner core is desolate, especially after office business hours. Most places are closed by 6pm. If you really want to experience more of Manitoba it's best to get out into the other parts of Winnipeg, and ask the locals of those communities where the locally owned shops and eateries are. But don't expect everyone to know where everything is. It's a vastly spread out city, and a lot of the independent places are going out of business these days. Just because we're geographically in the middle of the continent doesn't mean we don't have beaches and plenty of lakes and rivers. Manitoba has thousands of lakes and rivers. Grand Beach is not the only one but most crowded.
On that note, Winnipeg is not the only city in Manitoba. You can visit Brandon. I believe there is still a bus that goes there from Winnipeg. And there's also Portage La Prairie. Morden has a cool museum of ocean dinosaur fossils found locally. There are many festivals around the province. It just takes some planning. Also take note that even though McLean's Magazine has deemed Winnipeg "the most racist city" it was met with a lot of backlash by Manitobans. Racism is everywhere. We're not perfect. There's not any more of a problem here than anywhere else in Canada. No matter where you're from, you'll be safe as anywhere else in Canada.
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