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Recently, Reddit user u/0_7_0 decided to find out what are the prime examples of common sense.

On July 13, they made a post on r/AskReddit, asking people "What is one 'unwritten rule' that you believe everyone should know and follow?" And it blew up.

As of this article, u/0_7_0's question has received over 3,400 comments, many of which are valuable tidbits we all should listen to. Here are some of the most upvoted ones.

#1

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If I show you a picture on my phone, don't go swiping sideways.

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    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If someone is wearing headphones and is clearly keeping to themselves, leave them alone!

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    #3

    Don't litter. It's really not hard to just not litter

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    #4

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't watch loud videos on your phone at a restaurant. Can't believe this isn't common courtesy anymore

    penguinmanbat , Austin Distel Report

    Rabbit Carrot
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And don’t have public zoom meetings! Urgh.

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    #5

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you borrow something, return it in the same condition

    Ryastor , Alexas_Fotos Report

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    #6

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If someone is giving you a ride, you should be ready at the door before they get there. It’s so rude to have someone waiting on you when they are doing you a favor by picking you up

    Thatweirdboringdude , Arnaud STECKLE Report

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to pick up a friend on a night out. Called him when we arrived, said he'd be down in a moment. 15 mins later still nothing. Called him again and he said he was going to come down after watching Buffy. Told him he'd have to get the train and drove off.

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    #7

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) The 'wave' of thank you when someone lets you in while driving in traffic. It's just polite

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    Brendan
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also wave to the person who waved. Double politeness lol.

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    #8

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Put the shopping cart back where it GOES!

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    Rabbit Carrot
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah and stop leaving them in carpark spaces! 😡

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    #9

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Just because you know someone who does something for a living, that doesn't automatically mean they owe you a discount if you ask for their services.

    mstaff388 , Allef Vinicius Report

    NinjaWolfy94
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't do art for a living but I do take commissions sometimes and this bothers me so heckin much...

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    #10

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you want to go for a hike and listen to music, come with earphones or headphones. Don't blast loud music.

    AgeOfWomen , sweetlouise Report

    Diddlybop
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh huh it's so annoying especially if you are listening to music yourself and you can hear their crappy radio over your peaceful tunes

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    #11

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Quit pissing on public toilet seats. And if you do, at least have the decency to wipe it up

    wSkkHRZQy24K17buSceB , Giorgio Trovato Report

    ~hUmMuS vIbEs~
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or leaving little drops on the seat. Even if it's by accident, no one else wants to wipe it off so they can sit.

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    #12

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Chew with your mouth closed.

    alhern112 , ederick Medina Report

    Piet Puk
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And don't talk with food in your mouth.

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    #13

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't just show up randomly at someone's house. Call, text, or otherwise reach out and positivity confirm that it's okay before heading to someone else's home.

    Nosunallrain , Dimitar Belchev Report

    ~hUmMuS vIbEs~
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have some really close friends that we're comfortable enough to just rock up to each others houses, but don't do that unless it's someone you know won't have a problem with it.

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    #14

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When you have a complaint with a retail store or business, please remember that the person you are speaking too (or yelling at sadly) is just the one that happened to pick up the phone or is standing at the till. they likely have nothing to do with what went wrong and have little sway in what can be done to help. They dont need to be yelled and screamed at for something they did not do or is under the control of a corporate office/higher up.

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    cybermerlin2000
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always talk in a polite and friendly manner when making complaints. I have found they are more likely to go above and beyond to help. And always thank them afterwards and compliment their ability to help as it makes their day.

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    #15

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don’t touch pregnant people’s bellies. What is it about being pregnant that suddenly makes other people feel entitled to touch you without asking.

    saturdazzzed , Felipe Bustillo Report

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You shouldn’t be touching other people anywhere, not their hair, not there butt not their stomach, nothing… not unless you ask first

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    #16

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) PERSONAL SPACE (even when not in a pandemic)

    keri112493 , Austin Distel Report

    Aroace tiger (any pronouns)
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really care about personal space. Its one of the most important things

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    #17

    Don't leave perishable items in random aisles or at the checkout. You're wasting food and driving prices up.

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    Norma
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe we've fallen so far that this even happens. It saddens me.

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    #18

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Stand back before boarding a bus, subway, metro, or elevator so that those on can get off quickly without having to wait for you to back up first

    Lightmareman , Petar Avramoski Report

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes for doors, elevators and escalators and everything else where people should be allowed to get off of a moving thing before you get on.

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    #19

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) On an escalator, stand on the right so people can walk on the left.

    ChicagoSocs , Geri Chapple Report

    jjdubs W
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless in a left-side driving country. In those countries, it tends to be the opposite.

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    #20

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If u borrow even a damn dollar and promise to bring it back, bring it back

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    Michelle M
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People, pls don't lend money you can't give. Meaning that you shouldn't go out of your way to lend what you can't afford to give. That way, if the person doesn't return it, you won't be broke. Thank you

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    #21

    Double flush if you must. Nobody wants to see your poop crumbs.

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    Amy Smith
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poop Crumbs lol! Just honked and spat my tea out. Getting funny looks now. Agreed, it is mank

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    #22

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never comment a person's weight, if they lost it, if they gained some. It's just very rude either way.

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    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All you have to do is say you look good you don’t have to specify what part looks good or why

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    #23

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't talk loudly on the phone while you're in public transportation, it's super uncomfortable for everyone

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    Otter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or at least be aware that some people regard your loud conversation as as free entertainment.

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    #24

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Wear deodorant if you are out in public

    kyogre120 , ana_essentiels Report

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people have medical conditions where they either can not wear deodorant or the deodorant won’t help. I would rather smell a human than a sickening perfume all day

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    #25

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Give up your seat to the pregnant lady on the bus/train (or to anyone else who needs it. Don't take up two seats because you like to put your feet/bag up).

    Gherkinstein , Sigfrid Lundberg Report

    Otter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember seeing a lady with a walker give up a handicapped spot for a man in an electric wheelchair. If she can do it, everyone else can do it.

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    #26

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never ask a person if they're pregnant. It's just rude and you never know their medical history.

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    Alexia
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similarly, never ask when they plan to have a child, or why they don't have children already. It's not your business and you don't know what trauma you may unveil. Maybe they had a miscarriage, maybe they did have a child who died at birth, or maybe they have been struggling to get pregnant.

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    #27

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you borrow a friends car or truck, always return it with a full tank of gas.

    nraasch19 , SnapwireSnaps Report

    jjdubs W
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At minimum, fill it to where it was when you borrowed it.

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    #28

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) The last one to go to bed has to turn all the lights off

    Rebeca2277 , Emma Fabbri Report

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well then the cats got some learning to do

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    #29

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When someone else is paying the bill, you shouldn't order something very pricey. (It's understandable if something expensive is the only thing you are able to eat.)

    yomomma1000 , Blake Wisz Report

    Dee gee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're sharing the bill and you clearly spent more than everyone else.. . Make sure you insist on paying the difference.

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    #30

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When you are shopping/looking for clothes and suddenly decide you don't want it anymore, put it back where you found it. Don't just dump it somewhere — it makes life hard for both workers who are cleaning up and the customers looking for something to buy.

    i_dunno_mate_159 , Becca McHaffie Report

    Adi A.
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually not, in a lot of stores you have a designated area near the cabins where you should leave them. Especially during the pandeminc it is not so smart to put your clothes back with the others after you have tried them on, they could carry nasty things.

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    #31

    If you make an appointment and can’t keep it, cancel or let someone know. I manage sales for a car dealership and we thrive on appointments. We understand things come up, just let us know. That simple gesture goes a long way.

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    Jenny McKeown
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Car salesmen can be very pushy though! My mum ended up making an appointment because the person talking to her wouldn't take no for an answer but she had no intention of buying the car and didn't attend. I understand what you're saying but she didn't want to have to ring and engage with him again, having been intimidated into making the initial appointment.

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    #32

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If your advice or opinion wasn’t asked for, don’t give it.

    heyNOTathrowawy , Mimi Thian Report

    Scott T Brynildsen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe it's called a conversation. People have been having them for a very VERY long time. People need to stop making everything about them.

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    #33

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you are going to talk with someone about your problems/issues, do a quick check-in first. Like, 'Are you in a good space for me to talk this out with you?' I’ve used it a few times, and I think just the basic courtesy of asking is such a relief to people!

    lucille1234 , Andrea Tummons Report

    Dee gee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know about other cultures but in the UK this is pointless advice. There is NO Way anyone would respond to this by saying "actually no I'm in a s**t mood" we'd just grin and bear it either way.

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    #34

    The last of any food/drink is reserved for whoever bought said food/drink Always leave stuff cleaner than it was when you got to it (campsites, AirBnBs, anything shared with people really)

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    K Killian
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With the ridiculous cleaning fees that Airbnb's often charge, I'm not certain why I should be doing the cleaning for them.

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    #35

    If someone can't fix an aspect of their appearance in five minutes or less, don't mention it.

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    #36

    If you’re about to turn the light on in a dark room and someone is there, you have to announce what you’re about to do so the person doesn’t get a surprise. I feel like it’s really disrespectful to turn the light on without announcing it

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    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife and I do this when it gets dark so that we can prepare our eyes.

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    #37

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When walking through a store, treat the aisles like lanes on a road. Keep to the right.

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    #38

    Don't bombard people with a ton of taking when they obviously feel tired and overwhelmed, they are having enough trouble with their own stuff, to deal with all of your stuff.

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    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You need to speak up if you’re tired. Not put it on others, you may think it’s obvious to other people and they may not be seeing what you think they’re seeing

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    #39

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never drink the last beer if you didn't buy them.

    Digital_loop , kazuend Report

    Scott T Brynildsen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone on a budget wrote this. If you're offered the last beer, you get the last beer.

    Two_rolling_black_eyes
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. If you are offered the last beer, you say no. NEVER take the last portion of anything you didn't buy. That last beer may be the last one they have until payday 10 days from now. Don't take their last dollar, don't take their last beer. In many cultures, you are required to offer but you are also supposed to say no. For instance, if you live in Minnesota and take the last burger at the BBQ, you won't get invited to more of them.

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    troufaki13
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get it. Can someone explain please?

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shared housing/ visiting a mate where you go to the fridge and help yourself to someone's beverages. You don't take someones last can/bottle of beer (or soda). If it's the last one, ask if there are more you can put in to chill for them, if there aren't, and you want more, you offer to do a beer run.

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    iBlank
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this and many of the other posts in this blog are between a group of quarreling roommates

    shado
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thanks ... you just solved my wild speculations

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    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex & I argued over this all the time. Because he was the man, the last beer should automatically go to him. Um, no - I'm the one who went to the store and I'm the one who paid for it, so yes I'm drinking the last beer. And quite frankly with an attitude like that, he was pretty damned lucky I shared MY beer with him in the first place. Note the key word "ex".

    HammerzToe
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And don't go over to someones house, drink beer whenever you are their and promise to bring them a six pack the next time you show up only to show up empty handed every time.

    Karen Scheltema
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And don't forget to have a designated driver!

    Kitti B.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So f*****g this!! Once a roommate's friend drank my beer because she THOUGHT it was her friend's. SO SO rude!!!

    Shirley Heyn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is rude to let someone buy you a beer and not drink it.

    Denise Mclean
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are all on a Budget Now a Days ! Buy your own is what I say !

    Michelle Boden
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone needs to drink it before it gets warm!

    Sammy Wilson
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this isnt an unspoken rule you can take it if you want

    Cheri Aline Sydney
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're at my house... Please, do... CHEERS!!!

    Glirpy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last beer is most likely going to be a Bud, Coors or Miller anyway, so I don't want it.

    Paul Lund
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah I c, the picture screws it up, it looks like at the bar, but they are meaning in the fridge at a sharing house.

    Keyy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes if there are 5 of us and you brought a 6 pack that last one if for the person who purchased the 6 pack

    Janet C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never ever ask a woman or couple when they're going to "start a family". First off, they ARE a family -- a family of two. Second, they may not want kids or can't have kids. It's rude to ask about kids.

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But drinking the first 23 of the crate is ok?

    Monday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ideally you'd drink the middle 22 of the crate. General rule is you don't open what you didn't buy.

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    #40

    People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Always space out by one urinal in the restroom.

    Mega_Smasher , Help Stay Report