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Article created by: Mantas Kačerauskas

Time and again, we've all wondered if it’d be possible to live in a society where there are no rules. But norms of everyday life have somewhat the same function as the rules of games: they tell us what ‘moves' are allowed and which ones are not. Not only do our interactions run smoothly, but the whole world we live in feels harmonious and in order.

So in order to really see how and which rules govern our lives, and what we make of them, we have to look at the universal, unspoken ones that everyone should be aware of, if they already aren’t. Shared by people in various Reddit threads, some of these rules are simple no-brainers, others represent more elaborate conventions, so let’s see which ones people pointed out as the most important ones.

Scroll down, share your thoughts in the comment section and be sure to check out our previous post with more of the “unwritten rules” of life.

#1

Hand gripping a brass doorknob on a black door, symbolizing unspoken rules of life everyone follows. When walking through a door and someone is behind you, hold the door long enough so the person doesn't get hit by it.

[deleted] , Charlotte May Report

Shane Mitchell
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3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am amazed at how many people don't do this. Its amazingly rude and takes very little effort to do the right thing.

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    Person holding smartphone displaying photos, illustrating unspoken life rules shared by people, with laptop in background. If somebody gives their phone to look at a picture don't scroll and see all their other pictures.

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    #3

    Man holding a ring box proposing to a woman, illustrating unspoken rules of life people often follow. NEVER propose at someone else's wedding, never.

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    #4

    Young woman smiling while looking at her phone at a cafe, reflecting on unspoken rules of life everyone follows. If you're watching garbage Facebook videos in the break room and other people are trying to enjoy their hour of peace wear some [freaking] headphones Alana.

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    #5

    Singer with mustache holding a microphone, symbolizing people sharing unspoken life rules everyone follows. An appearance flaw that cannot be easily changed shall be completely ignored.

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    #6

    Pregnant woman in white lace dress holding belly outdoors, representing people share unspoken rules of life concept. Don't ask if she is pregnant. Just don't.

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    #7

    Hand pressing an elevator button, symbolizing unspoken rules of life that people commonly follow every day. For any space holding people (train, elevator, classroom), let people exit before you try to enter

    _NendSudes , Kelly L Report

    #8

    Person walking across a pedestrian crosswalk wearing black boots and cream-colored pants demonstrating unspoken rules of life. Small wave at the driver when they stop at the crosswalk so they know you know they saw you.

    sarkozywasthere_ , Tim Douglas Report

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    #9

    Young woman wearing headphones, holding a coffee cup and reflecting on unspoken rules of life in a cozy setting. You do not initiate small talks with someone with their headphones on.

    WallflowerAshes , cottonbro Report

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    #10

    Two women having a thoughtful conversation at a round table by the window, reflecting unspoken rules of life people follow. If you offer something, you offer twice only. If they say no both times you don't push it

    ghostye , Christina Morillo Report

    #11

    Grilled fish served with salad and potatoes on a white plate illustrating unspoken rules of life people follow. You don’t microwave fish in the break room at work.

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    #12

    Young woman in a hoodie biting into food, illustrating everyday moments of unspoken rules of life people follow. Closing your mouth when you chew.

    Bonescielo , Andres Ayrton Report

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    #13

    Young woman with red headband holding a vintage camera, capturing moments that reflect unspoken life rules people follow. You don’t take pictures of kids that aren’t yours

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    #14

    Urinal in a public restroom with natural light highlighting fixtures illustrating unspoken rules people share in life. There will always be a demilitarized urinal between two urinating men, unless overpopulation becomes a factor, in which case participating piddlers will look either straight forward or directly down at their dingle dongle.

    tallperson117 , Hakeem James Report

    #15

    Smiling baby wearing a striped hat and patterned pajamas lying on a soft rug illustrating unspoken life rules. If a two year old speaks gibberish to you, you reply with either "you think so?" Or "thank you for telling me".

    h4wkeyepierce , Victoria Borodinova Report

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    #16

    Hand holding a Ryobi stud sensor against a wooden wall illustrating unspoken life rules and practical sense. When using a stud finder, you must first point it at yourself and go "beep"

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    #17

    Close-up of a smiling woman showing chipped teeth, illustrating unspoken life rules people silently accept. If you notice something on someone that can be fixed within 5 minutes, tell them (Shirt stain, food in teeth etc)

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    #18

    Young man coughing into elbow while sitting at laptop, illustrating unspoken rules of life in everyday settings. Covering your mouth when sneezing...although everyone doesn't always do it

    Mojovman , Edward Jenner Report

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    #19

    Close-up of a smartphone screen showing social media app icons, illustrating unspoken rules of life everyone follows. The internet is forever, so be careful what you put on it- especially if your real name/face/details are attached. People will find them and bring them up at the worst possible times. A few seconds of thinking about if it's really a good idea to post that comment or whatever can do a lot of good.

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    #20

    Woman wearing a black dress with a white collar and belt, illustrating unspoken rules of life people commonly follow. If your dress has pockets, you must tell everyone.

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    #21

    Toddler in striped shirt and rolled pants walking barefoot on wooden deck, illustrating unspoken rules of life people follow. If you work in childcare and see a baby walk for the first time you don’t say anything to the parent.

    [deleted] , Tatiana Twinslol Report

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    #22

    Person using tongs to place a burger patty with cheese and vegetables, illustrating unspoken life rules people follow. When using tongs, you must always click them together a couple times.

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    #23

    Young child playing with a toy gun inside a cardboard box, illustrating unspoken rules of life people follow. If a child shoots you with a toy gun you act hurt or pretend to die for them. No questions asked. I learned this when I became an aunt lol.

    [deleted] , cottonbro Report

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