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30 Screenshots Of Toxic People Treating Their Significant Others Like Trash
Not every relationship ends in a ‘happily ever after.’ And sometimes, your knight’s shining armor is just for show. So much so that these people end up being called out on the front page of the internet for how awfully they treat their partners. Lies, accusations, and manipulation... it's an emotional rollercoaster that's more powerful than a soap opera.
Bored Panda has collected some of Reddit's most infamous posts about toxic relationships where people clearly don’t respect their significant other. You’ll find the stories and screenshots as you scroll down.
When you’ve read through this list, you can look through our previous articles about 'nice guys' who only pretend to be kind right here and here.
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My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes
I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay
I know a guy like this, but in his defence, dude was a Sallesman ( image is very important ) and this was almost 30 years ago, plus everyone knew, even his wife, i assume they had an " understanding ", but he had 2 or 3 kids with her though.
Please Show His Wife The Note And Money
There is an online community called r/niceguys that features some of the worst cases of people pretending to be nice, only to put down others when they don’t get their own way. ‘Nice guys,’ no matter their gender, tend to be jealous, controlling, and spiteful.
‘Nice guys,’ like the ones portrayed on the r/niceguys subreddit, as well as other online communities, are all about creating the appearance of being kind, wholesome, and supportive. The reality, unfortunately, is often very different.
Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water
Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone
It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper
HE HIT THE DOGS?????? ONLY BIG FAT IDIOT A******S WITH DAMN F*****G A*****E ATTITUDES AND AN EMPTY BRAIN CAPACITY HITS DOGS 😡 HE WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY
They usually have confidence issues that run very deep. They tend to be extremely jealous, and attempt to control who their significant others spend time with.
Their personal insecurities lead to relationships that are very unhealthy because they’re built on a foundation of suspicion and paranoia.
Trashy Husband
Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend
I Can Hear The Wedding Bells
Go to police. Give ex-wife everything she wants in the divorce settlement. Remain alone from now on; you deserve to be.
Anyone can tell you that if you take trust out of the equation, you’ve got a relationship that’s pretty much doomed to fail. It’s not really a relationship if you’re always accusing your partner of lying to you or being unfaithful.
In some of the situations presented in this list, there are a few ways to tackle the problems at their source. The first is to have an open and honest conversation with your significant other about their behavior.
Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth
"If my wife lets herself go after I have kids with her, I’m going to tell her once. If you don’t get your sh*t together, because I still want to be sexually attracted to my wife, my spouse, but if you can’t do that, I’m out’".
He should tell that louder and more often and put it on all his profiles everywhere so women know to avoid that shallow idiot who'll only date them for their bodies and ditch them as soon as things go tough or they might lose their looks for whatever reason. I mean, no one in their right minds would ever date this guy. What if she has an accident? What if she gets cancer? Or something else that'll disfigure her? Getting married is gor the good times AND the bad times. If your love for your spouse only goes skin deep, you're not relationship material. At best, you are a toy to have fun... if you're pretty enough. Or pay some coin. But otherwise, you're not worth the investment that having a relationship needs.
Males who have these misogynistic attitudes against women are 1- are not the real men they think they are. 2 - have no business having kids nor getting married. 3 - need to grow up and take some courses about women and how our bodies REALLY work. 4 - needs to have a reality check about real relationships.
These are also the men who are panicking that women are choosing to be single rather than get into relationships with their loser asses. You can see them ranting all over the internet about "cat ladies" and "you need to lower your standards" and women are just like "lol, no thanks".
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Get yourself fixed then because no child in this world deserves such a disgusting human being as a father. Leave your wife as well, she deserves better.
I love my wife's body more now after child birth. She hasn't let herself go, she's put her body through torture to bring us our two kids. A little pouch her or a roll there, I'm all for it. Reminds me of what she went through for our family
morrre troglodytes. some days i feel like i got The Last Good Man™️
That could very easily backfire. She could stay the same or get better looking while he could change irreversibly (in some of the ways aging men often do...). So go ahead buddy. Tell her once. See how that works out for you.
Its always the fat bald guys who say stuff like this lol
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Yuck. Let's see this "bro" throw his entire system out of whack, have his body try to consume itself, then give birth and generate nutrition for this new life... he can f**k all the way off. The mother of my child is always beautiful... even when she pisses me off.
Ah like the time my husband told me he would divorce me all bc I gained 10-15 lbs. A little clarification, I’m 5’2” and 95lbs soaking wet. I’ve always been skinny so I was very happy when I gained weight, only for him to say that wtf.
I'm going to let go of a lot of useless and unattractive fat as soon as I recover from childbirth. The surgical extraction procedure I will be using is called a "divorce".
He doesn't care for her lol, he only Cares about her look lol, back in the early 2000s i met a woman on " MIRC IRC " ( yes Im that old ) we started talking, and after a wille we describe ourselves to eachother, and She Tells me that She was 1.60m tall and weighed 120kg, now i Also weighed around 120kg, bit Im a male ( denser boné and muscle structure ) and Im 1.85m tall, and that kind of putt me off, but we continue talking, She was married and had a kid, só we became friends, and talked about everything, and ended up flirting as a joke.... Dude, She was BY FAR the most exciting woman i ever meet in my life, She was funny, Smart, sexy as hell when She was teasing, o e day we meet for a coffee ( this was many months after we start talking ) and Im gonna be honest, to me She was super atractive, alas She was married ( She ended up divorsing her husband, but left the country right after that ).
I hope she heard this- I hope she hasn't had babies with him and she got the hell out the minute she heard this boybaby say such things
Just say, "Yes darling. I totally understand what you are saying." Then get him to pay for a personal trainer and nutritionist, get as fit as f**k, and then leave his a*s!
Hope his wife leaves him , he has no idea what a woman's body can go through. Not just due to childbirth, hormones, peri menopause then menopause.....GET EDUCATED AND MAN UP
If those guys start to lose their hair I hope their SO rubs it in their face and divorces their sorry a$$.
And what is he going to look like a few years down the road? Men gaining "baby weight" is a real thing. Will he get whipped back into shape? What if he starts losing his hair? Just sitting around podcasting is not something that will make you in great shape. I don't see this guy keeping a relationship with anybody for very long. Or he's just posturing for the audience.
Fuckmuffin already let himself go by being born, can't be any other reason for such a mashed potato brain comment.
You ever notice how it's the celibate guys that make the absurd claims? I wonder if there's a link there....
Okay Pandas, I did a little sleuthing about these morons and it turns out none of them are married. Not that this makes the remarks better but they were speaking about a hypothetical future wife. It was from a podcast last January, one month after they launched their channel, and obviously went viral. So I'm assuming they were being deliberately inflammatory for the sake of views/clicks. And it worked because more than 80 reaction videos were made about it. Why? Because the boys turned off the comments on all their socials due to the backlash. Which is weird because aren't they all about having their shït together?
This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend
This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone
Explain your position. Tell them how you feel when they don’t trust you or talk down to you. Set some clear and healthy boundaries. Though, keep in mind, a single conversation won’t save your relationship—it’ll take time and effort for real change to happen.
If that doesn’t work, you may want to consider couples counseling. Having a neutral third party give you a helping hand can work wonders. However, not all relationships can—or should—be saved.
My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done
My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems
Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her
If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you, reach out to a counselor or an organization for advice specific to your situation. These professionals can support you as you consider what to do next. There is no excuse for abuse.
Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months
This is the type of person that finds a needy pregnant woman, tricks her into meeting up by offering baby clothes, then tries to cut the baby out of her body.
Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment
Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids
Um… am I weird, or is that reaction from the dude totally messed-up?
What separates ‘nice guys’ from everyone else is the lack of genuine confidence. These ‘nice guys’ have a victim mentality and lash out at the people around them when things don’t go their way.
Again, this isn’t gender-specific: anyone can be toxic, it’s not just guys who are jerks.
Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital
Wife's Time Of The Month
WHY SO YELLY? also, it IS that time of the month...that time where she educates this troglodyte about how easy it is to disappear a body.
Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid
Am I the only one who is also concerned about the EYES of the human in the picture underneath that disgusting text?
A while ago, Bored Panda touched on the topic of building a genuine sense of confidence. A fitness expert explained to us that it all comes down to proving that “you’re not a victim.” He suggested focusing on small tasks and small victories at first.
According to the expert, helping others in need, taking care of your health, advancing in your career, and focusing on having a successful relationship are some of the things that will instill a sense of confidence.
Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions
I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This
My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together
“When you’re successful in one area you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life,” he said, earlier.
However, positive changes aren’t instant. They take time. The fitness expert noted that “your brain needs proof around your new identity."
"Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he explained.
Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband
More Fun Texts From The Darling Ex Husband!
"I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night
"Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It’s all our perspective," he pointed out that we control how we respond to criticism and feedback. Some run away from uncomfortable truths. Others use them to grow and become better people, for the sake of their loved ones.
Many men featured on the r/niceguys subreddit are prime examples of toxic masculinity: they have a misogynistic attitude that arises from distorted ideas of what they ‘should’ be like.
A psychotherapist explained to us some time ago that people like that tend to think that men should “never be ‘weak’ or ‘soft’” or vulnerable. People who embody the traits of toxic masculinity feel that they always need to be winners and they tend to look down on women, as well as their rights.
Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant
Nice Guy/BF/Husband??
Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed
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“A man with healthy masculinity is the opposite to these traits: someone who is self-reflective, embraces their emotions including sadness, anxiety and crying, a man who isn't afraid of their own femininity and believes that women are equal, and therefore are very clear about respecting boundaries and consent with women,” the psychotherapist told Bored Panda during an earlier interview.
He added that healthy masculinity allows men to feel comfortable with having their opinions challenged. They’re open-minded and willing to have debates because they’re not scared of being proven wrong.
i am sleepless in Denver and cannot for the LIFE of me believe this is what i wasted 15 minutes of my life on.
I do not understand why the opposite sex are not all living in women only communes, threads like these, showing what utter arseholes us men can be, just makes me depressed.
Did you miss all the ones with the horrible women? I think all humans should just stop mingling for a while. :p
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Another reminder to be thankful I dropped the gaslighter from my life. I used to be as good as on this list with him: my life is so much better now. I hope these ppls get away from their crazies
The use of the word female here, tells me everything I need to know about you. Very telling that you did manage to use the word men, to describe these s**t stains. Which one is you?
Load More Replies... i am sleepless in Denver and cannot for the LIFE of me believe this is what i wasted 15 minutes of my life on.
I do not understand why the opposite sex are not all living in women only communes, threads like these, showing what utter arseholes us men can be, just makes me depressed.
Did you miss all the ones with the horrible women? I think all humans should just stop mingling for a while. :p
Load More Replies... Another reminder to be thankful I dropped the gaslighter from my life. I used to be as good as on this list with him: my life is so much better now. I hope these ppls get away from their crazies
The use of the word female here, tells me everything I need to know about you. Very telling that you did manage to use the word men, to describe these s**t stains. Which one is you?
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