Someone Wonders “What Was Actually Better In The Past?”, And 35 People Deliver
InterviewWith time racing at the pace of a hadron collider, it’s easy to remain oblivious to the passing years. Only after a while, years, if not decades, do we notice how much things have changed around us, ourselves included.
It’s when we press pause on the present and look right back into the past. What do we see there? Well, it’s no secret that most humans have a strong sense of nostalgia that puts the years gone by in an exceptionally positive light.
This thread from Ask Reddit may also give us some answers by showing what things people thought were simpler, more accessible and efficient, and overall way better in the past. And now we can all decide whether it’s true or it’s our sentimental longing speaking. Let us know what you think in the comments below!
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my knees/ankles/back...
What's gonna pain when you get older kids? Head, shoulders, knees and toes. Everything basically.
Lol mine were never good to begin with 😂😅 sadly I got all the bad genetics in my family while my brother got none 👀
Thought the same thing. Diagnosed with osteoarthritis at 36. Then I lost 100 lbs. The difference is almost magical. 46 now and get around better than I did at 33.
Absolutely! Had both knees replaced at 47 but still have OA in back, hips, feet and hands! 😔
Saturday Morning Cartoons.
The late 80's/ early 90's heyday.
Yeah those days were the best. Anyone remember Thundercats and Space Ghost?
Agreeing with you and @nimues child. The old Looney Tunes and Jay Ward cartoons often had jokes for adults, too (what kid would get the pun of "the ruby yacht of Omar Kayyam"?) without being a double entendre.
Load More Replies...This! When cartoons became available 24/7 kids didn't have them to look forward to as much. A certain amount of appreciation for them has been lost.
You are so correct and I grew up in that era. After school I would watch it any available kids shows was on before "adult shows" switched. That's when I go off elsewhere to play.
Load More Replies...Gonna give props to the 'late '60s / early 70s heyday, too. A mix of classic theater cartoons From Warner Bros. and MGM with fun newer ones like Bullwinkle, Speed Racer and the original Scooby-Doo. And, of course, SCHOOLHOUSE ROCK! "Conjunction Junction, what's your function?"
Also, I learned my days per month on my knuckles from Bugs Bunny
Load More Replies...We had Smurfs, Thundercats, Dungeons and Dragons, Silverhawks, Gummi Bears, Alvin and the Chipmunks and many more. These are all like mid to late 80’s. I think one of the biggest differences is that these were all done by hand and they had to turn out quality material because it took so long just to produce one episode
Those damn cartoons were played at 7am. Never in my life have I woken up that early freely 😑 always missed the cartoons but then got stuck watching some CSI Miami show or something when i was 5 so...
I somehow was able to wake up around 5am to watch Samurai Pizza Cats.
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I miss the days before social media was a big thing. Everyone would just hangout and be focused on the interactions we were currently having.
Oxymoron, more like. You are not social on that media. “Clean coal” is a bald faced lie, just like that “right to work” b******t.
Load More Replies...I also feel like it has just made us all more hateful. Since you can spew horrible words to someone without them knowing your identity, too many people do it. Social media also contributes to the fighting and the influencers and the people taking videos instead of helping, etc.
Not to mention the things people will say behind the safety of a keyboard when they wouldn't dare say it in person for the fear of a rap on the beak! This kind of thing acted as a safety valve and the occasional playground fight helped keep the peace overall because kids learned how to act in public without getting popped! You didn't shoot your mouth off all the time with impunity in the real world.
Load More Replies...What bothers me is when young people will sit in the same room and text each other rather than talk.
No, not everyone. Us introverts were most likely not having fun at your gatherings. With social media at leas we can have friends at the comfort and barrier of our home.
That's a mental health issue, you know that, right?
Load More Replies...These days some people know a lot of people without ever seeing or meeting them. Also, in the past if you had a follower, you could actually see and touch them but nowadays, nope.
In the past, if you had a follower, it was often a stalker. 😋
Load More Replies...yes, going for coffee with friends and being absobed in what they were saying irl
Uh, we were hanging out drinking coffee and taking turns on the Ms Pac man and Centipedes machines, or at my friend's apt playing endless games of Acey Deucey back gammon. Even then was not a fan of personal interactions.
Yep. I miss people not having their faces glued to those devices in their hands. People actually looked up while they walked, you could smile at them and have a conversation and everything.
“We tend to romanticize nostalgia and look back on our memories fondly,” Alex Wong, the marketing expert, book author and creator of “Hijack Copywriter” told Bored Panda. “This is because ‘back in the day’ seems much simpler and less chaotic than the present. We always have something to do and somewhere to be. However, when we look back on our childhood or earlier days, we ignore these challenges and focus on the more positive, simpler aspects,” he explained.
Home appliances. Old ones could be dropped out of a plane and still work well. New ones break because someone looked at it funny
Things used to be made to last, then somebody was like wait, now they don't need to keep giving us money... and decided to screw everybody over. Plus if you get a warranty, it's going to last the duration and then the next day it'll break like it was engineered that way.
I specifically went through the comments on this post, to see if anyone else had noticed and commented... WTF?
Load More Replies...Your fridge stops working because there is no wifi to upgrade the software :D
Don't forget simplicity. A fridge used to only be for keeping food cold. Now we have smart fridges that can send tweets and need regular updates
They still have the bare minimum fridge. I just bought a GE back in 2015, no ice maker or water dispenser. I didn't want those features. I figured it was more stuff to fix. It seems like my MIL is always fixing her ice maker. I remember my mom did to back when I lived at home. She finally stopped having it fixed. It would still make ice, you just couldn't dispense it from the outside of the fridge. Same with the water dispenser push handle.
Load More Replies...Newer is not always better. I have been married 21 years. We were given a large crockpot, a blender, a waffle iron, a set of Le Crueset pots and pans, and several sets of towels and bed linens as wedding gifts (amongst other things). They were all good quality items, not cheap stuff. We’re still sleeping on the bed linens, drying ourselves on the bath towels, drying our dishes on the kitchen towels, and using the pots and pans, crockpot, blender, and waffle iron every week. 21 years later. And these were items made in 2001, so the s**t appliances that fall apart if you blow on them are either cheap off brands made without quality control in who knows what country (take your pick of the worst), or the brand names have outsourced their manufacturing to those very same countries, and as a result have had a huge drop in quality as well. I remember people used to joke about American factories having lazy employees—-“don’t buy anything made on Monday morning or Friday afternoon, ha-ha!” I’d say it certainly wasn’t true, because f**k if they didn’t make stuff that lasted!
That is easy to explain. All the components in the past, were big, really big. But now they are small really small= weaker material, nothing is made to perform harder than the seller wants. I have a riding lawn mower from 65, it is steel or cast iron all the way, with chains, sturdy rods etc. The new ones are plastic, aluminum, electronic etc. There is a weight difference too. My mower is about 800 kg, new ones are about 200 kg i would guess
So true. Our washer and dryer are 30 years old - THIRTY YEARS OLD. And they still work great.
Too many things are made to be disposable; simply because companies don't make enough by making products that last. That's why I'll never buy an Apple product.
The sky. Light pollution has destroyed one of the most beautiful sights that humans had gazed upon for thousands of years.
Also the fireflies- when I was a child we'd see lots of them at night, adorning the trees and such, but I rarely get to see them now.
That's not light pollution. That's killing their food sources by sterilizing our world. Fireflies eat smaller insects, snails, and slugs. We've sprayed our lawns, killed all the native plants and trees, and decimated their food sources. This is also why you probably remember seeing monarch butterflies as a kid, but only rarely see them now.
Load More Replies...It is so bad that sometimes when city wide power-outages occur, people flood emergency services with panicked calls about the stange lights in the sky.
During a power outage in California, people were calling 911 over "alien lights in the sky". They were seeing the Milky Way galaxy in the night sky for the first time. As ADULTS.
Amen, just turn your damned lights off a d whatever happened to stores etc. turning off poke signs when they are closed.
Actually, many cities are aware of this issue and are doing things to prevent this.
I moved to the country just to see those 2 beautiful wonders that people never see anymore. And it's the most amazing sight.
I walk my dog every night, and every night without fail my heart is broken when I look at the night sky and can only make out a few dozen stars. I finally got to see the Milky Way for the first time in years this last winter when we took a weekend in the mountains. I stood freezing in the snow for as long as I could, marveling at every twinkling red, blue, gold and white star, and the spill of dust and stars that make up the disk of our galaxy. The night sky is our heritage as human beings, and city life robs us of that.
Prices vs earnings.
Not to mention savings accounts that allowed you to actually accrue savings.
Agreed, but with high savings rates also comes high lending rates. No one wants to go back to 10% mortgages.
Load More Replies...When I was 19 I was earning enough to pay rent for a 2 bed apartment, all my food, travel expenses to work, nights out Thu to Sat, dinner at a restaurant at least once a week, a holiday abroad (usually somewhere exotic) twice a year, PlayStation games as and when, and still have a decent disposable income for fashionable clothes. Now, I rent from my in-laws to reduce the cost, buy the cheapest provisions I can, have a stay-cation, get my clothes from a supermarket and haven't bought a new PlayStation game in 4 years. And that's WITH a joint income with my wife.
No kidding. 40 years ago a minimum wage worker at full time made $5700 a year. The median house was $47,200 and public college was $1000. Now a min worker makes $15,200, and the median home is $428,000 (mean is $379,000) and public college is over $10,000.
This one is probably wrong... Accommodation and food took up most of our earnings in the past... In "first world countries" this isn't true for a long time!
just talked about that with my friend, we are in our 60's, parent worked, had a home, two vehicles, money for vacations or cabins, access to sports was reasonable, cost of living and middle class was so much better
Yes. Well. This one was intentionally taken away from us and we seem unwilling to do what it takes to take it back.
No, this is the same inflation, stagflation, and recession we had in the 1970s-1980s. It comes from deficit spending and we are now $30Trillion in debt! That it $30,000,000,000. We are talking about some real money now! That is 30 million, million.
Wong, who’s in his 30s, said that for him, the good old days were in the '90s and early 2000s, before smartphones and the modern internet. “Things moved slower and you wouldn’t get dozens of emails or notifications a day,” he recounted. “However, my father is in his 70s so I’m sure the '90s and 2000s were a lot different for him. When he explains how his life was back in China in the '50s and '60s, it seems like a completely different world,” Wong added.
“One reason we tend to idealize the past is that we were young at the time and life seemed a lot more simple and innocent,” the marketing expert argues. “We were full of hope and aspirations. Over time, we tend to become more cynical and pessimistic.”
The environment.
So true. Things like fast fashion, built in obsolescence, more disposable income etc have a lot to answer for (not just them obviously but...)
I have a feeling that even money has built-in obsolescence. I withdrew £20 from the ATM and by the time I got to the shops it was only worth £15. Crazy inflation.
Load More Replies...The problem with protecting the environment is that those responsible for the most damage control the wealth and therefore control the government. In turn that controls legislation. Same where I live. You got cash? Then do whatever your heart desires.
Pollution in the USA has been DRAMATICALLY reduced compared to, say, the 1960s.
Bravo!! The Clean Air Act brought about a radical change, which can even be seen in the rings of trees. Of course, the GOP and the "Supreme Court" want to repeal it.
Load More Replies...See, this one is loaded though. Back in the 'good ol' days' we didn't have (at least in the US) the Clean Water Act, the restrictions on what you could pump into the air, how much and what kind of pesticides you could throw on the fields. Remember Silent Spring? I grew up never seeing a bald eagle and now there is one living down the road from us.
On the flip side, it was i the early seventies that the Nixon administration (yes, that Nixon, that party) made first huge strides towards environmental protection, including creating the EPA, extending the clean air act, safe drinking water act and protecting endangered species. Now it's turned into a conservative vs liberal issue, which is really hindering progress.
Load More Replies...For thirty years I have pushed against plastic use. Plastic straws, cups, plates, wrapping, bags etc. I remembered a friend of mine years ago telling me off for being such a crank about it. Now I I still see plastic bags being used and so much plastic around. Supermarkets a major culprit.
No so much. Our local river (The Grand River) was severely polluted back in the 60s, 70s and 80s. It has been cleaned up and you can actually fish in it now. Hamilton has a lot less pollution as well. Our area is much cleaner now (Southern Ontario).
In someways yes. I grew up in Tokyo in the 1960s and 70s and the pollution was horrendous. It's a lot cleaner now, so some things are better now.
Depends on your criteria and how far back you go. Unless you go back pre industrial revolution, the environment used to get screwed much harder than it is now. The environment was arguably worse when there were no regulations, waste was just dumped wherever, Lake Erie was so contaminated it would catch on fire, car exhaust spewed out lead, acid rain was a major problem, the ozone layer was collapsing, etc...
Being a kid…I don’t think kids today get to have as much freedom and fun as previous generations did
Yea, this! I remember the days when we played outside all day long but when the street lights came on in the evening then you knew it was time to go home.
And we had the run of the entire neighborhood, as long as we behaved ourselves, because someone was always at home who could look out after us (not babysitting, just neighborhood watch-like). If we acted up and were rude to someone, our parents didn’t go full nuclear Karen at the neighbor we said had chased us off their yard. No, their first question was always either “what did you do?”, or “were you rude to them?”. If we crossed a street we weren’t supposed to cross, our parents knew about it before we got home, because everyone knew everyone in the neighborhood, so if we were seen—-and we always were—-someone called our parents right away. It was kind of like being a child in a secure cocoon of adults who kept an eye on you to make sure you were safe.
Load More Replies...Oh hell yes. I grew up in the country. My parents never knew where I was. I would be gone from afternoon until dinner time (during summer) and they never questioned where I was. I could have fallen in the creek, hit my head on a big rock and drowned, and they never would have been the wiser, until I didn't come home for dinner. You couldn't keep me inside during the summer.
I'm not sure that's as cool as you think it is...the part where you could have died and no one would know...
Load More Replies...Madness giving a toddler a smartphone or a tablet... my son only got one with 7 years and only got a cellphone with 15 y.o. - he doesn't have Instagram of Facebook by choice, proud of him
They have more stress too. Competition is so much worse for everything.
Today you also never see kids just let out to the playground to play like we were 30 years ago. A parent or grandparent is always watching. World has changed a lot, for their safety, but also, you can't be a kid as much when your parents are watching, right? :D
This. There's a lot more fear even though the actual level of bad things is a lot less.
Load More Replies...Agree. I said in another post I could play outside all day as a child. Go home when it was dark or I was hungry, whichever came first.
I think my kid is generally happier, safer, and has more personal freedom than I ever did. Sure, I was allowed to run amok basically all the time I wasn't in school, but I had to dodge creepers/pedos constantly. Damn near got kidnapped once. We lived in a "nice" suburb. I also spent my childhood in a constant state of hypervigilence and anxiety because I always had to hide everything about myself. Being different in any way in the 90s and before that was a social death sentence. Kids these days are more likely to have the freedom to express themselves and be who they are, bullying is way down, and while they have more supervision they are less likely to encounter stranger danger issues. A fair trade off imo.
I think this is more a case of perception of fun. What we found fun 30, 40, 50 years ago is not fun now. My parent's idea of fun when they were a kid just seems weird to me, just like how my nieces look at me like I'm mental when I suggest a we go break-in to abandoned houses and building sites.
Airports.
Holidays in general. Most beautiful places have become so overcrowded. I remember when there was actually space to move in Venice and the Eiffel tower wasn't terrrorism proofed.
The biggest problem for tourists are all the other tourists
Load More Replies...Airports greatly improved over time. What changed is now million of people travels, now just the few who could afford
I dunno about this one, it would have to depend on which airport you have in mind. Many have become destinations themselves with restaurants, museums, and entertainment for all travelers and locals. The only part I really miss is allowing family to go through security so we could spend a few more hours together before I had to leave.
Airports Before TSA... when you could see your loved one(s) off at the gate.
I always feel that the issues with flying and airports are...first world problems. Dont fly if you dont like it. Travel your own province/state/country. Support local.
I am building up to my annual August rant of ‘I hate tourists’. When I lived in the Southern hemisphere it was the same but in January. It never used to be this bad. The shuffling crowds, the rubbish left behind, my favourite cafes full. Ah well, September comes soon enough. Too jolly hot anyway at the moment, it’s like lockdown all over again.
Hmmm. Depends where you're at. The Asian airports are heaven in my opinion. Asia is heaven in general they're on top of everything 😂
There was also etiquette around flying. Proper dress, behavior, etc. (Pre-Covid) Not people in PJs and bare feet. Air drying there undies with the overhead fan.
I'm so sad it changed for the worse, my parents would always make sure to wear something nice for travel like cultured people would and now I see so many people wear dirty sweat pants, t-shirts with holes and pajamas...
Load More Replies...When I was a kid it was standard to offer fruit and juice in the waiting area before you were boarding, with bags to bring some with you. Included in the price. And you used to get a sandwich and coffee/soft drink on the plane, also included. Flying was more of a "luxury" big thing overall. It was an event (to me at least we didn't travel much). And today with climate change it feels weird that flying is so easy and affordable. More like a bus up in the sky. Don't get me wrong- I'm definitely not made of money and I like to travel when I can (not that often) but it feels... wrong somehow how we normalize it so much when we maybe should go back to the "special occasion"-thing.
Another problem is that our memory is quite selective and we tend to romanticize things while leaving out a lot of details. “We focus on the positive aspects while ignoring or downplaying the negative issues. I remember the good times I would get cards and comics with my dad but tend to forget that my parents were going through a rough divorce during that time. It’s easier to not think about it.”
Certain dog breeds. Imagine, pugs used to have a nose they could breath through and eyes that didn't get infected every time they almost bulged out of their heads...
Same with shitzu's. And imagine English bulldogs that didn't collapse in exhaustion by even hearing the word walkies
Breed associations, both dog and cat, need to start breeding liveable characteristics back into those poor animals. Give brachycephalic animals back their noses, and breed bug-eyes back to normal. Strengthen hips and legs and make them a normal size and shape, so the animals doesn’t suffer. Widen hips so animals can give birth naturally without dying. This can all be done in a way that retains quite a bit of the aesthetics of the animal’s appearance—-dropping the cruel and harmful ones and keeping the harmless ones. No need for an animal to have a flat face, eyes so bugged out that they can actually pop out of the way too shallow eye sockets, shortened and/or misshapen legs, hips too narrow to deliver their babies, and all the other extreme, harmful, and f*****g CRUEL traits that have been bred—-INBRED, by the way—-into pure breed animals. And they f*****g dare to call themselves “animal lovers”.
These breeds were originally bred for function, the bulldog had a powerful jaw and wide powerful shoulders, not a flat nose, walking on it's knuckles. The wiki article on the Old English Bulldog as some good paintings. But the modern one is all for show, and it is cruel. It needs to start with the dog shows, labs, boxers and beagles are all working dogs as well as pets, so there show winners have to be fit. Our black lab is healthy, he can run for miles when I go riding.
Load More Replies...Then there is the whole docking tails and ears crowd. I'll take my pups as waggly-tailed and floppy-eared as they are!
Things are better NOW in regards to that. back in the day, the dogs were docked and cats were declawed. that was the norm
Load More Replies...I saw an english bulldog yesterday at the park. The poor thing was breathing so loud and with so much difficulty it was difficult to observe. A human being with the same issue will probably live in an ICU unit. So sad, so sad
Our neighbor has a bulldog. they bought him as a designer dog... The poor thing is miserable. Can't breath, has cherry eye in both eyes, has to have a special diet because he has really sensitive stomach. He just spent a week sick because he developed an issue with his food. They have to wipe him off after bathroom since he can not poop normal. He is such a sweet puppy I hate to see him miserable.
Load More Replies...I have a pug/jack Russel mix. He has the look of a pug but he has a snout that he can breathe through and his eyes aren't bugged out either. He still looks like a pug and has the personality of one but luckily he doesn't have the breathing issues. But boy can he snore!
Type Hogarth's dog into google images, he's a pug from the 1730s and 40s. The breed still had a snout then. Ignore the dog's name it's just a coincidence.
Load More Replies...That's why I've always had dogs like huskies, the shortest possible hop from the wolf domesticated dogs originated from. They still have their issues created by breeding specific characteristics into them, but they are far less severe than what has been done to breeds like the bulldog. Best and healthiest dog I ever owned was actually a husky/wolf hybrid. He was a huge and intimidating MF, but the biggest snuggle-pup you ever met.
The weather.
I remember playing outside every morning during summer vacation.
This summer, even 5 minutes spent sitting in the early morning sunlight that came in through the window was enough to give me headaches.
I live in south India- and no matter what climate change deniers say, it’s been getting steadily hotter year after year in my part of the world.
It is much hotter now. Moreover, the sun does much more damage now than it used to and droughts are now an annual thing in New England. But the thing that let us know how much hotter it is overall is the fact that we now get *tornados* in Massachusetts in places like Concord and Revere. Until this century, the cooling effect of the ocean kept tornados at bay around here.
I.E. the current heatwave we have in New England. Also, I remember winters 20 yrs ago and we got a lot more snow than we do now. I had to shovel my driveway only like 4-5 times last 2-3 years. We used to get a nor'easter every 2 weeks now its maybe one a winter. Just north of you FYI! haha
Load More Replies...It is way hotter now. We're in the tropics and could play outside all day in the 90s. If we go outside for even an hour now it's severe sunburn.
Climate deniers can say anything they want. They can say a square has five sides. They’re just plain wrong and I have I have no patience with them.
I live in Idaho, when I was a kid in the '90s a 100 degree day was wild. Now that is every day in July and August.
I live in NE PA. In the early 2000s I wouldn't be able to finish raking all the leaves until mid November. Now I finish in early October.
I noticed around 2000 that the evergreen trees near highways were turning brownish. I thought it was exhaust fumes. Nope. The heat. Now those trees are bare trunks.
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Weird to say, but inconvenience and boredom. I kinda miss being like, “whelp, there’s nothing on TV, I’m gonna go walk the neighborhood and knock on my friends doors”.
I primarily text and talk to friends on the phone now, it seems like an event to actually meet up. Even friends who are less than a mile away.
Wandering down to the brook to try to catch tadpoles. Being out playing all day until hungry or dark. No cell phones just children playing together in their make believe worlds. I don’t expect this can happen now.
Load More Replies...When I was a kid I would just go outside and walk around to see who else was outside. Then we'd play together, even if we didn't know each other from school or clubs.
How many of these are really just people pining for how things were when they were children? Not necessarily because things were better, but because the world seemed like a simpler place through the eyes of a naive child with no major responsibilities?
It's not even safe anymore to just go on walks or go play at the park.
It wasn't all that safe when I was a kid in the 70's and 80's, but we did it anyway. We are sheltering kids too much these days. They will grow up into a world where they wont know how to deal with stress or emergencies and will be shocked to find no one cares how they feel about it.
Load More Replies...When it rained in my neighborhood like a good heavy one these big ol puddles more like mini ponds would develop and it would be pretty deep as well. During summer we could almost go swimming in them ride our bikes through them splash each other just like at a pool besides the water being pretty gross but we could of cared less back then! The mini pond was pretty much in a yard and half way in the road but nobody ever got hurt no parents were ever called police didn't show up and tell us to stop. We just knew a good heavy rain when it stopped where to be at! Oh and no swim suits just your regular summer play attire. After we got cool off we go ride our bikes til we got hot again then back to the mini pond!
I just realized I don't just randomly call people either. I usually text first to make sure it's a good time to talk.
Thank you for doing this. I'm someone who panics and hangs up the phone when called unexpectedly.
Load More Replies...It's actually sad what technology has done to us. I remember racing to the house phone on the wall when it rang, trying to be the first to grab it...we broke the phone once doing this lol. I also fondly remember walking or biking to a friends and just popping in....now I'm scared to death when the grandboys just go down the street to the park or their friends....too many crazies out there.
Texting just doesn't provide the same sense of serendipity as running into someone in person and enjoying the experience IRT
I have the scars to prove we were out and about more, and we didn't die!
When it comes to demonizing the present, Wong believes that most people struggle with this. “We are never truly living in the present. We are either ruminating on the past or worrying about the future. As a result, we are never living in the moment. How can we be grateful for what we have when we are constantly complaining about things?” he wonders.
Wong is conscious of that and that’s why he starts off each day by asking himself for 3 things that he is grateful for. “This helps to remind myself that I am lucky for what I have and to be grateful. Because there are lots of people in the world, such as those in war zones or third-world countries, who are in much worse situations,” he told Bored Panda.
People's attention spans.
Ha, proves their point, its exactly- WAIT TURTLES?
Load More Replies...I've started reading on paper again (books, magazines, papers) just to try and get my attention span back. I'd forgotten how much fun it is to lose yourself in a good book without distractions!
Did you know that the average attention span is only 8.25 seconds? It’s 4.25 seconds less than in the year 2000. (This information is from crossrivertherapy.com) This part is a joke: Wait…..why am I writing this? Let’s go scroll through instagram now!
Do you remember when that statistic came out it was immediately followed by viral news that, somewhere along the way someone determine that a goldfish has an attention span of 9 seconds, which means the average human NOW has a SHORTER attention span than a goldfish? I remember when that statistic came out? I do.
Load More Replies...Not to mention people didn’t expect you to be on call all the time to take any requests immediately.
MTV.
I was watching when they launched it!! I'll never forget that moment. Boy did The Buggles nail it with "Video Killed The Radio Star"
And Much Music for Canadians. Then Much More Music came about but that channel only played the Billboard charts, whereas Much Music actually played a well-rounded variety of mainstream, indie and French, metal, rap, and there was that Speaker's Corner booth that travelled around the country for people to go in and video themselves just saying and doing whatever they wanted.
I remember when they moved in across from our office in NYC. Such a new concept in TV!
Flying in general.
More seat space, meals included (and a choice of meals), actual metal utensils, luggage included, no need to get to the airport 2 hours before your flight...
The days before people had actually made their shoes and coke into bombs...
Load More Replies...Except for smoking being allowed on flights. The term "non-smoking section" was a total misnomer, as smoke knew no bounds and drifted throughout the whole cabin.
Came here to say this. I can't believe I'm actually old enough to have experienced this, cause it seems so insane.
Load More Replies...But what when ever someone brings this up they seem to forget that tickets were much more expensive
It was a lot more expensive though. And you'd get off the plane smelling like cigarettes, regardless of where you were sitting
You could just pack a bag and show up at the airport. It was almost like going to the store. Walk in, buy a ticket, get on the plane. No ID, no lines, no security and all the amenities mentioned above. Sales were incredible. You and three or four friends on the spur of the moment could leave snowy cold weather and spend the weekend exploring a national park in the desert for about 100 bucks each.
I remember flying home from boarding school on a plane called, I think, a Comet or Caravelle . It had seating that faced each other.
Economy then is First Class nowadays and people were smoking.
and there was a smoking section...like we all didn't breathe the same air
When asked what things, according to Wong, were better in the past, the first thing that came to his mind was food. “Before industrialization, when everything was mass-produced, the quality of food seemed to be better. It was less processed and not pumped full of antibiotics or sprayed with pesticides.” These days, when Wong goes grocery shopping, he said he is very careful with what he buys. “When I check the list of ingredients, most of them I have no idea what they are.”
Another huge thing we don’t see much these days is privacy. Wong argues that although technology has made life much easier, it has come at a cost: our privacy. “Large corporations, such as FB, are constantly trying to find ways to gather more data on us so they can use it to make more money. It’s gotten to the point where we have to be careful with what we put online since we have no idea who will see it and how it will be used,” he explained.
Christmas…. I don’t know how to explain it. We didn’t have much money so it wasn’t because of the presents. We actually used to wrap our own toys and give them to each other for Christmas. But there was always just this feeling that I can’t explain. Sometimes when I watch the 90’s Christmas movies I can feel it again for a moment, but then it’s gone. It’s just the happiest, most peaceful feeling. It just felt like magic.
Maybe it changed because you grew up. Just like kids enjoy their birthdays more than most adults
Or maybe you lost sight of what made it wonderful for you. I've aged, my kids are grown up, and decorating, movies and Christmas music still make me happy.
Load More Replies...Christmas was the best when I was a kid, we were also not wealthy. Everything seemed so much more festive and magical. I guess that wears off as you get older and the veil drops and you see the world for what it really is.
To me, the best thing about Christmas is losing myself in the season. Making it about obligations sucked all the fun out of it for years, so I retaught myself the wonder.
How many of these are really just people pining for how things were when they were children? Not necessarily because things were better, but because the world seemed like a simpler place through the eyes of a naive child with no major responsibilities?
One thing to keep in mind though, if you're thinking how things were so much better decades ago and you were a kid in those days then of course everything looked a lot better because you didn't have the worries of an adult on your shoulder.
This really shows my age but ...remember waiting on the Sear's, Montgomery Ward's Christmas catalogs? We spent hours and hours looking through them ....and do you remember taking old reader's digests and making Christmas trees out of them?
ok- so I'm old too, but the catalogs were our life lines! We marked the pages, circled the items, and were completely surprised by what Santa brought us, which was limited, as we were run of the mill middle class. Something good died when the Sears, Penney's and Monkey Wards catalogs stopped coming. No hundreds of junky toys, just a few things we wanted and things we needed...socks, jeans, a new coat...Remember when there was no Amazon??
Load More Replies...I have tried to explain that feeling to others and can't. It's like a longing for a simpler time
I don't know if it's because Christmas has changed or because we grew up. I hope it's the latter.
I think it is a combination of both. Christmas changed - now it seems to be a lot more “commercial” than back in the days. And the fact that you are a grownup and see everything through adult lens doesn’t help either. And, on top of that, they start shoving it down your throat in October, so by the time it’s Christmas you are already sick of all the Christmasy things.
Load More Replies...It was families taking the time to do things with each other. Go sledding, making Christmas dinner together, ice skating, making the Christmas tree decorations, mom's baking of gingerbread and sugar cookies, the Christmas stories being read, singing carols together, the snow falling, building snowmen, hanging out with friends, warm glows of lights on the houses and trees (the leds are so cold and stark), people seemed happier, less consumerism and commercialization.
Being a kid without technology.
You built stuff! You turned sticks into swashbuckling foils! You drew and painted! You made up songs and stories and poems! You explored nature with your friends! You read actual books! You used your imagination! (Hmm. I should start doing all that again now!)
Most of the stuff I do online is writing books lmao
Load More Replies...We built forts, played hide and seek, made our own episodes of Rifleman and Gunsmoke, and when we had to be inside we played Monopoly, Mouse Trap, The Game of Life, Twister!! No batteries required!
Mouse Trap. I loved that game! Heck, I loved all those games!
Load More Replies...We got a new fridge. I looked at the huge box and thought how much fun I would have had as a kid with that box! It could be a house, a car, a rocket, a ship! Offered said huge box to 4 year old boy. "Why would I want your garbage?" Was his literal reply. You could have knocked me over with a feather; he had NO IMAGINATION. At only 4.....I wanted to cry for his generation.
I could spend weeks playing the same story with my legos or my playmobile. And I collected stamps (still do). And I liked to write short stories by hand. And just laying on my bed listening to a cd. I miss that a lot. I hope that my kids will stay low-tech as well. I love it when they play "angry man" or "teddy (bear) doctor". 😁 my oldest is soon old enough to be introduced to "normal" lego and playmobil.
Agreed. We have a huge portion of a generation growing up with no imagination or ability to work in teams or even come up with stuff on their own. Obviously there are plenty of kids growing up without these problems, but most of them won't be from the US.
Fast Food. No, it has not always sucked a*s.
McDonald's shakes in particular have dropped in quality. The last time I got a chocolate shake there, ISTG I thought they'd made a mistake and given me vanilla. The only indication that it was "chocolate" was the hint of brown color. Also, fast food used to be affordable. Now they're on par with a sit-down restaurant.
Anyone ever notice that you can leave a McDonald's French fry in your car, 5 years later..its still a McDonald's French fry...
The original McDonald's beef tallow fries were delicious. But the trifecta as teens was to get a Burger King burger, McDonald's fries and a Wendy's Frosty. (they were all right next to each other)
Yeah, I used to work fast food and I swear it was better back then. And more affordable. A McDs burger meal costs about the same as a fancy restaurant burger meal now. You don't go to McDonald's to save money on eating out anymore, you go because it's fast and convenient and you already know what you wanna order so no menu anxiety.
My first job was at Taco Bell in 1987. Working for them was awful, but the food was actually quality back then. The refried beans were made fresh every day, as in “wash the dirt from the farm off the pinto beans” fresh. The lettuce and tomatoes were sliced and the cheese shredded there, and the taco shells were fried at the restaurant. It was too salty and fatty, but otherwise fine food. Their beans look like runny poop now, and they smell weird. It’s disgusting.
I used to work at a taco bell, about a year ago and every thing comes pre sliced in a bag, all we have to do is reheat the meat and beans
Load More Replies...McDonald's was GOOD. Now it is such hot garbage if I took a bite I wouldn't be able to swallow. The Coke stayed delicious but everything else? Hot. Garbage.
It all went downhill when they quit using lard to fry in and started worrying about calories. McDonald's started importing meat from Argentina and using pink slime as filler. Most burgers are so tasteless that the dogs won't even eat them if they are cold. They quit using real cheese and are now using cheese-lile slices.
around the early 2000's things started to get "scienced", to reduce costs and apparently flavor and quality
Social media has also changed beyond recognition. “Related to technology, social media has only been around for the past 15-20 years or so. Before the internet, the only way to keep in touch with others was by phone and snail mail. And if you wanted to know what was happening, you would have to turn on the news,” Wong said.
However, studies have shown that social media affects our mental health and increases our anxiety, depression, and isolation, the marketing expert claims. “We are always comparing ourselves to others, seeing how amazing their lives are, even though the life they are presenting to us may not be reality.”
“That’s why I avoid social media whenever possible and disable all of my news feeds. The only time I do use social media is for my business, and I make sure to limit the amount of time I have,” Wong said.
Cost of living
They need to start calling it the "don't bother, you can't afford it of living".
This is sad we're even making up names for it now. That's when you know...
Load More Replies...Every generation beoans the cost of living. My parents used to say they could go to a movie, buy a box of Crackerjack) and still have money left for vandy for a nickel in the 1930's.
I’m not sure that it used to be better. I remember my Dad having to get a second job to keep the family afloat in the 70’s
Remember when it was more important to get Trump out of office than to worry about what we were replacing him with? Oh those were the days!
There are 299 Republican election deniers on the ballot.
Load More Replies...In another 10 years tent cities will be a thing.... I wonder when people will start moving out of big cities in droves because of how expensive it is! I worry for my children. They may never be able to leave home!
I was going to write a science fiction story about this in the 90s.
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Privacy
Me too. My FBI agents must be bored out of their minds watching through my webcam!
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Load More Replies...This is so true - very worrying how much of our personal information is accessible to those that want it. Being incognito is hard to do.
Do not forget that there were phone books where everyone could find your address, nowadays this is not so easy.
Load More Replies...You only lose your privacy if you insist on posting every damn thing about your life on social media.
Manners and respect.
Even if it's only superficial, good manners make life much more pleasant. Celebrating a@#-holiness, for example "that's part of the charm of New Yorkers", I just don't understand.
I wholeheartedly agree. Lots of selfish people in the population these days.
Load More Replies...I started saying "please" and "thank you" to service workers as a teen just because no one else was doing it and I felt rebellious. I still do, but now it just feels like the right thing to do.
I used to say “Yes, Sir & Yes, Ma’am.” I don’t say it anymore because now I might get sued for offending them. Apparently, I’m the rude one for assuming their gender!! 💆♀️
Even then every generation pushed the borders a tat further and, here we are: Common Sense, Courtesy, Compassion and Kindness are sometimes, hard to find.
I was raised with manners, taught good manners and respect. I have always treated others how I want to be treated (or tried my very best) and respected my elders.
I had kids later.. I was 40 with my 2nd. I was raised by boomers...I'm gen x.. manners were a HUGE thing with my parents and I instill that in my kids. They act like little shits at home but if they go anywhere else they are little angels, lol. They were raised to say please and thank you... if they played at a friend's house they were to help clean up any messes they helped make while there, and if they have a meal there, to offer to help clear etc. Some of their friends have come over and totally upended my house and left it like that.
“Related to social media is the news. I remember watching the news once a day in the evening at 6 pm to catch up on the daily events. Or reading a newspaper to see what is happening. Now it seems like there is breaking news every moment and you can’t keep up. MSM news channels, such as CNN, are especially guilty of this with a news ticker at the bottom,” Wong told Bored Panda.
“What’s worse, they tend to only report on negative events, such as murders, killings, scandals, etc. which makes the world feel like a terrible place,” he added.
Freetime... life was more slowly and you had more time for yourself and your hobbies.
I think I miss this the most and it makes me hate life. Work, work, work so you can survive then get home too tired to do anything you want to do that gives you happiness. It's pointless.
That's because of the "don't bother, you can't afford it of living"
Load More Replies...I always have free time, probably because I dont have children or friends .. or family
I know what you mean. I had a neighbor look at me like l was a complete alien because l told her l was unemployed. It has been 4 months since l quit that toxic place. Currently looking for better environment to work in. But yeah!! If you're female AND married & don't have a job...that is totally, unacceptable.
Load More Replies...I have needle point I haven’t picked up in 3+ years because I haven’t the time.
It's your life, make it what you want. Stop living up to other people's expectations.
When was that? If you have to work for a living starting from your teens or twenties, you can count yourself fortunate if you can afford to retire when you are still healthy enough to enjoy it -- if you can afford to retire.
Pandemic, then lockdown and recovery, there's never been such an opportunity to make money.
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Video games.
I literally still have my original N64 and controller. It still goes strong. You just turn the game on and play it. No 60 GB downloads. No loading screens. No ads. No updates. No pay to play.
I have to disagree. Yes pay to play is a horrid blight. But overall video games have become so much more than squishing goombas. Its incredible how immersive and social some games have become. Not to mention the graphics.
I find them harder to play. I couldn't last very long playing CoD on the story mode. I wouldn't dare play online with other players. They'd smoke me every second while I try to steady the aim.
Load More Replies...I disagree. Back in the day I had a Commodore 64 and it took about 15 minutes to load one game. You had to load a turbo software first from a cassette, then look for the cassette with the game on it, roll the tape where it was (god help if the game was on the B side), then load it. A 2 hours game session we easily were just watching a loading screen for half an hour if we wanted to play more than one game in that period.
I had the C64 with the disk drive and some games took a very long time to load anyway.
Load More Replies...I just hate how EA and Capcom made the microtransactions the new standard on the industry, i miss when you unlock stuff just playing and agreed that videogames now have better graphics but arent as fun like the old ones, the proof is all the remasters and remakes of old games
We have an atari, NES, Sega, Playstation 1-4, and Xbox S and X. We also have 2 of the "NES" with built in games. That's my favorite. I don't miss having to blow on the game and try to get it in the NES just right to make it work but I LOVE the simplicity of the controllers and games. My hubby and son love their Xbox but I'm old school.
Hmmm. It depends i think. Games from before were really really fun (my dad has kept all of his, he's a video game fanatic) but the technology now also makes it really fun
I was a tween when Atari came out and I enjoyed it so much. I had every game. I hadn't played another game console until the Wii came out and I loved it just as much. I haven't played Wii in years and I want to buy another one with the balance board. It was such a fun workout with Wifi sports.
I didn't experience it personally, just second hand, but I believe working.. you had set hours and then no one could reach you after. It irritates me sometimes how normal it is to still reply to messages or send emails during off time and weekends or vacations.
I wonder what would happen sometimes if I just fully ignored my phone and shut it off the moment I'm off but it would really just be more stressful, and besides you can save yourself some later effort by tackling things right away. But in the past, everyone was off at the same times, everyone was out of reach, so it's not like you'd come back tomorrow to 50 emails and messages either. It was just over when it's over.
My parents and their friends seemed to have so much uninterrupted time.
I agree so much with this one. And Covid has made things worse on this behalf. I think WFH rules will be the new problems unions will have to deal with - at least in those socialist countries where unions exist /s
It isn't a problem in socialist countries, because socialists always ban unions. In a workers paradise you don't need them. So if you think unions are ruining your country, then the fault is capitalism and freedom of assembly and association. Vote for socialism, they'll deal with the bastards. /s but also true.
Load More Replies...I immediately log off ALL work devices as soon as I am done working from home. I made that a rule a LONG time ago when I had Outlook on my phone and was sending and receiving emails all through the night. No company has ever had an issue with me refusing to put my work email on my phone.
I had to remove my work email from my phone as I found myself checking it all the time. Its so freeing not to think about work in my personal time. I had to force myself to even stop stressing over work things during my off time. I've mostly mastered this and am able to shut out work almost entirely when I'm not working.
Load More Replies...I work remote, and i don't answer emails on off hours. But I'm senior enough where i can get away with it. Young people are always on. I have to constantly remind them to just go outside and play. My junior engineers say things like, I'll take a look at it tomorrow. Tomorrow is Saturday! It can wait! We work for billionaires. I promise they'll survive without whatever we're building for them for two more days.
I work in the graphics department of a consulting agency where I have set hours. When I'm on lunch break, I'm on lunch break. In the evening or on the weekends I'm also not available. During work time all of my communication happens via Zoom or email. This works pretty well. I don't need a stupid business mobile phone like the consultants do - and YET the company plans to equip the graphics department with those phones. For what? I'm a little afraid of what might come with them... ಠ_ಠ
I make salary and overtime. Overtime is optional—they’re not even allowed to ask. I’m happy and not likely to go anywhere soon. Don’t just let employers interview you. Interview them too. There are still employers that don’t order death marches in their crusade to divert an asteroid on a collision course with the earth. 🤷
The marketing expert argues that even though humans will always have their groups and differences, he feels like society has never been more divided. “Both social media and the 24/7 news cycle have only made this worse where we are presented with preselected snippets of news that conform to a specific worldview.”
According to Wong, many issues are complex and require a nuanced approach. “Whether someone is left or right, conservative or progressive, or somewhere in the middle, we should be able to sit down and have a calm rational discussion. However, I don’t think that is possible in today’s climate.”
Fruit and corn. They have been bred to be sweeter and harder for transport, and have lost much of the subtle fruit/corn flavor they used to have.
Also imported vegetables. that we already have growing all over the country. Costco sells carrots that come from Guatemala...they've awful and tasteless! Why Guatamala?! Why not fresh from Ontario or BC...my friend didnt even realize these were from Guatemala...they looked 'off' so I grabbed the package to see what the hell was.up with thse carrots. I had one bite..blech. Why Costco, why?!..so many local farmers..
Start shopping the local farmers market. Have you written Costco to ask them? It might be interesting to know.
Load More Replies...We buy local varieties for the taste and to support local businesses. I'd grow my own food, but bunnies and groundhogs have invaded my garden this year. Poor little veggies never had a chance.
I live near a Mennonite community. They will harvest the corn the night before you buy the bag. Communities get together and will send a truck hours away to get a trailer full.
Load More Replies...Well, since the statue of limitation has long expired: Yes! I did steal corn for my family in those days. (those days being the 60's)
I didn't know, until I was 13, that corn could be sweet. I was mad and asked my Grandmother why she put sugar in the corn. My Grandfather grew pencil Cobb corn and my Grandmother froze it so we had it all year long. Creamed and on the cob. That was the first year my Grandfather couldn't grow a garden that I experienced.
I stopped buying tomatoes. They are so bland and most of the slice is taken up by the hard white core in the middle. My parents grew beef steak tomatoes and they were amazing.
Tomatoes are one of the easiest things to grow. If you don't have a garden you can still grow a couple plants in pots on your porch or balcony.
Load More Replies...When I can I shop at the local market or Booths (a supermarket chain based in the North West of England, whilst it's more expensive all the meat, veg and milk are locally sourced).
When you could write letters and not have to reply for days at a time to now we feel obliged to keep in 24/7 contact with people.
I don't feel obliged to do that, they should realize who they're talking to and adjust their expectations. :P
People who cannot respect another person's timeline and boundaries. Ugh.
Load More Replies...Also the excitement when you got a letter - written by someone to you. And when you got a long-distance conversation going with that person.
I still write letters and send out Christmas cards and birthday cards every single year. I may only get one or two cards back (if I'm lucky)...otherwise I get the shoddy tacky emails with Christmas wishes and elf's dancing around..Dont expect a response if you send me an e-greeting that you sent to everyone else you know... that goes for my birthday...make an effort, pick up the phone or send a card. I'm not on social media so dont get the hundreds of birthday greetings from folks I barely know or dont talk to.
I still write letters but no longer with a wax seal on the back. Oh those were the days!
I hated it. I was always forgetting to send it. I love emails, as I can send it right away.
I was never good at writing letters. People would maybe hear from me once in a year, or maybe two years. I much prefer instant communication, but only if I have something to say. If I don't, then I won't!
Housing prices
It should not cost 1000 dollars a month to live in a shoebox of an apartment, especially if you're never living there because you're out making the money to afford it.
Where can you rent for $1000??? The US average is now $2000 a month.
Load More Replies...These days it's so ridiculous to see a billboard all enthusiastic declare: "From the low 300 Thousand"
Apartments also used to have everything you needed in the apartment. Now the washer/dryer is gone, all you get now is a stand-up shower (no tub), the kitchen is now a shared kitchen with all the other units on the floor and it's considered an "amenity" that you have to pay an extra fee each month to use.
I live in Los Angeles... I bought my house 20 years ago for a very reasonable $310K. It's now valued at $1.3M it's a tiny 1500 square foot bungalow. Who the hell would pay that???? I even did an inflation calculator and it's still only $510K. The housing market is ridiculous.
.... you're so right!! I live 50 miles from you & we bought a 3 bedroom fixer-upper for $75.000. That was over 20 yrs. ago & now it's almost 1/2 a million.
Load More Replies...I remember being 18 and seeing him write out his mortgage check for $128. I was paying $100/month room and board. I could have afforded a house back then, at those costs. I was making $4/hour. I make 6x that now and barely afford rent
Well if it was that simple. In my state people are leaving in DROVES. I wish l could just pack up & leave!! I abhor this State & the cronies that are running/ruining it.
Load More Replies...There are few people who haven’t felt the burden of living costs in the past years. Wong explained that even before the high inflation that is happening, living costs have soared over the years.
“This is especially true for houses. These days, it’s not uncommon to still be living with your parents in your 30s as you try to save up for a house. Unless you earn a high wage, have your parents help you, and borrow a ton of money from the bank, owning a home is becoming increasingly difficult. If you have to pay off your mortgage for 30 years just to 'own' your home, I don’t really consider that to be living,” he said.
my mental health
I think it is interesting that creaky, painful joints is number one and mental health is down here at 34.
I've been anxious since 6 and depressed since 9. I've never had good mental health lol
My patience with people nowadays but, under all circumstances, remain calm.
A job had a clear purpose.
So much useless "Pseudo-work" done today compared to back in the day
Yes, like made up job titles that doesn’t describe anything that you do. Let’s see I can create a job title….how about junior observation analyst! Lol
"Future technology prediction expert". Not making new technology, just trying to imagine what will be used in ten years and how the company should use it.
Load More Replies...Yea, a lot of time making sure everyone feels good about themselves. Used to be "you're doing good, keep it up, thank you, or you're not doing good, change it up, thank you...." Now it's files of memos and training on how to talk to people, evaluations and questionnaires...ugh.
I have 10 meetings a week and i am just a freelancer. They all lead to nothing, because most people think their pov is important. 10 years back i had approx 10 meetings a year and they really were productive.
My work with hire you for a certain position and then when you start, inundate with with all these extra projects that you dont have time for making the job so horrible and stressful that you quit. We have a high staff turnover.
What would you consider "real" work? If someone is paying you, it's real work.
So much more work devolved onto you these days so that management can reduce the workforce and save money, to maximise profits.
meetings to decide to have a meeting that will plan future meetings and meet to discuss the meetings you just had
Internet. It was new, more friendly and funny
There were so many fun sites. And web rings! Those would take you from site to site on a particular subject so you could find others that shared your hobbies and likes.
I forgot about web rings until this post. I used to lose hours on those. . .now I lose hours messing around on my phone
Load More Replies...Although all the stuff that's now 'the dark web' was right up in your grille back then - I helped my kid with a school project and typing 'Big Ben' into a search engine got some pretty inappropriate images!
Ah yes. It was pricey though. We paid by the minute. And we lost connection when somebody accidentally picked up the phone. All we really did was chat with people. I loved meeting people from across the globe
This. I remember what a fun was to talk to people from Australia or USA on ICQ.
Load More Replies...Having been in Information Technology for over 45 years now, starting with Mainframes, there was this new thing on the market: A computer with an Intel 8088 and, before that, you had the Commodore "computers", the Sinclairs, Apple, etc. Then came that new invention: Internet.
When "Anonymous" meant more than a bunch of sheep in Guy Fawkes masks.
You used to be just able to link straight in. Now you have to register and brace yourself to be analysed and spammed.
''Click here and win a cupholder'' Do so, then CDRom reader tray's opens🙂
The last thing Wong said has become a challenge these days has to do with tuition. “College tuition rates have also soared over the years. Decades ago, going to college was a lot more affordable. Even if you include inflation, it shouldn’t cost tens of thousands of dollars to go to college to get a piece of paper that may or may not help you find a well-paying job. What’s worse, you are stuck with a ton of student loans that you have to pay back now,” he concluded.
Insects, more than 40% of total have disappeared over the past decades.
Yes! People don't realize how terrible this is. Insects are at the bottom of the food chain. No bugs, means no birds, flowers, wildlife, etc! Stop replacing native plants with lawns and invasives
Please tell that to all my neighbors & the rich....they don't care that we are in a serious drought. In fact, there was a town meeting about conserving water & if people don't comply they would start fining you. One selfish entitled lady said, " go ahead, l can afford it"!!
Load More Replies...Gosh, this. When I first commented to people that there just weren't the numbers of wasps that there used to be, of course the reaction was 'isn't that a good thing?' but also that people hadn't really noticed. In case you weren't aware, not this isn't a good thing. Wasps spend all year predating pests. They feed their young and the young respond with a sweet substance as a thank you. Once the young have reached adulthood, around August, the adults miss that sweet substance and that is when we see them (or used to) after our jam and our ice lollies. The lack of wasps, to me, is really, really worrying. It's so indicative of what is going horribly wrong.
I think you mean bees. While some wasps do produce something like honey it is rare and most wasps produce only painful stings.
Load More Replies...Insects total population has not fallen just certain species have died off. We gunna be left with ants, spiders and earwigs all the butterfly and bees will be dead.
I live in Michigan and Monarch butterfly population here is down by 80% or more. If you are a fellow Michigander please plant milkweed next spring.
Yes! I hate bugs, every bug - I know they're necessary to the ecosystem, but I don't want them ANYWHERE within a mile of me!
Shopping Malls
Before Simon bought all the malls and made them cookie-cutter nonsense, all the malls in eastern MA (USA) had their own style and personalities. It made going to the mall much more fun.
Yes, the first climate-controlled shopping mall, Southdale outside Minneapolis, had a distinctive style: pebble floors, a fishpond, a cage full of canaries, a sidewalk cafe, all kinds of unique stores and restaurants, and even a supermarket. If Simon hadn't bought it and turned it into a generic mall, its pure 1950s style would be an attraction in itself. Unfortunately, they had to remove the fish and the canaries sometime in the 1980s (when a lot of things deteriorated) because people started doing mean things to them, but for the first 25 years ago, there were no problems.
Load More Replies...In my area, there was really only two shopping malls of note and only one within a reasonable distance of my hometown. It was built in the 70s but was still going strong by the time I was born (Century Plaza in Alabama) and I went every weekend with my grandmother and sometimes my mom and aunts, I basically grew up there. It closed in 2009 and sat empty for 11 years. They demolished it in 2020, now it's the site of an Amazon logistics building.
We hung out at the mall for hours for no reason in middle and high school in the late 90s, early 2000s. Just call when you're ready to get picked up. Now I wouldn't drop my kids there without me at all! I'd have a panic attack thinking about child traffickers and active shooters and s**t.
The ones in my city have gone downhill. Portage Place Mall has gone very ghetto, most of the benches have been taken away, the fountain barely works, much of the good stores are gone, a lot of gangs hang out there. Polo Park mostly has all high-end stores, the Pretzel Wagon, HMV, Coles books, and I think the Disney Store and Laura Secord chocolate shop are all gone. The mall near me is alright. St. Vital Centre is okay, but I can't go down the corridor with Sephora cos it stunk up the whole way with perfume. Food court is still good. Chapters is still there but they got rid of most of their paranormal books. Same with Coles. Not sure why.
They were tbh. When I visit home in America I go to a mall and I love it. Only nostalgia. It makes me happy
Stranger Things has given me a great nostalgia for the 80s shopping mall.
Gas prices.
Well, as a kid I do remember pulling up at a gas station hearing the bell, a guy came out, pumped the see-through pump, started filling up the tank, checked the tire pressure, washed the front windshield but, strangely enough, I can't remember how much the gas was in those days, my wife remembers $ 0.25 a gallon but this was in the 50's she said.
I know everyone loves to gush over cheap gas in the 50s and 60s because it was just a quarter or 30 cents. BUT: $0.25 in 1950 equates to $3.07 today. So, gas was cheaper, but not by some huge amount. The cheapest gas prices were in the 90s. I remember gas being $0.87 per gallon when I was starting to drive and not much more for the next few years. That equates to $1.84 today. I used this thing: https://www.usinflationcalculator.com/
Load More Replies...I was working in a gas station when gas went over one dollar (US) for the first time. What an uproar it caused. Plus, a lot of the pumps only went up to .999.
When I started driving, gas was 37¢ CDN per Imperial gallon and ciggies were 37¢ for a 25 pack. :)
I don't drive, but I remember it being as low as 49.9p/litre (£2.25/gallon) it's now about £1.90/litre ($8.50/gallon). This might be based on UK gallons which are larger than US but the ratio stands.
Hello- during the 1970's we had a gas crisis and the prices were sky high and they rationed the days ypu could fill up your tank.
In 1998 gas prices were 99cents a gallon. It cost me $10 to fill up my Honda Civic.
The future
Growing up in the 80’s after watching Red Dawn, I thought we’d all be living in a nuclear wasteland or the Russians would invade us.
When i was growing up, i was sure by the year 2000, I'd be living in orbit, in my space apartment. If take my flying car to visit the earth dwellers.
Not really. When I was young we were sure in the future we would be unemployed and/or wiped away by a nuclear war. So not much has changed.
When were you wiped away in a nuclear war? I've been around over 70 years, but I could have missed it.
Load More Replies...I stopped watching and reading anything distopian long time ago because I think that the future will be better than the present. Air will be cleaner (alternative sources and electric cars), lives will be longer and happier (new treatment options and less work). If aliens ever land on Earth it mean that they are so technologically ahead of us that the only reason for the landing is to help us by sharing their knowledge.
Or to eat us, like livestock. If they do ever come, let's hope they're not like us.
Load More Replies...Good News, apparently the flying car IS in fact happening. Prolly cost your entire 401k to purchase. But happening
JetsonOne some assembly required collapses almost into a very large piece of luggage $95,000
Load More Replies...All the science fiction I read growing up had me believing we would have colonized several planets or moons by now
Smart phones too, Reddit is the only social media I use and still I stare at this f**king thing 5 hours a day. I know I’m addicted to it and I’d love to punt it but unfortunately it’s also my phone, my map, my camera, my tape measure, my dictaphone, my Walkman etc. etc.
Shame really. I like real maps, I like my books and I look forward to a film or to series, watched on tv. I understand how addictive the smart phones can be but I think some people are moving towards just phones again like the Nokia.
I still keep a map in my car, i know my luck, if I'm lost, it will be in a dead zone with no service!
i have sooo mamy maps....i take them whenever possible and use them all the time.....gps is fine but for a wknd drive, paper is more fun!
Load More Replies...Music!
I think this is a variation of "when I was younger everything was better" nonsence. Some people I know are stuck in their favorite decade like the "90s" but it doesn't mean the music has stopped.
I think a lot of the new music is great, very creative and some of the topics of the music are touching on things artists would have been afraid of in the 80's and 90's. But I personally don't like the music that explicitly talks about sexual acts, I much prefer innuendo. I know a lot of people will disagree with me about that, but I just don't think kids and young teens should be exposed to pornographic music. I am a parent and it is very, very difficult to control everything your child sees or hears especially if they interact with other kids.
Load More Replies...I was just talking to a friend about this. I mentioned I bought three new CDs and it was the first time in a year and how I only buy stuff from people I particularly like so I own it and don't have to worry about it not being online for whatever licensing/rights issue comes up. And we talked about how even just 10 years ago, we liked so much more and would get stuff once or twice a month. Now nobody is worth the time except for maybe streaming a song or two.
The 80s were great for music, but there's lots of good music now. This just makes you sound old.
Holy s**t YESSSSSSS 97% of songs I like were written before I was born. Most music today makes me want to SCREAM
In those days singers didn't need machines or any aid other than a microphone and an amplifier.
Air quality.
Ironically, it is better than when I was a kid in the '60s. The air in Signal Mountain, TN was so acidic and toxic that it ATE HOLES in our car's paint and windows. We thought it had rained, but those "drops" were permanent holes. That said, air quality is definitely on the decline. I think the '80s-'90s were the high point for air quality, at least in the US.
You actually think the air was better 60 years ago?! I've got a bridge to sell you.
Cartoons, when I was younger there were a lot of good cartoons while rn everytime I come across one on the TV, the art style is bad and it seems really boring
I can't stand the art style of things like Adventure Time and stuff, even Disney's terrible with those terrible newer Mickey Mouse shorts. Then you get c**p CGI like the Rugrats reboot. There's still some with art style that's not bad but it's few and far between.
The big difference here is also that you're not a kid anymore, not necessary that the cartoons were better. This sounds too much like "in my time" granpa Simpson rumbling.
I dunno man....some of the cartoons they pump out today are just awful. There are a few good ones, but political correctness has hobbled what can and can't be done.
Load More Replies...How I later learned that all my favorite cartoon characters were done by one person: Mel Blanc!
I miss Hannah Barbera cartoons. But there were some terrible ones as a kid to. I always thought looney toons was too violent
Because people accept shitty stuff. All day, fast food, TV, books, movies, people watching....
Yeah, I've rewatched some favourites from my childhood and some of them are embarrassingly bad and boring to watch now. The Great Grape Ape and Scooby Doo to name but two. What I do miss is the gentler children's programming. Those Brits of a similar age to me know about Bagpuss, The Clangers, Ivor the Engine, Trumpton, etc. No fancy shmancy effects, no fast cuts, a gentle pace and storyline. If we enjoyed that as small children then there's no reason small children wouldn't now. They don't know they're supposed to be different somehow.
Plenty of great cartoons around if you only care to look. She-Ra, Legend of Korra, The Amazing World of Gumball, etc. etc. I'm enjoying these as much as my 9 years old daughter.
I'm pretty sure those are all canceled shows. She-Ra and Korra for sure, don't know about Gumball. The fact that they are good shows and they don't make them anymore kinda proves the point. Western animation in general really peaked in the late 90s/early 2000s and has been on a downward spiral of trend chasing and pandering ever since. There are exceptions, to be sure, but they are few and far between.
Load More Replies...Honestly, there are some good cartoons around well, and a lot did bring back some nostalgia like Looney Tunes or Animaniacs , but this is just my opinion
Psh. Try childcare. Our childcare cost for two children is more than our mortgage. When I was the same age, it cost my parents about $50/week. Today that would be roughly $135/week per kid. We’re paying $500/wk and still don’t have full time care for both kids. S**t’s crazy.
And yet, child care workers are still paid like it's 1960. Maddening.
Yes!!! This should be way higher. In NY area cost of childcare for 2 kids is around $40-50K a year. This is $70-80K in pre-tax money. We have a lot of friends where women quit their professional careers to take care of kids because their entire pay check was going to childcare anyway. You want more professional women in the workforce? Create free available child care system.
Being a criminal. If there was a security camera, it was too low resolution to make your face very identifiable.
Worked at a gas station in Oregon my summer after high school graduation. Had a guy fill up his truck AND RV then took off without paying. Saw the camera footage, couldn't make out his face, license plates or anything.
The block buster experience. The movies. Maybe in the meta verse that'll be a thing or someone will be crazy enough to invent some kind of modern day cafe/ theater for pop culture movie / tv buffs where it's a curated experience and ppl can interact with each other. Someone get on that. Streaming is cool and there's a community for everything but eh. Edit: Watch Parties. Remember the walking Dead and breaking bad. Omg the hype. Watch parties were fun back in the days during seasonal premiers.
Before blockbuster, we had a little video shop called Erik's Video. We had a Beta deck, and year after year the beta section kept getting smaller, until it was just a little bin in the middle of the store. By the time blockbuster came, we had bought a VHS
Yeah same here. Betamax was actually the better format, but when the availability of films started shrinking it was only a matter of time. I loved all those "video nasties" when I was a kid. I remember one summer sitting with my brother and best mate watching the Evil Dead, Zombie Flesh Eaters, Scanners and the like. Good times.
Load More Replies...I used to love going to Blockbuster to get the promotional toys to go with the movie. I still have my Mr. Bigglesworth from the Austin Powers movies! Lol
Uh....the "illegal" VHS tapes which were clearly taped in a cinema, bad picture but oh boy how fun they were to rent one before the movie was out in the cinema on the corner.
In the 90s airport security took half as long.
I know this is "get off my lawn" territory, but as a kid in the '60s you would walk right out on the tarmac and up the stairs to the plane.
I remember going in the cockpit and being given those plastic pilot wings.
Load More Replies...In high school we would go to the airport to just walk around, eat dinner, shop and meet guys 😆 No security at all! It was so fun
There was hardly any security, sure you had your passport check.
If you’re British, travel and moving abroad was way easier before Brexit
I am genuinely curious, did Brexiteers not consider things like this when they voted leave? Not trying to be an a*****e, just trying to understand the reasons for the leave vote.
No, of course they didn't. It didn't affect them, so they didn't care. There were also some things which were never made aparant at the time either, such having to pay duty/import VAT on stuff imported from Europe - this is money that goes to the UK government and it is not coincidence that inflation has gone up like it has after it started being applied - I paid another £200 on a body panel for my car that had to be imported from Germany, versus one that was already in the UK! And I've yet to see any of the mythical £350m/week that Boris put on the side of his bus as the amount we paid to the EU (thanks to the rebate it was never that figure).
Load More Replies...And proudly showing all the stamps you got in your passport!
The value of a car
They last longer. My 2003 is still going strong. Problem is you really can't fix them yourself. The day when you could rebuild your carburetor on the kitchen table is long gone.
The sturdiness. The built-to-lastness. The having to actually know about cars and fixing them yourselves instead of all this electronic computer s**t you need to be a rocket scientist to understand and a professional contortionist mechanic to be able to fix them! It also didn't cost an arm, a leg, your first born girl, your first born boy and their first norms to fix the bloody things!!!
Not sure I get this one. Used car prices have shot up recently. New car prices seem to be around the same sort of level they were compared to salary.
The price perhaps, but not the value. The old car you bought would last you 20 years, which is damn good value for money. Your modern car will begin to give you trouble as soon as the warranty/service plan runs out.
Load More Replies...School cafeteria pizza
I loved the rectangle school pizza, lol. Then I got transferred to a neighborhood school (after getting kicked out of a much better school 😈) and was surprised to find they had a salad bar! I thought it was the best thing ever 😆
Easier to be happy. They didn’t have too much, and most people were grateful for what they had
I mean it is a mindset. But it also used to be that, aside from "Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous", you only had like your coworkers and your neighbors to compare yourself too. Now with Facebook and Instagram and all the constant celebrity reality shows, you're constantly seeing everyone's highlight reels. It's harder not to compare your life to others now.
I don't know about this one. Keeping up with the Joneses has been around for quite a while.
Friend groups, now you usually cant find kids hanging out in the neighborhoods like they used to, not they only play at school when they have nothing else to do
Coke with real sugar
Or you can buy the glass bottles of the Coke bottled in Mexico. It’s still made with real sugar.
RainX washer fluid. I used to put a gallon in my car and it would last forever. Never had to use the wipers because rain, snow, road grime, and salt would all bead right off. Then one day it seemed like it never worked the same. Not sure if it was done for their bottom line purposes or environmental reasons(because there's no way even the new stuff is good for the environment) but it worked better in the past for sure.
Same can be said for basically any cleaning product as well. If it ain't broke... break it and make it less effective so people have to buy more, obviously!
yep. it's like clothes soap that doesnt bubble anymore in the washing machine. people use more expecting soap bubbles.
Load More Replies...I also suspect environmental reasons. Most likely Rain-x contained perfluoro substances (PFAS) which are water repellent but also toxic and eternal (non-biodegradable) compounds. And yes, the alternatives are not as effective, but won't pollute the environment.
I remember RainX, it was amazing! Didn't know it sucks now, that's unfortunate.
McDonalds fries, done in rendered beef fat 🤤
Burger King's fries 15 years ago were fried in a different oil and SOOO much better. Better even than McD's I thought, but of course they went away. Boo
Vegetables
"Real" Cauliflower and you better wash and inspect it for worms!
Lightbulbs. They developed the technology for one that would never burn out but then the bulb companies decided planned obsolescence was the way to go. There is a very neat veritasium video on it on YT.
In my country, LEDs are much more expensive. They last longer, yes. But much more pricey.
Load More Replies...I have held on to two incandescent bulbs because they were made to last by a commercial manufacturer called Duro-Test and I just don't have the heart to replace them. I installed them in 1988 and they still work to this day.
LEDs may last longer but I think the light is so harsh. Guess I still love the soft white cheap bulbs I grew up with, lol. I even returned some LED Christmas tree lights a few years ago because they were so not right...
You can buy soft white LEDs that have the same color temperature as the incandescent bulbs. . I always disliked the screaming white fluorescent lamps I saw in Turkiye and other parts of Europe. They always seemed so harsh.
Load More Replies...I actually have a bulb in my room that hasn't been turned off in like 5 years. Still burns bright
Toasters. If you need a toaster, buy an old one. New toasters are ten times the price (yes, inflation included) and the planned obsolescence is brutal.
Really? Cheapest toaster I can see on Amazon is £8. Known brand, about £20. So unless we're talking about pre-decimalisation prices, no, they aren't 10 times the price. Some of the premium brands have increased prices of late, such as my Dualit kettle, which was £50 about 6 or 7 years ago and is £80 now, and why I chose to go with another brand when I replaced it.
In college, i learned i could make almost anything in my toaster oven
Rubbish. They're around the same price now as they were thirty years ago, just like most electrical appliances, while inflation has therefore made their real cost many times lower than it used to be. And they last at least as long, in general, although some people may throw them away at the first sign of wear, just because they're so cheap to replace.
Oh yeah, the good ol'ones with that unearthed plug and that abestos panel in the midle of red hot exposed wires ready to light a fire because eh no timer gave the best toasts for sure. And I'm not ironic at all🙂
There's a big difference between "not intending for something to last forever" and "planned obsolescence". Please get over this conspiracy-theory-think that corporations have a division of planned obsolescence where evil people think of ways to make things break. Jeez!
burger king fries. they used to be delicious, but they slowly got worse and worse and now they actually taste kind of bad. same with their burgers, i used to like them quite a bit. but now they're by far the worst of the big fast food places.
The only fast food places that taste good are five guys and shake shack
They are good, but you obviously dont have in-n-out. Its better.
Load More Replies...One thing these posts seldom mention is that your taste buds and subsequently the taste of things change as you age. If you could bring back your 15 year old taste buds, a lot of these complaints might disappear.
I was just talking about the old BK fries two posts up! Lol. They really were the best back in the day.
Burger King is Hungry Jacks in Australia- they changed their fries to thicker cut ones with chicken salt :( Not that I eat fast food often, but if I'm on a road trip and starving I won't stop at HJ I wait until there is a Maccas. It's not just the taste though, there is a higher risk of gluten in chicken salt.
Mobile Games. I miss subway surfers, PvZ, jetpack joyride, angry birds. Now it's all "***99.99999999% CAN'T FIND PINK***"
Yes! it's the most time I spent on my old Nokia phone!
Load More Replies...You'd be amazed at the number of people who prefer reading to playing games.
Bounce on my Nokia3200 was also a favorite for me. Snake (as Helen mentioned) and Space Invaders. Getting to that big octopus thing was so exciting.
You didn't need to mortgage your house and sell your children to get into GW's games.
I'm going to say I think they mean Games Workshop games, like Age of Sigmar, Warhammer 40k, LoTR, etc.
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It used to be that it was possible for someone to commit a serious crime, move across the country, and never be caught. As communications technology has improved, that’s no longer feasible.
being able to express your opinion about something without someone getting offended no matter how innocent the subject matter
Dude... I made a dumb fucken joke the other day & got CHEWED THE F**K OUT by people online. All I said was something like... "ever feel like your brain smoked crack but your body did mound of heroin? ADHD is wild sometimes" & people were like "you're so insensitive.. people die from those drugs.. mental illness isn't a joke! How dare you mock addicts & people with adhd! How do you think an addict would feel reading your comment!" I'm like... "First of all... I think an addict who has ADHD might find that comment funny & relate to it.. I mean, I thought it was kind of funny... & I'm both a recovering addict & I have adhd. I didn't realize I wasn't allowed to make jokes about my own experiences anymore.. all because my joke about my personal feelings n thoughts might offend someone else who I don't even know.. so am I supposed to censor myself all because some stranger can't take a joke or something? I'm not doing that! But thanks for policing me"
Load More Replies...That might've be okay, but another addition to this generation is the insane amounts of school shootings. Need to keep in contact with parents.
Load More Replies...Kids hanging out till dark. Parents would shout from the balcony and you better be within hearing range or you are in trouble. Teenagers sitting around a fire, playing the guitar or charades. Not having having AC in your home didn't necessarily mean a death sentence in summer. A white Christmas. Reading a paper book. Going in public without fear of judgment, being robbed or catching a disease. What happened, where did it all go wrong?
I'd say Lego. I was lucky to grow up in the 90s, the golden age of Lego (or is that just my experience?). Today all they do is licensed stuff and most of the sets are heinously bad - especially considering the price!
Me and my Brothers had a huge suitcase full of Lego we sit and build entire towns and other things for hours
Load More Replies...The American Dream was an achievable reality if you worked hard! ... and watermelon was tastier when it had seeds ;)
I only get watermelons with seeds, I also live in the south so I'm very lucky to get fresh from the garden watermelons
Load More Replies...I feel bad for children today when I was a child if you had a bully it sucked but you could go home and feel safe. Now with technology bully's can keep attacking their victims out of school there's no place for many children to feel safe.
I had bullies and didn't feel safe at home because I lived too close to the school.
Load More Replies...The cost of proper food. It's more expensive to buy healthy vegetables, etc than it is to buy garbage processed food. Sad.
being able to express your opinion about something without someone getting offended no matter how innocent the subject matter
Dude... I made a dumb fucken joke the other day & got CHEWED THE F**K OUT by people online. All I said was something like... "ever feel like your brain smoked crack but your body did mound of heroin? ADHD is wild sometimes" & people were like "you're so insensitive.. people die from those drugs.. mental illness isn't a joke! How dare you mock addicts & people with adhd! How do you think an addict would feel reading your comment!" I'm like... "First of all... I think an addict who has ADHD might find that comment funny & relate to it.. I mean, I thought it was kind of funny... & I'm both a recovering addict & I have adhd. I didn't realize I wasn't allowed to make jokes about my own experiences anymore.. all because my joke about my personal feelings n thoughts might offend someone else who I don't even know.. so am I supposed to censor myself all because some stranger can't take a joke or something? I'm not doing that! But thanks for policing me"
Load More Replies...That might've be okay, but another addition to this generation is the insane amounts of school shootings. Need to keep in contact with parents.
Load More Replies...Kids hanging out till dark. Parents would shout from the balcony and you better be within hearing range or you are in trouble. Teenagers sitting around a fire, playing the guitar or charades. Not having having AC in your home didn't necessarily mean a death sentence in summer. A white Christmas. Reading a paper book. Going in public without fear of judgment, being robbed or catching a disease. What happened, where did it all go wrong?
I'd say Lego. I was lucky to grow up in the 90s, the golden age of Lego (or is that just my experience?). Today all they do is licensed stuff and most of the sets are heinously bad - especially considering the price!
Me and my Brothers had a huge suitcase full of Lego we sit and build entire towns and other things for hours
Load More Replies...The American Dream was an achievable reality if you worked hard! ... and watermelon was tastier when it had seeds ;)
I only get watermelons with seeds, I also live in the south so I'm very lucky to get fresh from the garden watermelons
Load More Replies...I feel bad for children today when I was a child if you had a bully it sucked but you could go home and feel safe. Now with technology bully's can keep attacking their victims out of school there's no place for many children to feel safe.
I had bullies and didn't feel safe at home because I lived too close to the school.
Load More Replies...The cost of proper food. It's more expensive to buy healthy vegetables, etc than it is to buy garbage processed food. Sad.

