I love pink and glitter as much as the next person, but I don’t need everything that I own, including razors, power tools and underwear, to be exuding femininity. I just want them to work well and not cost twice as much as the versions designed for men!
Women on Reddit have recently been calling out all of the products and procedures they have to deal with that were clearly designed by men for women. From the discomfort of getting a mammogram or IUD to the frustration of trying to find comfortable clothes that actually fit properly, you’re likely to relate to many of the replies down below if you’re a woman. But regardless of your gender, enjoy scrolling through and be sure to upvote the things you find most infuriating!
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Abortion laws.
Say it louder for those in the back! Women often end up with the responsibility of raising children, and we should get to choose whether we want a child or not!
Aside from the raising, we risk our lives and our health carrying and bearing the child. No way ANYONE else should have a say in this.
Load More Replies...Abortion right entered the French Constitution on the 8th of March 2024, after a landslide win vote at the Assemblée Nationale. I don't think I will be tired of typing that news any time soon.
During Covid the right to bodily autonomy was central to resistance against being forced to use face masks or restrict movement by the same people who argue that women cannot choose to end potentially dangerous pregnancies that aren’t even medically viable. So please America can you explain why men are entitled to bodily autonomy to heck with the consequences but women’s bodies are the property of the state the moment they reach reproductive age? I’m from Africa and am seriously confused about how your laws enforce huMAN rights but discard huWOMAN rights.
Considering pregnancy and birth permanently changes women's bodies men need to sit this debate out.
Women should have the option of formally surrendering the role of primary parent at birth, and leaving the child the primary responsibility of the biological father. Not surrendering their parental rights, just surrendering primary custody, and making themselves not the parent of default. They can get vistation, they can be required to pay child support, they're not completely giving the child up. They just effectively declare themselves a "Dad" rather than a "Mom." Lets see how many men become pro-choice when they can have a newborn baby land in their arms, as their sole responsibility after a failure of birth control. They want the baby to have another parent around? They have to set up visitation. They want financial help? They have to take the mother to support court. The mother wants a relationship with her child? She gets weekends, and being the 'fun' parent, and he's still responsible for all the mental, emotional, educational and caregiving labour during the week.
STAND UP LADIES!! I'm right with ya! Stop these oppressive a******s! Fakery in the name of a lord they don't follow and who never mentioned it in the scriptures they mock er... believe in!
I logged into my account to tell u this: f**k you
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Every single gyno procedure and lack of pain meds given for it.
uterine biopsy without any local anesthesia. Its literally cutting a piece of your uterus out
Yep: the doc said after the procedure: I could have given you anesthesia, but you know, we would have hade to wait for it to take effect and...
Load More Replies...Medication after a mastectomy when leaving hospital at 48h post surgery: paracetamol, ibuprofen and "if it hurts much" occasional Metomizol. Went back 6 days later and explained the best l could how that is NOT nearly enough for a breast and lymph node removal with reconstructive surgery. For some reason, we are supposed to tolerate pain better than men 🙄
For any guys out there wondering, it's like scraping the inside hole of your Richard.
Yeah about that.... I was supposed to have my IUD changed 3 YEARS ago but ive been to terrified because last time it hurt so f*****g much i almost passed out from the pain!!! 😳😳 Seriously what the f**k do I do?!?!!!!!
Find a doc who will medicate. Cervical block at the very least.
Load More Replies...Transvaginal ultrasound to try and see what was wrong with me was given before any type of pain meds at ER when I went in for excruciating pain from IC.
OMG. I had one of these immediately after/during a miscarriage where I was already doubled over in pain and unable to walk. It was horrible. The (female) tech didn't seem to realize or care much.
Load More Replies...I had 3 UID, and I am a mid 40s female, with usually 2 visits at the gyn per year. I don't know what your gyns are doing at your check ups, but I never would have needed pain meds. Whats wrong with your gyns?
I guess you're one of those "most women" who only experience mild discomfort.
Load More Replies...This cold, hard, non-yielding instrument that we are going to shove up you won't hurt a bit. relax, think of it like a p*nis. You might feel a pinch. Uh-huh. -_-
Most women's shoes are shaped to be long, thin and pointy.
My feet are not long, thin and pointy, **they are** **foot-shaped**, and shoe shopping is a*s.
My gf has to buy mostly shoes made for men, bc her feet are wider than the typical shoes for women.
Depending on the size, try kids' shoes too. They tend to run wider
Load More Replies...And apparently we dont go above a size 8 (uk). I wear a men's size 9 or 10.
Jumping off of this, shoe sizes are very rarely uniform either. My shoes range from women's 10 to mens 10/women's 11.5, and yes, shoe shopping is a*s.
I started having a problem with falling. Ok, I am older, but wtf! My doctors (all male) asked me if I fell a lot as part of their assessments, and I would say yes, at least once a month. They would say, that's a lot and move on. I finally went to a specialty shoe store and found out I have wide toes and narrow heels. My feet were slipping in my shoes, causing me to lose my balance. The shoe store recommended a brand designed and constructed like clogs. Six months later, I am steady as a gazelle.
Someone PLEASE put more belt loops on my work pants!
Oh, and NORMAL pockets, please and thankyou.
I still maintain that the female pocket is deliberately small to keep the handbag business going. I don't believe the fashion designers that claim it destroys the line of the clothing...
On behalf of BIG handbag insodous no longer will be posting, he has been.... Reformed
Load More Replies...What is it with the lack of belt loops? I can’t hold my trousers up without the belt ending up on my skin.
Right?! If there's any it's like 3, one in back and 2 on sides. Wtf. I buy these clips off Amazon to wear in lieu of a belt. they are kind of shaped like a G and can be rolled once or twice before clipping it on. But the one pair of pants I want them to work on they dont...beautiful black dress pants that are slightly too big that have a damn satin lining around waist line. At first I loved the satin but they slide down. Sigh
Load More Replies...My partner wore a new pj yesterday and shouted "it has pockets! Big enough for a modern smartphone! Oh and another smaller one on the chest!".... On a pj! Why has a pyjama more and bigger pockets than many "women's" clothes? Also, I began to sew extra belt loops on my pants (especially my "mans" pants) to keep the belt on its place and not pinching in my side
Got a pair of pants that when I bought them, I didn't realize that the hip pockets are fake. But the a*s pockets are real of course 🙄
Unfortunately as a woman, I have lots of jeans like these... heck, most of my pockets can't even fit things more than the size of my fingertips 😑 Just don't put pockets on it at this point instead of getting us excited over false advertising for a product that should actually work it's function...
Load More Replies...Do a search for 'women's workwear'. You will find companies that sell practical, if not fashionable and trendy, clothing.
Most pharmaceuticals, unfortunately.
Women weren’t included in early medical studies, they didn’t think we could handle it. They just reasoned that women were just like men, only smaller = lower doses. They never thought of chemical differences.
Can we add insurance companies to this one? The doctor put me on hormones (I went straight into menopause after receiving a hysterectomy for cervical cancer.) I had a prescription for low dose hormone patches (one a week for a month), and the pharmacist was shocked that I was required to pay $80 for the 4 little patches and my insurance company would not cover the costs as it was an “elective” medication.
Even if they would work, the dosage is often far too low to work. There are significant physical differences between men and women. Sex is real. Women have a different fat/muscle ratio than men, so they'd need a much higher dosage of most pharmaceuticals than a man at the same size and weight, because fat tissue absorbs more of the active ingredients.
Just in case you meant this transphobically, I will point out that those differences are largely hormone related, directly or indirectly, so a post-HRT trans person's body composition will largely match that of their gender, not their birthsex. Obviously, there are biological differences between cis and trans people of the same gender, but post-HRT, mefication dosing is not one of them.
Load More Replies...If there was a hormonal contraceptive for men that destroyed libido it would not make it out of animal trials. This huge side effect- experienced by most women on progesterone based contraceptives - is hardly even mentioned on the insert…
I know this is not directly referencing *that study*, but the problem with male HBC is that men don't get pregnant. It's medical ethics - the medication has to solve more problems than it creates. And for women, the thing HBC eradicates is pregnancy, which is a pretty high bar to clear, even in the best of circumstances. But because men don't experience any negative health effects from causing a pregnancy, the bar for "too many side effects" is about as low as it gets. Yes, sexism is at play here, but also the way medical ethics are currently structured.
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Religious rules. And clothes without pockets.
If you follow a religion where you feel the rules aren't fair towards women, you should leave the religion. Otherwise, you become part of the problem. And if you're in a religion that doesn't allow pockets, just run.
Guys remember, women's rights are basic human rights, no matter how big or small, and this is definitely a yes and yes from me :)
Sports bras and their removable pads.
And then when they get tangled up in the washing machine and you have to squeeze them back in through that tiny opening...
Tell me about it! I ended up removing the pads from mine. Just way too much hassle.
Load More Replies...The sports bra was invented by Lisa Lindahl, Hinda Miller and Polly Smith. Not a man in sight. A 2 second google search.
I love how I got a downvote for posting a fact. Just goes to show people here don't want facts they want something to be mad about.
Load More Replies...Removable pads are the most annoying thing on this list, IMO. Either sew them in or leave them completely off. They don't work. They always move. They're a pain to launder. I could go on, but you get the point.
They work perfectly fine for me, I put them in those special laundry-bra-bags and I’ve never had a pad come out. They do move around but it takes like 5 seconds to get them back into place.
Load More Replies...Why the removable pads... just why?!?!?!?!?! I hate those things more than my ex-husband!
Because some people want a bra with padding and some don’t. It wouldn’t make sense to make 2 separate lines of every type of bra (one with- and one without pads).
Load More Replies...Sport brasthat squeeze my boobs together into one shapeless lump. It's uncomfortable.
Pads are just there to hide your nipples, they are useless
Load More Replies...I just gave up on those bras and now I just go with the padless ones which are somewhat uncomfortable
Button down shirts that don't account for breasts and if you CAN button it all the way up you have these huge gaps and stretching between the buttons.
I had a dress shirt once that had a button on the inside as well, to help prevent the gap right across the boobs. It was great! More of that please
I was about to mention these! My mom uses these for lectures.
Load More Replies...I have small-ish boobs and STILL sometimes have the gap! So annoying. Like CanadianDimes said though, my mom also has the shirts with buttons on the inside too, and that helps since she's bigger chested than me
I've been able to find button downs that works for me, but they usually end up very long, or large in the shoulders. Although, I mostly wear men's button downs, because the fabric is thicker, and short sleeves, because otherwise the sleeves fit weird.
Women's Genital Wash. Summers Eve, for example, is a modern brand. The vagina is self-cleaning. The fragrances and chemicals in these washes can cause infections. Do not wash inside your vagina! Water only.
For the longest time, I thought it was specially designed to be gentle enough to wash pubic hair, not the actual genitalia.
The vagina is self cleaning, the vulva and labia isn't though. And those products are meant to clean the lower regions on the outside not the inside. If you try it you'll find they're much better and less irritating to the sensitive skin of the vulva and labia. I saw all those gyns trying to tell you how bad they are for the vagina, which is surely correct, but one look at the actual package tells you that's not what they're meant for. They're for the parts outside.
Sometime more than water is needed for the externals post-saxaphone time. They dont need all the perfume smell though.
Who in hell would wash their vagina? 😳 And vulva doesn’t need chemicals either- would you wash your mouth with soap or such? Or inside your nose? They all are mucous membrane.
I say this every time this comes up: like so much of what we're told about the female body, that's only true of the fertile years. In the second half of your adult life, it may be very different. If you cycle, run or swim, for example, you may get a lot more irritations and infections than before.
I simply use soaps made for newborns on my down there, they're MUCH gentler.
I've seen most of these as created and advertised by women for women. Then they freak out when women GYNs explain what was just said in this post.
Women's power tools. They are just a pink version of the men's tools, or they are just a less powerful version.
No redesign of the weight, shape, or grip size to make them easier to hold for our body shapes, just a pink tax.
Please don’t, though. The companies that do this shouldn’t get your money.
Load More Replies...I do. The point about reducing the size/weight to make things easier is valid, because I have very small hands (I buy kids' gloves. which are really difficult to get for wheelchair users. Or rubber gloves), but I never saw the point of the same tools, just pink.
Load More Replies...Truth! I bought a set that claimed to be more ergonomic for women, and when I got it, the drill was actually HEAVIER than the standard DeWalt.
There's such a thing as women's power tools? What's next, women's doorbells?
I had a set once that was actually weighted and gripped for women. It took me four years after I heard about them to find them, and then they were on a closeout site because the company was going out of business. They aren't pink. They are gray and black.
Car seat belts. Mine slips up all the time, and I have it on the lowest setting. I am 5'4" tall. So uncomfortable.
I feel ya! I'm always worried about being decapitated by the darned thing.
Load More Replies...I'm tall, and the seatbelt still comes up to my neck because it slips up over my boobs all the time. I think it's supposed to go over the shoulder without hitting the neck, but I'm not sure.
Belt pads. They're about 10 € for a pair, attachable to the belt by velcro.
Load More Replies...Belt pads - about 10 bucks per pair. I love them.
Load More Replies...5' and generously boobed too. Seatbelts are a nightmare. I use a device that is perfectly legal in my country. Except for on the driver's seat... Because apparently drivers shouldn't need to be safe and comfortable while driving...
Belt pads help (or help me, at least). My boobs put the belt right against my neck/jugular, and a pad makes it a lot more comfortable.
Load More Replies...Well, if I recall correctly, someone designed a seatbelt with a built-in bra one time.
My immediate thought was "why?". Then it occurred to me that it's probably to stop it slipping across the girls (yes, I'm generous up front, and short in the torso - seatbelts are evil). But, boobs come in all sizes - how on earth could you get this to work? It wouldn't fit the people who need it the most.
Load More Replies...Belt pads - saw them (sold in pairs, usually), bought them, love them!
5"4. I have to put the belt under my ar to keep it from digging into my neck
Maternity leave.
I’m in the US where you’re lucky to have it and even if you do there are often ridiculous stipulations like, leave starting only when you go into labor.
There’s no way a system where the expectation is that 100% of women will be able to work until a baby literally begins to fall out of them was designed by a woman.
And culture that screams “it’s not my problem, you should have thought of that before you got pregnant!” To any changes to the system. The US system doesn’t have any care for universally raising a healthy, well adjusted population. It’s not just incredibly sad, but short sighted.
Load More Replies...You get called a dirty commie or socialist by some hyper conservative groups in the US if you even mention longer maternity leave for women let alone universal healthcare. The U.S. is truly backward when it comes to things like this- they really don’t care about their citizens.
Socialist is not a bad thing in the rest of the world either. People taking care of each other, isn't too bad.
Load More Replies...Americans consider that to be communism and commies are baddies!
Load More Replies...USA, land of the free apparently, this is absurd, I seems everything is about money and squeezing everything they can out of a person, the mind boggles as to why Americans are abused so much by their government, it’s cruel
Is it really men-thing or more american-thing? Because this is something that many other countries managed to conquer successfully and especially in Europe is miles ahead...
Based on individual location more than men exactly.
Load More Replies...3 kids = lost 3 jobs. One TOLD ME they were going to give me maternity leave, but she came during the "busy season" and I had to train my replacement
Birth control - because most women even nowadays still don't know it is perfectly safe not to get a period when you are on it. The 7 day pill gap was invented by men and priests back in the day so the pill would look like it keeps the normal cycle. IT does not and you don't need a period when you are on the pill.
YMMV. You can definitely skip a few bleeds, but many women find that staining starts to happen at a certain point, and I'm not absolutely certain, but I think there is some concern of increased risk of uterine cancer eventually.
I find that hard to believe. I haven't bled for 20 years on the pill. Nothing happened. Not even a spot. I get everyone is different, but you're making it sound like spotting will happen no matter what. Also, if you're not absolutely certain, you probably shouldn't be spreading cancer rumours like that
Load More Replies...The reason it mimicked a normal cycle was in the hopes that the Catholic Church would approve of it (spoiler alert: they did not). So while we need to do away with the notion now that people taking the pill need to have a period, the original intent behind this was to get more people on it, not to be malicious
I've been on a few different types of BC, personally IUDs haven't worked well for me, due to them not staying where they're supposed to. For the past 5 years or so, I've had the implant in my arm and no periods, at all. I'm also a migraine sufferer, that usually coincides with my cycle, ya know, hormones. But now that I don't get a period anymore, I also don't get migraines any longer. 🤞
Yeah. I’m not even sexually actively. I take a birth control pill that causes me to only have my period once every three months. I don’t take The Pill for the usual reason. I take it because I hate my period. Talk to your doctor about a pill that doesn’t make you have your period every month
Ah yes, birth control, the thing invented in the 1950s when women were so very common and accepted in science, especially medicine
"The pill" exists and has existed in many many different forms over the decades. _Some_ of them are 'safe' to continue taking more or less permanently, many are OK to roll-over from time to time to delay the next period, but some have different formulations for different parts of the cycle, so must not be used in that way. I n other words, make sure you understand what sort you're using before trying this.
No, it was designed to reassure women they weren't pregnant because pregnancy tests involved killing a rabbit after injecting it with urine rather than just peeing on a stick!
I was on 7 day gap pill for years - although I hated periods it was comforting to know pill didn't fail
All obgyn vaginal procedures. BARBARIC.
And they wonder why so many women would rather risk cervical cancer than get a pap smear once per 6/12 months.
Unpopular opinion maybe. It's not that bad, considering all the stuff I already went through. And now in France it's once every 5 years if the previous test is OK. Edit: I have female OB/GYN and midwife and they explain and ask consent for everything they do. It helps coping with the discomfort.
Load More Replies...To the boys saying "What about female gynecologists?" - often they don't offer pain relief either, because it's not industry standard.
Some of the female gynecologist are even rougher than male gynecologist
Load More Replies...Tbh, l don't have any problem with pap smears, never once hurt, but if enough women are complaining that it does they could at least...revise the tools? The method? I have to say tho that my worst experiences have been with female gyns. Having a vagina doesn't automatically make you sympathetic towards fellow vaginas owners.
Yup. Especially if, like you, Pap smears don’t hurt for them, they are less likely to go out of their way to help you.
Load More Replies...It's horrifying that so many doctors and nurses still act as though it's just an opening that's always accessible. It's an organ and frankly it has a strict door policy.
I know there are worse things but I couldn't walk upright for a week after one pelvic exam bc the doctor had trouble finding my left ovary and just wouldn't give up. I never went back.
I had the same problem and it felt like the tech was going to ram through my vaginal wall trying to find it.
Load More Replies...Pap smears hurt for me and with my family history I need them every year.
Then become a doctor and create new procedures. Men did it. So can women.
There are more female physicians now, and more female OB-GYNs out there. Why haven't they changed this if it's a problem?
Ok, this is niche, but I hate it whenever I go to sit at a bar and there are no hooks under the bar. Double points if the stools don't have a back where I can loop my purse/coat over the seat back, and I am stuck piling my purse and/or coat in my lap. Same for public restrooms - pleaseee put a hook on the door so I'm not precariously balancing my purse on my lap or worse on the floor.
UGH THIS we need hooks on the bathroom doors PLEASE I don't want to put my purse on the floor, which btw is where all the germs go when it flushes 🤮🤮
Consider carrying a gear hook: https://8timber.com/products/gear-hook?variant=41024815071283
Load More Replies...Buy a collapsible over the door hanger. Or just buy something in dollar store. Carry it in your purse or coat pocket. Saved my butt couple if times. Yes, a boy scout would be proud of my purse contents.
That is actually a great idea! Can be used on the outside of a stall as well for storage while hand washing.
Load More Replies...I'm always irritated that the washroom door has a place where the hook USED to be! Some jerk has exercised himself in destruction, and for what? to take it home? And they're never repaired.
Not sure why you think this a woman problem. As a man I'm just as p1ssed off by having nowhere to hang my jacket and bag.
When I was a younger woman there used to be hooks on the backs of the doors up towards the top of the door. Then some twat figured out they could reach over the top of the door and snag your bag while you were trying to dry yourself and get your pantyhose back on. It appears that rather than putting the hook lower and in the middle of the door, they just stopped putting hooks on the stall doors.
Sad thing is most men's rooms stalls have a hook for their briefcase/suit coat
Seriously why do they make purses if they aren't going to give you a place to put them.
Razors. I just buy the regular man-version if I wanna use a razor.
Those for women are the same, just more expensive. And the main function of a razor was to shave beards, so this was initially a product clearly designed for men., not women.
Load More Replies...This one I disagree with some! Not the disposable ones. Those are all terrible for the environment and deserve to be burned. But the ones where just the heads are replaced, where there's moisturizer around the razor? I thought those worked very well for me and always left my legs silky smooth. Don't care anymore though lol hair all the way!
I have the Dollar Shave Club.... wife and I use matching razor handles and blades. Oh but she uses their "Ball Spray" and loves it! For underboob and for the kitten!
Love Dollar Shave Club. Now I want their "Ball Spray" for my underboob! 😊
Load More Replies...The idea of women shaving was made up by the gilette company about 100-110 years ago as a marketing tactic to sell more razors
I've seen the advertisement campaigns they used. It was basically if you have under arm hair no man will ever love you and you are germ ridden.
Load More Replies...Have you used their deodorants? I've seen the commercials and I'm thinking about trying it.
Load More Replies...That's just what I'll do! I'll let you know how it turns out 😉
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Whoever designed auto-flushing toilets. The damn thing is throwing sewage water on the back of my thighs before I can get my pants up. Wtaf?!?!.
You'll get thing flushing 3 or 4 times while you're changing a sanitary product.
Load More Replies...This, but as a wheelchair user. We shift about on the can, to shift pants and underwear out of the way so we can do our business. And then put everything back in place. Automatic flushes are an absolute disaster - you end up with wet clothes, and a wet wheelchair cushion when you transfer back.
This is about toilets that flush automatically. You have no control over it.
Load More Replies...It's easier to get an infection this way as a woman but those flushers really are a bane to everyone.
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Wasn’t there some guys on shark tank or something like it that made gloves for women to use to change their menstrual products? They were single use and pink or something?.
Reminds me of the story of NASA. When thewfirst woman (Sally Ride?) was to be in space for a while, NASA engineers had to figure the weight and storage needs for said necessities. They asked the lady if 100 tampons would be enough.
How long was she there for? If you have periods on the heavier side, you might have to change often. There are different sizes as well. But if they'd asked if 30 is enough, someone would stimm complain.
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When you get a needle biopsy, you have to lie on a cold formica table with a sharp edged hole w yr breast dangling through it. The first time I had to do this, we (me, women docs and nurses) all commented on the terrible design of the thing.
When I has another needle biopsy a few years later, the table had been redesigned. It was now pink. ❤️.
That always drives me nuts: "let's make something for women: make it pink!". Clothes, camping gear, tools, guns...
Me too! Just bugger off with all your pink stuff, the design isn't even better fitted for women. Stuff in light blue though.. 😉
Load More Replies...Not my experience. Laying on my back, local anesthesia to make the needle almost imperceptible.
Sixty-one percent of physicians working in Spain are women and 79% of nurses. I assume that the percentages in the USA are similar. If so, I think that rather than complaining about how badly the men designed the procedures, they should start to do their part and officially propose redesigns of procedures, even refusing to follow those procedures if they are so badly designed, even if they are accused of being communists.
I had mine whilst standing up - punch biopsy with several 'holes'. No pink, no formica, no anaesthetic.
I have had several either sitting on the side of a stretcher in front of the machine, or lying down on a stretcher with ultrasound.
The image is of lumbar biopsy needles for a bone marrow biopsy. I've been on the receiving end if one of those recently. Ain't fun.
The chainsaw. I wish I never knew this fact.
It was initially supposed to be used to cut open the pelvic bone to assist with child birth. Barbaric, and I am a man, so I can only think how much worse it must be for women....
It was a hand-operated device bearing little resemblance to the powered chainsaws of today, but more importantly it was much better than the alternatives at that time, which would often be both mother and baby dyíng.
Load More Replies...As much as I dislike the idea of it, it saved many lives of women and their children because of the reduced tissue damage. If I had such complications and couldn't do a natural birth or c-section, I'd tell them to bring it out.
I doubt it would be the same design as a wood-cutting chainsaw. Probably would be pink. (forgive me)
Every public restroom I've been to that doesn't have a little trash receptacle in the stall. Having to walk your soiled sanitary products to the main trash in the handwashing area is adding insult to injury when periods suck enough. .
They did it at my work, when building new restrooms. They forgot that women would appreciate a little bin in the toilet-stall for used period products (and not to walk to the general bin close to the sinks). It took them "only" half a year to "fix" that issue. Unfortunately the toilet-stalls are so narrow that you can't really place a bin in them. Now it is a constantly shuffling to open/close the door 🤗
Every public toilet that I have been in, in the UK, has a sanitary bin in place.
They're required to by law. That's why sometimes there are single cubicle toilets that are designated as "ladies" and "gents" - the ladies must have a sanitary bin, but the gents doesn't.
Load More Replies...I don't know where you live, but very seldom do I see women's room without the trash receptacle in the stall.
These are in all the hospital bathrooms where I work. Its like a little doggy poop bag you carry out for everyone to see
In my middle school, the toilets weren’t centered in the middle of the stalls. It was toward the side that had the little trash cam mounted to it, so it was like, too close to you
I absolutely think that off-setting the toilet in the cubicle is sensible. But... the opposite of that...
Load More Replies...They did it in my elementary school. There was only one bin, in the hadwashing area. Apparently someone forgot that bin in every stall is standart.
I would like to see one public restroom.with a sink that kids can reach to wash their hands.
There is a patent for labia glue that dissolves when you pee on it do use while on your period to hold the blood in. A male chiropractor invented and tried to sell it. So that.
And then you release it all at once like the elevator in The Shinning?
I also want to know what kind of body-safe glue is impervious to menstrual fluid but easily dissolves with urine. 😂
Load More Replies...What's the relevance of him being a chiropractor? Just that he had no medical qualifications, I guess?
Yup, and that he probably tried to claim being an expert.
Load More Replies...Ohhhhhhhh my god I remember this being in the news. He was ripped to shreds on Twitter. Good times.
Scented pads, especially mint "flavoured" ones.
Scented tampons are even worse, mostly purchased by people who think they're buying regular tampons and don't necessarily know scented tampons even exist. Because they shouldn't exist. Fragrance ingredients don't serve their purpose inside the vagina, and they can be very irritating.
I'm allergic to scented stuff and most of the time it's not mentioned they're scented. Eff that.
Load More Replies...I hope this is going away because I used to see scented pads and tampons in stores but I have not seen any for a few years.
They are slowly slowly slowly starting to be replaced with better products, organic / sustainable/ hypoallergenic.... and always more expensive
Load More Replies...I can't use ANY disposable feminine hygiene products anymore. I get a rash every time, probably because of this. Now I use washable pads.
I LOVE my washable pads. I've been using them for a decade now, and they're just brilliant.
Load More Replies...LOL I have used some that were lavender flavored one time and they had kind of a tingling sensation when worn, checked the package and they had some kind of minty something or other in them too. I liked it though! It was kind of refreshing 😂 but I can definitely see how that would be irritating for people with sensitive skin, etc...
Especially when you have an even more sensitive body (I'm autistic and also have pelvic floor issues so I REALLY hate these)
Ask any doctor, and they'll tell you to never use them because they're really bad for you. Makes me wonder why they still exist.
Read the comment people who think they're buying regular tampons and don't necessarily know that scented once even exist.
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PPE. Unisex fit my a*s
Once needed to wear security footwear for my job. The standard issue steel-nosed boots were so wide that one slipped off my foot while climbing some metal stairs and made me fall, causing a security incident. They bought me woman's security shoes after that.
I was the first woman to work on the floor of a paper mill. Safety glasses? Too big. Gloves? Too big. Didn't have steel toed rubber boots my size. My first experience buying safety shoes, the clerk asked me "what colour?" I replied "steel toed". Oh, and I had to share a bathroom with the male supervisors for a year. This was in 1990.
Load More Replies...Unisex just means "for men, but made in sizes small enough for women (sometimes)"
I had a baby and we used bottles to administer formula. The numbers and oz indicator lines were in white.
WHITE.
Ah bless my heart, is the man-child triggered?
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Most lingerie.
A builder commented on the size of my knickers drying on the line (not large size but granny variety). A few months later he came back with another builder, who immediately mentioned it, so clearly my underwear is a topic of conversation for the local construction industry. I was 58 at the time.
I am more than happy to wear thong underwear. Hipsters or granny panties doesn't matter to me cuz you end up picking them out of your crack anyway. At least with a thong, you know where you stand from the minute you put them on.
As Jennifer Saunders said, I thought I was in the room with a sumo wrestler.
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Tampons, considering they didn't think to test them with actual blood until last year.
What? No. Tampons were originally plugs used to fill bullet holes in WW1. Nurses saw them, figured out they could have other uses and things went from there.
It seems that according to maxi pad and tampon commercials, Women are full of windshield washer fluid.
Menstrual products had not been tested with menstrual blood until very recently. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/no-one-studied-menstrual-product-absorbency-realistically-until-now/
My Uncle was a tampon tester back in the 70’s - this involved testing the kapok for quality standards…
I'm sorry....I just dropped my phone I was laughing SO hard.
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Sports shorts
Search for it on google and add men or women and see the difference.
For some reason thighs just HAVE to be exposed when exercising, even though it might actually be more comfortable to have everything covered. Ever considered that?
But men's shorts are loose, so something worse than thighs could get visible, sometimes hanging out
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Sport shorts for women- either shorts that looks like women's boxers, or shorts that leave half of your booty sticking out
I hate those little shorts, they end right where the thigh chafing is happening.
Yup. My options are too well fitted, high rise yoga pants OR high rise super loose shorts that stop 4 inches above my knee so if I am doing any kind of leg or floor workout, you're likely to get a show.
I wear loose fitting yoga pants *with pockets!!!* I actually live in these things now, so comfortable - kinda chilly in the winter tho.
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Anything that is just a pink or purple variation of the men’s version.
Ok, but I drive a hot pink jacked up jeep and she's badass. Barbie wishes she had my 3(ken does too).
So, what does a male Volkswagen look like in comparison to the female version?
A (male) cousin used to have a purple Bug. It was gorgeous and I'm still jealous.
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Hiking backpacks with a breast strap.
I'm pretty uh... fluffy (42H) and I have no problem with these. Those that do probably should try a different brand or design.
Load More Replies...Dabbled in backpacking when I was teenager with my Girl Scout troop. That strap has a purpose. It helps take some of the weight off of your shoulders. I was semi-busty then, though not as busty as I am now, and I didn’t have much problem with it
it helps stabilize a heavy pack and is useful for both genders but not necessary for lighter weights or shorter distance or easier terrain.
Only ever seen them with waist straps - yeah, I'm old and saggy, but not *that* old and....
Those are pretty useless too, unless you're tall. I have a particularly short torso, and I'm curvy - those waist straps lift the shoulder straps to the height of my ears. Even ones made for women are too long in the back for me.
Load More Replies...I'd say those without a breast strap are at least as bad. My boobs push the shoulder straps far enough to the sides that they chafe under the armpits.
Oh my god, this. I bought a women’s backpack for my mom and it did not fit at all.
Mammograms. Routinely squeezing boobs between two plates of plexiglass. Find a better way. Imagine if men had to put their balls between two plate and have their nuts painfully squashed every year.
And don’t even get me started on the people that do it… usually there’s two main categories, people that are weird and creepy about it and people that have done it so many times they don’t even pretend to care.
Mammograms.
THIS. I almost fainted from pain last time I had one. Am sure that if men had to have their balls checked in this manner, they would have designed a less painful procedure long time ago.
@Diolla, in my experience it's not supposed to be painful ?
Load More Replies...I really don't think there *is* a better way of delivering mass screening that is 'affordable (either to you, or to the state paying for it) mabe MRI imaging would work (?), but that's far more expensive and time consuming, considering the millions who are screened every year. Yes, they can be painful. I've had breast cancer, and was on a 10 year follow up so I've had more than most people over the years, but I take a deep breath and bear it, knowing that it has already saved my life and might do so again. Comments about guys balls though - different texture and different contents - and any problems tend to show up with a standard X ray. Cant compare apples and pears in this case.
I can't have an MRI due to having Cochlear Implants.
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High heels, which after an hour resemble instruments of torture.
@Surenu, high heels are made to make visible the curve of the calves and thus refine the silhouette of the legs while they are a real device of torture which causes a whole bunch of musculoskeletal disorders just for the supposed pleasure of the eyes of some.
Load More Replies...High heels were originally created in the 10th century for persian cavalry so they could hook into stirrups. While they were designed by men, they were created for men.
Most high heels aren't well engineered, and unfortunately, there is no third party testing or anything like that.
I wonder if there's any way to engineer high heels so that they're comfortable to wear. I have High heel Crocs, can't get any more comfy than that, and even those cause my feet to bend in unnatural ways. High heels are stupid :-D
Load More Replies...I think high heels were originally designed for men. They wore them to keep human waste off their shoes
Actually, these were originally designed for men not women. We women just swiped the idea long after.
not just high heels but other things such as tights and skirts were also originally made for men...
I don't wear them. I do the ADHD swerve a lot, wearing heels and doing the ADHD swerve sounds like a good way to fall
Clothes - hardly any pockets, if they do, it's rare they they a a decent size that actually holds the items in.
Handbags - many are too small and useless for any woman carrying more than 1 card and a little bit of cash.
Seatbelts - they don't fit right because they were designed for breast-less people apparently.
Why buy a SMALL handbag, then complain that it's TOO SMALL? Yesterday I made soup. So I took out my 1 gallon pot and poured 2 gallons of water into it. What a piece of s**t, it was too small. How dare they make such small pots. Must have been designe by men.
The strange thing is, once upon a time women's clothes did have pockets! Pheasant women's skirts had either pockets sewn in, or they'd wear a purse underneath, tied to the hip and leg, and the skirts had a slit on the side so they could reach in and grab things from those purses. Back in the day when seamstresses were sewing women's clothes, they did have pockets, but during the industrial 'revolution' men took over and wanted to sell more women's purses to get more money. And that's why were stuck with clothes without pockets. But it isn't just women now. Every year they're making men's pockets less usable and promote the guy purse.
Well, those who use makeup usually have some products in their handbag; some of us have to carry dry/wet tissues as not every bathroom they use has toilet paper; plus (optionally) book, sanitary products, hairbrush, water bottle, medications, umbrella, nail file/scissors, textile grocery bag (because darn single use plastic), pepper spray (for those who work late), spare tights (for those with a srtict dress code in their workplace)...
Load More Replies...You really seem to have an odd vendetta against women based on all your comments in this thread. Grow up and get a life.
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The IUD was invented by Richard Richter in 1909 and the design was updated by Ernst Gräfenberg.
I was so unfortunate,that due to a stressful day, because of muscle contractions, the IUD literally broke. I had to have surgery to extract the half that didn't come out. The production company sent me a 160 page excerpt how I was to blame for this as the force produced by uterus muscle can be bigger than the breaking point of an IUD, so I just got the price of it reimbursed and was threatened that I am not allowed to publish this anywhere, or else I'd be sued for defamation. So thx,but no thx.
I once complained to Culligan's about their water softener constantly breaking down. Their answer was "You have hard water". My response on Yelp "Hard water is your business and if your equipment should be built to handle it so I will go elsewhere now." That said, I feel that an IUD should be able to handle some muscle contractions or it was built shoddily. I am so sorry this happened to you and you should have taken them to court, preferably in a class action. Because really, that is why they were threatening you, to bully you into not doing that and I have the feeling that you were not the first one that happened to either.
Load More Replies...It’s a little uncomfortable to put in or take out but I’ve had nearly 25 years of no pregnancy and no periods, I can’t complain
BTW, that's not an actual IUD in the above photo. It's a piece of jewelry.
Willing to bet the Dalkon Shield was developed by men. Well, pigs disguised as men.
Beyond the lack of pain relief with insertion, what's the issue? Maybe there is one, but are we just mad a man made it? I have tried several hormonal birth control options and have had terrible side effects. I love my copper iud. I have had 2 inserted. First was not a problem. The second hurt like a b***h. In defense if it, I was told to take an otc pain reliever before and I forgot, and it was inserted by a midwife in training. I willing gave permission to this, I was her first one and she struggled, lol. But after a day or two, there has been no issue.
Let's be real here: *most* things.
So this is pretty niche but I'm a fencer and the chest protectors that women are required to wear are shaped like a Barbie's boobs. I wrote a whole article about it which went absolutely viral in fencing spaces. We're working on a redesign but it's very hard to engineer something that works for all people and doesn't cost three times more. [https://www.wfencing.org/post/the-problem-with-chest-protectors](https://www.wfencing.org/post/the-problem-with-chest-protectors) The tl:dr is that they don't fit right and they don't scale well for larger people AT ALL (but they also don't scale well for small people). They are required because getting poked in the boobs really hard can give you a lump (not cancer, still bad). In the survey we did afterwards we also learned that they contribute to discomfort and dysmorphia among trans and nonbinary folks, and they lead to stupid comments and sometimes bullying among kids and teens. Edit: I mean fencing as in the sport in the Olympics where we hit each other with blunted swords. Not the fence in your backyard or the person selling stolen goods on the black market. Also, there are other styles of chest protectors beyond the barbie boobs but none of them really work for people who aren't very flat-chested. These are detailed in the linked post.
Many jousting based hema groups won't accept female students because if the breastplate isn't *perfectly* shaped to your breasts, it can and will paralyze or even decapitate you. It's a complicated issue. Stupid boobs being all booby and boobing around.
I've never heard of a jousting group that doesn't accept women. What country are you in?
Load More Replies...That’s what I thought… are there really that many trans and nonbinary people who fence that have this problem??
Load More Replies...Settle down SadieCat17...boobs aren't stupid and when they're being booby and boobing around, that's their nature. Be more supporting.
You sound like someone with a lack of boobing boobs
Load More Replies...99% of women's clothing? (no pockets, waist short enough for an oompa loompah that just gets wider never longer, underwear that scrunch up your a*s regardless of its modest size, pants that create muffin tops, pants that you can't bend your legs in because calf muscles apparently aren't fashionable, coochie splitting "jumpers" where the waist is never long enough, cold shirts with sleeves that track in everything, fragile s****y lacy shirts to be seen in / freeze in, jackets with no pockets, jeans and pants with no pockets, shoes you can't run in).
At least someone tries. As a man, we have one formal option available. Some woman needs to get on this issue.
Society.
This! We're told equality is happening because now women can be elected too, but perhaps we would have designed a completely different system if we'd been included from the beginning. If we had to start again from scratch now, nobody could argue for this corrupt system that benefits corrupt money grubbers most and leaves those doing the most vital jobs struggling to feed and house themselves.
I'm pretty sure cars? Last I heard, most or all crash tests are used with a male model, but that might've changed semi-recently.
The whole healthcare system as a concept.
Underwear, because it nearly never fits. Always rides up. Especially when those high cut 80s things came out there were no proper fitting ones anymore, eventually I found boyleg undies, but they are still different from what they used to make. Plus the double fabric is in the wrong place. Definitely must be designed by men, women wouldn’t do that.
i started using the boy short ones about 15 years ago and dont buy anything else. You can find them on amazon and if you're in the states try Ross. I got all mine there but they have been harder to find over the last few years.
My SO loves the way the boyshort ones look on me.
Load More Replies...Brazilian slips, only designed for ladies with flat bellies. Most ladies do not have flat bellies.
Bras for small breasts and wide backs 😡. It's either a sports bra or paying a limb to get something nicer BUT there's a store where l live especialised in big breasts-narrow frame, because apparently that's the only acceptable issue when it comes to bras.
I'm ordering corsets because thin straps cannot hold a lot of mass comfortably. I can't find nice wide strap bras anywhere. If only I could convince my male bone doctor that I need an augmentation then that is an option.
Load More Replies...I wear men's briefs unless it a date night. Keeps my pants up right. In my experience, women around me simply hated visible pantylines and would wear specific cuts that I hated. It 100% depends on how well it is made with ladies underwear. Unless it doesn't move right or the material sucks, cheapo men's shorts briefs still work well for anyone if you let go of what you look like under your clothing. They keep up leggings and tights so well for me!
Ah yes, you just love blaming women and speaking for us don't you?
Load More Replies...Tampax (and possibly other brands) tampons. It swells in length instead of getting wider when expanding. It's pushing you in spots nobody wants to ever feel pressure imo, it's just not correct anatomically speaking. Apparently, many got genuinely sick from using them due to this (I haven't seen any official reports tbf, just reading it up on the internet and some anecdotal evidence) and it's causing pain for others, including me. It hurt like hell, and definitely was not comfortable at all at any point. You just cannot not feel it. When I lived in the UK, I either had to spend a smaller fortune on buying OB tampons from various sites on the internet or ask someone to bring me some when they were visiting a country that had them, as they're not being sold in the UK. I tried several other brands, including Lidl and drugstores' own brands, and while OB was the best in my opinion, most were not as uncomfortable as Tampax was besides a few. I do apologise for not naming more, but Tampax is the most common as far as I've seen and I've tried so many brands I just can't remember their names. Edit:typo.
Well known UK brand Lil-Lets expand width wise. It's pretty much their whole advertising campaign so whilst I agree that length wise expansion makes no sense, alternatives should have been easy to find.
I do use lit-lets (only use tampons on occasion though) and they work quite well- a little uncomfortable but not too bad.
Load More Replies...I changed to a cup 9 years ago because tampons were drying me out. Best decision.
Many of those use bleach in their tampons as well. Bleach does not belong in your vagina. I use the brand L., and they are all natural and expand in width.
Tampons in a cardboard applicator.
Once i got a paper cut from inserting one. Not a fun day
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Toilet cubicles - never enough room for sanitary bins.
I bought a last-minute dress for my father-in-law's funeral last week where the top bit was a wraparound with poppers to essentially keep your breasts in. I had to sit there in church praying they wouldn't pop open at possibly the worst occasion imaginable (although my partner said his dad would have actually found that hilarious). Yeah, men please stop designing women's clothes, thanks.
You just have bigger boobs, not every person that wears a certain size has the same breast measurement, this smells like a flex, a sad one
Ah bless, you must really f*****g hate women Timbob.
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Leggings with a seam in the crotch.
You have never seen leggings sewn along the length of the leg? Plenty of leggings that aren't sewn at the c****h.
Load More Replies...Tons of leggings are sewn along the length, the seam goes left to right along your taint
Load More Replies...Any female outfit in mmorpg.
Yes, they’re inconvenient and impractical, unrealistic and uncomfortable… but I do greatly enjoy looking at boobs. I do think there should be equal sexualization of the male characters though.
False. Plenty of women in game design make female outfits in those games. Even ones you'd think were made by men. Some of us want to look hot while slaying things is that so wrong?
Plenty of women in game design are given design briefs they have to work with lest the manchildren have a cry about not being able to see enough tit on a toon.
Load More Replies...I once read an argument that female outfits and characters were ideal due to a smaller critical strike scale or something... Sure TitMan69 sure...
This made me laugh and remember a video called Chainmail Bikini Squad that as a gamer, had me cracking up. Look it up, watch episode 1, they are short and funny af
Lab coats. Totally random, but mine makes me look awful. Like a teletubby. Also, the sleeves are too long in the size that fits me. Have to roll them up. The buttons pop open on the chest and hip every day. My boyfriend, meanwhile, looks like a pinup. We finally have custom Rx safety glasses! Where are the custom lab coats?!.
Be careful what you wish for - someone will probably come out with a pink one if you keep pestering them...
Ok, this is really true. I recently got access to the labs at the uni, which means I needed a PC1 and PC2 labcoat. PC2 was ok because it was like tie up at the back, I could choose a size that like fitted me properly - not too big. But my PC1, the usual button up coat, I had to get a massive one (way too long, way too big, arms too long, etc) just because of breasts.
There are lab coats made specifically for women, just Google "lab coats for women." I wore "feminine-cut" lab coats all the time when I was in clinic & wear "feminine cut" coveralls now when I do the occasional farm call. I also wouldn't say this is exclusive to women. One of my techs was huge like a wrestler, and his mom made his scrubs by hand because his arms were jacked and didn't fit into regular scrubs.
Same argument for medical scrubs - no room for titties or XXX size that bags at the bum.
In the poster’s defense, lab coats don’t accomodate for breasts or people with different arm lengths well. It’s not a woman-specific problem per se, but it affects them disproportionately to men.
Load More Replies...Not quite what you were looking for but skincare and cosmetics. It was still a largely male dominated industry up until the 90s. In many countries the key decision makers in “big beauty retail” is still men. Men still hold most of the purse strings in the industry people just don’t know it or are too lazy to recognise it.
The car park ticket machine thingys that you have to get juuuust close enough that you can still reach the machine without your wing mirrors hitting it. Men are simply taller and thus have longer arms whereas us short girlies must suffer. :(.
Do you even read the comments that you're commenting on?
Load More Replies...Gym equipment. It doesn't matter how I adjust them, I am still too short/small to use them properly which often strains my back.
I understand some people in the comments are insufferable but this is rather rude with so many assumptions?
Load More Replies...Not as much these days, but kitchens. More men cook now than previously, but kitchens are still used more by women, and mostly designed by men. My husband was a good cook, we shared the kitchen. But things I couldn't reach were no problem for him. We both hated the kitchen in this house, (I still do) but we never got around to changing it. TBH, I don't know how well the average person, any make or model, would do at designing a kitchen. You'd have to build 'em and use 'em to find the flaws, and figure out how to do it better. Things don't always work in practice, as well as they looked on paper. Or in the computer program.
I have the opposite problem, kitchen counters are usually too short for me, making my back ache from bending. I custom built my kitchen and bathroom counters and the contactor was making comments like how will my children be able to reach the countertops (as if there aren't any stools they could use smh)
Same. I designed my own kitchen and made the counter tops etc as high as possible. Am now looking forward to redoing the bathroom where the sink still is at thigh height.
Load More Replies...The 'company housing' I lived in for a year at a temp job had been remodeled by the charity I was working for, and students from the local engineering school. Pretty sure the kitchen was designed by a man, at least 6' tall, who didn't cook or clean. I'm about 5'6, my housemate was shorter. Most of the functional cabinets, we couldn't reach. The microwave was so high that I couldn't reach the back to clean it. Our stepstool saw a lot of use. There was barely any usable counter space because of the position of the sink. Almost the whole thing was crammed onto one wall, leaving a large, empty expanse of linoleum that did nothing but collect mud from shoes coming in the back door, which we would have to mop. They also missed some great opportunities to customize for the very specific purposes of this property - an appliance garage would be a good use of space in a house where people aren't going to be bringing a full household of dishes, but will bring coffee makers and popcorn poppers.
This is silly. Buy the kitchen with the height of the counter set to whatever YOU need it on. If you buy a house that comes with a kitchen DON'T BLAME PATRIARCHY. Buy a new one. If you can't afford it don't cry because you have to use something made for someone else.
Average height women would still find it too high. The standard is designed for an average height man. As are over bench cupboards.
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“Chick cars” that still don’t have anywhere to put your handbag if you have a passenger.
I just have to say it... I carry a huge bag, not a purse and it goes in the back seat of whatever I happen to be driving. I'm not sure why this is such an issue or why people posting potential 'solutions' are being downvoted so hard, so I expect to be to.
Because If you are alone you can put it on the seat but when you break it flies or in the passenger footwell is ok but I still don't love it because that's where dirty shoes lay. If you have a passenger your solution isn't good either, your purse is where your car keys, garage opener, wallet and phone are, when driving you are going to need them (phone for music and navigation, wallet to pay tolls or parking garages)so you put the bag in the back and manually take this stuff out and carry it to the front, trying to juggle this s**t in your hand, which is an hassle, or you have the purse with you in the front and then you have to chuck it behind you, where it lands, it lands. If all the seats are taken you are s**t it of luck, purse goes in the trunk, good luck if you have a sniffle and want to get a tissue out at a red light.i know it's minor inconveniences but you know, we made frigging cupholders but not something for the holder of all the most important items of half the population
Load More Replies...Ah bless, the amount of triggered man children in the comments complaining that it’s always women’s faults for these things and we need to change them. I love how they are trying to speak for all of us. 😂
I think if they LISTENED to us and involved us in the creations, they could actually create decent products for us. I feel like it should become the norm for women to design products and not have their ideas dismissed, and if men could learn to give us the space for that, and create a safe environment for our voices to be heard, many of us wouldn't feel the need to create that space for ourselves. When men get upset about the generalizations that we make about them, it can be really frustrating for us, because they're completely missing the fact that we make those generalizations to create a safe space for ourselves and other women to share the hurt and pain that we feel and our desire to feel safe and valued in society. Yes, I can see why men see it as an attack, but many of us don't actually believe it's all men, what we're saying is that when we leave our safe circles (or if we don't really have much of one) and go out into society, we lose that feeling of safety, we are focused on
protecting ourselves because if we don't, and we get hurt, the system isn't designed to take our emotional, mental, and even physical safety into account. We have no way to know if the people who say they can help us, will or can help us. We have no way to know who is going to tell us "well you didn't do enough to protect yourself so you have to take responsiblity' while simultaneuously telling the man " we all make mistakes, just don't do it again"
Load More Replies...Mind you woman can and do design things for woman that are just as bad. Example plus size bras designed by woman who have no idea how heavy breast tissue is and how uncomfortable underwire and back hooks are (specific to nz where I was told that they don't design bras for those with mobility issues because it's not their style)
There's a s**t ton of grown men complaining in this comment section as well for your information..
Load More Replies...Ah bless, the amount of triggered man children in the comments complaining that it’s always women’s faults for these things and we need to change them. I love how they are trying to speak for all of us. 😂
I think if they LISTENED to us and involved us in the creations, they could actually create decent products for us. I feel like it should become the norm for women to design products and not have their ideas dismissed, and if men could learn to give us the space for that, and create a safe environment for our voices to be heard, many of us wouldn't feel the need to create that space for ourselves. When men get upset about the generalizations that we make about them, it can be really frustrating for us, because they're completely missing the fact that we make those generalizations to create a safe space for ourselves and other women to share the hurt and pain that we feel and our desire to feel safe and valued in society. Yes, I can see why men see it as an attack, but many of us don't actually believe it's all men, what we're saying is that when we leave our safe circles (or if we don't really have much of one) and go out into society, we lose that feeling of safety, we are focused on
protecting ourselves because if we don't, and we get hurt, the system isn't designed to take our emotional, mental, and even physical safety into account. We have no way to know if the people who say they can help us, will or can help us. We have no way to know who is going to tell us "well you didn't do enough to protect yourself so you have to take responsiblity' while simultaneuously telling the man " we all make mistakes, just don't do it again"
Load More Replies...Mind you woman can and do design things for woman that are just as bad. Example plus size bras designed by woman who have no idea how heavy breast tissue is and how uncomfortable underwire and back hooks are (specific to nz where I was told that they don't design bras for those with mobility issues because it's not their style)
There's a s**t ton of grown men complaining in this comment section as well for your information..
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