30 Things That Were Screwed Up By The Covid Pandemic Quite Severely And Possibly Irreparably
2020 was a wild year. When January began, the vast majority of us never anticipated that only a few short months later, the world would be a completely different place. Toilet paper shortages, lockdowns, mask mandates, and a devastating pandemic swept across the globe at a rapid pace. And while COVID certainly hasn’t been eradicated yet, the world has gone “back to normal” more or less.
However, the lasting impacts of the pandemic aren’t going anywhere any time soon. Redditors have recently been discussing things that have never been the same since 2020, so we’ve gathered some of their thoughts down below. Enjoy reading through these replies that might make you miss pre-pandemic life, and be sure to upvote the ones you agree with!
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My faith in the general intelligence and common sense of people.
The decline of general intelligence because of social media, especially with kids and young adults. TikTok plays a HUGE part in this - posting meaningless, stupid challenges, youth dying from said challanges, and doing dangerous stunts for fame.
And the spread of conspiracy theories then exploded because people now lack the sense to recognize a preposterous claim.
Load More Replies...It's due to the political imbalance and social media. Liberal's are not always perfect, but they tend to rely on science and facts you can prove. Conservatives have devolved to a point where they just lie about everything. And now they're dismantling fact checking on social media wherever they can so they can be free to just lie and lie and gaslight. And since the stupid way is the easy way, more and more people are adopting it. You can blame social media all you want, but lying and making people dumber has become a populist political movement
Yes, this!! I can't believe just how many anti-mask, COVID denying, anti-vax morons there were. Of course there's a lot less of them now..
Isn't it more telling about one's mental health, rather than the people in general ? Like, the increase in depression and dooming tendencies is real and can make people see others in a dark light. But did people really become stupid and selfish or do we just see seem that way because we are more depressed and pessimistic ?
It ruined the phrase "avoid it like the plague" because it's obvious alot folks did not like to avoid plagues.
A lot of people in the USA still believe COVID did not exist and there was no need for masks or vaccinations.
"Why would anyone avoid a hoax ?"...(said a lot of those people before they died of covid)
True. You know, I bet there were folks way back when, who denied the existence of the Black Plague. I don't know how, but there probably were. "Everyone's blowing this out of proportion. This isn't that serious. More people die of dysentery. I heard that from the Vulpine News Cryer."
I used to say ' I can't come to ... I have the plague' when I was begging off a commitment when sick. Can't say that anymore.
Everything, cost-wise. All companies use "supply chain" issues to drive up their prices and lower the quality of their items.
Just bought a practical pallet of Cottonelle TP., which I stack a few rolls of in a sort of tower under the horizontal roll. I always get the “mega” size cos “jumbo” is too big. The price for 40-pack has gone up by $7 and the rolls are a full inch diameter smaller. There’s zero supply-chain issues. It’s 100% hitting the shareholder marks for whatever conglomerate owns the brand.
Load More Replies...Conservatives blame Biden for the inflation when corporations world wide have reported record high profits.
Go back a few years prior, when the talking orange declared a trade war against the nation who just happened to be the largest supplier of goods imported to the US. "I like trade wars, they're easy to win" was the exact quote he used as he slapped a 25% tariff on everything coming in from China. Well, then the price of fuel went up right with the cost of those goods and they still can't get a handle on it. There's often an economic downturn after an election while the administration coming in to power is felt out, then things level up. It hasn't happened that way, the "business community" is so pi$$ed off over the Biden administration that they are reacting much the same way as they did to the Carter administration. The brain-dead republicans refuse to work with the dems to alleviate the pressures put on folks making less than 500k per year. Makes me want to break my Lee Greenwood records.
Load More Replies...Supply chain issues is part of it, inflation plays a significant role...but supply and demand is pretty substantial. My wife and i run our own business, a large part of which is designing and printing branded packaging, cards, tags, invitations etc... in the past 4 years our sales have increased 600% compared to pre-pandemic, and our prices have risen to almost double of what they were pre-pandemic. Partly because taxes have increased after every government in the world hemorrhaged money during the pandemic, but primarily because every product we buy, and service we use in related to our business has become nearly twice as expensive. Shipping prices have nearly doubled, a 250 sheet ream of cardstock has risen from $6.53 to $14.79, ink and toner prices have more than doubled. And baseline tax rate is going to rise 60% next year, while VAT is going to rise another 3%. Most people aren't happy about having to raise their prices, but we don't have any choice.
So is Biden also running the UK then? Please crawl back from whatever rock you slithered out from and let the adults carry on the conversation.
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People. People are so outwardly mean, antagonistic, and proudly uninformed now. We’ve lost all sense of a social contract.
It seems to me everyone's even more self-centered than before the pandemic. I do not recall so many calls on loudspeaker/blasting videos or such on phone loudspeakers without headphones. I wouldn't surprised if this behavior has increased because people got used to being able to do this at home without bothering anyone, but now that they have to move about outside again, amongst other people, they can't go back to the proper ways.
Personal electronics playing at head splitting volume is not a new phenomenon by any means. In the 70's thru the 80's there were "boom boxes" that would make you crazy. Google it, it was not fun. People were always self centered, bordering on just plain mean. The difference is that it was typically inside the home where this was expressed. People had self control that is sorely lacking now. When you encountered overtly hateful people in the world, they were labeled "hoods" and typically shunned. Now it seems that louder and more hateful people are celebrated as some kind of free speech heroes. It's just becoming more overt.
Load More Replies...Trump became the hero of rude hatefilled people. He made it OK to show that behavior in public and be proud of it. People now believe that being dishonest, not paying ones bills, and firing anyone who disagrees with you is the path to riches and success.
That's a consequence of the loneliness epidemic and started way before COVID. It's the result of the supremacy of individualistic values and the fact we are more and more like isolated islands. It's sad but empathy needs practice.
Masks. It used to be we could respectfully wear a mask while we were sick, making sure we didn't get anyone else sick. Now, here in Texas, we have idiots who will scream at you for wearing a mask. Dude...I'm trying to not get YOU sick. I'm trying to be considerate, but somehow we've made that into something political.
That does seem to be a USA thing. Other countries were doing it before the pandemic. Here in the UK some people still wear masks when they go to the doctors and hospital, I've never seen so much as a raised eyebrow.
That is because these days in the USA half the country is proud of being poorly educated, anti-science, religious fanatics, and authoritarian rule fans.
Load More Replies...I teach highschool. It was interesting to see how about a third of the students (and a third of the teachers) came up with all sorts of reasons why they couldn't (or just plain wouldn't) wear a mask.
Fwiw, some of those disposable masks destroyed my face. I had an infection and a rash that was blistering. Then I bought some really expensive organic cotton ones and 🪄 magic ✨, it slowly healed. 😄
Load More Replies...YET, if you started coughing people would call you out for being rude and disrespectful. You cant win in this red vs. blue environment.
I live in a rural area of Austin, TX about an hour NW. My little town is still nice and nobody bothers you.
I think this may be situational to where the OP lives. Where we currently live in Texas, elderly & those with compromised immunity are still encouraged to wear masks, and it is not uncommon to see people going about their every day business with masks on.
In the USA, some politicians made it political because they wanted people to work. Florida, for example, had very little unemployment benefits because of choices the (Republican) leaders made. So, people were then brainwashed into thinking it is all BS, and were instead encouraged to keep working during the pandemic.
Wow, you are sadly lacking facts, but keep spouting the BS. Fauci admitted to approving financing "gain of function", that the masks don't work, 6 ft. distancing, etc etc. but keep up the lies.
Load More Replies...When someone like those guys approached me with those claims, I frantically began coughing in front of them, trying to articulate: "Sorry... tuberculosis... sorry... but you are right... let me..."
Some states had the nerve to pass laws AGAINST requiring masks!!! that was insane. I recently went to a Cancer Center to have my mammogram and the sign says "masks are suggested" I was only one who wore one...it's a Cancer Center for crying out loud!!!
Covid ruined the tipping culture. Now I'm expected to tip everyone, everywhere. I'm so sick of having a tablet shoved in my face with tip choices at fast food places.
Next step "Would you like to tip your ATM?"
Load More Replies...I'm really not trying to sound like jerk, but it's not my job to support your employees. Big bosses need to not take million dollar bonuses. Example while I was working I had to grab a snack the store was completely automated including when you picked out your items you put it on the counter and the camera scanned it and rang you up, I had zero interactions with any human and when I went to pay it wanted me to tip.. (sky deck in Vail)
It is a sad and discouraging fact that people who can get tips, are desperate for as many as possible so they can survive. They have actually seen some traction this way, whereas they never have asking for a raise.
Load More Replies...They are forced to harass customers to get tips as corporations and Republican congress people still refuse to pay a decent minimum wage. But the cost of living has increased something like 100% in the last ten years.
I imagine, if we ask our European friends, this is an American problem, because our food service industry doesn't pay its workers very much because they expect customers to leave tips.
seriously. if all you did was pass my food out a window, you're not getting a bloody tip
Conspiracy theories. They used to be about fun s**t like aliens and lizardmen. Now they’re just self esteem props for the dumbest f***s you went to school with.
And many of those rude, hate fill, dumb jerks we went to school with got jobs where they are bosses.
I had a reply to my comment about Project2025 on YouTube. They said enough with the conspiracies. Dude, I shared the official website and both the right and left major news outlets have been talking about it.
So they're actually hiring for Project2025. I'm applying just in case. Yeah, I'm actually Green Party, peace and love y'all, but I think a few of us can dismantle it from the inside. Who's with me?
Load More Replies...They didn’t used to be about fun shït. They’ve been about anti-vax, anti-climate change, deep state and generally anti-science since well before the pandemic. Not to mention the lizard people one has roots in anti-semitism.
it didnt help that many people seriously beileved in said aliens and lizardmen. they should never have been a concept.
A problem ... many if not most COVID Conspiracy theories ... proved to be truth
My trust in the United States government.
My trust in the US government took a huge nosedive for quite a few other reasons.
I am a person who grew up during the Viet Nam war. The government was never something to be trusted. But neither are right wing conspiracy websites or alternative health practitioners.
For sure. Remember the "casualty counts" that was supposed to give some legitimacy to the whole thing? Might makes right I suppose, but it didn't take a Rhodes Scholar to figure out that we were being told it was raining by folks pi$$ing on our legs.
Load More Replies...What I don't get is why the presidential candidates are the same two that we've had for the duration of the pandemic. All policies and questionable support of starting a dictatorship aside, it seems like we should be trying to put someone in office who is not a painful reminder of the lost years of the pandemic.
they are the only ones with experience, unfortunately.
Load More Replies...My Trust in US Government: Steadily Evaporating Since 1974 (I know stuff happened before that but that's the first I actually remember)
Just remember folks, we put them in power...that's why I vote for Cthulhu!
With all due respect, we never were supposed to trust the US Government. That is the whole point of our charter of rights and constitution. Power in the hands of humans will eventually always end badly...we have to keep them accountable.
The medical industry. So many got burnt out and left and the shortages are still a huge issue so healthcare is suffering. They deserve the break or need to leave but their absence is causing a huge void.
Edit: the replies to my comment make me want to write thank you notes to all of my doctors. I have a disability that requires a lot of them and while I’m thankful in person to them and their staff, maybe writing thank you in the portals would help - and cards for when I go in person. I appreciate all of you in healthcare for ALL that you do. We need to continue to bang our pots and pans and speak up for better conditions for you all - in every tier of the field in every country because this is universal. You are STILL the heroes.
Yeah, got mistreated by doctors (the paternalistic kind of treatment that reduces you to data). But it's crystal clear it's not because they are evil but because they lack means, time, and a proper context to see and treat their patients like human being.
As a nurse, we were understaffed and burnt out before, we are even more understaffed and burnt out now BUT during the pandemic we showed the people in charge that we can manage to work even under the most stressful conditions and with not nearly enough staff, so they aren't exactly rushing to replace the missing personnel. Yay?
Fellow nurse here. All the veterans and travellers are being replaced by new grads because so many experienced nurses quit. There wasn't a real shortage before, that was just an excuse to spread us thin. NOW there is a real shortage
Load More Replies...My hubby is a doctor and during lockdown I rarely saw him. He had his regular work week of clinic, cath lab, OR and on call yet also took two ED/Trauma shifts per week because his specialty & experience made him valuable to ♡/lung issues and intubation. That’s an additional 20-30 hours atop his usual 50-60. Mind you, in full PPE for at least 40 of those hours. My admiration for him & every employee right down to the part-time gift shop cashier grew beyond comprehension. They’re all my absolute heroes.
The clinic I work for is booked out for 13 months for the next appointments. Think you have skin cancer? Welp, better hope not!
I'm a nurse who is not working as a nurse. I'm totally burned out, and can't imagine I will ever work in the medical field again. I graduated college in 1996. I've had every substance a body can produce on me at some different point. I have been threatened. I have been assaulted. I'm tired of doing the work of five people and barely making enough to support my family. There are never enough breaks. There are never enough staff to meet the demands of all the patients. Everyone's always mad. It's not worth it. This is not why people get into healthcare. I feel I wasted my money on my education. I used to love medicine.
Please provide reliable data to support your "Vax didn't do much" statement. "Internet research" doesn't count.
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People's trust in healthcare professionals thanks to rapid proliferation of misinformation and an explosion in the number of anti-vaxxers after the release of the vaccine.
The disdain for education and knowledge shown by so many is utterly sad. Ignorance is a disease that needs to be eradicated like smallpox and polio. Ignorance is dangerous and leads to a society full of suspicion and suffering.
I don't have a problem with ignorance. I'm ignorant of a lot of things. It's willful ignorance I can't stand. Some people are proud to be willfully ignorant.
Load More Replies...Don't forget the healthcare professionals who joined into the misinformation about COVID. Physicians who actually denied it. 😬
Christian ideology and evangelicals have ruined this once normal country
Hold up now... this was something never seen in 100 years ...they were making their judgments based on past experience with other viruses... the science was changing quickly and so was their advice... I feel like they did their best to keep up, but yes it could REALLY have been better if a certain Administration would present the facts and not the lies
My work is full of irony. We produce injectable medicines, and so many of the guys on the fill lines are anti-vaxxers and conservative twatwaffles. They do the job for the money. But if they really believed in those values they wouldn't be selling out for money now would they?
Even a highly educated surgeon can be a narrow minded person. I went to an orthopedic surgeon about neck pain. All he could suggest was a spinal fusion. I demanded he send me to try physical therapy first. He reluctantly did. I now feel like a million bucks just from doing daily exercises and avoided the surgery.
Surgeons see everything in terms of cutting. A referral to PT by your primary care might have been easier.
Load More Replies...Thank goodness. Apparently corporate greed doesn't apply to big pharma and insurance companies according to the masses of lab rats.
In science, the conclusions change when new facts are discovered. What happens to your conclusions when you discover new facts?
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Social skills. I strongly feel those have plummeted over the pandemic and everybody is okay with acting like a complete maniac sometimes.
rather have you around than an influencer with big lips
Load More Replies...It isn't that social skills have suffered, it is that antisocial behavior has increased.
That might be a generational thing though. Younger people seem to be more tolerant of some behavioral issues.
I feel like my social skills have declined. It's one reason why I don't really socialise that much any more.
Mine, too in a way because I work from home... even before the pandemic where people were working from home
Load More Replies...Product quality is suddenly gone to s**t and companies don't care for it.
Especially food items contaminated with listeria... as a country we can't produce food items without them being tainted with something horrible
Load More Replies...Suddenly? I am 61, this has been a thing for a couple decades. But by all means, keep electing folks who protect those poor, misunderstood companies who are under the delusion they are great employers and the workers are satisfied.
Virtual learning did a huge disservice to the youth. We're going to see the results of that very soon.
I had to teach online through the pandemic. Absolutely pointless. Surprisingly, some children were not even properly equipped to participate (or said so as an excuse). Most importantly: so many distractions at home. And general lack of concentration made worse by having to stare at a screen for a long time. Understandably so, even I was bored out of my mind by the online conferences with my colleagues.
They did what they could do. The pandemic came on so quickly that no one had any time to prepare for it.
Oh I was under the impression that it was all Trumps fault. No?
Load More Replies...I've already seen one huge problem with the kids who were in Grade 1 or Grade 2 during the pandemic (when they finally went back to school, they were 1 week on, 1 week off to keep numbers in classes down). Their reading and comprehension skills are way below what they should be, and a lot of them mix up lower case b and d. And I teach Grade 5 - I have no spare hours at ALL to try and fix this, especially not with the large number of children.
Most first and second graders have always mixed up those letters. That is not because of a pandemic and being taught at home. Once the kids get back in school, they will get back into the swing of things. And any child that does have difficulty with reading comprehension can be helped..
Load More Replies...I live in the U.S., and I really think that if families had gotten more support the virtual learning might have gone better. We homeschooled long before the pandemic, but we also had one non-working parent in the home who could focus all of their energy on that. It was something we planned and prepared for before our kids were even school age. During the pandemic, families who never expected to homeschool suddenly found themselves doing it while still having to hold down full-time jobs - and that's if they were lucky enough to not lose their job. It was an incredibly stressful time to suddenly find yourself homeschooling. The government could have taken a lot of stress and strain off families (and educators) by providing more support instead of turning the entire thing into a politically driven sh*tshow.
This could have (and even still could be) combatted by parents that actually gave a c**p about their children's education, though. While I totally understand that not all parents are equipped or even able to properly fully (or even mostly) educate their children on their own, they could have done SOMETHING (and still could do more). The pandemic did help to create and make known some resources that were not available prior-or people didn't know about anyway. All throughout the pandemic I tutored kids and even some young adults. I helped assist parents and even a bunch of teachers who were quite unaware of what resources already existed-or were created during the pandemic. We did this, not the pandemic....we, society, we failed these children from the word go. The pandemic only highlighted an already existing problem (and ftr, it wasn't just the US, half of those I worked with were outside of the US).
Speaking from the US: Virtual learning as opposed to the education system that produces 70m Trump supporters.
What??? How did you do that? We were all having a decent and respectful conversation about how kids did after virtual learning and you had to throw this in????
Load More Replies...I ran a tutoring group for 1st graders (6-7 years old) during the pandemic to help them manage online school. I sat through every class with them and made sure they were able to access the correct materials and do what they were supposed to be doing. It worked well and the parents were happy with the results. However there were kids in the class that were clearly unsupervised and for them online school was a waste of time. They also frequently disrupted our class with their behavior. The teacher tried her best, but without physically being in the same room with them she had little recourse. I realize it was hard on parents too, but leaving your 6 year old alone with a computer all day and not making sure they were adequately prepared is quite irresponsible.
It really highlighted income disparity, ie the kids whose families could afford internet, and those that could not.
From what I read many places provided what was needed for each family. I know our little town did.
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Everyone’s mental health.
My mental health was terrible before the lockdown, but it was much easier during it. Everything delivered to my house? And I actually saw my friends more than ever, they'd stop by to hang out at my house instead of a loud bar or whatever which I would have avoided.
Load More Replies...Not necessarily true. There are people who started on-line courses, who discoverd new hobbies, who started to do the shopping for people in quarantine, in short who found a new calling in life. My guess is that it's difficult for many people to just be themselves and with themselves without outside distractions.
Wirk from home flourished. For people like me, too injured to travel even short distances, it opened the ability to work again.
Load More Replies...I actually loved the lockdowns myself. I loved having time to myself and spending time with my family. And before anyone crãps on my parade, I didn't get any govt money for sitting on my ãss at home doing nothing.
Don't include me. I atleast knew my daughter wouldn't get shot at school
i barely even noticed the pandemic. it was literally just numbers on a screen to me.
It was the happiest time of my life my weekly unemployment check was 5x higher than when i worked plus I didn't have to leave the house. I think like 60% of people are introverts but like everything that's on a spectrum so some people enjoyed it more than others I suppose.
Congrats, you & everyone else who made more $$$ sitting around doing nothing has contributed to the economic shitshow/inflation the U.S. is in. But thank God YOU were happy! 🙄🙄🙄
Load More Replies... Journalism.
_Iknoweh_:
I think the decline in trustworthy news started before the pandemic, but boy did it aggravate it.
Laws should be amended to make it easier to sue the news media for lies. FOX News was sued and claimed they were not a news channel but they were an entertainment channel. And that anyone who could not recognize that was a fool. FOX executives essentially called all their viewers idiots.
We used to have a law called the Fairness Doctrine. You could not lie on the news and had to give a balanced view. I'll give you one guess which party did away with that. The same one who voted to legalize AR15 rifles and bump stocks. Hint: It wasn't the Democrats.
Load More Replies...Journalism started dying after 9/11 when cable news channels like CNN realized they could make more money by sensationalizing everything. Then Fox and MSNBC joined up and the three started telling people things they wanna hear. If we want to fix the problem we have to change laws to require informational programming that is free of advertising. Their corporate owners are wealthy enough they can afford it. Also, we need a permanent tax of $5-10 per person per year to publicly fund informational programming that is independent of government.
NPR/PBS is still my go to, yes they swerve left from time to time( and I DO call them on it as we all should), but still assume I am intelligent enough to form an opinion by giving both sides.
Everything, seemingly. I think the world actually ended in 2020 and we’re all in hell now but we haven’t figured it out yet.
Before the pandemic, I was merely convinced that humanity would bring about its own end someday. Now, it's more than that: I'm starting to think the times of plenty are over, and I had taken it for granted. Now, I believe everything will get both more expensive and sh*ttier (with no salary raises, mind you), until the end will come.
I wish I could convince you that this is a north American thing and the rest of the world is fine
Manners. No one seems to have any manners- restaurants have feral children running around, movie theaters have people talking through the entire movie.
Whenever I hear people whine about the youth of today, I'm reminded that the exact same complaint goes all the way back to Cicero and Socrates, and it basically consists of an old person going "Why don't the youngs listen to ME???"
Except I was raised with manners ....I loved to go to restaurants and public places, I behaved myself even as a toddler... there's no excuse to be rude and inconsiderate
Load More Replies...Ot is not because of COVID but because of zero discipline when growing up for avoiding "children anxiety"
I had manners drilled into me from a young age. People's behavior now often makes me cringe. And yes, I will judge people based on their manners.
My kids might get rowdy at a restaurant but just at our table. Who be letting their kids run around a restaurant?! Very inconsiderate
24-hour stores and supply chains. Even today, more than four years later there's still things out of stock and hard to find.
m1kz93:
Not only was it 24/7 stores, but also stores that opened at 7am, and closed at 11pm. Now it's 9am-9pm.
Or stores that were once 24/7 now close every night. I work a very late 2nd shift half the time and get off around 1-2am. Nothing is open anymore if I need some groceries or whatever. Walmart was the go-to and I don't think they'll ever go back to 24/7.
the weirdest product for me that suddenly became scarce during the pandemic was kitty litter. specifically the cheaper no name store brand packs from lidl or aldi. Of course, the more high end brands were still available, but at like three times the cost of the cheap stuff.
Every so often something goes to a hard shortage. Never a reason given. Also 24 hour opening has ended across the board and staff have been cut to the bone in supermarkets. Harder to serve customers and stock the shelves. People will only buy exactly what they need because it's annoying to shop now. Less choice, less time, higher prices for less stuff of lower qualities. They'll wonder why their profits plunge..
"I went down the street to the 24-hour grocery. When I got there, the guy was locking the front door. I said, 'Hey, the sign says you're open 24 hours.' He said, 'Yes, but not in a row.'" - Steven Wright
Live music... went from anywhere between the hours of 8 PM to 1 AM or longer. Now, even some Friday shows start at 5 PM and are done by 9 and the bar closes at 10 to 11. Like, I can understand weekdays but weekends?
They are "out of stock" due to the ability to increase price because of "demand".
I was a nurse (now retired) so worked every shift under the sun. But I've never been shopping at night, or out of 'normal hours' - for me 7am to 9pm max. Store workers deserve normal lives too - just plan ahead. However, lorries drove overnight for the supply chain since the 40's in the UK.
Supply chain in every industry because the world really does exist on supply and demand
Streaming services. The pandemic saw an influx of subscribers and thus and influx of profits. They are still chasing after those profits even though they no longer have the same number of subscribers. Also, the pandemic made every media organization think they should have their own service and as such you now pay more for less content or pay cable like prices across multiple services thereby negating the benefits of chord cutting.
The pandemic may have accelerated this a bit, but that's the inevitable direction things were headed in for years prior. It's the same story with every "disruptive" tech/service that's attempting to replace an existing service that does essentially the same thing....the only difference is the new thing gets to enjoy a lack of regulation for some period of time.
Streaming services want profits. Big pharma is honest and wants you to be healthy and happy
A chance for a fair and reasonable life if you have a regular job.
Supported wife and 2 kids by my working a factory job. LOTS of overtime... was tough, but we did it. One thing that has been lost is the ability to look at the olders and see not much has really changed except prices.
My sense of age. I don't even know how old I am anymore. Like ofc I know but it doesn't feel correct.
I know how this feels, it's like everyone jumped ahead two years but didn't live the time.
It's like there's this strange hole in our collective memories. February 2020 to February 2023 was only about 6 to 8 months, right?
About a million lives.
Yes. Whenever I encounter someone who says masks and vaccinations were unnecessary, I tell them that those millions of people who died from COVID before the vaccine was available would 100% disagree.
My temper goes from 0-60 in a second when I meet people like that. We lost people.
Load More Replies...I didn't get it until November, 2023. It was the second sickest that I have been in my whole life and I ain't young.
I hope you're looking at excess deaths figures as well .. try OECD data
Genuine human interaction. Feels weird and technological now.
chronicallyillbrain:
It feels like we all transitioned to being chronically online during quarantine and never fully transitioned back
I am autistic and all of my social skills were learned by rote and kept fresh with practice. I lost a lot of them during lockdown and I don't have the energy to do it anymore.
I'm autistic and felt this way for a while as well, but I'm trying different things, and engaging in different ways. Before the pandemic, I never would have come to or posted on a site like BP. But, I've found that the interaction has been really helpful. I get to *hear* so many different stories & perspectives from people all over the world. We laugh, we argue, we talk about our lives, it's really rather fascinating. It's also reminded me that I do actually like to be social, and I've made more of an effort to rekindle many of the connections that were there pre-pandemic.
Load More Replies...Genuine human interaction can suck. I got used to social distancing so much, that i don't want to go back.
As a socially inept introvert with an anxiety disorder, so has been chronically online her entire life... It was interesting when suddenly everyone became one and lost their collective minds after five minutes. "Okay so imagine that x15 years and then we'll talk."
At least stores are figuring out that self check-out is not working.
IRL Shopping. I went to four different stores (Rite aid, CVS, Safeway, and friggin Walmart) just to get some Neutrogena body wash and the only place that had it was charging like $14 for it. Found it on Amazon for $8, goddamnit.
Yes. I was shocked to find the half filled deodorant container I buy is over $9 now.
But it's taught me to look at alternatives (often cheaper) If I can't find my favourite brand then I've often been pleasantly surprised about how much other good stuff is out there (Some absolute bloopers excepted)
How much did they get 20 litres of the stuff 🤔 costs under £2 for the big bottle.
How is it that we can't say DEAD RAPE SUICIDE D***S and yet somebody actually curses in a post and it doesn't get censored by the BP police? What???
I try not to, because Jeff Bezos, but l swear physical stores are not making it easy. I always try to find other online stores to at least not feed the monster that's Amazon while not getting ripped off.
Load More Replies...I think the pandemic ruined a lot of things, but one of the worst effects was it made many more people addicted to social media. Imo, social media is this constant whisper in your ear telling you you’re not good enough, you’ll never be successful, and nobody cares about you. I think this constant nagging reminder day after day, year after year makes you less empathetic and more okay with being a total a*****e to others. If nobody cares about you, why should you care about them? It also makes it very easy to view people less as individuals and more as part of a group you don’t like.
Got rid of all social media except Youtube and the occasional visit on Bored Panda (is BP considered social media?) and i never regretted it.
Never done Facebook, unlikely I ever will. LOTSA knotheads clogging it up.
Load More Replies...Not everyone has a bad experience from social media. It depends on how much you take it personally. Also, the person who made this complaint did it on social media.
I really feel that there's something in all our brains hardwired to the scrolling. Like not just social media. I quit that years ago. But I still watch news feed carefully cause you have to beware of things like Nazis coming back. But once I actually deleted news apps too, I still found myself trying to scroll though things. If it's something you NEED to scroll through, try going without for a week. You'll be amazed how much you crave it. He said as he scrolled through Bored Panda...
Social media algorithms promote insularity. Just an echo chamber. Want to feel correct? We have a group for you.
I feel like people are angrier drivers now, but that is just a gut feeling.
Leeser:
I’ve definitely seen this too. Didn’t think it was possible for people to drive like they cared even less about other people but here we are.
This is a big one. I ride a bike a major US city, and since the pandemic, instances of dangerous drivers and close-calls have dramatically increased.
So I'm in oregon Lots of bikes. You ppl need to follow the same rules as the rest of us. DO BETTER!!!
Load More Replies...Are they still teaching drivers ed? well I've heard some parents complain they have to pay for it now, where it was free when we were in school ?..but I swear either nothing is learned or these people have completely forgotten what they were taught..
Quarantines led to virtually no drivers on the road. Then when a few drivers ventured out there was no traffic or law enforcement so they sped like demons. Then more people ventured out but still no law enforcement so the speed demons also became aggressive and dangerous. Now law enforcement has basically given up even trying to cull the speeding and road rage, they're just going to respond to the deadly aftermaths and write a report about it.
I'm in south Florida right now, and driving like a normal person is most definitely not acceptable. A normal person wants to change lanes, uses a turn signal, changes lanes. South Florida drivers see your signal and swoop on by. No grace for anything. Heaven forbid you don't step on the gas as soon as the light changes. We've all done the space out where we don't realize the light has changed the exact second it does so. Do that in SF and 20 cars will be honking at you. Today I was in a straight lane, at a red light, right turn lane next to me. Light changes to green, and some idiot in the right turn lane swoops in front of me to go straight just as I start to move forward. I'm seriously starting to reconsider my retirement plan of moving down here.
Of course people is angry... There is no need to drive to work when there is online working... Why do companies still force people to actually go to offices?
Just seen a news report here in Indianapolis IN about there have been 40 gun read rage reports this year so far on 465 interstate. . All of last year there were 52 gun road age reports. So gun road rage is up this year.
My happiness,I lost my brother ( sepsis) I truly thought we gonna grow old together, The world is such a sad place now,It's like a heavy wet blanket suffocating whatever reality we had before this pandemic started.
My bank balance and chance of buying a house. Was making 6 figures in my own business which completely stopped for 15 months making getting a mortgage all but impossible because even though for 8 years I made $10-20k+ more year over year, I didn’t have any income for over a year…
Edit: wanna know the ironic kicker? I work IN real estate, and still can’t get a house.
I make 6 figures but I have a mortgage, 2 cars, one for the wife for work, one for me for work, gas, insurance, kids, cats, food, dog, bills... yeah 120K+ a year don't get ya jack nowadays. I got lucky. I was able to buy my home in 2009 for a real nice price. It's now worh about 3 to 4X more. Not easy.
Load More Replies...You need a solid financial record to get a mortgage, so a year without reduced income made him ineligible for the loan. Easy peasy.
I guess OP means that, working in real estate, he/she would be the first to know when a bargain would hit the market and be quick to snap it up.
Load More Replies...You worked in real estate when interest rates were 3% or lower and didn't cash in on that? I feel like that's kinda on you. The sellers' market was booooooming in the pandemic. (Source: bought and sold a house June 2020).
2020 ruined my hot girl summer plans and my relationship with jeans.
There are just as many men whose 'hot boy summer plans' were also ruined. What do you say we all plan to meet up again at the beach next year when we've finally managed to drop our pandemic weight? ;-)
Didn't for me as I was never hot or even sort of decent looking in the least.
Ensh**ification is running rampant everywhere. Everything is a subscription model and gig work that got you hooked with quality service and good price. And every 6 months the service gets worse and costs more…extends to everything: food and service is worse for higher prices. Rideshares are harder to find with worse drivers and were back at nearly cab fares. I ordered a 6/10 burger in flipping reno, nevada that was 28 dollars before tax! Grocery stores are pathetic now. 1 check stand open with a line to the back of the store even when you go in at night. It takes 6 months to get into see a specialist doctor even when you have something fairly debilitating going on. Concert tickets are priced insanely even if you can get them before the bots snatch them up minutes after going on sale. Your purchasing power for a house dropped even from 4 years ago the same house that cost 300k now costs 400k. Journalism was dead and buried and is now husking around as a decrepit clickbait ghoul.
I have to believe that the pendulum will eventually swing the other way on home prices. Sellers will find it harder and harder to find buyers willing (or able) to pay what they're listing them for. Unfortunately, I think food prices may take a lot longer to stabilize, because while people have other options besides buying a house, we've all gotta eat, so we have little choice but to grumble and pull a few extra bills out of our wallets.
We retired to a small mountain town because home prices were a bit more affordable than the city we lived in. Housing prices have risen even around her. Complete dumps are priced at ridiculously high prices.
Load More Replies...Just buy tickets at the last minute or like less popular and probably more interesting music and ticket prices aren't bad.
This is just capitalism catching on to min/maxing everything! Once upon a time it was possible for a quality product to exist at a reasonable price for decades. But if it's popular, it means you can increase your price. Then once profits plateau, you start cutting on quality/service to increase the return. Now everything is adjusted for inflation monthly and customers are gouged for every cent possible. We've gone from being adjusted every few years to monthly or weekly price changes. We need reasonable controls on capitalist b******t if we want a decent world because corporate/conservative culture has ruined absofuckinglutely everything
These are all real issues, but did they all arise due to the pandemic, I don't think so.
Social etiquette. Was already on a decline but that finally took it away.
peoples intellect didnt decrease, though. it was declining because people stopped bothering, not that we forgot how.
Entertainment in general. Streaming was doing well until the pandemic, then it took front and center, bringing ads and other limitations with it. One could say this was inevitable with or without the pandemic, but it feels like a big result of that time period. I also think the pandemic was the final nail in the coffin for malls, which had already started dying a slow death around 2015.
Customer service. From phone lines (if they even have them at all) to in person experiences. The in person part is likely to do with people outwardly turning into complete a******s during the pandemic so I can only image what that does to a worker’s mentality. The phone or online part is likely corporate cutbacks. Whatever the exact reasons, we’re probably never going to have even “good” customer service as the baseline ever again.
A bigger problem is outsourcing. Seems that every time I call a business' customer service line, I get connected to somebody with such a strong accent that I can barely understand them. They're often also not as well trained because the company is trying to save money so they cut back on the length (and breadth) of training and onboarding.
And every time I call, the person has to go ask their supervisor because they have no idea what I am talking about.
Load More Replies...Personally, **brain fog:** occassionally forgetting a word while casually speaking; and **phantom smells:** smelling 'smoke-like' scents from mild to irritating, which is not being experienced by other people nearby.. frustrating.
I feel like smelling smoke is a good reason to see a physician. Sounds neurological?
Dining out. The bar is so much lower for good food and service now.
Takeaway quality has dropped as well. Salad used to be included free, it seems to made of gold now.
Because people have been force-fed this ridiculous idea that farms are bad for the environment and that we should all be eating factory made carcinogenic processed foods instead.
Load More Replies...I once exploded in a restaurant. They keep prioritising the takeway orders over the dining ins. You can see the takeaways being taken by the delivery guys non-stop, but not a single plate of food for the diners for almost 1 hour straigth.
Pretty much, yeah. Pre-pandemic, I could get a takeout meal for one for roughly $12 (depending on where I go, and what I order). Now, said same meal is $20, if not more.
Load More Replies...The restaurant I serve at is very expensive for the kind of food we give out. And even though I give solid service the majority of the time, I can't say the same for every person I work with. It's kinda a crapshoot.
More self check outs and fewer cashiers and baggers. I shop where I can have a cashier when I have a big shop to do.
Nah, I like avoiding cashier contact whenever I can (huge introvert). It just saves a lot of time. (As for baggers, we don't have that where I live, thank God.)
If the store offered a small discount for self-checkout, I would consider it. Otherwise, NO, I am not using a self checkout.
Self checkout in smaller stores are causing theft to be more prevalent.
I am the complete opposite i am so glad self check out exists so i don't have to speak to anyone, i can just buy my stuff and go, but then again i am autistic and an introvert.
Dating is really weird now compared to before covid. I can't put my finger on what is different though. I just know the apps are different now.
D**kNose-TurdWaffle:
They monetized the lonely. It's extremely predatory and sad.
I met my ex via online dating a few years before Covid. I reckon that's the only method by which I might (strong emphasis on "might") find someone else again, but after reading numerous posts about how awkward and weird online dating has become, I'm seriousy contemplating dropping all hopes for a new relationship.
The small town vibe and affordability of my area. WFH and retirees moved here, traffic and prices skyrocketed. The chance of me buying a home in my 20s went out the window and I have to fight for my life driving every day. Can't even enjoy the attractions around town, everything is expensive and overcrowded. My life is work and go home, feels like the pandemic didn't end in that regard. .
My house now is worth probably close to twice what I bought it for 9 years ago. Problem is that if I sell it, I won’t be able to find another one in the area
You can probably get a nice loan if you need it.
Load More Replies...Dollar menu doesn’t exist anymore. On top of that, fast food isn’t cheap anymore at all. There is absolutely no reason a visit to Mcdonald’s for 1 costs more than $5. Edit: Pre-pandemic, a hamburger was $0.89 before tax. Now it is $2.19. Is this a joke? Stay in your lane McDonald’s.
Also the dollar tree, where everything is $1.25 and up now ...?
My job of 12 years in the entertainment industry.
BoomaMasta:
Basically the same. I was playing gigs as a freelancer and finally making a living in the six months before COVID shut things down. I'm moving on because it still hasn't bounced back anywhere near those levels.
Just my luck... finally got the resources/training I needed completed one year before COVID (entertainment industry) - there's generally (on average) a 2 year minimum of 'slow time' whilst one gets lots of little gigs to get their name 'out there' -- and of course... COVID hits, and studios are all only wanting to bet on the 'already well known', or relying even more heavily on nepotism than previously - it was not being the popular kid in high school all over again.
Movies. Theyre all awful since covid. Customer service. Food after 9 pm.
I think the writer strike was funny. They were worried about AI taking their jobs but now I'm wondering if AI would write better
Movies were awful before covid too, but the Marvel hype had to pass for us to realize that. Yes good movies still exist, but i feel the general quality has been in decline for a while now, and it started before 2020.
City folk here.. clubs / dancing and entertainment took a huge hit. Most of the good places closed and people have no concert / club etiquete anymore. Everybody’s so closed off and cliqued up, or pushy and entitled, messy and rude.
My SO were walking home on a Saturday night and actually passed a group of well dressed people walking to or from a bar/restaurant and we were like, woah! Other people!
A lot of local businesses, especially small/independent ones. On a personal level, my perception of time. There are a lot of times that i recalled a memory from years ago, or so i thought, but upon checking some pictures it happened more recently than that- and vice versa. A really weird feeling.
My wife can't leave the house to do anything anymore. she waits until im home or its my days off. she last about 10 minutes in Walmart before needing to leave.
I'm pretty sure the stress of covid accelerated my male pattern baldness. Sigh.
The 24 hour food service industry.
My last tenuous feeling of participation in US culture. It's so live-and-let-die. I used to think somehow, some way I could help, but nope. I'm old now and nope. I for the moment have the ability to travel so I'm doing that but I can see the world falling apart in front of my eyes, so...I mean...what's it all for, anyway?
My entire life. I left my abusive husband just before the pandemic was declared. It had entirely screwed me financially and socially.
*The 2020 pandemic ruined my travel plans, my gym routine, and any chance of figuring out what day of the week it was. Oh, and let's not forget it turned my living room into my office, gym, and personal anxiety cave.*.
Simple social gatherings. Just hanging out with groups of people. Social dinners, going out for a drink.
Everything! Cost of living, cost of cars and houses. Some restaurants are ghost towns more and mainly operate via delivery. Hospitals are not as staffed anymore and nothing changed from Covid, meaning that pay for staff or air quality in hospitals. People are super polarized now and our country is divided and we can’t just get along for the good or the country anymore.
Friendships and relationships. The isolation and lack of face-to-face meetings definitely caused some breakups. Might have made some stronger though.
CodeMonkeyPhoto:
Oh I feel this one. We were friends with a couple during the pandemic, but the guy got more and more into conspiracy theories and one's I never even heard of. He wasn't full off the deepend like some, but he knew I didn't agree or beleive him. What is hard is the man was a brilliant marine electronics engineer. Very smart and handy. So we kind of lost touch despite our efforts from our friend group to reach out to them.
my best friend had her first baby during the lockdown and i never got a chance to hold him and missed the first few months of his life because of it.
My boss had her second in lockdown. Her husband couldn't go to appointments with her, and the grandmas didn't get to hold him for three months
Load More Replies...Goddamnit, cherry hibiscus pure leaf iced tea disappeared. It became scarce during the supply chain issues in the first wave, then it disappeared altogether. That was my s**t. Produce seems like it's garbage now. And I swear restaurants started frying with a different oil. It smells different outside of restaurants now.
I dk where you live but if you're in Canada, find a Superstore, Shoppers D**g Mart or anything in that chain. They have the same tea under their own brand. It's called President's Choice Berry Hibiscus Herbal Tea. I'm addicted to the stuff, so I can relate!
I've been going to Natural Food Pantry as of late, and even Independent Grocers have solid tea flavours. And even the few David's Tea stores that are left in Ottawa have awesome flavours.
Load More Replies...Trust in science.
“There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that 'my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge.” - Isaac Asimov, 1980.
The little library at my office. +/- 140 person office, large break room, a rarely used table in the corner with an empty shelf above it. Years ago someone brought in a few books and stuck them on the shelf. That evolved into a small but active book exchange. Then covid hit. We took turns WFH, half at home while the other half had to come in. Suddenly the shelf filled up, then the table below. Tons of books. Then CDs and DVDs. Then VHS tapes. Cheesy stuff: Richard Simmons Sweatin’ to the Oldies, Jazzercize, ancient Disney movies. The table was soon overflowing, and the boss got pissed that everyone was WFH, cleaning out their closets, and dumping their junk at the office. She stayed late one day (which she NEVER did). The next morning we arrived to find the table cleared off, and the shelf. And just like that, our book exchange was over.
good, its not a dumping ground. remember, if all that stuff was there, that meant no one else wanted it, either.
Call the police and report a theft. That was not her property or the company's.
It ruined trust in western medicine, media, so-called experts and government. Also, some faith in humanity.
western medicine *saved* your lives. the experts saved your lives. the government (except america) saved your lives. be grateful.
Dressing rooms. Goodwills don't have them anymore because of "Covid" (I think they use that more as an excuse because people would trash the rooms and its a huge hassle to clean them up, I know I worked in retail). Even though I'm not sure that Covid is the whole reason they're becoming less and less, its a great excuse for companies like Goodwill, who know say you can only return your items for store credit (if you can return them at all) its greedy and gross. It makes them a lot of money easily, and it was discovered because they were shut down during Covid, which is so dumb because there shouldn't be more than one person in there at a time anyway and we were disinfecting everything else.
That's because people sell the items online and make bank.
Load More Replies...The price for a haircut.
I usually use an electric razor to shave my head. Last time I went for a haircut after the pandemic, it was $30. While I might not be able to style my hair just yet, an electric razor for roughly $30, and it being rechargeable is worth it.
I bought one that plugs in so I don't worry about batteries dying while I'm cutting my hair. Have been doing it by myself for ages before Covid, but finally bit the bullet and got some clippers last year. If I mess up: it grows back. Otherwise it's paid for itself, and I don't have some lady hanging over me telling me to just put my hair in a ponytail instead of acquiescing to my paying request that she cut it super short.
Load More Replies...My body lol.
I WANT SOUPLANTATION BACK. Salads, pizza, ice cream. One place. Under $12 for lunch. Peak civilization.
The price of fitness equipment for home gyms.
The price for gyms too. I get they took a huge hit with the pandemic, but for the price of a pre pandemic 12 months membership now i get a 6 months one.
Used cars buying experience.
The prices! I have a 2002 Camry I paid $6000 for fifteen years ago. I looked on car ads last week and saw the same 2002 Camry was still selling for $6000!
I have seen an ad for a Toyota Landcruiser with 350,000+ miles for $12,000 - maybe worth it, but still...
Load More Replies...Vaccines.
How did vaccines get worse? They are much safer in the last 50 years. Now us oldsters do not have to worry as much about death from pneumonia or the torture from getting shingles. The yearly COVID vaccine is just a few days of an aching shoulder.
I wanted to get back into the workforce last year but only had experience in retail. Under no circumstances did I want to work retail again. Many customers were a******s, but since COVID it has gotten worse.
Covid broke my husband. He used to be pretty normal but during pandemic he listened to too many conspiracies from his ignorant coworkers and customers. He's always been more of a follower so he was always susceptible to stupid ways of thinking. And the fact that the pandemic occurred during the MAGA years just resulted in so much idiocy. So yeah, my husband.
The dogs. Everyone that didn't have time for a dog went out and got a f*****g dog. But they had no idea how to train or socialize it and they now don't have time for their energetic, neurotic, bored, WhateverDoodle. Whoever makes trazodone, buy that company stock. No one ever heard of the d**g 5-6 years ago and now some dogs are on it long-term.
Came here to say this too. So called "breeders" thought they could make money off of animals as they were home more but they didn't think about what would happen when they went back to work. Where are a lot of these animals now? Dead, due to being abandoned and put to sleep or in animal shelters waiting for their forever home. So sad as this could have been avoided if people thought more about the consequences 😡
Load More Replies...I think here in the UK social inequality is worse, the gap between rich and poor is definitely bigger. People with home offices Vs crowded flat shares, furloughed people vs self employed whose business stopped dead in their tracks and as for home schooling!!
Not sure if this is just local to me but people now having BBQ's, trampolines, paddling pools in their front garden then shouting to neighbour across the street to 'talk'. They used to be in back /rear gardens but now...
I wanted to get back into the workforce last year but only had experience in retail. Under no circumstances did I want to work retail again. Many customers were a******s, but since COVID it has gotten worse.
Covid broke my husband. He used to be pretty normal but during pandemic he listened to too many conspiracies from his ignorant coworkers and customers. He's always been more of a follower so he was always susceptible to stupid ways of thinking. And the fact that the pandemic occurred during the MAGA years just resulted in so much idiocy. So yeah, my husband.
The dogs. Everyone that didn't have time for a dog went out and got a f*****g dog. But they had no idea how to train or socialize it and they now don't have time for their energetic, neurotic, bored, WhateverDoodle. Whoever makes trazodone, buy that company stock. No one ever heard of the d**g 5-6 years ago and now some dogs are on it long-term.
Came here to say this too. So called "breeders" thought they could make money off of animals as they were home more but they didn't think about what would happen when they went back to work. Where are a lot of these animals now? Dead, due to being abandoned and put to sleep or in animal shelters waiting for their forever home. So sad as this could have been avoided if people thought more about the consequences 😡
Load More Replies...I think here in the UK social inequality is worse, the gap between rich and poor is definitely bigger. People with home offices Vs crowded flat shares, furloughed people vs self employed whose business stopped dead in their tracks and as for home schooling!!
Not sure if this is just local to me but people now having BBQ's, trampolines, paddling pools in their front garden then shouting to neighbour across the street to 'talk'. They used to be in back /rear gardens but now...
