A family is more than just the sum of its members. A family is built from the sweet moments that they share together, and in the modern era, TikTok can be one of the many platforms where people can share their sweet family moments with the world.
With time, our scientific understanding of the importance of family only deepens with more research and data. On the other hand, changing social norms are expanding the definition of what “family” means to different people, which has the potential to extend that beneficial sense of belonging and unconditional love to groups that may have felt excluded in the past.
As you browse these sweet family moments from the modern era, we hope you recognize your own family’s lovely quirks in some of them!
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How do you say I cherish my child without saying I cherish my child
The sign says class of 2020. Lots of traditional HS events were cancelled bc of the pandemic. In the US there were many school districts which only had virtual school.
No matter the size, shape or color of your family, having a group of people you feel a special family bond with is truly special. It’s also key to our mental health and general wellbeing.
According to a paper hosted by the National Library of Medicine, “The quality of family relationships, including social support (e.g., providing love, advice, and care) and strain (e.g., arguments, being critical, making too many demands), can influence well-being through psychosocial, behavioral, and physiological pathways.”
The paper continues by detailing some of the benefits of family life: “Those receiving support from their family members may feel a greater sense of self-worth, and this enhanced self-esteem may be a psychological resource, encouraging optimism, positive affect, and better mental health (Symister & Friend, 2003).”
It also illustrates many more benefits of close family bonds, but also points out that the close relationships we form can make us more vulnerable to stress when things go wrong as well.
I would never understand the dietary restrictions that some hospitals impose on dying patients, let them enjoy the last remaining earthly pleasures they can have !
The terms “family of choice” or “found family” have been around for a while, but they’ve found new traction in recent decades with the growth of the LGBTQ+ movement. Families of choice are often a much-needed source of love and support for LGBTQ+ people when they come out to families that react with rejection. Without that support network, navigating their identity can be even more difficult.
Other communities benefit from found families as well, including people recovering from drug abuse, orphans, veterans suffering from PTSD, and others who may have special needs that the average family may not be well-equipped to fulfill.
Whether your family is biological or found, it’s important that we all support one another. Sometimes, however, that can be a bit tricky. Not every family’s relationship is smooth. The US Department of Homeland Security (of all places) has some tips for idea on how to reinforce the strength of your relationship with your family, whatever form that family takes:
One of their key recommendations are to establish your own habits, rituals or traditions together. These can encompass some of their other recommendations as well, like staying physically active together or finding opportunities to laugh.
Other recommendations can involve personal work as well. Both you and your family should work on improving your communication and on finding new interests and activities to share with each other. Communication should also involve staying in touch with long-distance family members.
I have a brother. He's cool now, but when we were kids it was mostly him farting in my face, trapping me in the basement, and throwing stuff at me while I tried to sleep. The grass is always greener as they say.
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My boys are 4 years apart. When we dropped the oldest off for college, my youngest was so sad. They have such a great relationship.
I cried so much on my sisters first night at her new flat that she came home and slept there one more night 😭
Most of these images are examples of families functioning more or less as they should - loving and supporting one another. But as we mentioned before, family ties can also leave us vulnerable to trauma.
Our relationships with our parents in particular can significantly impact us for the better or worse, but even problematic relations with siblings or distant relations can cause issues.
My cats scream at me if I sleep late and miss their scheduled feeding. One will even come up and start smacking me in the face. Also licking my eyelids to open them up is quite common. I'm positive that all of my cats wish I was as well trained as that dog.
The overview of how family relationships impact our mental health hosted by the National Library of Medicine continues: “stress in relationships may also lead to health-compromising behaviors as coping mechanisms to deal with stress (Ng & Jeffery, 2003). The stress of relationship strain can result in physiological processes that impair immune function, affect the cardiovascular system, and increase risk for depression (Graham, Christian, & Kiecolt-Glaser, 2006; Kiecolt-Glaser & Newton, 2001), whereas positive relationships are associated with lower allostatic load (i.e., “wear and tear” on the body accumulating from stress) (Seeman, Singer, Ryff, Love, & Levy-Storms, 2002). Clearly, the quality of family relationships can have considerable consequences for well-being.”
Awww! This is so incredibly sweet. I love the little poster she made and the cute stuffed animals she put on the bed.
When I bought my first house, my dad worked along side me to fix it up. Some days, i would come home and find that he had been working while I was gone. He did everything to make that house my home.
I just cried my eyes out. Wish I would have done this with my mom before she died in 2021. I would love to hold her hand just one more time.
Mending those relationships can be exhausting. It’s up to each of us individually to determine whether they are worth upholding. We can do so by applying some of the tips mentioned earlier in this article, or we can remember that individual or family therapy is a totally legitimate and very helpful way to improve our relationships with family.
He needs to make them to sell. I wanted a gingerbread man cutter and could only find a tiny one. I wanted a big one
For those of us with healthy, loving and supportive family relationships, let’s not forget to be grateful everyday for the privilege we have! A happy family is something to be cherished and adored. Call your parents, grandparents, or independent children, tell them you love them, and plan a meetup as soon as you can!
Bloody hell, I'd hate that, I never wore one at school. Always got into hell for it, but absolutely hated the feel of it around my neck! Can't wear tight necklaces or high shirt collars either. Drive me crackers. Your dad is so sweet ❤️
Um...is he calling his daughter fat or am I misunderstanding this?!
I am unspeakably jealous of these people who have such sweet dads. The best thing mine ever did for me was die.
Ditto, except I am still waiting for that blessing. In the meantime, he continues to torture me emotionally every stinking day. So jealous of all of these people!
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These are always bittersweet posts. My father was mysognistic, homophobic, toxic and Ive learnt new modern terms for his behaviour including weaponized incompetence which allowed him to get away with c**p for decades. I think it wonderful that the above posters have /had such wonderful relationships with their fathers though 💖
I miss my dad. 5 years this july and I still can't believe I'll never see him again. Love you dad xxx always xxx
This whole feed makes my heart happy and cry at the same time. My Grandpa went into the hospital a year ago today and didn't make it out. He was my dad and my best friend. Cherish the moments you have with your loved ones.
If you are a parent make an effort to be present for your kids. In my case I fetch them every morning for school, I try go to their after-school sports every time if possible (skip work), I buy any treat or toy I see that I know they'll like, I sit and do their homework with them, I learnt minecraft (omg so boring) to play with them, I join in nerfwars and soccer if I can, I teach them stuff that's not in the school curriculum like economics and politics, I show them cultural stuff and interpret it, I explain different cultures and religions and tell them they are free to choose, I let them dress gender-ambivalent, etc etc. When people meet them their general comment is WOW your kids are so nice and kind and polite etc. BE PRESENT FOR YOUR KIDS.
When my older sister went to college, my parents helped her move. She needed a hammer for something and dad gave her one he had in his truck, years later he sees that she still has this best up hammer. Every kid, niece, nephew, family friends, he would give a simple box of tools if they were leaving home for college (work or whatever).
I have an awesome dad too. Today he and Mum babysat my toddler nephew, and Dad took him down to the creek to sail the little boat they made together. Just the sort of thing he would do with me and my sister when we were kids!
My dad forgot my birthday last week. Still hasn’t said “Happy Birthday “.
My dad has been gone over 10 years and it was hard to shed a tear for him. He wasn't much of a daddy or a dad. He was just our father. I was so jealous of girls who were close to their dads. Mine was a cheating, lying, absentee person who liked to yell
I love my dad but damn these dads go above and beyond.
I am unspeakably jealous of these people who have such sweet dads. The best thing mine ever did for me was die.
Ditto, except I am still waiting for that blessing. In the meantime, he continues to torture me emotionally every stinking day. So jealous of all of these people!
Load More Replies... These are always bittersweet posts. My father was mysognistic, homophobic, toxic and Ive learnt new modern terms for his behaviour including weaponized incompetence which allowed him to get away with c**p for decades. I think it wonderful that the above posters have /had such wonderful relationships with their fathers though 💖
I miss my dad. 5 years this july and I still can't believe I'll never see him again. Love you dad xxx always xxx
This whole feed makes my heart happy and cry at the same time. My Grandpa went into the hospital a year ago today and didn't make it out. He was my dad and my best friend. Cherish the moments you have with your loved ones.
If you are a parent make an effort to be present for your kids. In my case I fetch them every morning for school, I try go to their after-school sports every time if possible (skip work), I buy any treat or toy I see that I know they'll like, I sit and do their homework with them, I learnt minecraft (omg so boring) to play with them, I join in nerfwars and soccer if I can, I teach them stuff that's not in the school curriculum like economics and politics, I show them cultural stuff and interpret it, I explain different cultures and religions and tell them they are free to choose, I let them dress gender-ambivalent, etc etc. When people meet them their general comment is WOW your kids are so nice and kind and polite etc. BE PRESENT FOR YOUR KIDS.
When my older sister went to college, my parents helped her move. She needed a hammer for something and dad gave her one he had in his truck, years later he sees that she still has this best up hammer. Every kid, niece, nephew, family friends, he would give a simple box of tools if they were leaving home for college (work or whatever).
I have an awesome dad too. Today he and Mum babysat my toddler nephew, and Dad took him down to the creek to sail the little boat they made together. Just the sort of thing he would do with me and my sister when we were kids!
My dad forgot my birthday last week. Still hasn’t said “Happy Birthday “.
My dad has been gone over 10 years and it was hard to shed a tear for him. He wasn't much of a daddy or a dad. He was just our father. I was so jealous of girls who were close to their dads. Mine was a cheating, lying, absentee person who liked to yell
I love my dad but damn these dads go above and beyond.
