Canadian Woman Moves To Sweden, Lists The Culture Shocks She Experienced In A Viral TikTok Series (17 Culture Shocks)
Interview With AuthorHave you ever visited a country and felt like everything there is a gazillion times better than at home? Its people, culture, food, environment, architecture, perhaps even the sense of personal security – whatever.
For some, it might be because you get to break out of the tedious routine and experience something fresh and new; however, for Madeline Robson, a Canadian who has been living in Sweden for over four years, it happened to be more than just novelty, as the place has indeed proven to be pretty grand!
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My salary is actually higher this month since I took some vacation. Yeah, you always get paid a little bit more on vacation days to incentivize you to take the time off.
Ah, but you haven't really spoken about the process for immigrants to receive a long term visa to live in Sweden, or how difficult it is to obtain this visa when you're not married to a Swedish national. It's not like you just decided to move to Sweden and all of these benefits were immediately available to you. You're promoting the dream and not explaining reality.
Maybe you're expecting a little too much out of a two-sentence blurb.
Load More Replies...Well, if you dont use the days and take them as money (difficult but possible) they are even better paid. Got a new job, had all my vacation days in cash (40, the whole years worth) and made a small fortune.
I thought you had to take 4 weeks in the summer? https://lagen.nu/1977:480#P12S1
Load More Replies...Good news! Bored Panda was lucky enough to get through to Madeline and pose a couple of questions about her life in Sweden. First things first, we invited the TikToker to introduce herself: "My name is Madeline Robson and I am a Canadian who has been living in Malmö, Sweden, for over four years. I originally come from Windsor, Ontario. I work in marketing, particularly with communications and social media, and started sharing my experiences and culture shocks living abroad in Sweden back in 2020 on TikTok. After a while, I started sharing on Instagram as well and now have over 300,000 followers across both platforms."
We then wondered how Madeline ended up in Malmö, to which she replied: "I met my Swedish fiancé while traveling in New Orleans. I was there for a bachelorette party with a group of friends and met him in a bar on the last night of my trip. He was traveling solo in the US. I went back to Canada the next day, never expecting to see him again. But we kept in touch and texting turned into video chatting. And a few weeks later he asked me if he could come visit me. Our second date lasted almost two weeks in Canada, and then a few months later I went to Malmö for the first time to spend Christmas with him and his family. Over the next year, we dated long-distance and traveled a lot, and then I was ready for a big change and decided to move to Sweden to be with him. I was only planning to stay a year or two, but over four years later I have no plans to leave."
My son is sick today so I'm actually going to stay home and VAB. Oh, no, no, no, it's not a problem. I still get paid to stay home with him when he's sick.
I had to look up VAB. It says: "To wear one's own vaginal fluid as perfume, as a purported aphrodisiac". Is that really what was meant?
Vård av Barn - basically paid time off to care for your child/children
Load More Replies...I have a friend in Sweden and she was shocked to learn that we often have fundraisers in America to help people pay their medical bills so they won’t go broke and lose their home. Why are we allegedly considered the “Greatest country in the world” and yet we have this?smh
We have this in Australia, in fact most companies are replacing sick leave with "personal" leave x 10 days per year to allow a variety of circumstances from illness, family illness or strife and bereavement. Most also allow annual leave to be used when other leave has been exhausted.
In Canada we get told "It's not our problem and your child is not our employee, so they don't count as you being sick. You can take a personal day off, but it's going against your reliability." Or at the really heinous jobs "You can't just take him to daycare and have him stay there the whole day? Can't someone else look after your child? We need you here. This is what you contractedly agreed on, to come in for your shifts. Don't bother coming back. We're going to have to let you go."
Now, we were also curious about what inspired Madeline to start the TikTok video series: "Working in social media, I was very curious about the platform and how many creators were growing quickly. In late 2020/early 2021, I gained over 150,000 followers by sharing my culture shocks. Now, it has been two years since those mega-viral videos and I had learned so much more about Swedish culture along the way, so I decided to revive it as a POV series. And was surprised to see how many people were still interested in learning about all the little things about living in Sweden that I find so special."
It would also be criminal not to ask the TikToker about her favorite thing about Sweden: "There's a lot of things I love about living here, particularly in Malmö, but the biggest improvement in my life has been in my work-life balance, which is what I was sharing about in my recently viral video. The anticipation of summer break at this time of year is something I never thought I would experience again once I became an adult. And having at least 25 days of vacation that I am encouraged to take gives me time to prioritize and take care of myself."
Speaking of vacation, I was thinking I'll take four weeks off this summer. Actually, my employer is making it mandatory take at least three weeks of paid time off to reset. But I thought a month would be really nice
Minimum is 25 days, so you can take a whole month in summer and STILL have one week left. Many of us has even more, with age and negotiations I have 40 days.
At my last job, due to union negotiations, we also had 40 days. 26 paid vacation days + 14 extra days off. So that was eight weeks paid vacation/year. My American friends were shocked.
Load More Replies...Ffffuuuu...... okay, Sweden is sounding better than Canada. But I know there are still drawbacks to living in Sweden.
There are a lot of drawbacks to living in Sweden. We don't just get a lot of free stuff like healthcare and education. We pay for it with very high taxes. Plus the government has restrictions on a lot of things and we don't have the freedoms that people in many other countries do. Starting your own company requires a lot more than in other countries, building a house on your own land requires special permissions etc. The government controls almost everything we do in one way or another, so we are very restricted. My point is that we have a lot of comfort, but little freedom. And our welfare system is unbelievably crappy. It's extremely difficult to get disability, because the agency that decides it doesn't believe that people are sick even with proof. And for those who are on welfare, they have almost no freedom and their finances are under supervision. Sweden is not as good as people claim it is.
Load More Replies...Honestly, I wouldn't like that. I'm in Ireland. An I formal rule is that you're meant to take 2 weeks off as a whole at least once in the year. Sometimes I will, sometimes I won't. I prefer to spread my time off over the year, personally. Like, in march, i took every monday off, as well as the thursday of paddy's weekend, as I was on the Friday anyway. Having multiple long weekends felt good. Then, I recently went to France for a week. Took 2 days off to recover when I got back. Worked 2 days and it was the weekend again. I would be annoyed if it was mandatory to take 2 full weeks at once, never mind 3. I prefer to use my time as I decide.
I've actually been thinking seriously, I might go back to school. I mean, why not? The tuition is free, of course, and the government pays you an allowance while you're studying. And then I'll just take a loan for my living expenses because it's basically interest free.
But here in the US, with all the taxes we pay, we can't even have our roads and bridges fixed or count on social security that we HAVE to pay in to. I basically see it as I'm funding my mother's retirement and knowing I'll have to figure out my own. But thank goodness our politicians don't have to waste THEIR money on taxes, so they can afford luxury items, staff, vacations, schooling, etc. we wouldn't want them struggling like the rest of the country does
Weeelll, the Iraq War and the little dust-up in Afghanistan are estimated to have cost the US $6,000,000,000,000, twenty years on. Yes, that's 6 TRILLION. And the costs continue to add up, due to the added care of the traumatized and wounded combatants who served in our Nation's military. Meanwhile, the arms manufacturers and bankers have been doing pretty well.
Load More Replies...And if you study certain things that fills a gap in your resume you can apply for a allwance of 80% of your salary, that you dont have to pay back
Books are not free and everything costs much more in Sweden but tuition is covered for nationals. The allowance is just that, a small token like what parents give to children.
Ah, but you haven't really spoken about the process for immigrants to receive a long term visa to live in Sweden, or how difficult it is to obtain this visa when you're not married to a Swedish national. It's not like you just decided to move to Sweden and all of these benefits were immediately available to you.
Last but certainly not least, BP pondered whether Madeline has any advice she would like to offer to those who are thinking about packing their bags and legging it to Sweden: "This advice applies to anyone wanting to take a big step and move abroad. I think it's easy to watch videos like the ones in this series and romanticize a big move abroad, but it isn't a decision that should be taken lightly. Moving to a new country can be challenging and stressful, and it is a big sacrifice in many ways to be so far away from home. Navigating everyday life in a country that you didn't grow up in, learning a new language, and finding your community is hard. All that to say that I wouldn't change a thing and I am so happy with the life I have chosen. But there are a lot of days that I miss home, too."
I'm actually thinking I'll only take 10 or 11 months of parental leave and then my husband he'll take 6. And then anything left over will just save for later.
Maternity leave should be long enough for your child to be old enough to go to a preschool or be with a baby sitter anyway
It should be as long as the parents and baby need.
Load More Replies...Up to the child's 3rd birthday in my country. AND you can't be fired during that time.
Load More Replies...In the UK you can take 12 months off and have the right to return to your previous job
I think this is pointing out the fact that in Canada standard mat leave is 35 weeks, for one parent, split it with a partner. There's no banking on these mat leave days.
No, it’s 12 months and you can extend it up to 18 months in Canada.
Load More Replies...I seriously don't understand how this works. You just ..don't go to work for a year, and what? The company sucks it up? Hires someone else for just a year? When you go back, isn't it like starting over? Everything us going to be different, and you a year outdated?
Yeah the companies hire a mat leave replacement for the year - a contract or term position. The govt employment insurance program covers the person on mat leave - not a full salary, but a percentage. The company they work for can top them up if they are a nice company (not required)
Load More Replies...Wow. I was lucky I got 7 whole weeks unpaid off rather than the usual 6 weeks allowed.
My friends just bought a house in the countryside, so I'm heading out there to visit them today. Oh, no, no, I still don't have a car but since you can get anywhere by public transit, I'll just take the bus.
B******t. Sweden has a lot of issues with public transit in remote areas. Don't lie.
And in some areas it doesn’t. Public transport here is still pretty good. Don’t lie.
Load More Replies...But this cant be just Sweden? I have travelled a lot in both europe and asia like that.
Yes but she is comparing to Canada which has a terrible public bus/train system especially as Grey Hound pulled out of Canada a few years ago.
Load More Replies...Public transport works rather well in the cities, but in the countryside it’s limited. And expensive. Commuter trains in Stockholm do NOT work well and the company responsible has had it’s contract discontinued.
So this person's friends live within driving distance to Malmö, I suppose. The quality of the public transport network probably depends on where in Sweden you live. In a lot of European countries, rural areas don't have good public transport. Where I'm from, there's a bus every two hours, on a weekday. Less on weekends. It's designed to transport school children back and forth. As an adult, you probably own a car, since you are going to have to. However, if you live in the catchment area of a larger city, many people rely on public transport to commute to work.
I reckon it also depends on how long the stay is. I've visited friends in rural areas where the bus also only went every 2 - 3 hours. But that was fine since I was staying until the next day.
Load More Replies...When you write about Sweden, why don't you use a picture of a Swedish landscape?
This is absolute b******t. If one rural area has public transit, 49 doesn't.
France here, I have a car but no legal permis de conduire, so no insurance, etc, my village has no public transit, and it's an 8 km walk to the nearest arrêt bus. All the job offers I receive require me to have a legal driver's permit or access to public transportation within reason. An hours walk to the nearest busstop is not within reason.
I thought you lived in Sweden considering all the comments about the OP being incorrect. Do you just go there a lot?
Load More Replies...Are you already contemplating buying plane tickets? Yes or yes? Either way, we hope that you've enjoyed these eye-opening disparities, and in case you want to find out more, we've already covered an article on Madeline's TikTok – so make sure to check it out too! Also, don't hesitate to give her a follow and let us know which fact has surprised you the most.
I just got back from the doctor and they are recommending that I try new medicine. But I was shocked it is so expensive. Thankfully, we only have to pay a maximum of 2,400 kr ($220) per year for prescriptions.
Sorry but no, it's 1100 or 1200. But who cares it's almost nothing.
Load More Replies...In France, my drugs for my diabetes and antidepressants and all of the medical tests pertaining to them as well as all of my Dr visits are free. What sucks is that psychologists don't want to get paid by the state, so their services aren't free or supplemented by France. It makes you wonder if they're actually good as therapists if they're only concerned with the fee they'll get paid.
What she's talking about is that if you've paid that much for medicine in a year then all medicine is free for the rest of the 12 month period and not the actual price of medicine.
Load More Replies...I think the hardest part for me is the darkness, you can not really understand the darkness unless you've lived through a winter here, it's about five hours of peak hear in Malmo, and this is the most southern city in Sweden, it is hard. So if you're someone who is heavily affected by the weather, this is probably not the place for you to live.
The shortened days in southern Canada are hard enough on me. No thank you.
Same lol. Which province? I’m southern Saskatchewan.
Load More Replies...I have such severe seasonal depression that even living in New Mexico (a literal desert and one of the sunniest places in the country) I have to take antidepressants and antipsychotics to stay sane during the winter. Bugs me when people act like SAD is "depression lite". And fwiw, it's not like SAD is an "easy fix" either. Recalibrating your broken brain chemistry is never a walk in the park, whether there's an external component or not.
4 hours of light, in Malmö? I don't understand. I live in Denmark, 50 km north of Malmö and we have 6-8 hours of light in the winter. I admit that it is dark in Scandinavia, but on the other hand, they are the best in the world.
Yeah it’s pretty dark here alright. I suppose I’m used to it, I don’t pay it much mind, but if you’re not born here I bet I can be tough on you. On the other hand, during summer the sun stays up all night in some parts of the country and a long time in the rest.
The only time darkness is okay for me is at night.. I can't stand the shortest day of the year during winter in Iowa! But I hate light at night! We have 1 yard lamp on our farm and it's across the yard that it isn't a nuisance in the house! It's actually nice when I'm up at 2 am with a crying baby but trying to keep lights off in the house but I can still see.
Oh no, I don't have an education fund for my kids because university is free, but I am saving up to help them buy their first apartment.
We like some of mums cake while at campus though😋. Parents often help you pay for drivers licence, that can be pretty expensive
About 30%. Taxes pay for school, school lunches for the kids, health care, elderly care, roads, vacations, maternity leave and dad leave, dental care for kids up to 18, libraries…
Load More Replies...In Germany there's a fee per semester. I think they might vary a little bit, depending on in which region you choose to study in. Here it is 350€ per semester. You will get a semester ticket with it, which you can use for free public transportation and it grants you discounts for certain activities.
Load More Replies...Now, Swedes are known culturally for keeping to themselves and being a bit more reserved, and taking a long time to warm up to people. So I know a lot of people who said they really struggled to make friends in Sweden. When I first moved here, I hung out in the international community a lot, because that was an easy way for me to make friends. Over time, I have made Swedish friends. But it has been an effort, you really have to put yourself out there. And that's something to consider if maybe you're a shy person, because I've heard of a lot of people feeling very, very lonely here.
And you won't have to worry about anyone else wanting to hang out with you!
Load More Replies...It can actually be pretty hard to find good friends in Canada, too. Depending on your age, hobbies and how you get along with your co-workers, and the region. Some regions are not as friendly as others. In Manitoba, a lot of young adults have long established friendships in their childhood and are not open to including more people in their group, or they're happy in their tight-knit families. Sure Canadians are friendly, but more surface friendly. My mom is trying to find new friends and struggling. I've accepted I don't mind not having friends. In fact, people don't like to sit close to anyone they don't know, including on transit buses.
Jesus's biggest miracle was making 12 friends when he was in his 30s.
Load More Replies...Swedes are very big on societies, clubs etc. A lot of us are members of some society based on common interests: arts and crafts, sports, collecting, travels, music, gardening, writing, history… I’m a member of 4 myself!
Made a lot of Swedish friends in my 5 years there. But, I'm a skateboarder, and we have a different type of community.
The only shortcut to make swedish friends in Sweden, is give them booze. They relax immediately, they drop all their cultural shyness and are more open and emotional :p I wish I was kidding.
People becoming more uninhibited while drunk? Unheard of.
Load More Replies...This makes being seated at a wedding reception with strangers sound really awkward.
It's one thing to have a conversation with a stranger at a dinner party, and another to form a friendship. The thing that makes Swedes so reserved is that while we value close friendship, we're not taught to value mere acquaintance. And it's really hard to get from "someone I socialised with at a party" to "someone who's my close friend" when "someone who's an acquaintance" isn't really on the table.
Load More Replies...Swedes are generally most comfortable when they're leaning on activity as a social security net. Let me explain this. So let's say you go to a party, there's a very high likelihood that the Swede will bring out a game to help stimulate the socializing or make up a quiz to get people talking about something. And this isn't just friends, if you go to a work event, there's often also an icebreaker activity. And the one that surprised me the most is when you go to a Swedish wedding. They play games during the reception.
This would help with some people's obsession with faux introversion and instead accept they are just socially awkward.
What is the point of taking away a legitimate descriptor people use to describe themselves (and one which has started losing some of its stigma) and replacing it with a more negative term?
Load More Replies...As a Swede, I’m upset that I’ve missed this entirely. It sounds awesome.
UGH!! That would be AMAZING!! I’ve had the opposite experience where friends and I will have a game night and there are inevitably one or two people who INSIST on playing but are always talking to other people, holding up everything
The next one is language, which may seem a bit obvious, but I think people underestimate how hard it is to exist in a new country, when you don't feel comfortable in the language. Swedish it's just really hard to learn. And I truly feel anxious and insecure about my language every single day. So living with that every day is actually really, really challenging. And something that people don't talk about a lot, but something to consider if you're going to move to a new country
Also one that will mug you in a back alley and steal some of your words just for fun.
Load More Replies...A friend of mine moved from Germany to Sweden. He said the grammar is super-easy. The vocabulary will not be a big challenge if you know German and English. He said what he finds most problematic is the unpredictable pronunciation and the abundance of idioms.
Swedish isn't a hard language to learn, if you know English. Swedish is almost half english half german itself. If you have one of the two languages then you have half of Swedish already. The grammar between Swedish and English is very similar and it's easy to make the mental connections. The vocabulary on the other hand is half english half german. There is a 50/50 chance to get it right, if you just swedify an english word. It is a bit complicated to pronounce sometimes, and it has some tricks and quirks like any other language, but it is not a hard language to learn. Ofc it matters if one has an aptitude with languages, and how much time and effort you put into it, but there are far harder languages in Europe alone to learn, and Swedish isn't one of them. https://effectivelanguagelearning.com/language-guide/language-difficulty/
Nah this is nonsense. After Afrikaans, swedish is probably the next easiest to learn. Look. "This is my house". Afrikaans: "Hierdie is my huis". Swedish: "Denna är min hus." English: "Give me the knife". Afrikaans: "Gee my die mes". Swedish: "Ge (or giva) mig kniven". Very close to english. Sentence order is the same. Numbers: en, tva, tre, fyra, fem, sex, sio, åtta, nio, tio. "Frost" is "frost". "snow" is "snö". Etc etc. Super easy.
Well, it’s “detta är mitt hus” rather than ”denna är min hus”, and those differences complicate things. Because there are no rules to define which is correct, you have to… kind of just know. It’s hard to tell as a native, but I bet Swedish IS pretty hard. We rarely have a problem speaking English though, if needed. I’ve got a number of friends who live here and who don’t speak Swedish, so we just stick to English.
Load More Replies...I lived in Sweden for a year. I found the language pretty easy to pick up. It is pretty similar to English. It is also a Germanic language, like English. What I intend to convey is that I don't believe it is fair to label the language "really hard to learn". It is more accurate to say that you are struggling with learning a new language.
I sat in Swedish class with an Iranian woman who learned how to speak English from everyone sitting around us, her Swedish was never very good though.
One problem with learning Swedish is that many sweds speak English quite well and are happy to switch to English to make it easier and more comfortable for you. There are obviously generational and personal differences though.
A lot of people talk about the cost of living in Sweden. And I think that the essentials are quite fair, considering how much people make here. But it's the cost of the extras or the non essentials that are really expensive. So things like going to a movie, grabbing a drink, staying in a hotel, that can be really, really pricey. And seeing that there's a lot less consumer choice also makes things feel a bit more expensive.
Tbh I think this is how it would be in a good world and society. Everything needed to live a comfortable live (food, shelter, access to education and social interactions....) should be easily paid. Everything 'unnecessary' is luxury and should be more pricey. This way maybe people can live a good live, save for special events or things that they would appreciate more because it is something special... We have to many people poor and underfed while simultaneously to many overfed with not just food but unnecessary stuff ... But that's just my thinking - I don't know if I worded it good enough and we can only change so little if we are not rich or a politician...
Well, she probably won't give you a night in a hotel, but you might get her to take you behind the bins.
Load More Replies...Nah, this is just wrong. Canada is super expensive, and prices for drinks, eating out or entertainment are at least similar to or higher than those in Sweden. Let's use Numbeo as an example: https://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/compare_cities.jsp?country1=Sweden&country2=Canada&city1=Stockholm&city2=Toronto&tracking=getDispatchComparison
To imply that everyone earns more in Sweden is wrong. If I moved back to the US with my husband, he would earn twice as much as he does here. There may be certain fields that do better but there is a reason they struggle to keep doctors and it's the low pay.
When you go to a formal dinners, Swedes will actually like to encourage you to sit with people you don't know. This isn't applied to all dinners, of course, but I've been to weddings, work events, dinner parties, where the host actually made a seating arrangement that encourages you to get to know someone new.
No wonder they have to plan/bring games to start a conversation.
I'm the US, I assumed this was a normal tradition especially at work events.
Load More Replies...Did you hear they changed the cafeteria food at the kids school? I know I should be thankful that it's free but my kids are just not fans of "vegan Monday."
It's all that fat, starch, sugar and salt kids are being fed. Once you limit them on the treats and unhealthy meals their tastebuds will shift into enjoying healthy greens and lentils. In fact, if you stop drinking pop and just drink water for a while, when you drink pop again it will taste unbearably sweet.
Actually, the school lunches in Sweden are generally very healthy. They always serve lots of vegetables, protein and food that does not have a lot of salt or sugar. A common meal could be boiled potatoes, fish, peas and some sauce made out of sour cream, or pasta with protein rich bolognese, or mashed potatoes and meatballs and gravy. There might be a lot of starch, but most school lunches are all you can eat buffets with lots of options and a salad buffet so kids can choose to eat very healthy. Sweden also has a lot of restrictions on additives, so there aren't a lot of chemicals. There are also restrictions on how much sugar and salt can be added to food products. The food here does not taste like the food in America. The vegan food that is served in the schools is not as healthy as the regular meals. It's not because it's veggies, but rather because it's vegan meat substitutes. And they generally don't taste good even to people who like veggies. Kids need energy and protein so it's important that the food tastes good.
Load More Replies...Your kids need to deal with change and variety. Much of the world is vegetarian/vegan by necessity.
Those who are vegan by necessity don't eat vegan meat substitutes that taste like cardboard and chemicals, patties made out of root vegetables or lentil stew that tastes like vegetable bouillon. You can't compare the vegetarian food in developed countries with the vegetarian food in countries where a vegetarian diet is more common. It's just not the same food. Also, most of the world suffers from malnutrition and protein deficiency, and they don't have almost any variety. Most people who eat a vegetarian diet suffer from having to eat like that. A lot of people in rural areas where meat is a luxury look forward to eating meat, and when they do, they get a much needed surge of strength. We should help them find a solution to have a sustainable meat-based diet (which is possible), not the other way around.
Load More Replies...The worlds 7 longest living populations are mostly vegetarian... just sayin'
I just might be wrong here, but I think that's the whole point! 🤔
Load More Replies...This inflation is the worst my daycare bill just went up from 1,000 to 1,200 kr ($92 to $110).
Question to the Swedes: Does Sweden provide subsidized daycare fee programs, where the parent just has to pay a low amount a month and the rest the government pays?
Yes. This is done in all of Scandinavia.
Load More Replies...Oh, boohoo. Kindergarten in Canada is probably ten times as much per month.
One of the biggest downsides, it's the weather. Here in Malmo rarely snows in the winter. So it's really gray and really rainy, almost all the time, which is a really hard adjustment.
The south of Sweden, together with Denmark, Netherlands, Belgium etc, are affected by the gulf stream. Which means that they have relatively mild winters, they're humid and rainy not unlike England, and the temperatures are tolerable. It is a bit annoying at times, but for me, it makes spring and summer all the more enjoyable. Autumn is also gorgeous in Sweden ;)
Complains that sweden is too dark even in the south, then complains that the south is too tepid. Bro pick one or the other, you can have light or you can have snow 😂
Not complaints, they were culture shock comments. She's happy there, but there are always pros & cons.
Load More Replies...Most the stuff is pretty normal with some differences in europe. I live in germany and nothing of this has surprised me. ^^
Most is really different from US. I think it may have been US designated. The work and school cultures are so different!
Load More Replies...I’ve always wanted to live in Europe but I’m extremely sensitive to temperature so I won’t adjust well at all. (I already consider 19°C too cold)
I live in New England where the winters average 0ºC and the summers average 30ºC...and we're at the same latitude as Barcelona and Rome. Years ago, I went on student exchange to Germany and stayed with a family who lived just north of Frankfurt. It was July, and I froze my a**e off.
Load More Replies...If I had the $$$ I'd spend a year (each) in different parts of the world, just to see how they go through the seasons & of course have enough time to travel around. I moved from the tropics to NYC (many years ago) & although I was quite familiar w/everything, including the language, I was astonished nobody had thought to mention the sky was grey for almost entire winter. I still expected blue skies & it was a shock. Neither the cold, nor the pollution were as bad as I had heard though.
I love the swedish language because having grown up in a british colony (South Africa), I have excellent english, and swedish is really similar. However, the darkness and asocial behaviour would make me suicidal very quickly. We are used to sun and friendly people in africa.
We’re not actually THAT unfriendly or asocial. This lady seems to have been unlucky - I’ve heard a lot of people exclaim the opposite, that it’s “easy to make real friends” here. I think it differs a lot. The damned weather though… Don’t get me STARTED on the weather.
Load More Replies...What I got out of this post is that there is plenty of darkness, cold days/nights, and rain... and that people don't feel socially pressured to make friends with literally everyone. I'm sold!
I found this article profoundly irritating. She had to use GOOGLE TRANSLATE? Poor baby. Yes, people speak Swedish in Sweden, believe it or not. But at least Swedes are almost always fluent in English and happy to speak English. And yes, salaries are higher for a HIGH EARNER in the US than in Sweden. Equality, moderation and safety are at the core of the Swedish mindset. In Sweden, you will always have healthcare, guaranteed 5 week paid vacation, pension, maternity leave, inexpensive day care, free university, etc etc etc. In the US you will have a good life if you have a good job that pays well. Hopefully you won't lose the job, because then the entire family loses health insurance. Then you risk ending up living paycheck to paycheck, like 70% of Americans.
OK, this lady is delusional, North American and clearly not worth our time.
I think people should travel and maybe stay a month or two in a country. Work exchanges for a stay etc do exist. :) (Heck, I know I could use a handy helper for a summer.)
Most the stuff is pretty normal with some differences in europe. I live in germany and nothing of this has surprised me. ^^
Most is really different from US. I think it may have been US designated. The work and school cultures are so different!
Load More Replies...I’ve always wanted to live in Europe but I’m extremely sensitive to temperature so I won’t adjust well at all. (I already consider 19°C too cold)
I live in New England where the winters average 0ºC and the summers average 30ºC...and we're at the same latitude as Barcelona and Rome. Years ago, I went on student exchange to Germany and stayed with a family who lived just north of Frankfurt. It was July, and I froze my a**e off.
Load More Replies...If I had the $$$ I'd spend a year (each) in different parts of the world, just to see how they go through the seasons & of course have enough time to travel around. I moved from the tropics to NYC (many years ago) & although I was quite familiar w/everything, including the language, I was astonished nobody had thought to mention the sky was grey for almost entire winter. I still expected blue skies & it was a shock. Neither the cold, nor the pollution were as bad as I had heard though.
I love the swedish language because having grown up in a british colony (South Africa), I have excellent english, and swedish is really similar. However, the darkness and asocial behaviour would make me suicidal very quickly. We are used to sun and friendly people in africa.
We’re not actually THAT unfriendly or asocial. This lady seems to have been unlucky - I’ve heard a lot of people exclaim the opposite, that it’s “easy to make real friends” here. I think it differs a lot. The damned weather though… Don’t get me STARTED on the weather.
Load More Replies...What I got out of this post is that there is plenty of darkness, cold days/nights, and rain... and that people don't feel socially pressured to make friends with literally everyone. I'm sold!
I found this article profoundly irritating. She had to use GOOGLE TRANSLATE? Poor baby. Yes, people speak Swedish in Sweden, believe it or not. But at least Swedes are almost always fluent in English and happy to speak English. And yes, salaries are higher for a HIGH EARNER in the US than in Sweden. Equality, moderation and safety are at the core of the Swedish mindset. In Sweden, you will always have healthcare, guaranteed 5 week paid vacation, pension, maternity leave, inexpensive day care, free university, etc etc etc. In the US you will have a good life if you have a good job that pays well. Hopefully you won't lose the job, because then the entire family loses health insurance. Then you risk ending up living paycheck to paycheck, like 70% of Americans.
OK, this lady is delusional, North American and clearly not worth our time.
I think people should travel and maybe stay a month or two in a country. Work exchanges for a stay etc do exist. :) (Heck, I know I could use a handy helper for a summer.)
