Woman Gets Slapped At A Wedding For Trying To Lift 16 Y.O. Boy’s Kilt, Plays The Victim
Everyone thinks that only women get harassed, but that’s because nobody ever really listens to the men who are victims. Whenever a man tries to speak up, he’s either silenced or made fun of. So why would anyone want to come forward or seek help?
Luckily, there are people who take a stand on behalf of men. A teen on Reddit shared how she tried to protect her younger brother who was at the receiving end of unwanted advances from a girl. Not everybody sided with her, but she still persisted.
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Teen slaps girl who kept chasing her younger brother around to look under his kilt
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The 19YO poster shared that a drunk 18YO girl was chasing around her 16YO brother and trying to look under his kilt, she kept persisting even though she was being told to stop
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The poster slapped the other girl, who screamed that she would call the cops, but when the author said she would call the cops on her for harassment, the girl backed down
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Although the teen’s older brother, the groom, completely supported her, the incident caused drama with his wife’s family, so the poster had to apologize to the girl she slapped
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Nobody should get away with harassing another person, and it’s good that the teen took a stand in this case
The Original Poster (OP) is a 19-year-old girl. She, her 16-year-old brother, and their family were attending her older brother’s wedding. The wedding party had specific outfits for the groomsmen and bridesmaids. The men’s side wore kilts, while the women wore dresses matching the tartan. During the reception, a drunk girl kept trying to look under the men’s kilts. She did not stop doing it even when they told her to leave them alone.
She eventually began chasing the teen’s younger brother, even persisting after the other men tried to hide him. This kind of harassment directed towards men isn’t rare. Research on the assault of men has shown that nearly 43% have experienced some kind of harassment or violence in their lifetimes. Around 51.3% of those reported that they were first victimized prior to age 18.
You might think that only men are the perpetrators of assault or violence, but studies show that even women and girls can be abusers. According to the Washington Post, a study on 13,000 children found that for more than half of the male victims of assaults, their violator was a girl. Boys also tend to be wary of coming forward or sharing these difficult experiences with adults.
Despite all the evidence that men can be abused, people don’t tend to take it seriously. The OP even said this in the comments: “there is a guy saying I’m wrong because my brother would have enjoyed it.” People often believe that men welcome such advances, but this couldn’t be further from the truth. Harassment and abuse can have a lasting and serious impact on the lives and well-being of men and boys
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The poster could not stand to see her brother being harassed by the girl, so she walked up to her and slapped her. She mentioned that it wasn’t a hard slap, but the girl still reacted strongly. The drunk teen was enraged and said she would call the cops on the boy’s sister. But when the author told her that she’d call the police on her for assaulting a minor, the girl backed down and said she was “just playing around.”
Although most commenters were supportive of the poster’s actions, some felt that the violence wasn’t justified. To which the teen replied, “may I ask how you personally would deal with an 18 year old man trying to lift up the skirt of a 16 year old girl you care about who had repeatedly told him to leave her alone. The girl had even gone outside to avoid this man. He followed her out and tried to get to her even when she was hiding behind other girls.”
These double standards in people’s thinking are sadly more commonplace than one would imagine. Psychologists have said that even though women commit around 20% of harassment and assault offenses against children, these cases are severely underreported. It’s difficult for boys and men to come forward and share their stories because of public perceptions and the stereotypes associated with the way males should behave.
The teen’s post and her actions helped bring to light the way male victims are treated. In this case, she stood up for her brother even though very few people were on her side. But men don’t always have people in their corner. It’s important to be there for guys and to make sure that they aren’t taken advantage of just because of their gender.
Do you think the girl was right to slap the drunk teen? What would you have done if you were in her place? Share your thoughts in the comments.
Netizens were shocked that the drunk teen did not back down and that she thought that it was okay to harass the young boy
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And this is why children are still being abused: just "to keep the peace". Peace is always preferable over war, so to speak, but the price is too high if 'keeping the peace' means looking away when bad things happen. This girl, by taking a stand, shames all the so-called adults at the event!
Omg this makes me so angry! Seriously, OP is 100% correct when she says imagine the stink if the genders were switched. The poor guy repeatedly removed himself and the other guys tried body-blocking her. She was repeatedly told to stop. She was drunk - there's only so much reasoning you can do. Yeah, police could have been threatened before the slap, but in fairness it sounds more like a 'clap' than a slap and it was on an arm so sounds more like an attention-getter/a shock rather than violence per se (I'm not saying here it was the right thing to do, just pointing out it's not the same as smacking someone full-on in the face). Good on OP for actively defending her brother, and personally I'd not get too worked up over the light smack (if what you've said is accurate). Her behaviour was outrageous.
So disgusting. I don't condone violence but I fully condone that slap.
Load More Replies...If people are coming after OP and this drunken child molester doesn't stand up for OP, then OP should simply tell them why she slapped this p3do. It's pretty simple. If the drunken child molester isn't around when OP is being attacked for defending a boy, then OP should still tell them why she slapped that p3do; if they don't believe her, they can check with the p3do herself, the men who were hiding the boy from this p3do, and the many witnesses that saw this unfold.
hot damn, you are throwing around strong words. I completely agree with the point that you're making, but calling the woman in the story a "child molester" or "pedo" is pretty extreme for a 2 year age gap. yes, this was sexual harassment, yes, the woman deserves to be called out for that, but your language is unnecessary
Load More Replies...The double standard with some women thinking it's fine to harass boys that way is truly sickening.
That's why it's important to report it, not sweep it under the rug. It will never be taken seriously until we stand out ground and say it is a big deal.
Load More Replies...It's worse that the kid was 16, but upskirt/upkilt is not ok no matter what the age. It's illegal in Scotland as a specific offence, and covered by general assault laws elsewhere. See if anyone got her on video and send it to the family and the police. If you're in Scotland, Edinburglive will run it front page.
This is disgusting. If this was my brother I woulda given her a full-blown fůcking punch in the f**kıng jaw. As a girl myself, I’m horrified at how people don’t f**kıng about men being sexually abused but when a woman gets sexually abused everyone has a heart attack. Don’t get me wrong - I believe the world is f**kėd when women AND men get sexually assaulted, but society just doesn’t care that much about men. And that’s not OK. It’s f**kėd.
Oh, I hate this so much! I have been a Scottish Highland Dancer since 1990 and the number of drunk women who think they can grope young male pipers and drummers for 'funsies' is disgusting. I sometimes cynically joke that this is the only hobby where nobody really cares what the women wear under their skirts. Also, this is the reason why selfie sticks are banned at Highland Games.
Too many women do not realise that women sexually harassing men is as disgusting and criminal as the other way around. That there is a minor involved makes it all so much worse.
my son wears a kilt occasionally and he is always being asked what is under there. he usually handles it well but i have to admit that i did love the one time he bent over and mooned the girls that were harassing him.
He needs a pair of underpants that says "back off pervert" or something similar
Load More Replies...Superb response by OP, right down to pointing out the attempted sexual assault. And then the maturity not to rub the assaulter's nose in it, and so possibly cause her brother a lifetime of issues with his in laws. Textbook from someone so young too. I would be so proud if I had acted like that, and I'm way, way older.
This kind of behaviour would have been an introduction of my foot to her ar$e as I kicked her out. Anyone has a problem with someone assaulting a child should be allowed to call it out and dish out some justice. Anyone who gets upset at the person harassing a child being punished needs to take a long hard look at themselves as a trash human being. That girl is lucky all she got was a slap
"U shouldve let this 16 yr old boy get sexually assaulted" is all im hearing. Wtaf. OP is a hero bloody hell
This is never talked about. I have a few kilts. Some are new and some are inherited from my grandfather that were made in Scotland. I wear kilts at special occasions, renaissance faires, etc.... the number of women who make comments about 'kilt checks" is insane. Nobody bats an eye when a woman does it. Yes, I have had women lift it to see if I am regimental.
Dear goodness, people just don't understand do they. My husband wears kilts in the summer because he doesn't like shorts. He doesn't mind if people ask in a joking way, because it's unusual here. But the amount of people who think it's okay to lunge at his kilt ... Unbelievable.
Load More Replies...It may be legal for 18 year olds to drink where OP lives, but is there a disorderly charge available?
Yes, it's called Antisocial Behaviour Order or ASBO for short. Anyone over the age of 12 can get it. Some, unfortunately, see it more as a badge of honour though.
Load More Replies...Wtf is wrong with that woman?! It was Not okay for her to harrass the adult men about it, and DOUBLY not okay for her to do it to a teenager!
WHY DO SO MANY F**KİNG PPL THINK ITS OK TO LIFT UP A PERSONS KILT WTF THIS IS SO WEIRD AND PERVERTED
Okay imo kilts are hot, yes, but people need to stop. Why do you even care what's under someone's kilt/skirt?!?
Wow, a woman doing something awful and then playing the victim. What a shock.
And this is why children are still being abused: just "to keep the peace". Peace is always preferable over war, so to speak, but the price is too high if 'keeping the peace' means looking away when bad things happen. This girl, by taking a stand, shames all the so-called adults at the event!
Omg this makes me so angry! Seriously, OP is 100% correct when she says imagine the stink if the genders were switched. The poor guy repeatedly removed himself and the other guys tried body-blocking her. She was repeatedly told to stop. She was drunk - there's only so much reasoning you can do. Yeah, police could have been threatened before the slap, but in fairness it sounds more like a 'clap' than a slap and it was on an arm so sounds more like an attention-getter/a shock rather than violence per se (I'm not saying here it was the right thing to do, just pointing out it's not the same as smacking someone full-on in the face). Good on OP for actively defending her brother, and personally I'd not get too worked up over the light smack (if what you've said is accurate). Her behaviour was outrageous.
So disgusting. I don't condone violence but I fully condone that slap.
Load More Replies...If people are coming after OP and this drunken child molester doesn't stand up for OP, then OP should simply tell them why she slapped this p3do. It's pretty simple. If the drunken child molester isn't around when OP is being attacked for defending a boy, then OP should still tell them why she slapped that p3do; if they don't believe her, they can check with the p3do herself, the men who were hiding the boy from this p3do, and the many witnesses that saw this unfold.
hot damn, you are throwing around strong words. I completely agree with the point that you're making, but calling the woman in the story a "child molester" or "pedo" is pretty extreme for a 2 year age gap. yes, this was sexual harassment, yes, the woman deserves to be called out for that, but your language is unnecessary
Load More Replies...The double standard with some women thinking it's fine to harass boys that way is truly sickening.
That's why it's important to report it, not sweep it under the rug. It will never be taken seriously until we stand out ground and say it is a big deal.
Load More Replies...It's worse that the kid was 16, but upskirt/upkilt is not ok no matter what the age. It's illegal in Scotland as a specific offence, and covered by general assault laws elsewhere. See if anyone got her on video and send it to the family and the police. If you're in Scotland, Edinburglive will run it front page.
This is disgusting. If this was my brother I woulda given her a full-blown fůcking punch in the f**kıng jaw. As a girl myself, I’m horrified at how people don’t f**kıng about men being sexually abused but when a woman gets sexually abused everyone has a heart attack. Don’t get me wrong - I believe the world is f**kėd when women AND men get sexually assaulted, but society just doesn’t care that much about men. And that’s not OK. It’s f**kėd.
Oh, I hate this so much! I have been a Scottish Highland Dancer since 1990 and the number of drunk women who think they can grope young male pipers and drummers for 'funsies' is disgusting. I sometimes cynically joke that this is the only hobby where nobody really cares what the women wear under their skirts. Also, this is the reason why selfie sticks are banned at Highland Games.
Too many women do not realise that women sexually harassing men is as disgusting and criminal as the other way around. That there is a minor involved makes it all so much worse.
my son wears a kilt occasionally and he is always being asked what is under there. he usually handles it well but i have to admit that i did love the one time he bent over and mooned the girls that were harassing him.
He needs a pair of underpants that says "back off pervert" or something similar
Load More Replies...Superb response by OP, right down to pointing out the attempted sexual assault. And then the maturity not to rub the assaulter's nose in it, and so possibly cause her brother a lifetime of issues with his in laws. Textbook from someone so young too. I would be so proud if I had acted like that, and I'm way, way older.
This kind of behaviour would have been an introduction of my foot to her ar$e as I kicked her out. Anyone has a problem with someone assaulting a child should be allowed to call it out and dish out some justice. Anyone who gets upset at the person harassing a child being punished needs to take a long hard look at themselves as a trash human being. That girl is lucky all she got was a slap
"U shouldve let this 16 yr old boy get sexually assaulted" is all im hearing. Wtaf. OP is a hero bloody hell
This is never talked about. I have a few kilts. Some are new and some are inherited from my grandfather that were made in Scotland. I wear kilts at special occasions, renaissance faires, etc.... the number of women who make comments about 'kilt checks" is insane. Nobody bats an eye when a woman does it. Yes, I have had women lift it to see if I am regimental.
Dear goodness, people just don't understand do they. My husband wears kilts in the summer because he doesn't like shorts. He doesn't mind if people ask in a joking way, because it's unusual here. But the amount of people who think it's okay to lunge at his kilt ... Unbelievable.
Load More Replies...It may be legal for 18 year olds to drink where OP lives, but is there a disorderly charge available?
Yes, it's called Antisocial Behaviour Order or ASBO for short. Anyone over the age of 12 can get it. Some, unfortunately, see it more as a badge of honour though.
Load More Replies...Wtf is wrong with that woman?! It was Not okay for her to harrass the adult men about it, and DOUBLY not okay for her to do it to a teenager!
WHY DO SO MANY F**KİNG PPL THINK ITS OK TO LIFT UP A PERSONS KILT WTF THIS IS SO WEIRD AND PERVERTED
Okay imo kilts are hot, yes, but people need to stop. Why do you even care what's under someone's kilt/skirt?!?
Wow, a woman doing something awful and then playing the victim. What a shock.
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