According to a study published in the European Journal of Social Psychology, it takes 18 to 254 days for a person to form a new habit. (The study also concluded that, on average, it takes 66 days for a new behavior to become automatic.)
Depending on how tight your schedule is, this may sound like a lot of hassle. However, even the slightest changes in your lifestyle can snowball into substantial, palpable results. And there's a fresh Reddit thread to get some ideas.

Created by user iam_robas, it asked everyone the question, "What's a simple habit you practice daily that helps you stay positive?" It's not the most popular post on the platform, but the discussion in the comment section provides interesting insights into how people navigate these turbulent times.
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Toxic, dramatic people. Just shut them out. Coworkers, family. Don’t care, can’t hear you. I have an average life to live. Don’t try to spice it up with your reality tv show nonsense
Even gossipy, negative, snarky youtube content I can't stomach anymore. I don't want to be watching someone's bad day, melt downs anymore. I don't even want to hear about it someone shaming someone for personal, inside matters that have nothing to do with me. It's not my problem. Not my business.
So true. I'm relatively good at letting negativity bounce off, but there's situations where you can't ignore or cut out toxic people: A) my stepdaughter's mother has entirely too much influence on our moods and lives, but we can't ignore her if we want to keep the girl (that I've loved since she was 1 1/2, she's almost 6 now) in our lives. It's a bad thing for our family (we've got twin toddlers of our own), but what can we do? B) my best friend has so many ongoing health issues, both mental and physical, that she lives in a bubble and rarely let's anyone in, but if she does, I just feel helpless around her, and like it doesn't even matter that I'm trying, but I know I'm her best friend and she is very lonely C) my sister has ongoing psychological issues, to the point where she can't work in her job (sth. like a burnout, but not just work-related), and she is mostly working on noticing and fulfilling her own needs right now - it hopefully will pass. TLDR: It's def. rarely that simple!
Load More Replies...What is a "dramatic" person? Someone who feels more strongly than you about a certain thing. Is that wrong or bad?
Every single thing that happens is "stressful" and worthy of tears and constantly being spoken about, and then suddenly it never existed. Constant attention-grabbing by any means; it's exhausting!
Load More Replies...I always pretend those toxic people are never exist. Everytime they're trying to talk to me, i act like i didnt hear them lol ☠️
I try and go out for a few hours any day I'm off work and just go for a coffee, food and walk around my city for a few hours. It's such a simple yet nice thing I do that keeps me being positive. My friends make fun of me for it though :/
Even during the work week beeing outside and in natural daylight can help you to sleep better. So I like to take my lunchbreak outside if the weater is nice and walk a small part of my commute.
That's why I went for full remote : I use my lunch break for walking, then I eat while working ^^
Load More Replies...If your friends make fun of you for such a wonderful self-care practice it might be time to expand your friends circle. Taking a walk and break from the chaos of life is such a healthy and wonderful practice. Your workaholic friends are truly missing out.
I wish I had the mental capacity just to go out for a walk and be by myself...
I started bringing fresh water to the cat community in my neighborhood. The woman who fed them 3x's @ day moved. Now I go every night to feed them too. There are times when having to do this saved my life. You will do things for others you won't do for yourself.
Load More Replies...This is something we are doing as a family after falling into a Covid rut . A change of scenery and habit can really improve depression
I sit outside in silence and be in the moment listening to nature.
I'm fortunate to live close to George Washington National Forest, so I can get way out in the woods by myself pretty easily.
Load More Replies...Love this one! For work I have to walk about 1/4 mile across a parking lot to an adjacent building for the mail. One particular area has trees and jasmine (that is currently blooming and smells amazing) and I always try to close my eyes and enjoy the outside for at least part of that time.
Sleep
I’ve started really prioritizing it lately, making sure I get 9 hours (cause I’m indulgent like that) every night. It’s made a great difference in my depression and work productivity :) used to be my hobby because I wasn’t getting enough, now it’s my lifestyle 😎
Load More Replies...I could do that...or I could open just *one* more link on Bored Panda 😋
I never understood why some people brag about how little sleep they get or need likes it's some bade of honour. I would have friends and acquaintances in University that would brag about only needing 4 hours of sleep and then wonder why they were always sick or cranky. Sleep is rejuvenating and can help you focus better.
I've been sleeping a lot more lately and still feel like I'm not getting enough.
Seven to eight hours of sound, quality sleep (i.e., REM and not just tossing and turning) is so very important to good health, especially controlling your blood pressure. So many people don’t take this seriously enough.
Or can't do anything about it... I've got twin toddlers (16 months) who take turns waking up at night. I usually sleep less than 6 hours a night (I'm working full time, doing some house work in the evening, in bed by 20:30, then my husband takes the baby monitor until he gets to bed around 0:00 (he has a breathing device because of his sleep apnoea, can't get up as easily at night), but I only fall asleep around 22:00; one child usually wakes up for a while around 2:00, is up for half an hour and stays in our bed till she actually wants to get up around 4:00, 4:30 tops. Some nights the other sister wakes up around 3:00 to make matters more interesting, but they're both awake by 5:00). On the weekends, I can take a two-hour nap, but that's just not enough. I can't delegate more to my husband because the children are in a very needy place and cry for hours when they know I'm there and don't come to them. I'm just hoping they'll get back to sleeping through the nights, so I can, too...
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Singing in the car. It’s tough to be in a bad mood while singing
I have my favorite CDs that I like to sing along with and a great radio station too. Once I'm in the car, Carnegie Hall here I come!
My sister and I just yesterday: my mom was in a restaurant picking up food and she and I were belting out "if it makes you happy" as loud as we could. Told us as soon as she left the restaurant she could hear it all across the parking lot. She hates road trips where my sister is the driver, but we laughed after our performance.
I was thinking they surely never sung Gloomy Sunday :)
Load More Replies...I still sing to the same two CDs that my friend made for our friend's group what seems like eons ago. They always lift my spirits and make me think of really happy times.
Do it like no one is watching and then you make the people who stop next to you at the robot smile as well (if they have any joy left in their hearts)
This. Sometimes just turning up the radio in the car and singing along to a song from a happier place and time is soul fixing.
Thank Goodness for Rush Hour djs & their awesome jams. Hard to want to flick someone off jamming out to Ice Ice Baby lol (that was today's happy place song)
Before I get up out of bed, I give gratitude for many blessings. I give thanks for simple things like having a roof, a pillow, a bed, comfy blankets, a safe place to live, plumbing...and then go on to bigger things like people who love and support me. I do this throughout the day, even giving thanks for difficulties (thank you, asshole driver who gives me the opportunity to practice patience ha).
Sending positive vibes your way from my heart I hope things get better for you.
Load More Replies...Yesssss this. I can swear for this. I do it in the night before sleep.
Are you not worried this could lead to you being too accepting of bad situations to change them?
That's what I do, think of something I'm grateful for. It really works.
We practice that with my stepdaughter (5). We ask her before she goes to sleep, what she liked about the day (and what she would like to improve upon the next time) and tell her what we thought was great. And of course, we tell each other how much we are glad to have each other, and that we love each other, even if we had a fight.
Play with my sisters cat
Having pets is good for us! Cat, dog, rabbit, bird- whatever fits you. It is something that you have to take care of (so you can't give up) and will love you for it. They can also be an endless source of amusement.
Cats make me forget all my troubles. Even just looking at them and their stupid antics relieves all my stress.
Feel your emotions, pick them apart, try to understand why they came up, but don't let them control you.
I hear yah! What helps me is to tell myself this may be uncomfortable but I'm going to let myself feel it. Then I focus on where I feel it in my body, like heavy stomach, or warmth in my face. I find it will fade naturally. And yes breath through it!
Load More Replies...This one I have a problem with. Asking someone suffering from depression or schizophrenia to analyze their feelings could go very wrong. Their minds could be interpretating situations and reality a whole different way and come up with completely the wrong solution. I would say a better option would be to share your emotions and feelings with a friend who could help you try and understand why and what you are feeling.
Indeed. My psychiatrist said that you can only go over things so many times before it becomes harmful. Think it through and then somehow find a way to be done. Mine is telling myself that I've been down that avenue and exploring it again won't change the scenery. Or in other words bad times don't need revisiting once you have accepted what they were and how they made you feel. It's not easy finding what works as we vary in our needs but this seems to help me.
Load More Replies...And remember to take note of the positive emotions too, and what brought them up. Remember that that song made you smile, or that that walk in the sunshine gave you more energy. File it away and use it later when you need a pick me up
That's the more important one in my opinion. My mother found a way to explain that to my 8-year-old niece: Thoughts are like looking glasses, if you think about something, it becomes bigger to your mind's eye, no matter if it's a good thing or a bad thing. Focus on the good things, or they will appear tiny in your memory.
Load More Replies...This is extremely hard when you've been raised to suppress and not react.
Buddhists call this "untying the knots". Contemplating your feelings, what beliefs they're associated with, where they came from, assessing their value to you, and making changes in behavior based on this understanding.
Stretching for 5 mins is almost a ritual for me
Your body has an impact on your mental health and vice versa so keep moving. You owe it to yourself
When my alarm goes off, I hit the 5 minute snooze and spend that time stretching my back (while still in bed and warm under the blankets). I'll hug my knees against my chest, roll my legs from side to side, etc). I used to tweak my back sometimes, doing mundane things like tying my shoe or sneezing, but I haven't had any problems since I started doing this. It also helps me wake up, since I'm not hitting the snooze then falling back asleep only to be jolted awake when the alarm goes off again moments later.
Maintaining flexibility is so much easier than regaining it. I was super flexible into my early 20s, but stopped exercising, which significantly cut down on the stretching. Chronic pain, weight gain, and spending too much time hunched over a computer all contributed to my loss of flexibility. I really only stretched as a reactionary measure when something specific hurt. I'd still have pain, thanks to my fibro, but I believe it wouldn't be as bad if I had maintained flexibility; my connective tissue would be stronger, as well. Which would mean fewer problems with my joints.
All animals do a good stretch after a nap or sleep when getting up. I started doing the same and it's a big relief!
Stay in contact with friends, see what they're up to, offer to help if there is something I can do.
Having good contacts helps mental health. We're a social species and are meant to be in groups. Get out there make friends and keep the good ones.
Spend some time in nature - walk, run etc. Sounds cliche but works wonders.
Every morning I wake up to birds chirping, (waiting for me to feed them lol) but starting in the sun & fresh air makes my day. End it feeding birds too. Wipes away all the crazy of the day
This may get downvotes but to me there is nothing so soothing and healing than swimming, unclothed, in nature, natural water, then resting, unclothed, after in the wind and sun. For some reason it's extremely spiritual for me.
Drink lots of water
Beer is also good. Of course it’s not as good as water, but it’s not bad at all, is it 🍻
Beer is water with added vegetables! So got to be better.
Load More Replies...There's a funny meme I always think about when I hear this and it's that growing up you think that alcohol is an adult drink. It's not until you're an adult that you realize water is the adult drink.
Being grateful
It would be great to have as many things as you can be grateful for.
1 year ago I was saying such things. I figured out that I have things to be grateful for, I was just not able to see it.
Load More Replies...Do you have all of your limbs? Are you free from a life long Are you free from a lifelong illness or 1 that's threatening your life? Do you have enough to eat and a roof over your head? Are you living in a country that's not currently being invaded? Do you have 1 person you can trust to talk to? Do you have access to clean water? Medical care? Do you have any family who care about you? Is there any chance that you could get more education? If most of these are true you're already so much better off than most of the people in the world. Is it possible to be grateful for that?
When you start looking for things to be grateful for, you will find that there is more good in your live than you realised.
Staying single
Sometimes I have fantasies of being single again.... but I have a bf (been with him for 9 years) and 3 kids. I don't think I will be able to consider myself as single until a few decades ahead. Lol. No, but really: I love being alone and always have. And I love being a mom but I also sometimes want to put a pause to being a mom. Just for a week or so. Haha.
Go back in time and tell my high school self that. I'm grateful never to have done the dating scene but getting married young was also stupid. My younger self should have been kicked in the head for many reasons.
Supported. Answering to someone else is a nuisance, have to do it all day at work.
"People share the small habits that make THEIR life a little better". I assume this person knows what is better for them...
Load More Replies...Try to be nice to everyone, no matter when or where
These are copy and pasted from Reddit. You can't reply to them.
Load More Replies...Or at least we can try to be polite, if it's impossible to be nice. A few manners never go astray.
Yup, even though it's super hard at times when people are taking their anger out on you, or just projecting negative reactions and emotions, sometimes people will just calm down and start cooperating as long as they know they're being heard and understood and there is some empathy to their situation. I've come across this so many times and gotten gratitude for being patient and understanding.
Unfortunately people are becoming less civilized every day. Angry music, angry programs, and lying politicians. And the list goes on....
A do list! It helps me to visualise what I've actually achieved that day
Totally unrelated but I LOVE LOVE LOVE fountain pens. I never use one, but I wish I did.
Then treat yourself to one, you're worth it! :)
Load More Replies...A mentor once said, “Plan out your day/week and write your to do list before you get started. If you’re writing it after you do the tasks, it’s not a to do list, it’s a diary.”
And for those with memory problems it helps us not feel lazy when we can look back on what we've done the past couple of days.
This is my daily ritual with my girl. Every night we will wrote down our agenda for tomorrow, and then check it one by one everytime the job is done. Its really really helpful !
I smoke cigarettes and drink coffee.
more like how I care for those who I have to deal with daily :-)
Load More Replies...I do love my morning coffee. It's like a little, delicious ritual to look forward to.
Yes!! I feel the same way, except for with a slice of homemade bread with butter instead of coffee. I just started baking bread lately and dang it is my new OBSESSION ;D I always look forward to crawling out of bed, just for my morning tea
Load More Replies...And they say it’s not good for you! I never feel better than after a few cups and a couple of smokes ❤️ Specially on early summer mornings, totally alone, sitting in the morning sun listening to either the city waking up, smelling the smell of people living or even listening to the birds ❤️
Smoking gives you cancer. It is bad for you
Load More Replies...15 years without a puff and I still miss it... BUT I can breathe so much better I will NOT go back to it. People who have never smoked have no idea how comforting a cigarette can be, so they should not be so critical.
Wherever you feel a lot of pressure just go out of that place breathe in and exhale out Life will be much better
Just spending 10 minutes outdoors in nature everyday can have such a uplifting affect on my mood.
This is excellent advice for those that can do it. I don’t know how many times I had to argue with coworkers to just take a damn break. They’d always argue that they didn’t have time, and I’d say, “You’re so exhausted that you’re working at 50% efficiency, and maybe you’re so exhausted that you’re just f*cking up what you’re trying to do. If you step outside or go get a bite to eat, you will refresh and get more accomplished in the long run.” Not everyone gets to step away, unfortunately, if even for a moment.
Morning wank to get the day started
And a after-lunch one to rejuvenate you for the afternoon
Load More Replies...So what I'm gathering from this post is that, as the sun orbits the earth, there's a never-ending wave of masturbation circling the globe.
Omg yes! That means that at any given second somebody out there is having this sweet dizzy feeling
Load More Replies...I don't know what is scarier. The number of upvotes this got or thinking what so many of you doing in the morning!!!! "Hello, therapist? Can you squeeze me in for an extra session this week? (NO! That sounds so wrong in this context!) Yes I have been on Bored Panda again."
Wank? Does this mean what I think it does? And did BP who censors the name D**k let this slide ? (no pun intended)
I have an issue with taking things personally, what helps is for example if someone comes off as rude to me or dismissive I usually remind myself that they are probably going through a bad day or something. Most of the time I pry and ask and they end up revealing an issue to me or what happened to cause them to be in a sour mood. It has helped me a lot :)
yep. Most people don't set out to be assholes. I ask them "hey did I say something that made you angry and if so do you mind explaining so I don't do it again?" - always defuses the situation.
Walk my dog
That reminds me of - If your dog is too fat, you are not getting enough exercise!
This is true! I hurt my ankle and couldn't walk my tiny dog. She had to go to the vets to have her boosters and was weighed by the nurse who handed her back to me saying 'porker'. In just three weeks she'd got chubby!! I felt terrible. Fortunately, it was temporary.
Load More Replies...I block people online that has an energy or attitude I don't wanna be impacted by. This is my time and I am here for my needs.
I've lately gotten into the habit of putting my phone on silent for a bit when I feel emotionally overwhelmed. I don't want to hear any ringing or chimes. I just want some peace and silence and some music that matches my moods.
Force myself to smile for a few seconds
Years spent in acting classes as a child (and going on auditions, having headshot photos taken, getting a few small parts in movies/TV shows etc.) made me excellent at smiling even when I don’t feel like it XD Once I’m smiling, though, it usually becomes a real smile because you start to really feel it!
Being appreciative for how much easier my life is than previous generations’.
I mean this in the best way possible but love that her thighs are Not Airbrushed. Need more Positive examples of healthy Not perfect.
Eagle Girl I never would have noticed if you hadn't pointed it out. Very observant of you.
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Talk yourself up with positive phrases throughout the day. Wake up a little before work, an extra hour ideally, and have some time to yourself. I like listening to music and drinking coffee during this time.
Yeah, not everyone has a work schedule that realistically allows that. And not everyone is a morning person either. As a night owl, I like to make some time in the evening for myself, that’s when I have the energy and the time.
Load More Replies...I have to take my downtime after work. Waking up is a chore and always unpleasant, so I’m never going to do so even a minute before I have to. But this does work very well for my wife, who is very much a morning person.
This should be rephrased to carve out an hour out of your day for YOU. Whatever fits into your schedule. Whatever make you feel better. It is not illegal to turn off your phone! You do not have to be plugged in 24x7. After a while your friends will know not to try to contact you.
Songs that match my thoughts or mood
Many songs match someone's thoughts and moods on different occasions, and good music will always be useful.
This why “F*ck Everybody, F*ck Today and F*ck You, Too (and Me While You’re At It) is always on my playlist.
gardening (weather permitting)
I adorer gardening. I love the feel of the earth beneath my fingers, the scent of fresh dirt, and watching my little seedling bloom into gorgeous flowers or delicious vegetables. It is almost a form of moving meditation.
I did this during the first covid lockdown in 2020, blew away my boredom at home and produced good amount of fresh vegetable to eat everyday!
I wish I could garden! Every plant I touch dies, unfortunately. I hope that someday I can fix that because i love being in nature and watching flowers bloom in the spring!
If you have a FB account, try joining the “Next Level Gardeners” group. They are very helpful, knowledgeable and supportive.
Load More Replies...running, drinking, coffee, eating good food, petting cat
Take my pills on time
Isn't that dangerous? I mean, a doctor prescribes them at a certain time for a reason.
It isn't dangerours per se. For some medication (I know of antidepressants, mood stabilisers) to work properly you need a certain concentration of the active ingredient in your blood. For optimal effect the concentration should be kept within a certain range. If you don't take your pills the same time every day the concentration in your blood varies and thus you'll have more mood swings.
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Flexing and makeing faces in the mirror while saying 'ayyyyee'
While waiting for the shower to warm up, I put on a banger of a song and dance. Wakes me up a bit and it’s fun.
The holy trinity: exercise, sleep, diet. These three things alone will go a long way, don't neglect them.
These are not small things! They are almost everything you need to be well.
Prayer, making offerings to the gods, ancestors and spirits. I always take time, especially in the morning, to stand outside, breathe deeply and remember that everything around me is full of life and energy, the ground, the plants, the animals, the stones...and I give thanks to them all.
making myself an egg sandwich in the morning with a glass of water, and enjoying my quiet hour long bus ride
I need an hour every morning before work, to wake up, drink my coffee, eat my toast, relax. I love my morning routine. No matter where i am living at the time. I cannot rush through the morning. I don't understand people that do lol
I try my best to tell myself all the things I like about me and all the important people that I have helped with in my life. And then I practice breathing exercises to calm myself down
Breathing exercises positively affects the polyvagal system and can calm down feelings of anxiety
When something bad happens I immediately find the best thing I can think about the situation
Forcing myself to get out of bed. A lot of days I don't want to at all. But once I do, it makes everything seem a little easier. Cuz even if the day is rough, I still got out of bed to take care of my family.
Being grateful for at least one thing that has happened to me every day. It doesn't have to be anything major, it doesn't even have to be something positive. Just something that you I am grateful for having in my life
Going for walks everyday, starting about 15 min after I wake up with a hot drink, magazine and my dog
Was a bit tearful from another comment so my vision was blurred... read 'wake up with a hot magazine'! 😶 I need a bit longer than that before I head out with my dogs!
Daily stretching. Just a quick touch the toes, stretch your neck, your wrists, your shoulders. You’ll feel much better
Take a moment to absorb some sun straight to the dome- imagining that its energy penetrates into a third eye,- then send rays of gratitude back to it. Just a few seconds makes a difference to me; doing this for half an hour and more gives me a good high When the wind is blowing I like to picture the vast oceans of air moving above and remind myself that i'm just flowing on a rock
"vast oceans of air moving above" - I found this oddly lifting and comforting
20 minutes on the cross trainer
I got one aswell, I coudn't be arsed to go to a gym, but I'll gladly do a round in my own home.
Greeting strangers in a friendly manner everywhere I go.
Untrue. Admittedly, I'm walking my dogs but I do it every single day and get smiles, greetings and friendly chat. Every single day. Often people reflect back what we send out.
Load More Replies...making bed,just shutting down every mobiles,laptop and other devices and being at the moment and being outside in fresh air
I remind myself where I'm heading in life, but even more important, I remind myself where I would have been if I didn't change path.
I take notes constantly in order to keep myself accountable and keep a record of tasks and chores I complete each day. It motivates me in two ways: having a to-do list makes it easier to be productive, and looking at a week of lists all checked off makes me feel really good about myself.
I have several tattoos that all are very personal and important to me. Every day I see the rubber ducky on my hand - it represents my wife. Her love, her caring, the special and fun times we've shared in our 24 years together all come back every time I see that duck, which is always
Me too! The tattoo on my ankle representing my best friend and our 40 years of friendship, especially now that she's gone. On my forearm is two words from a very important poem. Now Voyager...
Oh, I am so sorry about your friend. How lovely that you had her for so long though.
Load More Replies...Playing Xbox and racing cars
I got some really bad career news and was exceptionally angry and then my sons and husband physically placed me in front of the Xbox and taught me to play sniper elite - felt so much better after killing some rando's.... was surprisingly therapeutic
Starting my day by actively thinking about how I want to approach problems/issues. The act of making this a planned process rather than just reacting helps.
Exersize outside near some birds. Mental and physical health just skyrocket
Practicing Gratitude, Going on a Drive. Looking in the mirror and saying "You Sexy Beast, People go Crazy in Love with You".
Giving others
I tell myself that whatever negative feeling u get dsnt exist then hype myself back up. Like when Sad "No such thing as sadness don't be a little bitch get up, look proud and live this day that tomorrow you wont get back" i also fake smile a lot
I am not sure sure that I agree with this one. It sounds a lot like toxic positivity and that you are beating yourself up for being sad. Sadness, loneliness, grief, and anger are all normal human emotions. It is alright to feel them and lean into them. Pretending they don't exist can actually be detrimental. We aren't made to be happy all the time. People who say they are are lying to you.
i look at titties on the internet...life can be bad but there's always at least two good points to it
Drinking
Drinking a nice beer or glass of wine to unwind after a busy week can be really nice once in a while. However, if you are doing it every single day, you might want to look into a different coping habit.
Bottle it up, lock it in a chest, behind a door, in Fort Knox. Proceed with my day
That's really bad advice. You can't just bottle up negative emotions and lock them away. Soon or later they are all going to come out at once and it won't be pretty.
Couple of things that have helped me: 1, Stop fighting to be right. Keanu Reeves said once that something just changed when he turned 40 where he's like, 'you know what- I don't care. You think 1+1=5 fine. Great. Congrats.' And it's really true. Once I got older I was able to get rid of that need I had to argue and be right and I felt so much more calm when I just let go. 2, Try to recognize when depression or pain comes on and tell yourself that it won't feel like this forever...there is an end. There is another side and it will just take a little time to get to it but you will. In a day, a week you will feel better. Don't make decisions in that headspace that you regret later. This has helped me so much because now I can let myself be depressed and I keep in mind it will pass. But I'm not as scared of it anymore. 3, Apologize. Saying sorry can diffuse a situation and keep people from being upset with you- even if it was your fault. It also makes you appear more trustworthy.
Okay, do what you need to do in the short term, but I can say from personal experience that when those emotions DO get out, it's so miserable and can ruin a lot of relationships. Sometimes it's much better to be open, even if it's super hard at first. Hoping you're doing okay!
I severely limit social media and the amount of news I watch. My mental health has improved drastically by doing this. Also I enjoy doing things for those I am close to - it gives me a warm/happy feeling to make them smile. Also making someone laugh - it is my favorite thing.
So taking from all the posts is seems the best approach is wake up and have a stretch by wanking and then go outside with a dog and while eating an egg sandwich and drinking plenty of water while being nice to strangers and thinking positively while playing some banging tunes.
Aaa,,,,my cats. They look at me with dreamy eyes and love my soft touch. They give it back in their lovely sweet looks and snuggles.
Working out is my primary maintenance self-care. Not to look a specific way, it's mostly for my mental health. Doesn't mean I always want to do it - when I feel the worst is when I need it the most. I push myself through the first 10 minutes and it's like the huge cloud of anxiety gets a little easier to deal with. After I'm done I can breathe and think clearly again. So I force myself to the gym minimum 4 times/week to be able to deal with things better. And crying/feel your emotions. Sounds very depressing but sometimes you really need a good cry. It's actually research backing it up saying crying helps to remove pain. Usually do it in the shower and when I step out I feel like a new person.
Always being polite to others. If you encounter an obnoxious, rude, angry person never rise to their level. Deal with them in a way that you would like to be treated. It’s the Golden Rule. Stay silent, let them tire themselves out, they will eventually.
Sorry. I meant to say 'lower yourself to their level'.
Load More Replies...when you have an appointment, remember that it is always correct to be early, but never correct to be late. Being early sets the stage for a positive meeting and outcomes. Guess what being late does?
I read books to disassociate myself from this reality for a few hours. It helps me stay sane and even positive sometimes.
the joy of living in Russia in 2022, huh? I couldn't make myself read for maybe 3 weeks after the 24th, but it helps now
Load More Replies...Why was the initial post tagged with NSFW? I was expecting a lot of stuff revolving around drugs, sex, murder, etc. How...disappointing. 😜
I think that's a screenshot from Reddit where the post is originated. They put those to flag innaropriate content.(sometime occasional , just as a warning)
Load More Replies...I severely limit social media and the amount of news I watch. My mental health has improved drastically by doing this. Also I enjoy doing things for those I am close to - it gives me a warm/happy feeling to make them smile. Also making someone laugh - it is my favorite thing.
So taking from all the posts is seems the best approach is wake up and have a stretch by wanking and then go outside with a dog and while eating an egg sandwich and drinking plenty of water while being nice to strangers and thinking positively while playing some banging tunes.
Aaa,,,,my cats. They look at me with dreamy eyes and love my soft touch. They give it back in their lovely sweet looks and snuggles.
Working out is my primary maintenance self-care. Not to look a specific way, it's mostly for my mental health. Doesn't mean I always want to do it - when I feel the worst is when I need it the most. I push myself through the first 10 minutes and it's like the huge cloud of anxiety gets a little easier to deal with. After I'm done I can breathe and think clearly again. So I force myself to the gym minimum 4 times/week to be able to deal with things better. And crying/feel your emotions. Sounds very depressing but sometimes you really need a good cry. It's actually research backing it up saying crying helps to remove pain. Usually do it in the shower and when I step out I feel like a new person.
Always being polite to others. If you encounter an obnoxious, rude, angry person never rise to their level. Deal with them in a way that you would like to be treated. It’s the Golden Rule. Stay silent, let them tire themselves out, they will eventually.
Sorry. I meant to say 'lower yourself to their level'.
Load More Replies...when you have an appointment, remember that it is always correct to be early, but never correct to be late. Being early sets the stage for a positive meeting and outcomes. Guess what being late does?
I read books to disassociate myself from this reality for a few hours. It helps me stay sane and even positive sometimes.
the joy of living in Russia in 2022, huh? I couldn't make myself read for maybe 3 weeks after the 24th, but it helps now
Load More Replies...Why was the initial post tagged with NSFW? I was expecting a lot of stuff revolving around drugs, sex, murder, etc. How...disappointing. 😜
I think that's a screenshot from Reddit where the post is originated. They put those to flag innaropriate content.(sometime occasional , just as a warning)
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