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According to a study published in the European Journal of Social Psychology, it takes 18 to 254 days for a person to form a new habit. (The study also concluded that, on average, it takes 66 days for a new behavior to become automatic.)

Depending on how tight your schedule is, this may sound like a lot of hassle. However, even the slightest changes in your lifestyle can snowball into substantial, palpable results. And there's a fresh Reddit thread to get some ideas.

Created by user iam_robas, it asked everyone the question, "What's a simple habit you practice daily that helps you stay positive?" It's not the most popular post on the platform, but the discussion in the comment section provides interesting insights into how people navigate these turbulent times.

#1

30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Toxic, dramatic people. Just shut them out. Coworkers, family. Don’t care, can’t hear you. I have an average life to live. Don’t try to spice it up with your reality tv show nonsense

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Solidhog
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Life is too short to spend time stressing and dealing with k**b jockeys. Problem is they seem to be breeding quicker than decent people!

Mer☕️🧭☕️
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a strange comfort in living an average life.

LagoonaBlueColleen
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even gossipy, negative, snarky youtube content I can't stomach anymore. I don't want to be watching someone's bad day, melt downs anymore. I don't even want to hear about it someone shaming someone for personal, inside matters that have nothing to do with me. It's not my problem. Not my business.

Earl Grey
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish it were that simple.

Pizzagirl 91
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So true. I'm relatively good at letting negativity bounce off, but there's situations where you can't ignore or cut out toxic people: A) my stepdaughter's mother has entirely too much influence on our moods and lives, but we can't ignore her if we want to keep the girl (that I've loved since she was 1 1/2, she's almost 6 now) in our lives. It's a bad thing for our family (we've got twin toddlers of our own), but what can we do? B) my best friend has so many ongoing health issues, both mental and physical, that she lives in a bubble and rarely let's anyone in, but if she does, I just feel helpless around her, and like it doesn't even matter that I'm trying, but I know I'm her best friend and she is very lonely C) my sister has ongoing psychological issues, to the point where she can't work in her job (sth. like a burnout, but not just work-related), and she is mostly working on noticing and fulfilling her own needs right now - it hopefully will pass. TLDR: It's def. rarely that simple!

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Zwiebel Suppe
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is a "dramatic" person? Someone who feels more strongly than you about a certain thing. Is that wrong or bad?

Elizabeth Molloy
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every single thing that happens is "stressful" and worthy of tears and constantly being spoken about, and then suddenly it never existed. Constant attention-grabbing by any means; it's exhausting!

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Rahmad Mulya
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always pretend those toxic people are never exist. Everytime they're trying to talk to me, i act like i didnt hear them lol ☠️

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    #2

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around I try and go out for a few hours any day I'm off work and just go for a coffee, food and walk around my city for a few hours. It's such a simple yet nice thing I do that keeps me being positive. My friends make fun of me for it though :/

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    MarmotArchivist
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even during the work week beeing outside and in natural daylight can help you to sleep better. So I like to take my lunchbreak outside if the weater is nice and walk a small part of my commute.

    June
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why I went for full remote : I use my lunch break for walking, then I eat while working ^^

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your friends make fun of you for such a wonderful self-care practice it might be time to expand your friends circle. Taking a walk and break from the chaos of life is such a healthy and wonderful practice. Your workaholic friends are truly missing out.

    Asi Bassey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really need to start doing this.

    Momma Panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I had the mental capacity just to go out for a walk and be by myself...

    Eagle Girl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I started bringing fresh water to the cat community in my neighborhood. The woman who fed them 3x's @ day moved. Now I go every night to feed them too. There are times when having to do this saved my life. You will do things for others you won't do for yourself.

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    Maureen Ustenci
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get new friends, there's something wrong with those guys

    J Ko
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must not have any children. This sounds like a beautiful dream to me.

    Leslie Burleson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is something we are doing as a family after falling into a Covid rut . A change of scenery and habit can really improve depression

    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't wait for the good weather to finally come around.

    Christoph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what Nords do regardless of weather - Oh and they are the happiest people on the planet apparently.

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    #3

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around I sit outside in silence and be in the moment listening to nature.

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    Luther von Wolfen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love sitting in the woods listening to all the nature sounds.

    Luther von Wolfen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm fortunate to live close to George Washington National Forest, so I can get way out in the woods by myself pretty easily.

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    Jay Kay
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm doing this every day :) it is good for your health

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    id have to walk a good distance to get silence

    Jessica Rabbit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love this one! For work I have to walk about 1/4 mile across a parking lot to an adjacent building for the mail. One particular area has trees and jasmine (that is currently blooming and smells amazing) and I always try to close my eyes and enjoy the outside for at least part of that time.

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    #4

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Sleep

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    Bexx 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve started really prioritizing it lately, making sure I get 9 hours (cause I’m indulgent like that) every night. It’s made a great difference in my depression and work productivity :) used to be my hobby because I wasn’t getting enough, now it’s my lifestyle 😎

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    indiecognition
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could do that...or I could open just *one* more link on Bored Panda 😋

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never understood why some people brag about how little sleep they get or need likes it's some bade of honour. I would have friends and acquaintances in University that would brag about only needing 4 hours of sleep and then wonder why they were always sick or cranky. Sleep is rejuvenating and can help you focus better.

    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been sleeping a lot more lately and still feel like I'm not getting enough.

    My O My
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly not everyone can sleep properly

    Erdot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. This January I had an ugly episode with the lack of sleep. It causes depression, anxiety, paranoia, even suicidal thoughts. Just get your good night sleep and rest, people.

    Bored puppy dog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is my priority & I get made fun of for it

    Earl Grey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seven to eight hours of sound, quality sleep (i.e., REM and not just tossing and turning) is so very important to good health, especially controlling your blood pressure. So many people don’t take this seriously enough.

    Pizzagirl 91
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or can't do anything about it... I've got twin toddlers (16 months) who take turns waking up at night. I usually sleep less than 6 hours a night (I'm working full time, doing some house work in the evening, in bed by 20:30, then my husband takes the baby monitor until he gets to bed around 0:00 (he has a breathing device because of his sleep apnoea, can't get up as easily at night), but I only fall asleep around 22:00; one child usually wakes up for a while around 2:00, is up for half an hour and stays in our bed till she actually wants to get up around 4:00, 4:30 tops. Some nights the other sister wakes up around 3:00 to make matters more interesting, but they're both awake by 5:00). On the weekends, I can take a two-hour nap, but that's just not enough. I can't delegate more to my husband because the children are in a very needy place and cry for hours when they know I'm there and don't come to them. I'm just hoping they'll get back to sleeping through the nights, so I can, too...

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    phil blanque
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You do not need to justify it....we need it.

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    #5

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Singing in the car. It’s tough to be in a bad mood while singing

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    Miss Frankfurter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have my favorite CDs that I like to sing along with and a great radio station too. Once I'm in the car, Carnegie Hall here I come!

    LynzCatastrophe
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister and I just yesterday: my mom was in a restaurant picking up food and she and I were belting out "if it makes you happy" as loud as we could. Told us as soon as she left the restaurant she could hear it all across the parking lot. She hates road trips where my sister is the driver, but we laughed after our performance.

    Yugan Talovich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody's never sung the blues.

    Lousha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking they surely never sung Gloomy Sunday :)

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still sing to the same two CDs that my friend made for our friend's group what seems like eons ago. They always lift my spirits and make me think of really happy times.

    Monic Krugell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do it like no one is watching and then you make the people who stop next to you at the robot smile as well (if they have any joy left in their hearts)

    Spencer's slave
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Sometimes just turning up the radio in the car and singing along to a song from a happier place and time is soul fixing.

    Eagle Girl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank Goodness for Rush Hour djs & their awesome jams. Hard to want to flick someone off jamming out to Ice Ice Baby lol (that was today's happy place song)

    My O My
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want rush hour dj jams with Ice Ice Baby too!

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is my stress reliever at work.

    Rachel Hooper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love singing in the car. I love singing period

    Omi bub
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The vibration of the larynx actually helps stimulate the vagus nerve. Also gargling & humming. Look it up

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    #6

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Before I get up out of bed, I give gratitude for many blessings. I give thanks for simple things like having a roof, a pillow, a bed, comfy blankets, a safe place to live, plumbing...and then go on to bigger things like people who love and support me. I do this throughout the day, even giving thanks for difficulties (thank you, asshole driver who gives me the opportunity to practice patience ha).

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone not too far from homelessness I feel this.

    MonicaChicagoGal
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sending positive vibes your way from my heart I hope things get better for you.

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    Legen ( wait for it ) dary
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yesssss this. I can swear for this. I do it in the night before sleep.

    May Alta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this right before I go to sleeps. Happy thoughts gives a good sleep.

    M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must be one of those 'sending you good vibes' on social media..

    Aisling Allan (they/she)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you not worried this could lead to you being too accepting of bad situations to change them?

    Amanda Hunter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what I do, think of something I'm grateful for. It really works.

    Pizzagirl 91
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We practice that with my stepdaughter (5). We ask her before she goes to sleep, what she liked about the day (and what she would like to improve upon the next time) and tell her what we thought was great. And of course, we tell each other how much we are glad to have each other, and that we love each other, even if we had a fight.

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    #7

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Play with my sisters cat

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    MarmotArchivist
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cat = instant +one health (mental and physical)

    K- THULU
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the few times i feel totally at peace is in the middle of the night when I wake to a little fuzzy forehead in my face.(except for when I reach out to pat him and he's turned around.... And I poke his butt!)

    DonS
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our cat force herself to be pet when we work by sitting right in front of the computer screen and cutely meowing. Petting my cat for 15 minutes has such a calming effect so I have "cat pause" whenever she wants attention :)

    Rosie Hamilton
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having pets is good for us! Cat, dog, rabbit, bird- whatever fits you. It is something that you have to take care of (so you can't give up) and will love you for it. They can also be an endless source of amusement.

    Coffee panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cats make me forget all my troubles. Even just looking at them and their stupid antics relieves all my stress.

    Tx jac
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can you not play with that kitty ...beautiful

    Lara M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am currently snuggling with my cat. Best therapy ever.

    Rachel Hooper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cats bring me solidarity and peace.

    #8

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Feel your emotions, pick them apart, try to understand why they came up, but don't let them control you.

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    Joanie
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pick apart my emotions. Just one more task for my anxious mind. 😳

    Britt
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear yah! What helps me is to tell myself this may be uncomfortable but I'm going to let myself feel it. Then I focus on where I feel it in my body, like heavy stomach, or warmth in my face. I find it will fade naturally. And yes breath through it!

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    Solidhog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one I have a problem with. Asking someone suffering from depression or schizophrenia to analyze their feelings could go very wrong. Their minds could be interpretating situations and reality a whole different way and come up with completely the wrong solution. I would say a better option would be to share your emotions and feelings with a friend who could help you try and understand why and what you are feeling.

    Rosie Hamilton
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indeed. My psychiatrist said that you can only go over things so many times before it becomes harmful. Think it through and then somehow find a way to be done. Mine is telling myself that I've been down that avenue and exploring it again won't change the scenery. Or in other words bad times don't need revisiting once you have accepted what they were and how they made you feel. It's not easy finding what works as we vary in our needs but this seems to help me.

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    May
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And remember to take note of the positive emotions too, and what brought them up. Remember that that song made you smile, or that that walk in the sunshine gave you more energy. File it away and use it later when you need a pick me up

    Pizzagirl 91
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the more important one in my opinion. My mother found a way to explain that to my 8-year-old niece: Thoughts are like looking glasses, if you think about something, it becomes bigger to your mind's eye, no matter if it's a good thing or a bad thing. Focus on the good things, or they will appear tiny in your memory.

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    Ansi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Don't let them control you". Really? This could be a really toxic advice to some people. Saying this to someone with anxiaty is like saying "cheer up, don't be sad" to someone depressed.

    Natalia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the last thing that would help me. My emotions do not need picking apart, they already spill out all over the bloody place!

    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is extremely hard when you've been raised to suppress and not react.

    Leslie Crittenden
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buddhists call this "untying the knots". Contemplating your feelings, what beliefs they're associated with, where they came from, assessing their value to you, and making changes in behavior based on this understanding.

    My O My
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but. As a mentally ill person this is sth you should do with your therapist. It is sth that you can learn (in therapy) but only to a certain degree. Know when to stop.

    Jilly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. My emotions got the better of me,. I'm picking my emotions apart and now relaxing with my family.

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    #9

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Stretching for 5 mins is almost a ritual for me

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    Sharron Lindsay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your body has an impact on your mental health and vice versa so keep moving. You owe it to yourself

    zak
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my alarm goes off, I hit the 5 minute snooze and spend that time stretching my back (while still in bed and warm under the blankets). I'll hug my knees against my chest, roll my legs from side to side, etc). I used to tweak my back sometimes, doing mundane things like tying my shoe or sneezing, but I haven't had any problems since I started doing this. It also helps me wake up, since I'm not hitting the snooze then falling back asleep only to be jolted awake when the alarm goes off again moments later.

    Samantha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maintaining flexibility is so much easier than regaining it. I was super flexible into my early 20s, but stopped exercising, which significantly cut down on the stretching. Chronic pain, weight gain, and spending too much time hunched over a computer all contributed to my loss of flexibility. I really only stretched as a reactionary measure when something specific hurt. I'd still have pain, thanks to my fibro, but I believe it wouldn't be as bad if I had maintained flexibility; my connective tissue would be stronger, as well. Which would mean fewer problems with my joints.

    Nubis Knight
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All animals do a good stretch after a nap or sleep when getting up. I started doing the same and it's a big relief!

    #10

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Stay in contact with friends, see what they're up to, offer to help if there is something I can do.

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    Sharron Lindsay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having good contacts helps mental health. We're a social species and are meant to be in groups. Get out there make friends and keep the good ones.

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did that until you realise they're not there when you need it , so i stopped , might sound selfish but i put my self out an awful lot to help out mates to not get any when needed , so yeah i'll save my energy and do me

    Kimlan Lau
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, esp after the godforsaken pandemic lockdowns

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    #11

    Spend some time in nature - walk, run etc. Sounds cliche but works wonders.

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    Eagle Girl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every morning I wake up to birds chirping, (waiting for me to feed them lol) but starting in the sun & fresh air makes my day. End it feeding birds too. Wipes away all the crazy of the day

    Leslie Crittenden
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This may get downvotes but to me there is nothing so soothing and healing than swimming, unclothed, in nature, natural water, then resting, unclothed, after in the wind and sun. For some reason it's extremely spiritual for me.

    Amanda Hunter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh absolutely, much better than a gym.

    #12

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Drink lots of water

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    Bardhi's Dad
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beer is also good. Of course it’s not as good as water, but it’s not bad at all, is it 🍻

    Solidhog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beer is water with added vegetables! So got to be better.

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    Kate Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a funny meme I always think about when I hear this and it's that growing up you think that alcohol is an adult drink. It's not until you're an adult that you realize water is the adult drink.

    Pizzagirl 91
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And some people never realise it...

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    #13

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Being grateful

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    Bardhi's Dad
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be great to have as many things as you can be grateful for.

    June
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1 year ago I was saying such things. I figured out that I have things to be grateful for, I was just not able to see it.

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    Maureen Ustenci
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you have all of your limbs? Are you free from a life long Are you free from a lifelong illness or 1 that's threatening your life? Do you have enough to eat and a roof over your head? Are you living in a country that's not currently being invaded? Do you have 1 person you can trust to talk to? Do you have access to clean water? Medical care? Do you have any family who care about you? Is there any chance that you could get more education? If most of these are true you're already so much better off than most of the people in the world. Is it possible to be grateful for that?

    Monic Krugell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you start looking for things to be grateful for, you will find that there is more good in your live than you realised.

    Earl Grey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m grateful that my hands are not as long as my forearms.

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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be grateful for what you have and be even more grateful for what you don't.

    #14

    Staying single

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    Azolane
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES to this !! I'll end up as an old crazy cat lady, and have no shame. Give me a dozen cats over a husband anytime.

    Lene
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes I have fantasies of being single again.... but I have a bf (been with him for 9 years) and 3 kids. I don't think I will be able to consider myself as single until a few decades ahead. Lol. No, but really: I love being alone and always have. And I love being a mom but I also sometimes want to put a pause to being a mom. Just for a week or so. Haha.

    Amanda Hunter
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After being married to an alcoholic, I'm going to stay single too.

    Rahmad Mulya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont know but i feel better since i'm with my girl :$

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go back in time and tell my high school self that. I'm grateful never to have done the dating scene but getting married young was also stupid. My younger self should have been kicked in the head for many reasons.

    You cant stop the truth
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Supported. Answering to someone else is a nuisance, have to do it all day at work.

    Bardhi's Dad
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    3 years ago

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    You can't know if you haven't tried to be in a relationship, though.

    June
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "People share the small habits that make THEIR life a little better". I assume this person knows what is better for them...

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    #15

    Try to be nice to everyone, no matter when or where

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    Monic Krugell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am glad you said try and not just 'be'

    Wandaluzt
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are copy and pasted from Reddit. You can't reply to them.

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    Irishwoman abroad
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or at least we can try to be polite, if it's impossible to be nice. A few manners never go astray.

    LagoonaBlueColleen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, even though it's super hard at times when people are taking their anger out on you, or just projecting negative reactions and emotions, sometimes people will just calm down and start cooperating as long as they know they're being heard and understood and there is some empathy to their situation. I've come across this so many times and gotten gratitude for being patient and understanding.

    A Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can be a kind person with a good heart, but sometimes people need to be told off. Of course in a civil manner.

    Amanda Hunter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or at least don't give nasty people an audiance.

    Steve Fischer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately people are becoming less civilized every day. Angry music, angry programs, and lying politicians. And the list goes on....

    Analyn Lahr
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try, but sometimes I can't control the tone of my voice.

    #16

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around A do list! It helps me to visualise what I've actually achieved that day

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    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally unrelated but I LOVE LOVE LOVE fountain pens. I never use one, but I wish I did.

    June
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this too :) I don't necessarily have a "todo list" but I list every chore I did. Helps with self-esteem if you struggle.

    Lily bloom
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they mean a "done" list

    Lene
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once kept a did do-list. Made it so much fun to get stuff done! I went from doing almost nothing to have a daily list of ca 15 things I actually did do. 😁

    Beth Browdy Gonyea
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A mentor once said, “Plan out your day/week and write your to do list before you get started. If you’re writing it after you do the tasks, it’s not a to do list, it’s a diary.”

    Aisling Allan (they/she)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And for those with memory problems it helps us not feel lazy when we can look back on what we've done the past couple of days.

    My O My
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this too! With my special colourful pens! Ha! My therapist would be proud of me

    Rahmad Mulya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is my daily ritual with my girl. Every night we will wrote down our agenda for tomorrow, and then check it one by one everytime the job is done. Its really really helpful !

    A Jones
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this for work as a task list. It helps a bunch. Although it's getting harder to keep up with an overflowing plate of tasks. I need an assistant. :(

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    #17

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around I smoke cigarettes and drink coffee.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suppose it's better than smoking coffee and drinking cigarettes.

    K- THULU
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep I know it's wrong and unhealthy but fk I love coffee and a smoke!

    kenzieve
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    never said anything about healthy habits!!

    Tuna Fish
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Caffeine and nicotine, breakfast of champions.

    Monic Krugell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    more like how I care for those who I have to deal with daily :-)

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do love my morning coffee. It's like a little, delicious ritual to look forward to.

    Rylee Evergreen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!! I feel the same way, except for with a slice of homemade bread with butter instead of coffee. I just started baking bread lately and dang it is my new OBSESSION ;D I always look forward to crawling out of bed, just for my morning tea

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    Knut Nielsen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they say it’s not good for you! I never feel better than after a few cups and a couple of smokes ❤️ Specially on early summer mornings, totally alone, sitting in the morning sun listening to either the city waking up, smelling the smell of people living or even listening to the birds ❤️

    Bob D. Lin Quint
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coffee is my blood, and smoke is my soul

    Sterling Hill
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    15 years without a puff and I still miss it... BUT I can breathe so much better I will NOT go back to it. People who have never smoked have no idea how comforting a cigarette can be, so they should not be so critical.

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    #18

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Wherever you feel a lot of pressure just go out of that place breathe in and exhale out Life will be much better

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just spending 10 minutes outdoors in nature everyday can have such a uplifting affect on my mood.

    UpQuarkDownQuark
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is excellent advice for those that can do it. I don’t know how many times I had to argue with coworkers to just take a damn break. They’d always argue that they didn’t have time, and I’d say, “You’re so exhausted that you’re working at 50% efficiency, and maybe you’re so exhausted that you’re just f*cking up what you’re trying to do. If you step outside or go get a bite to eat, you will refresh and get more accomplished in the long run.” Not everyone gets to step away, unfortunately, if even for a moment.

    #19

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Morning wank to get the day started

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    MarmotArchivist
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And a complementary evening one to help you fall asleep.

    Wintermute
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So what I'm gathering from this post is that, as the sun orbits the earth, there's a never-ending wave of masturbation circling the globe.

    My O My
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg yes! That means that at any given second somebody out there is having this sweet dizzy feeling

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    Kate Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love that it's a woman's picture here because, yes...women, too!

    Solidhog
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know what is scarier. The number of upvotes this got or thinking what so many of you doing in the morning!!!! "Hello, therapist? Can you squeeze me in for an extra session this week? (NO! That sounds so wrong in this context!) Yes I have been on Bored Panda again."

    Earl Grey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see I have wandered into the Adult Section of BP…

    Bob D. Lin Quint
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually get a head start on that 3 times before bed

    Eagle Girl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wank? Does this mean what I think it does? And did BP who censors the name D**k let this slide ? (no pun intended)

    Mark Stewart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really hope this is genuine and not a typo.

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    #20

    I have an issue with taking things personally, what helps is for example if someone comes off as rude to me or dismissive I usually remind myself that they are probably going through a bad day or something. Most of the time I pry and ask and they end up revealing an issue to me or what happened to cause them to be in a sour mood. It has helped me a lot :)

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    You cant stop the truth
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yep. Most people don't set out to be assholes. I ask them "hey did I say something that made you angry and if so do you mind explaining so I don't do it again?" - always defuses the situation.

    Tuna Fish
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a good attitude right there. I always try to remind myself - this might not be about you!

    Christoph
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask yourself "If I was that person, why would I be acting like that?" Empathy blooms and defuses the whole feeling for me.

    Leslie Burleson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's probably helped them too honestly

    #21

    Walk my dog

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    Bardhi's Dad
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This habit also makes your dog's life better, I'm sure.

    Ervin Conn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That reminds me of - If your dog is too fat, you are not getting enough exercise!

    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is true! I hurt my ankle and couldn't walk my tiny dog. She had to go to the vets to have her boosters and was weighed by the nurse who handed her back to me saying 'porker'. In just three weeks she'd got chubby!! I felt terrible. Fortunately, it was temporary.

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    Amanda Hunter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You love it, the dog loves it, what's to lose.

    Yugan Talovich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tummy rubs are good for everybody.

    #22

    I block people online that has an energy or attitude I don't wanna be impacted by. This is my time and I am here for my needs.

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    Nemo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone once said "you're not gonne stress me out on my own phone". That resonated with me

    Mama Penguin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've lately gotten into the habit of putting my phone on silent for a bit when I feel emotionally overwhelmed. I don't want to hear any ringing or chimes. I just want some peace and silence and some music that matches my moods.

    J. M. Montes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blocking people online is one of my favorite pastimes.

    #23

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Force myself to smile for a few seconds

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    Louie Cooper
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did anyone else smile while reading this one?

    Rahmad Mulya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister would stare me weirdly if i do this lmao

    UpQuarkDownQuark
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This does not work for me. It makes me angrier.

    Lakota Wolf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Years spent in acting classes as a child (and going on auditions, having headshot photos taken, getting a few small parts in movies/TV shows etc.) made me excellent at smiling even when I don’t feel like it XD Once I’m smiling, though, it usually becomes a real smile because you start to really feel it!

    #24

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Being appreciative for how much easier my life is than previous generations’.

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    Eagle Girl
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean this in the best way possible but love that her thighs are Not Airbrushed. Need more Positive examples of healthy Not perfect.

    Leslie Crittenden
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eagle Girl I never would have noticed if you hadn't pointed it out. Very observant of you.

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    Thundercuss
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except for student loans, but I get the point.

    #25

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Talk yourself up with positive phrases throughout the day. Wake up a little before work, an extra hour ideally, and have some time to yourself. I like listening to music and drinking coffee during this time.

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    Jessi Lovely
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if work starts at 6am 😭 lmao

    MarmotArchivist
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, not everyone has a work schedule that realistically allows that. And not everyone is a morning person either. As a night owl, I like to make some time in the evening for myself, that’s when I have the energy and the time.

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    UpQuarkDownQuark
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to take my downtime after work. Waking up is a chore and always unpleasant, so I’m never going to do so even a minute before I have to. But this does work very well for my wife, who is very much a morning person.

    Ervin Conn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be rephrased to carve out an hour out of your day for YOU. Whatever fits into your schedule. Whatever make you feel better. It is not illegal to turn off your phone! You do not have to be plugged in 24x7. After a while your friends will know not to try to contact you.

    Rahmad Mulya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wake up earlier really work well on me

    #26

    Songs that match my thoughts or mood

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    Bardhi's Dad
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many songs match someone's thoughts and moods on different occasions, and good music will always be useful.

    UpQuarkDownQuark
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This why “F*ck Everybody, F*ck Today and F*ck You, Too (and Me While You’re At It) is always on my playlist.

    #27

    gardening (weather permitting)

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I adorer gardening. I love the feel of the earth beneath my fingers, the scent of fresh dirt, and watching my little seedling bloom into gorgeous flowers or delicious vegetables. It is almost a form of moving meditation.

    Tuna Fish
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One thousand upvotes for you.

    Rahmad Mulya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did this during the first covid lockdown in 2020, blew away my boredom at home and produced good amount of fresh vegetable to eat everyday!

    Rylee Evergreen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could garden! Every plant I touch dies, unfortunately. I hope that someday I can fix that because i love being in nature and watching flowers bloom in the spring!

    Earl Grey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have a FB account, try joining the “Next Level Gardeners” group. They are very helpful, knowledgeable and supportive.

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    Ervin Conn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The exhilaration of seeing the peas poking up!

    #28

    running, drinking, coffee, eating good food, petting cat

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    MarmotArchivist
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me: everything, minus the running😅

    Rens
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everything but the running.... Can't. But a nice ride on my mobility scooter....

    #29

    Take my pills on time

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    Rens
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need 2 hours for them to kick in before I'm functional

    Do_You_Think_I_Give_A_Tortilla
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't that dangerous? I mean, a doctor prescribes them at a certain time for a reason.

    My O My
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It isn't dangerours per se. For some medication (I know of antidepressants, mood stabilisers) to work properly you need a certain concentration of the active ingredient in your blood. For optimal effect the concentration should be kept within a certain range. If you don't take your pills the same time every day the concentration in your blood varies and thus you'll have more mood swings.

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    #30

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around Flexing and makeing faces in the mirror while saying 'ayyyyee'

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    #31

    While waiting for the shower to warm up, I put on a banger of a song and dance. Wakes me up a bit and it’s fun.

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    Rosie Hamilton
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, get in the cold shower you wuss! Just kidding, I'd hate it.

    #32

    The holy trinity: exercise, sleep, diet. These three things alone will go a long way, don't neglect them.

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    Irishwoman abroad
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are not small things! They are almost everything you need to be well.

    #33

    Prayer, making offerings to the gods, ancestors and spirits. I always take time, especially in the morning, to stand outside, breathe deeply and remember that everything around me is full of life and energy, the ground, the plants, the animals, the stones...and I give thanks to them all.

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    #34

    Play the ukulele

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    #35

    Meditation

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    #36

    making myself an egg sandwich in the morning with a glass of water, and enjoying my quiet hour long bus ride

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    Fiona Farman
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need an hour every morning before work, to wake up, drink my coffee, eat my toast, relax. I love my morning routine. No matter where i am living at the time. I cannot rush through the morning. I don't understand people that do lol

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    #37

    I try my best to tell myself all the things I like about me and all the important people that I have helped with in my life. And then I practice breathing exercises to calm myself down

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    Sharron Lindsay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breathing exercises positively affects the polyvagal system and can calm down feelings of anxiety

    #38

    When something bad happens I immediately find the best thing I can think about the situation

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    #39

    Be proud of what I achieved

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    #40

    Forcing myself to get out of bed. A lot of days I don't want to at all. But once I do, it makes everything seem a little easier. Cuz even if the day is rough, I still got out of bed to take care of my family.

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    #41

    Being grateful for at least one thing that has happened to me every day. It doesn't have to be anything major, it doesn't even have to be something positive. Just something that you I am grateful for having in my life

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    #42

    Going for walks everyday, starting about 15 min after I wake up with a hot drink, magazine and my dog

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    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was a bit tearful from another comment so my vision was blurred... read 'wake up with a hot magazine'! 😶 I need a bit longer than that before I head out with my dogs!

    #43

    Daily stretching. Just a quick touch the toes, stretch your neck, your wrists, your shoulders. You’ll feel much better

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    Gin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Touch my TOES! No, I'll just wave at them from a distance thanks.

    #44

    Take a moment to absorb some sun straight to the dome- imagining that its energy penetrates into a third eye,- then send rays of gratitude back to it. Just a few seconds makes a difference to me; doing this for half an hour and more gives me a good high When the wind is blowing I like to picture the vast oceans of air moving above and remind myself that i'm just flowing on a rock

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    ChimeraBubbles
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "vast oceans of air moving above" - I found this oddly lifting and comforting

    #45

    20 minutes on the cross trainer

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    MarmotArchivist
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got one aswell, I coudn't be arsed to go to a gym, but I'll gladly do a round in my own home.

    #46

    Greeting strangers in a friendly manner everywhere I go.

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    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Untrue. Admittedly, I'm walking my dogs but I do it every single day and get smiles, greetings and friendly chat. Every single day. Often people reflect back what we send out.

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    #47

    making bed,just shutting down every mobiles,laptop and other devices and being at the moment and being outside in fresh air

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    #48

    I remind myself where I'm heading in life, but even more important, I remind myself where I would have been if I didn't change path.

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    #49

    I take notes constantly in order to keep myself accountable and keep a record of tasks and chores I complete each day. It motivates me in two ways: having a to-do list makes it easier to be productive, and looking at a week of lists all checked off makes me feel really good about myself.

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    #50

    I have several tattoos that all are very personal and important to me. Every day I see the rubber ducky on my hand - it represents my wife. Her love, her caring, the special and fun times we've shared in our 24 years together all come back every time I see that duck, which is always

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    Miss Frankfurter
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too! The tattoo on my ankle representing my best friend and our 40 years of friendship, especially now that she's gone. On my forearm is two words from a very important poem. Now Voyager...

    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, I am so sorry about your friend. How lovely that you had her for so long though.

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    #51

    Listen to old music on repeat

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    #52

    Playing Xbox and racing cars

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    Monic Krugell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got some really bad career news and was exceptionally angry and then my sons and husband physically placed me in front of the Xbox and taught me to play sniper elite - felt so much better after killing some rando's.... was surprisingly therapeutic

    #53

    Starting my day by actively thinking about how I want to approach problems/issues. The act of making this a planned process rather than just reacting helps.

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    #54

    Exersize outside near some birds. Mental and physical health just skyrocket

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    K- THULU
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    birds are cool, I have a gang of magpies who hang around my yard. No matter how s**t i feel, to go outside and do a half assed bird call to a wild animal and have them notice and sing back to you is the greatest!

    #55

    Sex

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    #56

    Practicing Gratitude, Going on a Drive. Looking in the mirror and saying "You Sexy Beast, People go Crazy in Love with You".

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    #57

    Remind myself of three P’s peace, passion, and persistence

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    #58

    My therapist has me writing down affirmations.

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    #59

    Sleeping. If I'm too energetic to sleep, I walk around until I am lost.

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    #60

    Daily edible. Really balances me out.

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    #61

    Giving others

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    User# 6
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Giving others what? Respect? Money? Covid?

    #62

    Meditate every day! It makes a life changing difference on your mindset and happiness

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    #63

    Organizing everything by size and convinience

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    #64

    30 People Claim These Small Habits Helped Turn Their Life Around I tell myself that whatever negative feeling u get dsnt exist then hype myself back up. Like when Sad "No such thing as sadness don't be a little bitch get up, look proud and live this day that tomorrow you wont get back" i also fake smile a lot

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    Sowieso
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Works in the short time, might be detrimental in the long term though.

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not sure sure that I agree with this one. It sounds a lot like toxic positivity and that you are beating yourself up for being sad. Sadness, loneliness, grief, and anger are all normal human emotions. It is alright to feel them and lean into them. Pretending they don't exist can actually be detrimental. We aren't made to be happy all the time. People who say they are are lying to you.

    #65

    i look at titties on the internet...life can be bad but there's always at least two good points to it

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    Tuna Fish
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Enjoy that tittie time friend.

    #66

    Waking up

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    #67

    stopped constantly trying to alter my state of mind.

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    #68

    Negative visualization

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    #69

    Drinking

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drinking a nice beer or glass of wine to unwind after a busy week can be really nice once in a while. However, if you are doing it every single day, you might want to look into a different coping habit.

    K- THULU
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hate to say it but yes. Friday night, cider night. What gets me through the week.

    #70

    Bottle it up, lock it in a chest, behind a door, in Fort Knox. Proceed with my day

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's really bad advice. You can't just bottle up negative emotions and lock them away. Soon or later they are all going to come out at once and it won't be pretty.

    Kate Jones
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Couple of things that have helped me: 1, Stop fighting to be right. Keanu Reeves said once that something just changed when he turned 40 where he's like, 'you know what- I don't care. You think 1+1=5 fine. Great. Congrats.' And it's really true. Once I got older I was able to get rid of that need I had to argue and be right and I felt so much more calm when I just let go. 2, Try to recognize when depression or pain comes on and tell yourself that it won't feel like this forever...there is an end. There is another side and it will just take a little time to get to it but you will. In a day, a week you will feel better. Don't make decisions in that headspace that you regret later. This has helped me so much because now I can let myself be depressed and I keep in mind it will pass. But I'm not as scared of it anymore. 3, Apologize. Saying sorry can diffuse a situation and keep people from being upset with you- even if it was your fault. It also makes you appear more trustworthy.

    Rylee Evergreen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, do what you need to do in the short term, but I can say from personal experience that when those emotions DO get out, it's so miserable and can ruin a lot of relationships. Sometimes it's much better to be open, even if it's super hard at first. Hoping you're doing okay!