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Oscar Wilde once said, "Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit but the highest form of intelligence." Regardless, PR experts and marriage counselors often advise their clients to stay away from it. The reason is simple: this form of expression can sting others, hurting people and harming relationships. As a communication tool, it dances on the edge of conflict.

But sometimes, throwing sparks and seeing if they catch fire is precisely what you want. Especially when everyone and everything around you tickles your nerves. Which is something we all sometimes feel. (I hope.)

So let's take a look at the Instagram account 'Sarcasm Only.' Sharing memes, tweets, and all kinds of content, it manages to pinpoint universal human emotion despite firing shots in every direction. If there's one place you need to get through a lousy, it's this little corner of the internet. I mean, why else would 16 million people follow it?

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In fact, scientists are finding that the ability to detect sarcasm really is useful. For the past 20 years, linguists, psychologists, neurologists, and other researchers have been analyzing our ability to perceive snarky remarks and gaining new insights into how the mind works. Their studies have shown that exposure to sarcasm enhances creative problem solving, for instance.

You could say sarcasm detection is an essential skill if one is going to function in a modern society dripping with irony. "Our culture, in particular, is permeated with sarcasm,” Katherine Rankin, a neuropsychologist at the University of California at San Francisco, told Smithsonian Magazine. "People who don't understand sarcasm are immediately noticed. They're not getting it. They're not socially adept."

Sarcasm is so popular in 21st-century America that according to one study of a database of telephone conversations, 23 percent of the time that the phrase "Yeah, right" was used, it was uttered sarcastically.

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Entire phrases have almost lost their literal meanings because they are so frequently said with a sneer. Take "Big deal," for example. When was the last time someone said that to you and actually meant it? "My heart bleeds for you" almost always equals "Tell it to someone who cares," and "Aren’t you special" means you aren’t.

"It's practically the primary language in modern society," John Haiman, a linguist at Macalester College in St. Paul, Minnesota, and the author of Talk is Cheap: Sarcasm, Alienation and the Evolution of Language, said.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's start normalizing the fact that clothes are really expensive and deserve to be worn more than once!

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Sarcastic statements are sort of a true lie. People are saying something they don’t literally mean, but the communication works as intended only if their listener gets that they're insincere.

Some language experts suggest sarcasm is used as a sort of gentler insult, a way to tone down criticism, but their opponents have found that the mocking, smug, superior nature of sarcasm is perceived as more hurtful than a plain-spoken criticism.

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The Greek root for sarcasm, sarkazein, means to tear flesh like dogs. Haiman thinks dog-eat-dog sarcastic commentary is just part of our quest to be cool. "You're distancing yourself, you're making yourself superior. If you're sincere all the time, you seem naive."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was going to comment something smart but I'm so tired. I'll do it tomorrow.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

EXACTLY. this is why I refuse, despite being a good cook. Time is money. I just buy pre-made. Apologies to underpaid pre-made sandwich workers.

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Research has also shown that sarcasm can be easily misinterpreted, especially when served electronically. In one study, 30 pairs of university students were given a list of statements to communicate, half of which were sarcastic and half of which were serious: some students communicated their messages via e-mail and others via voice recordings.

Participants who received the voice messages accurately gleaned the sarcasm (or lack thereof) 73 percent of the time, but those who received the statements via e-mail did so only 56 percent of the time, hardly better than chance. Additionally, the e-mailers had anticipated that 78 percent of participants would pick up on the sarcasm inherent in their sarcastic statements. That is, they badly overestimated their ability to communicate their tone.

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At least sarcasm goes well with memes!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Mom and I be like: 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎙️🎙️🎶🎶🎶🎶🎙️🎙️🎶🎶🎶🎶

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

According to my dietician the worst thing you can do is eat or drink on an empty stomach, at least that's what I understood when I read her list of do's and don'ts.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh please, most days I get home and I don’t even know how I got there. My directions will include landmarks, and that’s about it. If you want highways and street names, ask google.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am terrible with directions so I get nervous going to places I don't go to on a regular basis. Even with using Google maps.

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Brian Bennett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have lived in this town for 70 years and I don't know the names of half the streets or how to get there. They tell me its called progress!

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Tami
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus everything changes so much! Where'd the Kmart go? Was there a street there before? Where's all the trees? Were there apartments there before? And why's everyone in such a damned hurry???! 😵

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure. Turn right at the corner where the stop sign is missing and then left where there used to be a huge oak tree but there's only a stump left. If an old man is in the yard, tell him Mac says "Hey" and he'll mow your lawn this Saturday"...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or you use "landmarks" from the town and they have no clue what they're talking about

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Matheus Oliveira
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes I had to say, oh I don’t live in this part of the town

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Sofie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Haha! 😂 I bet you and me live in the same part of the town then 😂

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Deanna Crichley
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And OMG, this should have been in my other post, but when I got my license, and wanted to go to a mall a little tiny bit further away from my usual, I asked my mom for directions, and my 12 YO sister laughed her butt off. She said you've been going to that mall for 12 years! How do you NOT know how to get there!? Sad truth. If someone else is driving, I have no idea where I am.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still get around my hometown using landmarks, like the mountain and the river. I know which street are parallel to the river and their order from river to mountain.

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H.L.Lewis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've lived in this town for 34 years. I know the names of 5 streets.

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Richard Anderson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know how to get there, don't know a single street name. My directions are. "Keep going that-a-way, turn there, keep going until you turn and continue until you are there. Or you could go the other way."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me when I was asked yesterday where opera square was and I Googled it because I didn't know the name and I was like "oh, right... it is the square in front of the opera..."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like giving directions, I get into it and will tell you a real good and thorough route, doesn't happen as often these days but I still love to give a good set of directions.

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Kalmar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I physically cannot mentally see a birds eye map of the streets I have driven along for years

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Tonya Wallace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Moved from my hometown 14 years ago. Recently moved back with my husband and he knows his way around better than I do. It's kind of embarrassing.

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Ronnie Cutshall
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just tell take that tree then trun left at that Rock and follow that house tell you hit dead end. Sorry can't remember names. But you will get there

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am from the South. Do not ask me for directions, as they will involve either places that burned down years ago or the houses of people you don't know.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell them to go to the end of the road, take the next right, then straight ahead. Go passed the next set of traffic lights and turn left again. Go all the way for one mile and you are there. They will get lost, but they will never find their way back to you and ask where they took a wrong turn.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is how to avoid any future acusations *ahem* S1* give them the basic directions, S2* say "I'm pretty sure anyways" wit a shrug S3* say- but if ya get lost anywhere just use waze or some app like it

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So... you go straight on till you see a pond with two ducks, turn left at the giant applepie-sign and than the first right after the rainbowslide in the gardengnomes-garden...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey man, I live here because it's close to work. Not because I care about local attractions.

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Rebe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me when someone asks me directions then realised I'm not from here and stops listening. Yes I have an accent but I've been here 20 plus years. Now they go ask someone else who has no idea but hey they have the right accent.

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lafayette
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

but when you are in another city "Oh yeah sure it is 3 miles that way and make a right"

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Rebecca Hauck
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd lived in a city for a couple months and worked at Walmart. Never been in a Shopko and was chewed out for not knowing what they sell there.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Travelled for work throughout the US and the only time I've been asked for directions was when visiting another city, "uh, I know where my hotel is."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So should I turn North? Uh...turn left when you get to the gas station.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I good at the giving of directions, but the receiver is often dumbfounded as I tend to use North, South, East and West. I should know better by now, and just start with, go that way till you reach the McDonalds, then make a left, then go up three stop lights, and make a right.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know ANY street names. My BF is like, DEANNA, it's on East Maiden Street, And I'm like "is that the street you turn left onto after you pass the public library and the street dead ends?" He's like "Yes!!!".

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People who have lived there a long time reference things that no longer exist. I do it myself: "Turn left where the Subway used to be...."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To this day I still think about the lady I send right instead of left at the end of the street because I misspoke. I wonder if she got where she was going ok.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I pretend I am not residential 🤷‍♀️ horrible sence of directions and horrible memory. What else can I do?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meanwhile i can navigate in city where i've been 3 times

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is when you give directions like take a left at the house with the really short grass instead of take a turn heading west at 12th Street.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, hell. I should have told them to turn at the 2nd stoplight not the 3rd. I wonder where they ended up?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do not understand the " directions " of which you speak

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Rico Mendez
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm the same way! Though I can get around town, I am completely useless when it comes to giving directions. I go from being a scientist in knowing my way around, to being dumb as a box of rocks when I am asked for directions lol

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, especially if they want to see the tourist attractions. Um... never actually been to one.

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Micah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me (telling the truth): "I've literally never heard of that street/business/area."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every single time. I don’t know? -> „i noticed...and that alot”

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my city: "You see that house 100 meters down the street? That's it. But since you're in a car you can't get there without a 30 KM detour. And you can't park your car in a 5 KM radius from here."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is me when someone asks me if I know a person from the same area and I'm like..."No" so their first instinct is to ask "Oh, did you move here recently?"...."Nah, I've been here 29 years".

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still don't know any street name lol my street is probably called the high street or something

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend with two advanced degrees... once gave me incorrect directions TO HER OWN HOUSE.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair the last thing I need is someone being obsessed with me. I'd like to have a healthy relationship please.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

POV: When your friend brings one of their other friends to lunch but you don't know the other friend so you just sit there awkwardly while they reminisce about something they did 4 years ago.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is actually brilliant because it will save the hassles of a divorce.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But if you were stranded somewhere in danger at 3am and needed them you know they’d come.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope it's not a chili pepper cake, because you don't need the extra burn.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well yeah that's why its called "after work". I don't exist to the outside world after 8pm.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, rich will do that to you. All the money in the world for surgery, injections, make-up and photoshop.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can relate to this. If I can't sleep well at night and get up before dawn, all I have to do is make breakfast and I'm back in bed in no time.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every day is a Monday if you work all those days. It's pretty Meh...

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