45 Times Couples Split And Forgiveness Wasn’t Even An Option

Except an army of swat then he should be alone with that army

Not yet, but it looks like it was heading in that direction.

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You are a wonderful person💓

Once, during the most intense argument I’ve ever had with my partner, which I started, he was overwhelmed and told me he needed to leave and calm down before he could speak to me respectfully. I was very upset and (unfairly and roughly) grabbed his arm as he turned to leave - he tried to shake me off and accidentally knocked my drunk a*s onto the ground. Instantly he was right there next to me apologizing, feeling my neck and head to make sure I was okay. He actually was quite upset and I felt awful. 5 years later he admitted to me that it really hurt him to think that he’d accidentally angrily pushed me off him and maybe I had gotten hurt, he’d beaten himself up about it ever since. But it was my fault, I was the one pushing his boundaries after he’d asked for space and I honestly just lost my balance. The conversation where he told me “I’m so scared I hurt you, not only physically but emotionally that day” was the day I realized he was really the one and I’m kind of the a*****e here.

If you keep thinking it thats a pretty clear sign. Break ups are hard but better then stay in the wrong relationship too long. Just leads to regret later.

You're a very smart person. What advice would you give someone else in your situation? If I was your very best friend and was experiencing your exact situation, what advice would you give me?

I'd say stop thinking... and start acting.

Ground rule should always be: If they do something /act in a way that makes you consider leaving them, DO IT. Trust your gut instinct.

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Alcohol ruins everything. You have to leave. I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years, and became scared near the end. I only survived because my partner died. Don;t let it get there. Sending love.

Yes, you should.

Leave before it's too late.... you deserve to live in peace. I am a recovering victim of domestic violence and I'm also in recovery for addiction as well. YOU CAN DO IT! The 1st step is the hardest but my God once you begin to heal, I PROMISE PROMISE PROMISE you'll be much happier and healthier!

Not that you need any more commentary, but I had one of these partners at one point also -- we broke up after she put her hands on me one too many times and then opted to feign unaliving herself the next morning. Police were called that morning as I was no longer anywhere near her and was beyond allowing myself to be anxious about it and she had a little girl. Police informed her that "your ex-boyfriend called and said there was a child in the house and you may have hurt yourself. Social Services might be in touch." Food for thought.

Yep run. I got away from an abusive ex 6yrs ago best thing I ever did

Do it. Go! These people never improve, they never admit that are wrong. Things will only get worse the longer you stay.

If your partner sounds like anyone in this list run. This is the red flag highlight reel.

yes. If you are dating that level of toxicness, you should definitely split.

Do it! You deserve better than them and it will get worse with time if you stay

I really like the advice from Tamra. Imagine giving the same advice to the person in your life that you would worry most about, feel the most compelled to protect, and then use it for yourself. Gentle hugs and sending you thoughts of strength and courage to help you decide the direction of your journey

GET.THE.FUDGE.OUT

run

Make a balance of pros and cons. Usually you find the cons are mostly real or present and the pros possible or imaginary. Like "they will grow out of it", as if. And while fear of loneliness is real, getting rid of balance usually frees up time to engage into something social you dropped; while not a 'couple' relationship it builds a network of relationships.

You’re one of my favourite pandas, censorshipsucks. You’re hilarious. You deserve better than this level of treatment. I hope your partner either steps up or you step out :)

If you had to flip a coin and choose which one would happen, which side would you be disappointed if it landed on? Helps see what you really think.

GET OUT!

LEAVE.NOW,GO Huge red flag

You wont realise really how bad it is until u have left and u r free. Best wishes

You should. And once you do start going, you will find a lot of people around are willing to get you out and protect you. Document anything you can. Good luck, I hope this works out for you.

I survived yelling/screaming narcissism turned emotional abuse turned physical abuse…. Whoever you’re dating is not going to change no matter how many times they tell you they’re going to and how pretty they make it sound and feel. Ask any DV survivor, same story over and over. You deserve SO MUCH BETTER than that. You are worth so much better than that. And I hope you find the strength to say bye and block. Sending so many good vibes 💗💗

do it!

Do everything in your power to get out if your partner is abusive. Nobody should have to go through that!

You should! Domestic violence is NOT okay.

Oh God. Yes, you should! Sooner or later it will escalate. Not being able to feel safe or trust your partner means it is time to leave. This erodes self esteem in innumerable ways. I was in an abusive relationship and decades later, it still affects me, though I now have a loving partner. I hope you find the courage to leave. For you now, for your future self, for your future self, for your happiness, safety and well being!!

Look up "narcissistic pervert"... and run.....

You should. Be safe x you deserve yo be treated with respect and love.

take this as your sign.

Then do, immediately.

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If you're at this point, it means you are ready to leave. Go

EXIT!!!!

Don’t think. Do. If you even think you’re not in a safe relationship GET OUT. I could have beaten the tar out of ex, but he wasn’t physically abuse - only verbal and psychological. After two kids with him, I had clear knowledge that I could not adequately care for them, so. I left them with him( he treated them far better than me). In the end I left because my mother (aware I had a goodly number of very sharp knives) was afraid I’d kill myself or him. Literally. I’m capable and probably as close as I’ve ever been. Catalyst.

Leave immediately. This type of person has issues you’ll regret if you stay.

GET OUT as SOON as you can. It will just get WORSE if you don't.

Don't think, do

I believe in you. You are strong and brave. You are worthy. Please escape that relationship as soon as possible!

You NEED TO LEAVE!

bro/sis get the f outta there.

If that notion keep raising to the surface; listen to it. If this is a reasonable description of your current partner; this behaviour won’t stop unless with hard and willing work - from your PARTNER. Not. From. You. It’s harsh, but you can’t change people. Not really. All you can do is compromise, and if one party isn’t interested in compromise - there’s nothing much to build on.

Don't think about it, just do it.

You should

Stop thinking. Do it. They never change, only get worse.

Out get out now ❤

Yes, you should. There is this old social stigma about sticking around and "helping" somebody through things... but you are not the root of this issue, and you are not their therapist. Staying ENABLES their behavior to continue. You must put in your own oxygen mask first as they say...

That's your lizard brain telling you that it's not a good fit. Listen to the lizard brain.

The best time to leave would've been as soon as they started acting that way. The second best time is now.

You should

Please leave them!!!!!

You should!!!

I know you're getting a lot of comments saying you should leave, but I'm going to add one more: you should absolutely leave. I don't know how long you've been together, but it sounds like it's long enough to be some kind of morbid comfort zone simply because that's what you've become accustomed to. It's not worth it. Change is definitely scary, even if it's for the best, but you should make that change sooner than later. I hope nothing but the best for you. It will be better only if you make it better and it sounds like leaving your partner is the best course of action towards that. Leave, allow yourself to grieve, then move on.

Please exit stage left as soon as possible. It only escalates, trust me I'm speaking from WAY too much experience

Yes, that sounds like a terrible partner. Wish you well.

Do it bestie rooting for u

And now we're all thinking you should too. ✌🏻🙏🏻

Go. It doesn't get better, and eventually you'll regret all the years you wasted on a piece of s**t. Make plans to leave and get out as soon as you can. You may struggle a bit and be lonely for a bit but it's ok to ask for help and support while you find your feet. There's a great future waiting for you.

Please do. I have been there, I have been abused by a man and he made me feel like I was worthless. He slowly normalized the way he treated me. You think you're too smart and too careful to ever end up like that, that's what they count on. Whatever gender your partner is, this is abuse, and it's not ok.

Leave. Now. It won't get better.

if its a bad relationship that you arent happy with there is no reason to stay get the heck out of there

Please don't continue to allow yourself to be abused. You deserve the same love you give.

Please for your general health and peace of mind terminate this relationship. You have not been created for this. Love is not painful nor humiliating.

Yes. Yes you should

Run Honey! While you still can.

It only gets worst, unless in some extremely rare occasions, they actually seek the help they need. For your own safety and mental health, leave.