29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

THIS needs to be in the medal ranks of this list.

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I dont like ets. that's the reason I don't get one. It's like not liking Durian and using it as a people-repellent

Its about showing respect for someone who is working to earn a living, as most of us do. However, if someone is rude to me and disrespects me, they will not be rewarded for it. 0

Yep, if you don't treat staff well, it's an instant 'no' from me.

One of the best things my father taught me was that the man who never made a mistake never learned anything. It's about integrity. I kept clients in a highly competitive business because they knew they could trust me. 0

Every mistake is a blessing, because it illustrates something specific that you can improve. Stupid, stubborn pride is what keeps us from realizing that.

"The ground needs muh Tea cup" no it doesn"t

It implies the person is conceited.

This, and it includes where you were born, what school you attended, what clothes your parents could afford, etc.

The only body thing you should make fun of is being fat. And I say that as a fat guy. And I don't mean real thyroid problems, I mean those "I eat for lunch more than normal family in a week" TikTokers.

I have always told my children that people make fun of them because they are feeling bad about themselves. When some one comes at them for things they cant control I have told them to respond " Im sorry you feel so bad about yourself you have to make fun of me" This has resonated with them and it shut their attacker down because they dont know how to respond.

And the ones who listen to videos without earbuds don’t care about what kind of content they’re broadcasting. I was in a doctor’s office not too long ago, and this old a*****e was watching videos about erectile dysfunction, and I mean videos that were pretty graphic. Apparently broadcasting about his limp d**k issue didn’t embarrass him one bit. When asked if he could use earbuds or lower the volume, he rudely refused. You know, typical angry inch behavior.

I kinda agree but that would lump in the entire country of Vietnam. It's as if nobody knows what headphones are and volume only works on high. Lol

Oh my god yes. I like to spend time in a friendly cafe and almost every day someone (usually an older person) comes in and BLASTS their speakerphone at top volume. It's rude and shows a lack of proper breeding. Yet another candidate for modern technology enhancing general misanthropy.

And people who chew gum loudly while breathing down your neck in a bus. I dont know if they use bp but to that one random stranger F you dude.

Not sarcasm, just curiosity: in countries where people drive on the left, what side of the escalator do they stand on? Yes, I'm an American. :-) My defense is that I've never been able to afford to travel much.

That is someone who exists in their own bubble, only see and hear what they want to hear. “All lies and jest, still a man will hear what he wants to hear and disregard the rest…”, Simon and Garfunkel.

Ok, it seems I was raised wrong, but I will not entertain anti-vaxxers with any more argument.

I jokingly do this about mumdane opinions

Back when "idiot" was a medical term, it meant someone who only listens to themselves.

I hate this. People would stand in front of stairs or in the middle of hallways. No common sense

I hate Space Invaders! Being British all I do is turn around to the person behind me and tut loudly. Has no effect whatsoever but it makes me feel better.

I personaly love people that walk side by side on walkways and don't make way for oncomming traffic and look shocked when they are about to bump into me

I'm not being a jerk. I actually can't process movement

That's possibly a sign of abuse as a child, or witnessing dv. They possibly grew up with parents that escalated fights, so any sort of negativity brings back bad memories. Or they grew up in a toxic positivity household and were never allowed to learn how to deal with negative emotions. Sad either way if it's one of those.

Maybe OP means people who insist on being comfortable, regardless of the effect on others?

I mean, let's count hands: who really enjoys to be in discomfort? Most of us avoid it, if possible, and we don't "expect" it actively either.

It was normal for them. How are they supposed to know? Eventually they might realize that their situation was kind of odd (see numerous examples here), but it takes time.

Had similar conversation this week - what was normal for me was not for most.

And what's worse is when they can't be bothered to let you know they're running late and then when they do finally turn up they think their tardiness is one big joke.

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Violence at all.

If the only way someone can feel good about themself is to tear everyone else down around them, and takes particular pleasure in doing it, then they really don’t have much good in them in the first place. Oh, and they can ALWAYS dish it out but not take it when it’s thrown right back at them. Biggest snowflakes ever.

"what's a sign someone was malnourished?" "malnutrition"

And latch on to making that kind of comment, and never let go of it, even when everyone else is telling them to back TF off.

This is a reason I don't about people talk within earshot of them. Cause you never know how they'll feel.

Or even worse IMO, scapegoating an innocent to avoid accountability for their own actions.

All the others boil down to this

Or a personality disorder of their own that had nothing to do with the parents.