48 Poverty Habits That People Still Have Even Though They’re No Longer Broke
InterviewNever wasting food, using every single drop of a product, buying things when they’re on sale, price shopping, and repairing your belongings are just a few habits that everyone should adopt for the better of our wallets and the planet. However, some people have no other option but to do these things to make ends meet. And such behaviors are almost impossible to shake off, as people from this popular thread can definitely confirm.
Scroll down to find ‘poor people’ habits these adults still have from growing up in low-income families, and don’t forget to upvote those that are straight-up hacks for smart living!
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Not getting rid of things because I might need them in the future. We never had the $ for random things so we didn't get rid of things, just in case.
I've always found it difficult to let stuff go, but there have been numerous times when no sooner have I got rid of something I've needed it.
I actualized this into the practice of finding things 'permanently lost' by giving in and getting a new one. Sometimes I even tell the clerk, I'm just buying this so the old one shows up." They say they understand every time.
Load More Replies...I've been a professional Handyman for the past 2 decades. The quantity of screws, other fittings, offcuts and leftovers I have accumulated from jobs is quite amazing but I hate to throw them away.... just in case I can use them on another job. Quite often I can but when is the right time to throw them away? Not yet!!
I have clothes from over 40 years ago, they will never fit, but they could be useful to someone I love one day.
Pushing the slip of soap onto the new bar of soap.
What kid of person adds a perfectly good piece of soap to to the garbage stream when it's so easy to add it to the new bar of soap? Are they some kind of monsters, or are there people who never learned how to do it? FWIW, if I dry my hands with a paper towel and it ends up wet but in one piece I put it on the grate to a stove burner, because when I get my hand wet again a couple of hours later there's a perfectly good, and dry, paper towel that can be used again. If it's still damp maybe the cutting board or counter could stand to be wiped down. It's not cheap, it's just a simple part of Reduce, Reuse, Recycle.
That or add water to liquid soaps and detergents to extend the duration of its use.
I think most people use too much liquid soap, and especially dish detergent, but I figure the main reason to add water is to make it pour more easily, or get the last bit out. Even though I know that I'm probably using more dish detergent than necessary, I tend to want to see soapy bubbles, so I don't think that adding water changes how much I use.
Load More Replies...I do this to this day and I wasn't raised poor, it just makes sense.
I know bar soap is much more sustainable than liquid soap, but I can't bear the feel of a wet soap bar!
Put good money into things that you use a LOT and don't spend money on stuff you really won't use. Only use a weed whacker once or twice a summer? Buy a cheap-ass weed whacker. Cook a lot? Buy the best pans you can afford.
Same with domestic appliances such as washing machines, dryers and vacuum cleaners. I would rather pay £500 or £600 for a decent washing machine and have it last a decade than spend £200 on a cheaper model and have to replace it every two years. The initial outlay may be hefty but it saves a lot of money and aggro in the long run.
You can buy the cheap-a*s one and have it last you five years. Or you can get a good one for not that much more that will last you twenty. "It's the cheapest man who pays the most."
This. If it's an electric weed whacker it will probably die based on actual use, but a rarely used gas powered one can die largely as a function of age even if it's not used a lot.
Load More Replies...I side gig lawn maintenance. I FINALLY paid about 3x what I normally pay for a tractor mower, but my trimmer and backpack blower together cost about $1000.
It works for clothing, too. Basics that you know you will use for years? Buy good quality pieces in classic styles and colours. Spend the money! Fad item that’s just this season’s style? Get the off-brand.
I like this one. I have always thought, "I am too broke to buy cheap".
Cost per use! It can be a great way to look at making larger purchases (as long as you're not using it as justification for buying expensive clothes, bags etc you can't afford *stares at people on Purseforum*) I paid sale price for a Le Creuset cast-iron dutch oven when I first moved out. On my salary at the time, it was several shifts worth, even on sale, and I squirrelled away until I could get it and I think it was meant to be, because it's in my favourite colour ❤️ That beastie gets used pretty much every time I cook something on the stove or something that goes into the oven that isn't like a pre-made thing you just bake. Highly recommend cast-iron if you cook enough to justify the cost. Even does bread!
BIL bought a $2000 gas grill. They use it 3-4 times a summer. He honestly thinks people are impressed by it, but in reality he's not good at grilling and it wouldn't matter one bit if he had bought a $200 grill instead.
Redditor nicknamed WALLSTREETBRIDE, who started this discussion in the first place, told Bored Panda that what inspired them to take this question online was a random thought they had.
"I was thinking about how much our past shapes our present, and the relationship with money is one of the strongest examples of that. I was genuinely curious to see the common threads in people's experiences."
avettestingray:
Buying more groceries than I need during sales - or "food hoarding" as my husband calls it.
Tomytom99:
My dad has always done this, and I thought it just makes financial sense, mainly on shelf stable foods that you'll be using eventually anyways. Of course I picked the habit up from him.
I think I once drove my girlfriend insane by buying five packs of something to get a discount. It might have been apple sauce? It's been a while.
I always do that lol as did my grandmother I grew up with , not poor but they are so bloody useful , especially to a keen gardener,like myself or in tool sheds n the likes
Load More Replies...I'm comfortably off but cannot imagine not seeking out the lowest prices and bulk buying when things are of offer. Coffee (beans) is one such, I use a quite expensive brand but only ever actually buy it when it's on offer at Lidl or one of a couple of other places for 10.95 instead of the normal price of 19.50. There's currently about three kilos of it in the cupboard, so I've got a while left.
This. I grew up in poverty and my husband also calls it "food hoarding". When Covid craziness caused grocery shortages, I became hysterical because it brought back all the feelings of childhood surrounding food.
Again, my living in a mountain area (between a few ski resorts) back in the woods about 1000 ft off the road, when it snows, sometimes we could be in for days. That and hunting wild game is the reason I have two sub-zero freezers and a well stocked pantry. Buying stuff on sale like, say a turkey. a 15 Lb bird would be about $30.00 now but at Thanksgiving, they basically throw them at you. I have 3 left in my freezer. But Corned beef around Patty's Day, ground beef, ribs and hot dogs just before memorial day, etc. I also have a vacuum sealer which makes stuff last even longer.
My husband does this and it has been so handy over the years because we always have food when there is severe or unexpected weather events; don't have to worry about store shelves being empty from panic buyers because we are well stocked always.
This unfortunately often leads to more food waste in the long run. My mother is a hoarder and mostly a food hoarder. She buys so much stuff on sale that it goes bad before she ever eats it. I'm talking having 20 tubs of cake icing or pie filling on the shelves, and she hasn't made a cake or pie in decades.
I'm not rich, but I don't think I will ever give up using those "Tupperware" things lunch meat comes in as.. Tupperware.
I don't think there's anything wrong with that :) In fact, I think they do it on purpose. They're good containers...perfect for leftovers and lunches...also perfect for sending food home with someone...you don't have to worry about them bringing it back :)
That's just a form of recycling. Lots of people do that. I recently had leftovers from a very nice restaurant that were packed in good quality rectangle shaped plastic containers. I'm saving those to give away leftovers on Thanksgiving.
I'm currently storing half of a beef brisket in the clear plastic box that cookies came in. Both are magically delicious.
The huge downside of takeout food usually coming in plastic is all of he resulting garbage, but the upside is that I haven't bought a plastic food container for over a decade. We also keep a couple on the car, so that we don't need another container from the restaurant when we go out to eat.
I stopped because they're garbage plastic that dissolves into your food. Switched to all glass/metal containers. Definitely don't microwave those things.
The "Tupperware" lunch meat things are the same as the ones you can get 4 for $2. It makes sense to recycle. I also save them for when I make a 7 qt crockpot curry to share with coworkers so they don't have to return them. I keep my nice "Tupperware" to use for myself at home 👍🏼
PrudentOwlet:
Waiting until something is completely unusable/broken/dead before I replace it.
People sell old stuff at yard sales and on marketplace and stuff, but that concept is foreign to me. If I'm not using it anymore, it's because it's trash and nobody else would want it anyway.
canisdirusarctos:
My wife wanted to do a garage sale and she wanted me to contribute, but it broke my brain. I had no childhood experience with such a thing. You need to have stuff you don’t need. The stuff I buy that I don’t need is stock for lean times.
When my financial situation was at its worst, I had no choice but to sell some of my possessions in order to pay a bill or buy food.
I just bought a pair of oven door hinges for my 45-year-old stove.
Answering their own question, the redditor said, "I constantly check my bank account. It's not about enjoying the number; it's a fear-based habit, just making sure it's all still there."
Having a few mindful spending habits themselves, the redditor agrees that money-saving behaviors can benefit everyone, not only people with low income. That said, they believe it's important to distinguish healthy frugality from a scarcity mindset.
The one I've never been able to shake is having way too many blankets. I have more blankets than I'll ever need. Cause you never know when you aren't going to have heat.
Never missed a single utility bill as an adult. Never had my power off for anything other than a utility outage. But at 35, I still need atleast two blankets in every room.
Coats and hoodies too, to a lesser extent.
I'd rather snuggle under a blanket than put the heating on and I often do.
There is nothing better than a slightly chilly room while you're wrapped up in blankets
Load More Replies...I keep the heating at a steady 18° at mine... Socks and slippers and a cardigan and blanket are a good thing if it's a bit too nippy.
I probably have close to 30 blankets in my house at this point. But it's not fear of the heating being turned off, it's because there's always another new one that's so soft and will look so nice in a certain spot. I resign the oldest ones to each family members cars as "just in case" blankets.
I still make my lunch for work every day.
The cost every day is insane if, assume a reasonable $10/day meal... that's $50/week, $200/month, $2400 year...
But then it's backed up by saving calories and then saving time... I don't need to go anywhere, wait for them to prepare it, etc.
I still socialize and will go out with coworkers and stuff but day to day, nah.
My work colleagues look at me like I'm crazy if I have last night's leftovers for lunch or take a packed lunch. I used to work with someone who would start the day with a Starbucks or Costa Coffe which she would never finish. At lunch she went to sandwich bars, supermarkets, fast food restaurants or orderd on Just Eat and then she would take a couple of bites out of whatever she had just bought and the rest would end up in the bin. Afternoon was snack time. Again she would take a couple of bites of something and throw the rest away. Then she complained about not having any money.
'Brown bagged' almost my entire working life. Was a real treat when I went out to lunch. Still needed my cooler every day, as that's where I stored my gum, pens, etc..
I take my lunch to work almost every day. But isn't not go anything to do with cost. There's absolutely no way I'd want to eat out every lunch time.
Same. I am not super picky, but I like food prepared my way so it's easier to pack my lunch.
Load More Replies...I always try to pack a lunch. Cheaper and better than most of what I could buy at a fast food place. I do on occasion, go and get a "hoagie." Plus being diabetic (Type 2), I know what I'm eating won't throw me off too badly.
I lost weight when I retired, despite having all day to feed my face. It was the fast food lunches.
You have to treat yourself from time to time so I do buy a lunch out sometimes.
I rarely buy anything that is not on sale
Sometimes markets put stuff on sale because it is going bad. I bought some blackberries at a Sprouts once. that was my first and last visit to a Sprouts.
That is called "ecomically rational". You sell to the highest bidder and buy from the lowest seller. Read Adam Smith.
I always look for sales. I invested in a freezer for that purpose. Babyback ribs $2.99/lb? I'll take seven! Corn, 5 for $2? Gimme 15! But I also buy luxury items on sale, usually 50-80% off... Not designer clothes, useful things.
Our deep freeze was such a great investment. When there's a good sale on meat (or other frozen foods we buy) we stock up for months! I paid 5.99 for a bag of frozen spinach this week when my 3$ per bag sale stock ran out and I was so annoyed that I hadn't bought more on sale.
Load More Replies...The number of things you can get second hand that are perfectly good to use is staggering.
Load More Replies...I do enjoy getting a bargain- always have a quick look at reduced products.
Yup. Everything I buy has to be on sale unless I absolutely cannot get it at a discounted price.
"For those who are well-off, habits like repairing items, reducing waste, and avoiding debt are smart for building long-term wealth and are better for the environment. It’s about being resourceful," they said.
"However, the habits born from poverty often come with a heavy dose of anxiety and trauma. So while the actions might look similar, the feeling behind them is completely different. The goal for everyone should be to practice wise financial habits from a place of security, not a place of fear."
I def price shop - meaning, Im never not looking at the price - I don’t care if it’s a can of beans, let’s get the 1.19 one over the 1.79.
There are some food brands I wouldn't buy just because they are cheaper. I've tried many but don't like the taste. Why buy a food cheaper if you don't like it? But I'll definitely buy the brands I like on special in quantity.
Yup. We buy some store brands at out local grocery store, but there are other things that we spend the extra because it's better. I once tried the store brand version of Oreos and they were terrible. I'd still pay for Oreos if the store gave theirs away for free.
Load More Replies...Most of ALDI's stuff is pretty good. I keep a lot of their canned goods and not really too much difference between them and most name brands, I swear by Heinz ketchup but ALDI's Burman's is really just as good and less than half the price.
This feels less like a poverty behaviour and more like being money wise? Like, a poverty behaviour is how I will wear shoes completely through the sole so they Leah like drives and I can feel three pavement beneath me before I replace them, will bemoan the expense for days, and will likely hold on to the worn pair for at least three months after. That s**t comes from trauma!
Buying multiples of things and having both open. Like chips, that was a big one growing up. My mom went to the grocery store once a week so we'd get one bag of chips to last for the week for a family of 4. If we ran out, oh well, gotta wait for the next grocery trip. And it was only ever one flavor. Same for cereals, cookies, juice etc. Oh you don't like that flavor? Too bad, maybe next week will be one you like. It wasn't until a few years ago when I was at the grocery store with my husband and I saw a bag of chips I really wanted but we already had a bag in the cart and he said "well just get it." And I was like "I can just get it?" And then, I struggled with having two bags of chips open. Like I wanted one to be empty before I opened the other one, but why should I have to wait when I wanted those chips?
Have 2 of the same thing opened is just wasteful. What comes in handy to avoid waste is a vacuum sealer.
For chips, they don't do too well! LOL! But a vaccum sealer is a great thing to have. For chips and stuff, get some of those "clips" then roll the bag and clip it. Keeps the chips fresher longer.
Load More Replies...My husband does this and I always joke that he's saving for the Cold War.
Saving extra condiment packets from fast food places.
This is about having common sense: I love ketchup, I could afford to buy a big bottle from the store, but I'm the only one eating it in my household. It's best for everyone (and the planet) if I ask for a few extra packets from the fast food place rather than buying a bottle and having it go bad before I even finished half of it.
I get what you're saying but despite what the 'use by' stamp says, you'd need to have a bottle of ketchup for a very long time for it to go bad.
Load More Replies...Have a ziplock bag of them in the cupboard and one in the fridge. Some stuff isn't worth buying a full size version.
That’s something I won’t do. I can’t stand the clutter.
As we all know, too much of a good thing can become harmful, and redditor believes the same thing can be applied to frugal habits.
"You take it too far when you're 'penny wise and pound foolish.' For example, buying the cheapest possible shoes that hurt your feet and wear out in three months, or avoiding a $100 car maintenance that leads to a $1,000 repair down the road."
I grew up having to use an outhouse. To this day, at 62 and upper middle class financially, I still check the inside of the toilet paper roll for spiders.
Still eat biscuits and gravy too
Ok let me explain properly... They are referring to a savory scone like item covered in a peppery gravy with sausage bits in.
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Adding water to the last bit of the hand soap bottle and shaking. Unlimited soap glitch
Always dilute; hand-wash, shampoo, conditioner, laundry liquid etc. Those recommendations on the bottle are designed to increase your spend, not your health!
I've started watering down my dawn dishsoap I keep in a bottle next to the sink. Not only does it pour out easier - since it's like an olive oil bottle thing - but it lasts longer. And it's just as effective. Those commercials of dawn wiping away grease and grime with no scrubbing is a lie anyway. :P It's good soap, it's not magic.
Yep, have watered down my dish soap for years! XD The only time I used some full-strength was when I gave the stray kittens my dog found in the backyard a flea-killing bath XD
Load More Replies...Again this is just rational and less wasteful. You paid for that product - use it.
Stuffing my glove compartment with those brown napkins
That's all that is in the console in my car, except my work badge.
I always run out of the brown napkins before I can get more from the fast food joint because I have aggressive allergies. I've started buying bulk packs of pocket travel Kleenex as well to supplement. I always use the brown napkins first 👍🏼
Lastly, the redditor wanted to leave our readers with a kind reminder.
"Anyone who is still struggling financially, know that things can get better. And for those who have made it to a more stable place but are still fighting those mental battles, be kind to yourself. It takes time to unlearn a lifetime of scarcity."
Growing up with food insecurity I definitely have a need to always have extra food in the house. Always extra canned, frozen, dried food products and baking supplies. Just in case there is a zombie apocalypse and I want to make some poundcake.
Right?!?! I mean at this point who the f knows what that numpty is going to do to us.
Load More Replies...What would you do if you were invisible for an hour and wanted to p**s off your horrible neighbour? Take the labels of all the cans in their pantry, lol.
Probably from living up north but always have at least a months supply on hand. If long shelf-life items are on sale i will buy multiples.
A zombie apocalypse is pretty unlikely, but there are all sorts of things that can cause problems with the food delivery system. I don't know about other places, but in my neck of the woods you might not even be able to get a carton of milk if there's a forecast for 2" of snow and you get to the store after everyone else. Ideally I want enough on hand for a week of stuff I'd plan on anyway, and enough to get by for two weeks with less choice of what dinner turns out to be.
I've always prepped and joked it would be a zombie apocalypse that gets us. Now I'm realizing it's more likely to mirror Terminator instead, with all of this AI behaving strangely.
Load More Replies...I still can veggies out of my garden. By can I mean Mason jars and a pressure canner.
Clean plate syndrome... Always eat everything on the plate and never throw food away
Today's leftovers is tomorrow's lunch. I always do this because I was brought up not to be wasteful, nor can I afford to be. I got mad at my daughter a few weeks ago because she threw away a perfectly good sandwich which I could have had for my own lunch if only she said she didn't want it.
Or, as I do, cook for 2 days worth of dinner. After 3 days, I no longer wish to eat leftovers.
Load More Replies...I was raised in a culture that abhored wasting food and now live in a completely different culture with the same attitude. I cannot understand the (apparently) widespread US and UK habit of loading up plates to overflowing and then trashing the uneaten food.
For decades I cooked something big on Sunday, ate it for dinner all week, froze that last serving (and then threw it out two years later). I'm retired now and have no reason at all to continue doing that but all my cooking thoughts are casserole size in nature and generally happen on Sundays.
Do not put more on your plate than you will eat. Removes the yuck factor from left-overs.
I caught my parents in the lie when they couldn't agree on where all my wasted food went, India or China. "Aha! I KNEW you weren't mailing the food to them!"
I used to have this problem at restaurants (when the food wasn't good leftover or there wasn't enough to pack up) and try to finish it so it wasn't "wasted" until one day I mentioned that to a friend and he said "if you're not enjoying it anymore and have eaten enough that it's not providing you with any needed nutrition then you're still wasting it, just through your digestive system." That really stuck with me and made me feel more ok throwing something out that didn't give me enjoyment or nutrition. (always best to pack it up if possible!)
Nothing feels as good as having an emergency fund. Impulse buys and instant gratification purchases just chip away at my peace of mind. Nothing is worth that.
crownapplecutie:
My dad was a depression baby (1936), he hoards napkins and sugar packets anytime we go out to eat
LawOfSmallerNumbers:
My mother is a depression baby (1931). Oklahoma.
She lives in the suburbs and has a fridge/freezer in the kitchen, and standalone fridge and separate freezer in the basement. We were pretty glad when she got rid of the mini-fridge in the TV room, and the chest freezer in the garage. The latter had the remains of steaks and organ meat from a side of beef purchased years ago. Kept it just in case.
I still wash plastic bowls that are intended to be one use and reuse them. There's too much plastic waste as is.
Amen. Plastic snap on lids are very convenient, but I'd like to see a tax of a dollar or two per pound on plastic to make companies more likely to use glass and cardboard. I hate the plastic rings for beer and soda with a passion.
Load More Replies...My Grandmother kept 2 refrigerator/freezers and a standalone freezer. We used to tease that it was an archaeological dig to chip through the frost to find ancient remains.
Both sets of grandparents were Great Depression-era babies who had my parents during the Boomer years. Unsurprisingly, my maternal grandparents passed on frugality to my mother and she is one of the most frugal people I know. Dad is more of a spender in spite of his parents being frugal as well…
C*****g open the lotion, shampoo, or soap bottles to get the last bits out of the bottom. The pump bottles leave a lot in the bottoms.
I hate pump bottles for shampoo. I can rarely get them to work right.
I have so much resentment when you twiddle the little thing according to the arrows and it just spins
Load More Replies...Def read it as another word that starts with c and ends with ing.
Load More Replies...I assume that was supposed to say "cracking". I can't believe I need to use a hidden character to slip that one through, but if I tell you you should smoke an ounce of crack every week I can do it in plain text.
It's actually "cutting". We're now censoring "cut" because it could refer to a form of self-h@rm.
Load More Replies...I prefer stuff like that to be packaged in tubes, not pump bottles. Tubes are easier to get the product out of, and easier to store.
dharmattan:
Fear of spending money.
WhisperingHope44:
The amount of times I stress over a purchase… like I used to have to make sure whatever I bought was worth every penny… now I have the resources to buy what I need without hesitating, most of the time, and yet I’ll make my self sick with anxiety over if I should buy the item or if I’m buying the right one.
If I were to win millions on the lottery I would be too scared to spend any of it for fear of being left with no money again. Day to day I make every last penny count and only ever spend if it is absolutely necessary.
"If I won a million dollars, a million and five dollars worth of shitt would happen to me." ~ Tracy Smith
Load More Replies...Last week I had to get new tires for my 18 yo vehicle. I was stressing about it and my son was the one paying for the new tires!
My only worry in that scenario would be having the vehicle die when the tires only have 10,000 miles of wear.
Load More Replies...This is me. I have to do tons of research before I'll commit. Plus, that time spent will get rid of the "got to have it now" urge.
My BIL is very wealthy, he makes over 300k per year (and has for over 20 years). He's also an over-thinker and the cheapest (not frugal) SOB I know. He spent 6 years debating over buying a new (non luxury) vehicle and price shopping when he could afford to buy it outright with one of his quarterly bonuses. It's so interesting to watch him being so cheap when he has more money than all his siblings combined.
I still eat like I'm poor. Beans, rice, pasta, potatoes. Meat is a flavoring, not a main course.
The other issue that comes to light (now that I'm moving from a 2-bedroom apartment to a 1-bedroom apartment) is hoarding things. Growing up, the few things I did have were hard-won and if anything happened to them, they'd never get replaced. Therefore, if I get ahold of anything I feel like I must hang onto it or I'll never have it again.
I'm getting better about it, but while getting rid of stuff, some choices are easy, some are not.
Still remember my 6 weeks on potatoes and flavouring, after the boss did a runner.
White rice and honey. Was the only week I truly went hungry.
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90% of all meals are eaten and cooked at home. Minimal processed foods
I prefer still to thrift.
Have you tried thredup.com? It's basically a giant online thrift store. Sooooo nice and good quality.
Load More Replies...Sometimes it's the only place to find quality clothes. Even the clothes at expensive department stores are cheap poorly made junk these days.
The only problem with thrifting is that it’s hit-or-miss. Sometimes I have a very specific idea of what I want (style, colour, size), and it’s not always easy to find that new in a store or online….let alone in a thrift shop.
I've started to use thrift apps because I can't get to the local op shop as often as I used to.
My son thinks I'm a hoarder because I have clothes older than he is, he's 28 ;)
I hoard sh*t like “I can afford it now but maybe not tomorrow, so I’ll buy a f**k ton of it now and then I won’t have to worry about it later”. It’s stupid but I can’t let it go
A farmer told me farmers tend to buy everything up front, all the consumables and maintenance items for the expected life of the tool. That way, they know the true cost up front and never have to worry about supplies becoming unavailable. I buy most things like this now.
Also—if I like something, they stop making it. So I stock up and get extras of things I really love.
Emptying a can of tomatoes and lightly rising/soaking jar to get that lil extra bit out
This is a great idea! I add wine to sauce anyway so I might as well rinse the can with it.
Load More Replies...Well the tin needs to be rinsed anyway, otherwise stinky recycling box, so yeah, of course.
This. You need to get the can clean, so the first small rinse goes in the sauce. You're going to lose water to evaporation as it cooks, anyway. My open carton of OJ has perhaps an ounce left in it. When I make another glass of OJ and seltzer later one I'll pour out as much OJ as comes easily, and then give it a rinse with about 2 ounces of water, and what I pour into the glass will probably be about 25% OJ. My normal mix is a few ounces of water, an ounce or so of OJ and fill the glass with seltzer, so I'd be using some water even if I didn't run it through the carton first.
Load More Replies...I put a forkfull of cooked spaghetti into the sauce jar and pop the lid on it and shake it to get the dregs out.
Throwing away food, even if it’s a little past its expiration date. Starving is such a horrible thing. I hated eating “crumb soup” and fantasizing over food on the television.
It is appalling the amount of food people waste. Did not not grow up short of food but have spent time in parts of the world where people were literally starving in the streets. Definitely makes an impression on you.
I've heard a statistic that the average US family of 4 throws out $30 worth of food every week. My SIL is wrapped way too tight and thinks the expiration date is the only thing keeping you from dying of food poisoning. She even goes so far as to go through the fridge on garbage night, and will throw out stuff that will expire before the next garbage pick up. My wife an I probably don't waste $200 worth of food in a year, but between us and my SIL we probably average out close to $30 per week.
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Never throwing anything away until it’s completely empty or unusable. I had a phone for 8 years c*****d screen and never got another unit it broke.
And if you live near a military base, someone around usually has military-grade ones available at a small markup.
Load More Replies...I can deal with a lot, but a cracked screen is not one of those things. I tried and managed to get glass in my thumb. Not fun. Since then, I insure my phones (which is good when you drop said phone without case and then promptly stand on it like a genius because you have no glasses on. Something like a $1k repair bill if I didn't have insurance.
Buying the store brand version of pretty much every food I purchase.
I don't mind the 'Black & Gold' (IGA brand) cornflakes at less than half Kelloggs price, but I hate the taste of their baked beans. Only Heinz for me. So, it varies.
Indeed, Meijer frozen corn is vastly superior to Great Value brand.
Load More Replies...Store band versions are often just as good, if not better than the more expensive brands.
The store brand at our local chain was pretty bad. But they got bought out, and it was switched to something even worse.
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Load More Replies...Wait, y'all didn't grow up with the PC diet sugar-free, caffeine-free, taste-free pop?
PCs didn't exist when I was a kid. And we didn't have pop at all; only soda, and that very rarely.
Load More Replies...Same here except for three or so foodstuffs I want a certain brand... But won't pay over the odds.
I still can't bring myself to waste money on purely decorative things. If it doesn't have a practical use, I can't spend money on it. My apartment has 0 wall decorations due to this mental block.
I have no decorations in my apartment, but I still wouldn't have any even if I had a billion in my bank account. I just see no point in buying stuff when its only use is gonna be wasting space and gathering dust (or waking me up in the middle of the night when one of those wall decorations decides to end itself.)
I get what you're saying, but I have a few prints of artwork that make me happy when I see them. They make me smile/feel good when I walk past and see them. That's worth the $20 or so I paid for the print and the cheap $10 frame they're hung in XD
Load More Replies...Don’t leave lights on. Water running. Knowing the cheapest gas station close to you. My husband never knows the cheapest gas station. He says “you have to get gas no matter what, who notices the prices?”
I ALWAYS find the cheapest fuel. My tank is 150 litres, so it makes a significant difference.
Yes...but..my wife insisted we drive 30 miles to save 25 cents/gal on fuel(neighboring county is consistently cheaper). "Ok, we'll get 10 gallons and save $2.50, right? It will use 2 gallons of fuel to make the trip, at $3/gallon, that's $6. We will certainly stop if passing through, but special trips make no financial sense.
I never leave the lights on. Electricity is expensive, even with energy saving light bulbs. You can only be in one room at a time so why on earth would you light up rooms you are not using? I don’t do 'mood lighting'. I like practical lighting so that I can see what I'm doing.
My dads voice always runs through my head, "Why are there lights on in these rooms if nobody is in them!" I'm 41 now, haven't lived at home for over 20 years and I still make sure all lights are off when I leave a room. :)
Load More Replies...Luckily my hubs gets $0.50 off per gallon for up to 70 gallons of gas per month from his work discount. I get $0.30 off per gallon for up to 200 gallons of gas per month at my work.
I always buy gas at Kroger’s, because I do most of my food shopping there, and I earn fuel points.
I drive a Prius, usually only takes 8 gallons to fill it. It makes zero financial difference whether I buy the cheapest of the most expensive gas. I try to buy top-tier gas just to be nice to the engine long term.
I know the cheap (but major brand) stations in my area, but I won't detour out of my way unless it's a minor detour and I'm getting enough gas to make sense. Sometimes I decide to go to one of the places I go often but happen to be low on gas, so I'll pay the extra 5 or 10 cents per gallon at the station along the way, but only get 2 or 3 gallons. I probably don't save more than $25 per year by trying to stick to the cheaper stations, but I don't ant t pay more for gas just on principle.
Mentally calculating the total when grocery shopping. Most of the time I'm accurate within a couple dollars. And checking my bank account total before checking out.
My poverty habit is feeling as though I'm broke regardless of how much money is in the bank. Number two is getting analysis paralysis over just about any purchase over $100.00.
Using every drop of water in a glass. Water has dust in it? I need to find a plant I can pour it into
Every last squeeze on the toothpaste.
The handle of the toothbrush makes an excellent tube squeegee. With the new plastic tubes you'll need to do it more than once, but it's easy enough and I don't need another gizmo laying around.
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My sister and I still like to go “shopping” where we walk around for a few hours picking everything we want and then at the end we don’t get anything and just go home. The joys of shopping without spending the money
'window licking' in other words. Wife and I (59m) like that too some times, especially in unfamiliar cities.
Not seeing the opportunities and possibilities that a half-decent income has already enabled. Kind of getting used to making do with what you have when in reality, you can now afford things that bring you extra joy.
Example: I was dying to get an electric guitar as a teenager. I was passionate about guitars and memorized tons of riffs. But we couldn't afford one, let alone classes for learning to play.
Fast forward 20 years, I finally realize that thanks to my income, a guitar, amp and classes were now well within my budget, and had been for the past 10 if not 15 years already. I had literally held on to the image of guitar playing being inaccessible, then realized I can march into a store right now and buy one (or three) if I want to.
Do you have any idea how many successful, and rich, musicians started with a really cheap guitar? Bryan Adams says he bought his first real six-string att he five and dime. FWIW, I also know of a friend of a friend who found an old guitar in desperate need of some TLC at a garage sale and paid about $150 for it (albeit back in the '80s). It was a late 50s Les Paul that some guy's kid had played for a week and then put it in the attic.
My lae husband bought me an electric violin because I always wanted one. Do I play violin - no, but it looks nice hanging on the wall next to his guitar (that he actually played)
I still eat leftovers until they’re done. And make the kids eat leftovers.
I don't eat leftovers, I deliberately cook two or three times what I need and fridge or freeze it for another day.
My mother insisted that we eat everything she made because you're not supposed to waste food. Pointing out that eating food you neither need or want is also wasting it never got through to her.
It also sets up your children with potential eating disorders down the road. Don’t force kids to eat.
Load More Replies...Picking up pennies from the sidewalk.
The trouble is now that we're becoming cashless, finding a penny is becoming a rarity.
We found a quarter in the crosswalk on a walk last week, and I found a penny out on my run just the other night - I always wonder if the amount of $ I've lost over the years balances out what I find. I never use change myself anymore, I use my card for almost everything
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Fixing everything. If it stops working, I'll pull it apart and fix/rig it up. I'm kind of known for it but if I can't fix it, I take it to my Dad, if he can't fix it, I cannibalise it and keep any parts that might come in handy later.
This was the norm when i was growing up. It is a crying shame what gets thrown away just because it needs a replacement part. I hate our wasteful throwaway world.
Not to mention the fact that it's easier to fix stuff now than it's ever been. Find a video on YouTube and order your part online.
Load More Replies...Just did this yesterday. I have double switches in the bathroom, light on one, light/fan on the other. The ligh/fan switch was squirrely from day one but it "worked". The light switch started acting up so I was forced to do something so I replaced both of the switches at once. Cost me a whopping $2 for the parts. I refuse to call someone in if I can (reasonably) fix it myself.
In that situation I will splurge on the $5 light switch, so I won't have to replace it again.
Load More Replies... Still hesitate to spend on anything that feels “non-essential,” even if it’s something that could save time or improve quality of life. That mindset helped me stretch every resource while building my digital projects but now I’m learning that investing in ease isn’t wasteful, it’s smart.
Old habits die slow, but growth is real.
Not wasting food. I grew up food insecure and wasting food was a cardinal sin.
Thrifting clothes. I know what brands look good on me and fit me properly as I've got a difficult figure (hourglass, busty, no bum) so I go to Poshmark, Depop, Mercari, ThredUp. Why spend $200 on a blazer when I get can get it used for $50? Obviously I buy new underwear and socks, things like that...but I thrift damn near everything else because even though I can afford to buy things brand new, why would I when I can score them for pennies on the dollar? Let someone else spend the cash up front. My kids have picked up this habit too, and they love telling their friends how much they saved on a skirt or a top by buying on Depop instead of in the store.
In the same vein, buying makeup on ebay. Buying perfume and name brand makeup/haircare(translation: expensive) on fragrancenet.com rather than full price at Sephora or whatever. Why would I pay full price for Bumble & Bumble or Verb when I can get it cheaper?
Dupes of perfume if I don't want to pay for them on fragrancenet.com. MIIM.MIIC, Dossier, Fine'ry and others have great dupes for very expensive fragrances like Baccarat Rouge, Phlur, Le Labo, and others.
Turning off the water when brushing teeth, not flushing over night if I have to pee (old habits die hard, I'm originally from Southern California and even though I'm now on the east coast and have a well so I don't pay for water other than the electricity for the well pump, I still don't waste water).
Adding water to laundry detergent, shampoo, and dishwasher soap (the sink kind) to stretch them.
Smashing together the soap sliver + new bar of soap so I don't waste soap.
Reusing Ziplock bags for the same things (like cheese).
Price shopping and buying the cheaper thing. Beans for X amount or X-10% amount. Store brands versus name brand.
Checking my bank account daily or near-daily. This came in handy the day someone got access to our bank accounts and tried draining us of $8000 in a single blow.
Shopping for things like insurance every 6-12 months. Amazing how much you can save by switching.
Calling up my TV and internet providers and threatening to leave to get discounts.
Picking up to-go food instead of paying exorbitant prices for DoorDash to have it delivered.
80% of my wardrobe is from Poshmark. Especially purses, have gotten pricey ones that will last for years at really good prices.
I love Poshmark l, thred-up is also good 👍🏼
Load More Replies...At this very moment, I am at a salon and came for a haircut. I wanted to get highlights since more than a year and still assumed it's too costly for my short layered bob cut. While cutting my hair, the hairdresser said, if you want to go for highlights, I won't charge you for the haircut. Now, I can pay for both the services, but the relief I felt is that this high-end salon is giving one service for free. After reading the comments, I cried a little while wearing the foils and everything inna room full of strangers. And decided to share my experience. Hugs to all poor grown children who has enough to pay for stuff they want now.
I get my hair cut once every few years or do it myself. I hate going to a salon. Just trying to figure out how much to tip unsettles me.
My most recent haircut was sometime in the 1990s.
Load More Replies...I moved so much that I have trouble hanging things on walls. I can't bring myself to put a nail in the wall because my brain goes "not worth it - we're just going to have to patch it when we move soon".
My husband has this insecurity too, so I've taken to using removable hangers like command strips and stuff. Then I can hang things and he's happy I didn't put a hole in the wall. :)
They don't leave a hole, but they do leave a stain sometimes.
Load More Replies... I almost never had enough money to buy something for myself, so I would keep a list of things I wanted and would periodically re-evaluate its order. Things I want the most were at the top of the list. Things that turned out to be impulse buys I don't really want anymore, I'd take off the list. I still do that.
I base my meal decisions on a $2.50 a night budget. If I can stretch a dinner to enough nights to get the total cost to make it down to $2.50 a night, I'll make it.
I will not heat my house until sweaters are no longer enough, and I have all the registers closed in every room I don't use so I don't waste heat. Cooking in the winter is nice because I can leave the oven door open afterwards (after turning it off) so the heat warms up the room.
While no longer going to garage sales as we don’t need anything, I am still very careful to rotate the same few garments so most are still nearly new. The idea was from my youth to not need to buy a lot every year. Now comfortably retired, I have more clothes than I will live long enough to need to buy more. I do now throw away anything showing wear, damage, or strains and feel guilty when putting the mending in the trash.
When my turn to cook, a casserole of pasta, meat, and sauce were the go to for stretching food dollars when a child so I still make those. At the grocery store I really don’t pay much attention to prices. We are in our old age for which we saved for decades. Brand name Fritos! Big containers of delux nuts with no peanuts!
I still make casseroles, because I love them. And they can be seriously delicious if you use high quality ingredients (homemade stock, etc.).
My wife grew up borderline malnourished at time and even though that was 15 years ago, she still hoards food despite having more than ample savings.
Buying things for myself that aren't strictly necessary. I'm getting better, but I used to look at all purchases from a purely utilitarian standpoint.
Passing up free food. I can have just eaten lunch at work and if free food suddenly shows up I have such a hard time turning it down.
My Mom grew up poor and always rips the dryer static sheets in half. Has my whole life. Let's just say I was not raised poor, and we could afford Bounce sheets.
If you have a pet that sheds they are necessary because they help get rid of the hair.
Load More Replies...anti static sheets are useless... synthetics airdry very quickly, so no need for the drier anyhow
Unless you live in a humid climate or a place where pollen falls like snow.
Load More Replies...Paper towels are expensive and only to be used for extremely messy messes or spills on the floor (my mom is a frugal germophobe)
Price anchoring. I know what the lowest prices are for things (on sale), and can't bring myself to pay full-price for them, even though it would be no hardship at all for me to do so.
I keep detailed inventory of exactly how much food and consumable supplies I have and when I'm likely to run out, and start to panic when it gets down to less than three weeks. And I almost never buy perishable food except for necessary milk and dairy - whatever I have may need to last me a month or more.
Since we live 25 miles from a big grocer, when I worked (now retired) we would go 2x month. We still keep a list of stuff we are out/nearly out of.
Spending too much money.
Now that I’m well off I buy things I dreamt of when I was younger. I just bought a 20 acre ranch with a river on it and I’m about to do some crazy shit out there.
I put used parchment paper in the freezer so I can reuse it. It works great for nachos.
Wha? I mean, yes, reuse it of course, but why does it need to go in the freezer?
so you can freeze anything stuck to it and peel it off easier to clean it.
Load More Replies... I'm solidly lower middle class now and grew up with both my parents having never graduated high school(USA) but I never stopped the mentality I had when I was in the working world and pushing myself through my first degree in college(that sounds privileged, I am aware, but I paid my own way and worked my ass off).
I'm a fantastic cook, have a taste for plain water, and my entertainment is very cheap. My only "binge" spending is in books... and they're mostly textbooks for my career. I enjoy it though.
My Doc and my wife gets after me for not drinking plain water. I drink cold tea as my beverage, costs about $5 for 24 gallons.
I buy cans of whole olives and slice them if I want sliced olives. Because my family stressed that sliced olives weren’t worth the extra 50¢-$1 and that it could be used elsewhere.
I have never had food delivered. I rarely go out to eat. I have a couple of nice outfits to wear when going anywhere, but at home, I wear cheap, raggedly clothes.
I still live like I was in college. If it wasn’t for my wife I’d still wear old hand me down clothes and flavored ground beef mixed with rice and sauce for meals (I still eat this). Very hard for me to spend money on essentials to this day. A $30 meal or shirt, although the other one is trashed literally hurts me.
"If it wasn’t for my wife I’d still wear old hand me down clothes and flavored ground beef mixed with rice and sauce". She's taught him not to wear food - that's a good thing.
Manager special meats. I’m retired so I can go early in the day and get them before the crowds.
Had to look this one up, it's just a term used to mean produce close to it's sell-by date, discounted to sell.
Yup! and since most folks have freezers, if you freeze immediately you can save quite a bit.
Load More Replies...Evaluating every purchase based on price and quality. A friend says I can afford to buy what I want, but unless something is broken, I’m not going to buy another. And every week, I buy extra food in case there’s a pandemic. Strangely, I buy more food than any rich person will because of growing up poor.
For me it was not wanting to live like my parents, especially my father. But I still have a fondness for white trash cooking.
I remember loving tater tot casserole as a kid (I think that counts as white trash cooking) so I made it as an adult, it was vile. LOL! Some things from childhood I do still like though.
Using everything until it breaks, still have an iphone x.
My wife can't shake buying the cheapest possible item, price first, value second (if ever). She still can't seem to figure out that we make enough that we can actually buy a quality item that's not necessarily the name brand, but has more value than the cheapest option.
Store brand everything. I used to do it because I HAD to...now I just do it to feel like I'm giving even the smallest middle finger to the fuckin greedy corporations that think they can suck us dry with fuckin $7 Doritos and $1.99 for a fuckin 16oz bottle of Coke at the checkout. I'm probably delusional since the mega conglomerates probably make the store brand stuff too, but it FEELS good to watch those fucks make a few less dollars.
As someone familiar with how the food retailing industry works I can personally assure you that the mega conglomerates do make the store brand stuff under contracts with the stores. The stores can sell the stuff at a lower price because they buy it in huge bulk quantities and save on advertising/packaging eye candy.
Not me, but my husband still puts water in the bathroom hand soap when it’s almost empty to make it last longer. Like sir, we can afford $2 for more hand soap. Drives me crazy when I go to pump the soap and a bunch of what is essentially just water shoots out.
I don't pay for intangible "experiences"
Experiences are what I spend most money on in retirement. Stuff property, experiences rock!
My friend doesn't buy her kids gifts, only experiences, for birthdays (they do get spoiled rotten with gifts from relatives) and I love that idea! Memories will last much longer than a fad toy suitable for a small age range.
Load More Replies...Most all of these are good habits and good preparation for what’s sure to be coming. The decline of an empire, like the US, is never pretty. Neither is stagflation. Live simply, save stuff, and be happy.
Yeah, well, most of us will probably be darn near broke if things continue as they are, so keep on doing that stuff.
We had Schrodinger's butter tub. Could be butter, could be leftovers, you don't know until you open it. :)
My Mom used to save those "Shedd's Spread" containers. Vile stuff!
Load More Replies...Most all of these are good habits and good preparation for what’s sure to be coming. The decline of an empire, like the US, is never pretty. Neither is stagflation. Live simply, save stuff, and be happy.
Yeah, well, most of us will probably be darn near broke if things continue as they are, so keep on doing that stuff.
We had Schrodinger's butter tub. Could be butter, could be leftovers, you don't know until you open it. :)
My Mom used to save those "Shedd's Spread" containers. Vile stuff!
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