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“What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers
We all have words or phrases that instantly rub us the wrong way. Sometimes it’s a cliché that feels fake, other times it’s a throwaway line that reveals a lot more about someone’s attitude than they realize. A single phrase can be enough to make you roll your eyes—or even lose a little respect for the person saying it.
So, I asked the Bored Panda community to share the words or expressions that immediately set off red flags for them. From cringey catchphrases to everyday sayings that just don’t sit right, these answers show how powerful language can be—and how quickly the wrong words can change your impression of someone.
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#1
"It's just a (cat/dog/iguana…)" — said when someone loses a pet.
Final score:
69points
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#2
"Everything happens for a reason."
Please tell me the reason why my mother died like a dog from dementia, genius. I'll wait.
Final score:
65points
#3
For me, it’s when someone says, “I’m just being honest,” right after saying something unnecessarily cruel. Honesty is great, but when it’s used as a shield for rudeness, it feels more like an excuse than a virtue.
Final score:
59points
Andrew Keir 2 months ago
That word - "just". It's so often either a verbal grovel, or an attempt to evade the blame. Avoid it yourself (as much as possible) and avoid those who use it regularly, as well.
#4
"I don’t believe in mental illness."
From a close family member who knows I have severe depression, knows I am on medication, and knows I have tried to take my own life in the past!
Final score:
58points
#5
"Influencer" or "content creator"—either of those words likely means you don’t know what you’re talking about when it comes to what you’re trying to get your followers to buy. So, I have no respect for you.
Final score:
53points
Bill Swallow 2 months ago
It also means "I'm an entitled idiot that wants you to give me stuff for free."
#6
Because I'm a… [Insert Zodiac Sign]
Final score:
46points
Hugo 1 month ago
No such thing as a star sign. They are signs of the zodiac, but because of precession they no longer correspond with the constellations they are named after.
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Child of the Stars 2 months ago
I do this but always in an extremely and obviously non-serious way.
The Other Guest 1 month ago
When someone asks me what my sign is (which hasn't actually happened in about 20 years now, maybe folks are wising up), I either tell them what is is according to Chinese astrology, or if it's someon who's known me for a little bit I'll say, "You tell me - you should be able to figure it out by how I act." Only one person has ever guessed correctly on the first try, and it was someone I'd known for 9 months; since she knew I hadn't had a birthday in that amount of time, it changed the odds of a correct guess from 1 in 12 to 1 in 3, so not really a valid "test."
#7
"God won't give you more than you can handle."
"And aren't you over that by now?"
Final score:
43points
#8
A word or phrase that makes me instantly lose respect for someone is anything dismissive of other people’s humanity—like when someone says, “I’m just being honest,” right after insulting someone, or, “That’s just how I was raised,” to excuse bigotry. Those kinds of phrases signal that the person isn’t interested in growth, empathy, or accountability, and that usually tells me everything I need to know.
Final score:
40points
#9
Woke. It's just: "Things are more complicated than my simplistic worldview accounts for, and I don't want complexity making me question it."
Final score:
40points
#10
5G… chemtrails… antivax… All of these are the worst of the human condition. We are fully in Idiocracy mode now.
Final score:
37points
Array Index Out of Bounds 2 months ago
Nobody I have ever met believes any of this trope. I'm from Bay Area, California.
#11
"Oh, just ChatGPT/Copilot/Gemini it." What happened to "Google it"? Why are we relying on a very inaccurate robot to give us our information?
Final score:
36points
Yrral Spavit 2 months ago
Have asked AI twice about something then followed up by checking the result. Not only wrong but VERY wrong.
#12
"No offence."
It's so annoying—people just say it to try and get away with saying something terrible!
Final score:
33points
#13
"Do you know how much I make a year?"
Final score:
33points
#14
Well, "I'm an influencer" has already been covered, so let's just go with, "Do you know who I am/who my father is?"
Final score:
31points
#15
"Be better." It's a passive-aggressive way of saying, "Align your views with mine because my thinking on this topic makes me a better person than you," and it marks the person as arrogant and condescending.
Final score:
29points
#16
I'm not, but…
If you start a sentence with that, then you most definitely are bigoted. It doesn't matter if it's about race, gender, or sexual orientation— as soon as those words are uttered, I lose respect.
Final score:
28points
Me myself and I (Submission author) 2 months ago
Should say I'm not racist, homophobic or what ever your favourite bigotry is but fir some reason didn't post
#17
"I don't mean to be rude, but…" means they're about to be rude.
Final score:
28points
#18
"I am her father. You need to respect me." Lost respect immediately. You earn respect; you don't ask for it.
Final score:
27points
#19
It's beginning to be "Prove me wrong."
Final score:
25points
#20
I know a person who puts a dollar amount on everything. Not, "Can you hand me my sunglasses?" But, "Can you hand me my $1,200 sunglasses?" Every time… every chance she gets. I wish I saw her less than every couple of years.
Final score:
23points
Bill Swallow 2 months ago
Hand them to her with the comment "Here's your buck ninety-eight sunglasses that you wildly overpaid for."
#21
Not a word or a phrase, but a conversational style: arguing with everything the other person says, insisting that they justify every statement or back up every assertion they make. Saying, “But what about [unlikely possibility],”—aka sealioning.
Final score:
22points
nottheactualphoto 2 months ago
But if I'm going to argue with you, I must take up a contrary position.
#22
“I’m just playing devil’s advocate” — said when they are trying to justify being cruel.
Final score:
20points
#24
"So I was listening to Rogan," or "I read on InfoWars." May as well tell me you read it in the tabloids—at least you can read, but geez.
Final score:
19points
realenancy170 1 month ago
At least they have identified an actual source even a wackjob right wingding. I hate "they say that....". I ask who are they and get a shoulder shrug!
#25
Using "irregardless."
Final score:
18points
#26
"I voted for Trump. Twice."
Final score:
17points
#27
"Not all men" and "Misandry!" — said when women talk about negative experiences with men.
Final score:
16points
Peter Bear 2 months ago
Just for fairness sake, try this simple test; flip the genders. How would a woman respond to the same statement?
#28
When a man refers to his lovely spouse as "the wife."
Final score:
16points
#29
"We only want what's best for you."
You think I don't know what's best for me?
Final score:
15points
#30
"No offence, but…" I just hate it when someone says that—they mean offence. I just lose my respect for them (which I probably didn't have in the first place).
Final score:
14points
Auntriarch 2 months ago
I honestly don't know anyone who uses that phrase any more unless it's sarcasm.
#32
Whatever.
Final score:
11points
#33
I am not a n**i, but…
Final score:
10points
KatSaidWhat 1 month ago
You're right, you're just a racist trash individual looking for like minded trash.
#34
It really infuriates me when anyone uses a dog as a way to insult someone, especially in a really bad way.
Dogs are by far the most loving, caring, loyal, generous, patient, forgiving, and peaceful creatures on the planet. All they want to do is fill your life with happiness and unconditional love. They never cheat, treat you badly, or hurt you in any way. They just make your life better by simply being there.
People, on the other hand, can be the exact opposite—especially when they act in ways that lead others to call them a dog. They can be nasty, cruel; they start wars, they cheat, they kill, and their greed knows no bounds. If anything, dogs should be held up as a way to be, not as an insult, but as a compliment and as a model for how to live: kind, loving, caring, funny. The world would be a much better place if people were more like dogs.
Final score:
9points
#35
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words may never harm me." Bull***t. Words hurt.
Final score:
9points
#38
When every sentence ends with the words "you know." No, I don't know. You didn't really explain the point you were trying to make.
Using slang or making up words that are already in the dictionary. I don't want to look up stuff just to understand the conversation.
Every other word is "bro" or something like it. I might be showing my age, but at least I'm educated enough to communicate with people.
Final score:
6points
UKGrandad 2 months ago
'..making up words that are already in the dictionary'? If they're in the dictionary then the people can't be making them up. I also disagree with 'I don't want to look up stuff to understand the conversation.' How are people supposed to know which words you don't know? You're essentially criticising people who have a wider vocabulary than yours.
#39
I'm not racist, but…
Final score:
6points
#40
"Unthaw." I know—it's stupid. But I will DIE ON THIS HILL. Thaw is defrost. Unthaw is un-defrost. Unthaw is freeze. STOP SAYING UNTHAW!
Final score:
6points
#41
"Gee, you're so pretty/handsome," said over and over.
Final score:
4points
#42
¡Viva la libertad, carajo! (Milei's words after every speech.)
Final score:
2points
#43
The "N word" and "w*****k."
Final score:
2points
#44
I have two: the first is the word "schmiko"—drives me nuts… the second is the phrase "Live life to the full/fullest"—so trite and nonsensical…
Final score:
1point
#46
"Are you KIDDING ME? (Right now)"
Final score:
0points
#47
"You're amazing." This was written on the sidewalk across from my store as part of a day when people write uplifting messages in chalk.
No, I'm not. You have to actually do something amazing to be amazing. You don't get to call yourself that just because you got out of bed this morning. I take it as an insult, frankly—like when a toddler does a little jump and you say, "Wow, buddy, that's amazing!" What am I supposed to say? "Yay, I'm amazing!" Any of those sorts of mindless platitudes annoy me to no end.
Final score:
-3points
StrangeOne 2 months ago
Well, to put it in a different light, someone woke up, got out of bed with a fresh view on life, and decided to spread some uplifting words for those who may need it in these turbulent, dark times. They didn't have to and they're not asking for anything out of it.
What do you think ?
Bob Jones 2 months ago (edited)
People who call anything they don't like woke. People who use the word woke without having any idea what it actually means
Hugo 1 month ago
Apparently it originally meant aware. I have no idea what it's now used to mean.
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Hugo 1 month ago
I once told a colleague "Women are people too, you know". His reply: "Mustn't generalize".
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Trillian 1 month ago
"Do your own research". As in only read and believe the wildly inaccurate conspiracy s**t I send to you, that people pull right out of their behinds, but it is somehow to be believed because it is not "BIG somethingorother"
Data1001 1 month ago
And for goodness sake, don't get your research from things like legitimate scientific journals -- the only reliable research is from Facebook. /s
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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 1 month ago
Irrationally so, but it makes my blood boil when people say/write ''bored of''. It's with. WITH!
sawyerdakraken 2 months ago
People downvoted my comment on another persons submission, even though I was pointing out that they copied mine why?
Apatheist Account2 1 month ago
Some people appear to come to BP just to downvote. It's probably some sort of complex.
Load More Replies... Bob Jones 2 months ago (edited)
People who call anything they don't like woke. People who use the word woke without having any idea what it actually means
Hugo 1 month ago
Apparently it originally meant aware. I have no idea what it's now used to mean.
Load More Replies... Hugo 1 month ago
I once told a colleague "Women are people too, you know". His reply: "Mustn't generalize".
Load More Replies... Trillian 1 month ago
"Do your own research". As in only read and believe the wildly inaccurate conspiracy s**t I send to you, that people pull right out of their behinds, but it is somehow to be believed because it is not "BIG somethingorother"
Data1001 1 month ago
And for goodness sake, don't get your research from things like legitimate scientific journals -- the only reliable research is from Facebook. /s
Load More Replies... Smeghead Tribble Down Under 1 month ago
Irrationally so, but it makes my blood boil when people say/write ''bored of''. It's with. WITH!
sawyerdakraken 2 months ago
People downvoted my comment on another persons submission, even though I was pointing out that they copied mine why?
Apatheist Account2 1 month ago
Some people appear to come to BP just to downvote. It's probably some sort of complex.
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