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We live in a world where looks are often seen as a twisted currency. With so much fakery fueled by unrealistic standards on social media, it’s becoming hard to see real beauty. And unlike heavily staged and edited allure, natural appeal is always changing, transforming, enriching itself with experiences, ups and downs. In this sense, it’s more about the journey of feeling good in your skin than the actual result.

And what could better illustrate that than photos from real people who fought hard (or did nothing!) to love themselves fully and are proud about it. Thanks to the subreddit “Ugly Duckling,” which has people sharing how they turned into beautiful swans, we now have a bunch of people to cheer for.

After you’re done, be sure to check out more incredibly wholesome transformations in our previous posts here, here, and here. Just remember that glowing up differs for everyone, and that we are all beautiful in our own perfectly imperfect ways.

#1

Today I Weighed Myself And I've Lost A Total Of 221 Pounds. Sitting At 179. I Don't Have Any Friends So No One To Share It With So I'm Sharing It Here Lol. Have A Wonderful Night

Today I Weighed Myself And I've Lost A Total Of 221 Pounds. Sitting At 179. I Don't Have Any Friends So No One To Share It With So I'm Sharing It Here Lol. Have A Wonderful Night

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Raine Soo
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Congratulations on the weight loss! You have a good night as well.

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    #2

    17 To 27 - How Did I Do?

    17 To 27 - How Did I Do?

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    #3

    A Slightly Bigger Change Then Your Average Glow Up For Sure, But I'm Still Happy Where I Am Now

    A Slightly Bigger Change Then Your Average Glow Up For Sure, But I'm Still Happy Where I Am Now

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    Being an ugly duckling, which takes its name from Hans Christian Andersen’s tale, refers to glowing up and developing into an attractive and successful person as opposed to what one has been before in their early days.

    But even though it indeed shows how empowering blossoming can be, the message of being “an ugly duckling” also has some inherent flaws. Because it’s based on the idea that beauty is “malleable,” it focuses on the improvement of looks that can further escalate your self-worth and self-image. The idea of transforming one’s beauty has infiltrated our society with glossy magazine covers, advertising, and social media.

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    #4

    15>18 - I'd Like To Thank My Mother, My Father And Whoever My Mother Had An Affair With 19 Years Ago Cuz I Did Not Get That Jawline From My Dad

    15>18 - I'd Like To Thank My Mother, My Father And Whoever My Mother Had An Affair With 19 Years Ago Cuz I Did Not Get That Jawline From My Dad

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    #5

    22 vs. 27 Appearance May Have Change But Personality Has Always Stayed The Same

    22 vs. 27 Appearance May Have Change But Personality Has Always Stayed The Same

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    Susan Green
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having a good personality is the most important thing overall. You do look great though.

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    #6

    13 To 26 I Still Do My Own Hair Cuts But I Think They’re A Little Better Now

    13 To 26 I Still Do My Own Hair Cuts But I Think They’re A Little Better Now

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    Missy Moo Moo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The joys of learning how to handle crazy hair! Been there

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    Melissa Burkley, a psychology professor and book author, writes on Psychology Today: “This message that less attractive girls can become beautiful is also commonly seen in movies (She’s All That and Never Been Kissed) and celebrity magazine interviews with the likes of Eva Longoria (Allure, 2006), Beyoncé (Glamour, 2009), and Victoria’s Secret model Rosie Huntington-Whiteley (Harper’s Bazaar UK, 2011).”

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    #7

    10 To 20! My Nickname Used To Be Called ‘Uglie’

    10 To 20! My Nickname Used To Be Called ‘Uglie’

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    ThatOneCrazyFanGirl
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even recognize you! Looking beautiful!

    Sum Guy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What kind of a nickname is uglie??? that's just lazy

    J. Cole
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG man you're killin it. Literal lolz over here.

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    Athenalikesowls
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *GAY PANIC* AAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGHHHHH SOOOOOO PREEETTTTTYYYYYYYY

    Paizleypie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used to be's don't count anymore!

    Jo Johannsen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm thinking no one calls you Uglie anymore.

    Skaiya
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The person who posts this said she has never had plastic surgery but uses makeup to contour. She also states she's always been female but she used to be a tomboy and she's lost a lot of weight since then. She thinks it's a compliment that people think she's had plastic surgery because that means her hard work has paid off.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this one. She’s so timid looking in the first shot and so unashamed of her sexy confidence in the second. You can really see how her mentality got a glow up too.

    Jess Hoffman
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Either she had a ton of plastic surgery or it's not the same person

    JonaLou2U
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well that was cruel and uncalled for to have been called that name. You're beautiful!

    noralin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't here. It's plastic surgery...

    haha laser go brrr
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Part of the point is that they're transgender, I reckon

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    Ben Smith
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why it's called Bangkok I guess...

    Samantha PandaNotBored
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lots of surgery Guelph , should have stayed yourself . Not let the uglies beat you down

    GaeFrog
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People's faces change. Especially over 10 years AND through puberty

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    J. Cole
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    4 years ago

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    New nose, who dis?

    Stevie
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    4 years ago

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    I am just sad that you thought you wouldn't be beautiful without plastic surgery

    Ozacoter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. This shouldnt be in the post. Its about wroth not surgery

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    #8

    13-24. Did I Age Backwards?

    13-24. Did I Age Backwards?

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    #9

    14-24. When Puberty Hits You Like A Train

    14-24. When Puberty Hits You Like A Train

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    Puppy Lover
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The facial expression on the left just makes me laugh

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    According to Melissa, “The problem here is that in modern society, beauty is an overly idealized and largely unattainable goal for most women. With enough effort and persistence, nearly anyone can earn good grades in school. But no amount of effort or persistence can turn the typical woman into the photoshopped, unrealistically perfect beauty images they see every day in advertisements, movies, and magazines.”

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    #11

    I Struggled With Bipolar Disorder II For The Longest Time. The Meds Made Me Gain So Much Weight But As Of February Last Year, I’ve Been Medication-Free, With The Blessings Of My Doctor

    I Struggled With Bipolar Disorder II For The Longest Time. The Meds Made Me Gain So Much Weight But As Of February Last Year, I’ve Been Medication-Free, With The Blessings Of My Doctor

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    #12

    13 To 25 - Life Is Weird Man

    13 To 25 - Life Is Weird Man

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    Melissa and her colleagues conducted several studies to see how the idea that beauty is malleable affects people’s physical and mental well-being: “in one study, we had people read a story that either highlighted (1) how beauty is malleable and changes significantly over the lifespan, (2) how beauty is fixed and doesn’t change much over the lifespan, or (3) a neutral story that had nothing to do with beauty.”

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    #13

    16 To 22 - My Boyfriend Filled Out A Little

    16 To 22 - My Boyfriend Filled Out A Little

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    #14

    15 —> 30 Weight Loss, Better Eyebrows… Same Smirk Tho

    15 —> 30 Weight Loss, Better Eyebrows… Same Smirk Tho

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    #15

    Hi!! Me, 14 -> 21

    Hi!! Me, 14 -> 21

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    Friday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have such a beautiful smile!

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    “We found that women who read the 'beauty is malleable' story later reported more anxiety about their appearance, were more likely to base their sense of self-worth on their appearance, and were more interested in getting plastic surgery than women who read the other two stories.” It turned out that the more people thought they can change the way they look, the more obsessed they became over their appearance up to a point that’s generally considered unhealthy.

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    #16

    Our Styles Changed A Little

    Our Styles Changed A Little

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    good day
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those photos look decades apart. Totally hot looks, guys.

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    #17

    Age 15 vs. Age 22. Thank Goodness For Puberty

    Age 15 vs. Age 22. Thank Goodness For Puberty

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    #18

    [19 vs. 25] 85kgs Difference In Weight Between The Two Pictures. Who Knew I Had Some Decent Facial Features Underneath The Fat I Used To Carry. I'm Glad I Worked On Myself And My Physical Appearance

    [19 vs. 25] 85kgs Difference In Weight Between The Two Pictures. Who Knew I Had Some Decent Facial Features Underneath The Fat I Used To Carry. I'm Glad I Worked On Myself And My Physical Appearance

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    Raine Soo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have very decent facial features. Good job.

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    #19

    12 To 19 - I Do Not Miss The Bowl Cut

    12 To 19 - I Do Not Miss The Bowl Cut

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    Raine Soo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A bowl cut never did anyone any favours.

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    #20

    Still Working On Myself, But Time And Hygiene Can Do Wonders! I Was Wearing Makeup In The First Pic, And Not The Second. [15/2012 - 24/2021]

    Still Working On Myself, But Time And Hygiene Can Do Wonders! I Was Wearing Makeup In The First Pic, And Not The Second. [15/2012 - 24/2021]

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    ThatOneCrazyFanGirl
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i have the exact same sweater on right....btw looking good girl!

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    #21

    Being The Youngest As A Teenager (17) I Always Felt Like I Lived In My Older Siblings Shadows, I’m Proud Of The Hard Working Man I’ve Grown To Become Today. (25)

    Being The Youngest As A Teenager (17) I Always Felt Like I Lived In My Older Siblings Shadows, I’m Proud Of The Hard Working Man I’ve Grown To Become Today. (25)

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    #24

    12 > 18 I Was Bullied At School For My Looks, Cried Every Day And Begged World To Give Me Another Face. I Was Kinda Cute Tho

    12 > 18 I Was Bullied At School For My Looks, Cried Every Day And Begged World To Give Me Another Face. I Was Kinda Cute Tho

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    good day
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world can be ugly, but you're always beautiful.

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    #25

    19-22, People Really Underestimate How Much The Gym Can Do For Your Face

    19-22, People Really Underestimate How Much The Gym Can Do For Your Face

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    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GOSH he is handsome as heck. Nice forearms too. I bet he gets a lot of attention.

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    #26

    19 vs. 30

    19 vs. 30

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    Raine Soo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that she was pretty at 19. She probably developed better makeup techniques over the years.

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    #27

    16 vs. 20 Is This A Glow Up?

    16 vs. 20 Is This A Glow Up?

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    Raine Soo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, this is a glow up. And, the right haircut can do wonders.

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    #28

    19 To 22, People Will Make You Feel Unworthy But You Have So Much Potential. I Promise

    19 To 22, People Will Make You Feel Unworthy But You Have So Much Potential. I Promise

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    #29

    13 vs. 22

    13 vs. 22

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    #30

    16 To 20

    16 To 20

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    crazy_cat_notAlady
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    whoa! u have great tenacity and dedication, and it shows. it must have taken hundreds of hours of working out. u must have a strong mind and willpower to stay on plan for 4 years! it's not easy at all.

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    #31

    12-22: Deleted Instagram And Facetune At 20. Stopped Hiding My Flaws Behind Unrealistic Snapchat Filters. Most Importantly, Stopped Adding Quotes To My Pics Jk Stopped Comparing Myself To Others. Proud Of My Growth

    12-22: Deleted Instagram And Facetune At 20. Stopped Hiding My Flaws Behind Unrealistic Snapchat Filters. Most Importantly, Stopped Adding Quotes To My Pics Jk Stopped Comparing Myself To Others. Proud Of My Growth

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    #32

    12-23, Thank God For Puberty

    12-23, Thank God For Puberty

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    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awwwww I just love her hair in the first photo. She looks like a sweet kid. She grew up to be lovely.

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    #33

    Ten Years Later. 14>24

    Ten Years Later. 14>24

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    Tracy Baparam
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You look great, but I think you'd look better if you cut your hair, just my opinion.

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    #34

    15 To 19. Same Shirt, Same Bed, Same Dude Haha. I’m Happy That My Nose Sorted Itself Out Somehow After My Brother Broke It

    15 To 19. Same Shirt, Same Bed, Same Dude Haha. I’m Happy That My Nose Sorted Itself Out Somehow After My Brother Broke It

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    Raine Soo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha, ha, ha! You owe your brother a debt of gratitude.

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    #35

    Pink Has Always Been A Favorite (13/25)

    Pink Has Always Been A Favorite (13/25)

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    #36

    17 - 22 / Grew Into My Forehead And Started Taking Proper Care Of Myself

    17 - 22 / Grew Into My Forehead And Started Taking Proper Care Of Myself

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    BananaJo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "grew into my forehead" lol. Great look!

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    #37

    13 vs. 21. Am I Doing This Right??

    13 vs. 21. Am I Doing This Right??

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    #38

    About An Eight Year Difference Here And Just Had My Braces Taken Out

    About An Eight Year Difference Here And Just Had My Braces Taken Out

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    ThatOneCrazyFanGirl
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking Great!! Why do those glasses on left look photoshopped though?

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    #39

    17 To 26 - From "Anorexic Nerd With Cringey Hair" To "Healthy Chad" (Jk Im Not A Chad)

    17 To 26 - From "Anorexic Nerd With Cringey Hair" To "Healthy Chad" (Jk Im Not A Chad)

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    #40

    16 - 25 Am I Doing This Right?

    16 - 25 Am I Doing This Right?

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    TheLazyPoki
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @JamieFookin'Lannister: No offense, but you're the weirdo here. Being rude to someone and calling out their looks that you don't like just to make you feel better/good about yourself.

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    #41

    13 To 23! Lost The Weird Frames And Bangs, Gained Some Style And Confidence To Be Fully Myself

    13 To 23! Lost The Weird Frames And Bangs, Gained Some Style And Confidence To Be Fully Myself

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    Aurelia!
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gorgeous!! Just a reminder to everyone, though - whether you choose to wear a hijab or not, both choices are beautiful!

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    #42

    16 To 23... A Beard And Puberty Makes A World Of Difference

    16 To 23... A Beard And Puberty Makes A World Of Difference

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    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How could this gorgeous person be dead last? He’s got such a clear and strong glow up!

    #43

    14-22 Im Working On It

    14-22 Im Working On It

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    #44

    Left-20yo Right-22yo

    Left-20yo Right-22yo

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    Dave S
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    photo 1 or 2? I don't care, this is a beautiful woman

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    #45

    16-19, Lost Around 90 Lbs And Started Being Grateful For Life

    16-19, Lost Around 90 Lbs And Started Being Grateful For Life

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    #46

    Age 13 / Age 20 And I Started Doing Makeup 2 Months Ago Lol

    Age 13 / Age 20 And I Started Doing Makeup 2 Months Ago Lol

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    molly
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    omg ur one of the most beautiful humans ive ever seen

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    #47

    [18 To 20] Realized I Wanted More For Myself, Took Up Running, Started Journaling, And Have Been Working On My Mental Health Ever Since Starting College

    [18 To 20] Realized I Wanted More For Myself, Took Up Running, Started Journaling, And Have Been Working On My Mental Health Ever Since Starting College

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    #48

    18 To 21, Same Orange Colored T-Shirt, Different Person :) Lost A Few Pounds, Started Taking Care Of My Hair And Cleared Most Of The Acne Scars

    18 To 21, Same Orange Colored T-Shirt, Different Person :) Lost A Few Pounds, Started Taking Care Of My Hair And Cleared Most Of The Acne Scars

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    Kaori Panda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So beautiful! How does one even clean up acne scars?

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