Life changes when you turn 40. The back-aches start in earnest, you have to really start watching what you eat, and you’re more interested in watching the weather forecast than the actual news. But what do I know? I’m not even 30 yet and I think that life’s going to be as awesome in the future as it is now! No aches or secret maladies for me, no siree!

However, internet users that are 40+ have been sharing memes about what it’s like in the fifth decade of life on Earth, and it all seems funny and scary at the same time. Bored Panda has collected the funniest memes for you to nod off to (or laugh at and upvote if you’re still young and free like me!). Don’t worry, it’s all done with good intentions and it’s a bit of harmless fun. After all, in just a few short years, we’ll all be intimately familiar with these memes firsthand.

Bored Panda spoke about how much truth there is in these memes with comedy writer, musical stand-up comedian, and pop star in waiting, Ariane Sherine, who turned 40 last summer. Be sure to read on for my full hilarious and candid interview with her. [Spoiler Warning: yup, it’s just like we feared!]

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Foxxy (The Original)
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2 months ago

That is definitely not just a 40’s thing.

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Láďa Durchánek
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2 months ago

What about single men after 40? And why am I asking?

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Foxxy (The Original)
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2 months ago

I am obviously a 30+ year old in a 40 year olds body, coz again I can relate.

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As someone who’s rapidly approaching their 30th birthday, writing about being a 40-year-old sounds a bit like poking fun at people while hiding my own head in the sand. But, honestly, it’s all done for the sake of humor (and, well, getting ready for those backaches)! We could all use a laugh or two after the eternal emotional hangover that was last year.

London-based comedian Ariane, who is turning 41 this July and has already started the exciting journey into the vast wilds of her 40s, openly spoke to Bored Panda about what it’s like compared to life earlier.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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2 months ago

I’m in my 30’s and feel the same.

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Gëë Bëë
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2 months ago

Every. Single. Time!

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Gëë Bëë
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2 months ago

And the last to bring them in lol!

Tantalum_Radium
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2 months ago

“Back in from the curb”

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Dennis Stanley
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2 months ago

I'm laughing because my cans are still sitting at the end of the driveway on Monday and trash day was Friday.

Norma
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2 months ago

This should be at the top!

J Sizz
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2 months ago

Mine are just out there for next week, I'm ahead of the game!

Adam Francis
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2 months ago

S**t. This is me right now.

Jessica Shookhoff
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2 months ago

I wanted to laugh at this but it's so full of truth I'm in pain!!!

Id row
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2 months ago

I'm the last one to bring mine to the curb. Last place, every time, lol.

Ms.GB
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2 months ago

Yes

Jo Choto
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2 months ago

So true. It's a thing in my neighborhood.

Scagsy
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2 months ago

Yes! The absolute shame of the wheelie bin standing there by the street like a totem of shame and embarrassment

John Doe
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2 months ago

I recently had to go hunting for my trash bin. We found it at a neighbor's house.

Sherryist
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2 months ago

This is totally me! They show up so late!

AzKhaleesi
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2 months ago

lol that's literally what this post meant. but I feel you, we're the last to bring them out AND in.... smh hahaa

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Angela B
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2 months ago

Laughed so loud, I woke the dog.

Bobert Robertson
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2 months ago

This is also true of the flip side, when one of your neighbours decides to go out to the curb 3 days early for trash pickup with some old piece of junk they don't want in their house

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“I'm sorry to tell you that it's all over after 40! Enjoy your next ten years before you suddenly notice that your back hurts, you're slightly obsessed with the Weather app on your phone, you feel very grateful for your garden shed, get super-interested in plants, and 9 pm seems like a late bedtime. The worrying thing is, I'm not even joking.” Ariane shared that moving into your 40s is exactly like the memes tell us. There’s very little hyperbole there!

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Gëë Bëë
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2 months ago

Jeeeeezzzz.......im only half way through my working life!

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Eva the Egg
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2 months ago

Not surprised. Clean sheets are the best

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Bernd Herbert
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2 months ago

totally true. I'm 42 now, a hangover can last up to 2 complete days now.

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I was curious to find out how we can all age with dignity and grace, as we move through life, even if we seemingly haven’t yet accomplished all the goals we’ve set for ourselves and still aren’t living our dream lives.

“Dignity and grace are overrated,” comedian Ariane said. “I'm still planning to be famous around the world—you can cite this quote next year when I become a pop superstar!” And I fully believe that this will happen.

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Láďa Durchánek
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2 months ago

Zoom call filters to the rescue!

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Whatshername
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2 months ago (edited)

A different BP page taught me that's a spaghetto 😮

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Ryan Deschanel
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2 months ago

Wrong. It's 17.

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In the comedian’s opinion, age absolutely should not be a barrier to success, whatever line of activity you pursue. However, one thing that you should bring along into your 40s and beyond is the ability to laugh and laugh hard. “A sense of humor also helps with everything in life. Learn to laugh at yourself and the world—it makes everything a lot easier and more fun.” So keep on laughing. During the easy times and especially the hard ones.

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Biljana Malesevic
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2 months ago

I had that in my 30s too.

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Whatshername
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2 months ago

Hate to admit 🙃

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Serial pacifist
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2 months ago

And my leg pain, my eyebrow pain...

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Finally, I asked Ariane for advice for those of us who might be a long way away from 40, but absolutely trembling in our boots at the thought of hitting the Big 3-0. However, the comedian pointed out that there’s nothing to be afraid of and, in fact, life gets way better than in your 20s.

“You're terrified about turning 30? 30 is the best bit! Your 30s are the decade when you have more experience and knowledge, but you still have the energy to get out of bed. Your body doesn't ache and the pillows and duvet don't beckon you in the early evening. Embrace the next ten years before everything goes south!”

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No.
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2 months ago

isn't everyone too hot in bed?

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Dan Buczynski
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2 months ago

Hahahahaha I bought a new shelf to put all of my countertop appliances on. First: I realized I had enough countertop appliances to warrant a new shelf and second: I was sooooo stoked when my new shelf came! (good grief)

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Minnie-me
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2 months ago

also in your 30s :(

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Turning 40 is a big deal, however much we might talk about 40 being the new 30 (and 30 being the new 20, as well as 67 being the new 53). Family medicine specialist Deb Schilling puts it bluntly that it’s the period where we’re not feeling quite old yet, but we aren’t quite young anymore, either.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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2 months ago

I haven’t wanted to see what I look like from behind, the front and sideways for as long as I can remember lol,

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Gëë Bëë
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2 months ago

And you will never remember how you got them!

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am_c0m0
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2 months ago (edited)

I think that would be more of a 50th birthday one.

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“While she may still feel young, her body is beginning to reject what was once considered normal which is due primarily to hormonal fluctuations. Women begin to experience unintentional weight gain despite no dramatic change in eating habits or exercise. Clothes don’t quite fit the same as they used to even though the scale reads the same. They may feel testy and short, tired and annoyed. They find it difficult to get a good night’s sleep. Their periods may become irregular and different,” Schilling explains some of the changes that some experience in their 40s as their bodies change.

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Láďa Durchánek
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2 months ago

Isn't this a positive turn of events?

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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2 months ago

That’s a mom thing. You jiggle from 3 pregnancies because you had 3 pregnancies. Not because you’re 40-something.

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2 months ago

Doesn't this happen at any age?

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Meanwhile, BestLife points out that our bodies start feeling the wear and tear with age: our hair thins, our sight deteriorates, our eardrums weaken, and even our voice boxes undergo change. And the jokes about back problems aren’t actually jokes: doctor Erin Nance points out that there’s a higher risk of developing a “herniated lumbar disc.” However, rest, physical therapy, and even anti-inflammatory medication (with the right prescription, of course) can all help.

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Bobert Robertson
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2 months ago (edited)

rugs are the same price for everyone, so still expensive in my 30s.

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Dan Buczynski
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2 months ago

I dunno...that's a pretty swell selfie.

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Pink kitty
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2 months ago

Lol! So true!! I'm eating my chocolate from there right now!

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JuJu
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2 months ago

Because of...

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Cynner
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2 months ago

So when you turn 40 you're turning into Chandler.

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Synsepalum
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2 months ago

Wow, guys, I'm 45 and none of this is true for me yet. I don't know if it's genes, attitude, or just dumb luck, but I'm very happy about it.

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Note: this post originally had 52 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes.

So, dear Pandas, which of these memes did you like the most? If you’re 40 or over, we’d love to hear from you and learn which ones you related to. Meanwhile, if you’re younger, let us know how you feel about getting older and if there’s an upcoming birthday that’s scaring the wits out of you.