Dating is something that takes a lot of guts and experience from everyone who wants to be good at it. But nobody, not even your friend Trevor who spends all of his weekends chasing Tinder matches, is safe from making a fool of themselves. And some of these misfires can be painful not only for the two people who are on the date, but to everyone around them.
To prove this point, I'll ask you to take a look at the subreddit r/SadCringe. It's a place for awkward and/or embarrassing situations that also make your heart ache, and while we have already covered it in one of our older publications, this one is dedicated exclusively to pathetic attempts of winning over others.
I don't know if we should feel sorry for these folks or not — many from this bunch sound like they would fail a test in common decency. But let's try to judge their behavior rather than their personalities. If that's possible.
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Life Stops Right At 35
Dude...just...you insult her out of the gate and then pretend like you're not interested when she turns you down...just...stop.
Just A Normal Guy
Guy Thinks A Girl Was Begging For Sex When She Was Nice To Him At Lunch
Incels Online Are Cringe. In Person? Even Worse.
This is so bad, so fricking bad! These types of people belong in mental asylums, if not jail.
Im Dying Of Cringe
Haha, Yes We Can...
That's Just Nasty
I Salute This Cringe.
Poor Guy
I JUST REMEMBERED a while ago I said I was lesbian online and this dude was arguing that it's a sin and then someone else said "Bro ur just mad she gets more girls than you" 💀💀
'He Was Bleed From His Mouth'
Would've considered if it said "Hi it's Josh now just got back from the afterlife"
I Posted In Another Sub About Wanting A Breast Reduction. I Just Got This Message
This Guy Is An Alpha Male
Fuck Boi
Homie Just Kept Going
Genuine Guy.. my asz there's a spot on the predators list in this guy's future
It terrifies me, really, really terrifies me that this is how men think is normal to talk to women.
right? And to all saying that there is a higher amount of creeps on the internet than on the street I say no, you just detect them easier, as they don't "waste their time" with conversation, as they know starting off like that might get them punched in the face.
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Seriously why do some guys think they are being so respectful when they they talk about squirting or attractiveness? This is so bizarre to me. Men really don't understand that women do not view sex the way they do. It's like a bartering to them. Instead of just seeing it as what it is...meeting someone and liking them and getting to know them... They talk about sex like it's something we're just keeping from them until they can prove their worthiness. So they want to impress us with talking about how good it will be (which is hilarious because good sex isn't just a physical thing, it's a mental thing), and all of the disgusting things they're going to do. Because that's how THEY think about it, which is exactly the entire problem.
I'm no expert, but if a guy's telling you how great the sex is going to be, it's going to be pretty bad but blessedly quick.
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In more than one way it shows the guy's sexual experience is limited to watching porn.
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Yeah, she just left you on the tracks - and you're not going anywhere, either.
Give me something for the cringe… like two nails in my eyes and brain pls….
You can tell for sure that he's not a creep or a pervert because if he was then of course he would never think to say that he's not. s/
Always Shoot Your Shot?
Just Gonna Drop This Right Here
Happy Anniversary
Did Ian Mean Anything To You?
*cringe Nervously*
My Friend Who Ive Known For Around A Month
The Balls On This Guy
Can I? Please? Please?
I Thought You Were A Good Person
Bruh
I'm surprised the artist(s) didn't try to talk him out of it, or refuse to take the commission(s).
My Ex From High School Sent Me A Snapchat Video Of Him Begging Me For Nudes, And It Got Worse
I Really Hope This Is Not Real
Promo Code “Cutie”
I Felt This In My Soul
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Genuine question: have these techniques ever worked? I mean EVER in the history of flirting? Where are guys getting the impression that these are the methods to use? I get that persistence is a thing in "RomComs", but some of these fall so far on the "Com" side that it's just not funny any more.
I am reminded of something that happened in the mid-1970s when I worked in a gas station. A coworker who was fat, ugly and a jerk called up a girl he knew a d said "do you want some company?" And not much else. A few minutes later she drove up, and picked him up. About half an hour later she dropped him back. I was amazed, mostly at her lack of self esteem.
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Sooner or later there will be 'nice men' who come on to comment about how the examples show women as b*****s. What is really sad is how some of these examples show women being harassed for sex, for nude pics, being catfished and having their number used by strangers. Not all men are like this, I am married to one of them. But those men who aren't like this, need to call out those who are. Enough is enough. Women are not objects to fulfil the whim of men. We have the right to be left alone, to say no, to have our privacy respected, to be treated as human beings.
Nah, your huisband is one of them. He is the nicest of all
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There SHOULD be an incel tip line like any Other crime.harrassment is a crime.and radicalized men(and enablers)should face scrutiny as femicidal terrorists.
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You know, women are regular human beings. You can just talk to us; you don't need some magical pickup line as a password.
That requires a certain level of intelligence AND emotional intelligence to achieve it. That’s totally beyond these examples ain’t it? Two (or more) people can randomly meet, converse, share a beer or a coffee, enjoy the moment and it doesn’t have to become anything other than that, equally it can be the start of the rest of your life together. When will the incels learn? Life is about crossing paths and enjoying the experience for its own merits, that’s where you start, that’s what makes life an enjoyable rollercoaster. PS Sevven a rather good Sixx reference, nice. 😀🤘
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I've never actually witnessed anything like this before, even when it's just "me and the guys," but all these were just so sad, pathetic, creepy, embarrassing, and some dangerous. I mean, I've had to tell guys to keep crap to themselves or to stop acting like a caveman but I've never seen this depth of worm-like behavior. I don't even know how I'd respond. Some of these people need therapy and consistent, positive human contact and some of the others need medication or incarceration. Like these are deeply woven, complex attachment, personality and emotional issues, a true glimpse at the vast multitude of societal problems and the lack of institutions or resources to counter it.
It's a lot of entitlement and lack of consequences you're right
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Reading stuff like this is entertaining for me. Hard to believe most of it is real, since it's hard for me to imagine women putting up with a guy long enough to let him text her nonsense repeatedly. Block and move on
These guys would benefit from reading something like The Game or the 30 Day Style Challenge. The latter would be more help because Strauss actually teaches men/incels/whatever how to present themselves better, be more confident and stylish and generally how to be a better human male.
A lot of men think of women as an exotic specie and a prize to be won. If they viewed women as normal, equal human beings who don't exist as a pretty object out there luring men and choosing the strongest of prospects to give them babies, this wouldn't be happening at all. This is frankly disgusting.
The knock knock guy at the end was cute. I would have laughed. The women's boyfriend is the jerk in that exchange. If I were her, I might just break up with possessive boyfriend and see if knock knock guy is single.
I think the faces and names of the offenders shouldn't be blacked out.it may discourage their stalking if they think people see them.
I often think about how happy I am to have married young and never had to deal with crap like this. Then I see so much evidence of Nice Guys that I'm thinking, I'd rather be single forever if that was the case.
Genuine question: have these techniques ever worked? I mean EVER in the history of flirting? Where are guys getting the impression that these are the methods to use? I get that persistence is a thing in "RomComs", but some of these fall so far on the "Com" side that it's just not funny any more.
I am reminded of something that happened in the mid-1970s when I worked in a gas station. A coworker who was fat, ugly and a jerk called up a girl he knew a d said "do you want some company?" And not much else. A few minutes later she drove up, and picked him up. About half an hour later she dropped him back. I was amazed, mostly at her lack of self esteem.
Load More Replies... Sooner or later there will be 'nice men' who come on to comment about how the examples show women as b*****s. What is really sad is how some of these examples show women being harassed for sex, for nude pics, being catfished and having their number used by strangers. Not all men are like this, I am married to one of them. But those men who aren't like this, need to call out those who are. Enough is enough. Women are not objects to fulfil the whim of men. We have the right to be left alone, to say no, to have our privacy respected, to be treated as human beings.
Nah, your huisband is one of them. He is the nicest of all
Load More Replies... There SHOULD be an incel tip line like any Other crime.harrassment is a crime.and radicalized men(and enablers)should face scrutiny as femicidal terrorists.
Load More Replies... You know, women are regular human beings. You can just talk to us; you don't need some magical pickup line as a password.
That requires a certain level of intelligence AND emotional intelligence to achieve it. That’s totally beyond these examples ain’t it? Two (or more) people can randomly meet, converse, share a beer or a coffee, enjoy the moment and it doesn’t have to become anything other than that, equally it can be the start of the rest of your life together. When will the incels learn? Life is about crossing paths and enjoying the experience for its own merits, that’s where you start, that’s what makes life an enjoyable rollercoaster. PS Sevven a rather good Sixx reference, nice. 😀🤘
Load More Replies... I've never actually witnessed anything like this before, even when it's just "me and the guys," but all these were just so sad, pathetic, creepy, embarrassing, and some dangerous. I mean, I've had to tell guys to keep crap to themselves or to stop acting like a caveman but I've never seen this depth of worm-like behavior. I don't even know how I'd respond. Some of these people need therapy and consistent, positive human contact and some of the others need medication or incarceration. Like these are deeply woven, complex attachment, personality and emotional issues, a true glimpse at the vast multitude of societal problems and the lack of institutions or resources to counter it.
It's a lot of entitlement and lack of consequences you're right
Load More Replies... Reading stuff like this is entertaining for me. Hard to believe most of it is real, since it's hard for me to imagine women putting up with a guy long enough to let him text her nonsense repeatedly. Block and move on
These guys would benefit from reading something like The Game or the 30 Day Style Challenge. The latter would be more help because Strauss actually teaches men/incels/whatever how to present themselves better, be more confident and stylish and generally how to be a better human male.
A lot of men think of women as an exotic specie and a prize to be won. If they viewed women as normal, equal human beings who don't exist as a pretty object out there luring men and choosing the strongest of prospects to give them babies, this wouldn't be happening at all. This is frankly disgusting.
The knock knock guy at the end was cute. I would have laughed. The women's boyfriend is the jerk in that exchange. If I were her, I might just break up with possessive boyfriend and see if knock knock guy is single.
I think the faces and names of the offenders shouldn't be blacked out.it may discourage their stalking if they think people see them.
I often think about how happy I am to have married young and never had to deal with crap like this. Then I see so much evidence of Nice Guys that I'm thinking, I'd rather be single forever if that was the case.
