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Professional feedback is one thing, but there is a special breed of person who thinks that they have some special knowledge about you that they just have to share. For your benefit, of course. At best, it’s annoying, at worst it’s so wildly off-base that you have to wonder what fantasy world they inhabit.

Content design consultant Amy Hupe started off a viral Twitter thread when she shared the most ridiculous feedback she had ever received in a creative way. She asked people to introduce themselves with the offensive things clients, coworkers, and managers had told them when trying to be “helpful.” So upvote the worst examples and comment your own terrible feedback stories below.

Bored Panda has reached out to Amy Hupe via Twitter, and we’ll update the article once we hear back from her.

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Image credits: Amy_Hupe

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QuirkyKittyGirl
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3 years ago

"… so far." LOVE IT!!!!!

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    The happy frog
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    What. If you have something to say you should be able to say it, and if you responding quicker then the men hurts their ego, then what are they? 5 year olds?

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    EJGeewhiz
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Glad to see you haven't let being Scottish hold you back, Jim! Keep practicing that English and soon you'll sound just like a native speaker!

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    Nilsen
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    And that's why Dr Ann Olivarius is an international feminist attorney

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    MichelleDonut
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I hope your reaction was reporting him to HR for threatening your life!

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    #6

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    QuirkyKittyGirl
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Take heart. I had it said to me by my own SON! (Happy note - since then, I have lost nearly 100 pounds, only to prove my son wrong. I'm not gorgeous. I'm old. And a Mom.)

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    Chancey
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I feel more sorry for whoever said this.

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    Nea
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    And you didn’t only become a surgeon, but also a queen!

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    #9

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    TonyTee
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Equality for women is very important and something I very strongly agree with and support. It’s something going strong now, but should’ve already been common place 60 years ago. Let’s face it, men have a history of dominating women. Speaking as a man, if it wasn’t for women, there would be no men in the world.

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    Isaac Harvey
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    People who don’t know you don’t get to choose who/what you are/aren’t.

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    Cosmologist wannabe
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    homosexuals, heterosexuals, transexual, bisexuals, pansexual, and asexuals are humans. Humans are who they are. Being different is good. Being indifferent from everyone is bad. Change is good. I am a heterosexual 14 yo male. I am pro-human. I believe that humans should not be repressed for who they are, or what they are, or who they where.

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    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Well, at least they begged and didn't simply, you know... ensure that you suddenly had to do everyone else's tasks and backed up work since you obviously "had too much time on your hands"

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    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Sounds like the sudden feedback of "You don't sound quite right for the part of the white cheerleader"....after they see my picture and see I'm not Caucasian (and this is for a Voice role... aka: no one ever sees you). Raised in Canada, (unfortunately) can't speak any dialects of my ethnic background...yet... they... 'hear an accent'. Uh huh. I'm sure you do...

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    John Schneider
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Sometimes Social Security Case Workers think they are God.

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    EJGeewhiz
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I'm just sitting over here in the corner, being alarmingly inarticulate. So far, so good.

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    My word you've been busy

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    MichelleDonut
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Wow

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    Awesome At Being Autistic
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Ooh, I feel this one.

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    Scrolling Panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Another teacher both ignoring a disability AND trying to stomp the drive,life, and creativity out of a young person...charming.

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    The happy frog
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Distracting the dogs???

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    One can but hope

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    JJ Mai
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Any accomplishment a woman has, this line is always sputtered out. My old manager cried about how I must have slept my way to the top when I got promoted over him. I had suffered under him for almost 2 years so all I said was "You probably lost our because you're throwing a tantrum" in the most deadpan voice. And yes, our boss did hate that guy's guts and said he spent too much time talking over doing his actual work. He also passed off 50% of his duties to his employees to finish.

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    rob
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I can relate to this post

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    Jack S
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Ah that explains it. I knew it wasn't my fault I set the kitchen on fire. Damn you Jen.

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    ShyWahine
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    I've been told my Spanish is really good for someone who looks so Asian, my Portuguese sounds almost like a native and my English surprisingly has no accent 🙄 (Maternal grandma is half Spanish and my paternal grandma is half Portuguese).

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    Chancey
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I see no problem with this!

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    Michal Pifko
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    What kind of job? Funeral director?

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    Nea
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Wow! Very professional advice!

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    Bobby
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I know not everyone involved in hiring practices is a bad person. I have to just assume that the laws or company policies in place on workplace diversity just scare them into shady hiring practices sometimes so the numbers look good. At least I imagine that is true. Anyone out there involved with it that can correct me if I'm wrong?

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    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Seeing as it's the norm now, it's not that big of a deal. Back in the 80's though... Jesus, we were all crucified for existing. That's the difference.

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    Delphine Johnson
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    Welcome to womanhood where your ability to be taken seriously depends on your dress sense....

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    Tamra
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Turn into a judgmental hypocrite. You'll fit right in.

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    Isaac Harvey
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    [shouts across room] “GOOD LUCK WITH FIXING THAT WITHOUT MY HELP!”

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    Mysterie
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    Okay, so...you should never just let people push you around even if they are "in a position of authority" (of course respect should be earned), however, if someone is in authority over you (ex. in an office setting) if you blatantly disregard anything they ask of you because you disagree with it then yeah you're not really going to get anywhere

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    Joe Gandalf
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Upvote for the "minces garlic, not words".

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    Jennifer Norton
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    So they are saying her voice is too sexy? I would love to hear a sexy voice teach me history!

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    E Snook
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Since when has good posture been a bad thing ?

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    still the same farting bee
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Really BP? Censoring her name?

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    TonyTee
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Bet he’d have 5 best sellers if he did

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    Pheebs
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Oh, mine: I only married my husband because I wanted a sugar daddy. It doesn’t matter that we work in the same job, or that I’m actually above him in rank and make more money.

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    still the same farting bee
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Was this said by your uncle by any chance?

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    rob
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I got rejected once for the opposite reason. Girl told me I was the nicest guy ever and she would date me when I gained at least 10kg. Yeaaaaah never mind.

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    Scrolling Panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Did you tell them they can feel free to not call again?

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    Crouching hippo hidden panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Hahaha, a nice change from being told to smile more. I have resting b***h face

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    rob
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Speak about holding a grudge. I don't even remember anything I did in first grade.

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    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Keith, you should have made it clearer that you make yourself unavailable to your workplace when your wife is in labor, because I first thought you were unavailable to your wife while she was in labor.

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    rob
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    that is a very specific list though....

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    FlatEarf2.0
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I kind of love some of these for great insults to use, if you can't find a good moment to say "You appear so bright and intelligent, yet your so average really"

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    RMA
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I think ‘empty egg carton’ is one of the most vicious things I’ve heard said to a woman.

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    Bobby
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    People who think they know everything are really annoying to those of us that do

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    Pink kitty
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    What is a an inappropriate comment especially from a doctor!

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    The happy frog
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Her face isn’t fat. The person who said that is blind. Wth are people shaming people for facial shapes???

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    John Schneider
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    You’re an Elementary School Teacher. That alone says you have the ability to change the world.

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    John Schneider
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Sounds like things are looking up.

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    John Schneider
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Promotion starts with a team.

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    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago (edited)

    If you know what intellectually unsophisticated means, you probably aren't.

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    James016
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    3 years ago

    I used to read this guy’s columns when I had a PC Pro subscription.

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    John Schneider
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    So. What kind of people are you?

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    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Bowl... of.. ramen?

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    Sharon Tithecott
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    3 years ago (edited)

    Ooh, I've been told I'm prettier when I straighten my hair...

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    rob
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    3 years ago

    How does this come up in a conversation?

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    S A
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    3 years ago

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    “Hi, I’m Steve and I’m a humble bragger”

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    Chocolate llama
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    3 years ago

    *sigh*

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    Kinetics Loves Apples
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    3 years ago

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    Scrolling Panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Smile too much= they think you are too happy. Don't smile enough= you aren't endeavoring to please them enough. Can't win with sexism....

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    John Schneider
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    3 years ago

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    Maybe a change of interest in the future?

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    Joe Standford
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    What's wrong with that? Everyone wants to feell validated

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Ask yourself "Where would I put it?"

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    Em
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    3 years ago

    ngl this is exactly why I'm awesome at my current job.

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    Strings
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    "Too conservative in the ME"?

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    Marion
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Well becky, if you were my friend and you would have too much dry shampoo in your hair making it look weird, i would tell you too..

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    Tortuga Woman
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    For those of you unfamiliar with her work (ahem, John Schneider) Connie Schultz is a Pulitzer Prize-winning columnist.

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    John Schneider
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    3 years ago

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    Then change the world.

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    Ravioli
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Ahaha, yeah my SIL told my husband (American) he got himself an exotic GF when we started dating. I am Italian.

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    Isaac Harvey
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Since when did ‘doing that’ completely define a person?

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    John Schneider
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    3 years ago

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    Sometimes that is a good thing.

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    ThatOmniCapybara(she/they)
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Hi I'm ThatOmniCapybara(she/they), and I'm disturbed

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    Cosmologist wannabe
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I remember when my kindergarten teacher had to go on her pregnancy sabbatical. We missed her, but we had another good teacher instead.