30 Not-That-Obvious Signs That Show That Someone Isn’t A Good Person, As Shared In This Online Group

Big red flag!

If you mistreat animals, you're a fecking psychopath.

People who mistreat animals are steaming piles of human garbage, without redemption. I will die on this hill.

this goes for trophy hunters

I had to do a report on forensic psychology for college, and read the book "Mindhunter" (also a great Netflix series, that should have continued) by John Douglas. He basically started the BAU at the FBI, at interviewed many serial killers. With few exceptions, all had started off by torturing and killing animals. He said this needed to be watched. Some of the animal cruelty laws have been able to be passed because of this information. I guess for some it's not simply enough that it's reprehensible. But I guess however you get them to pass laws......

I think I posted this here a while back. I once threw a cup outside the car window when I was a really young kid and it haunted me for years. I have never littered since that day. It was so culturally accepted I never questioned it as a kid.

I saw someone throw trash out of their car several months back and to this day it still angers me. If I would have been able to, I would have loved to pick it up and toss it back in their car.

I live 4 streets down from a convenience store and it is the exact distance it takes to eat a candy bar, a pack of chips, or drink a soda. Nearly everyday there is new trash on my lawn. Some people suck.

I agree that doing this defines your character

My son, when he was an OTR driver and training new drivers, told each of his rookie drivers that NOTHING gets thrown out the window of his truck. If the other driver did that, they were turning around at the next exit and retrieving the thrash.

I refuse to go out to a meal with someone like this. One I get embarrassed and 2, I feel that I need to stand up for the worker.

Retail worker here. Ex bartender and wait staff. I get treated like c**p all the time. My favourite was a lady who yelled at me coz her kids were asleep when I brought the kids meals out... at 9pm and they had been there since 5pm. I let her yell at me for 10 minutes and simply said "how is it my fault you waited this long to order the kids dinner?"

I cleaned homes for 20+ years I also had my own cleaning service. I started wearing scrubs, because I could carry cleaning supplies in the front pockets of the shirt. Paper towels, dust rag, etc.. Until I started doing that, and people would ask what I did for a living, I got the; your gross look. Most people thought I was a nurse with my scrubs on, and didn't ask what I did for a living. I made, $10-$20 an hour. I could clean 3 homes a day. I would walk home with $75-$100 a day! I was making $500+ a week! I hired help, she made $200+ a week. People may look down their nose at a housekeeper, but I made more money than most people.

I had a date with an a-hole once who belittled our server. I was boiling mad and embarrassed. When he went to get the car, I slipped her an extra tip

Going into a store and trashing it. Not Putting things where you got it from when u decide that you don't want it anymore, leaving your drinks and snacks on the shelves, yelling at workers who can't find specific items that are listed in stock because some customer has taken it and then dumped it off in a totally different aisle/section, etc.. Surprising fact: it is NOT a retail worker's job to pick up the customers leave trails of destruction. Their job is to stock shelves, tidy up their sections, provide assistance as needed. We can't do that if we're too busy finding misplaced items and cleaning up diapers and open drinks and chicken from the grocery section that someone dumped on a random towel shelf. It's just so disrespectful and self-centered.

And those who are disabled, and young and old.

Because they have such sh**ty self esteem or are cruel… I wish all of the bad people would just spontaneously vanish. Wonder though, would the streets be more noticeably empty?!?

The Golden Rule, folks....the Golden Rule!

I live in a Very small town, Pop. 2,292. I try to help the homeless as much as I can... One man (I'll call him Kenny), Sleeps in a tent on the river bank, behind the stores on main Street.. He's Soo skinny, that it worries me. Everytime I run into him, I go to dollar General, and buy him lunch meat, bread, and pop tarts (I don't have much either). He's so grateful to get it! I usually sit with him while he eats, and talk. He has no one, his only brother, looks down on him, and won't help him. He's never drunk, or smells of alcohol, and never is high. He just has mental issues, and no insurance to get help. He needs identification, to sign up for anything, and the nearest DMV, is a 50 mile round trip.

It's funny OP thinks people in service positions are the "weakest members of society"

"if everyone around you is the problem, maybe you're the problem"

There is a name for this. It is called external locus of control, where people blame things outside themselves for events/outcomes in their lives. Opposed to this is the internal locus, where people take responsibility for their own actions.

We had a supervisor who constantly did this..we used to call her Shaggy ( it wasn't me 🎵)

Often the sign of a narcissist

Like the time it was my fault we deflated their expensive air mattress. Because a fishing hook, that was theirs, got stuck in the back pocket of my jeans...when I got into their truck. And didn't know it was there because of the way the pockets were made. But somehow it was my fault.

I'm disabled and what really frustrates me is how far from the disabled parking spaces they place the cart corrals. I'm often exhausted when I come out if the store and I sometimes leave the cart in the area near my parking space, not to be rude but because I'm just worn out. Why won't they put cart parking near handicapped spaces?

I kinda agree, however there are sometimes reasons why it doesn't get out back (received an emergency call, tummy problems, other sudden illness). We don't always know why someone does something we consider a jerk move like this so we shouldn't necessarily judge folks on THIS one.

This. Except that too many supermarkets dont have cart areas in the parking lot. As a disabled woman walking back to out the car is a difficult chore. I put them back because i am not a jerk but it pisses me when they dont put areas to park the cart outside.

This is freaKing petty.... Sometimes ya just can't

Before I had kids, I always put the cart back. Once I had kids, If the cart corral was realllly close to my car, I would put it back. But No way was I walking away from my baby/babies to put the cart back. When they were teens, I sent them to return it but now they are grown up and gone, I'm back to always returning the cart.

My mama always taught me if they gossip to you behind others' backs, they'll gossip about you behind your back.

If someone is talking to you like that, they're talking about you like that. It was a sad moment when I realised that and lost a best friend. And she did.

When they talk smack about someone who thinks that they're friends that's a HUGE red flag!

These people aren't happy unless their ruining someone's life! It's usually, because their life sucks, so they feel like they have to make everyone else's suck too. Because I was a mouse, I got it all if the time.