Some nice guys aren’t actually nice, that’s for sure—they’re secretly so-called ‘nice guys’ who hide who they really are and can't ever take 'no' for an answer. Folks who seem polite, mild-mannered, friendly, and genuinely kind one moment can do a 180 and transform into angry, spiteful, and downright toxic people the moment things don’t go their way. Especially in situations involving romance and rejection.
‘Nice guys’ are more than happy to keep up the illusion of fake niceness, but they often show their true emotions and insecurities when rejected. And then their inner beasts come out. Beware anyone who’s within range! But let’s look at some specific examples, shall we?
TikTok user Keiren Benjamin features and voices stories about ‘nice guys’ that he finds online, including a very viral one about a woman getting stalked by a random guy after she went hiking. You’ll find the stories below. Let us know if you’ve ever been in a similar situation before, Pandas.
Fitness expert and entrepreneur Jack Bly gave Bored Panda some advice on improving for the better, the importance of having perspective, learning to self-reflect, building genuine confidence, and moving beyond a victim mentality. Scroll down for his thoughts.
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Nice Guys
The last message makes me want to circle back to when he said they were similar athletically…
I agree, but still this guy's way out of line regardless. Hopefully nobody interprets your post as victim blaming.
Load More Replies...Bored Panda asked Jack what advice he'd give those guys who seem to be stuck in a constant victim mentality and see themselves as being wronged by society and those around them. The expert said that people should start off with small tasks and minor victories.
"Do one thing and progress at it to prove you’re not a victim. Lift weights. Help someone. Advance your career. Have a successful relationship," he said. "When you’re successful in one area you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life."
He added that we need time to adjust to the positive changes we're making in life: "Your brain needs proof around your new identity."
Nice Guy Is Mad That I Have Guy Friends
And immensely common. Pretty much the norm in my experience to be honest.
Load More Replies..."WHY CAN'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT I'M A GENTLEMAN WHO WANTS TO TREAT YOU LIKE A PRINCESS YOU STUPID WH*RE!" Smh what a nut job.
Load More Replies...Honestly this nuke could stalk her bad and dunno what he'd do her when he finds her alone. Hopefully this nuke is states away from this lady.
Load More Replies...Another Incel type whose mask slips very quickly when thwarted. I suspect he has trouble with relationships generally (male and female) and the totally unwarranted abuse and veiled threats are a whole Communist convention’s worth of red flags.
wow! if a guy ever asks why women are so wary of men, show this exchange.
Patience Is Rare Nowadays
Okay so first of all...brilliant last line by her. Secondly, he waited 9mins...there are songs longer than 9mins.
Yeah, a sarcastic message due to a nine-minute delay is a red flag. People get pulled away from messaging threads for all kinds of reasons.
Load More Replies...Sometimes I don't text someone back for hours. Because I'm working or painting and don't need interruptions. All my friends and family completely understand. This guy would lose his mind with me lol
Why do people think that you're instantly available via cell, never doing anything else, and immediately jump to conclusions if you don't answer right away? Personally, I don't always have my cell on me, and there are loads of times when I won't answer (in the shower, on the toilet, fast asleep, making dinner, driving, doing errands, etc.).
Exactly, especially when it comes to virtual strangers. Even if a message says "read", it doesn't necessarily mean the person read it, and it doesn't mean they have the time to reply.
Load More Replies...He'll be okay. As you can see from his pic, he's taking a very important business call in a real grown-up man's business suit.
she could be driving, have a phone battery die, or who cares because someone responds when they get a chance and want to! seriously dude?
What a moron. Leaping to such an attitude. Though, side point, but what's dudeee? Does he mean dude with a long u sound? That would be duuuude. If you have to do that at all. What he has written rhymes with Judy.
Yeah, that's what I assumed he meant. Doesn't make a lot of sense, but I've seen people do that with text-based communication (lengthen words by extending the letter on the end, regardless of the letter is).
Load More Replies...If you start a conversation out of nowhere, then yes, you are expected to carry the conversation. A good beginning would be "is this a good time to talk", something like that, then you can schedule a talk, and won't have to wait in limbo for them to get off the bus or whatever.
He got snotty with her because he asked her how her day was and she didn't respond fast enough for him. So 9 minutes after he asked, he sent a second, sarcastic comment. That's considered rude and entitled behavior.
Load More Replies...A lot of so-called 'nice guys' pretend that they have a lot of confidence in themselves, however, that illusion can quickly shatter when they're faced even with small challenges or if things don't go as they envisioned. When their expectations aren't met, 'nice guys' tend to get angry at those around them. That's something an actually confident person would never do: they would accept being rejected and simply move on.
However, true confidence is a skill that we can all learn, though it will take time, patience, and persistence. "Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," fitness expert Jack told Bored Panda that this applies to all facets of life.
I Genuinely Can't Tell If This Is Satire And I'm Just Too Hopeless To Pick Up On It?
Stupid feminists won't accept cheating or stupid fake excuses. This is why feminism is ruining society!/s
Load More Replies...Real nice guys don't feel obligated to announce they're nice because their personality and deeds do the talking for them. Once a guy announces he's nice it is almost a guarantee he's not
Great idea, when you are called out for being a scum puppy but it’s all her fault and hey, I mistakenly thought it was his gf - truly one of the pathetic of excuses. Nobody believes you dude, nobody
And let's not forget how feminism is causing 'females' to get all uppity
Load More Replies...This guy: I was at a party and then I tripped and fell and my d**k went right into her!
Just from the first sentence I knew it was gonna be a load of BS. Did something wrong...still blame the other person. Then icing on the cake...refer to double standards. Douchebag.
A Comment On A Post About A Woman Begging Her Stalker Of 5 Years To Leave Her Alone
This is heartbreaking, clearly he is clueless about how his ill conceived actions are destroying her.
Or he's a creeptastic asshole who enjoys causing people pain and the feeling of power it gives him
Load More Replies...Yep - this screams 'wrong' on so many, many levels.
Load More Replies...strange how some people take "no, no hell no, get away from me you creep" as playing hard to get. Pretty sure that going straight to macing people that say "hello" is where this is heading.
People liked the comment too… this kind of behaviour can lead to so much damage.
She's literally sitting there screaming and crying for him to leave her alone, and the person comments "This man doesn't know what women want!" Ummmm... she wants him to leave her alone, like she's literally asking him to do?! And no, she won't go looking for him if he fakes disinterest. I'm sure she'll leap for joy if he decides to "play and hide and seek" because she'll never have to see his creepy face again.
Load More Replies...Why can't she stop him legally, if it is viral that he is stalking her? That's messed up
Stalking might be legal or ignored as an issue in her country. Years back in Canada, ex-spouses were allowed to make death threats. It took a very public death for the police to take that seriously.
Load More Replies...Sorry, but I'd pay a bunch of guys to beat this dude up in a dark alley one night and threaten him with more of that if he keeps following. That's what Israeli women have been doing to get divorces from their husbands apparently, since according to the laws there they need the husband's permission to divorce and a lot of them don't give it without the violent kind of persuasion.
I'm more surprised with the amount of people who liked his comment.
Oh you poor sweet innocent... The top-voted comment on this very article, on 'woke and progressive' Bored Panda is defending him.
Load More Replies...The fact that Over a thousand people liked the comment is disturbing as hell. But sadly not surprising
This Is Poetry
"If he wasn't looking to get burned he shouldn't have had skin" possibly the same logic he uses "If women didn't want...then they shouldn't have..."
Load More Replies...Nice guys, aren't nice guys. Most of the time they're crazy using the nice guy persona to deguise it. Until they can't anymore.
Jack explained that it's important to reflect about yourself and how you can improve your life, especially in cases where real-life doesn't match up with how you view yourself.
"Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It’s all our perspective," he said.
I Left Him On Read Again After That
Fell flat on his toxic vile ass trying to channel Ton Loc or Young MC, I guess. Yes, I'm old-lol. Fucktard creep.
Load More Replies...Lol yeah, he and his team of 25 snipers sure are 'letting it slide'! Fr though it was like reading a train of thought, and watching it deteriorate. A modern soliloquy?
Load More Replies...Pretty sure it's enough evidence to call police on him. He's talking about breaking in her house and also killing her
Wow, I didn't even get that far into his annoying word vomit. I didn't think it could get worse!
Load More Replies...How he go from i don’t care that you left me on read to I got 25 snipers surrounding your building lmao
Okay so that qualifies as verbal assault, call the police immediately.
They won't do anything. They never take this stuff seriously
Load More Replies...Thinks He's A Gift From God
My man there's reasons why single women are the happiest out of married/single men/women and you're all of them
So glad I play for the home team. Being a single woman is nice, but being a woman married to another woman is better if you ask me!
Load More Replies...Look at the statistics of fulfilled women out of those 60%. Turns out, the common denominator in a lot of women’s unhappiness is….being in a hetero relationship!!! 🎉 🎉 no one needs you, Chad!
His stats are rubbish, it's 50.8% women. Had to look it up as it was rather puzzling. https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/LFE046219
Load More Replies...Rather die alone than with someone like you man! There's a reason you are single.
This guy is just so desperate. And I can't get why he thinks than being alone is worse than being with him
Right? I'd rather be alone than wishing I was.
Load More Replies...In this case consider yourself lucky!! I'm not, but If he was the only option...
Load More Replies...dipshit probably thinks he can "turn" women straight🤮
Load More Replies...My Mom Has Been On One Date With This Guy
So basic when you basically begged her for attention like a pathetic hungry dog
When did "basic" become an insult, exactly? And why would having a high pH be considered a bad thing?
Omg look at that person, those jeans? Sooo alkaline 😁
Load More Replies...Since when does taking care of your home and kids and not sleeping with a guy you've been on one date with (not that there's anything wrong with that if it's your thing) make you basic?
After reading the whole thread, I tried to think to myself, do I have a modicum of sympathy for any one of these men? And I thought of this older guy, that maybe it made sense for him to be hurt after he put himself out there and got rejected--but when I went back and re-read it, I saw that no, he was really a pushy, inappropriate, insecure jerk. He's the best of them and he's awful.
That YOLO bs. And “you miss all the shots you don’t take” sh*t. I say in my profile what I’m looking for. If they match w me or send a message and they’re not what I explicitly say I want, that’s disrespectful. If they match or message and I’m not what they want, that’s just dumb.
‘Nice guys’ very often embody the traits that some professionals consider to be examples of toxic masculinity, especially with regards to attitudes toward women. ‘Nice guys’ tend to lash out at women when rejected or think that they owe them their attention just because they happen to like them. According to British psychotherapist Silva Neves, toxic masculinity is a “general attitude perpetuated by systemic misogyny.”
The expert told Bored Panda that toxic masculinity is “a set of distorted ideas about what men should be like.” Silva said that these ideas include the suggestions that men should never be ‘weak’ or ‘soft,’ that they shouldn’t ever feel vulnerable, and that they have to “always be winners.”
“Men with toxic masculinity usually have negative views towards women's rights (including their rights to the freedom of their own sexuality) and they tend to be homophobic,” the psychotherapist explained.
2,845 Days Later
He could have just chalked it up to experience and said ‘See you around’ but no
He didn't want to waste his brain power until he realised he has no brain.
he really said ill leave you alone for about seven years it's all good
I'm mildly curious how long "Today" (last post) was after Dec 18. It's still funny either way, but I'm curious if "Today" was, say, Dec 20 and he's literally forgotten, that quickly, that she already said no, or if "Today" was, say, a year later and he's forgotten all about her in the meantime.
The chances of him actually being a polymath are the same as oceanfront property in Nebraska. Creepy jerk.
This very much sounds like they went on a single date which makes it perfectly reasonable to deal with over text.
Load More Replies...Nice Guy
Uh, another controlling, delusional guy who can't take no as an answer
I'd have blocked him from the first sentence. Double handed compliments are not the way to start. Though, to be honest, making it about my appearance and labouring the point is really going to switch me off.
Load More Replies...actually a very good point how is she a whore when she said no what amazes me is she said no when he offered her money then he thought ok that didnt work being horrible and insulting her will do it
Load More Replies...Wow. 'I'll pay you for your number'? And quick descent into 'sell me nudes'. Sad thing this is so dn common it's actually really concerning.
Why can't men just search up sexual photos for free instead of harassing particular women to send them nude photos?
Because they wouldn't have felt powerful you'd degraded yourself?
Load More Replies...it's so funny these guys don't see the irony of calling a girl a s**t for NOT giving them naked pics. morons.
Bloody hell - I feel old. I know people are more upfront about sex these days but is this really part of flirting these days? Has he looked in the mirror recently?
When he turns down his offer of money he calls her a wh0re. Pretty sure he doesn't know what that word means.
I admire how she keeps calm, polite and slightly sarcastic, facing such a truckload of slurs.
Didn’t Answer His Text For A While… I Never Met Him And We Had Been Texting For A Few Days
All I saw was "blah blah blah blah blah." Stopped reading after two lines.
Load More Replies...Any man that starts off with calling you a "female" has spent at least some time in incel circles imo.
Taking refuge in psychoanalysis to convince himself he’s not a complete arsehead
You just described me perfectly and since you're such a nice guy please come to my place and let's f**** 🙄
What I thought! "and just like that, she's going to fall into my bed!!!"...spoiler alert: no
Load More Replies...Jeez, even Freud would tell this guy to get over himself and stop spouting nonsense...
This guy needs to learn how to suck his own d**k. Joe Rogan could teach it. All these lunatics would stay home fellating themselves and women would be a little safer in the world.
“A man with healthy masculinity is the opposite to these traits: someone who is self-reflective, embraces their emotions including sadness, anxiety and crying, a man who isn't afraid of their own femininity and believes that women are equal, and therefore are very clear about respecting boundaries and consent with women,” Silva noted how healthy masculinity differs from toxic masculinity.
Someone who has a healthy masculine attitude, according to the expert, “embraces gender, sex, and relationship diversities including gay men and transgender people. Someone who is comfortable with their opinions to be challenged and able to have debates.”
He Just Wanted To Treat Me Right
He just could have left it at "understood, thanks." But NOPE! He couldn't!
He could have even left it with the first... I don't know 6 messages? I mean yes, it was too much, but to then to 360 and completely freak out? Nope.
Load More Replies...I loose faith in the male of this species a little more after every one of these that I read.
Your heart died with that half of your face??? Is he shitting on her for having a stroke???
Yep, that one shines out amongst all the rubbish as being really repugnant. Total git.
Load More Replies...Back in my day (the 90s) before texting, social media, and dating apps, when we didn't "click" with a date we'd just...stop calling and that was that; no drama, no walls of text, we'd just move on, end of story. Shame those days are gone.
Hah... you'd think. One of my 'no thanks' is still calling me years later. He's blocked but can leave messages on a system I never access but it took years to get down it to that level. They find a way if they are the type.
Load More Replies...Ok this happened to my friend. She tried to end a relationship kindly because apparently he was only in it for the physical stuff. When she tried to end it and stay friends, he sent a text saying he had so much resentment and anger towards her and how she was ruining his life by making him constantly depressed........and this is why i date women :)
The 'stay friends' bit is not usually wise. It seems kind but it's mostly a bad idea to even suggest it. Gives the wrong signal to those who do this kind of thing and until you reach this point, you can't know who they are.
Load More Replies...Others: Women Don't Owe You Anything Him: False
"I have studied women for quite some time" sounds like a medieval illustrator trying to convince someone he has seen all of those exotic animals he has drawn.
I think treating women like objects and not like human being explains quite clearly why he isn't capable of being in relationship
Jesus f*****g christ on a stick, I just threw up. Can someone neuter this bloke and stick him in a home?
If you were to ask this man to draw a picture of a female, he'd draw a uterus with boobs and eyes, without a doubt.
Sounds like something a friend of mine would draw XD. She enjoys the odd and creepy.
Load More Replies...The fact this is posted on 4chan tells you everything you need to know about this incel loser.
I don't know whether to be relieved it's from that cesspool or alarmed at the thought that this may seem normal to the people on that site.
Load More Replies...His mind would shatter into pieces when he discovers that some women are into women. Or worse, asexual and not into anyone.
The ones that aren't are definitely not going to be into him! ugh.
Load More Replies...Not even borderline, he genuinely believes that women should be denied the right to consent or not. That's full blown r@pist
Load More Replies...Damn Her For Not Accepting Gifts From A Total Stranger
How about you see a girl sitting alone at the train station and just leave her alone.
This sounds like his approach is - "hey kid, want some caaaaandy? it's in my van over here..."
My first thought would be about possible rape drugs in this coffee. No thanks.
There’s too many men out there that think like this that if they talk to a woman or approach a woman on her own or buy her something that woman owes them a romantic relationship, dude women are people like you are, they’re not here to be with a man, they have their own lives like you do, I doubt he would be thrilled if a big man came over with chocolate & wanted to talk…
Maybe she was enjoying being alone. Maybe she's an introvert. Maybe she was taking a break from her life. Maybe all kinds of things that have nothing to do with this guy.
This. Lost count of the number of times I've been reading a book or staring into space and just generally getting myself together and enjoying alone time, only to be interrupted by a man saying can I sit here, and promptly doing so without my permission. I've also actually had people, sometimes women, ask me to come and join them on their table because they are sure I must be lonely. Like, no, I am not your charity case. F**k off.
Load More Replies...Would've he bought coffee and chocolate for some old man sitting alone?
[sarcasm] Of course he would! He's a "decent human being." Silly woman, being so uptight and thinking he could possibly want anything else. [/sarcasm]
Load More Replies...There's a damn good reason women don't accept food or drink from strangers.
Here, woman who has never seen me before, eat and drink these items I carry knowing not if I have done something to them....Yeah....that pick up works every time...
Silva, the British psychotherapist, believes that it’s important to redefine masculinity and how we understand ‘male success.’ “We also need to change the image of 'male success'. So, basically, we need to change society at its core because toxic masculinity is part of a faulty system of thoughts. That will take time, but it can start with all of us doing our parts about it,” he mused.
One of the things that can help, Silva believes, is having more representations of men “who embrace their emotions, talk about them, and show them crying, laughing, or hugging” in real-life and various forms of media. The key point here, the expert stressed, is that men become more in tune with their emotions, instead of repressing them which can lead to a whole host of negative outcomes for them and everyone around them.
This Guy Randomly Messaged Me After Nearly 2 Years And Is Mad That I Still Don’t Want To Date Him
The best part is holding on through that usual and sickening dialogue, and eventually managing to turn him down to the point he'll be fed up with messaging her and (hopefully) never do it again.
Load More Replies...Why do men think that if they KNOW he likes her, why cannot she KNOW that she will not like him?
His parents should be ashamed of themselves. What the hell kind of should have been swallowed mess is this
More women should do this, scare the little shitlords off their pants and send them running.
Yes and no. I love her responses but he might as well. Some people do, sadly, get off on a fight. Also, all the time you engage you give the other person hope that the next message might be a change of heart. These people are often delusional, don't forget. The truth is you are better off not engaging once you have politely so no thanks. Then if needs be blocking them.
Load More Replies...Nice Guy Was Sympathetic About Her Gma Dying But Passive Aggressive On N*des That Never Happened
Gosh, the internet is full of tits, can't you just search for some?! And also therapy, while you're there?
Yeah, what the hell...Google image search dude...you can see all the tatas you want...big'uns, little'uns, light'uns, dark'uns, everything from skeeter bites to grapefruit in a tube sock with a fried egg laid on it...
Load More Replies...So bizarre and regressive. Borderline body shaming.
Load More Replies...I can send him some great tits. They're not very big, but they do have sharp peckers. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_tit
Hehe. I used to ask them if they liked a pussy hairy or bald. You can guess the answer. Then "would you like to see mine?" "Mmm yes please" then send them a picture of one of those hairless cats from Austin Powers. I found it amusing and some of them did too!
Load More Replies...He didn't specify whose. If the funeral is open casket, I'd tell the funeral director, "See this guy? Keep him away from my granny."
Load More Replies...I would’ve gone off my nut at that scumbag, sent the screenshots to his entire family- parents, aunts, uncles, even grandparents if they were on there-, asked them if this is what they raised him to be like, posted it on his page for everyone to see, and to give warning to other women -if I had, in fact, NOT said anything like that, I would post that convo too-, make sure everyone sees it, then wait til he gets upset and angry, say karma is a b!tch, then block him. 🤷♀️
My Friend Sent Me This Dm That She Got And I Can’t Not Post It Here
Rapist and a racist. But I'm sure he's a nice guy if you just give him the chance he's owed. 🙄
Arseholes who watch violent porn deserve to be condemned to a sexual relationship with their hand for all eternity
LMAO he waited six hours to type out his assault role play. With the stars and everything. Does he thinks anything in stars is really happening?
“Better education is definitely key but it is also down to all of us to challenge it by not allowing toxic masculinity to keep going. It means that we all have to actively challenge misogyny and homophobia,” Silva said that some people still turn a blind eye to hatred. The process of change and a more compassionate, respectful, and inclusive world, he said, is long, exhausting, and an ongoing fight between competing ideas.
Man Had A Chance And Blew It
I’m starting to see that all these men are what they say they hate about women - illogical, over emotional, mood swings, too much talking, desperate, jealous…
I work in a male dominated field and I say this all the time. So many of the female stereotypes fit. HIIIIGHLY emotional, easily upset, unstable and hormonal. Illogical, pouty, talk too much, just all of it. I literally had to apologize to my employee last night for hurting his feelings by telling him to not start a new task until he’s finished the first. What the actual fùck
Load More Replies...She said she might need a ride later, and he still thinks he f****d up? Sure, asking her when she was jogging was probably not the best move, but it was still trying to be helpful. We are only humans and say stupid things sometimes. As long as they are not stupid and mean, you can usually bounce back. Can this guy see the difference between flirty and being just nice and polite? So many "nice guys" can't; they think that when a girl smiles, she's being flirty, or that women sleep with everyone they smile at.
The update is the actual f**k up. A smart guy would have simply warned her and waited to see what happened. Maybe she had no real interest in the office gigolo, maybe she just wanted a one-night stand, maybe she would get her heart broken. I get that it's annoying, but she's not the one who closed the door.
Nope. Worse than that. He's possessive and throwing a tantrum because he feels she should be talking to him alone. He'd earmarked her as 'his'. He thinks she shouldn't be talking to this man because she knows that 'he doesn't like him' and she's breaking a rule that exists in his own head. He isn't reacting like this because the other man really is the office gigolo - he's probably just an ordinary but popular guy. This creep has thrown his toys out the pram because the toy he wanted his now 'damaged' in his eyes. Really revolting.
Load More Replies...A-Hole From My Old High-School Posted This Unironically Lmao
Sometimes the cringe is so deep it sends chills through your whole body. A cringe seizure of sorts.
When an actually nice person loses their patience, they don't just start calling women whores out of nowhere. Even if they do something awful in the heat of the moment, they apologise sincerely and learn to do better, instead of calling themselves nice over and over again and blaming everyone but themselves.
Comment On A Meme Of A Girl With Cleavage Talking About Her Necklace
Also, Chris Evans is hot af but if he came up and smacked the hell out of my tits I’d be pretty pissed off & would have a very different opinion of him after. (Edit: it’s been 1 month and BP hasn’t censored “hell” yet 🙊 hell hell hell f**k hell)
Load More Replies...Dude, looking at a woman's cleavage makes you fantasize about Chris Evans. Are you sure you need a girl?
In 10 seconds? That's not how that works for everyone else, dude.
Ok, a lot to try and explain here. Firstly, It is my understanding that having someone 'smack the hell out of' someone tits is rather painful, and I don't imagine there are too many people that would be in a particularly amorous mood after said smacking. The next part, the bit about impregnating, IF that did happen, that is what they call 'consent' (remember that because it will be important in a moment). Now, complimenting someone is a nice thing to do, right? Right? Well... no, actually. Unsolicited comments about appearance are not "nice", Especially to strangers.
Worst Selection And Placement Of Emojis I Have Ever Seen
He says "most men are egocentric".....I think that was more of a self-reflection.
Comparing to other texts it's more funny than creepy, but i have a feeling it can quickly evolve in some creepy s***
That made me extremely uncomfortable. I've gotten very similar messages in the past. I'm beginning to think all women get some version of this message. How disturbing 🤢🤮
A Gentleman Among Us
Repeat after me: You are not owed the benefir of the doubt. You are not owed a chance. If someone does not like you, THEY DO NOT LIKE YOU. They owe you exactly nothing! Get over yourself!
“Cr**gy Night” (Sent To Me By My Friend)
His use of “of” instead of “have” is a dumping offence all on its own before we even get to the other stuff.
That list. Jesus FÛCKING Christ. He called other girls, made a mess, called her a dumbass and a liar and still tried to get his smelly dïck sucked. This isn’t NASCAR, she doesn’t need anyone to “ride for her.” What an absolute utter loser. I bet he’ll be alone for a long time.
I dated a guy for a little while and the first time I had him in my home, he took off his shoes in the middle of my kitchen and left them there, spilled his drink on the floor and didn't offer to clean it up, broke the towel rack in the bathroom and tried to hide it from me. I told him that the ice dispenser didn't work if either door was open (he had one door open) and he kept mashing down on the dispenser and finally slammed his hand into the dispenser when the glass wasn't triggering it. I asked him to leave. That was the final straw. I will not tolerate my space being disrespected like that. I work too hard to pay for my home so I can be safe and comfortable. I got a bunch of cry baby texts the next day.
My Brother Posted This On Snapchat Lol
Nobody asks that anymore. This guy is stuck in like 1992. People either date until they find someone or they stay single and casual.
"Nobody asks that anymore" Really?? Untrue. I have many friends that are about fed up with dating, and have said this exact phrase. The don't wish to "stay single and casual", they want a good man (or woman) to settle down with.
Load More Replies...I'm so tired of men who have so much trouble accepting rejection that they blame it on women being too stupid to choose the right partners. Most relationships don't work out. It's not because she didn't choose you, you kn*bhead. You wouldn't have been magically better than the other guy. She didn't choose you because SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU. The failure of a relationship with whatever person she did choose doesn't validate your "nice guy" stalker BS because she's still NEVER GOING TO LIKE YOU.
Someone really needs to tell the "nice guys" that all of the "chads" they're so jealous of got the girl because they were "nice guys" too. The only difference was that they managed to trick the girl in question into trusting them...
well it seems then most are stuck in 1992..meanwhile living in year 2050
I know where they're at...They're sitting at home laughing at these cringy posts on bored panda.
We ask where all the good men are because the bar is set so low we could Just walk on it
Dating Without Sex Is Like Being Put On Trial, Who Knew?!
She was way nicer to him than I would have been. It took me a long time to learn to not give these jackasses the time of day.
Load More Replies...It should be a 'When I'm comfortable and ready rule' with a 'Maybe never'' caveat.
Yeah buddy, pushing women into having sex with you when they're not comfortable with it is really the way to a woman's heart.
These guys don't want women to put off sex ... They might find out the guy is an AH and then won't have sex with them!
Exactly. They want to be able to say after they get off "oh by the way I'm an asshole, too late you already had sex with me". Never fall for this make them wait.
Load More Replies...Getting to know each other - put on a trial, apparently... Sounds like he's just there for one thing.
Well he seems not very experienced in dating.. it happens or it don't. Either there is a flow or a Staudamm.
Ta For Goading Him But It Was Funny
Women, think about your future children before you crush an incel. 😃
Hah, no kids here at 40, I will crush everyone.
Load More Replies...Another southern trashbag who sees a woman as a walking womb. And yet another loser who thinks he’s somehow special and different from the rest of society just because he doesn’t fit in. Just because sports-watching is lame doesn’t mean you’re special for not watching. He probably has another extremely common and equally uncool hobby.
Nice Guys In Animal Crossing!
This is why only my niece is allowed on my island. If I had friends, I'd allow them but alas I do not have any.
Load More Replies...I don't think you can block people in Animal Crossing... But you can "accidentally" disconnect the internet and get them booted off your island. 😛
At this point all internet interactions should have a block feature
Load More Replies...It's a video game by Nintendo. Pretty laid-back game,personally I love it
Load More Replies...We Met Once. He’s 37
Sounds like he wants to compete with her past relationships. What a jerk!
He doesn't have a lot of time? Average lifespan for men is around 74, so he's only half-way. And, he was in his 20's just eight years ago. Oh, and what does any of this have to do with her past relationships?
"I don't know why you intrigue me so much, but you do" - That's the hook that is supposed to catch her. Like, 'Oh! He finds me fascinating!' As if she is weak and needs his validation, smh
Posted Byu/Cecinestpasunlogin 23 Days Ago Silver2 Reaction From “Friend” Of 5 Years To Me Leaving A Party With A Ons- Additional Context In Comments
Ladies, I can tell you from experience: If he's acting crazy jealous at the very beginning of your relationship, it's probably not going to get better. The first argument I had with my ex-husband was about his jealousy. By the time I left the marriage after 24 years, we could not even go to the grocery store together without him accusing me of looking at another man. Do yourself a favor and GET OUT.
I had the same experience w an ex. The second date he got mad bc my roommate brought up an ad about a vibrator. He was jealous of a vibrator that I did not own bc my roommate brought up a silly conversation about one. It got worse from there as you can imagine. I'm glad you got out of your horrible relationship and I hope you feel great!
Load More Replies...I really love punctuation and being able to make sense out of - at the very least - the title/caption of a post.
Good lord, no wonder I'm single. I'm exhausted and ready to give up on humanity just from reading this.
I stopped after 9 I think. So much "I'm good, great, faaaaaanfuckingtastic" and she said NO. Then it's B!tch, c*nt, wh0re and other nasty words. Even threatening enough to wanna call the cops. Just a few days ago there was a "Heck Yeah" response for all the people here on BP who have had this happen to them. I stopped counting the responses and votes, Way too many which is very alarming. This makes me furious and sad and frustrated at the same time and I hate that feeling.
If I outlive my husband, I'm so never dating again. Just sign me up as Crazy Cat Lady, or even Lunatic Squirrel Keeper, but no thanks, not going out *there* again!
Can we be crazy cat ladies together? I like this idea :)
Load More Replies...Here's the thing. We can tell when all you want from us is sex. That's why we reject you, because you're absolutely uninterested in us as human beings. It becomes even more obvious when you switch from charming to psychopath the instant we take sex off the table. Grow up. Stop treating women like sex toys. Stop behaving as if we owe you sex, as if we don't have the right to say "no."
@boredpanda, change your title. These people are not insecure. They hate women. Pretending they are just insecure is a dangerous myth and avoids them having to take responsibility.
Well both are probably true. Their hate probably comes from their insecurities. Its easier to blame women than to acept their shortcomings
Load More Replies...OMG! This is so alarming. These men are single for a reason. They are missing a vital organ... their brain. I lost cells just reading this. It disgusted me and made me furious at the same time. No means no. End of subject!
Why do the women continue these conversations? Just block the creeps and be done with it.
Sometimes they hope that maybe they can get the guy to see that his behaviour is not cool So that he won’t subject the next Woman to the same nonsense
Load More Replies...Guys like this make me ashamed to have to be the same gender. On behalf of the rest of us: sincere apologies.
No need to apologize for other people! There are plenty of s****y and I don't apologize for them.
Load More Replies...Should check these guys for borderline personality disorder.. or a brain, whichever is easier to find
I think most of them could be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder. There was a lot of "it's all about me" in those conversations. Makes me not want to enter the dating pool anytime ever.
Load More Replies...Seriously, most if not all of these men need major professional help. Such degree of delusion and total lack of social and emotional awareness goes beyond just having insecurity and some misguided attitudes. Most sound like they have a personality disorder, massive anger issues, and who knows what else.
Good lord, no wonder I'm single. I'm exhausted and ready to give up on humanity just from reading this.
I stopped after 9 I think. So much "I'm good, great, faaaaaanfuckingtastic" and she said NO. Then it's B!tch, c*nt, wh0re and other nasty words. Even threatening enough to wanna call the cops. Just a few days ago there was a "Heck Yeah" response for all the people here on BP who have had this happen to them. I stopped counting the responses and votes, Way too many which is very alarming. This makes me furious and sad and frustrated at the same time and I hate that feeling.
If I outlive my husband, I'm so never dating again. Just sign me up as Crazy Cat Lady, or even Lunatic Squirrel Keeper, but no thanks, not going out *there* again!
Can we be crazy cat ladies together? I like this idea :)
Load More Replies...Here's the thing. We can tell when all you want from us is sex. That's why we reject you, because you're absolutely uninterested in us as human beings. It becomes even more obvious when you switch from charming to psychopath the instant we take sex off the table. Grow up. Stop treating women like sex toys. Stop behaving as if we owe you sex, as if we don't have the right to say "no."
@boredpanda, change your title. These people are not insecure. They hate women. Pretending they are just insecure is a dangerous myth and avoids them having to take responsibility.
Well both are probably true. Their hate probably comes from their insecurities. Its easier to blame women than to acept their shortcomings
Load More Replies...OMG! This is so alarming. These men are single for a reason. They are missing a vital organ... their brain. I lost cells just reading this. It disgusted me and made me furious at the same time. No means no. End of subject!
Why do the women continue these conversations? Just block the creeps and be done with it.
Sometimes they hope that maybe they can get the guy to see that his behaviour is not cool So that he won’t subject the next Woman to the same nonsense
Load More Replies...Guys like this make me ashamed to have to be the same gender. On behalf of the rest of us: sincere apologies.
No need to apologize for other people! There are plenty of s****y and I don't apologize for them.
Load More Replies...Should check these guys for borderline personality disorder.. or a brain, whichever is easier to find
I think most of them could be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder. There was a lot of "it's all about me" in those conversations. Makes me not want to enter the dating pool anytime ever.
Load More Replies...Seriously, most if not all of these men need major professional help. Such degree of delusion and total lack of social and emotional awareness goes beyond just having insecurity and some misguided attitudes. Most sound like they have a personality disorder, massive anger issues, and who knows what else.
