30 People Share What Their Date Said That Made Them Instantly Think ‘Run!’

A pet is lifelong (at least for your pet) commitment, that was a right choice.

We don't trade family for bf/gf. Family stays.

AMF! Adios MF!

I'm allergic to cats. I have a cat. I get shots. My cat is part of my family. She and I are a package deal.

Feeling down? Get a cat. Need happiness? Get a cat. Feeling lonely? A cat can be with you. Afraid of living in a too quiet environment? A cat can be your companion, even if it makes noise at 3 am in the morning.

So far, a 100% reliable red flag has been anyone who hates cats. Not scared of/allergic to them, not because they have a phobia/trauma... they *hate* them. They always turn out to be controlling.

One of my favorite things about my husband is how much he likes and respects animals. He'll come home and tell me he stopped traffic when there was a turtle in the road and he moved it safely to the other side. That is the mark of a good person.

If someone uses the word "just" when talking about an animal, especially a pet, we're done. (Example: Saying something like, "It was just a cat they didn't need to get that upset.")

Anyone who hates animals is a walking red flag.

A stray kitten followed my dude home. Two weeks later: She has doubled in size, has a cat tree, a favorite toy, gets at least an hour of play, and spoons all night. If anyone even looks at her funny, they're cut out.

On my second date with my now husband after dinner I asked if he wanted to get drinks. Took him to a lowkey gay bar. He totally passed the test. I have too many gay and lesbian friends to waste time with a homophobe.

That's just sad, ppl like this guy even exist.....

"you have a gay brother? And you support that?" Absolutely! Now, get away from me you creep.

Alpha = Narcissist

It's my theory that claims to be an alpha male just show him to be insecure. It's like he needs to prove something.

If I heard any guy saying alpha anything that would be it.

Or r proud of being an a**h*le

aww they are calling themselves ancient greek letters, so adorable 😍😍. (sarcasm for all the Mark Zuckerbergs out there who were about to downvote me)

And what's the common denominator here?

Either they drive people crazy, or they have a type.

Their exes cannot be all crazy at once. There is a link.

1. My ex-husband. 2. My ex-husband. 3. My ex-husband (I am an RN, he worked in construction, yet he somehow knew more about human anatomy and physiology than I because he went to “Joe Rogan University”.)

If they want a functioning (emphasis on FUNCTIONING) relationship, they need to let conversation flow

I work in computers. I was working at global company on something so top secret , I couldnt ecen discuss this with other employees outside my team. So when people asked me what i did or where i worked i was very vague. This guy told me he worked in computers too. Great, we have sonething in common. During the date, i find out he install point of service machines. Then he tells me Steve Jobs invented Linux ( Linus Torvalds ). The last straw was when he told a racist joke about a runner from Africa given shoes to run in and .. well whatever. Date over.

“Mansplaining”.

Same for nurse, have you met a nurse? We perpetually cosplay panda eyes, have no filter and will assess your d**k pic for infections

eeeew

Ew. Before we ever went on a date, we were talking on the phone. He started telling me that he wanted me to change his diaper. He wasn't incontinent; it's his fetish. Nope.

Cool, now go stand in the corner

They are looking for a babysitter because they are still children.

This should be in the top 10 at least! How a person treats any type of worker is indicative of their personality.

I'd date a drug addict over someone rude to service. Addiction can be treated. A**hole cannot.

Yes. But this is a no-brainer, not exactly an epiphany

Thankfully I met my husband only after 6 online dates (16 years ago). Guy #1 was so condescending and patronizing to our service I was shocked. He apparently thought I would appreciate his "Master of the Universe" mentality. I did not. He giving me this grin like I should be impressed by how he put this peon in his place. I just grabbed my purse and walked out. Blocked his number before I even got to my car & then left a very honest "review" on his dating profile (which he could not delete, only respond to). Guy #2 wasn't QUITE as bad, but damn near. Walked, blocked & reviewed him as well.

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Out of pure necessity, incels don't want to restrict their quarry to one order of mammals.

Everytime I see someone on a forum use the term female, I instantly know they're an incel.

*they're*

Like males are better? Nope.