When you hear Sweden, you most likely think of a Nordic land with blond people, weird festivities like Midsummer, and edgy Stockholm street style. Not only that, every year, Swedes are reported to be among the happiest people with enviable work-life balance and renowned social equality.
So no wonder foreigners who come to live there have quite a culture shock, with so many quirks and nuances of Swedish culture. This is what happened to the 30-year-old Canadian Madeline Robson, who moved to Malmö, Sweden two years ago and ended up falling in love with the city.
Now Madeline shares her experiences from everyday life on her TikTok channel where she says she’s “romanticizing my Scandi life.” With 143.9K followers, she has gained quite a solid following, so let’s see some of the most interesting cultural differences she came across in the far Nordic land!
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In the Netherlands vacation money is paid once per year, usually in May or June so you have some extra spending money on your vacation. The amount you get is dependent on your normal salary.
Are you serious??? We don't even have guaranteed paid leave and y'all get a bonus for not working!?!?!
Load More Replies...In Portugal you get paid 14 months a year, so an extra month in June and in December. The country is disgustingly corrupt right now, but this is still a good aspect.
Half tax in December is tricky, mostly you need to give it back next year. Nothing's for free! 🙂
Load More Replies...We have that usually in december and may (or june). But it's polemic. Some people see it as a childish for workers, as employers decide when to extra pay. I mean, some people would prefer to get the same amount of money each month, being 14.000 in total, than 1.000 each month with two 2.000 months.
In Brazil every 12 months of work you get 1 month of vacation time with full salary + 33%.
In Portugal we receive 14 months, 1 month extra for holidays (in summer) and another one for christmas.
in switzerland we call this the 13 salary, because we receive double of the salary in december
Bored Panda reached out to Madeline, who’s originally from Canada and has been living in Malmö, Sweden for over two years. The writer and content creator now runs an awesome blog, ‘Madeline Rae Away,’ to document her life and travel adventures while living abroad.
Madeline’s Scandi life started when she and her Swedish fiance met while traveling in 2017. “After a year and a half of long distance, I quit my corporate job without much of a plan, secured a short-term visa and moved here to be with him,” she recounted.“
In many ways, Canada is similar to Sweden,” the woman said of her first impression, which changed once she got a corporate job there. “I started to really notice the nuances and quirks of the culture that I found really fun and interesting. I am a marketer by profession and over this past winter, while we were locked down without much to do, I started to post some of my observations on TikTok. And people really seemed to enjoy the content!”
120 days is the most generous of anywhere I know of, but someone has to look after the kids when they're sick. Who's going to to it if not the parents?
It makes sense - keep the kid home and they don't pass it on to others - one person or company takes the hit vs. a dozen.
Load More Replies...Vab (vård av barn) is the name of a benefit paid out to working parents when they need to stay at home to look after a sick child, or accompany them to a doctor or hospital. It's a major part of what makes Sweden a family-friendly place to work, with parents entitled to up to 120 days each year per child (on average, they take around seven per child)
Do you get days off to take care of elderly parents as well or is it restricted to kids?
Load More Replies...Every election the number of days go up. That's how the government stays in the office.
Hopefully no child is sick 120 days of the year! Unfortunately, not the case for some children, but still. That would be like feeling bad every third day or from January thru April.
Usually, for a small kid, I'd say that 3 weeks isn't uncommon (20-something days). If the kid has runny poo, they are not welcome at daycare, and many people keep their kids home if they have a fever, cough or such. For anything lasting over 2 weeks, you need a doctor's note. I actually used about 80 days the year that my 5 year old was diagnosed with diabetes type 1. Took a bit over 2 months to get his meds worked out. 120 days is A LOT, but that is often used by people with chronically sick kids, kids in cancer treatment and such.
Load More Replies...In Norway we have 20 days per year with 1 or 2 children, 30 days per year with 3 or more, up to the age of 12. If your child is chronically ill or disabled the cut off is at 18 years old, and you can apply for more days in addition. You can use those days when you need to without consent from your employer. 120 days sounds like a lot, but I've read that the majority of Swedish children, almost 70 %, only cause 10 days of absence, and that this number decreases with age.
Yes, but for anything above 2 weeks consecutive you need a doctor's note. 120 days a year sounds like a lot, but consider that this is the Swedish solution for caring for children with cancer, kidney failure or long term stuff like that. I used a lot of days the year that my 5 year old was diagnosed with diabetes. It took 2 months to get his meds sorted. I didn't need to do that the next year, it was a one time block of time to handle it.
Load More Replies...3 lousy days a year in England. Applies to one child or 6 children, you only get 3 days A YEAR.
In the US we get ZERO. I was let go at my last job because of too many absences, mostly due to my autistic child. Sadly, I wasn't the only person fired that same year because of their children.
Load More Replies...This should be implemented in all countries if we want both parents equally involved in caring for the children.
You can stay home longer in Sweden too but then part of that is unpaid.
Load More Replies...In Canada parents are allowed 1 year of vacation after a birth and they can split it how ever they want , again are you sure she's Canadian ?
Lol, my husband was at home for 18 months with our second. Yeah. Months.
That's normal in most countries - I thought only the US had the shitty working for tips system - didn't know Canada did it too.
Canada doesn't. It is just the US with a shitty working for tips system. In Canada, wait staff get minimum wage or better. But, because we're influenced by the US, they ALSO get tips. I had a friend who became a teacher here and she said it took her 5 years of teaching before she made as much as she did as a waitress... that probably says something about teaching salaries, but it also tells me wait staff can do pretty good!
Load More Replies...Yep normal in most other countries. Although we tip if the service was good.
Minimum wage in Ontario is $14.25/hr. BC is $15.20/hr. If you serve food/liquor, your wage is lower at $12.45/hour plus tips. The average server pay is $13.32. In Sweden, minimum wage is negotiated. If you're working at fast food, you're making around 100-105 Krona ($14.75CAD/hr), a server makes an average of 117KR ($16.90 CAD). In Stockholm they make an average of 130Kr($18-19 CAD). In Toronto or Vancouver which are comparative servers can earn more and all of these servers can earn tips on top of these hourly pay. If you get even one $10 tip in a dinner shift, there you are. Canadians (and I am one) are just whiny and entitled, plus they are too lazy to even convert the KR to CAD to compare before writing an article like this. Worse is that Bored Panda didn't even check it.
Yes. Pay a decent wage . Don’t let them be paid at the whim of cheap people who use any excuse not to tip.
What's with the russian text on the wall though? (At least cyrillic.)
Love the people claiming only the US has tipping, because during all the multiple trips I've had to England, there was a service charge added to the bill, so essentially a forced tip whether the service was good or "shitty." If service was really good, we would leave a little more. Tipping is the norm in Canada so it isn't just the US, America haters.
I'm guessing you were in posh restaurants and in London? Service charge isn't normal in a lot of the UK. Maybe if there's a large group of you.
Load More Replies...No tips in Brazil either but some high end restaurants charge 10% for "service".
Madeline was honest to say that she’s still adapting to the Scandi lifestyle: “it's hard to feel totally integrated until you speak the language fluently.”
“But otherwise, it took me about a year to really get into the rhythm of daily life here. It was mostly the little things that took some adapting, like shopping for groceries and finding my favorite products in another language, or getting used to biking everywhere instead of driving.”
Meanwhile, from a work perspective, she said she was used to a much more intense work culture. “It took a while to adapt to the balanced, generally slower pace of life here. In many ways, my life is much simpler here and now I really love it!”
And it’s probably actually good food compared to our crappy American excuse for “lunch”
My district serves totally spoiled and/or expired milk sometimes!
Load More Replies...The lunches are not great. Remember that scene in Orange is the new black, where they empty out the bag of "food" to serve? Yeah... kids in Sweden get the cheapest slop that tax money can buy.
Not true, most of what is served is perfectly fine food and not slop at all. If school food is that bad where you live, get involved in politics and change it, it totally doesn't have to be that way.
Load More Replies...State and municipal schools in Brazil (and even kindergarten) also have free lunch for kids. It's not much, but it's something.
School food here in US is EXTREMELY high in carbs and sugar. Real Meat and veggies...nope.
I prefer the lunch bags, actually. The quality of food in the Swedish school is abysmal. The cheapest that tax money can buy. Nutritionally, it's a disaster. I had to get a doctor's note for them to serve my child enough food to go with his meds, there was just too little content in the usual slop and the kids rarely like the taste, so they just eat sandwiches.
There is no such thing as a "free lunch," even in Sweden. Personal income tax rate is 52.9%; sales tax is 25%; and, social security 38.42%. So, are we, as a country, willing to pay such "exorbitant" tax rates to pay for all of the social programs that Sweden has? Ask U.S. Republicans.
nope, teenagers and adults that don't need a full on car...we have good public transportation...elderly get discount and sometime special busses for short trips
Load More Replies...In the Netherlands it is not for kids, for adult people who can't pass their driving test. You have to have a licence to drive a scooter/moped if it is faster then a certain speed, but it is not the same as a (car) drivers licence. The moped license allowes you to drive vehicles (moped, cars) that don't go faster hten 45 km/h.
Incorrect, because you need an AM-license to drive these vehicles. The only difference is that you don't get a medical check when you renew your license. So, in theory, even when someone is legally blind they could still have an AM license to drive these cars.
Load More Replies...In Belgium, anyone over 16 without a drivers licence can drive one and they come in real funky styles. Even a delivery van/camper electric version! No disability required.
I have one of those ( Netherlands) I hardly ever leave the city so it is good enough.
my cousins from sweden say that there are scary teenagers driving them. like the teeangers stand in groups around them and smoke or something.
This would come as a blessing in nz, I hated doing 100 having very little control over my vehicle
They, "can't drive yet" so they have cars? So kids who can't fly yet get airplanes that can't go higher than 20 feet?
"It is common to see people walking, jogging, pushing strollers, walking dogs, or even meeting friends for fika in the cemeteries. Seeing the way the cemeteries have been adapted to urban life was very new for me"
I imagine this is actually very good mentally for everyone. Here death isn't talked about and it's hidden which makes the entire subject taboo
Load More Replies...i always thought that if aliens came to earth they'd be shocked that we keep our dead people, let alone organized into specific lots.
We had a huge debate in Sweden last winter about people going sledding in a cemetery in Stockholm actually
Hade vi? Bor i Stockholm sedan mycket länge och har aldrig hört talas om någon släddebatt.
Load More Replies...Why wouldn't you use a cemetery for recreation? It isn't disrespectful to the ones buried there.
It's no worse then the tourist attraction that some cemeteries are. As long as you're respectful there isn't really a problem. Also usually the walking paths are well separated from the plots. At least they are for the ones that are in my city.
Load More Replies...In Russia, people go and visit their loved ones all the time. You see them at "mass cemeteries" in places like St. Petersburg, aka Leningrad, crying, eating lunch and spending time with their loved ones. The cemeteries are quite beautiful. Some of them.
Here in the US it is not unusual to see people jogging at Arlington Cemetery or people picnicking on the graves (not random)
Load More Replies...Actually, it used to be a thing in the US to visit cemeteries on Sundays to decorate the graves and have a picnic. Congressional Cemetery outside Washington, D.C. is a huge tourist attraction and popular with local people for walking themselves and their pets. The cemetery actual gets some funding by selling dog permits.
Madeline assured us that there were many cultural shocks. “The work-life balance is amazing. But I was really shocked by all the parental benefits Swedes have. Childcare is incredibly cheap, parents enjoy 480 days of paid parental leave (that is shared between both parents), you get paid to stay home from work when your kids are sick, and parents are often encouraged to take 4-6 weeks off every summer to spend time with their families.”
“On a more superficial note, I was also a bit surprised to find out that not all Swedes are tall, blond-haired and blue-eyed. And are actually amazing at speaking English, and don't sound anything like the Swedish chef,” she added.
That's nice, but it is surprising how quickly you learn where the barcodes are when you work on a checkout - I only did in my uni holidays but I soon caught on - it also only helps if the person doing the bagging is also as quick - I'd grab a bag and help if someone was stuggling.
It's not just about finding the codes - it's about the movements the cashier needs to make to turn things the right way. If the customers do it, it's both faster and easier on the cashier.
Load More Replies...I hated it when customers would slow down the line by placing the products on the conveyor belt so that the bar codes would face some direction that they think they should. A cashier will learn pretty damn fast where the bar code is located. It's more important to place items with discount stickers so that the sticker is visible, because that's something that the cashier has to see.
While I do realise this is photoshop, this is actually inside a Norwegian store (the signs are in Norwegian not Swedish).
That doing this would be “foreign” to someone or associated with where you live is dumb. Reaching on this one, but I guess they need to fill space.
Yes, «Det er sluttsummen på kassalappen som teller!». So a brief visit to Norway and one of our REMA 1000 stores?
Load More Replies...I've heard this often about Scandinavian countries. And while I find it strange, I love the fact that they don't have to worry.
I read a report yrs back. Apparently babies left outside to nap have stronger immune systems.
Load More Replies...I live in Sweden and I have never heard of this. Altough I read on this site about this thing going on in Iceland
Actually it's good for baby's, teaching them the weather at young age.
Scandinavia is safe. I only know of one case (ever) of a baby being taken. It was a disturbed woman who thought it was hers, and the baby was found safe and sound after a couple of hours. Happened in Denmark a few years back. Don't think it's ever happened in Norway, and haven't heard of any cases from Sweden either.
Load More Replies...I have some other European friends, Czech, who also had their kid nap on the cold balcony. It freaked out Koreans since they are very concerned that babies should never feel a chill. Their kid was bundled up, nice and warm. They told concerned restaurant staff that they were from Iceland 🤣🤣
Sleep... as if they stay out all night. NO, the baby is well wrapped up and takes a nap outside.
In Denmark you don't have to get a loan, you can live of the grant the government gives you to study. Most students supplement by working a little on the side, though. They can get a complete degree without acquiring any debt.
Lol the SU itself can't even pay for a tiny room in Copenhagen. Rent is 5000 and SU is 6000. Good luck living without loans or working.
Load More Replies...What ?? University is free in Canada for Canadians you only pay inscription fee, if you need a student loan because you have to move closer, government will give it to you no interest 0% until you complete your studies and you can even get a grant depending on your situation. You can't find work, you can't pay, they will freeze it until you are able to pay and are willing to make arrangements on the monthly fees. Anyone that want to study is able to, if your parents are poor you will automatically get a grant.
University is not free in Canada for Canadian citizens, not sure where you are getting your information from. The province of Quebec has the lowest tuition for its residents, but they still have some tuition. Yes grants are available, but not as plentiful as you indicate. Most kids that go to college or university here have some degree of debt at the end of their program.
Load More Replies...My student loans in Scotland had an interest rate that was not too far from the rate of inflation, and I paid them back pre-tax at a rate based on my income. It didn't feel like a loan at all, just that I was in a slightly higer tax-bracket paying £40-£60 a month more tax
It can be frozen for a year after you stop taking loans. Then you have to start paying back. The payment plan is calculated on a maximum 25 year span, or until you hit 60.
Load More Replies...This should be in N Am too. Education should be a right. It benefits the whole country as it frees up money that graduates spend on housing, cars , furniture, etc. And makes for smarter citizens
2.99%??? That's basically free!!! Mine (in the '80s in Canada) was 22%.
Yeah let’s punish the poor students making the uni super expensive just because some people are lazy.
Load More Replies...Madeline hasn’t been able to visit her family and friends in almost two years, so she said that above all else, she misses the people. “I also generally miss the friendliness of Canadians. And then it's just little things like good maple syrup, all-dressed chips, Tim Hortons, and Canada's hockey culture,” she said.
We've traditionally never needed AC in Scandinavia (we're very good at keeping houses warm, though) but global warming might change that.
At least in Finland heat pumps have become quite common in recent years. They can both heat up or cool down an apartment. But yeah, they are a fairly recent thing.
Load More Replies...We don't hace AC in houses either. In fact im pretty sure houses in scotland (possibly all of UK) were designed and built to keep heat in. Really been feeling that this past few weeks 😂
That's what annoys me about all the Americans laughing at us Brits because of the heatwave. We don't have AC and our walls don't break when you fall against them, yes it's fricking hot for us.
Load More Replies...F**k that. I'd be getting an AC somehow. Don't care what I have to do, f**k that no AC b******t.
Context: Hot days are very rare in Sweden. Some years, we never see temperatures in the 30s. A Swede will be quite happy if there is a whole week of temperatures in the high 20s. It's not that big of a problem, we're talking about a few really hot days every year. That's when you hit the beach. There will usually be a couple of really bothersome nights in the middle of summer, when the white nights keep it warm all night... but all in all, not a major issue. We just open a few windows.
I have got AC in my house but I have never lived in an apartment with AC
Well we have a fan and run around (half)naked when it gets hot.
Load More Replies..."This means that when you have a baby you submit your name to the government and they can approve or deny it. Here's some of the banned names:
Ikea, Metallica, Elvis, Superman, Varanda, Q,, Michael Jackson, Token, Ford, Brfxxcxxmnpccclllmmnprxvclmnckssqlkb11116 which apparently = Albin"
That's totally normal, we have this law too that the State has to agree with the name or ban it if it's "against the interest of the child". In 2015 a court stated that "Princesse-Rebecca" was not allowed because it sounds ridiculous lol, other banned: Fraise (strawberry), Nutella, Liam for a girl, Amber for a boy, and probably my favorite "Griezmann-Mbappé" like you are a football fan and name your child afer your favorite players familynames:NOPE. It's just sad that a law is needed to forbid crazy people to give crazy names to their child.
As a former teacher, PLEASE bring one to the US and normalize spelling. No kid should have to spell Aleeseeia. True story.
Load More Replies...Most of those make sense... but imagine the government telling you you're not allowed to name your kid Elvis. I assume that's because of Elvis Presley... but I've got a colleague with this name and no one cares. Even Ford... is that actually a bad name?
No, it was because they wanted to name a girl Elvis and the authorities were worried it would cause issues for the child.
Load More Replies...Same in Poland - child is not a parent’s toy, get a dog if you like silly names.
What about Elvis and Ford, those seem normal names. Do you know why they are banned?
Load More Replies...This is law in most European countries. Naming your child Adolf Hitler, Nutella or A**s won't be allowed.
Have a Swedish stepsister who took circus skills and acrobatics for her last few years in high school. She was 19 when she graduated and has been all over the world with Clowns Without Borders and currently she and her partner own a large, old sailboat where they do performances and workshops as part of Malmö City's summer activities program. There's a swing and highwire attached to the rigging masts. She is also one of the founders of Karavan Circus who have a training building and show space in an old warehouse.
That's awesome! In Canada we go high school. That's it, just high school.
Load More Replies...There ARE specialized schools in Quebec. https://www.csmv.qc.ca/la-csmv/inscription-scolaire/inscription-et-ecoles-a-vocation-particuliere/
Lol we have agricultural schools and vocational high schools in America too. No e sports schools that I know of
In the states, in rural areas, there are classes like that, though most learn on the farm or ranch from their folks. My husband was in FFA: Future Farmers of America. It was a social club. He also had a class in "shop", it was great, he said. Our son took shop and learned body shop repair.
Same in Norway. And you can't buy alcohol stronger than beer at the grocery store.
When I first moved to Sweden you had to go to the counter and ask for what you wanted, and the woman who worked in my local shop used to glare at you like you were a criminal! I was so happy when a self service System Bolaget opened in our local shopping centre. Be prepared to queue on Friday afternoons.
why should you drink on holiday? These are the days you want to remember, not the job. Drink on working days!
There are completely dry counties in the USA & others who have these same rules based on the religious nature of the area.
Also dont forget, you have to be 20 to shop there. But its totally ok to go out to the pub & get drunk at 18! ;)
Sometimes it is not about being formal or informal
Load More Replies...Finnish person here, we're not formal either. I'd just call my teachers "teacher" or by their first name, or by a nickname even.
Same thing in Canada, are you sure she's Canadian ? I'm 51 and called all my teacher by their first name when I went to school.
I'm Canadian and when I was a kid it seemed like a big secret what teacher's first name was. In college it was disconcerting to be expected to use the professors first name to address them. So perhaps it depends on where in Canada you went to school - I'm from Ottawa valley, Ontario.
Load More Replies...In the Netherlands kids only call their teacher Mr. Peter or Miss Helen in kindergarten / primary school. After that teachers are addressed as Mrs. Jansen and Mr. de Bruin.
And when talking about said teachers just Jansen or De Bruin 😄
Load More Replies...That's more common in Iceland. We haven't had that tradition in Sweden for hundreds of years.
Load More Replies...I'm American and at my school we call everybody by their first names.
"I was blown away by how amazing your English is. I was told swedes are the second-best English speakers in the world but I wasn't ready for just how fluent most people are. I know you were exposed to English growing up and taught it in school, but I was taught French most of my life and I'm not fluent in French. Learning a second language is hard so you should be proud of yourselves"
It's not that hard when you hear it all the time. We get so many tv shows and movies from the UK and the US, and the whole internet is in English. We can't communicate with the rest of the world in our own languages, so we have to learn. English speakers don't.
Actually, the Dutch are the second best non-native speakers in the world, Swedes are third on the list.
Same for most scandinavians! In general, they speak fluent english + another language. In Norway they are pretry good with languages, and my secret theory is that it is because of being exposed to so many different dialects + danish + swedish. Politicians and TV/public figures just keep their dialects on TV. Dialects can be very different, thus norwegians develop a pretty good ear. Very impressive!
I disagree! I have lived here, not in Stockholm, for 33 years, and it amazes me how bad people are at actually talking. Many Asian and African countries learn English along side their own native language and are much better. Swedes are exposed to English all their lives and still aren't fluent. When I studied English at the university most of the grammar of fellow students was at best 3rd or 4th grade level. Than they are jealous because your fluent. Ridiculous when English is your native language.
English classes every week from 3-9th grade & must choose a language in 7th like Spanish or German so many speak 3 languages when graduating. Although that 3rd is usually quick forgotten lol
Not sooo unusual. You combine your vacation days with your CTO. If you worked enough hours overtime you can take days off. A whole week off is only 40 hours, and that's doable within a year.
Load More Replies...Sweden has a lot more 'red days' or public holidays than the UK/US/Canada.
In Norway, most people will take 3 weeks off for summer (fellesferie, 'joint holiday', when a lot of businesses close for the summer), and save the last two weeks for other occasions (beach holidays in October, for instance).
you guys get 5 weeks in 1 year in Australia we get 12 weeks of the holiday not all together in spread out periods
"Swedish men are 179.73cm (5 feet 10.76 inches) tall on average, while Swedish women are 165.6cm (5 feet 5.23 inches) tall." So 5'9 for a woman is tall.
Yeah, I don't get this one. I'm 160 and I'm short. I'd say that 175 is tall.
I'm 5'7", which is tall for a woman in the UK (where I'm from), but child-sized for the Netherlands (where I now live).
I would suggest that if you want a really tall race, go to the Netherlands. The Dutch people are really tall, on average.
Half Finn, half Dane, living in Sweden- 1.57 ..... lol
My mom’s side of the family are Dutch, so everyone is tall, meaning all my siblings are tall. But not me. I got the Danish genes from my dad.
"Did you know? Swedes are the second highest coffee consumers in the world. I always thought that we drank a lot of coffee in Canada but I was never a big coffee drinker.. until I moved here. It feels like Swedes whole days revolve around drinking (very strong) coffee. The coffee in Canada is so weak by comparison"
Sweden is no 6. Norway is 2nd. Finland beats us all. All the Nordic countries are in the top 6, with the Netherlands pushing Sweden out of the top 5. It's dark and cold up here - we need our coffee!
We also need a lot of coffee here in the Netherlands :) (I think I drink at least 8 a day) - but did you know our genetics (if from Nordic descent) make us less susceptible to caffeine? So we drink a lot just because we like it. Not because it keeps us awake or makes us jittery. A lot of Dutch people are from Nordic descent too, due to Viking visits.
Load More Replies...I disagree with the study, balkans drink the most coffee. From 5am till midnight from what I see. 😂
Sweden is the 6th in the world for coffee consumption per person. or third, depending on whose chart you follow.
It made me chuckle, when I read the Millennium trilogy, how often they make coffee XD I'm Spanish and always thought we were somewhere at the top.
Casual dress to everything... funerals, church, parties, work, school... no uniforms necessary.
Swedes are big on personal space and not bothering others! Never get too close to someone at the bus stop in Sweden, they get panicky!
I love Sweden.In Asia people you know climb on to you once they notice you,I swear if I just move half of my anxiety would be gone.
Load More Replies..."This one is a language nuance and I am so CURIOUS if you have noticed this or do this. When I started working my corporate job I would ask yes/no questions and not understand the answer. They would respond to a basic question with a *BREATH IN*. Just a simple breath. I was so confused... like does that mean YES or NO? Over time I realized that it means YES or is a way of agreeing to the question and I know in the north of Sweden this is done much more obviously"
It's a breath in with sound. An A sound - short for Ja, but yeah a very Swedish thing.
Also common in Norway. Foreigners think we're having a heart attack. Can often sound very passive aggressive to a Norwegian.
Load More Replies...In Portugal, a person makes that kind of sound when they're surprised. So I was a bit confused when I was talking to a swede and they go "ha" (breathing in) and I'm like "did I say something wrong?" :D
A common response in Norway as well. Even the Norwegians I worked with here in the U.S., who had been living here for decades, still respond in the affirmative with an inhale.
In French you can say "oui" while breathing in. Although I sometimes do it, I have no idea what the rule for doing this would be in a grammar book. You can't do it any time you want, but sometimes it's appropriate. Go figure. That being said, it seems much more common in Swedish if I understand you correctly.
Yes, It freaked me out every time at the beginning. It's the same sound that you would make when something really surprises or scares you but here it's used as "hm hm" like a confirmation that I'm listening to you (not really like a yes). At the beginning I always use to react by looking around to see if something was happening 😂
It's not the same sound as you do when getting scared at all!! And it doesn't mean "hm hm", I'm listening, IT MEANS YES!
Load More Replies...I felt something shrink, and I don't even have one
Load More Replies...a bit exaggerated. a week is more typical...but laundry room and heating is part of the rent...
Load More Replies...Ok never heard of that. It's true that every apartment complex has a loundry room that you can book but there is no problem in finding a free slot and you can book 4 times a month i believe. Anyway many people also have a washing machine at home, it's just faster with those because they're bigger and you can use two at the time and you also have a big drying machines.
In Hungary everybidy has washing machines at home. Dryers not so common
Also in Spain. We all have washing machines in each appartment and we usually dry clothes in open air. It's similar in France and the South of Europe.
Load More Replies...I've never heard of appartment buildings having laundromats in the basement here in The Netherlands, I thought it was a typical American thing (from seeing it in American tvshows). We do have commercial ones but those are terribly expensive.. The ones I know of anyway.
In my apparment complex (I am Swedish) you don't get any punishment when you miss your appointment. You just book another. My boyfriend should know. Sometimes he is like "nah, I don't feel like it" and book another time. But he is getting better!
What do you do, if there is an emergency like sick kids threwing up in their bedsheets?Is there any possibility to wash it asap?
Load More Replies...This is true. I've had this problem. I mean, there might be SOME free slots in the next 2 weeks, but the evening slots and the weekend slots are the ones you can actually use. I have had to turn down activities to do laundry. Super annoying.
Some old buildings/dorms have a common washing room because there is no much space in the apartments for a washing machine. They have a system to book to avoid them getting crowded. Some just get two fixed days a week or others have a more sophisticated system, like online booking. But as far as I know, new buildings do not have those common washing rooms anymore.
"I was shocked by how different Swedish dialects are depending where you're from and found out I was apparently learning the most difficult dialect. In Canada accents don't vary THAT much (unless you're from the east coast). I always thought my Swedish accent was pretty neutral but you guys told me otherwise. In a video I said: "JAG KOMMER FRÅN KANADA" and everyone said I spoke skånska. This whole accent thing was such a shock for me"
I live in Belgium and am learning Dutch. According to my colleagues, apparently I'm an American speaking Dutch with a German accent. I've been told that there are a lot of local dialects and that scares me a bit as a new learner.
We don't speak Dutch, but Flemisch. It's very similar but still different. And yes, there are many different dialects and they have nothing to do with accents. But we all understand Dutch too (and do the best we can to speak something like it) , so don't worry ;-)
Load More Replies...To make it even worse, Skånska is really more of a... collection of dialects. Being from Malmö, I can probably tell where in Skåne you're from, by a 50km radius. roughly.
I had occasion to use my Russian 101 with a Russian kid once. He gave me a funny look and asked "GERMANSKI?" My teacher was a German who had spent years in Russia.
I'm a Scot living in Belgium (the Dutch/Flemish speaking part) the local thick dialect is German derived as was my local dialect in Scotland. I can chat with folk born 70 years ago in my old dialect but we struggle to communicate in modern Flemish!
Dialects are not really that different, try to go to Italy 😂. Anyway what shocked me is that speaking skånska in TV or in a public job outside Skåne is acceptable. In Italy it would not be accepted to talk a dialect in TV (unless you're doing a role) let alone a public job.
The Skånska dialect is a holdover from when southern Sweden was part of Denmark.
"Sauces are often sold in tubes. You have things like shrimp, bacon or saffron-flavoured tube cheese. You can also find common condiments like mayo in tubes too"
And flavoured cheese spreads are definitely not a 'Swedish' thing. Although I admit we don't get saffron flavoured in the UK.
Load More Replies...Even though the cheese spread on the image wouldn't be considered a sause in Sweden, we do love sause. Almost no food is ever served without a sause in Sweden. It becomes obvious to us that we are a sause country when we visit other contries and realize the chocking news that even restaurants abroad often don't even have any sauses at all available. We especially love Bearnaise sause
I believe this is more like a Norwegian concept, that's been exported to Sweden.
I thought it was the other way around? The Swedes certainly do it a lot more than we do.
Load More Replies...Cheese, cheese with just about anything added, and Kalles caviar in a tube! Yum!
That's just what we tell our children so they don't ruin their teeth and run high on sugar all the time
How is this possible, a Country vs. Country post that DOESN'T have the US?
Scandinavian countries are great. I 'd like we could copy more of them in my country. It's a much better model than USA.
Minimum wage in Ontario is $14.25/hr. BC is $15.20/hr. If you serve food/liquor, your wage is lower at $12.45/hour plus tips. The average server pay is $13.32. In Sweden, minimum wage is negotiated. If you're working at fast food, you're making around 100-105 Krona ($14.75CAD/hr), a server makes an average of 117KR ($16.90 CAD). In Stockholm they make an average of 130Kr($18-19 CAD). In Toronto or Vancouver which are comparative servers can earn more and all of these servers can earn tips on top of these hourly pay. If you get even one $10 tip in a dinner shift, there you are. Canadians (and I am one) are just whiny and entitled, plus they are too lazy to even convert the KR to CAD to compare before writing an article like this. Worse is that Bored Panda didn't even check it.
I hate this free content I could just skip and do something else with my time.
Load More Replies...What's this? A culture shock article that ISN'T about how much the US sucks?
But it is. It's showing how much better your life could be away from the Land of the Free.
Load More Replies...26 isn't SAUCE! It's spreadable cheese! You don't put sauce on your sandwich.
They may have lots of sauces, but look at how many different flavours of potato chips we have in Canada!
Load More Replies...Sweden vs any country who cares Sweden wins.Who can top Sweden now?Damn ,USA you guys gotta focus on this game causeeverybody is bored of that stoopid capitalist game now.Boo.
How is this possible, a Country vs. Country post that DOESN'T have the US?
Scandinavian countries are great. I 'd like we could copy more of them in my country. It's a much better model than USA.
Minimum wage in Ontario is $14.25/hr. BC is $15.20/hr. If you serve food/liquor, your wage is lower at $12.45/hour plus tips. The average server pay is $13.32. In Sweden, minimum wage is negotiated. If you're working at fast food, you're making around 100-105 Krona ($14.75CAD/hr), a server makes an average of 117KR ($16.90 CAD). In Stockholm they make an average of 130Kr($18-19 CAD). In Toronto or Vancouver which are comparative servers can earn more and all of these servers can earn tips on top of these hourly pay. If you get even one $10 tip in a dinner shift, there you are. Canadians (and I am one) are just whiny and entitled, plus they are too lazy to even convert the KR to CAD to compare before writing an article like this. Worse is that Bored Panda didn't even check it.
I hate this free content I could just skip and do something else with my time.
Load More Replies...What's this? A culture shock article that ISN'T about how much the US sucks?
But it is. It's showing how much better your life could be away from the Land of the Free.
Load More Replies...26 isn't SAUCE! It's spreadable cheese! You don't put sauce on your sandwich.
They may have lots of sauces, but look at how many different flavours of potato chips we have in Canada!
Load More Replies...Sweden vs any country who cares Sweden wins.Who can top Sweden now?Damn ,USA you guys gotta focus on this game causeeverybody is bored of that stoopid capitalist game now.Boo.

