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In times of social media, the pressure to be a perfect mom, woman, wife, daughter, a female version of a superhuman is beyond words.

It takes one scroll through the feed and you see breastfeeding moms running marathons, moms nailing their fashionable OOTDs (Outfit Of The Day), moms winning awards, landing campaigns, and ruling the world in what feels like a 40-hour-long day. Just look at Ursula von der Leyen, the President of the European Commission known as the “Mother of the Nation” while being a mother to 7 children. The question is “how?” and it’s probably an open-ended one.

So this parody Instagram account Moms Behaving Badly is a breath of fresh air. It brings moms back from the sky highs of infinite perfection right down to earth where the hot messes, aka the rest of us, live. No wonder the page has a whopping 1 million followers, showing how much its content resonates with people. Below we selected some of the most hilarious posts from Moms Behaving Badly, so scroll down and enjoy!

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Yesss!

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Amy Watson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And re-reading the same book 900x to someone and then getting told that somebody else does it better and you are doing it all wrong. And the book must be either mysteriously sticky, wet, or both.

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Let’s talk about the elephant in the room. The pressure society puts on moms is unbelievable. Expecting moms are told countless ways how they “should" give birth, feed their baby, build their career, promote a healthy relationship with the baby, and so on and so on. Meanwhile, moms who delivered a baby are expected to “get back on track,” meaning life, work, family duties, body shape and size should be the way society wants. If not, many moms feel like they failed, hence self-worth problems and even depression may emerge.

This survey commissioned by TIME found that half of 913 new mothers that participated had experienced regret, shame, guilt or anger, mostly due to unexpected complications and lack of support. And that’s not all.

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More than 70% felt pressured to do things a certain way. More than half said a natural birth was extremely or very important, yet 43% wound up needing drugs or an epidural, and 22% had unplanned C-sections. Breastfeeding, too, proved a greater challenge than anticipated. Out of the 20% who planned to breastfeed for at least a year, fewer than half actually did.

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The majority of mothers in the survey pointed to “society in general” as the source of the pressure, followed by doctors and other mothers. Sadly, this has become the new norm and not many women dare to publicly talk about it in fear of being dubbed “selfish” and “not good enough.”

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So no wonder so many women these days choose to stay single and/or childfree. Contrary to common belief, a new study found child-free people are as happy as parents, with the authors surprised by just how many men and women indicated they didn’t want to have kids. The result follows the larger trend of Americans having fewer children in general: the U.S. birth rate fell to a record low last year and there could be 300,000 to 500,000 fewer births in 2021, according to some estimates.

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Amy Watson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, and I'm never quite sure whether I'm deep cleaning BECAUSE I'm mad at the world and being passive- aggressive about it and want them to slowly back away from the crazy lady with the scrub brush and bleach, or whether I'm mad at the world because I'm having to deep clean AGAIN and I'm the only person doing it.

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Me Too!

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So to find out more about why more and more women consciously decide to opt out from parenthood, we spoke with the relationship coach Jane Parker. “I think there are many possible reasons and each woman who chooses to be childfree and/or single has a unique reason for themselves,” she told Bored Panda.

Parker explained that some women realize that their career is more important to them than having children or getting married. “Devoting your life to caring for another is a very big choice to make, and not all women want to commit to that. Life without children can create more ease for adventure, unlimited possibilities, and freedom of choice.”

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#17

And I Have A Headache

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Zophra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm on Bored Panda. I should be asleep by now. Naw, one more comment.

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Another reason may be finances. “Maybe some women just love the idea of only needing to think and take care of only themselves and aren't willing to make the sacrifices that parenting requires,” Parker said.The relationship coach said that childfree women may not want the responsibility of raising a child or, quite simply, “they love their life exactly how it is and don't want to change it to fit around a child.”

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#25

Not A Good Look On Me

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

me. and don't even get me started on how Look like when I take it off.

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#26

If This Ain’t The Truth!

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Jen T
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS! You people have conditioned me to yell because apparently you’re deaf otherwise!

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#27

Surprise! I’m Not Really A Troll

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witchling
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah. When you get a good nights sleep and someone says wow! you look great today. What do I normally look like???

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Ugh

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Donna Clanclan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You might not be wrong though. My hubby doesn't use soap. Just rinses the dishes and puts them away...wet, with food still stuck on. 'It's good enough!' No...no it really isn't.

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Raise Your Hand!

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C W
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I now pointedly refuse to tell my husband where anything is. When he asks me where the scissors are for the 10th time this month I look him dead in the eye and say where do you think we keep them. It’s amazing how quickly he can find stuff with that one simple question.

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Hagen Radcliffe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That worked years ago with my kids but alas it was too late to retrain the hubby-his mother believed that HER SON was an actual god.

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Ed Brandon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does anyone here actually like their partner? 🤔 Seems to be an awful lot of people whinging about this person they decided to marry, like they knew nothing about them beforehand.

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Sabse
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're single or newly in love, right? Or do you like creepy couples who say: "We always laugh together. Only when you are well, I am well". Relationship images like these are false role models.

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TrinaKA
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG this one is spot on. It gave me a great chuckle. I've been married going on 40 years so at this point, every time he pulls a "Drew Barrymore "😅 I start worrying about alzheimer's. Then I think, wait he's been doing this for 40 years. Then I feel like Drew Barrymore!🤦‍♀️

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Tracy Wallick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn't cute or funny, stop letting grown-ass men get away with behaving like children

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Tina Girard
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try this - make your luggage lock combo your anniversary date. Then when he asks what it is, watch his reaction closely when you tell him.

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Brendan Roberts
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow that's a really unhealthy relationship right there - trying to lead your partner into a trap? How about communicating about your issues instead?

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Hagen Radcliffe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We got married at 19. We’re 67 now. Tell me about it. BTW-I’m just as bad as him. Age is a great leveler.

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YourNameHere
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I forget names, and my hubby forgets dates. We are constantly reminding each other who that person is, and that we have that thing with them next Wednesday. 😅

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Mary August
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mine would forget to bring along his head if wasn't attached to his body.

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Josh Tall
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Role reversal....I married a guy with boobs!!!! but same s**t

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kews
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This just makes me sad. This is what it's like with my mom, who has dementia

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Karen Lyon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This stuff starts early, too. The older brother (age 7 or 8) of one of my TK kids (age 5) came up to me this week at the end of school and asked where his brother was. Me: "What do you mean, where is he? He didn't come to school today." Him: "Oh yeah. I forgot." He only has one brother. Oy.

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C Jill Miller
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mine keeps asking the same questions over and over, and when I get exasperated he says "Well I have more important things to remember." Then why do you keep asking this if it's not important? And I've heard the same stories so many times I could recite them in my sleep!

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Marigen Beltran
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is a lot easier to make the Mona Lisa laugh than to get my husband to do anything I ask him to do.

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Keisha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope,my husband won't remember how many times he is reminded so I don't even bother.

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brian presutti
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe your choice in men isn't that good. I'm not sure why a lot of women make men out to be idiots that can't remember anything or do anything without supervision. Maybe your man just isn't up to par. Maybe make better life partner choices. Or stick with who you're with and be thankful you're not alone.

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Nothanks L. Walk
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another Karen.... the fact that YOU have an eidetic memory, will NEVER imply that everyone else must therefore have the same. Think outside yourself for once.

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Helen Taylor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does he have dementia. If he does go to the Alzheimer’s Assoc. for help and advice. Www.alz.org

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Guðrún Sveinsdóttir
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My ex was a stoner and we were together for 10 years and my husband today is going mental over me for treating him like a child 😆😆 seriously messed up😅

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Sam Moor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe he just disagrees and is waiting for you to finally get that, to let it go and to shut the f**k up.

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GlamourGhoul
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I literally had this same thought the other day...nice to know I'm not alone!

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jenjie.newt
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The other day mine asked if we have any full-length mirrors in the house. We have two, in the master bedroom, where they have been for the last 8 years

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Ain’t Nobody Got Time For That

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Izzy Curer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like breakfast, but sometimes I'm just not in the mood right after waking up, you know? Why force it on yourself.

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#39

Right?

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Emma A
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's only two things I like since entering my adult years one is food.

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Friday Giggles!

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