Men Suspect Women Don’t Know These 30 Things About Them, So They Shared Them In This Online Group

This exactly. Men don't HAVE to think about it, women grow up being told to never stop thinking about it

Wrong and sexist.

If we're playing spot the sexist, ive found her. Do i get a prize?

Yup, same here.

I'm sorry, what is with the negative comments to Artsy here? Not everyone's brain works the same, if it is so easy to change how about other people doing some of it? Lots of neurodivergents struggle all day every day with a multitude of problems, because they think differently. You are telling her to grow up for simply asking others to share a bit of the making adaptions. I struggled a lot with this when I was young but did not know how to express it. In my teens and early 20's I thought I had it figured, but it was just because I was surrounded by people who thought like me. In early marriage I tried so very hard, I became exhausted and unwell. For a while, my husband tried to do everything for me, not ok either. Finally, we worked out together - if he adapted some of his speech in the home, I had enough energy to cope outside. It sounds odd to some, but it really is small things like this trash issue. Instead of 'you are low on petrol' saying 'you need to get petrol' massive help.

It can be changed if you put effort into it. And normally when you are younger you have other things on your mind or you don't care that much. But do not say 'it is how I am wired' because there are other tricks if you are not naturally mindful

Well of course someone *can*. But that's inactive.

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Yes it can. You need to grow up and stop excusing your bad behaviour with being absent minded

Because it's extremely obvious what it means. The trash is full - we can't fit anything else into the bag - the ONLY solution? Empty the trash. Why would you just point out the trash is full?

I don't want to be sending out commands all day because I see what needs to be done. I am not his mother

For some women, yes, apparently.

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THANK YOU ! And yes, it IS hard for women to say what they mean. They're born that way and can't help it.

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Makes you wonder if not being clear with communication, then reacting badly when thr other person doesn't understand them, is a tactic to create drama.

It might not be a question of genres. Like I said higher, it may depend on what each person is currently doing. If you notice this while cooking and your SO is chilling, ask for some help with the bin. That’s ok

OR you could grow the f up and take out the damn trash before you become the damn trash

Yours because you saw it first 🤣 Or, if the animal has a favorite, then that person has to clean it up.

If you noticed it first, clean it instead of trying to palm it off. My partner will say that the cat threw up on the floor but won't make any effort to clean it up, the exception being if I wasn't in the house.

Whoever wanted the dog, I suppose? You look after whatever you took responsibility for? Unless you both wanted it, then you alternate turns. We did that with diapers.

I think my husband might genuinely consider moving out before he would clean up that. It was something we talked about before getting a pet, so I am ok with it. However, he thinks cleaning up pet accidents is so bad, once done he thinks it's reasonable for me to go relax in the bath while he scrubs the kitchen, so I'm not complaining.

The first person who sees the mess cleans the mess

Whose dog is it? Who chose the dog, and was there an agreement reached on cleaning up after it?

Well, you noticed it so you clean it up.

Maybe they're doing other things and don't have time to take it out?

If you say the trash is full. Than you have had to see that the trash is full. Then why not take it out yourself when you see it's full

You don't know what to do with a trash that's full? Are you a baby?

Oh, you’ll know what to do when all the chores start to pile up

If that is the case, then the person who pointed it ALWAYS ends up doing it, since evidently the other adult in the house is incapable of noticing what needs attention.

what? How'd you get to that conclusion?

Not if you have a bad back, so take your honey and shove up your entitled azz

And this is why communication is important. My wife knows what I think is 'full' for the trashcan and if she notices it's above the level, she tells me. I take it out. We have a 33gal can for the house, so I know she can't lift the bag up and carry it out, so it's something I do.

I always clean up dog vomit because my husband starts gagging if he goes near it and then there will be more vomit do I don't mind doing it. He cleans up any s**t cause that makes me throw up

Okay, from now on we'll never notice it again. So who's going to take it out?

I always take out the trash when it's full. My husband I'd usually working or outside but when he sees Me carrying it he says just put it on the porch and he takes it to the bins. I would never leave it for him to do. If it's something I can't lift or need help with I will just ask. But otherwise this list is pretty much what I expected

That's the kind of incompetence men have been using forever to get out of doing basic work

Well, based in quite a few comments here it appears to be either sexism or an excuse to rant about men.

If they're sharing duties and that's one of the dude's duties...

A downvote! Wonderful ... evidence that somebody objects to sensible comments.