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Man Claims Charlie Kirk Bullied Him So ‘Relentlessly’ In High School That He Nearly Lost His Will To Live
Man speaking in a studio setting about Charlie Kirk bullying claims during high school affecting his will to live.
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Man Claims Charlie Kirk Bullied Him So ‘Relentlessly’ In High School That He Nearly Lost His Will To Live

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Online reaction to the assassination of conservative commentator Charlie Kirk has reached an unprecedented fever pitch.

As analysts warn of civil discourse in the United States reaching its breaking point, one man went viral by alleging that Kirk bullied him in high school and that, because of that, he doesn’t deserve sympathy for what transpired.

Highlights
  • A man’s post claiming Charlie Kirk bullied him to the brink of self-harm in High School gained over 20 million views.
  • Caputo later clarified he does not support the assassination, calling for the shooter to face justice.
  • The post divided the internet; some defended Caputo’s pain, others accused him of exploiting a death.

The post ignited a heated debate about accountability, human decency, and empathy in the face of someone’s passing.

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    It all began when a man going by the name of Nick Caputo posted an anecdote about his relationship with Charlie Kirk more than a decade ago, claiming that Kirk bullied him so severely in high school that it nearly drove him to self-harm.

    “Charlie Kirk bullied me relentlessly in high school to the point that I had an attempt before the age of 18,” Caputo wrote. “I feel sympathy for his wife and kids, and only them.”

    Man speaking into a microphone during a video recording addressing claims of bullying by Charlie Kirk in high school.

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    Caputo revealed that he had also lost his father at a young age, something Kirk allegedly knew yet still chose to torment him.

    “I also lost my father very young, something Charlie knew as he was giving me hell,” he continued. 

    “The only reason I want to go back in time to stop this from happening is because of his kids so they don’t have to experience that same thing.”

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    But despite expressing sympathy for the surviving family, Caputo left no room for forgiveness.

    “But I will never, under any circumstances, feel sympathy for this terrible person.”

    The post quickly went viral, amassing more than 20.9 million views, over 1,900 replies, and nearly 500 quote reposts. 

    The post struck a chord with Kirk’s detractors, as well as those who went through similar experiences in their youth

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    Caputo’s post resonated with others who claim to have had similarly painful high school experiences, going as far as to applaud him for speaking out.

    “Why am I not surprised Kirk was a bully?” a user wrote. “As someone who was bullied in my youth, I feel empathy for you, rather than for the person who disdained empathy.”

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    The post reached those who knew Caputo personally.

    “I remember your dad and uncle both passing away when we were in Middle school,” a user wrote, confirming the story. 

    “I didn’t know Charlie was actively picking on you and drove you that far. I’m sorry… I wish that could’ve been prevented.”

    The post was widely criticized by those who felt the author was putting his grief above someone’s assassination

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    On the other hand, many questioned Caputo’s motives and the timing of his bullying anecdote.

    “Give it a rest already. Most of us had shitty childhoods and were bullied endlessly. I was and I wouldn’t wish harm on any of those kids now adults by the way. We aren’t those people anymore,” a user wrote.

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    In the same vein, others accused Caputo of excusing the lethal violence exerted upon Kirk, putting his own high school trauma ahead of an armed attack.

    “So because your feelings were hurt as a child, you think what happened to Charlie is somehow okay?” another asked. 

    “Do you really believe they deserved what they went through just because they might have hurt someone’s feelings as kids?”

    Caputo clarified his stance, condemning the shooter and calling for their arrest

    Man in blue shirt and checkered jacket speaking during an interview about Charlie Kirk bullying claims.

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    The intensity of the conversation forced Caputo to respond directly, adding nuance to what his critics saw as a cold, incendiary post.

    “You will never hear me say that he deserved what he got,” he clarified.

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    He later followed up with a statement condemning the shooter outright:

    “The shooter should be charged with first-degree m*rder and sentenced appropriately under Utah state law. He was also a terrible person. And I look forward to this chapter being closed.”

    Man sitting on stage wearing a blue checkered suit, representing Charlie Kirk in a public speaking event.

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    Despite the clarification, critics remained unconvinced. To them, Caputo’s tone had already crossed a line.

    “This is a weak person trying to reframe an assassination as karmic justice because someone allegedly bullied them a decade ago,” one user wrote.

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    “Empathy,” Netizens debated on the meaning of the word in delicate situations like this

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    Abel Musa Miño

    Abel Musa Miño

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    Born in Santiago, Chile, with a background in communication and international relations, I bring a global perspective to entertainment reporting at Bored Panda. I cover celebrity news, Hollywood events, true crime, and viral stories that resonate across cultures. My reporting has been featured on Google News, connecting international audiences to the latest in entertainment. For me, journalism is about bridging local stories with global conversations, arming readers with the knowledge necessary to make up their own minds. Research is at the core of my work. I believe that well-sourced, factual storytelling is essential to building trust and driving meaningful engagement.

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    Abel Musa Miño

    Abel Musa Miño

    Writer, Entertainment News Writer

    Born in Santiago, Chile, with a background in communication and international relations, I bring a global perspective to entertainment reporting at Bored Panda. I cover celebrity news, Hollywood events, true crime, and viral stories that resonate across cultures. My reporting has been featured on Google News, connecting international audiences to the latest in entertainment. For me, journalism is about bridging local stories with global conversations, arming readers with the knowledge necessary to make up their own minds. Research is at the core of my work. I believe that well-sourced, factual storytelling is essential to building trust and driving meaningful engagement.

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    Laura Lawson
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold the unpopular opinion that just because someone has died, it doesn't miraculously make them a good person. 'Don't speak ill of the dead' my àss! If they were a rotten human human being in life, then they should be remembered as a rotten human being. I don't condone the method of his death & this man at least was kind & empathetic enough to offer condolences to his family, but from the sounds of things, it doesn't seem that Kirk grew up past his bullying days. Hopefully he learns in his next life. My father once said 'you can't hate someone with cançer' & was shocked when I said why not? The person in question was a horrible bìtch & having cells multiplying at a rapid rate didn't change that. Death & illness doesn't change the fact that shìt people are shìt people.

    Shortstuff
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amazing how a bad egg suddenly becomes an angel when they die!

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    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Enough with this guy already, he was a stupid journalist, not the effing Prince of Wales.

    Valis Keogh
    Community Member
    1 month ago

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    l;ert me do you a HUGE favor here, by attempting to educate you just a smidge, so tha tyou dontt look like a mindless absorber of twitter and bluesky, an entity free of any thoughtts of it's own. watch some of these. just some. like 6 at least. then have an opinion. because when you dont know jack s**t about something, you really shouldn't have an opinion https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLA_iFrMEWwEyVFrdiVAPUe5xtL3dgPYwK&si=wKo0-EG0K5g9biLi

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    Kate Johnson
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was not a hero. He was not a martyr. I certainly don't think he deserved to be killed. But I will not pretend he was a good person because he was killed. I don't find his death any more tragic than the multitude of victims of gun violence in a country who simply won't do anything to stop it. As long as we do nothing, nothing will change.

    Valis Keogh
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    l;ert me do you a HUGE favor here, by attempting to educate you just a smidge, so tha tyou dontt look like a mindless absorber of twitter and bluesky, an entity free of any thoughtts of it's own. watch some of these. just some. like 6 at least. then have an opinion. because when you dont know jack s**t about something, you really shouldn't have an opinion https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLA_iFrMEWwEyVFrdiVAPUe5xtL3dgPYwK&si=wKo0-EG0K5g9biLi

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    Laura Lawson
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold the unpopular opinion that just because someone has died, it doesn't miraculously make them a good person. 'Don't speak ill of the dead' my àss! If they were a rotten human human being in life, then they should be remembered as a rotten human being. I don't condone the method of his death & this man at least was kind & empathetic enough to offer condolences to his family, but from the sounds of things, it doesn't seem that Kirk grew up past his bullying days. Hopefully he learns in his next life. My father once said 'you can't hate someone with cançer' & was shocked when I said why not? The person in question was a horrible bìtch & having cells multiplying at a rapid rate didn't change that. Death & illness doesn't change the fact that shìt people are shìt people.

    Shortstuff
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amazing how a bad egg suddenly becomes an angel when they die!

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    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Enough with this guy already, he was a stupid journalist, not the effing Prince of Wales.

    Valis Keogh
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    l;ert me do you a HUGE favor here, by attempting to educate you just a smidge, so tha tyou dontt look like a mindless absorber of twitter and bluesky, an entity free of any thoughtts of it's own. watch some of these. just some. like 6 at least. then have an opinion. because when you dont know jack s**t about something, you really shouldn't have an opinion https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLA_iFrMEWwEyVFrdiVAPUe5xtL3dgPYwK&si=wKo0-EG0K5g9biLi

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    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was not a hero. He was not a martyr. I certainly don't think he deserved to be killed. But I will not pretend he was a good person because he was killed. I don't find his death any more tragic than the multitude of victims of gun violence in a country who simply won't do anything to stop it. As long as we do nothing, nothing will change.

    Valis Keogh
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    l;ert me do you a HUGE favor here, by attempting to educate you just a smidge, so tha tyou dontt look like a mindless absorber of twitter and bluesky, an entity free of any thoughtts of it's own. watch some of these. just some. like 6 at least. then have an opinion. because when you dont know jack s**t about something, you really shouldn't have an opinion https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLA_iFrMEWwEyVFrdiVAPUe5xtL3dgPYwK&si=wKo0-EG0K5g9biLi

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