“Search The Most Deadly Places First”: 35 Facts That Could Help Save Someone’s Life One Day
InterviewOne of the best skills you can learn in life is staying cool as a cucumber in emergency situations. While everyone else around is panicking, you’re collected and know exactly what to do. You take charge. You calm everyone down. You lead them out of the crisis.
Reddit user u/Accidentallyupvotes1 sparked an important discussion on the r/AskReddit forum. They invited everyone to share the facts that could end up potentially saving a person’s life. We’ve collected the most important ones. You might find some of these insights and suggestions new. Meanwhile, others are a good refresher for all of us.
Bored Panda reached out to the author of the viral thread, u/Accidentallyupvotes1, and they were happy to answer our questions and share their thoughts. You'll find their insights as you scroll down.
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If you can’t find you kid in your house, don’t search common places they would be. Search the most deadly places; pools, freezes, washing machines and dryers. Seconds count and if they are hiding under the table for an extra minute, who cares.
Also, as both a mom and a former cat mom, don't ever skip a place bc "they couldn't get in there anyway" or 'they couldn't have opened this". Yes, they can.
My cat got into our gun safe at one point. We still don’t really know how it happened. Obviously it had to have been open and he got in before it was closed and he somehow wasn’t seen. We couldn’t find him and heard meowing… he was fine and is almost 15 now
Load More Replies...Or that horrible story where the toddler was found between the mattress and bed frame wrapped in his blanket. That was a scary story
When I was 3, I was playing hide and seek with my cousin. I went to the basement and crawled in a 1950s refrigerator (the ones that could only be opened from the outside). Everyone went looking for me. My Dad found me in there. I would have been dead if I had been in there much longer. As soon as I was conscious and doing ok, my Dad and uncle drug that old fridge out of the basement and took the door off.
First yell "treaties!" and if they don't come running be extra quick to find them fast!
Be sure to check any five-gallon (20-litre) buckets. Toddlers topple over in them and suffocate/drown because their heads are too heavy for them to get out.
I found my 3 year old son in the basement, in the chest freezer, but luckily the freezer was full of food and he was just sitting on top of the frozen food unharmed-- if the freezer had been empty it could have been a tragedy, the lid would have closed on him and it would have been too late. So many close calls with my youngest--luckily he has made it to adulthood without injury.
But (unfortunately) sensible. I would not have thought of that method and it sounds 10x smarter.
Load More Replies...Apple has a great item called an Air Tag that you can tape to your youngster's ankle...all kidding aside, this is a very important post. Parents, be sure to point out to your kids in general, places they should not be when they are alone or playing a hiding game. Set the smart rules always...
Just because someone rings your doorbell, doesn't mean you have an obligation to answer.
I work at a small bar with two other people. my boss and I were discussing the other day that a pet day should be allowed for example she has four cats. I have two. And if they’re laying on you and you don’t wanna get up to go to work because obviously your pets are laying on you and want attention. You should absolutely be allowed to call off! I mean it will never happen, but it sounded good
Load More Replies...My neighbor’s house got broken in to when she didn’t answer the doorbell! The robbers rang the doorbell to check if anyone was home and when no one answered they smashed a window and entered the house - luckily they ran off when she came down to check what was happening. Since then I never ignore the doorbell - I might not open the door but I at least ask who it is
I was coming to comment this. I work in juvenile corrections and the kids told me this. They’ll ring a doorbell before breaking into a house to so if anyone is home. If someone answers they just ask if ___ is home and are told they have the wrong house. They aren’t looking for a confrontation or to physically hurt someone, they just want a come up (not that it’s good, it’s just different).
Load More Replies...I get downright indignant if someone knocks on my door without texting first. Most times don't even answer.
That makes no sense. What if the person doesn’t have your number, or it’s a postman?
Load More Replies...Thank God for Ring cameras. numerous neighbors have been able to notify my community of strangers walking up to their doors for no apparent justifiable reason as a result of seeing video footage of the strangers, walking up to their doors, trying to break in, attempting to steal their cars, etc. !
Remembers me a chapter of the IT crowd when Moss say he never answered to a ring bell, I didn't do it since I was a child . I don't care nothing if I m not expecting nothing so if someone ring my bell I will not answer . How you doing Buddy? ☺️☺️☺️
Load More Replies...Well I will certainly open the door. Could be delivery, could be a lottery win, who knows. But just because you opened the door doesn't mean you have to invite someone in or hold a longer conversation. "Not interested, have a nice day" is a perfectly acceptable way to end a conversation.
You don’t need to open the door do get the information you need or to tell someone to have a nice day. Opening the door to a stranger is foolish.
Load More Replies...I never do it . I don't care who rings my place is sacred so I never answer
If you fall through the ice... the dark spot is the way out. The sun reflects off the ice surface. The spot you entered has no ice or reflection, so will be dark ... opposite what we would naturally think
BIG WORD OF ADVICE: Do not try to walk over a frozen river or lake. Just don't let yourself get in the situation in teh first place. Seriously. It's not worth the "LIKES".
This picture gives me the creeps. Thanks, I hadn't had nightmares for a while now, I'll enjoy the change. (not...)
Lakes and ponds might provide you with the opportunity that this article points out but what can we do if there is a current moving us away from the hole we fell into?
If I hadn't had a plow on my four-wheeler I'd have gone through. It caught the ice.
Staying calm under stress has a lot of different factors associated with it. But broadly speaking, there are a few main aspects. The first one is your ability to be aware of and regulate your emotions when things get tough. Secondly, you have to know what to do in these emergency situations—it’s a question of information. And third of all, you have to have at least some sort of practical experience dealing with the situations in question.
If you only have a theoretical knowledge of what to do when there’s an emergency, you might be too shocked to put any of those ideas into practice. Similarly, even if you’re decent at not giving in to stress, you might still feel lost because you don’t know what to do in that particular situation.
You should still attempt to dial 911 in an emergency even if you have no bars of signal. There are protocols that allow your phone to bounce signals off any tower available, including military/first responder ones and towers not on your network in the event that you attempt to call 911.
I once had my car break down on a mountain in a rural area my cousin and I called several times and it just simply wouldn't even ring. Very scary night.
Bonus fact. Phones with no sim cards can still call 911. Also gps is a separate chip and doesn't rely on the phone being connected to a network. So you can use that on an inactive phone too.
It's called Enhanced 911 and it came out after September 11th. There were people buried in the rubble who were trying to call out for hours after the collapse of the towers. It took too long for the cell companies to work together to locate them and they died.
It's 999 in the UK, but 112 also works. You don't even need a SIM card in the phone.
Load More Replies...Though it has 112 likes now (emergency number here in EU), I gave it one more.
Load More Replies...Triple Zero (000) is Australia's primary telephone number to call for assistance in life threatening or time critical emergency situations. Dialling 112 directs you to the same Triple Zero (000) call service and does not give your call priority over Triple Zero (000).
Yes. Even a phone that is not registered to a service provider call still call 911. That’s one reason why old cell phones shouldn’t be given to kids as toys.
Load More Replies...What about Deaf people - can we text 911 even if there is no bars? Will responders text back?
if it feels wrong, it probably is. trust that gut feeling, it’s there for a reason.
It really is amazing to think about, just how much is going on in your brain, that you don't even think about, it's just happening in the background. Everything that is picked up by your senses, is constantly being processed and filed. Truly mind blowing 🤯 Also I may or may not have recently consumed my prescribed medication. 🫠
This is so true. There's an online game I like to play, called "Connections" (NYT daily). I usually look at it, review all the items, then leave the site and do other stuff. When I eventually return, the answers just seem to pop out. I know it's because my brain was working on it in the background while I was doing other stuff.
Load More Replies...This is good advice if you're chemically balanced. But if you have chronic anxiety, OCD or paranoid delusions for example, this doesn't help at all.
That's one of the scary parts of anxiety disorder that I didn't even realise until mine was gone. We lose our sense of danger, because everything feels like danger and we ignore it. I did not assess risk well at all when I had anxiety disorder.
Load More Replies...I've found this is true with first impressions too. I don't know y I get the feeling but I don't question it anymore, just trust it.
I second that, agree with you 100%, and I have that book which I have read over and over many times.
Load More Replies...Politeness, social conventions and niceties get people to ignore these feelings and go along with requests they don’t want to—it’s okay to be rude, say no or be non-accommodating if uncomfortable with a situation
I always tell my transgender child and her partner "If it feels wrong--carry on" meaning if that vibe in you is signaling, get the hell out!!
I highly recommend reading The Gift of Fear. It explains why we sense danger even if we don't see it. Our bodies are picking up subconscious feedback that is telling our brain something is wrong. Always trust "your gut". It's not some mythical sixth sense it your brain trying to keep you safe.
All of us are descendants of countless generations of humans who survived deadly situations because they were able to recognize danger and act quickly enough to escape it. We all inherited that, the subconscious ability to assess a situation that the higher executive functions of the brain aren't even aware of. Trust your instincts. They are real.
You don’t owe an explanation about why you’re leaving a situation. You say I’m leaving, then you get yourself out of there.
Teach your kids that if they're ever separated from you to find any closest adult (in emergencies). The likelihood of THE next person you would walk up to being a [predator] are slim to none. But the odds increase dramatically waiting for the first person to approach a child alone.
I usually told them an adult with kids, since I would most likely lose them in a place that had kids.
Yes, and we have a safe word. If an adult approaches my kids and says Mom or Dad send them they have to know the safe word, otherwise I asked my children to run and scream.
Load More Replies...I used to tell my kids to find a woman. No hate to men, but women are statistically safer.
=( even with my son around it's why I feel extremely self conscious trying to help kids on the playground and such
Load More Replies...Mums with kids. Statistically very low chance of being predator hand high chance of them being willing to help a child.
In the 80s there was a book and audio program called The Safety Kids and it had songs to advise children on what to do. The song for this one said "look for a grandma or mother with children." We all still know those songs by heart.
I tell my kids to tell people Dad has a particular set of skills and he will find you.
When my middle son got old enough to learn it, I taught him that if he was lost, to find a policeman and tell him his name and phone number. Shortly afterward we went to the beach and he sees a policeman and immediately runs to him and tells him his name and phone number. Then cop thought it was cute and praised me for teaching him to do that, though of course, he wasn't lost at the time.
Also - make a scene! Yell if you have to. If there is no danger, people will understand and help you. If there is danger, a predator will think twice since he knows people will look for him. Do not be afraid that people will judge you for making a scene. They usually won't and the alternative of something happen to your kid os worst.
It’s probably a good idea that you and your loved ones know what to do in case of more common emergencies. For example, if there’s a fire at home. Running through some roleplaying exercises can cement this in everyone’s minds.
It’s why you have fire drills at schools and some companies. You’re putting all of that knowledge into practice so that if things do go wrong, you don’t panic. You stay calm. You don’t stick around for your valuables. You head out the door after making sure that your loved ones are with you.
Driving is not a race or "game" that you have to win. There are no prizes.
Some poor saps get no wins in their lives other than beating at least one person to the stoplight. Sad isn't it?
....as the one they beat pulls up next to them at the light.
Load More Replies...Sadly I have to say I saw too many deaths in the road. Many things I don't wanna remember . Don't be jerks driving , former truck driver here .
Two words that will save your life. “Slow down.” I’m a truckers wife
Load More Replies...If traffic is going 60mph, and driving aggressively lets you do 65mph, over a half hour journey, you are going to save 2 minutes and 30 seconds at best. If you're already running late, you aren't going to make up the time by speeding. Saving a couple of minutes isn't worth risking your life for. Or anyone elses.
The minuscule amount of time saved on the road is lost when they have to stop for gas an extra time as well.
Load More Replies...Are you the pokey person I get stuck behind all the time, who can't even go the speed limit?
Yeah, notice nobody on here is writing "I go 5-10 mph under the speed limit" yet there are so many of those people. Those are the morons I'm passing and yeah, I typically DO make the green light when they get stuck at it for driving like a slow moron. A sloron, if you will.
Load More Replies...I'm not exactly slow on the highway, but that Ricky Racer tailgating me? I move over and let them by the moment I can. Rather have that unsafe fool in front of me.
The rocks from a river absorb water. When rapidly heated it causes the absorbed water to boil much quicker than steam can escape the rock. This buildup of steam causes the rock to explode, sending hot rock fragments everywhere.
So don't use rocks from a river to make a fire pit.
Yeah, shouldn't build a sauna oven using regular rocks from your yard.
We use only river rocks for sauna oven (kiuas). They are the best quality. But sure they have to be washed well and heated slowly the first time using.
Load More Replies...I learned this the hard way sending shrapnel flying at a party. No one was injured thankfully. The guy that helped me build it was a damn geologist but was so high he forgot how rocks worked and happily explained after the fact how we shouldn't have used thise rocks.
Watch out for old ricks and masonry that mat be waterlogged too. I've also seen concrete pop too so don't use that either.
Less of a danger issue but this general idea is also why mud bricks, ceramics and some other kiln fired items are first given a slow / lower heating to remove moisture prior to a high temp bake so the steam does not crack them. But that's more obvious in something that started as mud or a slurry. You don't normally think of rocks as 'sponges'.
Wool is warmer than anything that feels warm, even when wet.
Got a vintage wool sweater made in New Zealand recently. Nothing beats it.
Silk has similar properties as both are hollow fibers and therefore natural insulators.
Load More Replies...Can concur. Just had a wonderful day taking winter pictures outside and with wool socks, shirt, scarf and hat I was comfy outside for hours. Of course it was only -10°C so a nice weather too
That's what it is here today. I'm trying to motivate to go see if I can get my car out of the driveway... wish I had some wool!
Load More Replies...I love my wool sweaters. They are warm. They are natural and aren’t discharging microplastics during their wash, wear, and production. It’s a good product to wear as it’s warm even when wet but also sheds water when it gets wet. It’s also safe to wear in places where fire might be a concern. when wet but burns in a self extinguishing manner. In other words it will burn when exposed to flame but not keep burning.
It's a thing in the Pacific NW where people wear wool socks with sandals cause they stay warm in the rainy climate, even soaking wet.
Also, try very, very hard never to fall into a body of water while wearing wool. Wool quickly absorbs 30% its own weight in water and can pull you right down, even if you can swim. (Fixed: thank you @2WheelTravlr for the correction!)
Wool absorbs 30% of its weight in water, not 3x. Prior to synthetics, swimsuits were made of wool.
Load More Replies...Meanwhile, if you live in a part of the world where hurricanes, earthquakes, or other natural disasters are commonplace, it only makes sense that you have an emergency plan… as well as a backup plan if the first one fails. The more you practice something, the more confident you become. The more confident you are, the less you’ll panic when you have to put your theoretical knowledge into action. You’re simply running through what the same process you’ve done time and again.
The fact of the matter is that we physically cannot be prepared for every possible eventuality. No matter how capable we are, we’ll still be surprised by what life throws at us. But we cannot chronically worry about that, being scared to even step outside our own homes.
My mom always taught me to count rows between your seat and the emergency exit. So if you can’t see where you are going you can feel where you are going. I’ll never forget that.
On Air New Zealand they have that in the safety video for exactly this reason.
This one is so important and so easy to understand, and can be used somewhat in other environments and situations (restaurants, night clubs, department stores, etc.). When you enter, look around for all exits and routes out and share your information with your family and/or mates. If you do this, you have improved your chances of being more safe than many others.
A very common problem in night-club fires. Instinctively, people will head to the door that they came in through.
Load More Replies...I always pay extra to sit on an emergency row, not to be the first out but to help in situations like this...
Same here and I even said I would ram the emergency door into the body of an aircraft and yank people out the door well SCREAMING at them to run as fast as they can away from the plane.
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I live in Canada, this only applies to cold climates. They are not dead until they are warm and dead. There are many cases where somebody got stuck outside and froze then doctor revived them.
I'm assuming you mean that don't have to literally be frozen solid, just very cold, so I don't know why you were downvoted.
Load More Replies...Not a human - but I experienced this once with a cat. Bought my house. Found three pretty young kittens under an abandoned car in cold weather. Two were alive and mewing sadly. (I think the sound is how I found them). the third kitten was 'dead'. I don't mean just unresponsive - it was stiff like rigor mortis had started to set in. I tucked it in my coat and brought it inside - was planning to bury it - but I needed to get something that slightly delayed me. As I was holding it, it moved just the tiniest bit. So tiny I thought I had imagined it but just weird enough that I paused inside my house and just stared at it for a while. After a bit it moved again - just the tiniest, tiniest bit. My focus changed from burying to warming and gradually the cat 'came back'. My neighbor was a veterinary assistant and found homes for them. That kitten and one of the other ones went to an older lady who wanted them and I assume they had a pretty good life.
Interesting! I wonder if it is a part of being a mammal. There is the Mammalian Diving Reflex as an example.
Load More Replies...Paramedic here...this applies with any hypothermia situation. You are not declared dead until you are warm and dead. Meaning that you have been brought to room temperature. This is especially true of drowning as your body has a reflex (Diving Reflex) that, in conjunction with hypothermia, can mean a full recovery with proper medical care. Unless, of course, you have findings incompatible with life. Think decapitation or similar.
I learned this from Grey's Anatomy, season 3, when Meredith goes into Elliot Bay and they bring her lifeless body back and the Chief says, "she's not dead til she's warm and dead".
EMT friend told me this. You could have been in a frozen river for days. Very dead. They'll bring you to the hospital to warm you up, then pronounce you dead.
A fifteen year old in Sweden was "dead", his heart had stopped, for six hours after he fell into freezing water. Yet he survived. He got permanent nerve and muscle damages but got another chance at life thanks to the cold climate and the emergency team knowing it wasn't over until it's over.
I also live in Canada and I have heard stories on the news about people surviving after freezing.
So if an adult falls in cold water and it takes you an hour to get them out, THEY ARE STILL ALIVE. They did not drown, they stopped breathing due to the cold. Get them to emergency.
Getting a second or even third opinion. You know yourself better than they do. If you don’t get answers please keep looking. Please don’t settle.
I love the internet because there is a wealth of medical publications and articles at my fingertips. So helpful!
Only if you have the capability to interpret and analyze that information. Plus the internet doesn't perform diagnostics
Load More Replies...This is so important. My husband was diagnosed with late stage pancreatic cancer, and the first doctor we went to said he wouldn't even consider surgery and that my husband should go home and get his affairs in order because he had about 3 months to live. We walked out of the appointment and I said bulls*#t, we are going to UCSF for a second opinion. Well, long story short, my husband is working on his 7th year cancer-free. He no longer has a pancreas, gall bladder or spleen, but he has a great life, and it is all thanks to an amazing surgeon and team of medical professionals who guided us through what needed to be done to get here. So, yes to second opinions!
On the other hand, you aren't a medical professional, just because you can look something up on the internet doesn't mean that it applies to you or that it is even correct. Between what multiple doctors have to say, and what you might read on the internet, would go with the doctors, they have a better track record. Yes, it isn't perfect, but it is better than a search on the internet or a YouTube video from someone that you have no idea what their qualifications are.
When my cousin got pregnant, the doctor she went to for a checkup told her it was an ectopic pregnancy & it should be terminated ASAP. She was devastated, but her mother dragged her to see another doctor who said, "That idiot's brain is an ectopic pregnancy that should be terminated. You are fine!!" That 'ectopic pregnancy' is now 29 years old.
On the flipside, if a doctor's telling you something and you don't believe it, take a moment to think about why that is. Are they telling you something you don't want to hear? (You'd be amazed how many people I've met who insist that the doctor who recommended that they quit smoking, or not take antibiotics for a cold, or for the love of god vaccinate their kid already, is clearly an idiot.) Also, don't lie to them. At best, it wastes your time and theirs. At worst, you could end up seriously ill or dead because the doc made decisions based on false information.
Oh, you mean like the ENT that demanded my kid get ear tubes after a cursory look. "you mind if I get a second opinion?" "nope get a 3rd, 4th, it's your money" . Daughter had a stapes fixation (requires surgery). Dr Spooner if you want to know (Michigan).
Also, even if you get answers, get a second opinion before making important decisions. Some doctors are stupid and some don't keep updated. Even with the best intentions, doctors are human, and humans make mistakes every now and then. Never get an operation or any other life-changing treatment without a second opinion.
We learn what we can. We practice what we can. And then, we focus on the other things in our lives that we can control. Like taking good care of our physical and mental health so that we’re fit and focused and better at surviving. Not to mention strengthening our relationships with people so that if things do turn out bad, we have a strong social network to lean on.
The discussion that redditor u/Accidentallyupvotes1 started is a vital one. Not only does it remind people that they should probably brush up on their emergency-handling knowledge, but it also works as a starting point for folks who have never considered the possibility of being in these situations before.
We were curious about what had inspired the OP to create the r/AskReddit thread in the first place. According to them, it was as much about curiosity as calming down their sense of worry about the world. "I have a minor case of anxiety," they opened up to us, adding that they "just wanted to learn some facts." As it turns out, they have a lot in common with other redditors.
If you're at the beach and the water recedes suddenly, run and get to the highest ground you can find. A Tsunami is on the way
The easiest rule is know the precursors to any event. If you can see the tsunami its too late.
No it’s not. Never assume it’s too late. Just going to the first floor of any hard building can save your life.
Load More Replies...When they had that big tsunami in southeast asia a few years ago, there was a tourist family that was saved because their third-grade daughter had learned this exact fact in school and recognized that a tsunami was coming early enough to get them all to safety.
It's gonna be 20 years this year... but it feels like it was just a few years ago to me too
Load More Replies...Although when the 2004 Indian ocean tsunami hit, a lot of the locals in many countries went onto the beaches because they were intrigued by the water going out. They went to collect stranded fish.
Load More Replies...It's also wise to obey warning signs at beaches. These signs are not there to ruin your fun... they're there to protect you. Once saw one in front of a vacation resort... a quick Google showed it was prone to rogue waves and had randomly killed people of various ages / swim experience when it caught them off guard and swept them out to sea...
Recognize weird cloud formations too. I was at the beach and saw this one particular cloud formation I had seen during a derecho a few years earlier. It was otherwise beautiful and sunny, but I had just enough time to warn my incredulous family about the sudden gust of wind about to slam us. I'm sure we looked crazy tearing the umbrellas down and covering the babies, but sure enough that wind raced down the beach like a wave. We huddled to avoid the dozens of umbrellas flying by. I personally saw one slam point-first into the sand just a foot or so from an older woman who had been knocked down by the leading edge of the wind.
I second that! I remember seeing the clouds rotating in the sky over the family farm near Beulah, Manitoba, Canada on July 2014. A small town not far from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada was evacuated just before a tornado destroyed it.
Load More Replies...So I shouldn't stand there and take selfies. Is that what you're saying?
Choking is silent. If they’re coughing, they’re not actually choking. If someone goes silent and starts pointing to their neck, start the Heimlich maneuver.
If it's a baby/toddler/small child choking, instead of the Heimlich (go to hug choking person from behind, one hand over the other with the bottom hand a fist at just below ribcage level, and jerk INWARDS and UP several times in succession), you want to sit down, flip the kid face-down over your knee, and bang their back with an upward (relative to them) striking motion just below the level of their shoulder blades (having them face-down like this means gravity works with you here).
EVERYBODY should know basic First Aid. It should be taught at school, instead of soooo much rubbish kids learn. Learning how to do somersaults, unless you are interested or want to work in a circus, it's totally useless, but learning how to help somebody who's choking could save a life.
Load More Replies...If you're in a restaurant and start to choke, or get food caught so that it makes you cough, STAY AT THE TABLE. Many people in this situation are embarrassed or worried that they'll vomit, so they head to the restroom - where they then choke to death because there's no one there to help them. Learned this one from a police officer who said the bathroom is where they find most choking victims in restaurants.
You can also perform the Heimlich maneuver on yourself if you're alone. You've only got a couple of minutes before oxygen deprivation renders you unconscious, so act fast when you realise what's happening. Make a fist with one hand, put that against your upper abdomen and grab your wrist with your other hand, and thrust/pull your fist in, as though you're trying to get under your breastbone. Alternatively, fall against the top of a chair, railing or table edge, with the edge aimed at your upper abdomen.
Be aware that a person can be unable to breath, talk, or cough, from just a small crumb of something stuck in the wrong place. Happened to me. I partially inhaled a small crumb of a dinner roll. Coughed, couldn't inhale, passed out briefly. I think when I passed out, my throat muscles went limp, allowing my epiglottis to relax so I could take in air. Heimlich would not have helped in that situation.
First make the person try to cough, then bang their back hard 5 times (between the shoulder blades) to make them have a cough reflex, then Heimlich maneuver (quick and hard), repeat until unconsciousness (then CPR). Source= Red cross certification
If someone comes at you with a weapon and tells you to go with them, DO NOT. Never go to the second location.
Ok, well how do you prevent them from not taking you, to the second location?
Best way is to draw attention to yourself. Scream, yell "police" or "fire", physically fight back like your life depends on it because it might. If they get into your car and threaten you, then crash it into the closest sturdy object like a tree. You'll survive a car crash but the chances of surviving if taken to a second location are slim to none and they'll most likely do terrible things to you before they off you too.
Load More Replies...I went to a gun range while vacationing in Texas. One thing I learned is it is WAY harder to hit a target than I ever thought it would be. (And even with ear protection - WAY louder.) Take the chance with the bullet if you can run away.
Never run in a straight line though, try to get cover between you and the muzzle and keep in mind that most pistols have rather low range on which they are precise (from my experience with guns)
Load More Replies...As nasty as it is, if I were in such a situation; I’d use my ostomy bag as a weapon … no one wants to get 💩 on them, so the moment they reel back in disgust, that’s when you get away as fast as possible! As disgusting as it is, there’s no room for decency when your life is on the line. So, if THEY’RE playing dirty; it’s only fair that you get to respond in kind! 😏🤷♀️😂
My wife and I call this "don't get in the van". There's no guarantee that you will survive, but you might at least avoid some truly horrible experience your attackers had planned for you before your death.
FIght for your life at the first location! If they have a gun, run away in a zigzag formation! Thanks Oprah!!
Zigzag is not all that good, you need to run in an erratic pattern so that they can't guess where your next position will be.
Load More Replies...Jocko always says that running away is a great defense. Most random attackers/robbers won't chase after you. Make noise and run!
This is also what the teach you at Krav Maga classes.
Load More Replies...Kick them in the balxx and run. It is usually a man coercing you. Or, poke them in the eyes. Or both.
a punch to the throat is always a good option, of the palm of your hand into their nose.
Load More Replies...If an attacker wants to take you to a secondary location, it's usually so they can rape, torture, and kill you. Better to risk being stabbed or shot in public where there's a chance they'll be scared off and you'll get help.
Torture and murder is very rare and more often happens by someone the victim knows than random strangers. That is not what usually happens with abductions but a fate worse than torture and death is the attacker is part of a human trafficking ring and one gets sold off for slavery.
Load More Replies...Learning to stay calm in emergency situations really is easier said than done. We were curious to get the thread author's take on this. They shared their perspective on how anyone can handle these sorts of unexpected situations better.
In u/Accidentallyupvotes1's opinion, the key is learning to control your breathing. They suggested that people slow down their breathing and focus on taking deeper breaths. This should help them calm down and stay in control when things get stressful.
The OP urged everyone to take a "deep breath" and then strongly exhale, as though they were trying to "blow out a candle." Repeat this as necessary.
If your kid gets kidnapped, don’t teach them to say “help”. Teach them to say something like “who the f**k are you, you’re not my f*****g dad, f**k you.” That’s gonna turn a lot more heads and get you actual help a lot quicker.
Yelling Stranger is a lot more acceptable than teaching a young child to swear freely.
If their life is in danger, acceptable doesn’t matter.
Load More Replies...I'm not sure how I feel about this one. On one hand, who cares if a child is using profanity, safety first and drawing attention is necessary in any way possible. On the other hand, is that the right way to draw attention? By that I mean, would the child's profanity and saying things like 'you're not my F'ing dad and F you' come across as an obstinate brat with perhaps a step-dad or something? Would yelling 'Stranger' or 'Leave me alone, I don't know you' draw attention more inclined to intervene? I really don't know.
Yeah, that's my feeling too. If I was out and a child started shouting that someone was a stranger and they needed help, my first reaction would be concern. If I hear a child yelling f*ck you etc, my first reaction would probably be to think "I can't believe they let their child talk to them like that". It gets your attention, but I'm guessing it it also a lot easier to dismiss as something other than an abduction.
Load More Replies...A good tip that helps finding a missing child: Cassualy take a picture if you''re on a trip, if you need to report your child missing you have a picture with the clothes they are wearing that day
Unless it’s a child predator. Chances are better they have a change of clothes on hand and will quickly cut a child’s hair to alter their appearance further.
Load More Replies...And in public, this is more likely to get a passing glance and when the adult involved says something like, that’s enough of that you’re going straight to bed when we get home…. child will be gone without another thought from those around.
Load More Replies...Only until the adult says something like that’s enough of that you’re going straight to bed when we get home… everyone around will believe the adult is with the child and the child is just a brat. Boom, child gone. Sure hope your delicate sensibilities will comfort you while you allow a child to be taken. Way to go
Load More Replies...Also, if there are people around, the kid can ask for their help by specifically describing them: "lady with the blue dress! this man is not my dad!" It makes people feel directly responsible and there are higher chances for them to intervene.
Until the adult who can actually think faster on their feet says sorry to bother you, this child’s outbursts are becoming embarrassing. Hope your delicate sensibilities comfort you hours later when you find out about the kidnapping on the news. Way to go!
Load More Replies...lol unless your kid is an a*s and turns this into a weapon to use against you. I've heard many a story like that. But yes I agree.
Tbh, children throwing tantrums could just as easily accuse parents in public so they don’t have to go home yet. It doesn’t matter if it’s curse words or, hey lady in the blue dress this is not my dad. Kids will be kids. Kids acting out with extreme cursing and an air of emergency will attract far more attention and attention is what you as the child’s parent would absolutely want
Load More Replies...I taught a little girl I babysat for to tell at absolute top volume "No I won't touch your d**k!" Or vagina as the case may be. She looked like a cherub so I knew that would get a lot of looks and then help!
Teaching your children to do whatever is necessary to survive, be it cursing, eye gouging, biting, whatever, is perfectly acceptable.
If you get lost in the wilderness the best thing to do is to stay calm and stay put. Unless there is an immediate threat to your safety in the area, just sit down and wait for someone to come find you.
Many people die or get seriously injured because they keep moving and Search & Rescue can't catch up to them.
If your car get stuck in a blizzard, stay in your car. The car is easier to find for S&R than your frozen body in a snowdrift.
I always tell someone where I'm going and when I should be be back. I'm also prepared to spend a night in the woods because realistically the search party isn't coming until the next morning.
Always carry a whistle. It takes less energy to blow through a whistle than it does to yell for help.
Unfortunately this turned out very badly for Gerry Largay, which went missing on the Appalachian Trail. She stayed put but they never found her and she died waiting for rescue. Her body wasn't found for years. :(
Yes, she really could have survived if she did some things just a little different. She was under a tree so air rescue couldn't see her, there were edible plants around but she wasn't familiar with any, water nearby if she'd gone looking. She didn't take a decent compass, only a tiny one the size of a soft drink lid which was a bit dodgy and she had a gps which she left with her husband who was driving and meeting her at certain points, she was known to have poor direction sense. Prepare for the worst. I know when bushwalking for a few days you want to keep it light, but the extra x00g for a gps over a dodgy compass really could get you out of a pickle.
Load More Replies...And answer calls from unknown numbers. This is more likely the S&R team or a person connected to them than somebody trying to trick you
LOL, that person is an idiot. They deserved to stay lost!
Load More Replies...Before you go into the woods, make sure someone's knows where you will be and when you will be back. Someone who will check on you and call for help if you don't return!
If you must move (weather, night) leave a trail or an indicator which direction you took, and leave signs often. Rocks, sticks, anything that can be moved to show an arrow. Make this obvious.
If you get bit by a wild animal, get yourself to a hospital ASAP and tell them that. You don’t want rabies to set in.
Once you start showing symptoms of rabies, your life is over. It's really one of the most terrifying diseases I've ever heard about.
100% fatality once you show symptoms, from what I've heard.
Load More Replies...My brother in law picked up an injured bat with his bare hands like a pillock and it bit him. They made him to go all the way to London to get the rabies jabs because it's so rare they don't keep it in stock as standard.
Load More Replies...I guess the thing about rabies is that you can prevent until the symptoms start, which could take years sometimes. At that point, there is no cure so it's better to be safe and seek medical help even if the animal has no symptoms.
Yes, but rabies usually occurs with 24 hours or so after infection. And then you are dead (not actually yet, but you will 100% be so later). No one ever recovers from rabies.
Load More Replies...Opossums do not carry rabies and I've looked up that their bite is usually better than getting bit by other animals... long story there.
It's rare but not impossible for opossums to carry rabies. You should still seek medical help.
Load More Replies...And you have to get it NOW. once symptoms show you are 99.9999% DEAD ALREADY
Load More Replies...Raccoons are fawned over due to "cuteness" but they are 99.99999% evil, nasty, destructive, thieving, troublemaking c*nts
adorable evil, nasty, destructive, thieving, troublemaking c*nts.
Load More Replies...Yes, but sometimes a little delay is better if you get proper care. Was bitten by a feral, rabies infected dog abroad. Police shot it so we know it was infected. I was going home that day and didnt trust the quality of local healthcare. Rabies dont spread that fast, so 12 hours later I went from the airport to our main infectious disease unit that had up to date vaccines. Got treated, ended well except a scar on ly nose from the bite.
Not just a bite, but even a scratch. Rabies can be transmitted via a scratch from an animal with rabies. Don’t guess, see a doctor immediately!!!
Something that bothers a lot of people is how to balance living their lives with the fact that unexpected and unlucky events can happen to anyone.
Redditor u/Accidentallyupvotes1 admitted to Bored Panda that they're no different: they worry about the very same thing.
Though there's no silver bullet answer to this problem, the OP urged everyone to adopt the good old YOLO (you only live once) attitude. That means embracing the nuanced reality of life, trying to live to the fullest, and living purposefully every day, no matter what.
What emergencies do you personally feel you're capable of tackling, dear Pandas? Have you ever had to save another person's life? If you're feeling up to it, feel free to leave a comment at the bottom of this article. Meanwhile, for some more facts that might help you save someone else, you can peruse Bored Panda's earlier post.
If you've gone two and a half or more days without water, and you have to choose between drinking water without any way to sanitize it or not drinking water, drink the water. If you don't, you'll definitely die soon. Most of the diseases you can get from bad water take a couple days to set in, which gives you more time to find help.
Hopefully from running water that has large pebbles in it, as it will be cleaner than silty water
Load More Replies...If you can, don't drink the surface. We were taught to hold our hand over the mouth of the water bottle and submerge it as deep as we could and then fill it
Using moss will significantly filter a lot of even microscopic protozoa from *running* water
if you are on a desert island and not starting dehydrated, then lack of water will kill you in 3 days.. Sea water WILL destroy your kidneys but will live 7 or 8 days by drinking it - giving you longer to get rescued. Is it worth the risk? That's for you to decide.
Load More Replies...If you are also vomitting, that number goes down significantly. I wasn't able to keep water down for an extended period - after about 20 hours I went to the ER and they brought me in right away, but my kidneys still shut down. (They were able to get them working again, but it took 19 days and I had to go on dialysis in the meantime.)
Sounds gross, but drinking your own urine may save your life if you desperately need water.
No it won't. If you're at the state of dehydration your considering it then your urine is already as concentrated as your kidneys can make it. They can't get any more hydration from it.
Load More Replies...Urine is one of the things that is shown to never drink from how warm and “acidy” it is. I think it shows on a military webpage that you should never drink saltwater or your own urine.
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don't mix bleach with anything but water
This, I've heard so many stories of people being hospitalized due to mixing bleach with other common cleaners. Mixing then causes a toxic gas to be released and when inhaled, it can cause many serious symptoms and even death.
Chemist: That poisonous gas can be pure chlorine and yes, it will injure or kill you. Especially do not mix bleach with ammonia which produces chloramines (which are also really not good for you). FYI, some "bleaches" do not contain chlorine, but no need to run tests to find out.
Load More Replies...There's this tiktok trend where you mix various chemicals together in a glass and the joke is that you are preparing a toxic drink for a person who you hate (there is text on the screen explaining why) and allllll the comments on these videos are like noooooo don't do that you'll make mustard gas
Gen Z here, TikTok is well-meaning but turned bad about a year after it went viral.
Load More Replies...The trouble is, we can't be told which mixes are dangerous because if that was common knowledge peeps would do it deliberately. Never underestimate the power of human stupidity!
Yes you can? Literally google it, there's thousands of articles and infographics on the subject
Load More Replies...Especially in enclosed spaces: bathrooms, small kitchens or showers. Ever heard of chlorine gas?
Depending on the ratio you usually either get mustard gas or hydrazine (self- igniting rocket fuel) - both not very healthy
Bleach can mix with washing up liquid and washing machine detergent.
Am I the only one who learned this from an episode of "who's the boss"?
In fact, don’t put anything other than water and bleach in a container after ever using bleach once in it. The chlorine leaves a residue and will react months, even years later. Source: I’m lucky I caught on fast. Managed to open a window and go outside to give it a bit, held my breath and ran in and poured it down the drain. It was close.
Ahhh, the good ol' "mixing bleach and ammonia and dying of chlorine poisoning"
I mixed bleach with my toilet bowl cleaner and when I saw it foam, I immediately flushed it and ran out. I was also about 10 years old too. Never mixed again.
As soon as your car door is unlocked, relock it. People get back into their cars and fiddle with their wallet or whatever all with their car doors unlocked and it makes them an easy target.
I hate that my Honda unlocks the driver's door the moment the car is put in park. That's just dangerous.
*sometimes* there are ways to change this! Check your owners manual if it bothers you! I had an older truck do this and I could do a a few steps with the key and ignition that changed the code! And my newer car has settings I can go into through a menu (wild!). Anyway, never hurts to look! Could be very helpful if it's applicable.
Load More Replies...Jeez, is this normal behaviour somewhere? I pity people that live in such a world. Would never occur to me to lock my doors when I'm driving.
My Dad taught me to drive years ago, and always said not to lock my doors because if I was in a crash it can make it harder for emergency services to get to you.
Load More Replies...This is another smart thing I share with my family and friends. LOCK THE DANG DOORS IMMEDIATELY! In today's environment where bad guys follow you to your car at shopping centers, grocery stores, etc., quickly unload your items, get in, lock the doors, then maybe you can think about the b.s. with your phone, reviewing your receipt or daydreaming about that item you really, really wanted to buy during this trip. But the point is "Git to Stepping" and go HOME safely, by not giving bad guys another target.
The thing is, this idea that "bad guys follow you to your car" isn't really a thing in most of the world where there's shopping centres and grocery stores. Most of the worries about that sort of thing are just scaremongering. I mean, think about it: why would "bad guys" be following a normal person going about normal everyday business? Yes, it's a thing in some places, but if you live in that kind of place, you REALLY know about it already. Everywhere else? Relax, it's not a problem. For reference: once upon a time a long time ago, I did live somewhere that risky.
Load More Replies...I live about 30 minutes away from where two women were taken from their cars, one door had been locked (they broke her window) the other hadn't....they were both assaulted and killed. They were sitting in their car fiddling with their phones so the police said to use a safety tactic called the '45 second rule'. As soon as you get in your car lock the doors, put on your seatbelt, start it and leave. That text/email/tweet can wait!
Take your car key out of your pocket/purse before you leave so that you do not have to look for it in the parking lot
If you get caught in a rip current, don’t fight it. It won’t pull you under. People die because they panic, fight it, and get tired and then drown.
When you can, swim parallel to the shore out of the rip and then diagonally back to shore.
EDIT: I’m taking out the part about “let it take you out” because people bring up a point below that you should start swimming parallel immediately. I just meant you shouldn’t fight it and swim against straight back to shore. That’s not going to end well. Stay safe out there everyone!
Knowing this saved my life. I'm a very good swimmer but I just couldn't get back, and I very quickly felt exhausted. I had to swim 400 meters further, parallel to the shore, to get out of the current. That was very frightening.
Also learn to recognise them. https://www.9news.com.au/national/how-to-spot-a-rip-take-the-test-to-see-if-you-know-how-to-spot-a-rip-at-the-beach-with-tips-from-life-saving-victoria/39a7956e-0a74-4975-9616-8b2721d68bf4
I missed two; one of them I had it right at first, then changed my mind. Of course, it's probably a lot easier to spot in an aerial photo like these than when you're standing on the shore.
Load More Replies...Yupp. Got caught in one once when I was a kid and tried to get back against the current. Luckily, I remembered this lesson from... uh, somewhere, idk where. My parents didn't even notice that I had trouble getting back to shore so I was really glad I remembered it.
There's a whole campaign in Australia about this - teaching people to float and not panic.
Don't frantically wave your arms to attract attention--that will cause you to sink. Arms in water = positive bouyancy. Just go with the flow. Riptides are short-duration phenomena.
Oh, but what can you do if you are in the water but you don't know how to swim? I almost drowned once, and try to stay away from the water ever since but one never knows
Please, take swimming lessons 🙏. You could fall into water at any time and a few lessons will help you to at least stay alive and get out
Load More Replies...CPR requires a flat surface! When Michael Jackson died, it was mentioned on the news that someone tries CPR with him on his bed. My mom said, "You're just pushing the mattress up and down!"
Also don't be afraid to break a rib - A broken rib can be fixed, death can't be reversed and you can't get sued either for the injury
Why they put a board under you in the hospital bed if you’re going into cardiac arrest
For an average sized adult, the minimum depth that's needed for effective chest compressions is 5cm (2 inches). You have to push very hard to get the breastbone pushed in by 2 inches. Doing CPR is exhausting if you're doing it right-its hard work. It's not the floppy-armed stroking that you see on TV shows, you have to lock your elbows and get your upper body weight behind it. In hospitals, there is a mechanical CPR aid called a "thumper." It looks like a mini pile driver, or one of those machines used to tamp down stones and asphalt on road repairs.
CPR gets done in beds and stretchers. Best thing is to continue CPR if you cannot move them safely and adjust compressions.
Don’t pull a knife or anything else out of a puncture wound. The object may very well be keeping you from bleeding out, only a medical professional should remove something stuck in you.
I'm pretty sure the last part ("only a medical professional should remove something stuck in you.") does not only refer to puncture wound...
You see, I was cutting cucumbers naked and all of a sudden I slipped and fell on the olive oil I accidentially spilled on the floor earlier.
Load More Replies...And if you find someone stabbed or with a puncture wound where the knife has been removed, use a plastic bag or credit card to suction to the opening. It kid of sticks on and seals it.
If it is a sucking wound this is a great idea. We do this in the field as well. Bleeding will still go in internally, but at least you can keep a lung inflated this way.
Load More Replies...I saved a random stranger’s life (according to the attending physician) by sticking my finger into a bullet hole that was gushing blood. P.S. The Dr. said it was a dumb thing to do, that I shouldn’t do it again, but it DID prevent the guy from bleeding out before he got to the hospital.
Well it did expose you to potential blood borne pathogens and also contaminated the wound but I still think it was a good thing to do. The physician sounds like he was being a bit of an A&&.
Load More Replies...Almost had to punch the neighbor lady once. Her sons (8 & 10, maybe) were using the bow & arrow set they got for Christmas (unsupervised) and the younger one was shot in the chest. Mom was absolutely freaking out (of course). I heard the commotion and hopped the fence, just in time to stop her from pulling the arrow loose. EMTs were there in an instant and basically told her he would have bled out before they arrived. It had punctured his lung.
This seems to be most common as a reaction to the pain. No matter what, don’t let pain dictate your response. And if you are assisting the person with the puncture wound, try to stabilize the object while also making it more difficult for the victim to remove. Call 911 before attempting assistance and they will talk you through the steps to follow to attempt to maintain life while trained help is on the way. That rule of thumb applies to any medical emergency. Emergency medical dispatch is a life saver if you are quick to call, remain calm and follow the instructions of your trained and certified dispatcher. This was honestly my favorite part of the job and I’d still be doing it if I could do this from home.
Well then (and I could be wrong), I think that they are helping spread the word that this works to people that may not know and that this might help save more lives, whether it be on a movie, TV programme, or in real life.
Load More Replies...Bring a lot of water, if you head into the desert. Like way more than you think you need.
Expect to drink half again as much for normal sedentary activity. Take twice that amount with you, it can be used for evaporation cooling if someone gets sick in the heat.
Maybe just avoid the desert. You can see all the sights on the internet or TV.
Make sure you have in your car as well. Never know when you might break down. Also, some blankets or those reflective space blankets. It gets extremely cold in the desert when the sun goes down.
Bring extra coolant and even more water to keep your car running as long as possible
The symptoms of a heart attack are different for women.
Have a mole check as soon as you can.
Never put off going to the Dr if you think something is wrong.
Fight your Dr if they don't help you. Never give up. It's YOUR life that is in danger, not theirs.
If you have a cough that wont go away, get it checked. It can be one of the first signs of heart failure
Or wide variety of other issues, including throat cancer, but the point stands, a persistent cough is practically always a warning sign of something that needs medical attention. For me it was luckily 'only' sleep apnea indicator, but that can kill too if you don't treat it
Load More Replies...A lot of women say the symptoms of a heart attack feel like indigestion or their backs hurt like they slept wrong. I also think it’s scary that they don’t teach both sets of symptoms very well. That’s part of the reason women are more likely to die from heart attacks, the lack of speedy treatment.
My mother's symptoms: Breathlessness at minor exercise, shoulder pain but it was the bad shoulder, and the deciding one, armpit pain. even then getting the heart checked out was a fight. The first doctor was on an arthrosis kick.
Load More Replies...Don't forget to check your feet including the bottoms and between your toes for moles. Melanoma on the feet is real and very deadly,
Bob Marley died of Melanoma between his toes.
Load More Replies...Re. putting off going to the doctor. My father has been ignoring obvious signs of inflammatory bowel disease for almost 2 decades (!!) - until he collapsed on the street one day. Turned out he had severe colitis with life-threatening complications. It could have been diagnosed, treated and kept under control several years ago. And now it's too late. Go to the doctor, people.
Do not be afraid to switch doctors if he or she is content to control symptoms instead of correcting the root cause.
When I had my heart attack I had pain across both flanks and thought I had kidney stones from the intense burning pain. I was also extremely chilled and couldn't get warm. After a few hours of this the pain worsened and I became very weak and unable to stand or walk. Finally went to the hospital after that.
First things first. With hope, you have a medical insurance provider for you and your family members. If not for economic reasons, shop around and check any government or community health providers offers. Yes, health providers are not cheap . Many folks still die or suffer by not understanding what this post is trying to say. Just Googling your symptoms may not accomplish what you truly need.
While any hospital is required to take in people without insurance in the case of life- threatening emergency, I firmly second what he said. ANY insurance is better than no insurance.
Load More Replies...Mole checks! I'm 37 and have had two cut out because they were about to go cancerous. Particularly in Australia!
Signs of a stroke: FAST.
Face drooping? Arm weakness? Speech slurred? Time to go to the hospital! (**EDIT: it's now BE FAST: Balance Eyes (sudden vision loss or trouble seeing) Face Arm Speech Time.** Thanks multiple commenters!!)
Speed of response makes the difference between "sometimes walks a little funny when tired" and "bedbound lump." If you know old people, you need to know how to spot a stroke.
My grandma literally had a stroke diagnosed yesterday, I wish I had known that her not walking well, and having a massive headache was a stroke and not just another migraine. It wasn’t until she start hallucinating that I realized what was happening. She’s in the hospital now, and in good hands.
I had a very small stroke at the beginning of Dec 2023. There was no permanent damage but it could have been so much worse. The hardest part so far is wondering at every little feeling and twitch afterward. If you can improve any factor to avoid having a stroke at all, (I.e. staying in shape, eating healthy, quit smoking) do it.
been there three months ago. My dad had a stroke. My mom a great reaction (called emergency while he was still thinking it was not something bad). He's still recovering but doctors agree that he'll fully recover. Bonus point: my parents don't live in the states, so they won't go bankrupt :)
No need for the last line really. But I'm glad your dad is recovering and that the outlook is good.
Load More Replies...TIA (transient ischemic attack) has nearly identical symptoms, only real difference is they are temporary and not necessarily life threatening (though if in doubt always seek medical help)
A TIA is basically a mini-stroke and should be taken seriously for its implications for future events, even if recovery is good - I know of two people who have had TIAs in their 30s and though they have both recovered, they are now being monitored much more closely. If you have, or see someone with BE FAST symptoms, get them to A&E. (I realise I as I type 'A&E' instead of 'the ER' that I'm saying this from the position of not having to worry about how the hell I'm going to pay for emergency care...)
Load More Replies...My mom had a series of mini strokes last summer and the only symptom was that she smelled gasoline. She was just watching TV and suddenly she smelled gasoline- not propane (like the tanks for our grill and generator were leaking) but actual gasoline like she was filling her car. Just putting out there that strange smells can sometimes be a sign.
not only slurring, but using the wrong words or forgetting a word (and is unusual for them)
I lost my ability to verbally communicate for more than a month followed by years of relapses. I also lost my ability to communicate by text because I’d forget words and how to spell and would drift away from what I was trying to accomplish only to return completely unaware of what I’d been trying to do. I also found my critical thinking and math skills went out the door. A friend taught me cribbage so I could learn to count to 31 again. I was 46 when I was struck down by heat & mini stroke. 7 months later, I bounced my head off a sidewalk twice and went to bed only to have a huge painting fall on my forehead. I lost an entire weeks time from that and had massive personality change. I was still 46.
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Baking soda will extinguish a fire, even grease and electrical fires.
You should always keep a box of it nearby when you're cooking and grilling.
Having a fire blanket is even better, if you are in rented accommodation in the UK your landlord is supposed to provide one.
Fire blankets are cheap and extinguish all cooking fires. Baking soda? How much do you think would it take to put out anything but a tiny, tiny fire?
Load More Replies...Don't use any powdery substance though, fine particles like flour can lead to an aerosol explosion
This needs more upvotes. A LOT of people mistakenly think throwing flour on a fire will put it out.
Load More Replies...As a demonstration of fire safety for a 4-h project, I put baking soda in a paper coffee filter and set it on fire. As soon as the fire reaches the baking soda WHOOF it's out 🙂 won a proze for the demo 😊 I was about 10 at the time.
Also, a grease fire can be extinguished with a heavy lid. Never, *EVER* pour water on it.
Fire extinguishers are king. Always have one on hand. Even two. I put out a neighbors' stove fire with a fire extinguisher. I'm still in awe with how well it worked. $16,000 in damage/cleanup costs.
I used the fire extinguisher on a stove fire. glad I had it.
You lose heat 20 times faster when wet vs being dry. Shed wet clothes.
The exception in wool (like 100% wool). It will continue to keep you warm even when wet. However it will also weigh a metric ton if you are actually in deep water.
Remove wool clothing, wring out as much water as you can, put wool clothing back on.
Load More Replies...The exception is when you're in the tropics or in a desert. Wet clothes will cool you enough so you don't need to drink as much water. This saved Captain Bligh and his crew after the Mutiny on the Bounty.
However, if you ever fall in the ocean and you need to stay afloat for a long time, keep your clothes on. You can improvise a life vest by knotting the legs of your jeans together and pushing air on them (just rapidly paddle with your open hand, they are several tutorials on it). Also, your clothes will protect you from hypothermia (briefly) and in tropical waters they will protect you for the sun and mask your scent and movements from large predators, like sharks.
Im wet right now, just got out of a pool. Thank goodness for dry clothes!
In wool or fleece you would have been the warm Zach
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Losing weight without trying could very well be cancer.
Could be lots of things. Worst thing is to diagnose yourself from the internet though.
This goes for animals, too. If your pet starts losing weight without being fed less or exercising more, something is up: take to your vet.
I cannot upvote this enough! The year before I was diagnosed with Cancer I lost a substantial amount of weight. I kept telling myself it was because I was really active. That and back pain that steadily got worse over the course of months. I had to fight with my Doctor before he ordered an MRI on a Wednesday, called me on Thursday, because they scheduled a CT scan for Friday. The following Monday I was diagnosed with Cancer and my spinal column, from top to bottom and my left hip bone was covered in tumors. December 2023 marked 6 years that I have been battling cancer on and off. Please, please, please keep after your doctor or get a second opinion if you have to but do NOT give up.
I wish you all the best and send a warm hug to you. 🫂
Load More Replies...Mine make no difference on my weight whatsoever. But my antidepressants sure make me lose quite a few pounds (mainly because I stop binge/nervous eating).
Load More Replies...It’s cancer. It’s always cancer. Even when my pinky toe hurts because I stubbed it, if I asked the internet. It’s cancer.
Never walk/ski/snowboard near trees when there is heavy snow- there is something called a "tree well" that sometimes forms under trees where if you fall in you will become impacted by snow, often upside down and suffocate to death
This may not sound that bad but it literally happened in this vid. What're the chances that the skier happens to run into a guy out of thw whole mountain? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5ME9Swo0_8
Great video. Googled tree well bc I still couldn't properly figure it out. That is so fascinating! Never heard of them.
Load More Replies...Also applies to snowshoes. Despite Hollywood image making, you don't really walk on top of snow with snowshoes, you sort of walk down in the snow, packing it into a trail as you go. If you get near a tree well, you are going down.
I watched a man skiing save a snowboarders life cuz he came across him in one of these wells
this very thing happened to a dear girlfriend of mine. one minute she was enjoying snowboarding, then the next she was upside down and suffocating to death. devastating.
Thanks,this has been the most helpful list on BP. It really helps,and is incredibly informative. Thank you BP!
Last season’s epic snow fall resulted in a record number of tree well “drownings” in the states
Carbon monoxide is odorless. Get a detector.
Also, seal your attached garage! On so many of the home renovation shows they go in someone's garage in their newly built house and the builder has just sloppily thrown up drywall.
You can check this by installing a CO detector, which you should do anyway. If your garage is attached, put one on every floor. CO does not sink as CO2 does. It is the same density as air, and will transport up thru the wall spaces if your builder was sloppy.
Load More Replies...If you have a gas furnace, you need CO detectors. It's dead winter here and the house is shut up tight so any malfunction in that machine would kill us by morning without a detector. Also they're pretty cheap.
If you're feeling nauseated and have a headache for no apparent reason, go outside, and see if that helps. if you have pets, take them out with you. If you do feel better, don't go back in. Call someone to check it out. Our detector was broken, but me and the dog survived.
Not sure why they showing a car exhaust - they don't put out enough carbon monoxide to kill you any more - though once a hose from the interior to the tail pipe was a popular method of suicide!
My guess is that it is easier to show the incomplete combustion that is associated with carbon monoxide. Most people relate it to car exhaust...even though you are right that there is not enough to kill you anymore.
Load More Replies...I know NOTHING about cars, but I've read that modern catalytic converters eliminate over 90% of CO emissions. Cars instead will have more CO2. The difference is that the CO molecule is smaller, so the lungs don't really know the difference between 02 and CO, whereas with CO2, it's larger and heavier, so the individual tends to struggle and have a lot of difficulty breathing. A much more dangerous problem with CO is that it tends to be heavier than air, and can collect in caves or other enclosed spaces, and that's a problem.
Do only cars emit that? Or should one worry still if they don't have a car?
Anything that burns a carbon fuel can potentially produce carbon monoxide - coal fires, wood fires, natural gas boilers/furnaces. If you've got combustion in the house, it's a good idea to get a carbon monoxide detector. They're inexpensive and life saving. Don't think that just because your gas boiler/furnace vents to the outside that nothing can go wrong: it can and sometimes does. Modern cars have catalytic converters which, once they're warmed up, ensure conversion of carbon monoxide to carbon dioxide as well as other reactions which clean up car exhausts to a great extent.
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A fishy smell in your house could mean there’s an electrical fire
The girl in this picture, looks like she's growling at her prey. 😂 good choice BP
We had this happen with an outlet, the smell was just weird and definitely fishy enough to draw attention
True, we spent days blaming the plumbing before finding out something had burnt
A friend of mine's house was badly damaged by an electrical fire that stayed completely inside the walls. They never saw anything, but smelled it and called the fire department. If they had ignored it the fire would have likely spread and burned down the house.
If someone is bleeding heavily, put pressure on it, don’t just watch
Also, don't remove material on the wound that blood has soaked through, just put more on top. Taking stuff off will interrupt any clotting that's taking place. And if you have any handy, sanitary pads are really useful when you have a heavily bleeding wound. They don't stick badly like fabric does and they're incredibly absorbent for their size, plus you can tape them in place. MUCH easier to manage a taped-in-place pad or two than a blood-soaked towel that needs holding and is dripping (also less distressing for others in the waiting room). I don't menstruate, but they're in my first aid kit! FYI, tampons are great for nose bleeds too!
Use tampons for nose bleends with great care. Because of the way they expand, they put pressure on the blood vessels of the nasal septum. This does help stop a nosebleed, but it cuts off the blood supply to the tissues, which can literally cause them to die.
Load More Replies...My dad told me a story he witnessed as a police officer on duty in the late 1980-ies in the G.D.R. (he's specialised in investigating unnatural causes of death stuff to determine wether they were an accident or murder). He got called to a very bloody room: A senior citizen saved a young lad who tripped and fell in a glass door, got his neck cut, turned into a Human Fountain of blood. Old man: "I just sprinted over and held the wound together. I've learned this in World War 2." He held the wound with a vice like grip aaaaalll the time til ambulance arrived. Just never let go.The victim got in hospital and survived.
This. Don't worry about anything except: apply pressure. "Vice like grip" - yes. Press hard on the wound, and if the blood's still coming out, press harder. The only point in using a towel or other object is to spread the force so you apply pressure over a greater area. It doesn't matter what you use, it doesn't matter if there's a risk of infection. Press hard, keep the blood inside.
Load More Replies...I think "Don't just watch" could be applied to pretty much anything on here.
It's worth knowing the 8 arterial pressure points for stopping serious bleeding as they can save a life if someone cuts an artery.
Apply an uncomfortable amount of pressure. Light pressure will likely not help. Also, a tampon may save a bullet victim’s life!!!
Avoid using towels if possible, they are super absorbent and can pull blood from the wound faster. Woven fabrics that are less absorbent are a better choice. Use towels only if there are no other choices.
Not certain I’m recalling this one correctly, but I believe one recommendation is to use clean sanitary napkins.
If you ever feel dizzy or tired after a short ride in your car,get your car checked,cause there might be some exhaust leak leading into your cabin and might leak some harmful substances like CO
If something like this happens open your window right away even if it's raining, scorching hot or freezing cold outside. If it's CO it literally clears your head. If you are "just" tired or ill the sudden change of temperature might give you the necessary boost to drive somewhere you can safely stop and take a breather. Because you should stop asap and resume only after you feel alert enough to drive again. Don't risk it even if you are only 2 corners away from home.
Been there done that for three reasons. CO when a teenager plugged my exhaust because I wouldn’t drive her to school (lots of valid reasons), because I’ve been sick (I live with 24/7/365 nausea) and because of being so sleepy I had no business driving. But my employer didn’t care they were sending me to a job 2 hours away and I was having to work 2nd shift one night to return on 1st shift the very next.
Load More Replies...This. Moving when I was 12; the whole family had to be hospitalized, once Dad realized what was going on. We all made it through.
If you have a convertible, put the top up when driving in heavy traffic.
This is how my aunt died. She pulled over to take a short nap - and left the engine running. With all her windows closed.
Open all the windows in the car so you get a through breeze. I can smell leaking exhaust when others can smell nothing but they get sick.
This isn't necessarily life-saving info, but it's something to remember for all you guys out there with phone anxiety, and it DEFINITELY applies 100% in emergency situations. It occurred to me when I had a friend with severe anxiety staying with me, and I started a new medication and had a REALLY bad reaction. She had to make a 999 call so I could be assessed by paramedics/taken to hospital if necessary, and she was stumbling over words, needed time to breathe, etc. - but she managed to communicate all the essential information, even if it wasn't neat and tidy. When the call was over she started the typical spiral (self-hate, useless, not good enough, etc.) and I was pretty out of it but I remember telling her, "you aren't being given marks out of 10. The sole purpose of the call was to give information to get a service. You managed to give the information even though it was hard, and you've got me the service. Thank you." And that applies to so many phone situations.
But this isn’t advice. You didn’t give a tip on how the friend could overcome anxiety. You just told a story about how you said something nice to your friend for helping. Your friend needs a doctor too. Speaking on the phone shouldn’t induce that much anxiety.
Load More Replies...The rule of 3s: 3 minutes without air, 3 days without water, 3 weeks without food. Prioritize air over water, water over food.
3 weeks without sleep. Prioritize food and sleep equally.
Load More Replies...Also - I'm the person you want with you in an emergency situation. My emotions immediately bûgger off and I snap into logical/rational mode. I can (and have) dealt with injuries, ODs, medical emergencies, and deaths (2 days ago was the 10yr anniversary of finding my best friend dead on my bedroom floor...), emergency services, hospitals and police stations, and calling mutual friends (I normally have bad phone anxiety). I was calm when I was hit by a car, and calm when I was in ICU with sepsis. I was calm when I managed to sleepwalk my way out my bedroom window 40ft (15m) up. It hits me afterwards and I have c-PTSD (not from any of this, except my best friend) but it's still good to know that if I'm in/witness a freak accident I won't panic and can be useful and a calming influence.
This isn't necessarily life-saving info, but it's something to remember for all you guys out there with phone anxiety, and it DEFINITELY applies 100% in emergency situations. It occurred to me when I had a friend with severe anxiety staying with me, and I started a new medication and had a REALLY bad reaction. She had to make a 999 call so I could be assessed by paramedics/taken to hospital if necessary, and she was stumbling over words, needed time to breathe, etc. - but she managed to communicate all the essential information, even if it wasn't neat and tidy. When the call was over she started the typical spiral (self-hate, useless, not good enough, etc.) and I was pretty out of it but I remember telling her, "you aren't being given marks out of 10. The sole purpose of the call was to give information to get a service. You managed to give the information even though it was hard, and you've got me the service. Thank you." And that applies to so many phone situations.
But this isn’t advice. You didn’t give a tip on how the friend could overcome anxiety. You just told a story about how you said something nice to your friend for helping. Your friend needs a doctor too. Speaking on the phone shouldn’t induce that much anxiety.
Load More Replies...The rule of 3s: 3 minutes without air, 3 days without water, 3 weeks without food. Prioritize air over water, water over food.
3 weeks without sleep. Prioritize food and sleep equally.
Load More Replies...Also - I'm the person you want with you in an emergency situation. My emotions immediately bûgger off and I snap into logical/rational mode. I can (and have) dealt with injuries, ODs, medical emergencies, and deaths (2 days ago was the 10yr anniversary of finding my best friend dead on my bedroom floor...), emergency services, hospitals and police stations, and calling mutual friends (I normally have bad phone anxiety). I was calm when I was hit by a car, and calm when I was in ICU with sepsis. I was calm when I managed to sleepwalk my way out my bedroom window 40ft (15m) up. It hits me afterwards and I have c-PTSD (not from any of this, except my best friend) but it's still good to know that if I'm in/witness a freak accident I won't panic and can be useful and a calming influence.
