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We are all used to the people we love taking care of us or making us feel special and vice versa - but what about strangers. People we don't know have no obligation to love us or go out of their way to make our day better, which is why when they do it makes it all the more special. Someone on Twitter prompted people on the internet to think about these moments with a question about acts of kindness they had experienced from complete strangers and it led to a wonderfully wholesome thread.

The list below will is proof that you don't need to rescue people from a disaster or raise orphan children to be an everyday hero to someone you encounter. Simple things like standing up for someone getting bullied or giving someone coins to make a phone call might sound small but to these people, it made all the difference. Scroll down below to read the most heartwarming responses from this Twitter thread and don't forget to upvote your favs! (Facebook cover image: Daquella manera)

Nicole Cliffe is a TV and magazine writer whose wholesome Twitter question recently went viral

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Cliffe asked the question "What is the kindest thing a stranger has done or said to you?" and began the thread with her own experience. The writer told of the time her baby got airsick and puked all over her pants and seat cushion: "they had to BRING THE PLANE BACK to replace the seat and seatbelt and everyone hated me," she wrote. Holding back tears, Cliffe said a kind flight attendant came to her rescue by taking her baby and lending her some yoga pants. She ended her tale by adding, "I firmly believe that she will go to heaven no matter what she may do in the rest of her life."

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Pepper Pots
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I literally got tears in my eyes..

GoodWolf
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Restores faith in humanity!

The Dutches
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one should be on top. Magic happened.

KarmaQueen
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

chills are running down my spine and all over my body. You guys saved a life that day and I am sure that person has remembered that for the rest of his life, as well as you guys do too.

NCC-1701
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow just wow. I loved this.

therealpixie
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gave me cold chills in my knees!

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We all know that being on the receiving end of generosity feels good, but did you know that studies show that we feel happier when we perform acts of kindness to not just out friends and families but for our communities as well. A study called Kindness Counts, done by University of British Columbia and the University of California, Riverside, observed 9-11-year olds for a month and had them record three acts of kindness per week. The report showed that performing these acts led to an increase in feelings of satisfaction.

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    Donna Cheung
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "fed me grapes". That's such a Chinese grandma thing to do! (I'm Chinese, so I know..)

    Yuheftobesomad
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could almost see my old popo doing that to me hehe

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    Kriel Kipjes
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I almost fainted in the train last year. Had to sit on the floor, to not fall over. A guy gave me candy and coke.

    HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Old people are great most of the time, this is the sort of thing my little Italian gran would do, respect to that Chinese lady.

    Iulia Kelly
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our internal medicine doctor gave me this tidbit. Healers (whether M.D. or naturopath or acupuncturist) will always pat the patient three times before leaving. He said it resets the patient’s energy. Since then, I’ve seen it happen SO many times.

    Chris Jones
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Genuinely never been touched that way by any doctor... and I have seen way more than my fair share. Saw two different acupuncturists during my 'I'll try anything' phase and they didn't either.

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    sharron lynn parsons
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree that we feel good, after helping someone, I certainly do, it's like giving a stranger, a small gift, I have put a smile on a sales clerk, I thought she needed !!!

    Todd Chesser
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. that made me cry...just a little

    Dorothy Parker
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love is love. There should be no barriers to stop us all from behaving like that lovely woman.

    Momo Skarsgård
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The language of love and kindness is universal. <3

    Anna Ledwońska
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww... You definetely met an angel...

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    Ruby Brook
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. I swear that man must be some kind of superhero in disguise...

    Just a Purpler
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoa this gave me chills... imagine being that biker and seeing two kids in a house on fire...

    Billy Ashley
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too many people give bikers a bad rap & this goes to show just what nice & kind people they are.

    KarmaQueen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was at the right place at the right time.

    Помаже Бог
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F**k!!!!! 😍 This needs to be ON THE TOP, and this man must be found and thanked! Not all heroes wear capes... Some wear helmets <3

    Sharon Ingram
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bikers are some of the best people in the world. They look tough and mean, but they have hearts of gold.

    Christine Kennedy
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The more I hear about bikers the more I admire them.

    Kay Lean
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! Now that's a true hero!

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    Nice guys finish last is the saying but according to various studies they actually finish first. In a New York Times op-ed, contributor David Brooks looked at several studies about how evolution of the human involved our temperate. Unlike our primate relatives humans have evolved from a selfish nature into a cooperative one that allows for more harmonious communities.

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    Rebekah
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be this person. Always be this person.

    Biana Weatherford
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And created a life long lesson. A little kindness can change someone's life.

    Jason Crowley
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a chubby kid about 12 years old being picked on by a bunch of older kids. They chased me home saying they were going to kick my a*s. This tough guy in his 20's was my neighbor. He took a tire iron out of his muscle car and ran after the whole lot of bullies. They never came after me again. Found out a couple years ago that he died of a heroin overdose. Told the family this story and they were genuinely touched.

    KarmaQueen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tab, omg blast from the past. I have one of those in my frig now, believe it or not.

    Hege Sivertsen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This made me cry...I'm so glad they did that for you.

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    Dani
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is beyond kind...

    KarmaQueen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am sure all he would like is for you to pay it forward.

    Kim Lorton
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am positive he considered it his honor, todo thatfor her and his fellow service member!

    Birma Gustafsson
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NOT taking it would have been insulting to this great man, who wanted to do a kindness to someone in need. I see it as both benefitting from this unselfish act.

    EVIE
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    DONT LOOK AT ME WHEN IM CRYING! <3

    Hans
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is not meant to be an army story. Standing up for people with small children should be matter of course – man or woman, old or young, service or not.

    Gëë Bëë
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hans!! Again you seem to be missing the message!! It is relevant that he was military as this was someone who spent long periods of time away from his family yet still did an awesome thing and gave his ticket away. Just because she has a small child doesnt mean he had to do this. He could have had small children himself that he wanted to spend christmas with!

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    sharron lynn parsons
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Acts of kindness are never forgotten to receive or give !!!

    Pooky Bear
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amazing....God bless him (and you)!

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    It's all in your head. "In one essay, Keltner cites the work of the Emory Universityneuroscientists James Rilling and Gregory Berns. They found that the act of helping another person triggers activity in the caudate nucleus and anterior cingulate cortex regions of the brain, the parts involved in pleasure and reward. That is, serving others may produce the same sort of pleasure as gratifying a personal desire," writes David Brooks.

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    Agnes Jekyll
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She did absolutely the right thing. She saw something was wrong and she helped you out--so many people don't recognize it or don't know what to do so they don't do anything.

    Tony
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men can be such creeps. It's sickening.

    Evan Martin
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    very closed minded....Anybody can be a creep...

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    Hans
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am divided here; the behaviour might have been the most comfortable for the child, but actually the guy should have been arrested and charged.

    danielw
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like Lios said, arrested for what? Sitting 'too close' isn't entirely a crime, and neither is 'whispering'. It's very hard to prove what you think they're about to do is what they're actually about to do, and more to the point, we don't know if the young lady was over reacting or what. Being nervous is enough to get somebody (old lady, good on her) involved. But doesn't mean the guy actually did something wrong. Case in point, somebody tried to mace me (okay it wasn't mace. it was the cheap-a*s pink pepper spray that's more a fashion statement than a self defense device) because my face was covered. I mean, it was five below (twenty below centigrade) and yeah, I had a neckgaiter on. (like everybody, pretty much) I was also wearing a hard security uniform and barely passed within twenty feet.

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    Slune
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was about 5 yo, sitting on a back bench in a dim lighted puppet theatre when I felt a light tapping on my shoulder. Turning around there was a elderly man at a angle behind me with his privates hanging out of the open fly! I felt in shock and sat close to my same age friend without breathing

    A Dyke From The Dreamworld
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's really f****d up! I'm sorry you had to go through that, it sounds like it really stuck with you. I hope something good comes your way soon.

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    KarmaQueen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    glad you were smart enough to realize she was saving you from this creep.

    KCN
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    God bless her for stepping up.

    tuzdayschild
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have to teach kids not be embarrassed or ashamed to just scream when they feel threatened. That would make him think twice about messing with her.

    Nikki D
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was the same age when this happened, but at the airport and on the plane. Weird guy was patting my leg and making me very uncomfortable, then somehow got the seat next to mine on the plane.

    Teri Wadding
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now that I am "Elderly" I will remember this story in case I can help someone like that

    J Perry
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We as adults have a responsibility to do this if we see anyone in need, but especially a child. How would you feel if something happened to the child and you didn't do anything to stop it?

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    Ruby Brook
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's so sweet. I love the way they just gave up their coats to help someone they didn't even know in the middle of winter! <3

    Vicky Zar
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats just so Canadian, isn't it? But regardless.... just wow

    rta3rd
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After months in hospital with traumatic brain injury, I was walking early the following July 4th morning when my brain shut off and I fell into a pile on the street. I came to with a WWII vet discovered me on his way to celebration, bundled me into his car and took me home. His act of kindness may have saved my life...

    Roslyn Madrid
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They must have put some under you, to protect you top and bottom ….

    Lish
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rep that home town girl, we're good people. Xox

    Susan Gardner
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's true. I want to live in Canada, especially with #45 turning our country into [fill in the blank]

    Jeannie Carle
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was very large = 7 mos pregnant - fell on the ice at NWMSU - MANY MANY people circled away from me - would NOT help me get on my feet - a 17 yr old boy finally stopped and helped me get up and walked me to the door of my class bldg.

    death ray
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Canadians are adorable. We all know that. Moving on.

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    According to Dr. Ritchie Davidson , University of Wisconsin kindness is a teachable trait, "It’s kind of like weight training, we found that people can actually build up their compassion ‘muscle’ and respond to others’ suffering with care and a desire to help.”

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    KarmaQueen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How sad. Those little things in life that people can do can make all of the difference in someone elses life.

    Melvin Dragvelk
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    Well you shouldn't have killed your mom then.

    Not Alec
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude. I honestly hope that was supposed to be a troll comment.

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    Gëë Bëë
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Are you ok?" is a life saving question. If you see someone who is clearly desperate, just asking them that question could be enough to interrupt their dark thoughts for just long enough for them to see the light.

    TaranW
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will reiterate this: 'are you okay?' has an incredible amount of weight...it's one of the most powerful questions I have ever been asked. I cannot emphasize this to a high enough degree. When it's said with caring, with heart, with feeling, you can change someone's world. If you take anything from this thread of stories, this would be it.

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    Laura Lawson
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in Australia, we have an R U OK? (are you ok?) day on the 2nd Thurs of Sept. It was started my a man who's father committed suicide & it's prime purpose is to start that conversation. People are encouraged to ask everyone they know, Are you ok? And to actually listen if that person says no. And that it's ok to say No, I'm not ok. It's pretty amazing!

    Missy Barton
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think maybe this person saw an angel

    Ashley McMath
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is the most beautiful thing. Undying kindness in the possibility of someone else suffering. We should all be so vigilant to just see someone looking at a sign and think of their well being.

    Zara
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when people ask me are you ok it always makes me break down even when im just fine

    sharron lynn parsons
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are often Angels close to us, but if not, I believe they were too busy at that time, perhaps saving a life !!!

    Shannøn Renee
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I let a stranger share my hotel room after our flight home got canceled due to weather. It was late, all the other rooms were booked, it was her birthday, and my room was comped by the airline (since my earlier flight was delayed due to mechanical issues). So we were stranded together instead of alone, and we ended up getting on the next flight home. Turned out she lived in my neighborhood. Sometimes taking a risk on someone and trusting that there is still good in this world is worth it!

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    Why do wholesome twitter threads about acts of kindness make us feel all warm inside? Well witnessing an act of kindness makes the body produce oxytocin also known as the 'love hormone.' Oxytocin can increase self-esteem and optimism as well as lower your blood pressure and overall heart-rate.

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    Janine B.
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So cute, I would have laughed my a*s off. :D

    Frank Enstein
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The cynic in me wonders if there would have been so many "bless yous" if she were a man.

    Dorothy Parker
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So much better than the usual stories of abusive catcalls from stereotypical construction workers or laborers. Wouldn't it be wonderful if their union could support that kind of manners to make women feel comfortable walking past a site, rather than cringing and feeling that sinking feeling as they pass by?

    Elaine Dodge
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So much better than wolf-whistles!

    Spriy
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like that a lot. I don't know why.

    danielw
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if they were in tune with each other. I mean, you know. construction workers are not normally noted for their singing talent. Its okay, neither am I, but, you know...

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    therealpixie
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can also roll up a bill and slip it to them, or into their pocket if you feel like they won't take it. Also, you can spot people in the aisles (especially in Walmart) with kids in the cart. This has been a hobby of mine for many years. Also, I'm on a campaign to get EVERYbody to tip in the drive thru line. Once a young man told me he had saved my tips to buy his son's Christmas. There is nothing you can buy for yourself that will make you as happy. I can promise you that.

    Chris Miilu
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Years ago I was worked in downtown Manhattan. Sometimes I would take my lunch to Trinity Church, because it had a lovely garden in back. One day I noticed a thin little boy in the middle of a school day; I asked him why he wasn't in school. He said he lived in a shelter and couldn't go to school. I took him to a local cafeteria and bought him lunch. Then we walked back to Trinity; the pastor was there, and I introduced him to the little boy and his story. The pastor told me to leave it to him; he would use the church's address. The pastor could get him enrolled in school. There are helpers everywhere. Trinity was the little church left standing on 9/11; it opened its doors to rescuers and firemen. Much later different firehouses hung their special flags in Trinity; it became a small monument to acts of kindness that terrible day. George Washington worshipped at Trinity; he would have been proud.

    Urszula
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My auntie and uncle needed extra money due to rehabilitation after uncle's stroke. They will never accept money from me if I would give them directly. So during every visit, I had to hide them somewhere, where it will be easy to find after a while. Every time before I came home there was an SMS with thank you from my Auntie.

    Linda Riebel
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kindness AND tact! what a great combination

    WhatEvenIsLife
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There have been so many times when I've had my card declined while trying to buy food, and it's always so mortifying, but I can't tell you how many times kind-hearted people behind me in line have paid for my food. Despite my embarrassment, it always restored my faith in humanity. We all fall on hard times now and then, and I hope I can pay it forward when I'm able.

    Bill Hadley
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not looking for a pat on the back but I've done this with twenties...hopefully God is watching somehow...

    KarmaQueen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice way of handling it and takes the sting out of knowing someone is helping you.

    Kamryn McNamara
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have cried if someone did this for me. I probably would have hugged the man.

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    In 2010 Harvard Business School conducted a survey of happiness 136 countries that found people who were all around altruistic: generous with their finances to charitable donations for example were overall happier.

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    Sara-Jane Keenan
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad to hear that she's still here to tell her story! Sending love

    KCN
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope I remember to say the right things if I'm ever in a situation like this.

    Peri Lyons
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You. This. Me, tears. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

    Hans
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This ones makes me wonder where her family was...

    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe just where they should be - by her side. It is not always about being alone or with somebody other. Sometimes you just can't go through your emotions. It is not like only lonely and abandoned people commit suicide or struggle with depression. Sometimes even most bright and funny and fortunate (on the surface) people are deeply unhappy and wounded inside.

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    Uwe Theiss
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    You really should seek vor therapy. Involving others with your suicide is just an a*****e move. There is no excuse for risking the live of others only because you want to die.

    Enuya
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know what? Yeah, technically you're right. This way of suicide IS risking other people lives. And this is bad. Still, if person is in so bad mental condition that s/he is considering suicide, s/he doesn't think about other people so much. Often, he does not think about going to therapy. And it DOES NOT make that person selfish or bad. You know, there is this level of suffering when you only think about how to go through the very next day - or how to end everything as quickly as possible. It's a nasty, sticky feeling that you can not beat yourself. You need help but sometimes you do not have strength to look for it by yourself. Suicide, no matter how committed, is NOT "an a*****e move". Saying something like this about people who go through such a difficult time in their lives is simply soulless and cruel.

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    Anime nerd
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother has panic attacks and if u see someone having one don’t stair ask if they’re ok plz

    Menno Post
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1 of my housemates had one time after we had started drinking. (everyone was not completely sober anymore) and was suddenly waving a knife! and screamed "I can not take it anymore" I got up and took the knife and gave him a bearhug and lifted him off the ground until he was back on earth. sick s**t but would do it again

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    Biana Weatherford
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "we don't call the cops on people in mental health distress"....I applaud you, Random Hipster.

    María Hermida
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's terrible to think you can't trust the police to help a mentally ill person. My question is: how do you know that the person will be ok when you leave them home? If the person is having some kind of attack or crisis, it's dangerous to live them alone, because they could harm themselves.

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    donghun's emo cactus
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who has anxiety, (I don't know if it's just me) but I really do need help, and I need someone to ask me if I'm okay (even if I'm obviously not).

    Frozengeckolover
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get it. Sometimes someone just asking makes you feel like, maybe, you'll be ok. Even if you aren't. So, are you ok, donghun's emo cactus?

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    Sardonic Scribe
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree - you DO NOT want to call the police on anyone in mental health distress! That will land them in a (metaphorically speaking) padded cell with an involuntary hold. Trust me, that stays with you for life.

    Uchman
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @Sardonic, padded cell is actually the best case scenario because cops in America routinely shoot people in mental health distress.

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    KarmaQueen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is so true. Cops can make it worse. They are not equipped educationally to handle this type of situation. They need to be taught more to de-escalate. I am not saying all cops.

    Naima Ivansdóttir
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "we don't call the cops on people in mental health distress, it isn't safe"... heard too many stories to know this can be so true...

    Alethia Nyx
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "We don't call the cops on people in mental health distress, it isn't safe". There's something so sad about that statement. The cops aren't safe? The cops and paramedic are exactly who you should be able to turn to in that kind of situation. In most first world countries you could. A few years ago I got into a car accident just 2 weeks after getting my license, neither car was a write off, but neither would start to be moved, and I had a panic attack and asthma attack because of the shock, and the two young policemen that attended the scene were absolutely lovely, they did also call paramedics, but they were calm and calming, and very kind to me until medics arrived.

    Car Alarm
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Btw guys, in case you didn't know this, panic attacks cannot always be solved by a hug. Sometimes a hug can make things worse and cause the person having the attack to become more stressed out. Give the person space and help them breathe.

    Mer
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, sadly, in America calling the cops about someone in mental health distress will more likely get that person shot. And the cops will get away with it, too, because they're ""fearing for their life"" or some other such excuse.

    Latanya FOX
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have anxiety and depression so I frequently have panic attacks and people in my school are just so nice about it they give me space and everything I'm so glad that that man helped you out

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    #14

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    MrPaulBae Report

    Ines
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "honked again to apologize" cracked me up

    Parmeisan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every car should have an apology horn.

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    Madzdad the bard
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There needs to be an international hand signal for, "sorry, I messed up"

    Night Owl
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one cracked me up (after other ones brought me to tears). I hope Paul also apologized (for the middle finger thing). The story could have been a start of a beautiful friendship :D

    Jen Fer
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “I was glad he didn’t waste me”, made me laugh out loud at my son’s piano lesson!

    Marnee DeRider
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We need different honks or like a sign we can blink on that says, "Sorry, I'm a dumbass today". The world would be very different if we had that.

    SirPatTheCat
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a terrible way to handle the situation (though with honest intentions) hahahaha

    Rebekah
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time I went to NYC, a cabbie explained to me that their were different types of honks. To this day, I still hear them with inflection, like they are speaking: GO! Hey! Dude! Sorry, my bad! Motherpucker!

    Помаже Бог
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is such a frikkin' good story!!!!!! 😍 Made my day

    Sterre Leeft
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At Curacao they honk to say " thank you" (:

    Noez 🇸🇪
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one made me laugh! Funny story!

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    #15

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    BerkowitzBT Report

    SirWriteALot
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "sharply" ... arabic sounds sharp, even if they say nice things :) Just like german :)

    Uwe Theiss
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a german I can agree. I heard that a lot from foreign friends with more melodic native languages like english, spanish or french.

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    JessG
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Teach your children kindness, it is a universal language

    Biana Weatherford
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our grocery store was a "bag it yourself" place. They DID provide help for those who asked, but few people knew that. I can't tell you how many people juggled babies and wallets and a full cart of groceries. My girls learned to ask if they could help, insisting that it was no big deal, and then bagging up the groceries made them feel like rock stars! So proud! I didn't raise "gentlemen", I raised "thoughtful humans"

    KarmaQueen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is raising a strong woman!

    Luisa Vasconcelos
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, German sounds very sharply. Specially when you ask with your most sweet voice and bright smile if the person speaks English and they answer : " nein, wir sind in Deutschland, wir sprechen nur deutsch!! I would pee on my panties if they would not make a encouraging smile after.

    Moe Less
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A great many of my friends are of middle-eastern descent. Many are very nice, a few a'holes, just like people everywhere.

    danielw
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's funny, when you get right down to it, we'll always have that in common, if nothing else.

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    Pamela24
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Teaching children about the importance of helping others...

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    #16

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    Nicole_Cliffe Report

    Pumbaa
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get how you can hate a mother and a child in misfortune.. It's a crappy situation for everyone but the others aren't covered in puke while waiting!

    Christina Sersif
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A small act of kindness can change a person's life

    Lotte
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How did it feel to meet an angel?

    J Perry
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get how people get mad at a parent for a baby being airsick. It's not like it's on purpose or as if they can do anything to stop it. Possibly next time she knows and has time to get a puke bag, maybe.

    danielw
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally, if I were the airline people, I'd have just kept the reason to myself. Sure people around her will know, but no need to tip off the rest of the flight.

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    JessG
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    6 years ago

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    This is the same story as the first one right? Still great though

    trinity davis
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You may have seen it as the title card of the article, but it’s only on here once

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    #17

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    Ali_Davis Report

    Ben Steinberg
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something like was done for me as child (I was short a few coins for a game book I really wanted). And, as an adult, I've done this for others. I'd like to think most people, if they can afford to, would do this. It seems like basic human decency.

    Hyorin Kim
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope I inspired strangers I've helped :) Once I walked a old lady home because she got off the bus at the same station than me, it was raining heavily and she didn't have an umbrella. I always do random acts of kindness e everywhere. At my job, at the street, at supermarkets etc... because I believed in "kindness generate kindness" and that I might make someone else's day better. Unfortunately I don't meet many kind people and even got discouraged to be kind to strangers by many people. Seeing that post makes me want to more of that.

    Hans
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The good think about true kindness is that you do not even need to know that it was remembered. You can be _sure_ that it will have an effect on true-hearted people.

    Jackson Allinder
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love the old mad magazines, I havent had one in over a year at least

    Teri Wadding
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet she read Mad Magazine too!

    Jammy Tee
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So once my friend went over to my house for a sleepover and we went to go get snacks from the grocery store 2 streets away. We had more than enough money to buy what we wanted but she just told me to pretend we didn’t have enough. I will never forgive myself for doing that as I promised myself I would never steal (not paying enough is a form of theft).

    Frozengeckolover
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Making mistakes is a part of learning and growing. I'm proud of you for realizing that what you did was wrong. You made a mistake and you learned from it (I'm sure the guilt has been eating at you). It's time to forgive yourself.

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    emmabo Report

    Ruby Brook
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's really sweet that you still have it. Heros don't need capes.

    Josh Matthews
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my wife was pregnant, she got a call from the doctor saying that we had to go to the major hospital that was over an hour away immediately. He said that our hospital couldn't handle the situation and we needed to go now. That was all he said. This was concerning since the baby was still very early. We drove down and she was immediately admitted. That is when I was informed that both her and the baby were at serious risk of death, and the baby needed to be delivered right away. I had to walk about 15 minutes away to go to the car and get some of her paperwork, and I broke down crying on the walk. It went from us having a nice day out to hearing that I might not have a wife or child the next day. A man who was clearly from another country came up to me, and he said that I didn't need to worry because everything was going to be fine. That was one of the most comforting things I have ever felt. I wish he knew how much it meant at the time. Also, I now have a healthy baby and wife :)

    Rebekah
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love a piece of quartz from a stranger. Sincerely.

    Ann Abdelzaher
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In native american beliefs (at least some anyway) Rose quartz symbolizes love and not just romantic love

    the Lemon Queen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pink quartz or rose quartz mean unconditional love... this is just so sweet... here comes the waterfall...

    Janine Randall
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You got me with that one. Right in the old solar plexus.

    kai konami
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember to charge it under a full moon every month!

    Anna Ledwońska
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    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aah. I had very similar situation. I was very depressed, lonely, without work , and that's why I was going to many free meditation centers to maybe there find some hint about my life or whatever. And there was this petite lovely lady which was teaching some japanese form of meditation and similar things. And I went few times to those events, and after one of them she came to me and gave me her magic ring - solid gold with huge green tourmaline in it. Made especially for her by some creator of rings with some magic, like talisman and so on. She said that she knows that it has to be mine and it will change my life. It is for removing bad karma and for protection and cleansing of soul. I was speechless to say the least. She insisted nad said that it is mine anyway. I have it till now.And indeed it changed my life. Now I have job which i love and is my hobby, and best husband in whole world. We are together 26 years now. I love this ring and still have it..

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    Nicole_Cliffe Report

    Ruby Brook
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just love how they helped you even though they didn't speak the same language as you...

    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time in a borrowed truck, my friend and I were getting gas. Well, the truck wouldn't start back up and the attendant said we'd be towed if we left it in the gas lane. We tried pushing it into a stall from the drivers and passengers doors when suddenly, it starts moving! We look back and 4 Mexican guys had started pushing it without saying a word! Before we could thank them, they just seemed to disappear, but they saved us that morning.

    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    PS: it was a HUGE truck full of furniture and stuff, there is no way we could have moved it on our own. The station was packed and people were honking and yelling at us to get out of the way!

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    Kendra Miller
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A couple of years ago on a really messy night, I spun out on the ice and landed deep in the snowbank. People kept pulling over to check that I was OK. I assured them I was and was just waiting for my parents. I actually resorted to turning the lights off inside the car to pretend I wasn't there so as to in part avoid socialization and in part to not bother people/alter their schedules. I still had a car stop and check on me, turned out that though we didn't know each other or ever run into each other, she was my neighbor... and knew my dad.... go figure.

    Hans
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is this thing with always mentioning the ethnicity of people? It does not matter. It should not matter.

    Gëë Bëë
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because some people get bad press. So it deserves to be mentioned in the good press too! But i absolutely agree, it does not matter and should not matter. x

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    The durpy dolphin
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We saw a crash happen on a icy road, and when we tried to stop to help, our car thought otherwise, lost control, and crashed into a cemi beside us

    Friedlander Rosenzweig
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was stuck with a broken down car on a Saturday night, in the dark, when there were no cellphones- just the promise that a lady in a car would call a tow truck from a pay phone at the next gas station. Next thing you know, these four “sketchy guys” kept circling around, yelling things from their car, really nasty things. I am really, really nervous, but the next thing I know I see my best friend’s burgundy Cutlass making a u-turn and pulling up behind me. Out hops some BIG, unknown dude, in a dress shirt, tie, etc and a pretty girl in the passenger seat. Again, the other jerks drive buy and this dude shouts, “thanks, we got it ,” as he flips ‘em off. I explain the situation and he said that his girlfriend saw time, then the jerks and told him to stop. My savior said, “no way, late for friend’s wedding, yardages, yadda.” She said the magic words... “what if it was me?” an he said s**t and turned around. One minute later the tow truck pulled up right on cue. Great Couple!

    Mo Poppins
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s “obviously” no race or ethnicity in which every member is all good or all bad, but in my life, I’ve experienced the most random acts of kindness from Blacks and Latinos (two of the most maligned groups of people). Latinos (more likely w/ recent immigrants, not 2nd or 3rd gen. or later) have been the most generous and hospitable in sharing their food, and they do this regularly w/ strangers. People who work hard for every penny, tend to be the most kind and generous, so thank you to all who give or share what they can when see an opportunity to help. ✨💝

    Brie Sansotta
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, in this day and age, sometimes you see someone in distress and you think it might be a ploy to get you. So, we dial 9-1-1 and report the person in trouble.

    Aileen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Almost like a Good Samaritan kind of story.

    HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read this story a few days ago except it was a guy who had broken down, this one is stolen i'm afraid.

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    CJPendragon Report

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the nicer things about alloy wheels is that such an inspection takes nothing more than a glance. PSA, if your brakes squeak/squeal while you are driving, but they stop when you apply the brakes, the pads have worn-down to the maximum-wear indicators.

    Loki
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    6 years ago

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    not important but she like twenty one pilots and uwu

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    #21

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    SusieMadrak Report

    Ruby Brook
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She gave you a car?! I strongly respect this stranger...

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know a couple of people who have done this sort of thing. Our receptionist at work did the same thing. Her mother had passed away, leaving behind an older car in perfect working order. CarMax offered her $100 for it, which was an insult, so it sat in her driveway for a few months. A friend of a friend totaled her car (liability-only insurance) and couldn't afford to replace it. She gave the car to her for the cost of the title-transfer ($40-ish).

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    Laurie Stewart
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My niece had that happen to her, as well. Her car was done for, and a friend of a friend had an old van they were going to sell. Just gave it to her, and another set of friends did the brakes and some other small repairs for free to get it going and road safe. It got her from point A to point B for a couple of years.

    L.j. Bus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A friend of my uncle gave me this really advanced and a really expensive, custom made wheelchair he had to use for a year after a car accident to get completely healed (and thus having no more need for that wheelchair). We were about the same size back then so it was so comfy for me as well. After 4 years of using this wheelchair I met that man again at my grandmothers funeral and I felt so bad about all the damage through use. But he just waved it away and said that it was only normal after being used so much longer than he ever used it. And that I shouldn’t feel uneasy about it because I was in need and the wheelchair was not being used otherwise. I still have the wheelchair to this day, 15y. later and it remains more advanced and expensive than the more basic one (to be honest, every kind would have seemed basis compaired to that advnced sportswheelchair I got on loan) health care got me. Although it’s living his last moments but it has helped me out tremendously

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    #22

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    AmNowIncognito Report

    Parmeisan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My doctor convinced a surgeon to trade his lunch hour for a coffee so I could get an emergency dialysis shunt. (The temporary shunt stopped working mid-procedure.) I think most people in the medical field really care about people. They're all heroes.

    KarmaQueen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congrats on your daughter and hopefully being cancer free.

    Sarah Pedersen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is beautiful & I don't know how old you are but most people don't realize it's a good 5 years after Chemo before you can even think to conceive so depending on your age- time is of the essence. Bravo to those Doctors!!! ❤️❤️

    Katri
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you actually know what she means?

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    MiriBaker Report

    released kraken
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's awesome! Kind of wish i could see the jacket now too

    SnoopyCereal
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoa, is there any way I could see a picture of that? It sounds awesome!

    Coolleen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you go to her Twitter, she posted pics

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    LM Jones
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HUGE difference between a lewd comment and a genuine compliment, and you can almost always tell the difference. Yes, even when it's a lewd comment camouflaged as a compliment.

    Urszula
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Recently I'm doing everyday walk with my 3months old baby - as you can imagine pushing a stroller could be boring sometimes. So I've decided that I will say something nice at least once per walk to a stranger, to makes him/her smile ("nice jacket" was one of them). So far so good, both sides are happy ;)

    Luisa Vasconcelos
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's beautiful and kind. I speak with old lady's that stop to see my baby when we are in the park. Some of them tells all their lives, how they meet their husband are my favorite. . My deutsch got so much better.

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    Laura Tomescu
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not a native English speaker, I'm Eastern european. In my country such a comment would be harassment in my eyes. Especially from a man to a young lady/woman. Last year in London someone said the same - the counter boy in a coffee shop about loving my hat. I was stunned. is it an OK/nice comment for English speaking countries? pls explain guys

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    LadyHawkins Report

    My O My
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes me a bit mad that the hospital staff didn't call your mom and let you talk to her too

    Magpie
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where I worked staff would give phone call in this sort of situation.

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    Kim Lorton
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shoot! The hospital should have let you use the phone to call your mom!

    Susan Gardner
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes in the ER little things (that are really big things) are overlooked. They are all busy saving someone's life

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    Ruby Brook
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love that they let the dog out! So heartwarming to know that there are still good people in the world

    KarmaQueen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too scary if you ask me, just because they are woman does not mean they cannot do harm. Protect yourself next time.

    Janine Randall
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Real Queens straighten each others tiara's.

    Valerie Gibson
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they let the dog out? Did they wait for it to do its business and return it safely inside? Inquiring minds want to know?

    Sheila Weila
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried to help a drunk woman get home safely, but she turned out to be a transsexual on drugs who kept changing his mind about where to go.

    Enola Brinkley-Crayton
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do not know where or when but you dear friend had 2 guardian angels that night. Hope you learned a good lesson and thank God that the situation was positive because as you know this is rare.

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    은별
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes things don't seem they'll get better at all, but as soon as you hear that kind of words from someone... it really makes your day and dials you down

    Olivia G
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's adorable- really shows you don't have to have been thru what they're going thru- you just have to understand that they are hurting.

    Hope Cady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's so stupid but im just bawling at every single one of these

    Patriciaenola
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes we are unaware but we meet with am Angel May you have always the peace of the Lord that passeth all understanding

    HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He just really meant "p**s off now i am so sick of your sobbing, thank f**k the flight is over".

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    Kamryn McNamara
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So it was free? That's so sweet. Nobody should have to pay to celebrate another person's lifetime and passing to a better and happier place, a place without crime.

    Luisa Vasconcelos
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry for your lost. That's sad but beautiful.

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    Kjorn
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's better than whistle

    donghun's emo cactus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fortunately, some people know the difference between a raunchy comment and an innocent complement ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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    Stella Rose
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time I was walking and a car full of teenage boys vaping passed me and one of them yelled, "You look nice!" Made my night.

    Amanda B
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like being friends with those kinds of people

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    Kimberly Young
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take note, guys. This is how you give a compliment.

    GlassOfWater
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And THAT is how correctly compliment a woman without making her feel uncomfortable. Things like 'NICE TITS!' isn't taken as a compliment (makes someone uncomfortable).

    Ben Steinberg
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    6 years ago

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    "Those colors really work for your nice tits!!" /s

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    Alexandra Lewis
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On that: I was running to college because I was late. Tripped over next to a building site. Had blood pouring out of the new knee-hole in my jeans, trying to hobble quickly with a massive art folder. The builders had seen the whole thing. They made me sit down on one of their ladders and got the site first aid kit to patch me up! Awesome men!

    KarmaQueen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice way to throw a compliment out to someone, instead of the dreaded whistle.

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Walking across street. Man passes, 'you look great in that dress!' Me: Thanks! (Made my day).

    LanteiaTG
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a difference in being harassing, abrasive, and unwelcome in what someone says to another. Then there's being complimentary in a polite way that will make someone's day. That's this.

    diane a
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A compliment well meant is harmless. After all you are wearing it because you think it suits you.

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    KarmaQueen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shows even at 17 we are still young and need our mothers.

    Honey
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 33 and never ashamed when I'm having a bad day and say that I just need my mom.

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    ron
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In daily life never need my mom or dad, when s**t hits the fan, first ones ill call!

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    GoodWolf
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh I remember comments like that. No, no twins. Yes, only one baby. Yes, I'm sure. And yes, my belly is huge, thank you for noticing.

    Christine Holl
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a woman keep asking me if I was SURE I wasn't having twins. Nope. Definitely just the one in there but thanks.

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    Bunnies are better!!
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was pregnant with a six year old? Well I'd expect her to be pretty big then (Yes I know thats not what she meant but I couldn't help myself I'll shush now)

    Jenný Samúelsdóttir Herlufsen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was literally about to write that exact comment! I find the "Dad"jokes extremely and awkwardly funny! We shall show ourselves out.

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    Pumbaa
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What in the hell makes these people commenting to some random pregnant woman about her looks??!!! I simply don't get it. WHAT THE F**K? Mind your own f*****g business if you won't do anything helpfull or nice..

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had two in quick succession. Went to my regular grocery store to shop. Cashier said 'You are pregnant - AGAIN??' I smiled at her and said (innocently) - 'If I could figure out what was causing this I'd put a stop to it!' I still chuckle at the memory. I was so happy to use that line that I wasn't even offended.

    Frozengeckolover
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope it made the cashier uncomfortable when you said that. Lol.

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    KarmaQueen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who thinks it is okay to say things like that?

    tuzdayschild
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't care how big you get, you're growing a human being inside you. There is NEVER any cause for shame.

    Janice Seagraves
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was told I looked fat when I was pregnant with my baby. I went the eye doctor and he said I glowed.

    Kelley Kujala
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    im 5'4 and had eight and nine pounders always got accused of having twins. nope just big healthy babies thank you

    WhatEvenIsLife
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People can be stunningly inconsiderate about this. When I was pregnant with my first, another woman in the office was also pregnant, and we found out we had the exact same due date, so we started chatting regularly. Other people in the office CONSTANTLY compared our sizes. I happened to carry small; she happened to carry big, and also had a few health complications. No one would shut tf up about how "huge" she was compared to me. They even made us stand next to each other at one point and took a picture. I wish I'd had the courage to say something. The other woman never did, she just smiled, but I worried all the time that it hurt her feelings. It was insensitive of me to never address it or stick up for her, and now I feel bad about that.

    Naomi Armitage
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I'd had the foresight to say something like, "I AM?? Really?? OH MY GOSH thank you SO MUCH for telling me! I never would have known if you didn't point that out!"

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