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The fact that people share an idealized version of themselves on social media, cherry-picking only the best images, thoughts, and experiences isn't new. But the lengths they go to marketing themselves keep surprising even the ones who think they've seen it all.

I'm talking about r/Instagramreality. It's a subreddit whose members strip down the glamor of make-up, flattering poses, and all kinds of photo editing, and expose the truth behind the facade. It's been around since 2017, and we've written about it numerous times (here, here, and here), but even these folks still get baffled at how absurd some of these manipulations are. Here are a few reasons why.

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A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

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Klaatu Verrata (Cough)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yikes. Filler is expensive. Always amazes me how much vain people will pay to turn themselves into literal caricatures of themselves.

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In an earlier piece on r/InstagramRealityBored Panda spoke to Siobhan Ward, a primary therapist at Life Works, a rehabilitation center that provides treatment for addictions and eating disorders, about the scope of social media addiction in the United Kingdom.

"If you broke 'social media addiction' down into categories, it would encompass other process or behavioral addictions such as porn and gambling, as well as eating disorders, especially predominant with the likes of Instagram," Ward explained. "It may be that the addiction is not with the social media itself, but the social media has become a tool of other addictions."

The therapist thinks people can't stop faking and editing their Instagram photos (even when it's an obvious lie) because of brain chemistry. "Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that comes into play with the addict — it is what tells us that we enjoy something and therefore need to do it again as it gives us pleasure."

"If the person is taking a lot of selfies that have to be 'perfect', then maybe they are not addicts. Instead, this could be a sign of a possible narcissistic personality disorder. Also, if someone is posting pictures to get as many likes as possible, they may not be getting certain needs met in their life. They may not have the love, support, or even safety that they need now or that they needed when they grew up and therefore have had to find another way to fill that hole," Ward said.

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A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

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This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

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Steve Barnett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm getting the feeling that I'm probably going to make more Slender Man jokes.

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Interestingly, being reminded that social media is fake can also 'fill' us. In a 2019 study, researchers decided to investigate the effect 'Instagram vs. Reality' pictures (the ones containing side-by-side photographs of the same woman, one an idealized depiction and the other a more natural depiction) have on body image.

They got together 305 women aged between 18 and 30 years, the largest demographic group of Instagram users. The sample had a mean age of 25.34 years, and their mean body mass index (BMI) was 26.98, indicating a slightly overweight sample. The majority of participants identified as Caucasian (69.2%), followed by Latino/Hispanic (11.8%), African American (10.2%), Asian (6.6%), Native American (0.3%), and 'other' (2.0%). The participants were randomly assigned to view one of three sets of Instagram images over a period of time: 'Instagram vs. reality" images, the 'ideal' side alone, or the 'real' side alone.

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In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

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Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

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"[The study found that] viewing the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images resulted in decreased body dissatisfaction relative to the ideal images," the researchers wrote. "Furthermore, the detrimental effects of appearance comparison were much less marked for the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images than for the ideal images. It was concluded that 'Instagram vs. reality' and real posts have the potential to bolster women's body satisfaction, but more research is needed to assess their longer-term impact."

Siobhan Ward said that we need to become aware of what we believe we are getting from the Internet in order to start resisting its temptation. "By understanding why [we] turn to the Internet, [we] can start to think about healthier ways to meet these needs."

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This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

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Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

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Davis the Un-Greatest
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think those are just shoes with giant soles. The legs are a different story, however…

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Valley Girl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was easier to just pull her hand in her sleeve than to have to photoshop that too

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Omima mimi miki
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yes id like to ask a few questions. first, when you take your pants off do i get holocaust skinny or anorexic skinny? and my second question is will i be shocked, scared or grossed out? Lastly, where is your hand? thank you - those are all the questions i have.

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Melissa Chicas
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I simply cannot look at anything else besides the “disfigured” legs!

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Lucky Lola
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair this is what my feet look like compared to my legs 😂

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Summer Woodsong
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But, the walls are melting..... and the back of the couch has issues as well... Come on, folks, Photoshop is just not that hard to use! Duplicate the layer, cut out the human, stamp in the straight lines on the wall, copy the human over into its own layer, make your adjustments, combine the layers and you're golden. She will still look inhuman, but it will be a better snow-job all around!

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Gail Nicholson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The 'giant feet' is the first thing OP notices? I think they have a problem! 😂

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Vonny Browne
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The last time I saw a pair of legs like that they were hanging out of a birds nest.

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Rebecca Surette
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I thought we had forgotten Twiggy. I don't feel so old anymore.

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Cybele Spanjaard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I though people, liked shapely legs not skinny out of proportion ones?Oh well all in the eye of the beholder..they made themselves a star by being on this list!!

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Kanga9ine
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her feet weigh more than her legs. Good thing they are tied on tight. They could knock her out like Mike Tyson.

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Rannveig Ess
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does she have a hand like a dog's paw/ Or is that a burrito...

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LJ Robinson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so sad, what are our young people going thru that makes them think this is the way to look? I'm not buying media influence anymore, it's past that with this photo.

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Skitty
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The “giant feet” comment is a sarcastic way of pointing out the ridiculous spaghetti legs. Lots of influencers who stretch/skinny their legs leave their feet unshopped, thus making it look like there’s a lot pics of ppl with really big feet.

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bdunbar@kcls.org
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is strange that somebody would like this. I have lived a life with really scrawny legs. I've always thought my tennis shoes (especially my reeboks that help my bunions) made me look like I had toothpicks stuck in boxes. WHO would think that's a good look?

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Buzz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anorexia isn't something people should strive for.

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DKS 001
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if your legs were that long and thin, you would have a lot of problems holding the rest of yourself up. And your knees would be boney looking, not smooth and round. since when does the holocausts victim look equal "sexy"? (Apologies to anyone offended with the Holocaust victim image. It sincerely is what "thin" looks like these days.)

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Jo Choto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When your legs can't support the weight of your feet...

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Stefanie Michaud
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Has anyone else noticed the "shadow" of her legs? Shadows don't work that way sweetheart

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Crazy dog woman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe women actually think this is making themselves look good.

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Heidi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I would bend my barbie's legs as far as they could go, they'd look like these legs.

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John Dilligaf
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this doesn't even look real. Looks like some filmmaker CGI stuff

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Isa Trip
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would anyone want to have skinny legs like that? What happened to nice toned thicker legs? People be looking like they are walking on their hands.

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Ms LaDonna
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spider legs, spider legs doesn't look natural on anyone... sing it.. lol

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Ray Martin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When your shadow suddenly stops, you know there's a glitch in the matrix.

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Jenna Hollander
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have slenderman legs 🙈😂 soo..the legs aren't the issue lol

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We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

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"The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

"The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

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Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

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From Her Profile vs. Tagged

From Her Profile vs. Tagged

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Sarcastic Cow
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you photoshoped yourself hard enough to be Kate Siegel. Good job.

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Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

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Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

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What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

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She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

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Monday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why accept the reality show invite if you've modified your online image this much is what I don't understand. You KNOW you don't look like your pictures, so why expose yourself? [Why change yourself this much is a question for another day]

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Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

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This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

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James016
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is the guy from TOWIE (UK reality TV show) and he is dangerously thin at the moment

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I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

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Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

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Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

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Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this whole page could just have a picture of Thanos after he gets the reality stone with caption now reality can be whatever i want

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Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

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Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

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Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

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When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

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The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

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And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

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I like cats
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Srsly...You don't need to change your body to be truly appealing.

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Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

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