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Influencer Lifts The Curtain On The Dark Reality Behind Her Picture-Perfect Social Media Feed
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Influencer Lifts The Curtain On The Dark Reality Behind Her Picture-Perfect Social Media Feed

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In what was promoted as a moment of raw vulnerability, popular Australian influencer Sam Guggenheimer spoke about the toll that being a social media figure has had on her mental health—but not everyone is buying it.

The 23-year-old, who has close to 350,000 followers on TikTok, opened up about her long-standing battles with depression, anxiety, and what she described as an “aggressive” eating disorder.

Highlights
  • Australian influencer Sam Guggenheimer revealed her struggles despite her picture-perfect social feed.
  • Her openness is part of a mental health campaign targeting rising depression in Gen Z.
  • Many critics call her participation tone-deaf, accusing her of using the campaign as a PR stunt while profiting from curated social media.

“Mental health challenges have been a constant part of my journey,” Guggenheimer said. “They’ve shaped me into the person I am today.”

While the model presented her story as one of growth, many are skeptical of her motives, especially since her testimony was part of a corporate-sponsored awareness campaign.

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    “If she really cared, she’d walk away from the influencer lifestyle altogether,” a reader wrote.

    “I call BS. This is a PR campaign with a paycheck attached,” another wrote. “Let’s not pretend it’s a public service.”

    Guggenheimer’s message is part of Can We Talk?, a national mental health awareness campaign by News Corp Australia in partnership with Medibank.

    The campaign aims to tackle Australia’s escalating mental health crisis by encouraging open conversations, particularly among younger generations like Gen Z, who are reporting record levels of anxiety and depression.

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    Guggenheimer’s contribution is framed within this initiative, which is designed to empower Australians with the tools to “have the most important conversation of their life.”

    However, many netizens saw the inclusion of a social media influencer as a tone-deaf move, as social media has been, according to some experts, instrumental in causing the mental health crisis the campaign is trying to tackle.

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    The model described her lowest moments as periods of extreme fatigue, loss of interest in the things she loves, and a general sense of going through the motions without real purpose. She explained how these feelings are then aggravated by seeing idealized versions of others online.

    “With so much access to people’s curated lives online, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparison,” she said.

    Some people considered the inclusion of the model in the campaign as a “tone-deaf” move that undermines the message it’s trying to spread

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    However, that message is complicated by her own brand. For instance, her Instagram feed is flooded with polished shots, sponsored content, and glamorous outfits. 

    It’s a page full of photos that wouldn’t look out of place in a Vogue editorial, and that viewers would never imagine belongs to someone living with depression and anxiety—it’s precisely the kind of content she now warns can damage mental health.

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    To her credit, Guggenheimer doesn’t pretend that recovery is easy or that she’s immune to the toxicity of the very platform she profits from.

    “Although some of the darkest days felt never-ending, there was always a part of me that knew there was light at the end of the tunnel,” she said.

    For her, the most effective form of recovery is combining rigorous physical activity with in-person social activities. “Being physically active every day has truly transformed my self-esteem and my belief in my ability to overcome challenges,” she added.

    “Lean on the people around you. Build and nurture your real-life relationships,” the model continued, before issuing a warning to her audience. “Remember: what you see online is often just a highlight reel.”

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    For the model, lifting the veil of her seemingly idyllic life to talk about her struggles wasn’t an easy task

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    While many recognized the importance of her message, many online believed the optics were jarring. An influencer who’s built a career on aesthetics, branding, and lifestyle promotion is now sounding the alarm on the same curated culture that fuels her popularity. 

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    It’s a paradox that hasn’t gone unnoticed.

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    For Guggenheimer, this marks an attempt at shifting the narrative by being more open with her followers, a task she recognized isn’t easy for anyone—let alone someone like her.

    “Being vulnerable, whether online or in real life, can feel daunting, but it also creates real connection and understanding,” she said.

    “It reminds everyone that no one’s life is perfect—and having these conversations can truly save lives.”

    “We are often our own worst critics and can be incredibly harsh on ourselves—in ways we would never treat another person,” she continued. “Don’t beat yourself up over mistakes or imperfections.”

    Despite how well-intentioned her words might’ve been, in a world where influencers are simultaneously the architects and critics of a culture that thrives on appearance and perfection—whether by using filters or glossing over the less savory aspects of their lives—it’s hard to ignore the irony.

    For more skeptical readers, her message ended up sounding less like awareness, and more like damage control.

    “Get a job.” Netizens took to social media to share their thoughts on the model’s message

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    Born in Santiago, Chile, with a background in communication and international relations, I bring a global perspective to entertainment reporting at Bored Panda. I cover celebrity news, Hollywood events, true crime, and viral stories that resonate across cultures. My reporting has been featured on Google News, connecting international audiences to the latest in entertainment. For me, journalism is about bridging local stories with global conversations, arming readers with the knowledge necessary to make up their own minds. Research is at the core of my work. I believe that well-sourced, factual storytelling is essential to building trust and driving meaningful engagement.

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    Maisey Myles
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have depression and anxiety. Most people with true depression don’t care to get glammed up, put themselves on social media for the world to see. It’s hard enough just to get out of bed.

    PeepPeep the duck
    Community Member
    6 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me I had phases, and making photographic art (mine was before influencers and the net with photos like today) was a last attempt at salvaging what was left of me and who I was etc. not everyone’s the same with depression and I didn’t get help for years back in 2008 because ‘you’re wearing make up and dressing really nice, you can’t be depressed’ 😂 it’s a joke that it’s assumed that we are all bed ridden and not showering in order to be considered truly depressed and mentally needing help.

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    zububonsai
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    6 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True struggle....with reality. I'm sorry not sorry to have more respect (no matter how old/sized/shaped/gendered) for anybody filling the shelves of their local supermarket than towards any "jetsetting influencer". She's cute like... 5 to 10 years, and then what? Basing your self esteem and job prospects on looking cute and s**y and girly half clad in highly curated pics is ... brave 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️, IMHO. The most interesting influencers I deeply appreciate have real jobs, like (random examples) ...Vernon Jackson (hairdresser, USA, specialized in neuro divergent kids&youth), Sandi Brock (sheepishly me, Canada, shepherdess), Ben from "Flawless Cleaning Services"(cleans up deserving elderly/neglected peoples' driveway/sidewalks for free) or Graeme Parker (TheHoofGP, Scotland, cow hoof specialist), Gue Oliveira (hairdresser/stylist and healer, Brasilia) or Akech Joy Winnie (Ugandan model AND living in her village and explaining how Ugandan people cook, make bubbles, make flasks...) Real people I could watch all day.

    Janelle Collard
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like she's "influencing" people to change the channel. 😁

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    Maisey Myles
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have depression and anxiety. Most people with true depression don’t care to get glammed up, put themselves on social media for the world to see. It’s hard enough just to get out of bed.

    PeepPeep the duck
    Community Member
    6 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me I had phases, and making photographic art (mine was before influencers and the net with photos like today) was a last attempt at salvaging what was left of me and who I was etc. not everyone’s the same with depression and I didn’t get help for years back in 2008 because ‘you’re wearing make up and dressing really nice, you can’t be depressed’ 😂 it’s a joke that it’s assumed that we are all bed ridden and not showering in order to be considered truly depressed and mentally needing help.

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    zububonsai
    Community Member
    6 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True struggle....with reality. I'm sorry not sorry to have more respect (no matter how old/sized/shaped/gendered) for anybody filling the shelves of their local supermarket than towards any "jetsetting influencer". She's cute like... 5 to 10 years, and then what? Basing your self esteem and job prospects on looking cute and s**y and girly half clad in highly curated pics is ... brave 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️, IMHO. The most interesting influencers I deeply appreciate have real jobs, like (random examples) ...Vernon Jackson (hairdresser, USA, specialized in neuro divergent kids&youth), Sandi Brock (sheepishly me, Canada, shepherdess), Ben from "Flawless Cleaning Services"(cleans up deserving elderly/neglected peoples' driveway/sidewalks for free) or Graeme Parker (TheHoofGP, Scotland, cow hoof specialist), Gue Oliveira (hairdresser/stylist and healer, Brasilia) or Akech Joy Winnie (Ugandan model AND living in her village and explaining how Ugandan people cook, make bubbles, make flasks...) Real people I could watch all day.

    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like she's "influencing" people to change the channel. 😁

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