Husband Asks Wife To Send Him Calendar Invite Anytime She Wants To Do Something.

Last night while I was making enchiladas in the kitchen, I reminded my husband that on Saturday we have an appointment for our 2yo son to meet Santa (having an appt. to meet Santa is whole other discussion). He nods and then asks me if I can send him a calendar invite whenever I make plans for us.

I laugh and clarify if he is serious. He assures me he is serious and that sometimes, 'I ask him if he wants to do something, and he says yes, but then he doesn't remember'. He then says, "help me help you". I assure him that giving me one more thing to do is not helping me and that I'm his wife, so I shouldn't have to send him calendar invites to hang out. His mood very much changed making me question if may ITAH? So, am I the a**hole?