35 Helpful Tips For Spotting Illegal Activity, As Shared By People Who Fight Against Human Trafficking
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An uncomfortable truth that we all have to come to terms with is that there’s a lot of evil being done right under our noses without many of us realizing it. In the United States, just in 2020 alone, over 10.5k situations of human trafficking were reported to the US National Human Trafficking Hotline. But as the Polaris project notes, “shocking as these numbers are, they are likely only a fraction of the actual problem.”
Wanting to do some good in the world, redditor u/PermanentSeeker turned to the r/AskReddit community for advice on how to spot and report human trafficking in real-life. The thread went viral and a number of internet users who actually help fight human trafficking or have been affected by it shared their advice. This might be the most informative post you’ve seen today, Pandas.
Bored Panda got in touch with redditor u/PermanentSeeker, who started up the informative thread in the first place. They told us that they were inspired to create the thread because of a number of news stories in their area about people being trafficked or almost becoming victims of trafficking. "It was frightening and disheartening to hear about how much could be going on even in the region around my hometown, a relatively rural area, not a large city). So, I wanted to know if there was anything that I as a regular individual could do to help. I hoped that some people might have more knowledge than I do!" they shared.
"I was surprised (but very happy) to see how much traction it got! I was expecting maybe a few helpful responses at best, and so was not prepared for just how positive of a response it got," the redditor said, hoping that their thread made a positive difference in other people's lives. "I try to pay attention to what is going on around me, and pay attention to anyone who might not be safe."
Bored Panda also got into contact with Brooke Burris, who chairs the Tri-County Human Trafficking Task Force in the Charleston area in South Carolina. She was kind enough to explain to us what strategies are best to spread the truth about the scale of human trafficking, what the myths surrounding it are, and what the main roadblocks to eradicating trafficking are. You can make a donation to the Task Force right here.
"The more local the data, the better," Brooke told us that this helps spread the message about human trafficking. "The U.S. Dept. of State has recognized that trafficking is a global problem, solved on the local level through a multidisciplinary response. The more local one's focus on the nature and prevalence of the issue, the better and truer understanding one will have as to both (1) the scale of trafficking and (2) how they specifically can take ownership of the problem and become a part of the solution."
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I’ve told this story on here before. I don’t fight human trafficking, but I’m a teacher who had a student who was sold by his mother in exchange for drugs. He was kept as a sex slave from ages 3-11 when the FBI uncovered a sex ring and found him. He had never been to school. He had never even been out of the house. These sorts of crimes are not being committed out in the open. They are very well hidden. You will never see these children, and no one is missing them. This poor boy couldn’t read or write. One day, he got a 100% on his spelling test. He asked me if I could ‘call his mom and ask her to take him back and he’d be a good boy from now on.’ Child sex trafficking is unfortunately all too common, but its become a very hidden problem.
Redditor u/PermanentSeeker shared some of the things they found to be the most important that others posted in the thread. "Some of the most helpful responses were in regards to resources; such as where to report child pornography," they said.
"Overall, though, I think a lot of it was just about paying attention to people around us, and being willing to put ourselves out there to ask if things are okay when we notice a strange pattern. I think a lot of people have a natural hesitancy to intrude on other people's lives, but it seems that a lot of the fight against human trafficking revolves around being unafraid to make sure others are safe."
I don't work for any organization that fights this but I have one tip for you all:
If a kid you don't know calls you Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister, Uncle, Aunt, anything, YOU PLAY ALONG. They are likely in a dangerous situation and need help.
And I know it doesn't have much to do with the human trafficking topic, but if a woman you don't know comes to talk to you (specially pretending to know you), looking distressed and alert, you should really play along, as she's probably being followed. P.S: Remember it can happen regardless of gender, I said "woman" because I've heard more examples on women.
u/PermanentSeeker sees human trafficking as such a complex problem that it's "difficult to know what could really bring a change." However, they believe that having a more ethical, moral society could help decrease trafficking.
"This would hopefully lead to a more vehement response when wrongdoing is discovered, as well as fewer individuals likely to become perpetrators because of better moral or ethical formation," they said.
"How to get to that point in particular? I'm really not sure. Though, it is easier to combat something as a culture when everyone can see its ugliness. Perhaps additional exposure and news coverage would be a good place to start. More people made aware of the things going on in their own neighborhoods."
My sociology professor told us if we ever see a child at a motel/hotel , make sure to say hi to them , and you can pretty well judge by their reaction if they're safe or not.
also it's a bit harder to do as a man.
According to Brooke, from the Tri-County Human Trafficking Task Force, another strategy that can help spread awareness about trafficking—particularly sex trafficking—is to bring to light the connection between pornography and human trafficking. "The porn industry brings in billions of dollars and, ultimately, sex trafficking is forced or coerced commercial sex," she said. You can read more about the connection right here.
There are a lot of misconceptions about what trafficking looks like. Brooke told Bored Panda that many people think that trafficking incidents look like situations from the movie 'Taken' and involve kidnapping or require transporting people. "Both are myths," she said.
"Kidnapping and using physical force/coercion is only one means by which a trafficker can control a victim," she said, referring to the AMP model (Action + Means + Purpose = Human Trafficking). In short, there are different actions and means by which people contribute to the problem, for different purposes.
"In fact, according to a report of prosecuted sex trafficking cases in the U.S., 59% of coercive tactics used by traffickers were non-physical, compared to 41% of tactics involving physical coercion," Brooke said. "Further, transportation is merely one type of action used by a trafficker."
Here in Spain we get a lot of women from eastern Europe and sub saharan Africa, some pay for their trip to europe this way, some are blackmailed and some are lured offers of jobs like cleaning, or low level administrative jobs (secretaries, paper pushing) and end up on in a roadside brothel.
If you´re a young woman in a poor area of eastern europe and you get a offer for a easy job in germany, france, spain or the netherlands. be VERY suspicious.
I actually have a story for this! I am by no means someone who exposes sex trafficking for a living, just someone who had an experience.
I lived in a very sketch apartment complex in Phoenix. My wife and I generally keep to ourselves, so we didn’t really have a problem. We at first noticed that there were constant visitors to our immediate neighbors ( their front door faced our front door). We figured maybe they were selling weed or some s**t like that. Do you, we don’t give a flying f**k as long as you don’t bring trouble to us.
Then we noticed it was only men who would show up every 15-20 minutes, stay for 15-45 minutes and leave. At this point we’re thinking whatever, if a chick wants to use sex work, we can’t give a s**t.
Then we noticed the pimp and the other girls in this apartment. They looked young, never left the apartment unless escorted and would only stick around for a couple of months before a new girl was brought in. When I say young, I mean they looked maybe 18. We only started realizing during quarantine and were home all day. The men would constantly knock on our door throughout the day and night, which is what caught our attention.
Anyways. We called Phoenix PD. They knocked on the door and said they couldn’t do anything without us providing photographic evidence. So we sat on our patio one day and discreetly starting taking photos of all the men coming in. Call the cops again and provide evidence. They knock on the door again, a customer walks out and hauls ass. The girls all haul ass. The pimp comes by after and bangs on our door.
We stayed at my dads house for 2 weeks while a sex crimes investigator surveyed the apartment. The pimp helped them move out and the investigator was able to find their new spot. We moved the f**k out very shortly after because we were afraid of some sort of revenge.
This is long, but pay attention to the people surrounding where you live. No need to be a nosy person, but when we actually started paying attention, we saw what was going on more clearly. We were concerned because none of these girls spoke any English, weren’t allowed out of the complex without an escort and seemed to be replaced constantly.
You all did the right thing and I'd also be terrified after so I'm glad you were able to move out.
In Texas, something similar happened to my great grandmother when she was around ten. This can happen anywhere. And children are particularly vulnerable.
Her father traded her for some farm animals in the 1910's. So she went to live with this middle-aged married couple. She was supposed to be their servant in exchange for food and board. She had her first child fathered by the husband when she was eleven. It didn’t survive. The second one did.
After my grandma told me about all this and more, I suddenly understood my great grandmother better, her personality and her actions. And I had always wondered why she wasn’t much older than her oldest children. And then I knew why.
If I remember correctly, she died in the late nineties/early 2000's. She was a complicated woman.
Bored Panda wanted to get Brooke's opinion on whether she believes that human trafficking could be eradicated entirely. "Until the Lord comes, I think evil will always exist in our world. Therefore, if I'm honest, I don't think we will be able to eradicate human trafficking entirely," she was candid that the problem will always persist in some shape or form. The best that we can do is limit its scope as much as possible.
The Charleston area chair of the Tri-County Human Trafficking Task Force explained that one effective thing that society as a whole could do to eradicate sex trafficking is to stop watching pornography. "According to cases reported to the National Human Trafficking Hotline, pornography was the 3rd-most common form of sex trafficking, after escort services and elicit massage businesses," she said.
I worked as front desk for a hotel, had a couple of experiences with this.
Look for groups of 2-3 where one person does all of the talking, specifically when the other(s) look scared, are overly covered, cringe when the talker is speaking, or look under the influence of something.
Ensure you get ID from all parties when you suspect something is going on, note down their room number and names given, trust your gut, what we call a 'gut feeling' is a combination of millions of tiny factors you might not knowingly be aware of, tiny details like hitched breathing, microexpressions, specific lying tells, environmental factors, etc.
These all add up and let your subconscious mind make connections that your general mind might not. Trust that feeling if you suspect something is wrong, and contact the police to inform them of a suspected human trafficking issue.
Both times my gut told me to call it in I ended up regrettably being correct.
There's an app you can download called TraffickCam.
Any time you stay at a hotel, upload photos of your room. Those photos are incorporated into an artificial intelligence algorithm that helps identify locations of trafficking victims via background details.
If a guy comes into a tattoo shop with multiple women (either at once or separate trips) and makes the women get the same tattoo
This may be specific to the area of the US I was in, but the nonprofit I worked for had us go to tattoo shops and give them pictures of known tattoo designs that traffickers make their victims get. Most shops were happy to take the pictures and post them in employee only areas and train employees on protocol when somebody came in for the tattoo. One was really s**tty because they didn't want to miss out on the money they make from doing these tattoos, which made us assume it was a lot of requests for the tattoos
I didn't know about this one, makes sense. Everybody who knowingly profits from human trafficking or deliberately holds back information should be punished.
"A key roadblock to eradicating sex trafficking is that porn is so accessible, 'normalized,' and even praised in our society. Technology has exacerbated the growth of sex trafficking," she warned.
Meanwhile, when it comes to eradicating labor trafficking, an effective strategy, according to Brooke, is to "keep abreast of your local HB Visa applicants and do outreach efforts on employment rights in those communities with high numbers of HB visa workers."
She noted that this is "by far most effectively done in a culturally appropriate manner with in-person translators. Further, it should be noted, that stats show that labor trafficking is more prevalent than sex trafficking. The vast majority of human trafficking victims come from vulnerable populations, and of the approximately 24.9 million victims of forced labor, an estimated 4.8 million—about 19%—are trafficked for sex."
Redditor u/sunshineandshrapnel, aka Grace, who was one of the top commentators in the viral thread about trafficking, kindly helped Bored Panda get in touch with Brooke. Grace still volunteers with the Tri-County Human Trafficking Task Force from time to time. She noted that there are some ethical pornography websites out there that "ensure the actors have signed consent forms and verbal consent throughout."
I can only speak of my experience being trafficked in America. They get you young, when you're poor, and don't know any better. A mixture of positive validation and generosity contrasts heavily with the poor and abusive lifestyle prevalent in poverty. Then it becomes an ask, and another ask, and before you know it you're just in it and don't know any other way.
Any time I see a younger woman being affectionate with an older man I want to claw his eyes out. Men in business suits still gives me anxiety.
Don't buy sex from anyone who looks under 20. If you do you're part of the problem and you know it. Burn in hell Johns.
Anyone who think sex work is just work doesn't care about the amount of misery behind it and the fact that most of the prostitutes are victims of a horrific trafick.
In Latin America: Look for maids who have been with a family since they were children. In my country they are called criadas.
This is form of servitude that closely resembles slavery and begins with a child, usually female of a poor rural family being brought to live with a moderately welthy urban family. The promise of a better future than what the parents could provide.
These kids don't attend school and perform house chores all day and are paid in food and living quarters and sometimes the promise of money that the bosses are holding for them. They grow up this way so when they are adults they are afraid to leave, they don't know any other way of life.
The bosses don't often acknowledge anything wrong and they claim that the criada is grateful for having been given a better life.
I sadly have to admit that this happened in my extended family, they were bosses to a criada who would be 75 years old today. Only after all my aunts died and my cousins inherited the criada, they acknowledged the wrong doing and arragend for her to have a pension and a house and never have to work again and be treated a respected member of the family. But it was too late. She only lived as a retired person for 5 years before dying. She never learned to read, she never had children or a husband or any type or significant other.
"my cousins inherited the criada" I'm sorry, but this sounds too much like (normalized) slavery and it's freaking me out
Not yelling at you, lollipop girl, but That's because it is! When you read the statistics about human trafficking, slavery is exactly what it is and I have no idea why we don't call it just that! A human being is having the function of their body sold for money that isn't their money and the act isn't under their control. It's slavery whether it's sex or housekeeping.
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Did you also read that word "inherited"? They are not a human being but a thing, a vase, broom, favorite mug. Holy crap.
Exactly! It's so messed up, to them they are not people who "help them" (?), but objects that clean and can be passed. Ugh 😓
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This is the same argument our southern republicans make that slaves we're happy bc they were taken care of. They are still saying this b******t today in our government. Those politicians should be investigated they probably have indentured servants locked in their basement
Slaves were very far from taken care of. Sometimes they wouldn't even feed them for god's sakes. They treated them like animals and thinking about it makes me so mad.
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They manumitted their parent's slave when parent died. That individual remained beholden to them. Classical pattern from antiquity. Slavery is not just the middle passage and the old South.
I remember an SVU episode talking about a similar situation to this. It's always some rich people trying to negotiate getting a younger girl because they can teach them to be afraid earlier. Then they grow up and just expect this is the way things are. So sad.
My mom's family have this "old family friend" that actually was their criada. She was about eleven years old when start working to my grandma and basically raised my mom and her siblings. She stopped working there just when she married to her husband and until today she keep have contact with my family
I had a loved one pulled into the sex trafficking industry as an adult. So, I can offer a couple pointers for spotting adults who are being sold as sex workers.
1. Missing shoes. It's hard to run away in a city barefoot. Blisters are a dead giveaway.
2. Not carrying a cell phone, identification, or the purse or wallet to put it in. Their pimp likes to hold these hostage to prohibit contact with the outside world and to make it difficult to purchase long distance transportation.
Redditor u/PermanentSeeker’s thread reached a lot of people on Reddit and beyond. The thread was upvoted over 46.7k times and the author received an entire host of awards.
However, the real value was the information in the thread, shared by the people who know a bit (or a whole lot) about how human trafficking works, how to spot someone in need of help, and how to handle delicate situations.
According to the Polaris project, absolutely anyone can become a victim of human trafficking. No matter their age, race, ethnicity, or gender. However, at the same time, it’s vital to know that some people are more vulnerable than others.
“Significant risk factors include recent migration or relocation, substance use, mental health concerns, involvement with the child welfare system, and being a runaway or homeless youth. Often, traffickers identify and leverage their victims’ vulnerabilities in order to create dependency,” Polaris explains.
Most of human trafficking is not the movie kind. It's more the kind where an ethnic restaurant brings over a cook from their home country and they have to work unreasonable hours to pay back for the trip.
Or maybe it's a maid or a construction worker who works below minimum wage and can't have their passport back.
So look for people who work long hours at sub-legal wages.
When I was young, I had neighbors from India who had a family servant. I was really young at the time and was friends with the family’s children. Their “maid” cooked all their meals, cleaned their house, etc. and slept on the floor. What I remember is the family would go to India every now and then and I guess they promised her a better life in the US if she worked for them. As a result they took her passport and she was pretty much confined to their home. No holidays, no weekend breaks, I don’t even think she was paid and had a bank account setup. She was a very sweet nice lady who made AMAZING curry.
Anyways she wasn’t allowed to converse with anyone outside of the home. However we all carpooled together after school so she would come to my mom’s car to get the children and she would talk to my mom and even make my mom food. After awhile (2 years I would say) My parents and my neighbors started to catch on.
My parents made a plan to get her out and escape. She left and we took her to a family friend’s place where she lived for about a year. She would go to the local Indian community center and I believe she met a man there. She eventually moved out of our family friend’s home and I believe she got married. I hope she’s doing well and every now and then I think about her.
My husband works with a children’s home that deals with human trafficking; as said above most have to do with horrible work conditions but there are some that are actual sex trafficking and he said that he finds most of the victims very quiet and their eyes are always darting...constantly looking around for the next horrible thing/person to happen....he comes home and cries and tells me this job is the most rewarding he’s ever done but it is going to break his heart and his hope for humanity.
Human traffickers use a variety of tactics to control their victims. For instance, they can use their power, wealth, privilege, as well as physical and emotional abuse to get what they want. At other times, they threaten their victims, isolate them from their loved ones, and employ economic abuse against them.
“They make promises aimed at addressing the needs of their target in order to impose control. As a result, victims become trapped and fear leaving for myriad reasons, including psychological trauma, shame, emotional attachment, or physical threats to themselves or their family,” Polaris explains.
Psychologist and wellbeing consultant Lee Chambers, from the UK, shared some of his thoughts about traumatic experiences during an earlier interview with Bored Panda.
"Post-traumatic growth isn't always simple to explain or utilize, but often the adversity we face can create a precedent for what we can overcome, help us to see what we need to be grateful for, and give us an understanding of the support we do have,” he said.
Our country (Philippines) is unfortunately the global hotspot of child cybersex trafficking in the world. Unlike what's usually portrayed in movies, these children are not kidnapped by syndicates then sold to p***philes. Sadly, most of the sexual abuses happen at home. Parents or guardians are the ones exploiting them to get money!
I am not directly involved in the actual rescue or fight, but I do work with nonprofit organizations that provide shelter and therapy for rescued victims. I've met and talked to some of these children. Many of them didn't even realize that they are being abused, especially those who were not r**ed IRL. They were groomed to think that just getting nude in front of the camera or touching themselves for pedophiles is not "bad".
I think one important thing is that kids should know when they are being abused. It should be taught in schools. It can save lives.
I agree, we really need to have more attention on some sort of class at school or counselling for that. We don't have that where I live. We don't even have the SexEd class that I've heard off.
It’s important to note that the “taken” kind of sex slave trafficking is NOT the majority of global trafficking.
95% of missing children are returned to their parents within 3 days.
50% have to do with custody disputes.
The majority of the rest are runaways.
There are Facebook macros all the time about “800,000 children go missing every year” and show you a pic of a sad kid in the back of an unmarked van — misleading in its presentation and distracts from the far more widespread human trafficking phenomena. Which includes indentured servants paying off their transportation to the country they work in now, or Politically or socially oppressed in their home country who pay others to move them illegally.
When you go googling “save the children” hashtags, you’ll slip real quick into rabbit holes full of conspiracy theories and falsehoods, which actively damages public efforts to ACTUALLY curb exploitative human trafficking.
Children are exponentially more likely to be sexually abused by a close friend or family member than by nefarious strangers.
Please keep your priorities in the right place.
I am an intern at a Human Trafficking Task Force. It really helps just knowing the basics because I had no idea everything it entails. There is sex trafficking (the one we all know the most about), labor trafficking, and organ trafficking.
Trafficking happens through force, fraud, and/ or coercion. Trafficking is something of value that is being exchanged; the “something of value” can be food, shelter, clothes, money. You get the gist.
There is also the age issue. ANYONE under the age of 18 that has sex in exchange for a good is automatically considered a human trafficking victim. Even if the legal age of consent is 16, a 16 year old cannot consent to commercial sex. It also does not matter if they say they’re 18 and have fake identification “proving” they’re 18. If you are caught paying someone that is legally 16 for sex, you are human trafficking.
My organization is holding a webinar on this soon, and we also have social media where we explain the issues! If you guys want to PM me, I’ll share our socials. Visualization helps us fight HT (and so do donations if you can! we are a nonprofit). Thank you for reading!
in my country (Bulgaria) we had an organ trafficking situation it was called the white bus i was young at the time and i lived in a very small village everyone knew everyone so it wasnt so bad but i was still scared i was hiding behind poles or cars when i saw a white bus it was the only organ trafficking situation i know of but its long gone now thankfully.
“A big part of opening the door to grow from our struggles is finding acceptance and taking ownership over what you can control and finding healthy ways to express the negative emotion that comes with challenges that test us," the psychologist said.
One of the tactics that Lee used to deal with his trauma when he had to relearn how to walk is journaling.
Lee also opened up about what personally helped him when he had to learn to walk again. "Using journaling and talking about how I felt played a significant part in my recovery when I had to learn to walk again, and gave me the space to grow to become mentally stronger as a result. It is also important to reflect on all the hurdles you've overcome, so you can see what skills and lessons you've learned to apply in the future, and adversity often helps us to see what really matters, and gets us closer to knowing our values and purpose."
One thing to note is sometimes it can happen in your own backyard, it can be the people you least expect.
I remember as a kid (maybe age 10 or 11) I used to play at one of my neighbors house, down the street. The girl who lived there was 2 years younger than me, so around 7 or 8, and I knew that her family was poorer than ours (cause the house was smaller and sorta in shambles and very dirty). I played there all the time, and she would always say things that were "odd" or "sexual" and it would always make me uncomfortable (my gut told me something was wrong).
One day she casually dropped that her brother had molested her and that his friends paid to use her body as well. I remember not being able to really process the weight of what she told me (but I knew it was wrong) and I ended up telling my mum and my mum called CPS on the family. Not sure what ended up happening to her because my family moved neighborhoods, but it still really creeps me out to this day, knowing I had sleep overs at her house when her brother and his friends were over and I could have just as easily been taken advantage of.
This type of thing is not uncommon at all.
I really hope this doesn't get buried. The manicure industry is notorious for this, so please think twice before patronizing salons you aren't familiar with.
When talking to a child pay attention. If whenever a parent or adult walks past them or interacts with them and their upper body freezes, arms to the side like the queens guards, watch out. Often when children are abused they flail their arms so their abuser will grab or grip their arms, either to sedate, attack, or pacify. So if a pastor always makes a kid freeze their arms and pull in as if to be smaller, be aware and look for other signs.
Actually, we put our arms down b/c we only tried to hit back once or twice, and that was enough to get worse to happen. ANYone can cause this reaction. My older sis did, our dad did, etc. it's not to be smaller. It's to be invisible, IMO.
Just in case anyone sees this way at the bottom, domestic trafficking takes place in the US everyday under our noses.
I work in rural Kansas and most of the human trafficking survivors I work with are trafficked by their spouse/partners. There is a popular myth that being trafficked means being kidnapped, or brought from another country to be sold into sex slavery or be pimped out along side a group of women; but overwhelmingly survivors think they are just in an abusive relationship and don’t realize until much later that they were in fact being trafficked. It all takes place inside the home and no one realizes it until it’s too late. Just check up on your friends/family every once in awhile, please.
I have some horror stories of survivors I’ve worked with in small towns all over Kansas that still make my blood run cold..
*raises hands* PTSD group person who survived this. It was in Kansas & Nebraska, by her own parents. PLEASE do not think it's a big-city thing. The denial factor of "But we're good conservative Christian" has led to a *lot* of victims going unseen and unheard. IMHO.
Where I live, human trafficking is a big problem and there was a huge bust at a hotel not too long ago.
Usually hotels, motels, and airlines are trained to look out for signs of trafficking. Red flags include those who are very scared or nervous around specific people or talk like their following a script.
Those who are targeted usually come from broken homes or poor countries with the promise of a better life or how all of their problems can be solved by doing X. It can also include being showered with expensive or luxury gifts as a start of the luring in process.
Sex workers are abused so many ways, they are like war veterans. I have a good friend, Her MOTHER groomed her from age six to act "sexy" around men, like "barbie". She sold her for her virginity, to a fifty year old at 14, and immediately sold her to another guy who "married" her. He was of course about forty. And he ended up pimping her out . She actually was up and down I -95 around the time the i-95 killer was and she's hitched around in Florida at exactly the same time ailleen Wournos did. She finally got away, but she never had a good chance at any normal life. She has the kindest heart I've ever known and cries over every kitten or kid she sees. I just love her so much. She's my friend. Love you V.
For university-aged students, be very cautious with foreign summer work arrangements in resort cities abroad.
With foreign resort city summer work as the bait, university-aged students are promised a work visa, arranged legal work, roundtrip travel, and lodging in a distant foreign country for an overall desirable resume-building experience. What is delivered is basically forcing worked hours far in excess of legal amounts, substandard pay, being housed in subpar conditions, and threatened withholding of summer-end return travel unless the person complies. The uni student’s parents likely can’t afford to send money to rescue their child.
For an example, a Polish university student studying international business comes to the US to work for a summer. What really happens is the student comes to the US, get lodged in a single grubby motel room with 11 other similar-aged people, and is forced to work 12+ hours every day rotating to various hotels doing contract housekeeping. She isn’t super confident with her English, absolutely does not know how to alert authorities to her issue, and basically has no money. Parents don’t have the funds to wire her to get her home.
This a real case where this woman was “rescued” because she was cute and a local older gentleman with nothing much else to do but talk with random cute girls asked about her story. She spoke English well enough to tell her tale. The kind gentleman and his generous friends realized how illegal and messed up the arrangement was. The men assisted the woman and her two friends by moving them in with a nice family, helping them get legit summer jobs, and raised funds to pay for flights for all three girls back to Poland. The men reported the sketchy arrangement/company to the local authorities and pulled enough strings to stop that small illegal operation.
For those working in hotel services that contract lots of foreign labor in areas like housekeeping/laundry, just keep an eye out for those folks. Maybe strike up a conversation to make sure they are ok.
Not as bad but something similar happened at the hotel where my ex worked. Not only did they work them 15 hours a day 7 days a week, when the hotel was full they where forced out of there rooms so the hotel could put clients in and gave them mattresses to sleep on the roof. The union guy at the hotel didn't do anything because he'd sold out to management so my ex tried to report the situation to work inspection. Turned out that to report to work inspection bypassing the union you could do it anonymously. YOU HAD TO GIVE YOUR NAME!!. I offered to report it and I couldn't because I didn't work there. I couldn't believe it was so hard to report the situation. The laws need to change to make it easier to report at least in Spain.
some of my friends are ex strippers and they told me that most of the time if a girl looks underage there's good chances that she is.. pimps will spot runaway teenage girls then force them into prostitution and/or stripping
A couple months ago I was looking for this one adult video that I liked but seemed to be removed from P**nhub (which in itself should’ve been a red flag). I eventually found it after a couple of minutes, but it was on one of those sketchy a** websites where a pop up comes up every other click you make. Well, turns out one of those pop ups goes to a literal child porn forum, where the first thing I’m greeted with is a picture of a little girl doing something I won’t even say here.
I immediately reported the site and closed out faster than I ever have before. Moral of the story: avoid sketchy p**n sites. This s**t is way more out in the open than you’d think.
I've grown more reluctant visiting p**nsites because you never know who consented and who didn't.
My sister used to work at a women's shelter and she told me that in Sweden, and in parts of Europe, the three most common places where trafficking occurs is restaurant's, nail salons and and massage salons.
This is a great tip. One of the problems of p*rn is that it’s nearly impossible to tell who is being coerced behind the scenes and who isn’t. The younger they are, the more likely coercion is. But even adults can be trafficked or coerced or otherwise trapped or taken advantage of. Plus, the rise of easy-access p*rn is fueling a rise in sex trafficking.
The “this is a great tip” referred to this comment: https://old.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/lreopg/people_who_help_fight_human_trafficking_what_are/gomabh6/ . The original comment at https://old.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/lreopg/people_who_help_fight_human_trafficking_what_are/gomtk3q/ also mentioned another link. Bored Panda messed something up I guess.
Those young kids and adults out on the streets? They’re prime targets, especially in large cities. If he/she is offering “services” and looks too young, they probably are. I believe the fall of the family unit, untreated mental illness/SUD, and social media are contributing factors...
Predators know what to look for: vulnerability, low self-esteem, lack of belonging, basic needs not being met. It’s funny what a little food and listening ear can grant these people. They know how to up the ante, use addiction, threats, and “rewards” in their favor.
Parents- have a relationship with your kids! Provide the necessities and a safe environment for them to thrive. STOP giving them a reason to run from home. Be involved. If something feels off, acknowledge that. Don’t be scared to seek outside sources when the going gets tough. Mostly tell your baby you love them EVERY day.
Public: If you see something, say something. Don’t blatantly confront w/ predator present. If victim is able to request help get them somewhere private with a phone to call 911.
I suspect this was likely just as big a problem well before any alleged "fall of the family unit."
I volunteer with an organization called unbound Houston. Many of these comments are spot on- it’s not child abductions we need to be wary of, it’s situations where a person isn’t allowed to speak for themselves (in hospitals, doctors offices or any point of service industry like hair appointments and the like), situations involving run aways or even teens who seem “happy” but don’t really have control of their lives/choices or don’t seem well cared for. The overly sexual young child, the overly shy/quiet kid, the overly aggressive teen...all these can be warning signs of sexual exploitation. Basically if it feels off- investigate. If you think you can’t or don’t have the ways to investigate- report it. The worst thing about human trafficking is the human indifference to it.
The Covanent House in Nola takes in kids who are subject to this and at times subjected for years. The NFL player Ben Watson was involved in helping rescue kids. He did a very moving piece about the plight of some of these involuntary situations. Might want to look up the story. I was dumbfounded at the extent and the effort adults will exert to exploit these poor kids. The story still haunts me and I watched it years ago.
I work for a crisis center that provides services for sex trafficking. Honestly, if you think something is off or smells fishy, it probably is. The perpetrators are so good at grooming that the victim doesn’t know that it’s abuse a majority of the time or they have been groomed to deny it. A lot of what I see with adults is super unhealthy relationships and they are told “if you do this, we will give you this”. It’s hardly ever them being taken somewhere, it’s usually a partner or family member. For instance: they want a better life so if they have sex with people for money, they will get better stuff like clothes, education, etc. For kids, they are groomed to think that the person is better for them than their family or are being abused horrifically by their family. It’s freakin sad.
Yes! Let’s teach our children about CONSENT! And bodily autonomy, and that sex is OK, but YOU have to want it, and YOU have to say it’s OK, and YOU have to ask permission of others. 😢💕
As a truck driver, truck stops are pretty popular locations. I haven't seen anything in person that I was aware of, but our company trained us to keep an eye out and we run Truckers Against Trafficking stickers on our trucks. Besides the general prostitution (forced or consensual) at truck stops, truck stops are hot spots for transferring humans, food, and drink for traffickers. There's so many people and vehicles going in and out that it's a rather easy place for them. The signs are the same as everything else mentioned, but this is a spot to keep an eye out if you stumble across a pilot or Flying J for fuel and breakfast one day.
I feel terrible. I’ve seen this. 4 little girls walking quietly and single file into a truck stop, each clutching some money in their hands in front of them that they were obviously given right before entering. Followed by a big older man. At the time, I just assumed they were undocumented immigrants and so I didn’t think anything of it. I wish I had said something. You just assume trafficking happens like it does in the movies.
Tattoos or brands on those who wouldn't otherwise have them, either too young or just not their personality, that are very, very symbolic in nature.
A certain animal or symbol in a style with a marking such as a name or title near it or just the name or title(possibly in another language than the one native to the region or kanji)
people who "own" sex trafficking victims often like to mark or brand them as their own.
Keith Raniere is an American cult leader and convicted sex trafficker. He is the founder of NXIVM, a multi-level marketing company and sex cult based near Albany, New York. Between 1998 and 2018, NXIVM developed a following primarily through its personal development seminars, recruiting several celebrities and socialites. The organization faced multiple accusations of systemic sexual abuse of female members by Raniere and members of his inner circle, leading to the arrests of Raniere and other NXIVM members in early 2018. He actually BRANDED these women!! Cults are a huge problem with children & women getting abused. I live 20 miles from Albany. Never think it can't happen here!! Because it does.
Quiet children who aren’t allowed to speak for themselves. This is a common sign especially at oil fields and truck stops/gas stations
Many children are shy, and many are taught not to talk to strangers. If you approach a child you don't know at a gas station and try to start a conversation, and they don't answer, that's not a red flag. That's probably a child doing what they were taught.
In my hometown there was a human trafficking group that got busted. They were kidnapping clients from massage parlors in town. Creepy af.
Also, I worked in a local ER while in nursing school and were screen everyone for abuse. With kids you see frequent UTIs and bruises in weird places, like the upper arms and thighs. We are also a big hotspot for trafficking prostitutes. In the ER they are almost always accompanied by a man who answers every question for her or they'll say they need to check with her "boyfriend" on certain issues. Had one a couple years ago that we fought hard to get her out of her current situation without his knowledge. Tried to find her a one way ticket across the country to start a new life. No idea how she turned out but her story was heart breaking.
My wife used to teach piano in an affluent suburb, and one of her students had an elderly 'nana' who was openly treated like dirt by everyone in the house.
She began to suspect this was a case of trafficing/slavery, but shortly after she took a moment to talk to the old lady about her situation, the family got rid of the old lady and subsequently fired my wife from teaching their kid.
I am a lawyer and the first thing I would say that is important to do if you notice anything weird is to alert the school, some child service or organisation. Not the police. Because a lot of times (if not most) the parents are the perpetrators or are enabling the trafficking situation, depending on the age of the victim (and of course this changes based on the laws of every country) they may need a legal guardian to make a report to authorities or even if they self report something the parents will deny that anything is happening and the police, classically will never pass on the case to the appropriate public office.
Take notes if you can e.g I saw this at date x happen, notes of the people you may have seen, even take pictures if it is a public place. If you have cctv and camera installed that show the street or public spaces please look at them regularly. Also, be aware of local missing persons, if you see something that feels weird or someone who you feel shouldn't be there (in your area) or they are acting strange, also write down how they look etc, what they did, what they drive etc. It may sound too much but you could potentially find someone who is committing trafficking or who has even been abducted.
Another thing to look at is visits to someone who is an adult by a minor, without their guardian in your area or maybe apartment block. Especially if it is a lot of them and different minors. Most of the times some kind of abuse or exploitation is happening or trafficking. Also, if some minor in your area is being picked up by strangers in cars or different people all the time, note down the car plates, how the strangers look, the dates and again call an organisation. And at the end the authorities if they have to intervene and think the situation is dangerous.
Obligatory "not me" but i know somebody who almost kidnapped by a fake uber driver. Keep yourself and others safe by reminding them to always make sure your driver is who they are supposed to be.
Everyone thinks human trafficking is like the movie Taken. Snatch and grab type trafficking makes up less than 1% of all trafficking incidents. My area of trafficking was a therapist for teen girls getting out of sex trade. Almost all girls were trafficked off of social media direct messages by "boyfriend pimps." Runaways are also at extreme risk, in fact most runaways will be approached within 24 hours of running.
The most important thing you can do to prevent your child from falling victim is to have all of their passwords and monitor the hell out of them.
One thing to know - no trafficked child looks the same.
Here in the UK and across the world, children of all ages, genders and cultures are subjected to human trafficking and exploitation. Vulnerable children - like the ones on the streets - are targeted and moved both within countries and across borders.
Those trafficked here into the UK are often taken from areas of poverty and made to go on dangerous journeys, travelling thousands of miles away from home with many being abused and exploited on the way. On arrival at their destination, the children can be coerced into cannabis cultivation, benefit fraud and forced begging. Others are forced into sexual exploitation or domestic servitude. And the children do not realize that what's happening to them is wrong.
I speak only for UK as I am a man from there. An increasingly high profile form of child trafficking is County Lines. This involves predominantly British children being groomed by their exploiters who then coerce them into buying and selling drugs, often across the country. The exploiters purposefully prey on the most vulnerable children and teenagers, grooming them and gaining their trust over time, often by giving them expensive items such as designer clothes and mobile phones, before forcing them to deal drugs to pay back the "debt" that they have incurred.
They may be too fearful to speak out as they have become reliant on their traffickers to feed and clothe them. They may also have been subjected to physical, sexual and emotional abuse or do not know where to turn for help.
Children who have been trafficked from outside of the UK often speak little or no English, making them even more isolated and dependent on those exploiting them. An almost perfect scheme. There ya go.
I work at a hospital that finds 5 victims of human trafficking a year. The spooky thing is that all those cases come from people who are accompanied by people you wouldn't think are evil s**ts. Like there was one girl who came in with her "aunt". Not an aunt, human trafficker...
That was on an episode of Grey's anatomy. In a later episode the traffickers murdered the doctor who spoke out about them being traffickers. Rip Dr Deluca
The first time I saw a slave I was in Thailand and it really depressed and enraged me. My wife, who was born and raised in Thailand, pointed out that all the girls and boys who get turned out and end up in the ER (where I interact with them) are also slaves really put things into perspective. My knowledge of human trafficking victims is from a healthcare perspective and probably not helpful here. However, if you do suspect human trafficking contact law enforcement immediately, write down a detailed description of the people (write it so you don't misremember), and write down license plates.
I am a forensic nurse and SANE(sexual assault nurse examiner) at a pediatric hospital in the US. The documentary “Nefarious, Merchant of Souls” is a good one to watch to understand trafficking on a global scale.
https://youtu.be/MFaDHgXPbUg
As far as sex trafficking goes in the US, girls and boys can be trafficked by their parents (or other family members) or older men (or women) they met online or somewhere in person. Most teenage girls who are trafficked don’t realize they are being trafficked...they just think that older man is their boyfriend. Not realizing that a man in their mid 20’s should not be “dating” a 12yo. Some traffickers brand their “property” (ex. Tattoos or other body modification such as lines shaved in an eyebrow). However people need to understand that it’s not as simple as just reporting it. They are usually several factors that go into account. Fear is a huge motivator and most traffickers use fear to keep their people in line.
Question for anyone who has experience on this sort of thing:
Around two years ago, I stopped for gas on my way to work. I saw two guys who looked to be in their late thirties or early forties stopped in a parking spot to the side of the gas station building. There was a young girl that looked to be around fifteen years old with them who looked nervous and scared. One of them gave a stack of cash to the other, who took the girl away in the other vehicle.
In that moment, I thought I was sure I was seeing a trafficking exchange. Something about it just seemed off and rose red flags for me, it did not seem as if it was some Step Dad handoff or anything like that. I called 911 and gave a description of everything.
To this day I still think about it and wonder if I did the right thing or jumped to conclusions too quickly. Did I?
Why would you even doubt that you did the right thing? You think there is some other interpretation? The man needed money to buy her ice cream? Of course you did the right thing!!!
Honestly I'd let them do thier jobs and if you want to help then maybe make steps to make that your career.
Human trafficking is a real thing but having 400 r******d qanon conspiracy theorists calling hotlines to report the Clintons is not helping anyone and likely the time wasted with these idiots has caused more problems than solutions.
800,000 kids go missing on average every year.. that sounds terrifying without the last sentence in context. "99.9% of them are found safe" only .1% are taken by strangers".
I am all for reporting suspicious behavior or abuse but when people don't fact check and use inflated numbers of kidnappings to push a political agenda it doesn't help save anyone and likely has caused more harm than good.
There are many career opportunities like being a social worker that are in need of actual caring and empathetic workers. It's actually an easy career to pursue but can be very mentally difficult. If it's something you're truly interested in I can give you some links to useful information on actually pursuing that.
It's good to see people that actually care about our children and want to help but without the proper training you could really hurt families and cause harm in the end whether you have good intentions or not.
Don't let this discourage you from helping the situation, I'm just suggesting a little more than internet advice from strangers before you go down that road.
Peace stranger!
We had a rash of men here in salem stalking young women at stores and a couple of kidnappings and some attempts so we started a fb group where women could request escorts to show up and walk them to their cars.....after a few encounters that ended in arrests they moved on to another community and its been quite for the last 2 years....I'd say keep your eyes open for men just "hanging out" near stores and watch out for the vehicles parked next to you....alot of the time they'll use a van or suv and park next to the victim and jump out as they load their stuff...
I’m guessing you’re probably looking for information relevant to location, but if I may share...
If you decide to travel (whenever we all can safely do so again!) and your destination is a hotspot for human trafficking (SE Asia, Thailand, for example), be very aware of giving money directly to children begging on the streets, or other vulnerable appearing adults. While their pleas will pull at your heart, consider donating (if you choose to) physical goods like food, school materials and other things that aren’t of super high value.
Often, the cold truth is, is that these children are usually being forced by their relatives or non-related adults, to beg and try and make a profit that will then be taken by their trafficker. Especially if they’re out begging during hours they should normally be in school.
How to spot an illegal massage parlor that is likely trafficking: Does it have a camera at the front door and curtains over the windows? Does it have a “warning device” at the front door (e.g., a bell that rings when someone enters)? Are there locks on the service room doors? Does it look like people are living there (e.g. kitchen stuff, beds)? Do they have the appropriate licenses posted?
If the answers are yes to most of these questions it’s highly likely it’s a prostitution - probably trafficking - operation. Report it to your local city and they can investigate and revoke their business license, which will shut the place down. These places are WAY more prevalent that you would think.
What I've learned about is mostly about sex trafficking.
It may not be useful but i thought I'd just post it
Sex trafficking mostly acurs in hotels/motels or vacation parcs. It can be anything, from windows are always closed or a do not disturb sign. To extra linnen and sheets. Also that in most cases the let's say pimp (can be both male and female) pays in cash and asks for extra linnen etc.
A tattoo on the victims back of course is a huge red flag and for example housekeeping can look if the room/house is dirty and especially how the bedroom looks. Weirdly enough a lot of times the bin has been moved.
Maybe for people who work in a hotel or anything a like will find this useful
I used to work with children 12-17 that were sex trafficked, as well as adults. First of all, assume anyone that looks underage is actually underage. If you see those images online, report them. Pimps travel around a lot, keeping girls on the move. Unlike what most people think, all of the clients I worked with (thousands) knew their abuser. Either a friend of a friend, a relative, a step family member, or a person they met online. So check who your kids are talking to online on any platform. They also stake out places like group and foster homes. Honestly, some of you can help out by paying adults for your p*rn and adult content versus using poorly curated sites.
Secondly, I worked with adults that had been trafficked to work in massage parlors. They would be brought in from various countries including China and Vietnam, then have their passports taken. One of our clients got murdered by the traffickers.
Finally, there are people in sweatshops, restaraunts, etc. There are have been numerous high profile cases here in the Bay Area, including one by my house.
I don't have tons of tips, just a bit of education.
People that go to the ER or Urgent Care (likely rare for these folks) with a person who will not leave their side and speaks on their behalf. Could be a parent or translator, could also not be. There was some news article about it a few years ago at some place in Michigan I want to say.
If you travel, taking pictures of your hotel room can help law enforcement identify places.
TraffickCam. There is an app that allows you to load the photos.
This will probably blow your mind but I've done everything possible in my power with 0 results. Atlanta is a hub for this type of thing due to our geographic location and international airport. I would run 911 calls on females who had been assaulted usually after contact with men looking to pay for sex. The largest hospital downtown would do little besides reporting to police. They actually had a massive backlog of r**e kits that sat dormant in a storage room. The most cruel thing I would see happen is how police treated these women. Fulton Industrial Blvd and I-20 is an extremely high crime area in Atlanta, laden with trafficking women from different states. It is approximately 1 mile from the police headquarters and yet crime persists. Police would park across from a gas station lot and the women would leave. Then they'd leave and the women would return. They seem delighted in doing this just to make the prostitutes walk to and fro for hours. I lost a lot of hope. We would see the same women often despite the reports. The only helping hand left is a yearly church based event there that tries to help women off the street. It lasts for a single weekend. Most just go for the food and clothes
My wife is an attorney who works on the advocacy side of human sexual exploitation, and in overhearing her meetings the one line that struck me the most, and that I had never thought of previously, is: there's no such thing as an 11-year-old prostitute. The idea being, when you're 11, you're a victim, not a criminal.
So to answer your question, the best way to spot it is to contextualize illegal activity (in this case, sexual) and realize when someone is doing something because they're being forced by someone, i.e., a trafficker.
The people at risk most are immigrants and foster children. It's not like it is in the movies and people are more likely to be lured online or by someone close to them by far than anything else.
There's a lot of great tips already mentioned.
One thing that hurts people that need help is conspiracies on the internet. When the nutty wayfair conspiracy and others started real tips couldn't get through because phone lines were tied up.
My mother told me I was the abuser and I had forced her brother to r*pe me, front and back holes. I was 8. I'd obviously forced him to do it to me. I didn't stop him because he threatened to do it to my 1 year old sister in the bed next to mine. I couldn't let him hurt her. But no, I was the abuser
Do not trust a silver platter! In the shipping industry, foreign seafarers are approached to be promised a good life in the US. They are approached right outside the pier with promises that are too good to be true causing crew members to abscond their vessel in exchange for work, a home and legalization. They do this without being in possession of their passports because the master of the ship keeps their passports. This usually ends in a sex trade environment or other abusive scenarios. This is common for all kinds of ship workers starting from freighters to cruise ship crew
There are like 50,000 detained immigrants in the USA being forced to work for a dollar a day or nothing, and the women are getting unwanted hysterectomies and are abused in other ways. In some cases these are the same people who were separated from their kids, also in detention in horrible conditions, being given sedatives, walking around dirty, and god knows what else. IN THE USA, the government is striking deals with private contractors, like private prisons to put these people to work.
From my own experience working in a field where we are likely to come across human trafficking, cuckooed properties are often tied to county lines dealers who use child drugs mules.
Find the cuckooed property and you can usually unearth a whole bunch of them.
Aside from this, any south East Asian nail bar in the UK is at least suspect.
Ive known 7 local to me and all have been closed following human trafficking investigations, and any human trafficking training you go on will likely mention them.
They get women who speak little to no English from poor countries like Cambodia and poor parts of Vietnam and almost act like their pimps.
“Cuckoo House” is the UK term for a “Trap House” in the US.
I’m very positive I saw somebody go off with a trafficker. Can’t say for sure because it was either that or a super awkward date meet up. I was at tysons corner mall bored after work and I was messaging my friend and she said something like “btw did you know that the mall you’re in is a hotspot for sex trafficking?” And she sent me an article about it. I read the article and it said something about the elevator bay. So I told her “bulls**t I’m going over to this elevator bay right now” and sat on a bench nearby and people-watched for a bit. It was around 4 o clock at this point. I saw people passing by like normal but I also saw a girl (super pretty, nice clothes and makeup and looked like she was in the 16-19 age range) standing kinda nervously on her phone like she was waiting to meet somebody. Then at 4 like clockwork some fat guy who looked like he was in his late 30s or early 40s came off the elevator and him and the girl started walking away quickly and she looked nervous and was staying a couple feet away from him as she walked with him. I was in shock and froze up at the sight and I forever wish I’d said something to them. I did keep an eye out on the AMBER alerts and any missing persons stuffs for weeks afterward but I never saw her picture so I never really followed up after that. I didn’t see any mall security around to reach out to and with the fact that this happened at exactly 4 PM I suspect it was strategically planned for shift change.
With this said, I would suggest that you make sure to not freeze up in shock of what you’re seeing like I did and say something if you see something like that. It was awkward in the case I saw bc they were gone too quick to catch. So maybe get a picture even if you can Bc I didn’t think of that at the time
Online content reviewer who frequently reviews pedophilic content:
Your kids are frequently recorded at beaches or parks. Especially in countries where kids are nude. Take care, and don't upload too many kid pics to social media.
Ugh. Wish I had done something.
Was on a streetcar one afternoon and overheard a young, pretty girl discussing her “runaway” from home to someone she was familiar with. The familiar person was a kindly, older man who understood her situation and could understand what she was going through.
It was total grooming.
I did turn around and stare at the guy. I tried to get eye contact with the girl. At the end of the day it would have been a nosy citizen making false accusations.
I’ve never forgotten the “what if” of the situation and hate myself for not saying something.
I remember seeing something about a website where you upload photos of your hotel room to help ID possible trafficking hotspots. Not sure what it's called, but sounds useful.
Check out DeliverFund if you want to do something about it or read about how they fight it. I am just a supporter of theirs so I can't answer your question directly. They have some videos that might give you a better idea of how it happens though.
There was a trafficking case only just a few towns away where i am, and quite recent. I can give some of the tips they gave:
Never ever go to meet with someone online
Don’t work somewhere as a last resort if the place is sketchy
Don’t give your IP address (its mostly just the basic internet safety stuff)
I kind of think the donut shop in my very small town is doing human trafficking. It's an EXTREMELY small town (probably no more than 5,000 people total) yet every time you go get donuts, they have a new crew working.
This was very hard to read. The fact that things like this happen all the time is horrifying.
I feel like a lot of these "tips" are from non-experts parroting back things they've heard or read online. Before you "say something," it's really important to be sure you're not making assumptions based on your own biases. I had a coworker who was pulled over and nearly arrested in front of his daughter because someone didn't believe a Latino man could have a blonde child. There was a story not long ago about a plane that was diverted because one passenger thought it was suspicious that a child was staring at a tablet instead of interacting with her mother. Blended families with mixed races often are suspected of kidnapping, as are parents with piercings and tattoos. "Better safe than sorry" is not a good rationalization for these things. False accusations are genuinely traumatizing to children, so it's important to know what you're talking about when you decide to report something you think is suspicious.
So what I have learned is that it's usually someone close to the trafficked person who betrays them at the start, a parent or partner, and then some middle person who facilitates the trafficking and keeps and controls the trafficked person. You know who barely got a mention? The end user. Because with sex trafficking (as opposed to other kinds) someone is having sex with the victim. Who are these people? They are (usually) male, (usually) white, (usually) wealthier people. The reason trafficking persists is because there is an end user. Those are the people that should be targeted, hunted down and locked up forever.
Or burn in he**, for all of me. See: Jerry Falwell Jr. FYI, his university's moral code is so great that males accused of rape are merely asked to transfer. It's a fair bet he exploits students for sex. He's both a ringmaster and end user, and I pray he meets a proper end.
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As someone who was sexually groomed online and was almost trafficked, thank you for bringing light to this. We need to be aware of this.
A lot of these contain 0 actual tips, just depressing 'trafficking happens' stats. And a lot of the commenters are lumping consensual sex work in with trafficking. Also if you are somewhere that sex work is illegal, do NOT call the police for suspected sex trafficking situations, they will just arrest and further harm the victims (YES in the US especially). Find a refuge or anti-trafficking group instead.
If I witnessed something suspicious, I wouldn't call my local police; I certainly don't trust them with something requiring so much effort and nuances needed to Iinvestigate. I would be calling the closest FBI office. This post is very helpful, as I live in Ohio and, after researching, four major cities are ranked rather high in the nation for trafficking.
There's also adoption trafficking and I blame celebs for it. People think they are giving a poor child from Asia/Africa a new life. In reality, the child could have been trafficked. Worse, since police don't take complaints of biological families seriously, family often pull out other biological kids from school to pool resources to find their child. The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
And then the b*stards send a kid *back* (or try to) if it isn't the daydream they imagined. Argh!
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Growing up, I lived only a street away from my grandparents. I'd visit often and had a friend my age who lived across the street. She didn't have nice clothes and didn't attend school. She was very shy and let other kids bully her. I wasn't allowed in her house but one day she snuck me in to show me all her clothes. She had a drawer full of lingerie! I didn't know what it was at the time. Not shortly thereafter, the police arrested her parents and she moved away. I never saw her again but as I got older I realized what was probably going on. There's no other reason for a ten year old to have an entire drawer full of lingerie.
And here's yet another reason to walk away from my life among humans.
I have a close friend who's job it was to catch these offenders. They were taken to the country where the warrant was issued and my friend didn't always uhm deliver them unharmed. Lets just say the filthy shits were a bit ... bruised when they were handed over.
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An american woman wanted to legalise prostitution, because she thought that doing so would stop prostitution completely. She told me she use to have sex with men for money, and that se never had anything bad happen to her, and I got so angry. It was so selfish! Just because SHE never got beaten or trafficked doesn't mean others wont!! But she was adamant, she thought traffickin rings would just stop to exist, once prostitution was legal, and she just couldn't understand that for a trafficking ring that would be like an open invitation to expand and start operating in the open, with more and more victims stolen from poor countries and families! She is a priviliged and stupid woman, and I hope she at one point or another actually get to see the misery trafficking is!
GUYS ! I NEED YOUR HELP ! I was searching up a movie called "Sleeping Dogs Lie" because I was talking about gross and weird movies with my friends and in the search results came up a link to a video of a woman engaging in sexual acts with a dog. I clicked on it hoping it was a joke but it wasn't. In fact, there were LOADS of other videos showing b*********y. I felt like throwing up. I tried reporting it but most websites asked me for information I do not yet possess because I'm a minor and I'm not sure what to do. How and where should I report it?
Its absolutely horrifying how many awful people there are in this world.
This was very hard to read. The fact that things like this happen all the time is horrifying.
I feel like a lot of these "tips" are from non-experts parroting back things they've heard or read online. Before you "say something," it's really important to be sure you're not making assumptions based on your own biases. I had a coworker who was pulled over and nearly arrested in front of his daughter because someone didn't believe a Latino man could have a blonde child. There was a story not long ago about a plane that was diverted because one passenger thought it was suspicious that a child was staring at a tablet instead of interacting with her mother. Blended families with mixed races often are suspected of kidnapping, as are parents with piercings and tattoos. "Better safe than sorry" is not a good rationalization for these things. False accusations are genuinely traumatizing to children, so it's important to know what you're talking about when you decide to report something you think is suspicious.
So what I have learned is that it's usually someone close to the trafficked person who betrays them at the start, a parent or partner, and then some middle person who facilitates the trafficking and keeps and controls the trafficked person. You know who barely got a mention? The end user. Because with sex trafficking (as opposed to other kinds) someone is having sex with the victim. Who are these people? They are (usually) male, (usually) white, (usually) wealthier people. The reason trafficking persists is because there is an end user. Those are the people that should be targeted, hunted down and locked up forever.
Or burn in he**, for all of me. See: Jerry Falwell Jr. FYI, his university's moral code is so great that males accused of rape are merely asked to transfer. It's a fair bet he exploits students for sex. He's both a ringmaster and end user, and I pray he meets a proper end.
Load More Replies... As someone who was sexually groomed online and was almost trafficked, thank you for bringing light to this. We need to be aware of this.
A lot of these contain 0 actual tips, just depressing 'trafficking happens' stats. And a lot of the commenters are lumping consensual sex work in with trafficking. Also if you are somewhere that sex work is illegal, do NOT call the police for suspected sex trafficking situations, they will just arrest and further harm the victims (YES in the US especially). Find a refuge or anti-trafficking group instead.
If I witnessed something suspicious, I wouldn't call my local police; I certainly don't trust them with something requiring so much effort and nuances needed to Iinvestigate. I would be calling the closest FBI office. This post is very helpful, as I live in Ohio and, after researching, four major cities are ranked rather high in the nation for trafficking.
There's also adoption trafficking and I blame celebs for it. People think they are giving a poor child from Asia/Africa a new life. In reality, the child could have been trafficked. Worse, since police don't take complaints of biological families seriously, family often pull out other biological kids from school to pool resources to find their child. The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
And then the b*stards send a kid *back* (or try to) if it isn't the daydream they imagined. Argh!
Load More Replies... Growing up, I lived only a street away from my grandparents. I'd visit often and had a friend my age who lived across the street. She didn't have nice clothes and didn't attend school. She was very shy and let other kids bully her. I wasn't allowed in her house but one day she snuck me in to show me all her clothes. She had a drawer full of lingerie! I didn't know what it was at the time. Not shortly thereafter, the police arrested her parents and she moved away. I never saw her again but as I got older I realized what was probably going on. There's no other reason for a ten year old to have an entire drawer full of lingerie.
And here's yet another reason to walk away from my life among humans.
I have a close friend who's job it was to catch these offenders. They were taken to the country where the warrant was issued and my friend didn't always uhm deliver them unharmed. Lets just say the filthy shits were a bit ... bruised when they were handed over.
Load More Replies... An american woman wanted to legalise prostitution, because she thought that doing so would stop prostitution completely. She told me she use to have sex with men for money, and that se never had anything bad happen to her, and I got so angry. It was so selfish! Just because SHE never got beaten or trafficked doesn't mean others wont!! But she was adamant, she thought traffickin rings would just stop to exist, once prostitution was legal, and she just couldn't understand that for a trafficking ring that would be like an open invitation to expand and start operating in the open, with more and more victims stolen from poor countries and families! She is a priviliged and stupid woman, and I hope she at one point or another actually get to see the misery trafficking is!
GUYS ! I NEED YOUR HELP ! I was searching up a movie called "Sleeping Dogs Lie" because I was talking about gross and weird movies with my friends and in the search results came up a link to a video of a woman engaging in sexual acts with a dog. I clicked on it hoping it was a joke but it wasn't. In fact, there were LOADS of other videos showing b*********y. I felt like throwing up. I tried reporting it but most websites asked me for information I do not yet possess because I'm a minor and I'm not sure what to do. How and where should I report it?
Its absolutely horrifying how many awful people there are in this world.
