Hey Pandas, Tell Me About An Incorrect Stereotype About Your Religion, Race, Sexuality, Etc. (Closed)
Whether it's your religion, race, sexuality, gender, or even your astrology sign, there will always be an incorrect stereotype for it. Tell me about it and help correct us!
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That all Muslims are terrorists. Im a Kurd from Erbil, Iraq and everyone there absolutely despise organizations such as as ISIS and the Taliban
I saw a bumper sticker yesterday that said "So you wanna play cowboys and Muslims?" I've never wanted to vandalize a vehicle so much (no, I didn't damage anything).
You know... I've heard and read more bad stuff about so called "christians" than Muslims. Strange
This is plain ignorance, if people took the time to look into it, terrorists are not true Muslims, they just use that as a mask to hide behind. REAL Muslims are kind, caring devoted people how would give you their last penny if you needed it more than them, the absolute opposite of what a terror it stands for. I’m not Muslim but some of the greatest people I know are, I wouldn’t trade those friends for anything.
Is it true that the Kurds in Iraq practice widespread FGM (female genital mutilation)?
Sadly, yes. This occurs most commonly in Muslim majority nations that do not believe in women's rights, but many organizations such as WADI are making a come back at this
Load More Replies...I'd like to add that my family moved away in 2000 when I was 15 during the rein of Hussein, so that just adds to the hatred
We are friends with a dear family from Mosul and they are wonderful people and absolutely hate what these fanatics have done to their city and what they and their children had to witness. And what they had to go through fleeing to Europe. Heart breaking to hear their experiences.
It is my opinion that ALL MUSLIMS are not terrorists. That is to say that you can not be a Muslim and a terrorist at the same time. And the terrorists are giving Muslims a bad name.
This idea is partially created by a bunch of very lazy ,and obviously overpayed, reporters and journalists. They should write :Terrorist claiming to be Muslim Fundementalist but they shortened bit by bit. The day of the assault at Charly Hebdo I first read the new word muslimterrorist for the firsttime. They even left the dash inbetween out. That's NOT objective reporting. That's influencing and hatespeech.
Real question - how do you square your pacifism with many of the directives clearly stated in the Koran, given that many religious and political leaders (like Erdogan) avow that you can't just pick parts of the Koran to follow?
I could write volumes on the stereotypes about women, but one of the ones that I see the most online is that sleeping with a lot of men makes a woman's vagina loose. (To say nothing of the assumption that apparently, having a lot of sex with just one man doesn't.) 1) This is a myth created to control women and devalue them for having sex; it treats our bodies as consumable objects for men's pleasure with no regard for our own wants or agency. We're expected not to have sex so that we can be 'tight' for other men, because that's what THEY want. 2) Anatomically, it's also false. The human vagina can expand to accommodate a baby's head during birth, and afterwards return to it's usual size. No human penises are big enough to permanently expand a woman's vagina. 3) If a woman's vagina is tight, that doesn't mean she hasn't had a lot of sex; if a woman's vagina is less tight, that doesn't mean she's had a lot of sex. Like penises, women's vaginas are not all the same size. Additionally, a tight vagina can also be a sign that she isn't fully aroused, and needs more attention before inserting anything.
They need to teach more about this in schools, girls should not have too look up anything about their anatomy online. This is the first time I am learning about this, and honestly, I find that alarming. (not the information, the fact that I did not know this.)
They have a WEBTOON for this sort of education. And it goes far with a ghost who knows what kind of diseases plus what kind of kinks
Load More Replies...A woman's external sex organs are her vulva, not her vagina - a vagina is the canal, not the external organs. Plus, a vagina (esp once you get past the opening, and not counting the mythical 'g' spot), has little to no nerve endings, so if you want to please a woman, you need to pay attention to the externals.
The G spot is likely just an area where it is easier to stimulate the internal part of the clitoris. Yeah the vagina in itself barely feels anything
Load More Replies...hahahaa not in Africa TRUST ME d***s are f*****g HUGE here a very large percentage too. omg that will definitely change your vagina permanently. you wont open extremely but honestly in Africa tight and loose pussies is definitely a reality. i understand people are different but damn s**t is different here.
Fact checked, this is absolute horseshit. Yes semen has a higher pH. No your vagina cannot adjust more easily to a single partner. Your odour might change if you got bacterial vaginosis, but that is not more likely if you have unprotected sex with more than one partner. What can cause problems is spermicide, so use condoms without it. Go peddle your nonsense elsewhere and stop trying to make women worry about how they smell.
Load More Replies...I’m an atheist so that must mean I automatically hate all religions and religious people. I am very respectful of all religions, SO LONG as you don’t tell me I’m wrong for my beliefs and you don’t kill in the name of it.
Thanks. I accept atheism but my atheist friend bullies me for being religious and I am glad not all are like that.
Atheists are more moral than believers because they do good just for the sake of doing good, not in hopes of appeasing some Sky Daddy (or Mommy). If you want to believe in a god or a messiah, that's your business - but please don't try to ram your belief down my throat, and please don't assume that I'm evil just because I don't worship anything.
I am an atheist too and people think that that means I must live a live full of excess, drugs and alcohol! I am teetotal, married for 23 years with the only man I ever slept with and I have never done drugs!
I am atheist and while I believe that anybody has the right to their religious beliefs I also believe that most organized religions are against human rights and should not be tolerated (not the believers but the organization). Misogyny, homophobia, pedophilia, racism, xenophobia, classism... I havent met a religious figure that was a good person.
I am a christian and I do agree with you that most religions and religious leaders are evil. But I still believe in the God of the Bible and Jesus. I believe that Jesus is real and God is good. Real christian faith is not religion, it's having a relationship with my creator and savior.
Load More Replies...could have been me who wrote that post. always funny to answer hobestly to the question "why are you an atheist?" , but then you get shot down when you ask in return "why are you religious?" . I was raised as an atheist and decided as an adult that this is still my belief. why does a religious person has the right to ask me this question but in return they won't answer at all. can't be so hard to explain, when you fell the need to know why I don't belief in any kind of god
I've gotten the comment when I was younger that I must be an atheist and a socialist to piss off my parents. I was raised this way. Though, as for why I'm an atheist, I don't have the ability to choose to have faith in something. My brain doesn't work that way. It would be very comforting to believe in a heaven where I would be reunited with my loved ones, an afterlife, reincarnation, something besides my consciousness just blinking out of existence, but I can't make myself believe it absent evidence, no matter how much I would like it to be true.
Load More Replies...I’m an atheist, and my fiancé is a (former) JW - I joke with him that “I can’t believe I fell in love with a creationist” lol, but our beliefs have no bearing on our love and we adore each other to pieces!! 😁❤️❤️
Im an atheist and my bf is a muslim... my biggest success so far was to make him reconsider the evolution theory :-)
Load More Replies...Being atheist just means you don't believe in any gods. It doesn't mean you're evil, and title, and strict. Elsa doesn't mean you hate other people's religions. You could be a very nice atheist, and you could be a very entitled Christian.
I am an Atheist, but I still celebrate Christmas as a time for family and giving, and Easter for the start of spring.
My sister's an atheist and is more righteous than many "good" Christians.
That doesn't prove anything. I have met mean atheists that try to shove their atheistics beliefs down my throat and don't do anything good for anyone but to themselves and their own loved ones. I have also met many good christians that do care about people they have never even met and try to help as much as they can.
Load More Replies...I'm gay and wouldn't be caught dead watching stuff like RuPaul or Queer Eye. I don't like fizzy drinks; beer and red wine are my go-to. I'm not interested in fashion at all. I don't think being bitchy is something to aspire to. I'm not interested in every guy I meet. Etc ...
"You are not gay then!" Just kidding my brother is gay and pretty "manly" himself, this stereotypes are so old. When he came out some friends were like "NO way i would never have guessed!" like you can know a persons sexual orientation just by looking at them and their "manners" and interests. "OOOOh this one raised his little finger while drinking: he must be gay". "OOOOh this one threw a tree very far(my brother trying a Scottish game), such an alpha male!"
Lol, so true. I don't even consider myself "manly" as such (I mean, some people are surprised when I tell them), but so what? We all just need to do the stuff we like, stereotypes be damned!
Load More Replies...I am Black/African American and it seems like non-Black people think we all live in the "hood", talk like gangsters or rappers (not articulate), listen only to rap, hip-hop or R&B music and grew up poor. I have been asked all my life why I sound white. Like, how do you "sound white"?! I have pulled up beside people in my car and they are shocked to hear classic rock or heavy metal coming out of my window (I listen to almost every genre of music). People need to understand that black people are not always what you see on TV and we are not 2-D or a stereotype. There are more educated black people that look, sound, and live like me than people seem to think.
Had a patient comment one time about a cardiologist looking after him by saying "He sure is a good doctor for a black man" I kept myself from going ballistic 🤬 ( I guess African American men aren't supposed to be all "Harvard like") and replied that his race has NOTHING to do with it. You have no idea who your doctor is. He is one of the top 5 cardiologists in the country. He just happens to be African American. You thank God he is your doctor.
i believe segregationnism has left his infamous signature there. I mean i'm european and i hear so many weird things about black-white relationship in the US. like policemen not testimoning about an old case they witnessed because they're afraid of KKK. this sounds unbelievable for us europeans
Yeah people love to put others in a little square boxes and make things all nice and neat in their minds the fact of the matter is not all blacks live in the hood not all blacks are good people that all blacks are bad people not all blacks are racist same thing with white people not all white people are super wealthy not all white people are good not all white people are bad these generalizations drive me crazy because they don’t help anybody
This is interesting and I wish people wouldn’t stereotype…I could be totally wrong but is a lot of this a class war? I think if anyone of any colour wore preppy clothes or had the right cultural capital they would be accepted by those keeping them down…which is crazy wrong. Is it all about how much ch money you have at the end of the day? Some just always start off with less and are kept right down
THIS! I went through this my entire childhood and I sometimes still go through it.
Yes. And some rappers does articulate, i'm french and not very good at English, and i still understand their lyrics. Nas, Havoc, Prodigy, Xhibit, The Wu Tang Clan, Snoop, even Busta Rhymes; I don't even know if they have any accent, as a foreign they doesn't sound weird to me.
I'm French and we don't wear beret and sailor top while eating a baguette on the streets! Wait... i do own a beret, several dozen of stripped clothes and i'm obsessed with food. Nevermind, i'm a walking cliché.
OP, please tell me you buy pain au chocolat and not, god forbid, chocolatine at the boulangerie for your breakfast!
YES! People who buy "chocolatines" should be guillotined and exposed in public places impaled on spears to make an example! (all the south west of France now hate me) But i'm more a croissant person myself, i like real butter and don't really like cooking chocolate, only the real stuff.
Load More Replies...Haha this is hilarious, have you ever worn a string of onions around your neck?
I'm probably too late for this one, but want to add my $0.02 anyway. I'm well over a size 8 and always will be-- lost a good amount of weight last year, but the last ~30 lbs just. Won't. BUDGE. I subsist almost entirely on protein shakes and hit the gym for an hour and a half six days a week-- I even recently brought in kickboxing. I'm more toned, but am no slimmer. On the opposite extreme is someone I once knew who rarely moved off of her bed or the sofa except to grab another bowl of ice cream. She wasn't just thin, she was *bony*. Guess which one of us would be told by doctors to just "eat less and exercise more"? Which one of us is STILL dismissed by society as "lazy" based solely on our dress size? It makes me f*****g homicidal.
Thank you. I've been a plus size for most of my adult life. I'm not lazy, I don't "eat my feelings",; I am disabled and chronically ill, between my meds and my mobility issues I can't excersise enough to burn calories. I've accepted that this is my life now; never make judgements without knowing the real story. I'm fat because I'm ill, I'm not ill because I'm fat. My cholesterol levels are normal, I don't have diabetes, not even pre-diabetic. I don't have joint pains or any weight related co-morbidities. I use a mobility scooter because I have chronic fatigue, and I'm in constant pain.
I have mobility issues because of a car wreck and arthritis. They caused me to gain weight not weight caused the medical issues.
Load More Replies...People just need to know a little backstory before they bitch and assume
People don't need backstory, we just need to mind our own f'n business.
Load More Replies...UGH. I can't relate, but I've seen a larger person get teased for it. Thing is, she was an amazing swimmer, excellent at tennis and really, really athletic.
I actually had two friends that had metabolisms so high, they had a hard time retaining body fat and, as a result, had a hard time getting pregnant. Since I was watching everything I ate to lose weight, they knew I kept track of calories and fat closely. They asked me what could help them gain weight without taking in a lot of fat. I said, your three main killers are pasta, potatoes and rice. I told them how much calories were in each and that they all had little to no fat, that the fattening stuff was what you put on it. But I turned them on to Pasta Primavera and adding warm potatoes and rice to cold salad. Both, I am happy to say, have a couple of kids each. Being a heavy person is not an automatic dismissal of the knowledge we have or the hardships we face. We are struggling to be healthy every day. Everyone is different and some have to work harder than others to achieve it.
Hello Between the Cracks! Sorry to post here, I did not see a way to send DM and wanted to say hello. So I was happy to see you are still active on BP. As for this post, I am sure you look gorgeous! And I hope all is going well in your life. Stay strong and take care! Your BP BFF PFP :)
Aww, thanks! I'm glad I swung by this post and saw this. Hope to communicate with you more as I get to know how this site works. Cheers, friend :)
Load More Replies...People need to stop perpetuating the myth that you can exercise away excess body fat; you can't no matter how able you are. It's a myth that the fitness industry makes use of, because if you join a gym and don't lose weight then it must be your fault for not working hard enough; not because it doesn't actually work. That fact is that our bodies are designed to gain body fat and resist losing it, as it is an effective survival trait. Even at a healthy weight we carry twice as much body fat as our closest relative in the animal kingdom; it's what allowed us to leave the jungle and spread across the earth. The only way to lose excess body fat it to eat less calories that we need; which is essentially starvation. Hunger is a powerful feeling which is designed to literally keep us alive, so it's extremely hard to ignore; as much as pain is.
People underestimate how hard it is to stick to a calorie restricted diet and go hungary, and just how long it takes to lose weight. There are ~7700Kcals in 1Kg of body fat, so if an average person need 2000Kcals to maintain a healthy weight it would roughly 77 days of eating nothing to lose 20Kg! Most people would find it hard to maintain a calorie deficit of more than 400Kcals, so at that it would take ~385 days on such a diet. Diets do work, but you have to stick to them. It takes a long time to lose weight; longer than most people imagine,
Load More Replies...I was told my mum was “fat” growing up.she exercised every day and ate super healthy
I kept playing back what the OP said about living off protein shakes. I did that for a while and lot 40lbs but then just stopped loosing. I finally read the label. Those shakes contain a large amount of sugar. You can switch to a veggie diet and eat fresh Buddha bowls-minus the grains or fresh fruit for fewer calories and be healthier. The weight will come off too.
Hi, sorry I'm responding to this so late... I read the labels on my shakes (I use several different brands) and the vast majority have ~1g of sugar in them. If they'd been loaded with sugar, I doubt I'd've lost any weight at all! Agree with you about veggies, grains, and fruit though-- REAL food > stuff in packages.
Load More Replies...That all white people are racist
THIS. There's a word for deciding how a person is based solely on the color of their skin-- regardless of what that color might be. Starts with an "R". Take all the time you need to figure it out.
Being anti racist doesn’t mean you can just yell “I hate white people!” That does literally nothing 😂
Exactly. It is understandable to resent a group that historically hasnt been kind to yours. But generalising and being hateful just means that you are as bad as other bigots. I was told recently how "I am not really white, I am just brainwashed and how whites are all dumb cavemen". My partner used to work with a young man that openly says things like "white women are ok to f**k but you need to anrry a black girl to keep the race pure ". There are bigots everywhere.
Another stereotype is that white people cannot be discriminated. I have been told in person and online that as a white woman I cant be discriminated. I think that this comes mostly from people from USA that is unaware of dinamics in other countries. But here in europe some of the most hated groups are east europeans (that are as white as you can be). Racism is a big issue in europe but also xenophobia (and that includes hate against white migrants). As a white migrant (spanish) I have been yelled at and threatened by public employees, refused service, refused medical attention and in general told that I was not good and should go back home. Once I put an official complaint about a public employee who yelled at me for being foreigner, took my ID away and didnt want to give it back until somebody intervened. I was told my the discrimination office that only discrimination for "race, religion or sex" is valid so since I am white they wouldnt help me.
Load More Replies...I don’t mind that some people think this. I think prejudice is a natural part of being alive and we all engage in it whether we are willing to admit it or not. Good that you try hard to be anti-racist and inclusive, and so do I, but it doesn’t make me angry that people prejudge me… it gives me a deeper understanding of the kind of prejudice that other people are experiencing too.
I, as a white person, hate this Stereotype. I am Very much anti racist and have always been.
when was this a stereotype? tell me if im wrong please
If you think all white people are racist, then you need to check your own racism.
"Paganism is Satanism" and "Pagans cannot be Christians". Where do I start on this one? First, Pagan is a blanket term that includes different types of spiritual and nature-based religions. Some old, some created fairly recent. Satanism doesn't not fall under Paganism. Pagans don't worship a devil. Satan or Lucifer, whatever you want to call that kind of evil character, belongs in the Christian/Catholic religion. Just because another religion has a horned God, doesn't mean it holds the same meaning as a devil. Pentagrams are 5 pointed stars, and are called pentacles when a ring is added. In Paganism, this is a powerful, positive, protective symbol. In Satanism they use it upside down. Just like the upside down cross is used in Satanism. I could be wrong on this, it seems that Satanists flip religious to mock them. Many Christian customs have come from Pagan and Druid customs, such as the Christmas tree, the use of green and yellow for traditional Christmas colours, Easter, New Years Day, Valentines Day, believing the soul is immortal, Halloween, weddings (where do you think the term "hand-fasting" comes from or "jump the broom"?), halos over the heads of angels and saints, etc. Pagans have a lot more in common with Christians than Christians like to think. There are Pagans who still hold on to Christian beliefs. Some call it "Christo-paganism" "Pagans sacrifice animals and play with black magic". Just like with any denomination, there are going to be people who use religion for ill-will and use customs incorrectly because they saw a movie and thought it was cool. Pagans not only respect and love animals, there are many who are vegetarians and vegans. Since Pagans are quite spiritual and some do, what is referred to as "Magick", it's not the hocus pocus kind. We're not really illusionists, magicians nor are we scamming fortune tellers. Although, there are individuals who do this stuff on their own, but they are the exceptions, and we don't consider those people real Pagans. As I said, there are bad apples in every sect and denomination. "Pagans are witches". This is where Wicca comes into play. Paganism is the spiritual worship of Earth, and Wicca practices rituals, that includes some "spells", but it's not the same as you've read in fairy tales. All it involves is mixing things to make something. A simple kitchen recipe for bread can be considered "magick", or sweeping a room can become a form of a cleansing ritual to rid a space of negative energy. "Pagans dance in forests and fields naked". This is more optional to the brave folk than a mandatory thing. Since the world has become way more populated, there are cameras around at any time and place. Lastly, not all Pagans are practicing rituals and ceremonies. Some are content to just go about living a life doing what they want without fussing about, and just hold their beliefs to heart.
Yeah its really mean people think paganism/wicca is sacrificing animals people who practice it usually love animals & the earth & are often vegan/veggie!
I made a typo. It's supposed to say "Satanism does not fall under Paganism."
Christians call pagans "devil worshippers," yet vastly, vastly more pagans have been killed by Christians than the other way around.
ALL. OF. THIS!!! I'm Wiccan and can attest most of this is true (there are one or two teeny inaccuracies I'm too tired to debate right now), and I get so tired of hearing that I'm a "devil-worshipper" and other stupid s**t. Christianity's "Holy Trinity" (The Holy Spirit and the other two I can't remember right now) derives directly from the pagan concept of Maiden, Mother, Crone/Hunter, Father, Sage, which is the three feminine/masculine stages of life. Christmas is an evolution of Saturnalia/Yuletide (and was once considered un-Christian!), Easter is based on Ostara which is a celebration of fertility and new life (what do eggs and rabbits have to do with some guy being resurrected? Nothing, but they have everything to do with getting freaky). And the difference between spells and prayers is practically nonexistent, except you might do more than just close your hands and speak for a spell--but regardless the intent is the same, beseeching a higher power to aid you.
I agree with most but: Satanism is under the Pagan umbrella. Witches are Pagan but not all Witches are Wiccan. Much of your post is based on Wicca as the base definition as Pagan but Pagan includes many paths that are quite different from Wicca (Heathen/Asatru, Hellenic, & Kemetic).
I'm hindu. We don't worship cows. We respect them for all they have provided for us. We show out respect by refraining from eating beef. I'm also West-Indian. We do not all spend the day in a floral shirt and cargo shorts, sleeping in a hammock, under a coconut tree on the beach. We have jobs like everyone else....we don't do that on the weekends. Lol
I think it's important to state that if one were to observe a Hindu person giving pranams (a sign and gesture of deep reverence)it is not worship - it's a show of reverence and appreciation.
I love everything West-indian and have great friends there. Educated people with college degrees and that sense of humour that make you split your side.West-indian Carnival,don´t get me started !! I have danced through Port of spain on several occations,high on Punchion Rum w coco-water and steel-band calypso (A huge fan of The Renegades and of Soca music.Super-Blue) love going to The Mas-camp Bar for Sunday ball-room dancing dressed to the nines....If you want beaches you take a small jump to Tobago....and finally the food...ah,the street-food,YUMMY !! If I didn´t live in Europe I would live in the West-Indies...
I'm happy that you had such an amazing and memorable time in my country Trinidad.....
Load More Replies...I think it's important to that because you see an Indian giving a cow pranams (a gesture of deep reverence) doesn't mean it is worship.
But you all wear those turbans, right? 😂😂😂 (I think only the Punjabi do this as far as I know)
UK here. Wearing a 'hoodie'; they're comfortable, and keeps your head warm in winter. However, wearing a hoodie automatically labels you as a troublemaker, thief etc. I've no criminal record and am hard-wired to help another human being. E.G. Someone once parked up their car, left it unlocked to quickly post a letter, then spotted me wearing a hoodie and instantly went back to lock his car. I responded with a wry smile.
Hoodies are so comfy tho...why does literally a piece of clothing have a stereotype
Clothes have had, created, and perpetuated stereotypes for as long as humans have worn clothing.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately, they are synonymous with miscreant behaviour in the UK. Primarily they are ubiquitous amongst teenage boys in particular and more prevalent in large cities (E.G. London); the hood part conceals their face from CCTV etc.
Load More Replies...I feel like they'd have locked it *anyone* around, but I get your point. I love my hoodie, but it's also from Spiral rather than Adidas or something"name brand"
Both of my children love hoodies or hooded t-shirts/tank tops. Some people wear hoods for warmth, others to help block out things that may leave them feeling overstimulated. The stereotype is just silly but oh so common.
When it’s warm in the summer…wearing a hood up usually means you are trying to hide your face…uk is a dangerous place these days. People with or without hoods, if they are out after dark on a week day there is a good chance they are a mugger. We no longer have enough police
I wear a hoodie all summer long. It prevents red-neck. "Aren't you hot?" Yes, but not burned☺
I am an outside worker and will not be caught without my hoodie. They are the best piece of clothing. There is this idea that only young yobs wear hoodies, but honestly they are no long in fashion with the youth (at least in my area). Everyone who wears them is in their late 20s-40s
Old person here and evidently the only one. Everyone assumes we can't figure out computers or phones (I have used at least 25 different software programs in my work alone) and want to listen to the Eagles and Jimmy Buffet all day. I would die happy never having to hear Hotel California AGAIN. Millennial co-workers were shocked I had System of a Down song as a ringtone. Also, that we are all rich living off our social security, in our paid-for houses. I know because I used to think that too. SS might be enough to pay JUST your rent, and Medicare is the most expensive insurance I ever had. And I have not been able to get a real job, not even an interview, for over 15 years because of all the stereotypes against us, despite having 2 graduate degrees. When a job says "2-5 years experience", that 5 is a genuine MAXIMUM.
I'm 49, is that old? My music tastes are as eclectic as I am. I'm disabled now due to chronic illnesses, but I'm very fortunate to receive enough benefit to live comfortably, and of course I have free healthcare. I would love to be able to work again but that ship sailed and sank 3 years ago. I've survived things I never thought I would have to; I look a lot younger than I am, especially considering my poor health (you never appreciate it enough until you lose it).
I turned 50 last December. I certainly don't FEEL old. And my music tastes are all over the map. Classic rock? Check. Metal? Check. Fusion? Yep. Prog? Hell yeah. Bluegrass? Why, why yes! Not a huge fan of country, rap, or hip-hop, but pretty much everything else is fair game. It's all good.
Load More Replies...Old is a state of mind. Plenty of people are "old" at 50, while others are not "old" at 70 or even 80 - or more. My grandmother had her driver's license into her 90s.
You're not the only old person. My first computer was a C64, programmed games and stuff in assembler, was in IT, so I am the local to-go guy here, when there is IT-problems. Got a burn-out some years ago and lost my job. I was told I would never get another job at my age. My pension was just enough to live from so I bailed out of 'normal' life. I aim to live a low-footprint life anyway. Luckily I live in Europe, so universal healthcare... I hate Hotel California, so my to go music is more in the line of the Prodigy, hard style, Nightwish, Rammstein, punk (yeah, never was a hippy). And Chopin and buddhist mantras ;)
Definately true, my grandad worked on the 1st computers and hes way better at tech than i am im a teen but rubbish at tech 😂
If Medicare is the most expensive insurance you ever had, you are so so so lucky.
Is Medicare insurance really that expensive? I am not that far away from needing and have no idea how it works, so I better start educating myself. I just assumed it was there when you needed it since I have been paying in since I was 16. But I am guessing from your post that I will cause a few injuries from people literally rolling on the floor laughing at my nativity that "it will be there when you need it because you paid in for all those years". But what am I missing? Do you actually need to buy an expensive Medicare health insurance policy to get coverage? I am in trouble, aren't I?
No, not necessarily expensive. You have the option of getting “straight” Medicare or Medicare advantage plans with an insurance company which depend on what state/county you live in. Don’t freak out or get overwhelmed. It does take a little research. United health care and Humana are huge Medicare advantage companies, they might be a good place to start to get some info.
Load More Replies...I'm Scottish and when I tell people they always do an over exaggerated accent which is kinda rude because I am not a stereotype. I am also Spanish (Dad is scotland Mum is Spain) and sometimes when I tell people that they do a salsa or a flamenco dance 💃 which they will do silly and exaggerated with them almost falling over in giggles. Please don't do this to people. :)
All facts. Love learning about other cultures (mainly the food).
Load More Replies...Change your name to Haggish and Tortillas that will really piss them off....my sons are Portuguese/Danish so we do know the do´s and don´ts....they are also fluent in 3 languages..
It is SO VERY EASY to NOT be a d**k. Honestly, it's not that hard. For instance, if I met you and you told me that you were Scottish and Spanish in casual conversation, I would say "that's AWESOME!" Those are 2 very different and fantastic cultures, and to be a part of both is pretty fricking cool. But...people would rather score points against other people than be decent human beings. Sad.
Haha thanks ❤ I'm leaving for Spain in 11 days to see family and I'm nervous as flip with COVID and everything. Bored panda can be a very respectful community at times. :)
All bisexuals are horny and want to hook up with everyone. Not true 100,000% All Asians are really good at math, have buckteeth, are really short, etc 😔 All Americans are blond, stuck up, fat, stupid
Amen! I get so tired of all the anti-US articles on BP. There are stupid people everywhere, not just here...
It's mostly from Europeans, and the only information they have about the US comes from social media - which is mostly ignorant clickbait or incredibly biased rubbish - or by sitting on their ass Googling sh*t. Then they smugly think they know us. The truth is they don't know anything at all. I'm just stunned, almost daily, by the utter nonsense or just patently false stuff people here believe about the US.
Load More Replies...Ikr? Came out as bi and every guy I was friends with asked if I liked him. Dude… do you like every girl you’ve ever seen? No? Then stfu. Ugh.
Meanwhile in Italy: Three dead during Euro 2020 'celebrations'.
Load More Replies...Nice job completely missing the point of these posts…
Load More Replies...Im lots of different things at once i think they all have stereotypes?? im a goth but i definately dont hate everyone! Im not miserable or angry & am usually a very cheerful person. Im not evil or worship devils or cast evil spells or whatever 🤣 not a vampire but that would be cool lol, i just like spooky things, bats & dressing in a way that makes me feel happy & confident. im actually quite a religious person too, but i dont disagree with anyone from the LGBTQ+ community (which im part of) or people from other religions (which i love learning about) or people who dont have a religion, i am nice to everyone even people who are mean to me 🙂 i have autism/aspergers but im not a maths genius im rubbish at it & have a terrible memory 😅 i also have adhd but im not hyperactive/fidgety all the time, its more like my brain has trouble concentrating? i have dyslexia but i can read, just the paper looks very white & its hard to concetrate on the words so i have tinted reading glasses. im asexual & aromantic but i dont hate people, even though i dont really understand relationships im really happy for other people who are happy together no matter who they are 🙂 Dont know what the stereotypes for being non binary & vegan are but there probably are some???
I love this post! I'm a closet goth, I love the Victorian style and I loved dressing up. I don't anymore, life is very challenging for me right now. Pretty much everything you said sounds like me. I've always considered myself to be a heterosexual woman, but lately I've been questioning that; what I find attractive is not linked to gender but to personality/intelligence. The fact that I have, so far, only been in relationships with men has more to do with opportunity/social acceptance that anything else. I've always been drawn to people I connect with and I need to be bonded to them before any sexual attraction happens.
And yes, I too have Asperger's Syndrome, ADD, dyslexia, OCD and BPD; suffered from depression all my adult life; now I have chronic illnesses which have been life-changing. At least I am who I was always meant to be!
Load More Replies...I’m pretty sure the most common enby stereotype is that you have to look completely in between masc and fem
Stereotype: Women can't fix things like cars, plumbing problems, electrical problems, a leaky roof, etc, ad nausea. I was w working automobile repair technician for 35 years, fixed everything from go carts to Cadillacs, did all the repairs on my various homes over the years, kept my family in good transportation, drew up the plans and built 4 homes all the while holding down a job in a shop. NOPE, us chickens can't do squat I reckon...
Wanted to become a mechanic as a kid. Was told I could not, because I am a girl. Knew back then: That's bulls**t.
It was/is bull poo! I wasn't allowed to take it either. Nor wood shop.
Load More Replies...In grade 8 we have 3 mandatory courses for ADST: carpentry (woodwork), foods (cocking), and textiles (sewing, making clothes). I aced the carpentry and didn’t even finish textiles project in time (got B)
I went to high school in Houston, Texas. To say we were a little behind the times as far as progressive education goes is a definite understatement. I was told I couldn't take shop, mechanics or wood. Home economics was it. I already knew how to cook, clean and sew. What did I need that for. It turned into a glorified study hall for me where I sat and finished any homework I might have.
Load More Replies...You are awesome! As a woman I've always been capable of doing "man" things; I have built enough flat pack furniture on my own to work for IKEA, changed tyres, figured out how things work and how to fix them. I've always been a problem solver, I never give up, and I love how my mind works. Having Asperger's Syndrome helps! My daughter has it too, and is studying Mechanical engineering, I'm so proud of her!
That's awesome! That must have been a tough row to hoe! I have dyslexia and had a lot of problems with some of my other classes, but my mechanical aptitude was sky high. Probably my minds way of compensating for the dyslexia. Your daughter sounds like she is going places! Good for her!
Load More Replies...Go girl! Sadly, anytime I try to DIY, it turns into an episode of I Love Lucy, but I wish I were competent at doing these things and I am super impressed that you can do it!
Proud of you honey! I learned how to fix things around the house being a poor divorcée with two children. Easier to buy the right tools and fix it yourself than pay someone else....
No Doubt! I STILL fix stuff around the house instead of buying new. If more people did that we wouldn't have landfills stuffed to overflowing or garbage patches floating around in our oceans! Good for you!
Load More Replies...That's one thing that was nice about the automobile repair industry, most mechanics are paid commission or flat rate. So you have to do the work fast AND right or else you do it the second time for free. I''d had to quit a couple of jobs because they wouldn't pay me the same as some of the men, but once I'd established myself as a good tech, reliable with a very low come back rate I never had a problem getting paid the same. My reputation was a good one, I was known over several states at the time I retired. I still occasionally get called for consultations from some of my old buddies since I had specialized in driveability and computer diagnostics in Nissans and Toyotas. And if I wanted to I could still be working at my garage at home or in any shop in town. But the knees won't let me anymore....
Load More Replies...For a period of time, I identified as gay (later learned I wasn't) and I happen to be a transgender man. Some people thought that just meant I was straight. In reality, being a gay transgender man or lesbian transgender woman just means they're transitioning to their correct gender, and happen to like people of that gender. I'm also neurodivergent in a few ways - some of my neurological disorders include Asperger's, ADHD, and possible CPTSD. ADHD isn't just "trouble sitting still and getting easily distracted", in fact, it is very possible to focus intensely on something if you have ADHD (it just may not be the thing you want to focus on!) Misconceptions about autism... oh boy, we could be here all day. Pretty much any stereotype about autism is false, but one thing I can say in particular is that not every autistic person is the same. What works for one person may not work for another. And about (C)PTSD, well... not just veterans can get it. I've seen people say that they have (C)PTSD or may have it, and getting responses saying that they're seeking attention or claiming to have it because of a small, unpleasant experience. Hell, the reason I may have it is because of being bullied and harassed by essentially my entire school for nearly a whole year, and every adult around doing absolutely nothing about it.
i feel for u so much about autism & especially PTSD! i had PTSD for years after going to a ‘special school’ for children and adults with extreme and very violent behavior, i got beaten up, bitten punched kicked and the teachers never told my parents, they didnt find out until they noticed the bruises 😢 i had selective mutism at the time and didnt speak, i had panic attacks for so long and its taken me about 10 years to recover and feel safe around people again, people just dont beleive school could give u PTSD but ANY horrible experience can 😞
Thank you for writing about autism :) and everything else of course. For me, the part about autism specifically is very relatable
YASS ASPERGER"S <3 Cant find no one with it. It sucks! But yes, sadly there are a lot of false stereotypes surrounding it...if they have even heard of it
Yes the stereotypes. I once worked with a nurse who had Asperger's Syndrome. She would go and give talks about the stereotypes of that spectrum and others to debunk all of that.
Load More Replies...My mom has PTSD. She grew up in London during WWII. She remembers sleeping in the subways and hearing bombs go off overhead. She said that prayer "Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep, if I die before I wake...") Hearing prop planes go over bothers her now. Seeing anywhere get bombed on the news bothers her. She and siblings were sent out to live in the countryside during the war. She left at 6 and returned at 16. She went to work in a three story dept store. It got bombed and she woke up to see daylight overhead. She was working on the first floor. So yes, she has PTSD.
Thank you so much for sharing this. Both of my children are on the spectrum and couldn't be more different. Both also have ADHD and get hyper focused on something things but simply can't focus on others (my son is also not physically hyper, just his head while my daughter has about a 30 second span, literally, that she can sit still without her medication).
I do seem to Have PTSD, but it only seems to affect me in my sleep. Does anyone know if that's a thing? I will literally have nightmares 6 out of 7 nights of the week and quite regularly scream in my sleep. Literally happened last night.
I'm Catholic. Not all Catholics are the kind who pick and choose what to believe, or the kind who think not everybody can be saved. Every time I turn around I get hate for saying what I believe to be true. Oh yes, I'm Catholic, so I must hate everyone who isn't straight, believe all atheists automatically go to Hell, and ignore everything the Bible says about loving your neighbor and all that stuff. Sure.
That's always the best choice. Everyone deserves love and respect and undersranding.
Load More Replies...As a fellow follower of Jesus I thank you. Takes a while to shove off that miserable past from our shoulders from people who just totally didn't get what Jesus wanted but used his name to destroy people, whole nations and cultures. Love is what its all about! I may disagree with your view, I tell you what my perspective is, but respect and value you as a human being. I may be sad for you rejecting what I love so much, but I absolutely will not get the pitchfork of hatred and shove it into you.
Especially when there are so many people who sacrificed their lives for Christ. If someone can go to be hanged with a smile on their face, then I can tolerate atheists cursing my name and heritage with the same attitude XD.
Load More Replies...That's pretty much how it operates for all the catholics i'm related to. My aunt insists it isn't bad to be gay but it is bad to act on it. In a fit of irony, 2 of her 7 kids are gay. Apparently, she'd be perfectly happy if they spent their lives loveless.
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Load More Replies...What about slavery, blood sacrifice (Jephthah), mass murder, blatant misogyny? The bible is old ànd new testament. Without the old testament, there is no original sin and no reaon for anybody to die on a cross. I have e feeling that you do pick and choose what you like in the bible.
They do. It is a contradiction saying that they dont pick but they are peaceful and tolerant since the bible has many examples of misoginy, incest, rape, slavery and religious violence. Either they pick up things (and then they arent true christians) or they are dangerous bigots
Load More Replies...So you do not live your life according to the bible. No worry though, not a single Catholic does. Fortunately
so....you're not catholic then ? the bible is pretty clear on what happens to non-believers... so is the bible wrong? if its wrong about that - then aren't you picking and choosing?
So short answer, we do not believe that non-believers automatically go to hell, and that we automatically get into heaven (that's other Christian denominations).
Load More Replies...I went to a catholic school. The one teacher that didn’t respect my pronouns(she/they) was fired
Lutheran here. I'm really tired of having to explain that Christians don't all hate gays, support Trump, oppose reproductive choice - basically, that we're not all Southern Baptists. I also don't think Christianity is the only right way to have a relationship with God - just that it's the right way for me.
How can you say that you are a christian and yet claim that there are other right ways to have a relationship with God than Christianity? Jesus said that He is the only way to get to the Father. That is the basis of Christianity and if you really think there are other ways to get saved than through Jesus Christ then I'm afraid I have to tell you that you might not be a true christian.
Load More Replies...German = Nazi -> nope German = Lederhosen/ Dirndl -> nope German = sounds harsh -> only in US movies
And we DO HAVE Humour! Not every German loves beer, some of us even don't like cars!
Yes, our Humor is just dry. We use lots of irony and sarcasm and just because we don't go telling people we use it, very few foreigners understand it.
Load More Replies...Good example of what the real German language sounds like is a video of Einstein's sisters talking. Melodic. Beautiful to listen to.
German food is the bomb! I have an authentic German Deli/Restaurant run by a charming husband and wife team within walking distance from my apartment. Let me tell you, I could eat German sausage, bread, butter, and mustard for every meal, every day. But in the USA we are definitely socialized to associate the German language with evil in television and movies. British accents command respect, French accents are romantic, and German accents are evil. I also think that Hollywood is only comfortable with portraying Nazis as evil. There is no ambiguity to the "Nazis are evil" trope. Whereas the film and television industry seem to be afraid to offend any other group as being evil. Muslims and Arabs for example, they (rightfully) will rarely portray them as evil or terrorists for fear of being offensive. But they release dozens of WWII movies each year with the good guys defeating the evil Nazis, and rarely are Germans, even the large portion of the population that was anti-Nazi, portrayed in a positive light.
But one thing is absolutely true. German/Germany the best food you'll ever eat. Should I ever be fortunate enough to visit, bring 2 wardrobes. One for when you get there and one 2 sizes larger. I'm going to need it.
:) That depends on individual tastes I would say. But we DO have the best bread. (And the most varieties)
Load More Replies...I knew a German. He said that Germans today are trying to distance or set themselves aside from the nazis and really to. change their ways.
Man now I want to try German food, especially the bread!! Never have been to Germany or had the food😩
im chinese, and to be honest, most of us don't eat cats or dogs, most of our eyes aren't small, that all of us are good at math or science that we look the exact same that we dont speak english thank you for reading my rant, that was all said/asked to me by my freinds:)
Why would anybody eat cats or dogs? Math is so boring, science is cool if taught right. NOBODY can look the exact same unless they identical twins. If u speak english, u speak english.
In my opinion, both math and science can be extremely cool if taught right. Though it may just be my bias as someone who has a passion for things like that.
Load More Replies...Chinese girl here. /No I don’t have to be gentle, I can smash ur skull if I need/want to / /Fun fact: if u eat a cat u will never rebirth again, according to Chinese mythology. I read this when I was around 10 and I can’t translate well enough, but just let this sink in / Edit: forget to mention I’m vegetarian/
i know that in comics back in the olden days chinease were incorrectly depicted with small eyes,big teeth,and yellow skin which is really racist.
It's scientifically proven that it's harder to tell people of a different race than you apart, so no, not all Chinese people look the same, but there is a reason people think that. I'm not saying it's okay, just explaining the facts behind it.
In Vietnam there are people eating cats. They call it "tiny tigers". But to be honest it is extreme and individualism for me to see that people prefer eating cats and post pictures inspring it.
I saw a picture once of a little girl that found her pet dog, that had been taken, dead at the dog market, kneeling down bawling her eyes our just patting her dead dog Broke my damn heart!!!
Sikhs are Muslims because they wear turbans. If you see a man walking around with a turban on his head, and sporting an unshaved beard, this does not mean they are Muslims. In fact, Muslim men are not required too wear a turban or a head covering, some choose too because it is part of their culture in the middle east. They are, however, prohibited from shaving their facial hair. Sikh men cannot shave their facial hair as well, but they are required too wear a turban. This may not seem like much, but a Sikh man's turban is a matter of pride. The Guru Granth Sahib Ji teaches that the turban is a crown, and it is a huge part of a Sikh's identity. Sikhi and Islam are very different religions; please try not too confuse one for the other. (Of course, Sikh's can choose not too wear a turban or cut/shave their hair, but technically, it is mandatory)
From my friendship with a Sikh lady in Singapore, I learned that another way to identify a Sikh is the steel bracelet they are wearing.
I had one but it was so flimsy I could snap it in half, which I did on accident
Load More Replies...I would like too say that Sikhism is in no way against Islam, Islam is a beautiful religion, and I am constantly trying too learn more about it.
I have learned that Sikh started wearing those turbans while at war with Muslims and that they will keep that tradition until the very last Muslim dies / has been killed (Pakistan/India conflicts). Is that true?
No. Sikh men started wearing turbans in the 1699. This was during the war with Mughals. Islam was their religion, and they were trying too convert all of india too Islam, but Mughals cannot be confused with Muslims; Mughals are also long gone now. The turban was worn too tell Indians, regardless of your race, your culture, we will protect you from the Mughals. We are not against Islam. If anything, we are with Islam. Islam is a beautiful religion. We wear it now as a matter of pride, and to signal that we will protect you from oppression no matter your gender, sexuality, race or culture.
Load More Replies...Do people really get confused by this? I thought they were very obviously different!
I’m a Christian and many people assume it makes me a homophobic goody-two-shoes. Nope.
If you want ten different definitions of "Christian," ask ten Christians. Lots of churches are progressive in that they support the LGBTQ community, women's reproductive rights, etc.
The word "Christian" shouldn't be defined by the support for LGBTQ, reproductive rights, etc. It should be defined by the relationship to Christ and trying to live by His example. If they see the LGBTQ people only as sinners not worthy for the love of Christ they haven't taken a good look at themselves in the mirror. If they don't think Christ died for every single human on this Earth no strings attached they should think twice before they put Christ's name on.
Load More Replies...I generally HATE all religions, but not religious people. My friend is a Christian and she supports LGBTQ+ and everything like that. She accepts me for the heathen that I am and I can't WAIT to meet her in person next year!!! (Facebook friend)
Jesus reached out to the people whom' he disagreed with. He didn't hate or exclude.
He reached out sinners but also called out pharisees. He was against hypocrites and those who claimed to be without sin. It is true that He didn't hate anyone or shut anyone out. He healed people and forgave their sins but He also said that people should not continue to sin.
Load More Replies...Good for you. You're right, often times people associate Christianity to closed mindedness.
From the South, Atlanta, GA. W/F, gentle Southern lilt. I’ve learned that the lilt drops my IQ in business communication. And, given my Southern roots, OBVIOUSLY I am racist, privileged, Trump tootin’ RINO. Also mental illness, esp depression. It’s a mood disorder, but it doesn’t strip my natural human emotions. Even people with depression have bad days, get pissed at work, etc. And it doesn’t strip my reason or agency. People interact differently if/when my heritage or health comes up. Nothing changes but information. How progressive, no? Bless their prejudiced hearts 😇
On the subject of depression - as a lifetime sufferer, when you get the courage to tell someone that you suffer from it they come back and say things like, "no way, you're always in a pleasant mood and always cracking jokes". Not understanding that I just got really good at hiding it all my life because the stigma surrounding it.
It’s a triple whammy: experiencing depression, people’s non-acceptance, and the pain of rejection and validity that follows.
Load More Replies...I could go on and on and on about Southern stereotypes! Overalls, pickup trucks with gun racks, inbreeding, racism, shotguns and Confederate flags everywhere, living in trailer homes, hating "Yankees," living on grits and fried chicken--
I'm from Texas. Moved to Philly the summer between my junior and senior years in high school. People talked to me like I was stupid because of my drawl. They had a lot of nerve! Ever listen to or seen the face of someone from south Philly or Newark, NJ talk when they get excited? And they called ME stupid because of MY accent? They should look in the mirror and listen to themselves.
I second this motion! Damn Yankees (hey! That’s bias, too! But clearly only some regions are subject to rules of prejudice.)
Load More Replies...I am Welsh. I am always asked if I can sing
I dance like no one is watching.
Load More Replies...My name is pronounced,Ethnee or in Gaelic it is pronounced Enya.
I think it was Mark Twain said “Dance like nobody's watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth.”
? I didn't know welsh people were know for singing. Thought it was their ponies
Stereotype: the only way a woman can get a job in a shop is because: her daddy owns it, her husband owns it, she's sleeping with the owner, her boyfriend owns or runs it.... You keep telling yourself that cupcake, sit back and watch Jane fix it all!
this is a a character trope in tv shows. a lot of the time her mom owns it
I'm a nihilist. It's not a religion, but it's what substitutes my need for religion. A common stereotype is that a nihilist loves pointlessness, absurdity, negativity, relativity, etc., while I think nihilism is just an observable historical phenomenon that a nihilist tries to accept in an attempt to suffer less from it.
i'm surprised a nihilist cared enough to make a post in the first place!
When there's a stereotype there's a protest.
Load More Replies...Nihilists are in no way destructive, they tend not to follow all these ideas society is built on - and to accept life as "WTSIWG" (what they see is all they really get (this is taken from Daniel Kahneman))
Say what you want about the National Socialist, but at least Nazism was an ethos.
Ooh, where to start? Well, first I have learning disabilities, so apparently I'm stupid, I'm a girl so apparently, I can't fight back, WTH? And I need to add a whole paragraph about Asperger's (autism) stereotypes. No, we are not all super-geniuses who are building time machines, I barely understand maths. None of this true for all Aspies and autistics, but personally I get flustered easily, I cry when I get overwhelmed, I don't at all have good social skills, hate talking to new people and hate being touched anywhere, even on my arm, without permission. It sucks that there are really bad representations of Autism and Asperger's Syndrome in the media, and there needs to be a better understanding of neurodivergent because it really isn't easy.
For someone who is "stupid" (according to others), you are incredibly articulate. Your spelling and grammar skills are probably better than the idiots calling you that
i really feel you on the autism/aspergers! Im not a maths genius either im rubbish at it 😅 its a shame the only time most people have heard of autism/aspergers is in films/tv.
I was always called stupid too, I was useless at maths but excellent at science, biology, geography; my general knowledge is astounding, I remember every little fact I've ever read. I was 40 when I was finally diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome and I've never looked back. You are amazing, and perfect just as you are!
Yes I know right! Maths-useless! barely scraping Cs! Everything else - yep, ok, I understand...
Load More Replies...I entirely feel you with the crying when overwhelmed part and I am absolute s**t at math too
I am a high-functioning autistic, what back in the day was called Asperger's. I did exceptionally well in math, but sucked at social interaction. Fortunately my parents, particularly my father, understood - he had a sister who was autistic, and sadly died in her early 20s.
I'm bi and Indian and female and short. Let me f*****g start. Bi: I AM NOT A PERVERT!!! In fact, I'm ace! Indian: I am very smart, true. But I can beat your f*****g ass because I have a freaking third-degree black belt. Female: Oh, where oh where do I start. Luckily I'm pretty ugly by perverts' standards, so....yay! Short: No, I don't have difficulty reaching into the washer. I have a faint six-pack just from doing laundry. I balance on my stomach. I relax when I go it, I tense when I come out. Duh. Anyway, thanks for reading my rant...
Biromantic asexual. I swing both ways crush-wise but strike out all ways sex-wise. No sex, only crush. uwu.
Load More Replies...India. India Indian. Not Native American. :)
Load More Replies...well dont assume you can beat everyone. there are a lot of people better than black belts
I'm an ethnic norwegian as far back as I can trace, and I'm brown eyed, have dark brown hair, and have a fairly dark complexion. So no, not every norwegian (or scandinavian for that matter) is blue eyed and blonde.
This is pure bullshit. The mongolians never conquered Spain not we are brown haired because of them. What are you smoking? Spain had originally a mixture of celt and mediterranean people (the difference still can be seen today). We had a lot of extra mediterranean influence (Cartago, Greece, Rome) that made the east and southern spaniards (and portuguese) tan (even tought we peobably were tan before). Then with the fall of the roman empire many germanic tribes invaded europe including Spain (giving us a higher % of pale and blond people). At the same time moroccan and bereber people invaded the south and created AlAndalus, giving more "darker" features again to south and easter spain. That without talking about other groups like vikings or jewish that also gave a considerable ammount of dna to the spanish population. We are a country based on etnical mix but definitely not mongolian.
Load More Replies...Not all Christians are jerks who use God to explain everything they do. Some of us are actually sane and respectful and we can be normal people.
As with all other social groups, I would not judge you just for being a Christian-- but I'd judge the hell out of you if you weaponized that. Jerks come in ALL varieties!
That ADHD mean you interrupt everyone and never listen. No-one suspected that I had it because I was so quiet and shy! Even then, I almost never got the support I need from teachers because they didn’t believe me!
Not really, with the sensory issues. It's mostly people with ADHD cannot pay attention to things we aren't interested in, like math for some
Load More Replies...Blondes aren’t dumb. They’re taught by society that acting ditzy is what will make them liked even in elementary school, and kids are often not able to parse all subtle messages from society, so they adapt to what people expect from them and reward them for.
I know a blonde 10 y.o named -------. She can scurry up a tree in a split second, can break bones of people twice her size, and when I quizzed her on 8TH GRADE SCIENCE, she answered 90%right. She is also focused on breaking stereotypes.
oh my gosh thank you so so much for writing this. i’m a blonde girl and according to society standards, that means i’m dumb and don’t understand anything. well lemme tell you this, i have a 4.0 gpa and go up a grade in math. plus, to those who believe smart people aren’t athletic, i’ve been on the soccer team for as long as i can remember and just recently joined the volleyball team.
I had a classmate in college who would put on a ditzy act around men because that is what she thought they wanted to hear. Her way of flirting. She was an intelligent self reliant woman otherwise. I just shook my head.....
I think people believing people buying into the ditzy blonde myth is a myth. Nobody believes that, or do they???
I was teased for it as a kid, including from a middle school teacher.
Load More Replies...i totally agree with this- but then again literally all the blondes i know are dumbass bitches :(
The only people I have ever heard saying that blondes are 'ditzy' are blonde women. Same applies for 'blonde moment' when referring to an error or slip-up. Also it's blonde women all the way again for 'Gentlemen prefer blondes'. Anyone with half a braincell could tell you that there is no correlation between hair colour and intelligence.
"I hope she'll be a fool—that's the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool." -Daisy in The Great Gatsby
Load More Replies...So I do ballet and Im a guy. The most annoying thing is that people automatically assume that since I do ballet I'm gay. Now I am but most professional male ballet dancers aren't. I like to think that I'm good at it but when people don't respect me because I dance it pisses me off. Another thing is when people say that dance isn't a sport, or that only competitive dance is a sport. It is vary vigorous training and i would like to say harder than a lot of sports because you have to make it look easy. I wrote a report about my favorite sport in 4th grade and I failed because the teacher didn't agree with me. So please be considerate because not only is it hard to do ballet, Its hard to do it as a guy with so many stereotypes and having to push through them.
Here's a name Mikhail Baryshnikov. Not gay. Has anyone checked out the athleticism it takes for those jumps, spins and other moves and make it look like you're floating on air when you do it? You can't crush the landing. You need to look like a bird landing on a tree branch. That's unbelievably difficult.
I know!!! My dance teacher danced with him, among many other famous male dancers, and has so many stories.
Load More Replies...Ballet ? There’s nothing easy about that ! I respect ballet dancers like I respect footballers
Anybody seen the movie or play 'Billy Elliott'? About a young lad who gets bullied because he likes dancing. Top notch. Take a tissue.
Rock on brother! That's awesome! YOU'RE awesome! And being a dancer has to be one of the most brutal, physical things I've EVER seen!
Thank you!!!! It means so much that people realize how hard yet rewarding it is. All of you are saints!!! ☺☺☺
Load More Replies...Professional ballet is SO hard on your entire body. Anyone that tells you that you aren't an athlete has never danced en pointe a day in their life.
Ik. My dance teacher wont let me dance en pointe to strengthen my feet. I have heard so many stories amd I know how hard it hurts to dance en pointe.
Load More Replies...I have mad respect for anyone who does ballet, it's hard as hell, in every way.
Dancing is an art form, not a sport. It is more athletic than most sports. A LOT more. But it is art.
Actually, I think it counts for both. It most definitely is an art form and shows a story, but it also excercises your body and allows yourself to be fit. :D
Load More Replies...ace people are incapable of love
Hekking untrue. For anyone who is confused: Ace= asexual, which means not feeling any sexual desire. We can still have meaningful romantic relationships and PLATONIC LOVE EXISTS. I don't know why there are people who perpetuate this stereotype.
As an ace person. Could you be so kind as to explain me what is the difference between a asexual romantic relation and platonic friendship for you? I always understood friendship/family as love and romantic love as love+sexual desire. But that would mean that aces couldnt love romantically. How does it work for you? :)
Load More Replies...I'm actually very loving (not romantically tho I'm aromantic too)
I'm from a province in Canada called Newfoundland, which is constantly mispronounced by those who don't live here. New-fin-lind or New-FOUND-land. It's New-fin-land. People from outside the province wonder if we have electricity or indoor plumbing. Yes we do. AC too. Schools, stores, paved roads, hospitals. It's like we're thought of as illiterate inbred hicks who live in the middle of the woods.
I admit that I used to call it "New-found-lind". Thanks for letting me know the correct way to say it! And this is also like when people mispronounce Oregon. For the trillionth time, it is not pronounced "Or-ih-GAWN", it's pronounced "Or-ih-GIN".
Have a cousin who married a NF lady...she's been very helpful with educating the rest of our Minnesotan family, and we love her dearly (they live in NF)!
i always try so hard to say new-fin-land but i cannot say the word land properly. it sounds more like lind. so i say new-fin-lind. my accent refuses to say land. it’s always like “lind”. im australian btw. imma try really hard tho to try and get more of an a sound not an i sound.
With the heat/storm waves, I highly doubt we'll be able to do our annual August snowboarding tournament (as a Canadian) /s
Load More Replies...Don't forget the cracks about moose. I have a friend from the US who thinks all I have to do is look out my window to see a moose lol.
Load More Replies...So, we homeschooled for my kids' entire education, kindergarten through graduation. I figure that people think that they were brilliant, super-awkward, unsocialized, hyper-religious, cup-stacking, spelling bee champs. Oh, and that I wear denim jumpers and a head scarf! In reality, both of them were of normal intelligence and awkwardness (LOL!) and very social. We did go to church but they've never stacked a cup in their lives, nor did we enter any spelling bees. Really, they turned out pretty normal! I mean, at 18 and 21, they both have numerous tattoos - I think my daughter has 17, at last count, as well as two facial piercings - but that's normal in MY book! (And I haven't worn a denim jumper since the mid-90's when THAT was normal!)
'they've never stacked a cup' EVERYBODY HAS STACKED A CUP. IT IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF YOUR CHILDHOOD
What is cup stacking? Supposing it is not litterally. .. and if it is lutteral.. why! Or why not. I stack cups double in my cupboard for space.
Load More Replies...I’m homeschooled and my family is atheist! It’s not just religious wackos!
I have never stacked cups.Why would a child need to learn how to stack cups?
My thought exactly! LOL! Actually, it's a competitive thing where you stack and unstack cups in some type of pyramid and see who is fastest. Almost every curriculum catalog I ever looked at had sets that you could buy, complete with timer!
Load More Replies...I attended schools, but I don’t remember any cup stacking? Could I have been so traumatized that I blocked it out? : )
LOL! I'm guessing it's not something that they do in regular schools? I mean, I had no idea it even existed until we started homeschooling!
Load More Replies...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZE-V3tCuLR8 Apparently there are world championships for competitive cup stacking! Who knew?
Well I didn't know about that. It might be just me but I don't get the point.
Load More Replies...i have ADHD and I can pay attention, but really only to things i like. but that's just me
The thing is, people with ADHD probably don't bounce around the room like they are high on g fuel, it's just that everything is boring af
no, anything that we do not like we think is boring
Load More Replies...I usually learn literature during math class. Anyway I could still have a good enough grade for both subjects.
Too often people believe that atheists believe in nothing. Atheists simply don’t believe that there is a god, or gods, or supernatural powers. Atheism means “without god,” not “without a belief system of any kind.” Most atheists that I know, and I know a great deal of them, are humanists, and they believe with great conviction in being good and kind and ethical. They do right not because of the thought a mystical consequence or reward after death or in another life, but because this life and each other are all we have.
I do right because society would collaspe if we all didn't. If it takes the fear of a god to keep you moral... I don't know how I feel about that. Maybe that's part of the reason religion evolved in the society?
I think religion evolved to keep people complacent with those in power
Load More Replies...That is one of the best ways I've ever heard an atheist describe themselves. And you are right, about most atheists being good humans who care and do the right thing. It's unfortunate how some people love to slap labels on everyone. I wonder if they think they are immune to labels themselves?
1) I’ve seen quite a few times that people think asexual people are broken. 2) “Lesbians just haven’t found the right man.” 3) “Gay men just haven’t found the right woman.” 4) “Aromantic people just haven’t found the right person.” 5) “Bisexuals need to chose” 6) “Bisexual and pansexual are the same thing” 7) “nonbinary means you’re an object” 8) “cheerleading isn’t a real sport” 9) “cheer, gymnastics and dance are easy” 10) “ADHD is only in boys” 11) “you can only have tics if you have Tourettes” 12) “anxiety is just being shy, you just need to be pushed out of your comfort zone” These are just a few I thought of on the spot.
Anxiety is wildly misunderstood. I've had anxiety issues for years. I have a friend who doesn't and doesn't really understand it. She's said before, you have no stress in your life. (I was thinking, b*tch, please. Stress is only part of it. Anxiety as a whole is very irrational. Anything can be a trigger. It's not a stupid trigger, nor should anyone be made to feel like crap for it. It is also not weakness.
"Wait, your pronouns are they/them? Like are you plural?" "Why yes, I am eight owls in a trenchcoat and YOU WILL F*****G REFER TO ME AS SUCH"
*heavy breathing* What. ADHD. I'm a girl, I have ADHD. And anxiety. I can confirm that it's not being shy, if I get pushed out of my comfort zone, I will break down and cry. I've lost sleep thinking about a classmate's opinion of me because of anxiety. The people who come up with this stuff are idiots.
Annoyingly enough, the ADHD/Autism duo are heavily underdiagnosed in women because for various reasons they tend to be (but are by no means all) more neurotypical-passing. Or alternatively, because the big people decide the freaking-out girl child is just hysterical. Idiots is a polite way to put it.
Load More Replies...People with depression just have to pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Smile. Go for a walk. You'll feel better. You're just lazy, making this up to get out of stuff. Have a good talk with yourself, suck it up. Get your $h!+ together. So many more. Those things can possibly help. But we need people around who will basically drag us out. We're unbelievably physically exhausted and sometimes are afraid to go out. "Smile"? I usually have to restrain myself from punching them. Instead I tell them I had to put my dog to sleep yesterday. They'll walk away. Pulling yourself up by your bootstraps is physically impossible. Unfortunately during this covid disaster so many people are now all too familiar with depression. Especially teenagers. It makes me so sad.
My mum is bad for that. I attempted suicide and she told me I had nothing to feel depressed about, and that she should have just let me die of cancer if I was gonna do this (I had cancer twice when I was younger and almost died)
Load More Replies...Oh god yes bisexual and pansexual are differnent, and honestly, nonbinary does not mean you are a fing object!!!!!
I am a queer woman, but I do NOT sleep with every person I meet. I have been fetishized by straight woman thinking that the word 'TESTER' is written across my forehead.
Relatable! Don't use me for your "experimenting". People euqate queer/gay with promiscuous and I'm so over it!
One of my best friends is lesbian so I am more than familiar with what she has gone through because of society's ignorance and cruelty. But I genuinely have never heard the term 'TESTER'. I dont mean to be ignorant. I would like to know what that means.
You know when you go to a perfume counter and there is a tester bottle? That's how some straight women view me as. They want to try sleeping with a woman to see what it is like - it's even worse when it's a couple thinking I am into the group thing. No judgement for anyone who is! It's just not my thing and people shouldn't assume
Load More Replies...Muslim *takes deep breath JUST BECAUSE IM MUSILM AND ARAB DOES NOT MEAN I WILL F*****G HAVE A BOMB IN MY BAG LIKE DUDE WHERE THE F**K WOULD I GET A BOMB IN THE FIRST PLACE AND NO I DO NOT HATE ANY OTHER RELIGIONS JUST BECAUSE IM MUSLIM, NO I AM NOT A GOODY TWO SHOES JUST BECAUSE IM SMART NO I WILL NOT HESITATE TO KICK YOUR ASS JUST BECAUSE IM A TEACHERS PET, NO I DONT EAT FAST FOOD ALL DAY JUST BECAUSE IM FAT THE LAST TIME I HAD MCDONALDS OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT WAS WHEN I WAS 6 SO STOP F*****G JUDGING ME BEFORE YOU KNOW MY STORY thank you for coming to my Ted talk 😊
People judge others based on extremists, who do not represent anything. I believe you don’t carry around bombs🥰. Most religions don’t practice randomly killing others, it’s just the nut jobs using their religion as an excuse to be evil.
F**k ya, and maybe some fatayer on the way 😃
Load More Replies...Let me see, I'm an atheist so I have no respect for religious people, I'm a biological female so I can't stand up for myself or play videogames (whoops), I am bisexual so I like cheating on everyone apparently. I'm also on the aromantic spectrum (demiromantic) so I am for some reason are dilusional. I'm also an Aquarius so I'm extremely smart for some demented reason. -dani the apparent nonexistent human (I apologize if this looked like a rant)
You have a right to state these dumb stereotypes, so your rant is expectable
I am bi. No, I do not cheat more than the regular person. No, I do not want to date everyone I meet. Yes, I am dating a nonbinary person, that does not make me pan or omni.
For clarification: Bisexual/biromantic is liking TWO OR MORE genders, with preference (it's also the umbrella term for liking more than one gender). Pansexual/panromantic is liking all genders without preference. Omnisexual/omniromantic is liking all genders with preference. Yes, they are similar. They aren't all the same, though! (Aroace Tiger, Issac, and Chaotic-Pansexual all did a good job explaining this ^^)
Hope it’s ok to add this one - I am Vegan - for nearly 5 years. In general vegans are not hippies, sandal wearing people who just eat lentils!!! I/we are just normal people who choose for various reasons not to eat any animal products. For me my eyes were opened nearly 5 years ago at the practices in the dairy and egg industry. My body and mind instantly went - I cannot be any part of this - and I haven’t wanted or had anything non vegan foods from that moment on. We do not generally preach to people, always happy to have a discussion about it. And whilst some may, we don’t generally announce it like a public announcement!!!!! People can find us a threat, probably because it can make them question their own values and choices. And the most asked question - ‘but bacon!!!!’ To us all we see is a pig that was killed just so you can have a sandwich. Thank you for reading this. Xxx
Same, im vegan but not a hippie im a goth 😅 people think all i eat is tofu and avocados but i dont like either 🤢 i get the ‘but dont u miss bacon??!’ thing a lot too, tried it once when i was little but it was all rubbery and weird like skin so i spat it out, people dont understand that not everyone actually likes meat and is sad to give it up!
Even smelling a barbeque makes me nauseous, but very few people know I'm vegan. I avoid shared meals without explaining why.
No I disagree with this one. Vegans constantly call people animal killers and crap!!!
Autism... I have good social skills: yeah, that's because I spent 30 years to LEARN it. I look "normal": yeah, that's called MASKING. Changes induce a lot of anxiety. That's not because you don't see it that it doesn't exist. No, it's not "like you". Yeah, we experience similar things, but pretty sure, if you're neurotypical, we don't feel that in the same way. A lot of things are disturbing for neurotypical, but really intrusive for autistic people. And all the above (and all the rest) is DRAINING.
My son has autism, he is very misunderstood and I have to teach him “how” to have appropriate social skills. I can say, he gets frustrated having to try so hard and it breaks my heart he feels lonely and sad a lot. No one ever guesses he has autism, they just think he is a rude person.
That's so classic in our society. I've already been calling "rude". How old is he? Show him this thread :) Show him BP :) You don't feel lonely anymore here :)
Load More Replies...I forgot a lot of things... like "I'm not stupid, or trolling you: I just need you to be specific enough about what you are saying / asking. And if you expect something, be very clear since I don't get subtext. We are mostly simply taking the words you told us, litterally."
I don’t have words to describe how it makes me feel when I hear others describe it. Neurotypical people just don’t seem to understand how much harder simple things can be, and how draining it is. I hope you have a wonderful day
Thank you! [but I'm wondering if there is some form of irony because of the caps lock? because yeah, I forgot it: I (and a lot of autistic people) don't understand humor very well. Irony, sarcasm, second degree... I don't get it. I only get dark humor because that's very litteral... and that's weird because I really "trained" my understanding of humor, but that's still really hard!]
Load More Replies...honestly all the stereotypes about my religion are awful. i'm a jew. as much as i try to ignore the "money-grabbing jew" stereotypes, it sticks with you. i feel like if i care about the money at all, people will hate me for it. and all the conspiracy theories about us (illuminati, lizard people, space lasers...) also the jew nose thing. 1, that's not accurate the so-called "jew nose" is more commonly found in German gentiles and 2 stop making people ashamed of their nose. my nose is a bit large and i like it. also i'm a scorpio. i'm not a psycho i swear.
also that skinny ppl are fatphobic jerks. i really can't help that i'm skinny, i guess it runs in my genes? i don't think anything less of fat ppl (if you eat well and exercise well you're probably fine and unless your weight is hurting your health or making everyday life hard for you (ie impeding mobility or you're diabetic) you should just live a healthy lifestyle and try not to worry about weight) and i'm not skinny because i have an eating disorder. body positivity is for everyone and we shouldn't shame people for things outside of their control.
If Jews are not lizard people (carefully adjusts tinfoil hat) then why are there so many Jews in the middle east and so few in Alaska? Ha, got you! You are reptiles, you can't handle the cold!
you have discovered my plan! (hshshshshshs in a lizardly way) now i must destroy you with my Jewish space lasers!
Load More Replies...Oh bless you. Thank you. Jew here and I barely control my own world, let alone the main one. I live in an expensive city and can afford it only due to rent control! The only other one I'd add is that all Jews are Zionists and hate Palestinians/Arabs/Muslims. Granted, many do, and members of the Jewish community threatened my family while i was growing up because we have many close friends in the Arab and Muslim communities. At my sister's wedding, there was an entire section of tables where all conversations took place in Arabic and we *loved* it.
I'm a Scorpio. While I may be absolutely insane, I'm not as ridiculously gorgeous as how the media seems to portray Scorpio's.
Bikers are nasty vicious types. No, the kindest, loving people I have met are bikers, who do huge amounts for charities and their community. Look for Blood Bikers UK for one example.
Or BACA. Bikers Against Child Abuse. I was raised around bikers, and I was the safest child in the world and also learned a great deal about mechanics, which has saved me in a tough spot more than once.
Bikers.... are nasty vicious types? What? How? What is the reasoning behind this?
I have no idea of how it is thought out, but I do know people move away from us, and have been called a dirty biker when I'm dressed in riding gear- no patches etc. Just makes me laugh. A couple of weeks ago we went to the camping club where we hold a yearly event and they didn't recognise me. I came straight from the office in work wear.
Load More Replies...Once new a guy in Hell's Angels. His dad had been high up and had the massive biker funeral. This guy was really great. Now that he'd been clean for years. Not so nice before. But a good friend you can count on. Where we were, he stuck with the 3 of us to be with because no, he didn't like the others. The "Odd Quartet". Years later The Banditos were staking out our town to move into. Huge line up of bikes. They were sitting on the patio of a restaurant. I was going into a store when I caught 2 teenagers just reaching out to touch a bike. I warned them big time DON'T DO IT. When in the store everyone was freaked. What do we do if they come in? I told them they would be shopping like anyone else looking for an item and if they bring it to the counter say all the normal stuff. They're not coming in here to kill you.
Asexuals don’t want love and can’t be in a relationship
Imma copy and paste what I said above. Hekking untrue. For anyone who is confused: Ace= asexual, which means not feeling any sexual desire. We can still have meaningful romantic relationships and PLATONIC LOVE EXISTS (One more time, PLATONIC LOVE EXISTS) . I don't know why there are people who perpetuate this stereotype.
I am an almost 30 years old childfree, single heterosexual white woman of average looks, who has a career, loves to spend time time alone, read books, watch movies, play games (video and board) and crochet. Where are my at least two children and husband, whom I am constantly berating for playing video games (I am not allowed to like video games, I am a woman!) when he should be busy working so I don't have to, and taking my side in arguments with my hypothetical mother in law (his mother)? Where did I go wrong? ;)
Quakers arnt Amish, we’re not Mennonites, we arnt luddites, we don’t dress like rural Pennsylvanians from the 17th century that’s just the quaker oats dude.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quakers?wprov=sfti1
Load More Replies...I’m pansexual 1. It’s not the same as bisexual 2. Just because I like all genders doesn’t mean i like you 3. FOR THE LAST TIME I AM NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO PANS
THANK YOU I WAS GOING TO ADD THIS IN THE COMMENTS!!! the amount of pan hate on the internet is just UGH. And yes, i agree with ALL of those points. But please, just don't make the stupid joke that we are pansexual so we like pans. So damn annoying. Edit: Thanks for listening to my mini-rant.
Atheist. It is not a religious point. It's a default position to a claim made that a god exists and it gets twisted when someone distorts or misunderstands the burden of proof. It is also NOT a claim itself that a god doesn't exist, merely that there is not sufficient reason to believe that one does.
I'm asexual, I hear a lot of ' You're just saying that because you can't get f*cked' or 'I can turn you'. Also, I'm AFAB, which means I hear a lot of wrong pronouns or my deadname, along with "How are you doing, pretty girl?" or "Excuse me, miss." I know that's not a stereotype, but I needed to get it of my chest.
'I can turn you' it really creepy and I hope nobody says that to me 🤢
I'm biromantic ace. So I swing both ways and strike out both ways, and that doesn't mean I'm looking to be f****d.
Load More Replies...Assigned Female At Birth.
Load More Replies...Ok, Max'm! Handy guide: Ma'am/Sir: Max'm He/She: They Niece/Nephew: Nibling Sister/Brother: Sibling (or Sib) Mr/Mrs/Ms,: Mx.
Religion: Christianity- the stereotype that all Christians are hateful, homophobic bigots. I call myself Christian because I believe in God, but I don’t follow catholic beliefs, so that’s where I fall and Is how I was raised. But we aren’t all awful people, I promise. My sexuality- pansexual: there’s a mild stereotype that pans are all innocent always-happy, basically the cotton balls of the community. Not particularly bothersome, but also not particularly true My race: I’m mixed, Puerto Rican and white and my skin tone is slightly lighter than you’d typically find of a Mexican person and my hair type is giant curly. A lot of people assume I speak Spanish and that my family is full of Hispanic traditions and heritage. All of the family I live with is white and I always feel incredibly awkward when people assume things based on my appearance.
Also pan, laughed so hard I almost shot coffee out of my nose at "the cotton balls of society". You're great and I hope you have an awesome day.
That’s really sweet, thank you. I hope you do too!
Load More Replies...Well hey!!! I am an African from nigeria We do go to schools And no I don't live in a hut or Hunt down lions I wear clothes, I don't run around like a barbarian We have different language 'afrikaan is not a language! We have restaurant, cinema's,hospital,school ,electricity and yes we have clean good water And hell yeah they are so many foreigners here living in Nigeria And I speak 4 languages Please don't rely on natgeo,discovery channel ....if u want to see Africa just get on a plane,come see it yourself. Finally , Hollywood would you please stop exaggerating the African culture, am pretty sure no one wears that!
A Nigerian here and he’s right . I once dated a girl online whose mother claimed that I’m not real because I speak good English that Nigerians don’t speak good English and we are all lairs so she stopped talking to me. I’m a Nigerian.. I speak decent English .. and I’m not a liar . We are good people, it’s just that our government have tarnished our image and reputations .
Am actually from the north ..my English is pretty clean just like my accent....I think Nigerian's are very friendly and not everyone is a fraudster or liar .people stop judging people according to religion ,tribe, sexuality! Good is good bad is bad
Load More Replies...I can't believe it's not here yet but... as a feminist I don't hate men... and I don't blame men for all my problems... I actually like men very much, romantically, sexually and otherwise, my closest friends since my childhood have always been boys, I had been even bullied for that because "girls are supposed to play with girls"... and no, I don't drop my feminism "as soon as the bill arrives", I am happy to pay for myself, take care of myself and provide for myself... I have no problem to pay for my date either, actually my bf is still at university and I am ready to support him financially whenever he needs it... usually on our vacation it's me who pays for the hotels (and then I let him pay for something smaller like dinner)
I mean they are if somehow women being human beings is anti-men
Load More Replies...Hi. I'm an evangelist Christian. From what I've heard, people think that Christians--specifically evangelists--have lots of bigoted and misogynistic opinions that they like to force onto other people. I know there are tons of mega churches that only exist for the money and that there are lots of stories on Bored Panda about "Christian" bigots that are racist, homophobic Trump supporters. But I'd like to say that it's all untrue. As an evagelist with an evangelist family, we do not think that men are superior or that one race of people is of less value than another. We go to a small church that's going through so many finacial problems right now, and yet they still rarely ask for donations. My mom actually works for our church and she knows that more than 90% of the money that's ever donated goes to charities. In fact, our church TELLS its donors where all of the money goes before they donate, so not all churches are mega/super churches that're only in it for the cash and ask for massive donations, as well as guilt trip the church-goers to give money because it's "for a greater cause" and "because it's the Christianly/godly thing to do". All those stories about bigots that are so-called Christians aren't truly Christian. They just use the label for clout, really. I know too many people who say they're Christian but never go to church and do absoultely none of the practices. So, to conclude the wall of text I built (sorry about that lol), please don't automatically think that all Christians, especially evangelists because I've noticed that we're getting quite a bit of hate as of recent times, are not misogynistic bigots just because of things you read online or even experiences you've had that are similar to the ones you might have read on social media. True Christians who actually have Christian beliefs aren't like that at all and would never even think about doing things like that. Thanks for reading, I really appreciate it.
Sadly we do see a lot of people using the Christian label who don't believe what we believe and have never studied scripture. They use it for political or social gain and its an embarrassment.
i totally feel that post friend. most of evangelism bashers have only clichés, and have absolutely no clue of what the Bible is about. the true real christian will never ever judge you. and respect others opininons by staying silent when he disapproves. the real christian will never ever say you'll die in hell because you're gay. i'm sad for these internet button pushers actually
Okay.... but are your individual views the majority of evangelical, Bible-believing, fundamental Christians believe?
The point is that you need to be discerning between people who claim to be Christians and just go through the motions, and people who are actually living the faith out in their daily lives. You won't see many of the latter on social media or on the news. So the answer to your question is that for the people who are *actually* Bible believing Christians, yes. But there are many, MANY people who will claim to be Christians who are not. There is too much money and power in it, so be very skeptical when you see people in power making a point of flaunting their faith. Watch their actions and see if they match up.
Load More Replies...Ok i am a conservative messianic Christian and i don't have issues with the gay community. I also don't respect or follow any politician. People who are like me used to be disliked by the left and the right were considered anarchists and conspiracy theorists. What drives me crazy the most is now that trump was president everyone blames him for what we believe NO! I have know that this society is full of bull s**t and that world leaders are just going useless since i watch 9/11 happen and i knew then those MFs are so full if it.
I have an actual question (not trying to bask anyone) what's the difference between an evangelist Christian or a Christian? Would love some answers!
I logged in just to comment on this post, I'm usually a lurker. I am in no way, shape or form a Christian but I agree that you are absolutely correct. My fiance's family is SUPER Catholic, his mom has dedicated most of her life to their church and his dad helps out with repairs to the building and carpentry and auto issues for members of the congregation whenever he can. They are both in their 70s. And they are the nicest people ever. They have totally accepted my heavily pierced, heavily tattooed, mohawked, very alternative self from the very beginning, because I make their very conservative looking, doesn't have a single tattoo on his body, son happy. I respect them and they respect me, because treating other people as you'd like to be treated is the basis of all major religions and faiths. And true Christians get that, just like all of us that aren't.
The fact that you called it a choice is kinda the reason everyone hates on conservative christians. Well, one of them.
Load More Replies...I am barely catholic anymore but I was raised in the church and tbh I don't have an issue with it. I've always wondered why people believe that Catholics worship Mary ( mother of Jesus) I went through 12 yrs of catholic education and never once was told we worshiped her.
It's not out right said but we give thanks, ceremony, and creeds to Mary. We pray Hail Mary, we also do wedding ceremonies with Mary. It is said in Canon to pray to Mary to speak to God on our behalf....I mean if that's not worshipping I don't know what is.
i guess it depends on the church and school. at my school (a catholic school) we were taught most about mary and joseph more than we were jesus, but most people saw the stories of the bible as more like tales, having lessons behind them, meanings, not full true. we went church and every march and october we had rosary which cantered around mary and the journey of hers stated in the bible of becoming the mother of jesus. my school looked up to mary and joseph more than we did god and jesus tbh. we looked up to some saints more but we were also taught the things they did that would be considered wrong. we believed god and jesus exist but the stories of the bible were more lessons. i recently left the faith though and am a buddhist now.
Depends on a country i suppose. In our country - Mary has a HUGE role in cathegism
Same here… it was pretty clear that Mary (and other saints) are to be venerated, which is not the same as worship.
And over time it has become a worship. There are charms and pendants with her likeness. That's worship.
Load More Replies...Colombian here. Where do I start... 1. I DON'T know how to dance, and I hate it. Never liked it, never will. For some reason i'm a fairly decent bass player though. 2. I'm an atheist, and with good reason, and being an academic helped. Most people in my family are believers, but I blatantly tell them I do not share their beliefs when asked about the whole matter, no matter how judgemental they can get. 3. Colombians, as well as many latinos, come in almost all colors, shapes, sizes and backgrounds. From what people consider the stereotype fo what latinos look like, to those who are tall, blonde and blue or green-eyed, and those with African roots, and others who keep their native American (as in the continent) looks untouched. But mostly, we are a mixed "race", and in my case I look as if I were of middle east descent. 4. Colombia isn't all tropical! We have all climatic conditions, from beaches and deserts, to rainforests and snow-capped mountains, and many regions are relatively cold all year long. Also, because of its location on the globe, Colombia has no seasons, but rather a time in which rain is more frequent. 5. Sounding "latino" when speaking in English. I was born and raised in Colombia, I've lived in Mexico for almost ten years, and yet I do not sound "latino" (with a Spanish accent) when I speak in English. Amongst many things I've taught English is one of them, so I guess that's helped quite a bit. 6. No, I don't do (illegal) drugs, nor sell them. I've never even bought weed, and I don't know any dealers. 7. For some reason my famly wasn't so much into doing the typical local stuff, and to this day we are somehow atypical. This is an advantage, but also a curse, depending on how you approach being atypical. 8 I do love coffee though :)
the thing about climate, it’s the same here in australia. it’s not all desert and hot and sunny. it gets really rainy snr we have floods, further up north in queensland i believe, tropical and it does snow! go to tasmania! australian capital territory and new south wales and victoria i believe also do get quite a bit of snow. as far as i am aware it doesn’t snow here in western australia, haven’t visited any where in WA were it snows and i’ve lived here my whole life.
All Canadians are extremely polite, apologize constantly, end every sentence with "eh?", pronounce "out" as "oot," live near the Arctic Circle (Toronto, ON is actually farther south than Paris, France), experience winter year-round, and are fanatical about hockey.
well I come from a nation historically successful in ice hockey... we know very well all Canadians are not polite... actually our stereotype for Canadian is angry aggressive 2 meter tall hockey player with no teeth
🇨🇦 here. THIS. But, I am trying to get out of the habit of apologizing to a salesperson for asking them to do their job. "Im sorry but could you help me find XYZ?". Well, the "eh" thing. Yes we do. Especially out west. But we can do some pretty hilarious poking fun at ourselves. Closing Ceremony of the Vancouver Winter Olympics was one big poking fun at ourselves with stereotypes. Polar bears, Voyageurs, dancing Mounties behind Michael Buble when he was singing. All pretty hilarious.
we have a family friend, he’s canadian, he’s polite but not overly polite because it’s good to polite, like literally anyone can be polite, he says eh quite often but not all the time, actually it can be quite rare to hear him say eh more than 2-3 times a day. depends on what he’s talking about. he plays hockey, yeah, but that’s bc he enjoys it. (my whole family actually likes hockey so it makes sense we get on with him.) he doesn’t say oot he says out although it has that slight touch of the o sound. likes it’s in between how it says it but it’s closer to out than oot.
I'm so sorry, but now isn't the time to visit Canada, eh. All these wildfires in British Columbia have melted all the ice and snow, so all the hockey players are over here trying to put them out. Canada definitely doesn't look like you think it does right now. Once again, so sorry. 🤣
1. Hawai'i is part of the US. We're a state not a territory anymore like Guam or Puerto Rico. 2. If you are a US citizen, you don't need a passport to visit. 3. We use US currency obviously, because we are a state. Please stop asking what the exchange range is. Yes, I've been asked this. 4. And finally, we have electricity, we all don't live on the beach in grass huts wearing coconut shell bras, and yes, we are the only state in the US that has an official palace. We were overthrown by the US because well, the US wasn't happy enough with what they had.
To try fellow Americans who don’t numbers 1-4 above: are you ****ing stupid?
SAME with alaska. can people please just stop the stereotypes and educate themselves!?!?! and no i don't live in an igloo.
Buddhists do not worship the Buddha. If we bow to a Buddha statue, we are merely practicing humility and showing respect for the Buddha's teachings. Many Buddhist alters don't even have a Buddha statue, but we bow to them anyway for the same reasons.
I had a conversation with my wife's family's new pastor, who, after finding out i was a Buddhist, would not stop asking me who/what we worship. Nothing wasn't an acceptable answer to him.
buddha isn’t a god! and buddha didn’t go to heaven or anything, the whole point of becoming a buddha is to escape the cycle of rebirth. we respect many figures in buddhism and what they taught us but we don’t worship them as gods. some believe in gods, but actually quite a few don’t.
That suffering from schizophrenia makes you someone who is “crazy”. I have a full time job, raise children and am a productive member of society...but sometimes when I get very stressed I hear voices, think people tapping me on my shoulder and am scared of being in the world. It doesn’t mean I am about to go on a killing rampage 😂 American movies have a lot to answer for! You wouldn’t know I suffer from mental illness if you met me, I hide it well. FYI my schizophrenia developed after severe trauma.
i don’t have like a confirmed schizophrenia diagnosis but i definitely hallucinate and have extreme paranoia. when in the car if someone’s trailing behind us bc maybe we go to same shops, i immediately “oh dear they’re stalking” i can’t walk in my own house at night or even during the day often without constantly looking over my shoulder bc i believe someone’s in the house. like i check like the whole house before i go to the toilet in the middle of the night and even then i’m as quiet as possibly bc of fear someone’s in the house. nobody is. nobody can get in. we have roller shutters on every window. i often have auditory hallucinations and they aren’t telling me to kill, they just say “hi!” or distorted speech or i’ll just hear a cup being placed on the table or whistling or a car going past my ear. i’m not going to run out on the street going on a murderous rampage! i’m terrified of going out on the street alone and the thought of murder makes me sent to scream and cry it scares me
I think this perception is a hangover from times gone by when there really wasn't anything they could do for schizophrenia and symptoms ran unabated. The horror show that was the 'treatments' didn't help the image either. I think the image is changing, albeit sadly slower than it should.
That Muslim women don’t have rights, and Islam is misogynistic. Really, it’s a cultural thing in literally all areas of the world that men can be misogynists, but people never blame men. They blame Islam, the weather, the stars, their moms, etc.
Apparently since I’m pansexual I only like pans. It’s so fcking annoying.
That all romani people are thiefs. When i go to the shop in a new place (usually somewhere else than my home town) guards in that shop might start to follow me. Theres still places where they wont let romani people in at all. We have trouble getting jobs, appartments, and people wont easily trust us. I know that romani people arent all innocent but it doesnt mean that we are all the same. Its very frustrating cause you always have to convince people that youre good. I live in Finland.
I'm a disabled, leg amputee, burnt victim with 80% of my body covered in scars... Well you know what? I'm not an example of strength! I was just too scared to kill myself, and I'm still the jerk I used to be =)
ah where should I start goth is a choice not a personality, so I can be cheerful Indians are some smart work-on-the-farm girly girls. no, im a tomboy, love tech, and my math is just- being energetic means your a happy cheery person who does goodwill and loves pink- all that jazz. I have AD-HD and am very fidgety(not everyone has these symptoms) and and the exact opposite on the inside.my friend once said I was like invisible girl from MHA (don't worry if you don't watch)who loves cute stuff. yeah no this is a fraction of all the stereotypes I get.
I am a descendant of the Picts of Scotland. Yes we still exist. It is what my maiden name means. Pickens. And Picts are not a Clan. We predate Clans. It was interesting tracing the family back and finding jobs listed as “rogue” on some!
An they are the reason Hadrian's wall was built. The only people the Romans could not conquer. The wall was built to keep the Picts from raiding the Roman settlements along that area. They lived in the Highlands then. I can trace my family back to the mid 1400's in Edinburgh. They were in the Highlands before that.
Load More Replies...Clarification stereotype is that the Picts no longer exist. It was implied.
Load More Replies...I dont know if that counts but it's a stereotype about the german nationality. First of all we're not all nazis or radical right. In fact, only a tiny fraction is extremist. And the second one that is really incorrect is that we don't laugh or don't have humor. We do have humor! (most of us)
We have humour, and we have engineering - and, tbh, the "overengineering" is totally bogus. We don't do that. Italians do, sometimes, and call it "Bella Macchina" instead, which, generally, lets a more positive approach towards technology shine through. One that isn't ashamed of enjoying the results.
Christian here, and let me get these straight 1. Not all Christians are true Christians (They think they are better than those they look down on, and Only use the Christian title as a merit badge) 2. Not all Christians hate other people for their beliefs (The exact opposite is true actually, I am friends with some LGBT people and I treat them like a normal human that deserves respect and kindness) 3. I don’t like how the media shows us. We aren’t all stuck up, we don’t
Whoops accidentally published early, We only want others to feel loved (and not shamed or discriminated against)
A conservator-restorer of historical pieces and artworks here. The general misconception about my profession is that we are just artists, and the truth is we are so much more. Conservation and restoration is in fact a multidisciplinary approach that unifies natural sciences, technology, human and animal anatomy, history, art history, craftmanship and art for every given material humans have ever worked with.
We asked 100 people for a stereotype of a conservator-restorer, and the response was: 100 couldn't think of any.
Ex-Professional Footballer - We are NOT all millionaires. Some pros make less than those in the semi-pro leagues and can often find it hard to get a mortgage. It's only the top 5% or so that make BIG money and most footballers have to get a job when they retire from the game. I know a guy that played many times in the English Premier League who delivers for DHL now. Footballers have resorted to selling the medals they won when they fall on hard times. - We are NOT all stupid. We represent a cross-section of society and our intellect reflects that. It's always the idiots who make the papers though. Nobody wants to read about a player having an engaging conversation on the fall of the Russian empire. Watching some muppet cavorting naked with a stripper whilst high on more than just life seems to sell better. It's also worth noting that a footballer makes hundreds of calculations every time he plays the ball; wind speed and direction, incoming trajectory and speed of the ball, spin and dip, the location of the opposition, the distance to the target, the relative angle of the target, the motion of the player receiving the ball, projected position of the opposition at the time the ball reaches its target and more. - Footballers are NOT overpaid. Ok, some may be earning daft money. That's the top 5% again. Most players are on 1-3 year contracts meaning that: - if they don't get in the team - bye-bye. - if they get injured - bye-bye. - if they lose form or fitness - bye-bye. With the exception of loss of fitness those pitfalls are unavoidable if they happen to you. 'Bye-bye' could mean a transfer to the other side of the world or it could simply mean that you are out of work. That is a huge amount of pressure to be under if you have a young family and a mortgage to pay. Finally, a footballer's career lasts on average 15 years. Only the very fortunate avoid serious injury and play well into their thirties. Usually, as a player gets older the top level teams will see him as 'sub-prime' and pass him on to a lower level team. It's at this point that the ignominious slide down the leagues into the semi-professional game and eventually out of work begins. Top flight = top wages. The lower you go, the lower the pay. Except a strange thing happens when you reach a certain level. If you drop down from pro (full-time) to semi-pro (part-time) you can earn more for less work if you choose the right club. Pro clubs have huge overheads but because non-league clubs do not maintain a full-time staff, their overheads are lower and they can afford to pay the playing staff more. I would be happy to answer any questions you may have and thanks for reading! -
No, he is a football player ... he clearly states that.
Load More Replies...Because I was a Marine, I am all knowing when it comes to every gun or war. I know the guns I shot, the war I was in, but certainly no master of all guns and all wars. Because I am a nurse I know every human ailment and condition. Sure I know a lot, but I specialized early on in my career and focused highly on my specialty only.
I'm Dutch I don't smoke weed . I have never owned wooden shoes. I can't ice skate. I don't eat cheese all the time. I don't like tulips. I live 2 hours from Amsterdam. And also I'm Ginger and I don't have a temper ^#grr&&' ( OK I do have a temper a little)
No sorry I'm not. Lol
Load More Replies...Well lemme first start with MUSLIMS ARE NOT TERRORIST and our religion does not preach extremism just because some bunch of terrorist are using the name of Islam tarnish the image of the Muslim doesn't mean all Muslim, furthermore we do not support Isis,iswap,al shabab, al Qaeda ...they kill innocent Muslim Secondly not all Muslims are Arab.Islam is a univervasal religion not situated to particular region of country... Also not all Arabs are Muslims ......it hurts me to see how Arabs are maltreated bcos of 'hey I am from the middle east'..... So you are a Muslim and Arab???? They are practically Christian Arab especially from Lebanon and jordan
these terrorist groups, such as the taliban, are disgracing the holy name of islam, are the enemies of islam, they use the try and use the qu’ran (is this spelt right) and the holy name of islam to justify their actions which are unjustifiable. and like i’m 90% certain, they’ve killed more innocent muslims and followers of the islam faith then they have other people. stop hating on our islam friends. please. they deserve as much respect and love as others do. stop hating on them for gods sake.
I’m a teenager and my family thinks that because I’m a certain age, I’m a certain thing. So they blame my bad attitude on ‘becoming a teenager’ and say I should be moody and mean. They also assume I should like sports which is totally incorrect because I’m more of your drawing reading antisocial girl.
like i speak with a “tone” and “attitude” bc (and this is very common among neurodivergent folk) i’m autistic and cannot control my tone of voice, and like i don’t know that i’m speaking in a “tone” or with an “attitude” like i’m just trying to speak.
As someone who awas more in scuence and not sports: DO IT. Just find something that sticks: yoga, dancing, skating, cycling, Athletics, etc. LIFE WOULD'VE BEEN AN EASY MODE in my 20'ies if i'd had been not overweight. Current generation has less fat phobia, but looking for fitting clothes is annoying , lack of confidence is annoying, and most importantly, i became too stationary to do anything. So, TL;DR find activity of sports you like to simply form good and healthy habits in the early stage of your life.
Building on Liam Roberts' earlier post, there isn't just one type of autism. It's called Autism SPECTRUM Disorder for a reason!
- A star with a circle around it (pentacle) is NOT a 'devil' or evil sign, it is a symbol of protection. - Pagans, as a whole, do not practice 'ritual sacrifice' on humans, ever. Some paths spill animal blood, some people use their own blood (pinprick on a finger), but NEVER killing another human being. Even the animal blood is rare since many Pagan paths revere/worship nature. - Witches/Pagans do not worship Satan like Christians claim. Satan is a Christian concept only relevant in Christian beliefs, therefore, Witches/Pagans do not believe in the concept of Satan, let alone worship/marry/serve/copulate with it. The exception is Satanists that recognizes Satan as Christians know but he serves more as a role model for self-actualization. - Modern Pagan practices are revivals or recreation of pre-Christian religions/beliefs
The revival started largely in the 1960's when Gerald Gardner began teaching Wicca. He based it on what he learned in the U.K. by Witches and Druids that still practiced ancient beliefs. The other revivals already had historical reference like ancient Egyptian (Kemetic), Norse mythology (Heathen), and Greek mythology.
Load More Replies...Atheists 'don't believe in god' or 'deny the existence of god'. This is a dismissive stereotype. Atheists don't believe in gods. Like most people. Atheists typically just believe in one less god than other people. There is no denial and a singular god isn't assumed.
Atheist - don't believe in supernatural Agnostics - don't subscribe to any existing religion, but don;t deny of a possibility of supernatural. I think You belong to the group 2 :)
I’m white, like if you need to define a white person I’m it. I season my food and yes avocados are delicious.
Mormon here. Yes we dance, yes we drink caffeine (just not drinks with tannins) no we don't practice polygamy anymore (seriously it's been over 100 years). Our underwear isn't magic, but it does decrease panty lines. Yes we do rend to have a lot of kids, but we can use birth control if we want (abortions only under certain circumstances though.) We are not all Republicans (Libertarian here). The church doesn't actually run Utah. But will speak up about matters that affect freedom of religion. Otherwise they just say to study politics and participate. Yes, you may feel judged at church. Just remind people that God is your judge and what you're going through is between you and Jesus. Or at least give them a look that says the same. Our Temples are Highly sacred houses that we use to practice worship in that is so sacred and unique that we can't really explain it well to people who haven't really studied our religion. Which is why we dont talk about it. We can explain some things, and some temples have visitor centers you can go to. Fun fact though, if you find videos or scripts of our ceremonies, it's a copyright violation and they can be sued. (PS, I do not look typical Mormon, I wear modest clothes, but have daith piercings for migraines and often brightly colored hair. Yes, I get judged for this, I don't care and often use it as an excuse to challenge the judger.)
yes, thank you for saying this!!!(fellow lds here) :) i’m sick and tired of people making mormon marriage jokes, they are extremely outdated
Wait, undies that reduce panty lines? Sounds like magic to me.
LDS also. Thank you for the post. I didn't even know where to start with the stereotypes. 🙄
Being pansexual does NOT mean I like everyone. I don’t flirt with everyone (or anyone, really) and I don’t have a crush on everyone. Don’t flatter yourself.
Hi! This isn’t related to your post, but I read your bio. Is We Stan from Gravity Falls? Just wondering!
No 😂 but I Stan Grunkle Stan too
Load More Replies...I'm a Christian and people assume I am judgemental and think I'm better then everyone else.
I agree with you on that, but again its just a generalisation on an overall faith and belief system, myself and many other Christians i know of would go above and beyond to help someone out, if perhaps its a situation that we can't physically help with (like medical and not a healthcare professional) all we can do is pray. I have seen people healed in front of my very eyes of sickness. I think this sort of grouping together a stereotype is why I posted my initial submission. Some people are like that, yes which can be patronising and false, but don't tar us all with the same brush. It's just as bad as judging someone on their skin color or perhaps different faith because of something that happe ed once to someone. I myself believe in being a practical Christian in doing what I can to help. Sometimes people don't want help simply 'because I'm a Christian' what can I do then? Just leave them to struggle alone? I'd be labelled a bad Christian then.... I truly with every fibre of my being believe and know that God can do miracles and intercede in situations if we pray and ask for it. Me having to prove myself to someone like this is pretty much the point of the initial post- I am being judged because of my faith...
I am a very specific type of Christian. (#84) and I can't tell you how often I am told that I am not Christian.
Do you know how condescending it sounds every time a christian says they'll pray for you?
As Christians we believe that God is in control of everything, when we pray to God we are asking for his help or intervention in a situation, so when someone says they'll pray for you, its a very kind thing. They're literally asking the God of this whole universe to help you out.
Load More Replies...So I get this one A LOT. So there’s this stereotype with gay people (Or maybe just me I don’t know ), that you will like every single other gay person in existence. It’s really a problem because it’s really inconsiderate to the person, automatically assuming since they are gay, they are required to like every gay person on this planet.
i’m gay (well it’s actually pretty complicated but gay is the simplest form i can put it in) and demiromantic which mean i need a strong emotional bond before have romantic attraction towards someone. and this isn’t the normal thing people! those who are alloromantic can look at someone and go i wanna fate them or after having only spoken to someone once think i like them and have a crush on them. i have only had like one crush my whole life and it’s on my best friend bc after a year i formed the strongest emotional bond with anyone i had before. i have a real friend. this is true friendship (my primary school “friends” hated me and i was the “weird girl” and a pet project) and it has gradually become a crush. i am also asexual. i don’t meet a gay person and go “i wanna date them” no. that’s not how i roll. i don’t wanna date every gay person ever.
the veggies are vegans and also that they miss meat even before i was veggie i thought it tasted disgusting
Irish here. While we would not express this without being asked, we find the way that St. Patrick's Day is celebrated in the US to be incredibly culturally offensive. If the same things were done to celebrate Kwanzaa or Purim, there would be outrage. But because it is the Irish, demeaning ethnic stereotyping seems to be okay. It isn't okay.
Very interesting point. How do you feel St. Patricks days celebrated in other countries? I.E. we have a tradition to spill green (non toxic) paint into a river every year. The ambassador of Ireleand participates. But yes, i could see how drunk americans dressed in green would be insanely offensive. The culture itself, where if they have because their 5th generation relative down the line immigrated from Ireland, current generation are somehow irish as well. That' crazy!
This is definitely going to get lost in all the other answers, but here goes. I’ve heard a lot of stereotypes that atheists all are depressed goth kids who hate other religions. I’m actually a pretty cheerful person, and not believing in the afterlife/end of life reward helps me appreciate the everyday joys of life and to live as fully as possible, because (I believe that) you only live once. As for the hating other religions, I try to appreciate the lessons that they have to teach us without getting stuck on the afterlife/god(s). I like to think of other religions as metaphorical rather than physical. That’s just my beliefs, however, and everyone is entitled to worship how they please! :)
If anybody even have such depiction of atheists, they're definitely in the minority. Definitely not on the same level as other stereotypes. Imagine whole Northern Europe being imagined as goths 🤣
HI! Asian here. I don't eat dogs but I can have mine eat you if you keep asking me :) No, I am not from China or Korea or Japan, there are way more countries in Asia. Ling-Ling is not my name, thanks.
I'm a white Christian. No, I'm not conservative. No, I'm not against gay marriage. No, I'm not pro-life. I believe I should live by my beliefs. I do not believe anyone else should be forced to. I don't think I'm racist. I'm definitely not a white-supremist .
I'm a Christian, and a lot of people assume that all Christians hate anyone in the LGBTQ+ community. While some do, I would like to say that most of us just don't agree with their choices but still respect the person.
c'mon people! Scott deserves about 300 upvotes here...let's make it happen
Load More Replies...To respond to the comment beneath (the one by Bee / she/her) because for some reason BoredPanda isn't letting me reply, can I just say that an adult being attracted to a teenager or child is looked down upon in older versions of the Bible?
Load More Replies...I love the LGBTQ community. I'm part of it and my cousin's part of it. I am Catholic. I hate it when supposedly religious people go "If you're (insert sexuality/life choice here), you can't go to Heaven!" Excuse me, but DID YOU READ THE BIBLE? DID YOU NOT HAVE A CHRISTIAN EDUCATION? CHRIST SAID "LOVE EVERYONE" NOT "LOVE ALL STRAIGHT PEOPLE"!!!!
Trust me, those toxic Christians read the Bible alright, they just read the misinterpreted and mistranslated version of it that is weaponized today against homosexuality
Load More Replies...Im quite a religious person i love churches & feel a deep sense of peace in them, im also part of the LGBTQ+ community though and i am nice to EVERYONE even people who are mean to me, i thought being kind and helping everyone was part of it, it is for me anyway 😊🌈💛 i love learning about other religions and it doesnt matter to me if people dont have one i think you can beleive anything you want
But the only reason you don’t “accept LGBTQ+” is based off something that isn’t true. The Bible, original Bible, does say anything about being gay is a sin. This has been disproven so many times, but the translated modern English version is all people want to see.
I'm learning Hebrew and Greek so I can read some of the older Bibles just so I can have something to back me up in arguments
Load More Replies...I'm Christian and in the LGBTQ+ community. This "I don't agree with your choices" thing is based on ignorance and frequently is a cover for homophobia. Jesus said love your neighbor and don't judge them. It ain't that hard.
I am danish and a lot of danish who consider themselves christian, have no issue with LgBTQ+. How can you respect say , a homosexual person, when you say “ i do not agree with his/hers choice” . You are litterally saying, you do not “agree” with who they are . That is pretty bad.
I’m Christian and I’ve had people ask if I thought the sun revolved around the earth and if I didn’t believe in science. I believe in science. I’m no scientist so I don’t know everything but I can believe in both. As a woman, I’ve had people say all women/all white women (multiple separate instances) are crazy. Which is demeaning.
Being white does not mean I am "a superior race" in fact, I am a genetic mutation with ego problems
I am Canadian: I almost never say "eh", I've never been a hockey fan or even watched part of a game, and I do not constantly wear red and black plaid. I am also Autistic: I am not a super genius nor do I need tons of training and help to be "normal". Also, there is no single form of Autism, every autistic person has their own weaknesses, strengths, and needs. Please stop making these assumptions.
to everyone who has read and will read this post: I could've phrased this way better and i really wanna delete it and re-do it but i can't, lol thx, Liam from 2023
I and all 3 of my kids are autistic, and I've heard them all. The worst is that my wife's family's old pastor tried to tell me autism isn't real, and is just an excuse for lack of faith.
Mormons. There’s a lot about the religion that’s very misunderstood
Yes, like how they baptize the dead into their religion, regardless of what the deceased practiced in life. Also using the dead baptisms to increase official member numbers.
Paul had no problem with it. Even used it as part of an augment for the resurrection. 1 Corinthians 15:29 As for the "official member numbers" Those are living people who have received the ordinance of baptism into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Kristal you have (by your comment) have proven that Mormons belong on this thread. There are so many stereo types about the faith and the people that are flat false. Others (like many stereo types) have seed in the truth but have been twisted into something that is completely unrecognizable by even the saints of whom the legend was about.
Load More Replies...To be fair, all religions are cults when they first start. But yeah, doesn't seem culty when in it
Load More Replies...Pansexual here. No, we do not f**k pans. We DO like hitting the fuckwads who make those jokes over the HEAD with pans though...
Where does this term come from? Is it like a panorama of all the genders?
What do you mean, my good sir?
Load More Replies...I'm South African and white. People from other countries assume all white people from here supported apartheid. Not only is that not true, but it's insulting not only to me and my parents, but to all the white anti-apartheid activists from back in the day. Also, I'm English-speaking, so I don't have an Afrikaans accent. (I sound more like Korg from Thor Ragnarok - and in fact, when I was visiting London, people thought I was from New Zealand!) We don't live in mud huts here, we don't have wild animals running in the streets (okay, a zebra ONCE!), we have more ATMS per 100,000 people than most other countries except large ones like Brazil, China and Russia, our people and fantastic and friendly, and we have great weather.
and the wild animals running in the streets, lemme tell you, people come to australia and visit big cities like perth, sydney, melbourne and go “where are all the kangaroos?” well first problem, you’re in the city, kangaroos don’t live there, second problem it’s just really uncommon to see kangaroos around really. however my town has kangaroos (very few however), long neck turtles, ducks, and even peacocks from the zoo about. kangaroos are the least spotted. we have cow crossings and duck and turtle crossing bc it’s more rural and we live like surrounded by a river. peacocks are only on this one but and very uncommon. they come from the zoo. you often seen kangas hanging about in the zoo car park or that road there. they just sit there. a jump about in one little spot. it’s very cut
yea for some reason aussies, kiwis and those from african, mainly south africa tho, have rather similar accents. like the only reason i can tell that someone is more likely to be from south africa than new zealand is how they pronounce certain letters. my math teacher, she’s from south africa and she pronounced certain letters and sounds differently but we don’t hear an accent. but then again i’ve noticed a lot of aussies don’t really notice accents just how things are pronounced. we only notice your accent if it’s thick or we have been informed of where you are from and what your accent is, then we can start to hear it.
Every single tired, overworked, unoriginal trope and micro-aggression directed towards Black women. For instance, people who don't know me from Adam's housecat, but assume "you're a strong black woman". If only they knew my background and experiences, they would probably get a clue about how fragile I really am, and what it is a struggle to show up in this life and simply breathe and be me without the bs. Or, because I am educated and well-spoken, some people feel so free to say "Oh, you're so well-spoken." This was especially the case when I worked in customer service and spoke to customers over the phone. Then, when they had to meet me in person, there was always a double-take - the facial expressions and reactions basically announcing that I did not look the way I sound, according to their limited mindset. Maybe I look like I should have been rolling my neck, snapping my fingers, and have loads of attitude. Oh, and when I go shopping - either being followed around a store because the assumption is that people who look like me steal, or being totally ignored because people who look like me don't really deserve the basic courtesy of being treated like a human being. Online shopping has been a lifesaver for me - true facts. Or, because I am married to a non-black person, I'm a weirdo, or I don't like myself. Those are just a few.
I’m Indian and don’t smell like curry... We’re not all Hindu- I’m South Indian which is mostly Catholics.
This is a bit of a weird one, but here goes it. I'm a girl and I like the colour pink and wearing dresses/skirts, and everyone tells me that I'm not a feminist, and why am I submitting to the patriarchy and things like that. The stereotype that feminists can't like pink or wear dressy clothes is just really tiring sometimes.
I love the color pink and I consider myself a feminist, so like pink all you want. We can still be feminists.
like you can literally just enjoy dresses and pink bc it’s makes you happy. it has nothing to do with being a girl. like it’s so perplexing as to why it is. my cousin used to love pink as a kid bc he loved how vibrant it was and how peaceful looking it was. and it’s not like he’s suddenly gay. okay he is pan but that is not the point!
Everyone bearing a Caucasian face is an American. And even if we aren't, our culture surely is. And we're naturally gifted English speakers. Also, your body type is an example of how everyone in your country looks like.
That all american females are sl-ts. Like why do people think this?!
funny, I thought actually most americans (females or not) are rigid conservative s**t-shamers
never heard that one before :I but that sounds really dumb and fairly generalising. (also nothing wrong with having lots of sex and enjoying it - no sl-t shaming)
I am from Bangalore, Karnataka, in South India. People have this wierd notion about us all being Madrasis, Madras (now Chennai) is a city in another state down south. We are simply clubbed together. They assume automatically that we speak with an odd accent, don't know proper English and Grammar. This goes for all the Northern states and people from other countries too. The truth being, we have better educational facilities here in the South, accent is something we have learnt at ground level education and our grammar is impeccable.
I am north indian, and I can attest too this. Many north indians lump all south indians together. Even when I see a person who looks south indian I automatically think madrasi. Of course, I am fixing that line of thought. My mother went too a school in the south, and your grammar is impeccable. I do not agree that you have better educational facilities; all sorts of new educational facilities with different ways of thinking are popping up all over india.
Why do you learn accents so low down? Why not when sitting or standing?
I’m a Gemini, and some of the people I meet are really into horoscopes and that stuff, so they’ll ask me “Are you going to stab me behind my back” “You are just pretending to be happy, right? ” and blah blah blah. The point is, I’m not at all two sided like my horoscope says, so don’t assume someone is good/bad according to their horoscope.
Not all Canadians say “eh” after every sentance
I'm an engineer. I don't know every screw and bolt in your car. I can not fix everything you broke, although chances aren't bad I know why it broke - how you abused it. I don't analyze everything that goes wrong, disappear for a few minutes and come back with some goofy device I made up from a clothhanger and an alarm clock that will solve the problem. And I don't disregard simplicity, it's just that only simple tasks can be solved by simple means.
Everything that’s being said about white males right now
I look white but I'm Native American, several times throughout my life people have pointed out my white privilege because I drive a nice car and live in a nice house. I grew up dirt poor and wore dirty clothes to school, I worked hard for everything I have.
I am Irish so: I must like to drink , I must like potatoes, I must like the color green, and love plaid. I can’t be Irish: I don’t have red hair. (Neither of my parents did, and my brother had blonde hair and blue eyes, my grandmother did)
my great-nan was irish (i say was because she passed a decade or so ago now rest her soul) and she was so nice, not like grumpy as some irish stereotypes show them to be, she had like no green in her home, instead it was more orangey, as far as i’m aware she didn’t drink very much, if at all, actually like hardly any of my family drink a lot, and she didn’t wear plaid. she liked solid colours. she wasn’t a redhead either. my dad is a ginger, he has blue eyes so do me and my sisters, he’s either irish or scottish we don’t actually know for sure, his family tree’s s bit of a mess but we’re leaning more towards irish and he hasn’t had a drink since before my older sister was born and she’s closer to 20 now and even when he did drink it was very very rarely and very very little.
Canadians are always nice/polite False false false super duper false. I know people who make me want to rip my own hair out sometimes. Oh and I have number 2: I am a biromantic asexual, for bi people, some think today they are greedy/just want a threesome. Nope, not every bi person wants a threesome, and if they do, that’s nothin to shame them for! And for ace people, some think asexual can’t feel romantic attraction/aesthetic attraction. A lot of asexual still want romance, just without the sex part. (Like me, I feel strong aesthetic attraction and I someday want a partner, but I am completely repulsed by sex and I hate even talking about it) Thanks for coming to my ted talk
"I can't actually be Jewish or practice Judaism unless I'm circumcised." There are other ways to celebrate, recognize, and identify too.
I'm Non-Binary 1. All Non-Binary people dress and look androgynous. Non-Binary isn't an aesthetic or a fashion style, it's a gender Identity. Plus people can be more fem or masc and still use they/them. 2. (not really a stereotype but something people say a lot) "Non-Binary/Intersex people don't exist" Okay guess I'm just going to turn invisible for now see you in a couple years!
and also not all non-binary individuals use they/them pronouns. many do but don’t automatically assume we all do. i’m under the enby umbrella i use he/they but prefer he/him. i’m demiboy. when i identified as just like fully enby, i use she/they/he.
That all middle-aged women are square. If there’s going to be happier after work everyone looks at me and asks if I’m going to be offended. The reality is that in the first person who wants to go to happy hour, But since I think I’m too scared to go now I don’t want to
im part irsish and no that dont mean i have a heavy irish acent,drink a lot of whiskey and guiness,and wear green tartan kilts,and have orange hair,also not all tall people are super strong and smart,because even though im part irish and tall im a numbskull,and im not very strong and i have brown hair and bluey-grey eyes not green,and i dont binge drink whiskey and guiness,and dont wear green tartan kilts,tartan kilts more are from the sctosih side of me,even got a bit of welsh in there too
Proud Liberal Democrat from Oklahoma! I am not a “hick”, racist, homophobic redneck! I try to see good in everyone, and love them for who they are. I am an Ally and my home is a welcoming place for all. I don’t hate Republicans, and sometimes find value in conservative ideals. My beliefs are strong, but that doesn’t mean I can’t listen to, and respect yours!
Black people live in the ghetto and are on welfare. I live in a middle class neighborhood and have a regular job.
That all gay guys are feminine and flamboyant, and all lesbians are masculine and tomboyish.
I am a "boomer" and I don't think all millenials are lazy and entitled, I don't think getting a college degree is necessary for success, and I am computer and smart phone literate.
Okay, so here's my thing: I am/was really good at school, like I would get 1s(the best grade) in most of my subjects and stuff like that. So people(classmates) would assume I was a nerd. Or that I like school, study all my free time. I DO NOT! And I don't like school. I do read in my free time, but like not school books? Who does that?(I don't care if you do, it's just my reaction to it when people say that about me) Half a year ago, I skipped a year and here's the thing: I'm still good. Not that good, as I was before, but still considered good. Another problem: Everybody's talking about how COVID has affected *all* students, nobody learned a thing and we need to do school slower now. And sure, that is true, but in school, when I'm bored, I want to read a book or draw something. After I finished my work. But teachers told me both these things: (Before Covid): "No, you can't read a book, because it is distracting you from the lesson!" (After Covid/last year): "No, you can't draw right now, safe that for after the lesson!" Thanks for reading my rant about school!
I was at an all-ages music festival, looking like a typical grandfather, and I saw a girl about ten years old. She got a bad sliver in her hand, so I pulled out my carpenter's special tweezers and offered them to her. She was so suspicious that I had to point out the first aid tent, follow her over, and pass the tweezers through the guy on duty. We are now constantly under suspicion, no matter what.
Up to you to understand why they are suspicious (or not). But don't blame them for being suspicious, it can save their lives.
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Load More Replies...It's not about myself personally, but about where I was born and grew up. I've lived my entire life just west of Boston.....I can't even count how many times I've heard... 'You live in Massachusetts? You must be rich' ...I grew up extremely poor, hungry, and homeless.
Also have 2 pitbulls, and they're not vicious, man-eaters! They are super loyal, affectionate, and smart
That men assume because I'm Puerto Rican that I'm a sex kitten. Not all LatinX women are super sexual. And trying to push it by constantly saying, "muy caliente" doesn't work. I'm just a girl. Let it go. I'll sleep with you when I must, that's it.
A few things/stereotypes 1- Because I have only one parent (my mom) I am a wreck and I am not ok. I am incapable of getting good grades. It always amazes people when people find out that I get all A's, I play violin, and I'm an actor. Every expects my mom to be a wreck, unorganized and never on time. On multiple occasions people have tried to give me sympathy when I am litarally living my best life 2- I am non-binary and trans, so I hate my body and I am trapped in it. In reality I love my body even though I am sometimes dysphoric. Also people think I am like an alien 3- Because I am ace I can't fall in love. That's it! I realize I have a lot of privilege being white and middle class but these are just some stereotypes! Have a great day!
I’m latina-Canadian, my husband is Persian-Canadian. People assume my husband is old school sexist. Without a doubt he will receive compliments on how lucky he must be to have a wife that cooks delicious, traditional food. He’s a superior cook. And he does most of the cooking.
I converted to Buddhism about 11 years ago. No, i do not worship a fat asian guy. No, we don't have a personal creator god. The "fat Buddha" is a medieval Japanese monk named Hotei, and he is not the historical founder of Buddhism.
interesting question, and I have a lot of answers!! "Being pan is the same as being bi" - no it isnt, if it was there wouldnt be 2 completely separate terms (: the prefix bi means 2 in the dictionary and when it comes to sexuality it means 2 or more, the prefix pan means all or everything in the dictionary (and dont get me started on the difference between omni and pan-) "If your genderfluid then your gender changes really drastically and its always the same ones" nahhh i wish it were that easy, 99% of the time idk what gender I am and most likely they/then pronouns are the way to go, but I do use he/him and some neopronouns sometimes as well "Polyamory is just a way to get away with cheating" oml no, polyamory is when its consentual with all of the included partners and cheating is when it is nonconsentual or not known. "81 percent is way too high, theres no way that many women have been harassed or worse" I might not identify as a woman but i am afab and for 12 years I did identify as a girl, and before those 12 years were up I was a part of that number and 99% of my friends were too. if anything 81 is too low. "If you havent been with the gender, you can't know if you like it" I have eyes thank you, I can look at someone and think if I find them attractive or not. "all cancer zodiac signs are so emotional, its so annoying" here i am, a july 7th born human, whose emotions are so weak i legitimately seek therapy for lack of empathy and have a solid diamond dome around my emotions/personal feelings Sorry its so long, I could have kept going but I don't want to bore you all lol
That the Catholic Church is rich. I'm probably going to get downvoted into oblivion, but I am a Traditional Catholic (SSPX) and we are mostly funded by donations due to the fact that the Vatican seems to be against the TLM as of the writing of this. If you need this to be elaborated on please comment and I will try to get back to you. I also hate the stereotype of Sonic fans being little kids that throw fits over people who don't like Sonic. I like Sonic because it's fun and Sega actually listens to fans and makes memes official (Sanic).
the stereotypes of my country (scotland) are many. we do not all play the bagpipes. (bagpipes arent even Scottish) we dont run around in kilts we do not spend our time drinking whisky. we are not mean/tight with money- quite the opposite. we do not all have red hair. we do not all come from clans (few do) its not all lochs and mountains here. we never say "och aye the noo" "see you jimmy" or " hoots mon" deep fried mars bars are not a national delicacy. haggis is a national delicacy but is not an actual creature.
agreed im part scttotish and whiskey is definteley more of an irish thing,i can say that cuz im 73.3% irish,scottish,and welsh
member of the church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints- or as some people call us (incorrectly) 'mormons,' we aren't homophobes. (or at least we aren't encouraged to be at all) we're not weird or super serious. it's a fairly standard religious practice, actually.
That the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is a cult. I'm so tired of seeing people everywhere trying to say that we're a cult, and we're not. The LDS is just another religion. I'm not gonna try to convert you all, but I am really tired of seeing the anti-mormon comments and posts on this site. We're just trying to get by and want respect like literally everyone else.
All religions are cults. They get "upgraded" to another term, religion only when reaches X amount of followers. So calling it a cult - is reasonable, just like catholic are a cult too. End of story.
Let’s see… I’m saying this as a bisexual, xe/xir girl, which puts me in the lgbtq+ community, and Gen Z isn’t faking being gay just to be quirky. Unlike other generations before us, we have the awareness to be able to explore our identities much more freely and decide what we feel like before being shoved into the boxes of he/him boy and she/her girl who always likes the opposite gender. We’re not lgbtq+ to be “different,” we’re lgbtq+ to be ourselves.
Pices, all of the water themed things, nothing to do with the person, just water. I am a terrible swimmer and I’ve almost drowned a few times. Pices 👏 isn’t 👏just 👏water!
Also, not all pisces are calm. I hate when people come up to me and go OHMIGOSH YOU ARE SO LOUD I THOUGHT YOU WERE PISCESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
No not all are calm. Not a description ANYBODY would have given my Mom. Nothing to do with a star sign. Just grew up the only girl in a house full of boys. Yep. She could swim like a fish. Why? First of all, she could float in the water lying on her side like she was sleeping. Extremely buoyant for some reason. And very athletic. Nothing to do with Pisces.
Load More Replies...It's too bad because actually, Papyrus float and they live near water so you don't have to fear anything.
Salutations, guys, gals, and non-binary pals! I'm abrosexual. One of our stereotypes is that we cheat on our partners with someone who matches our current sexuality because our sexuality's fluid. I personally don't have much experience with dating, mostly because I'm young and I have excess attraction to fictional characters, but there's one character that I've been in love with for a while. He's male, and over the past few months I've sometimes been aroace or just not attracted to boys, but I kept loving him. It's different for different abros, but I've found that if the attraction I feel's really strong, then I keep on loving them even if they don't fit into my sexuality. At one point with my ex-gf I was straight (a moment of silence for those days when I was a girl and omni) but I kept loving her. {Zoe, you probably won't see this but hello there, and since we kind of just fell apart and didn't speak I assumed we weren't together anymore} I don't know many stereotypes and such against pomogender peeps but we exist :) And don't get me started on transmasc stereotypes. I'm cutesy and softy but not all trans dudes are, and if you get to know me you know that I'm a demon as well. ~ Noelle, he & any neopronouns
the french law encourages full scale blasphemy because the french are frustrated post-revolutionary sarcastic dudes, who love to see people suffer. We encourage by law full scale blasphemy (talking of law here), because it's like saying loud and clear religion can't be interpreted. It's like saying the state can't, and will never be ruled by a religious law (hear religious dictatorship) Actually the french use blasphemy extremelly rarely in every day life. simply because talking about religion is explosive. so we almost never speak of religion outside of home. But we pay an extreme attention that the blasphemy gets protected by law (thus sometimes used in some medias) for the reason above
im probably going to get killed for this but when i think of frances goverment i think of a dumpster fire and a bloody guiltine
AMEN to that! I HATE with passion that in my country children are indoctrinated by cathlic church in schools. Country has a contract with cathlic churche for them to be exclusive in theo lessons
Hi. Another Mormon here. Yes, we are Christians and no, we don't worship Mormon. The actual name of the church is: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Some people call us LDS. Mormon was a person in one of our religious texts. The Book of Mormon is called that because Mormon is the one who kept the history of his people safe. The Book of Mormon is not "the Mormon bible." We use the King James version of the Bible, just as many other Christians do. We don't believe in polygamy. In fact, you will be kicked out of the church if you're caught living that lifestyle. We don't hate homosexuals and they are welcome in our church. I should know, I am one. While the church does have a stance on all types of moral behaviors, everyone is welcome to worship God. Some members of the church don't practice what the preach. Don't judge, lest ye be judged. But one of the number one things taught in our church is fairly simple: Jesus said be nice. To everyone. No exceptions. Be nice.
Joseph Smith was nice to "black people." And Joseph was the first "Mormon."
Load More Replies...Here's the thing, I didn't post to get into a religious debate with anyone. There are some very common and very negative beliefs about my religion. You are welcome to believe anything you like. The bottom line is, Jesus said be nice. That is what I practice in my religion and how I choose to live my life. Doctrine and how people interpret that doctrine are different. Try reading the Book of Mormon, going to one of our services or going to reputable websites to learn about LDS people, or don't. Your choice. What ever you choose to do, choose to be nice.
Mormonism is by every accepted definition a cult. They are NOT Christians, as they do not believe that Jesus is the Messiah and therefore the sole way to salvation, which is the definition of that term.
Cult? Depends how you define it. Certainly not "by every accepted definition. Christian? Again, depends on your definitions. There are some doctines different from mainstream christianity. Some would see those as dealbreakers. Jesus is the Messiah and sole way to salvation? They absolutely believe and teach that. (Don't believe me? Visit their website.)
Load More Replies...republican: not all conservatives are racist, sexist, hateful, old white men who think all opposing parties are wrong. christian: i'm not catholic, and i do not belittle others in the name of god. christians are called to love everyone, not just people they agree with. midwestern: i don't have a midwestern accent, nor do i live on a farm. teen: i don't spend all my time sleeping or on my phone. i don't even have a phone.
that asians are the cause of covid, all of them eat bugs and dogs, they cant see properly. do i even need to explain myself on that one?
Being Canadian from birth does not mean that I love hockey nor does it mean I am a hunter!
I'm bi: This isn't a phase I have ADHD: I can sit still if I choose to. I don't "squirrel". I have anxiety: I'm not "just shy" I read fanfic: I don't even like smut, I read fluff.
This whole Panda post. https://www.boredpanda.com/mormons-polygamous-family-life/?cexp_id=41433&cexp_var=19&_f=featured
Bisexual Biromantic AtheistWoman here! 1. Periods aren't unholy, dirty, or anything. It's completely natural and non of your fricking business. 2. Bisexuals/biromantics aren't greedy, nor do they have a crush on you/ want to have sex with you. 3. Atheists don't hate religion, nor are they constantly obsessed over science and evolution 4. Women can do anything men can. And nonbinary people can do anything they can too. Identifying with whatever you identify as shouldn't make people think you are less capable.
UK jew here. I am not a doctor or a lawyer or a banker. Some of my wife’s family still think I am Israeli, I’m not.
That all straight people are homophobic. That's not my sexuality but I wanted to point it out. And while I'm on the topic, not all men are sexist, not all women are whatever the opposite of sexist is. Not all white people are racist. Not all black people are not racist. Not all Christians are homophobic. Not all Atheists are good. Not all LGBTQIA+ people are great. Not all Scorpios are evil, not all Geminis are manipulative, not all Cancers are emotional, not all Aries' are brutal. Thankfully the people on BP get that. Basically, No one is perfect.
also ,if you dont support it ,does not mean your homophobic(I'm pan btw)
I'm a 6'3, stocky metal-head with tattoos and a big-beard, I cry at adverts for animal shelters and use face cream every night, I am the soppiest, nicest guy you could meet.
This is why sweeping generalizations don’t work we like to talk people into a little pigeonholes to make it easier for us not for them. I hate sweeping generalizations and I try never to engage. Conversely I’m poor white trash and people think that because I’m poor I’m stupid.
Jew here. And not only Jew, but a Jew with a Scots da and an English mum who lives in America. I couldn't tell you how many "jokes" I've heard about Jews all being rich or having doctors and lawyers in the family. Which, considering that my da and brother are docs, is not necessarily untrue in my case, but i know plenty of Jews who do not. I know a family with three generations of farmers. No higher education at all...and we're not all wealthy. Secondly, though I do have a mild Scots accent (softened through more than 20 years in the USA), I'm neither a frequent drinker / alcoholic nor do I enjoy the horrible fake Mike Myers Scottish accent people love to do when they learn I'm actually Scots. I like being me, and I'm happy being me, but how about if you be you instead of trying and failing to be me?
I'm a middle-aged white American male. I live in the south, am a worshipping Christian, and I make a good living. People assume that I'm racist, ignorant, Republican, homophobic, have a superior attitude, and technology averse. None of those are true. If you want to be known as a person, get to know me as a person. Don't judge me because I look like a stereotype you hate.
Lemme add one. I’m from Pakistan. No, I’m not a dumb idiot who’s gonna blow you up. And I’m not a disgusting person who doesn’t clean up after herself.
appreciate this post! German bible believing evangelical Christian here, so do get some teasing pretty often from friends, that wears you down. Thanks for doing the post here! It's a relief finally to get it out there and hope it teaches us to be kinder to each other!
That me and other bi people don’t exist, we’re just gay and scared of coming out
I'm a 6'3, stocky metal-head with tattoos and a big-beard, I cry at adverts for animal shelters and use face cream every night, I am the soppiest, nicest guy you could meet.
This is why sweeping generalizations don’t work we like to talk people into a little pigeonholes to make it easier for us not for them. I hate sweeping generalizations and I try never to engage. Conversely I’m poor white trash and people think that because I’m poor I’m stupid.
Jew here. And not only Jew, but a Jew with a Scots da and an English mum who lives in America. I couldn't tell you how many "jokes" I've heard about Jews all being rich or having doctors and lawyers in the family. Which, considering that my da and brother are docs, is not necessarily untrue in my case, but i know plenty of Jews who do not. I know a family with three generations of farmers. No higher education at all...and we're not all wealthy. Secondly, though I do have a mild Scots accent (softened through more than 20 years in the USA), I'm neither a frequent drinker / alcoholic nor do I enjoy the horrible fake Mike Myers Scottish accent people love to do when they learn I'm actually Scots. I like being me, and I'm happy being me, but how about if you be you instead of trying and failing to be me?
I'm a middle-aged white American male. I live in the south, am a worshipping Christian, and I make a good living. People assume that I'm racist, ignorant, Republican, homophobic, have a superior attitude, and technology averse. None of those are true. If you want to be known as a person, get to know me as a person. Don't judge me because I look like a stereotype you hate.
Lemme add one. I’m from Pakistan. No, I’m not a dumb idiot who’s gonna blow you up. And I’m not a disgusting person who doesn’t clean up after herself.
appreciate this post! German bible believing evangelical Christian here, so do get some teasing pretty often from friends, that wears you down. Thanks for doing the post here! It's a relief finally to get it out there and hope it teaches us to be kinder to each other!
That me and other bi people don’t exist, we’re just gay and scared of coming out
