Hey Female Pandas, What’s The Rudest Thing A Man Has Done To You? (Closed)

Rape, suicide, murder, dead. If the word is blocked out did it not happen?

I didn't downvote, but it's very difficult to "like", you know what i mean? I know it's not technically a "like". I have to tell my self i'm agreeing that it's horrible before i up-vote it, ya know? Maybe somr downvote because they know rape is horrible. Honestly, i think it's worse than murder considering the mental and physical damage it does and the difficulty in being happy or safe ever again. Rapists should all be on death row in some sort of laboratory with legalized human testing/experimentation. Basically, the rapist forfeits their human rights when they take another's, and then we squeeze what little good they can do for humanity out of them till they die. I'd call that justice.

caro caro, you are literally such a good bper that i wonder sometimes if youre a bot.

For one thing, this story asks for the "rudest thing a man every did to you", and seeing "rape" here, belittles the criminal and mental impact of "rape" - it's so far beyond rudeness that it doesn't really belong here.

No criticism here, just support ♥️

Or, as in my case, your dad would assume you asked for it. Yeah, that'd be consensual relations, not rape. *sigh* ....

Some idiot troll is downvoting. Don't worry about it. It's just one idiot.

I couldn’t say. Sorry from fellow neuro diverse lady

Gave you one back.

sorry you got downvoted :( you got my upvote!

I think, technically, downvotes are supposed to be when your note does not fit the category, not when you do not like it, but I do not think most people do it that way. I think your note did not quite fit the category but I found value in it! I learned something more about someone’s life. Keep growing! You got my upvote!

Just so you know, those "friends" were not your friends at all and you're better without them. They were practically just placeholders for better ones to come! :-)

I feel you. I can’t always control my filter of words, and I have accidentally sworn at a teacher before, but the teachers know me and they know I don’t mean it.

Unfortunately, grabbing some guy's balls would just mean that you're interested. Unless you squeezed reaaaaallllly hard.

I didn't even think of it as an assault until my therapist pointed it out. There have been many occasions like this.

Don't be so sure this doesn't happen regularly too. It is becoming more common for younger women to do this to men too, except they don't ask, they just do it and smile and say "you know you love the attention"

I worked with a guy who loved to grab women wherever he felt like it. He was reported to management by several women, but nothing was ever done about it. When I started working there, I was warned about him. The first time he approached me the first words I said to him were "DON'T TOUCH ME!" And he never did. However, he was always grabbing a friend of mine and she warned him over and over that if he didn't stop, he would one day regret it. Well, that day finally came, and he grabbed her boob one last time. She grabbed him by his pride and joy and TWISTED with all her might! Pay backs are a B***H! I'm happy to say that his face went pale, and his legs didn't want to hold him up. He staggered away, gently cradling his wounded "baby" and never went near her again.

I'm 16 when this happened to me. I'm at the park, on a Navy base with 5 kids I'm babysitting. I am sitting on a bench uphill from the swings and slide so I can see all of the kids. Suddenly, a guy with a motorcycle helmet walks up to me, grabs my breasts and says, "Nice pair." I'm scared, humiliated, embarrassed, and I have to explain to the kids that he was asking me a question...

I would say do it..... but that's illegal unfortunately :(

Bullet, bomb, missile. Choose any of the above:

Shame them all, is that what we do, really? Your comment seems like condescending mansplaining to me. Give us more credit.

I'm not shaming them all. But I don't need my husband to have my back - I can pretty much handle anything I need to. I just wanted to give an example of rudeness, where I saw so many examples of something more sinister than rude. I've known a lot of men who treated me fairly, were mutually respectful, and great examples. This particular salesperson was not.

Could we collectively stop saying hubby please please please

I'm a nurse and I have many male coworkers. They still get called "that male nurse" as if there's only one. It's 2022, grow up and start paying attention! Name tags and ID badges exist! Stop calling everyone in scrubs "nurse" too while you're at it, healthcare teams have many roles. It just makes it harder on the team when we don't know who or what you're talking about because you fail to read or listen. And obviously it goes both ways, if a woman is wearing a name tag or uniform of a certain business don't stupidly ask "hehe do you work here bc it seems you have a vag¡Na teehee" .. dumbass men 😂 I'm sorry for the rant but this thread has me heated.

If the guy didn't get the message with the boss asking every step and fumbling with the parts, he wouldn't have gotten the message with the boss just telling him the truth, either. Plus taking up the guy's time must have been rewarding for the boss and mechanic. : )

You can thank porn and testosterone for that. Some guys think porn is reality. Hope you left some good scars on him. Too bad you couldn't reach a nice heavy wrench.