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Most of us say "yes" when asked if we want to hear the truth. And it seems like a good idea at first that will ultimately help us improve and become our best. But there’s something about having it shoved in our face that is so unbearably revolting, only the most courageous dare to swallow it.

Thanks to the redditor who posted the question “What is an absolute truth that no one wants to hear?” on r/AskReddit and received 11.8k comments, we now know what people hold as some of the most difficult truths. So hold on tight, ‘cause it ain’t gonna be an easy ride, and you won’t surely have a place to hide.

You have an option to either endure them and survive the post, becoming a better self, or to ignore them and move on. Whatever you choose, I feel you. No one was born ready to come to terms with things like “Just because someone is related to you doesn't mean they are a good person” and “It is possible to make no mistakes and still lose.” And I mean it.

#1

Just because someone is related to you doesn't mean they are a good person.

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nanashi
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate when they say "they can't be a bad person, they're [insert any religious person]'s child!". similar to you don't inherit Evil, you don't inherit Good either.

Mohammad Ammar
Community Member
5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Religion really doesn't have much to do with it but ok.

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lenka
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ot that you have to accept being abused and mistreated by them. You are allowed to walk away from people who are toxic.

Nomadus Aureus
Community Member
5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This! In my culture, you are expected to have complete loyalty to your parents. Here's the fact: some parents don't deserve your loyalty and leaving them to protect yourself does not make you a bad person.

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Zenozenobee
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my, I heard it sooo many times for my mother. That I should forgive her because she's my mother....(no violence involve don't worry) Like I didn't do it sooo many times for the same result. She proved me countless time that I can't trust her. I go to the family meeting even when she's there, I' m polite and do small talk, give news of the kids but that's the end of the story. She can complain all she wants, I will never let my kids on holydays or week-end at her place. I've been told that she's their grand mother... as if I wasn't their mother.

Yvonne Blau
Community Member
5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can relate so much. It's my father with me, no direct contact for the last 16 years, judgement from all the relatives who are on his side as if he never did any harm (he did!). And now he's probably going to die soon, and I don't even know what to feel...

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KLo86
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I also hate hearing that I have to love them just because they're family. Uhhh no you need to earn my love thanks.

CatWoman312
Community Member
5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because someone is related to you doesn’t mean you have to invite them over to family dinners

Luanne Graham
Community Member
5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because someone is a relative doesn't mean you have to like them either.

Indigo Summer
Community Member
5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And it's totally ok to cut someone out of your life if they are hurting you in any way. It doesn't matter if said person is related to you.

Merilyn Horton
Community Member
5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Free will means anyone can be an asshat!

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    #2

    Don't believe everything you think.

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    Amy Pattie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one should be at the top, everyone should understand this.

    Susie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know this probably isn't what they meant, but as someone with OCD and a lot of troubling intrusive thoughts, this really rings true for me.

    Astrid Nineor
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whatever it intended to refer to, to me this will always be my own thoughts: "But the tigers come at night ... With their voices soft as thunder"

    Cathy Carey
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so true. Please, don't believe every crazy thing that pops into your head!!

    Zophra
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But also... think about everything you do believe...

    Nicolas Pilot
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alas, most beliefs stem from indoctrination and propaganda - both rife in today's society

    Eric Lafleur
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be taught to Tin foil hat people.

    Maureen Matthew
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But you should still be able to think it and maybe even say it out loud - which in today's social environment is not a sure thing

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    #3

    “It is possible to make no mistakes and still lose. That is not failure that is life.” -Captain Jean Luc Picard

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    Hans
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And not accepting this is very depressing. Accepting this is very hard, though.

    John Austin
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "weakness" .. not failure. don't misquote the Captain.

    Indigo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my favorite quotes from all of Star Trek.

    Max L.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s a fictional character.

    Billy the kid
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    make no mistakes but still lose when someone is in the wrong but in denial of it

    William Clark
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have found that a lot of my childhood wisdom came from Cliff Huxtable, Benjamin Sisco, and Jean Luc Picard. :)

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    Getting people to see what’s right in front of their face is not easy. This is largely due to the fact that we, as humans, hate hearing the truth. It’s especially true when we are dealing with truths that involve something we need to improve or work on.

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    Susan said that if the truth is something we don’t agree with, it will be uncomfortable to hear it because it all has to do with our core beliefs and values, and the way we view the world. “When what we believe to be true about ourselves, situations, other people, or the world, in general, is at odds with what we observe, the result is cognitive dissonance—when our beliefs and our observations are at odds. This can cause considerable stress,” she explained.

    #4

    Life is easier for attractive people.

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    troufaki13
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As unjust as it is, it is also very true. Good looking people have to try a little less harder than the rest of us. Also, remember Jeremy Meeks? He became a model even though he served time in prison (assault and robbery I think)

    Clau Ramirez
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is exactly what this post is about. If this Jeremy wasn't atractive, he wouldn't be famous

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    Kevin Donegan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always been about 40 to 50 pounds overweight, short, and did not feel attractive which was reinforced by others. I am a 59 year old gay man. Three years ago I spent 4 months backpacking through India and dropped 50 pounds. A year later I got a "tummy tuck" to remove all the excess skin. I've been biking 25 miles a day and eating a vegetarian diet and have easily maintained my weight. As a younger person, I was an ugly duckling. I know that. Now as an active, in shape 59 year old man, my life has changed. I am routinely hit upon on dating apps by men 20 and 30 years younger than me who are buff. I had no idea what life was like when others perceived you as attractive. I love being 59, I love how I look, I love the attention, I love life. Yes, life is easier for attractive people.

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aw good for you! It definitely seems like you’re happier now.

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    Monday
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very true. But for those of us who didn't win the genetic lottery, dressing in clean clothes an paying attention to personal hygiene can go a long way too. The pretty person gets the job first, the well-kept person gets the next shot.

    Liam Walsh
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes - people can always endeavour to look their best.

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    Titas Burinskas
    BoredPanda Staff
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is easier for attractive people where attractiveness plays a factor in life. But the same can go with any merit. I.e. Life is easier for smarter people where smarts are concerned. Life is just easier when you have merits.

    nanashi
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    rather than saying that Life is Easier for attractive people, it's more like it's easy for them to make an impression and open more doors and opportunities. this also applies to rich people.

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    Stannous Flouride
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, especially for attractive women, getting others to look past their beauty and take them seriously can be very frustrating. Hedy Lamarr came up with radio frequency hoppoing that could have given American torpedoes an un-jammable radio control and which today makes data transmission and the internet possible. When she went to the Navy top brass to show them they ignored her and told her to go sell War Bonds, She said that overall her beauty closed more doors she wanted to pass through than it opened.

    Aamna Shah
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not always. I almost became a victim of child sexual abuse because of the way I looked. Yes, attractive people might get jobs easily and that's unfair. They get more options to choose their partners from but ultimately, beautiful people suffer in life as well. From the outside looking in, it might not always seem that way but suffering and struggle isn't only about the way you look.

    Stille20
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. Being attractive gives you certain advantages, but it's like being naturally smart and then actually have to work hard when you hit college.. you aren't ready for the challenge.

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also for us white people, which is probably worse.

    CatWoman312
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not necessarily I know plenty of attractive people who are flat out losers. Money always helps. Ugly people can get by as long as they’re rich. Take Jeff Bezos for example

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    #5

    Vaccines don’t cause autism. They help stop the spread of the disease. They are not a cure, the just allow you to have a lower chance to catch the virus, which helps lower the chances of the virus spreading.

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    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's quite sad that this has to be posted on social media. There are too many fools in this world and there are too many scumbags taking advantage and profiting of those fools.

    Anne Reid
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vaccines do come with risks, though. When I signed the consent form, I got a paper cut. It really hurt and every time I used hand sanitizer, it burned.

    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh Anne - I hope you are okay now! 🤣🤣🤣

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    Emilingo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    here's the thing...your immune system begins to create antibodies against harmful substances the moment a foreign chemical enters the body to protect itself. Often, with viruses, we get sick before the immune system can finish. When we recover, that means the antibody was successful. However, we can't just mimic human's antibodies for they are unique to the person. A vaccine is often a decoy virus--a chemical substance very similar to the actual virus. These are created purposely to not harm you but to allow your body to create and antibody. Some people get sick before the antibody is finished building up. However, these people recover quickly. A vaccine doesn't keep you from getting a virus; it keeps you from getting sick from the virus. It makes me sad when people believe that vaccines do more hurt than heal.

    Hannah M
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if vaccines cause autism (which they don't and it doesn't make any sense that they would but hypothetically) what's so wrong with that? Why are people so scared of their kids 'getting' autism? Obviously it has its difficulties, but autistic people's brains just function differently to most, and many autistic people are quite intellectually brilliant. I am autistic, and my psychologist told me that technically everyone is on the autism spectrum; however there is a 'normal' range, and some people are further along, well beyond the 'norm'. So this whole being terrified of your kids 'getting' autism makes absolutely no sense.

    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel you. I'm autistic too. :) We all have different challenges and advantages, everyone does. Simply a different set of pros and cons.

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    Jason Doakes
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure this should be part of this list. The Earth is not flat, the sky is not green, the list would be endless

    Dee Mcgee
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not anti-vax (and yes, ive had mine) BUT I'm also not pro-vax without question. It irritates me that this blanket term of pro-vax or anti-vax eliminates the need for critical thought. I wish we could as a people take things case by case and make a decision based on the the matter at hand. We are becoming zombies who simply rely on the rhetoric of others. We place ourselves in 'camps' and become so hostile towards alternative thought. Its damaging and not good for the evolution of mankind and society. People seem baffled when I say that I dont align myself to any particular political party , like I'm mad or simply uneducated..the truth is that life is fluid... variables are indeed variable & we need to be open to new ideas, opinions and challenges. I may detest Boris ...Trump etc. but I am willing to accept when something they do or say makes sense. I can be anti-abortion but pro-choice...similarly I can emphasise that black lives matter but also comprehend the value of all lives.

    Simon Lyngbo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The thing is, that only disease that actually causes severe disability or death, is even able to get funding for vaccines in the first place. Which in turn mens, that the sideeffects of the vaccines have to be almost at the point of ruining peoples lives, for a vast amount of vaccinated people. For the vaccine not being the lesser evil, no matter what it may or may not contain. ps. Relying on and "blindly" following an expert does not make you a zombie, it enables you to increase your chances of having a long and illness free life

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    Luthian
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you do catch the disease it usually decreases the severity as well.

    soni w
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    5 years ago

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    Vaccination means you DON'T catch the disease AT ALL. If you do then the vaccine DOESN'T WORK!!!!!

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    A Random Panda
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't go to my checkup for 3 years. Don't worry, I got my *eyes water* 4 necessary vaccines. And if some random 11 year old can get 2 vaccines on each Sid, than you can get your one.

    andate him
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not sure this qualifies as something "True, But No One Wants To Hear*

    Karen Lyon
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    andate him: Have you talked to any of the anti-vaccine crowd? This is exactly what they try to argue against this -- they rant about herd immunity, or claim that chicken pox and measles don't kill anyone.

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    #6

    There is no inherent justice in this world. Bad things will happen to good people, and good things will happen to bad people.

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    David K
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately true. Sometimes even dictators and murderers die peacefully.

    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. All those people who think there is such a thing as 'karma' are sadly deluded (I know that's also not exactly what karma is about but it's how so many people use it).

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    CatWoman312
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How a serial cheater, liar, nepotistic narcissistic man baby can end up President is the perfect example

    Scyth
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Realizing this is a part of growing up.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But good people handle the bad things easier, I think. For one thing, they have real friends.

    Nicolas Pilot
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Without the the bad, we would not recognise nor appreciate the good - bad is good, when you change your perspective

    Norah Reilly
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been told that there are neither good nor bad things, that things simply are. It's what we decide about these things/people/events that confers either "goodness" or "badness" on them.

    Liam Walsh
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rape and murder don't exactly work within that though do they? Even if there was a culture where rape and murder were accepted or even desired by the majority there are still going to be the victims who'll have a VERY different view!!

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    Chris Challis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is having a narrow view. We all have karma from the past and who knows what is deserved and warranted. Even murder... I dont personally know any dictators or murderers that have died peacefully but everyone has their day of reckoning and not always in this lifetime.. ...

    Ladislav Pollo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, and karma does not exist. Just accept it - world is not a magic place.

    Iv Vatsev
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do not agree on this one. There is justice for all, only it is done by invisible forces. Everything happens for a reason and our perspective is not the best

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    However, one has to be aware that perception can be an issue here too. “So, what I have experienced as 'truth' may not be what you have experienced as 'truth.' For example, one could say that the truth is that water boils at 212 degrees. Or does it? If you use the metric system, water boils at 100 degrees.”

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    Susan said that even though these two are the same, the perception, the semantics come across differently, and “what one individual might experience as truth wouldn't be truth to someone else.”

    Susan warns that when you’re telling people something they don’t want to hear, it’s going to sound like a criticism. She suggests keeping that in mind and not being surprised if you get perceived as the one launching an attack.“

    #7

    If you didn't vote but could have done so, you have no right to complain about our elected officials.

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    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. Tired of hearing "My vote doesn't matter." Every vote matters because it contributes to the grand number that influences the elections. If 90% of the people refuse to vote, they are leaving the remaining 10% the powers to decide over their lives. That's how polls work. They just ask a small number of people "representing the people" and present the result as the peoples opinion. Remember how that blew up in so many faces in 2016? "Yeah, we're going to win so I don't have to vote..."

    Baali Venomax
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i dont believe my vote matters anymore, im jaded but I still do it, so I can bitch about it when s**t happens. If you vote, you can bitch, if you didn't, you can't. Simple as that.

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    Barry Parker
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wholly disagree with this notion. The US voting system being a prime reason why this isn't really true. Voting in a rigged system, voting in a system where the people running don't represent you, or voting in a system where you can't actually have a voice does not remove the right and need for people to complain. Abstaining from voting when there is no one that reflects your views in the system is a legit statement and right of a person. Why should someone be forced to vote and support individuals they do not align with?

    sabocat
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you Barry Parker! Totally agree.

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    Chelsea Winters
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm tired of people saying I can't complain if I don't vote. I can complain that there is no candidate worth voting for. This is the whole problem.

    Łukasz Wydra
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually go and give an empty vote. I don't think any of those assholes deserves to win and I'm gonna show it.

    F. H.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, this is the kind of bull that makes me really angry! This statement is only true if you wanted to vote for a certain party or candidate but still didn't. Not voting can be a statement too, especially in countries where elections are manipulated. You can also find yourself in a situation where you can't see yourself represented by any of the candidates and will be unhappy with the outcome anyway. There are also situations where voting for the party you want will actually help the other side gain more votes due to complicated election systems (has been like that in Germany for some time). If you can't decide who to vote at all, not voting might also be a good idea, since what good is a vote randomly placed? So stop telling people that they have to vote! Vote if you are happy or unhappy with the current leaders and want to keep or change them.

    Viktor Csabianszki
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    False. It is quite possible that there were no acceptable options to vote for.

    Raphael Biock
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally disagree. Especially now you see that people have to decide between two douchebags. Not to vote can be a statement as well. Especially if the system of politics supports corrupt and dishonest people. Of course you can complain about this, without supporting anyone with your vote who is part of this system.

    sabocat
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THANK YOU!! I for one am sick and tired of this. If you strongly disagree with your country's system, representative democracy, or the electoral college, or you dislike any of the candidates, then HOW do you let your voice be heard?

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    tangy chip
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you say, "one vote missing doesn't matter," then you are wrong, because 10 million other people said the same thing.

    80 Van
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t agree. In fact, even if you voted for someone and they were elected, you can still complain about them, especially if things didn’t turn it the way you were expecting. Shutting up everyone who didn’t vote or who voted for a particular candidate who are now trying to advocate for change will make it all the more likely that people in their spheres won’t vote.

    Monday
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't matter who you voted for. If you voted you secure yourself the right to complain about it since you were involved. You made an effort to choose what you believed was the best option at the time. If you didn't vote (and were able to), you shouldn't be allowed to moan about it since you made no effort on your part to do anything about the situation.

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    Monday
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. If you voted then by all means, complain all you want because at least you tried to change things.

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    #8

    No-one wants to hear your [crappy] music in public, especially in class.

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    troufaki13
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or in public transportation

    FloC
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I upvote your comment a milion times.

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    KLo86
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And when someone drives by with their music blasting and bass shaking the whole neighborhood I've never thought "wow that person is so cool".

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when you're trying to get to sleep at 1 in the morning.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate that boom boom boom coming from cars. It's turned up to full volume. Why are their windows always down?

    CatWoman312
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or hearing you blast it out of your sh!tty car. No you don’t look cool

    Gin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My music isn't crappy to me either, but it might seem crappy to someone with different taste in music.

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    Kenny Kulbiski
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or from your car which has all the windows down so that I won't miss a single incomprehensible word. I wish my truck had its own missile system sometimes.

    serge
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and no-one wants to hear your phone conversations on public transport either....keep it down...

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many times I find that a simple & polite "would you mind turning that down a touch?" works well for most people. I was on the trolley and this young man was playing his music WAY too loud, but nobody approached him because he was black and a little scary looking. I figured the worst that could happen would be he refused, so I asked politely. His response was an equally polite "Oh, sure Ma'am". Don't make assumptions based on appearance.

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    #9

    Having an opinion doesn't make you right.

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    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, the bubonic plague never went away, we just have treatment for it now.

    andate him
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is true, but I fail to see how it's related

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    Terd Fergison
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and they all stink. You can have your own opinions, but you can't have your own facts. Facts are determined by evidence and usually determined by scientific evidence.

    Yvonne Blau
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or stating that opinion very loudly and aggressively.

    Aragorn II Elessar
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone is entitled to have the wrong opinion

    Marek Yanchurak
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, to put it another way, you're entitled to your opinion, you're not entitled to it being right.

    Nicole Tomme
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you have the right to be wrong.

    Leodavinci
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't make you wrong, either.

    Wouldn't You Like to Know
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because someone hurt your feelings doesn't make you right either.

    tuzdayschild
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From the rafters thou shouldest shout this.

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    That being said, the first step is to remember kindness and the Golden Rule. How would you want to be told that something you believe isn't true?” Susan suggests thinking about your tone in communication, which should be kind, respectful, and encouraging.

    Moreover, you may use reflective listening. “For example, you could say, 'It sounds like you see grass as pink,' or 'I'm hearing that you think crocodiles make great pets.' You can also add, 'Tell me how you came to that conclusion,' or 'I'm curious as to how you formed that opinion.'"

    Susan encourages using expressions like "It sounds like..." "I'm hearing that..." "You seem to feel..." "I'm noticing that..."It’s also important to phrase the truth in a way that doesn’t undermine others.

    And also, it's important to agree to disagree, since “even after you have (calmly!) stated the truth, someone else still might not accept it,” she concluded.

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    #10

    2021 will not magically be better than 2020.

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    Anxious Pansexual Nightmare
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is honestly all I’m hanging on to. It’s ok to want to pretend

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seeing the ways things are going I guess that people will think 2020 was much better than 2021.

    Torchicachu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    tbh im expecting it to be even worse which is awful to think about

    Lucy Duquette
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what if 2020 was just a preview for 2021....

    Mark Serbian
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's right. But 2021 is MUCH more likely to not suck as bad as 2020.

    David K
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That´s because nature doesn´t care about dates :-)

    William Clark
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    2021 will most assuredly be worst than 2020.

    Zophra
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    maybe... there's our US election...

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    #11

    Just because you’ve done something wrong in the past, doesn’t mean you can’t advocate against it.

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    Niko Alarcon
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what some people need to hear. I 100% agree with this statement, some of us dont know the harm we've done until later, but it doesnt mean its too late to prevent others from making the same mistake.

    Farzana Essop
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In fact you would be the best person to do it as you have real life experience

    Mark Howell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree.Some years ago at work a young man came to the fatory personally and handed in his CV. It stated all his educational achievements and that he had just done 3 year at her majesties pleasure in Manchester prison, for assault. Myself and the only other manager in the building at the time, contacted him to ask him for an interview. He came and worked for us for 4 years, during which time he put him self through night school and found a stable relationship. When he left we all wished him well and now he is a senior manager. We must all learn through our mistakes, no matter how big or small.

    Jewels Vern
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother is against EVERYTHING he did as a teenager! Like just because he got drunk and bashed his head he thinks booze should be totally outlawed for everybody.

    Norah Reilly
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, true, true. There's always a chance to grow spiritually, mentally, politically, whatever.

    Connie Muse
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you might be particularly well suited to advocate against it.

    Josurf
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...unless you keep on doing the same thing yourself... then that is called hypocrisy

    DarkLumiya
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in my opinion, it makes you an even greater advocate cos you have done it and KNOW the consequences first hand

    Billy the kid
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How many bullies in school grow up with regrets?

    Adrienne Early
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think most of them grow up oblivious to the lingering pain they caused.

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    #12

    As long as we fail to protect and provide for all children in our society, we will continue to suffer the crimes of the damaged adults we produce. We have no right to expect any different, and we deserve everything that we get.

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    RaroaRaroa
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who complains about people receiving benefits from the government needs to consider this. If we don't help them, their children have NO chance of doing better. We'd end up with people living in gated communities, hiding from the other part of society, afraid to go out. Parts of the world all ready live like that. I hope we never do.

    Niffler_13
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know plenty of people who live off the system and their children still suffer.

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    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do we provide for "all children" exactly? I'm sick of people thinking we can actually eliminate issues. We will never. Ever. There will always be some twisted people.

    Anxious Pansexual Nightmare
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but many “twisted people” are that way because of horrible environments that they ended up growing up in. If we can make even one kid’s life better, we can stop them from being a bad adult. No one’s saying we will ever fix the problem, but we can improve it

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    Octavia Hansen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When birth control free and easy there won't be throw-away children.

    Barry Parker
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. The US in particular does not protect children from abuse. Spanking is still legal, punishments for worse abuses are mild, and support for the abused is virtually non existent yet the world wonders why the US is so messed up and violent.

    Wouldn't You Like to Know
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as we insist on allowing women to murder their unborn children, we will continue to devalue human life.

    Billy the kid
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once see a young man being questioned on the tv Why do you abuse children? his reply " i was abused as a child and it seems natural to me" It is monsters that make monsters!

    Sarah Nunns
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Criminality does not always spring from a poor and damaged upbringing, I know a man who had an enormously abusive and dysfunctional family life - if that's what you could call it - and he is one of the most honest people I know.

    andate him
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. Humans have free will, and while an upbringing may have an impact on life actions, it does not dictate them.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For one thing, children need to be taught to respect other people's rights.

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    Mark Murphy, the author of "Truth At Work: The Science Of Delivering Tough Messages," suggests that cognitive dissonance is to blame. It occurs when someone holds two psychologically inconsistent beliefs (or attitudes or opinions) that create unpleasant mental tension.

    Murphy explains: “If you've ever been in a conversation with someone who just couldn't, or wouldn't, hear the truth, no matter how many ways you tried to explain it, or who reacted so badly to the truth that you regretted saying anything at all, you've likely witnessed someone who was experiencing cognitive dissonance.”

    This is because such a reaction is a way of lessening psychological tension and reducing anxiety when people face something that contradicts their existing beliefs, attitudes, and opinions.

    In reality, no human brain would ever enjoy receiving information that doesn’t help ourselves in the sense that it makes our lives more difficult or threatens our self-esteem, status, and public image. And it seems that the saying “truth hurts” wasn’t born out of nowhere.

    #13

    People don't think about you anywhere near as much as you think they do.

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    RaroaRaroa
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahh, but to the socially anxious, we still cringe over something dumb we said to someone 20 years ago. Something they no doubt forgot within a week.

    Morgan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the same lines I love the quote "you will worry less about what other people think about you when you realise how little they do"

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never thought about people thinking about me! That's pretty cool to know I'm not full of myself. :)

    PanCott
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, you don't need half the money and 80% of the things you so obssessively chase.

    Baali Venomax
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I know that one. I've known that one for decades.

    Zophra
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a relief in that actually.

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they are all too busy worrying about what you think of them

    Daria Z
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the opposite for me. I panic a little when I hear someone has been thinking of me. Makes me think they were recalling my fails... :0

    Billy the kid
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to keep myself to myself. People that gossip to you will gossip about you!

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    #14

    You're supposed to care deeply about the things in your own life, and other people not caring about them doesn't make them less important. This is one of the things Instagram culture has taken away from us -- the idea that you're doing great even if nobody likes the photos of the breakfast you made or knows who you are. For most of human history, most of our emphasis and energy was spent on our families and immediate communities. Now we're all flailing to "matter" to a bunch of strangers we probably wouldn't like in person and it's wrecking our brains.

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except for the few that have discovered that life without Fakebook, Instagram and Twitter is much more enjoyable.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate to hear about the influencers who commit suicide. They can come to base their self esteem on their online popularity. They might honestly fail to realise that it's not real.

    Karin Jansen
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So just don't use social media? Problem solved! :)

    Sue Grigg
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I so feel this one. The hyper vanity that the internet has produced is not good for any society, ever.

    Baali Venomax
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I keep twitter to track how long it takes me to do things. Failbook I'm okay with now, I wasn't in the beginning but now it helps me with parts of my disorder that think people are dead or don't exist if I don't hear from them for weeks on end. Also there's cat vids and pics :D Never have or will use Instagram. Honestly don't see the point. You don't need to be on EVERY single social media platform.

    Amy Burke
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I miss 'community'. I miss small festivals and parades. I even miss church gatherings even though I no longer engage in religion. I miss knowing the people around you and simply offering help when you know someone is in need. Visiting the elderly people on your street or in your building just because it's the good thing to do, the kind thing to do. Mowing a lawn or shoveling snow without expecting or even taking a dime when offered. Our focus has shifted from 'community' to 'self' and it has not served our country well the last couple decades.

    Lucy Duquette
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    screw social media, it may be fun, but it really does ruin everything

    brandon sat
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Instgram and all social media platforms are toxic, if you just stay away form them then you are still the best person there is and no one can tell you different.

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    #15

    No matter how nice you are, people will still just be a**holes to you just cuz.

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    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people will. It's not that all the people are a**holes all the time but you do get to meet the inevitable jerk or bitch, no matter how nice you are. It's up to you to decide if they are going to dictate how you interact with people. It still does take more muscles to frown than to smile.

    Monday
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and the wrinkles we get from smiling are much nicer than the wrinkles we get from frowning.

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    Zophra
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that shouldn't influence you - you're nice because that's who you are - not because others are a-holes.

    Wouldn't You Like to Know
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What people say and do says more about them than it does about you.

    Nicolas Pilot
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes, but reciprocating in kind only exacerbates the situation, so be nice anyway. Otherwise, you're an asshole too!

    D. Pitbull
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. Wow... this is ... kinda my life. In fact... part of me wonders if being polite... courteous... considerate... nice... is actually encouraging people to be a**holes. I mean, they know they're not going to 'suffer'.

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true. If you are to someone, they will find it very hard to be an asshole to you.

    Torchicachu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i know a couple of people like this...

    Billy the kid
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You shake my hand i will shake yours. If not, jog on

    Sarah Nunns
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some people that just seem to thrive on being as nasty as they can. We have a woman like that round our way, I don't think there are many who have escaped being the brunt of her particular brand of 'amusement '.

    Charles O
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some people, being an a**hole is a way of life, a sort of social nourishment feeding on the people they can have access to, a way of covering up and justifying their own pathetic, often miserable life. Often it's the "I'm miserable, so everyone else has to be even more miserable than I am to feel better about myself" syndrome. Forget trying to be nice to them . . . it's a wasted effort, they'll just take advantage.

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    #16

    Just because someone is related to you, doesn't mean you have to like or tolerate them. Sometimes for people, friends are your true family because they accept you for who you are. They choose to stick around with you. Not because they have to. I don't speak to my abusive father and never will again, nor his side of the family. I'm estranged from one of my sisters already and I don't like most of my extended family. I do not appreciate their morals. You won't lose much at all by cutting some family ties (circumstances depend though, ofc). You'll be much happier in the long run once you establish your life, who you are and what you need/want for your future.

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    postboredom
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, this. It is YOUR life, you can choose to cut the bad people, no matter who they are and how you know them

    TwJh
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree I haven't talked to 2 of my sisters in over 10 yrs. I wouldnt piss on them if they were on fire.

    Billy the kid
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This must be a serious dispute! I have heard of this happening in family feuds. Mine in particular.

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    Miguel Denyer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a species of mouse that breeds when food is scarce, just so that they can use their offspring as a source of food... so with that in mind, who says you have to like, or be nice to your family members?

    Hotrobot
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! If I try to talk to people about the fact that I have cut ties with all of my family, they act like a) I need pity b) like I'll just get over it or c) like there is something wrong with me wanting to be happy and emotionally abused. I am just so thankful to know there is a least one other person who has had to make this same choice.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm fortunate, I guess. My Mom and sisters are always good to me. Now, my dad was a monster. He's been dead for 10 years, rotting in hell. I've never had any love for him.

    Lucy Duquette
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got lucky with my wonderful family, but I totally respects this post and it is so true

    Freya the Wanderer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Blood is thicker than water" has been mistranslated to mean that family comes first. The full phrase: "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb."

    yosemity sam
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That'll be my life in a couple of years and it's the only thing keeping me going.

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    #17

    Life isn’t fair and you aren’t owed a damn thing.

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    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well everyone deserve a chance.

    rabbitsrabbit
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The point of this hard truth is that there isn't some universal law that guarantees everyone will get that 1 chance. Life just isn't fair sometimes.

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disagree. It's one of those motto's that people that are born with a golden spoon in their mouth use to justify the fact that the money they spent on their 15th car could have easily saved the lives of 100 people. Every human being has the right to a humane life, that's what society owes to every member.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had some bad experiences that were certainly not fair. It just makes me appreciate the good things.

    Charles O
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perfection lives only in dreams. Some are hopelessly immersed in the in the perpetual "the world owes me for [fill in the blank] reasons" syndrome . . . Meanwhile, others adapt as best they can and proceed through life.

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    Perpetual Peripheral Persons
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The universal declaration of human rights would like to disagree

    Becky Samuel
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The declaration of human rights is a societal invention and means nothing in the real world. If we really believed in human rights then we would be screaming from the rooftops about the children dying in the Yemen, about the millions living in refugee camps, about the approximately 1 billion people living in slums and favelas. We wouldn't be happily sitting surrounded by items made by people living and working in horrific conditions for tiny wages. Do you think the miners who extract the rare metals for our electronics have their human rights respected? No. They die young from accidents and systemic poisoning. I could give so many examples of human exploitation just from the items within arms reach. If we truky believed in human rights then none of this would be possible, but we are so easily swayed by personal convenience.

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    Martha Meyer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, be glad for your blessing. Even if it's “only“ that you live in a first world country and are not wondering where your next meal might come from.

    Norah Reilly
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Owed, no. Deserving of opportunities and goodness, yes.

    Katherine Boag
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People use this as an excuse not to work towards making the world fairer.

    William Clark
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one lesson that Millenials and Baby Boomers never learned. Gen X... well we had John Hughes to teach us that lesson.

    I Liquored On
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The universe doesn't care if you are having a good time. One of my favorites.

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    #18

    Civil debate is a must. You gotta stay respectful, open-minded, and civil, even if you loathe the views of the other side with a passion.

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Repeat that slowly with the election debate in mind.

    IwiLLsTeaLyOuRsoUl
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha! I watched the whole thing for extra credit. I'm a student. That's literally the only thing that gave me the desire to watch it. Was like watching a duck and a goose quacking at each other.

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    Lynda Gutierrez
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have to stay respectful, open-minded and civil if the other person is claiming abhorrent or insane things -- like white supremacy is good or women are inherently inferior or Jews should all be killed. No, I certainly don't. Civil discourse depends on the participants holding at least minimally decent viewpoints.

    Danieletc
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fully disagree. Tolerance of intolerance (like racism) is stupid, and provides the intolerant with the advantage of you tolerating their vile behavior. They sideline you, because your are respectful and civil. That way, they can, have, and will get away with repression and murder.

    A Dumbo Octopus
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I agree with you, my friend. f**k intolerance.

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    Aragorn II Elessar
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So let’s have a kindergarten teacher proctor the debates, please.

    Carrot dude
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely not the presidential debate lol

    Martha Meyer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of people on the internet who stoop down to name calling over the littlest things need to be told that.

    Stannous Flouride
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Must have missed the s**t-show the other night.

    ⚞ Katniss Everdeen ⚟
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. I never name-call in discourse, but the names I've been called... ugh.

    serge
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Say that again...I missed that on a certain debate...but is it a debate when only one is debating and the other interrupting?

    M Kate McCulloch
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Listen, then think about what you heard. Not attempting to do this without preconceived ideas you didn't even create but were given to you before you had the ability to think is both lazy and weak minded. Open your mind...

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    #19

    Even though you think your kids are special, they are most likely just average.

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    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But everyone’s kids are special to them, and that is why love is so important.

    rabbitsrabbit
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, hence why its important to remember its 'to them'. The hard truth here is to not expect others to view your kids as special just because you do.

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    Ksenia M
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, most of us are average, that's what average means)

    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. A minority of all children are truly special, unique and talented, but most are just average. Nothing wrong with that though.

    Victoria
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A newborn giraffe calf can walk within 30 minutes of being born.... No one cares about your crotch goblins finger painting smear, Carole

    Victoria
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/2018/09/giraffe-baby-film-standing-birth-news/

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    Blarrg
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your (and my) children are undoubtedly average in most ways, and they are all special in their own ways. Every one of them.

    Anxious Pansexual Nightmare
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a "special kid" please, do not raise your kids like that. it made life so much harder for me.

    Alex Mont
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This phrase is below average

    Stannous Flouride
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No matter how nice yours are, all German kids are Kinder. And no matte how tough you think they are, remember most French kids eat Pain for breakfast.

    abby smink
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And no one outside of your immediate family gives a crap.

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    #20

    You can’t make everyone happy.

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    troufaki13
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First person we should make happy is ourselves.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true! You can spend your life trying to make others happy, but neglect your own self.

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    Anxious Pansexual Nightmare
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My rule is you are NOT responsible for anyone’s happiness

    Madzdad the bard
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't make anyone happy, only yourself, that is the only person you truly can control.

    Emilingo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this makes me so sad because it's true. no matter how hard I try....

    Ladislav Pollo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you shouldn't want to make everyone happy.

    serge
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Start with oneself and the rest will fall into place

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    #21

    After a generation or two after your death, no one alive will have any memories of you. Your life, everything you did, and all of your struggles and achievements will all be forgotten. You’ll just be another one of the billions of forgotten souls whose names, faces, and life stories have all been lost to time.

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    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find this fact really comforting

    Rainbow Panda
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course, there are exceptions. 😉

    Terd Fergison
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If humanity destroys itself, there won't be any exceptions.

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    brian kelly
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some say you die twice, once in physical death and the second time when your name isn’t spoken anymore

    F.S
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For billions of people i am non-existent right now. Not much will change.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that's why humans want to be famous. Think of all the historical people, performers, writers, etc. who live on in their work.

    Caroline Driver
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This drives the whole 'wannabe' culture, even down to people becoming 'influencers'. Be famous or you're nobody and a loser. Yeah, famous people are still known of, but they are not remembered as such, nobody is still alive who remembers Shakespeare, no matter how many of his plays they've performed or seen.

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    Vorknkx
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are many good and meaningful ways to leave your mark in this world, and "live on" beyond your death.

    JJM
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well that's depressing...although true. You still have live in the present.

    Cheryl Fontaine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Likely to happen a lot sooner than two generations.... and it doesn't matter.

    SAF saf
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is very true, I've always believed this. How many people can name their great grandpa/grandma?

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    #22

    You need to have your views challenged. Being around and positively engaging with people who disagree with you is one of the healthiest intellectual practices we can do.

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We've come to a point that "positively engaging with people who disagree with you" has become impossible. Everything has become an "Either you're with me or you're against me"- issue. You can't criticize politicians or you're a leftist fool or a rightwing idiot. And the same goes for feminism, sexism, racism etc. etc. So we all persist in our views making any dialogue impossible.

    Baali Venomax
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Talk? No one talks anymore. Its all txt, txt, emoij, txt, hashtag, memes and gifs to communicate ideas with.

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    Scyth
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately the mainstream media is heavily against this idea.

    D. Pitbull
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... and this is where many seem to get it only half-right... ie: they like to challenge. They like to point out 'wrong' things. They like to enthusiastically tell you how much they dislike the thing that you like - and they feel super smart doing this... then they stop. There's no more discussion or 'engagement'... just a continuous stream of 'this is wrong, and that is wrong, and I don't like this, and I don't like that.'

    Computernaut
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true. People use social media to surround themselves with an affirming echo-chamber and and then think everyone else is stupid.

    pusheen buttercup
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People need to learn it's ok to disagree and respectfully do so. :) We've become so anti-conflict, we forget conflict is healthy if practiced civilly. Disagreement is so foreign to us that we see it as some kind of monster. We don't need to believe exactly the same way to tolerate one another. We can be adults and get along. I believe in us! And you're all welcome to respectfully disagree.

    Max L.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A good meme quotes "If you are the smartest person in a room, you’re in the wrong room"

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    most of my closest friends are the ones I debate with the most often, although, I am wrong a lot.

    Max L.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, you're wrong thinking you're wrong a lot, so, this time you're right.

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    Ruth Beaty
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you need to keep from throwing a hissy fit if your view is wrong. This is called civil discourse and we should all be engaging in it instead of what is going on now. You can change, and so can others.

    fuggnuggins
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the most ironic thing I may have seen appear on Bored Pansy: a site on which users actively attempt to censor other users who say unpopular things.

    Yvonne Blau
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I must say, this is getting harder for me, the older I get. And I don't like this about myself.

    fuggnuggins
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A result of myelination. It's what makes us get better at things with age. It's also what is deteriorating in situations like Parkinson's, etc.

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    #23

    You can't control what happens to you, only how you react to it.

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    brandon sat
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    partial disagree here, i would say that you cant control EVERYTHING that happens to you

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How often do you hear about criminals who had a bad childhood? You don't have to harm others because you were harmed. You have to accept that the bad things happened, and move on. Be the best person that you can be.

    Max L.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can control what you make to let it happen.

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. If you put a potato and an egg in boiling water (same circumstances) one becomes soft and the other becomes hard.

    Katherine Boag
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Potatoes and eggs don't choose to react that way, and they are both desirable outcomes...

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    Raya Zotare
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don’t control it either.

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    5 years ago

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    Leodavinci
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the opposite of the notion that we are 100% responsible for what happens to us. Both viewpoints are wrong. We can control to some extent, some of the things that happen to us.

    abby smink
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is all about choices, and how you deal with the hand you were dealt. I HATE it when people try to blame literally everyone and everything else but themselves.

    Lomion
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except the fact that what happens to you is frequently consequences of your own decisions.

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    #24

    Just because you helped someone doesn't mean they are going to help you. People are ungrateful more often than not.

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    Pawlise Glemtepassord
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hard truth. My BF is a volunteer firefighter, and do people ever thank him for getting up at random times in the night and sprinting to station just to break open that door for the medics or pump out floodwater or hauling some dumbass out of a smoked-up apartment? Usually, no. Sometimes the people he just rescued even choose to be mean. He gets pretty broken up about it sometimes, I make sure to thank him but it would be a whole different thing if the actual people in question would just say thanks sometimes. If a fire station ever helped you out, it's not too late to send a letter and simply say thank you. A lot of them are volunteers in many countries.

    Emilingo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    tell him a random girl on the internet thinks he's a hero, wants to be brave and selfless like him! I think he's amazing. A volunteer firefighter is even better. not getting paid, just serving others and saving lives just because! he's amazing! you're so lucky.

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    Guido Pisano
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Expect nothing you will never be disappointed. If you help someone do just because he/she need and not because you want something back.

    lenka
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, this is true. But did you help them because you expected something in return, or did you help them simply because they were in need? I get that it still hurts, but refer to truth above - you can't control what other people do. Only your response.

    fuggnuggins
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An insight I gained watching an Aspy channel, which seems quite obvious now - the idea that you train people how to treat you, and specifically if you are always there to help someone then they learn that you are there to help them, and may never learn to help you. So, if you are doing things for others and turning around to find that you are alone when you need them, maybe this is something for you to consider.

    Cheryl Fontaine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolute truth.... if you don't expect anything from them you'll be much happier.

    Zophra
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again , it would be nice and thoughtful if people appreciated, but you help because you can and want to.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend like that. No longer a friend.

    D. Pitbull
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. It's the general culture of self-entitlement. "Of course you'll do this nice thing for me... I'm so worth it! Why should I thank you for it?".

    Lsai Aeon
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes people don't need help. I'm a wheelchair user, I am capable. But when people jump in to "help" when I didn't ask for help, it makes me feel useless. Let me do me and if I ask for help, then help. Or ASK me or other wheelchair users if they need help, if they say no, respect that.

    Sori
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe not ungrateful, more short memories... Its not that they don't thank you for what you did, rather they move on too fast to see the gravity of what was given to them.

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    #25

    You cannot go through life without experiencing some type of pain/discomfort. Physical and emotional. It is necessary for growth.

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    Yvonne Blau
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't happen because it's necessary for growth. It just happens.

    Martha Meyer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It might not be the reason it happens, but it does give you growth.

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    Isabella
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bullshit. Pain is not necessaryfor growth.

    Baali Venomax
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But too much can stunt your growth as easily as a plant will not grow right if its deprived of enough sunlight or water.

    Katie Lutesinger
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very true. A therapist once wisely told me I was "trying to avoid pain" to the point that it was doing me harm. Not confronting things I needed to confront, not thinking about things I needed to think about, not taking risks I should be taking. If you go through life never taking any risks you might avoid some pain, but you'll also spend it living in fear, and that's no life for anyone, is it?

    Leodavinci
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree totally with the first two parts of this. Third part is generic (what kind of "growth"?) and not a given.

    Max L.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There can’t be success where there’s no failure.

    Sander
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, who thinks you can? I think everybody has had some form of pain in their life, no matter how old you are. But, there is a difference between pain and suffering. Pain is something that can be inflicted upon you, suffering is a choice. You shouldn't ignore pain, but you shouldn't let it take a hold of you either.

    Tee Witt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but it would be nice if pleasant, healthy things happened just once or twice

    Jamie S. Martindale
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Life is pain, highness ... anyone who says otherwise is selling something." --Wesley

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    #26

    Things are going to keep getting worse on our planet and we are in for some serious human tragedy.

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    Hans
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not universally true. In fact, many things are improving, at least when looked in decaded. Scientific progress. The fight of hunger (despite negative effects through corona). Medicine. People believing it ought to be worse anyway are a major contributor to it becoming worth, because, why should they care if they are doomed anyway?

    Monday
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking at the big picture, we are doomed anyway. Eventually the planet is going to die, people are going to die out, but we can influence how fast that happens.

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    Iapetos
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tragedy in general. Wouldn't be a problem if we all were 1. Vegan and minimalist 2. following Celibacy or 3. dead. I prefer number 1, but also in modern Western society, life is difficult without producing huge piles of garbage and having a giant carbon footprint :(

    Henry Cheves
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alright, I agree, but the Homo Sapiens Sapiens(yes, that's supposed to be there twice, it is our sub species) are actually omnivores naturally, so vegan is hard for us to do.

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    Lauren Caswell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like agent Smith says in the matrix, humans are a virus, spreading and multiplying and leaving damage behind. If we continue being a parasite to earth rather than a symbiote it's not gna end well for humans :(

    Saico Hipe
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humans are not a virus. Capitalism and colonialism are the disease at work here. Lots of indigenous folks managed to live in stewardship of the earth and not drive the human race into ruin with unchecked greed. Blame the 1% ruling class which controls the vast majority of material wealth on earth and creates the vast majority of pollution, carbon emission, hunger, lack of access to health care, lack of housing, war, and general suffering. Never ever buy into the ruling class's narrative that it is the fault of the 99%.

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    bill marsano
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This means that progress should have stopped somewhere along the way. Care to pick a year? Go ahead--but ask yourself how you'd like the medical and dental care of that year, the civil liberties of that year, the employment prospects of that year. Then you'd have some perspective.

    Martha Meyer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is definitely not true. Humanity has continually improved over time. It's just hard to see because we keep taking a step back for every two forward and the timeframes are too long for a single human to see the big picture easily within his/her lifetime.

    fuggnuggins
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's quite likely that humanity will fail at some point. Before that, humanity may come close to the brink. Many times. It seems likely to me that it has happened in the past. I think Olaf Stapledon was the author of a novel called First and Last Men that considers this topic. It's a good book, if maybe a bit drawn-out towards the end. Also, considering that we are a branch on the same tree as other primates, and even of other hominids that are now extinct and in which humans may have had some role, it's not hard to imagine what the future might bring. Especially now that we are on the verge of creating a new species of human - the trans-human. You think that disparity is bad today? Imagine what it will be like for humans who have to live under actual living, perhaps even immortal, gods and demigods, which is what AI, prosthetics, longevity science, perhaps also Quantum Computing (even Intellectual Property playing a role, isolating most from major advantages), will usher in shortly.

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    Octavia Hansen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nature is not kind. Civilizations have a point of blooming, then wilting. Mankind is notorious for hind-sight.

    Ivan Martin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As numbers keep rising things will get worse

    Stannous Flouride
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A mutated virus is just one of the many tragedies we face.

    Nicolas Pilot
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for the prophetic insight. Regardless, please give my best regards to your illuminati friends :p

    Norah Reilly
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some tragedy maybe, and, I believe that every moment of every day we all have a choice about how we feel, what we think, and most importantly, what we do about it.

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    #27

    We don't know everything and probably never will.

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    David K
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is not a hard to swallow fact (referring the title of this article). Don´t think that anyone aspires to know everything anyways :-)

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know one thing, that I know nothing. Socrates.

    Mosheh Wolf
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a scientist, this is one of the things that make me happy. Imagine being a scientist who live in a world in which everything in known.

    Zophra
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    probably? who thinks they even have that possibility?

    Octavia Hansen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know what you need to know . . . most knowledge concerns something very far away (time and distance) that aren't necessary, just interesting. So you don't know things on a molecular level or universal size, but you get through every day . . .

    Iapetos
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are, in fact, dumb as bread. Our collectivity and ability to learn from one another has led to us being on top of the food chain (though hopefully a very short one with no animals in it).

    Tiny Dynamine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually really like this thought. I find it much more exciting that there are many things we don't know or understand. It makes life an adventure.

    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There will always be more mystery, and that’s the way I like it

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    #28

    So many of these are negative... So how about the truth that one of the best ways to be happy in life is by helping other people. People don't want to do it, because helping other people feels like you're losing out, but it's true.

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    RaroaRaroa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does it feel like you're losing out? It always gives me a happy feeling.

    Lousha
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't have a tangible, readily obvious and immediate benefit to you personally. It costs you in money, time and/or effort, and you don't get "anything" in return in the sense that you don't get a medal, goods or services etc. If you never do it and just look at it from the outside it can feel like you're doing something for nothing. In some cases it can seem even worse than that, like trying to help an addict, you probably will get ingratitude, abuse and offences "in return". But then again that is just until you try it and figure out that you are getting something in return.

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    Emily
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truth! Becoming a nurse was the greatest decision I ever made. Although I don't feel like I'm losing out...I feel like nursing is a gift to me. Everyone wins!

    Merilyn Horton
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does feel good to help people: just ask nurses.

    Octavia Hansen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can influence small kids that will stick with them all their lives . . . music, laughter, listening. That's immortality!

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true. I miss my volunteer work during this time.

    Jaded Queen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best way to be happy and keep others happy is to lie and lie mad lie

    Freya the Wanderer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am happiest when I am helping others, such as volunteering at a food bank.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, feels like you're losing out and that's true. Haha, nice. Seriously tho: I've helped people quite a lot over the years, and I have to say I don't feel like I've gotten much back. Well, except being used and taken advantege of. Yeah, that's mainly it. So I don't really recommend it.

    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The benefit has to be inward. It's knowing that you have tried, even when it doesn't work out. That the person you helped might realise and do the same for others. That you are a good person, on balance, for making that effort.

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    Carl Beaver
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When they begin expecting your assistance but never volunteer their own it's time to cut them loose.

    serge
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a good feeling, there is nothing like it. However I come to think of it as posibly being selfish. What if you are doing it to feel good and not to truly help others? Just sayin, not everybody is Theresa of Calcuta.

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    #29

    It’s okay to be selfish sometimes.

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    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes yes, it's okay to be all the animals in the sea.

    Mariette Ferreira
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Healthy selfish as I occasionally call it

    Leigh Hogan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *snort* Once had someone call me the most selfish person they'd ever known. Because I have a chronic illness. The funny part is it was so unbelievable for both parties that A. I didn't flinch (and I've always been hypersensitive to criticism) and B. they came back with the exact opposite story once they realized they were the asshole. ...No apology, mind you, but a correction of the record nonetheless.

    Birma Gustafsson
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We can only see things from our own perspective, even though we might be good enough to imagine how others feel and react, but we must have some references of our own to really be empathic and sympathic.

    Azziza
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is wrong. This attitude is why the world is in such bad shape. Everyone thinks they deserve everything and everyone else deserves nothing. Selfishness is BAD and shameful. Stop thinking the world revolves around YOU, it doesn't. Do something for other people and stop being a greedy, grasping, dickhead.

    Zophra
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never understood this quote, I think the word "selfish" is too loaded with negative connotations when this is often just common sense.

    Leodavinci
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Selfishness gets a bad rap because most people's definition is wrong. They presume it means that one thinks (and acts) for one's self... and when one does so, it is at the expense of others. That definition inherently presumes you owe others.

    Azziza
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, because that's exactly what it does mean. "(of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure." In case you missed it: LACKING CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS; CONCERNED CHIEFLY WITH ONE'S OWN PERSONAL PROFIT OR PLEASURE. Hint: That's not a good thing.

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    #30

    Everyone's a hypocrite. Even you.

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    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true. Hard pill to swallow: Some people are actually genuine and true.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd say there are probably not a single human that is without double standards in some form or other. You can still be genuine and true tho.

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    Sasy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one can know until faced with a situation what they will really do...does not make them a hypocrite as such, just means they didn't know yet, or haven't reached that point.

    Zophra
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet that it depends on the situation for most people

    Hannah M
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think all of us have some areas of double standards, and a lot of the time it may actually come down to laziness more than anything. But I read somewhere that sometimes a hypocrite is no more than someone in the process of change. Because of things like social media, we have a culture of dragging up things people did decades ago to use against them now. This is stupid on so many levels, and a lot of the time when people cry 'hypocrite' they forget that someone may have changed their opinion.

    Danieletc
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's said, there's a vast difference between a match flame and a house on fire.

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rubbish. I'm perfect. * wink wink *

    serge
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The very hidden agendas....have to agree although it is not always eveident, hence the very hidden agendas...

    Karen Lyon
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, no. There is a thing called integrity. Are people complex? Sure. And imperfect! Failures, missteps, and screwups are part of life. But lots of us admit we blew it and try to do better -- and then try not to judge others. Hypocrisy is much more serious than just blowing it once in awhile. True hypocrisy is when you see fault in others/their value system but cannot or refuse to admit fault in yourself or your values. It's also appointing yourself judge over all despite those failings.

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    #31

    Love alone is not enough to make a relationship work.

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    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they’re referring to the feeling of love, no. Feelings come and go with the weather. However, mutually choosing to act in love is enough. However you should make sure you’re compatible in values and life goals before you make a commitment!

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Relationships of any kind take hard work and sacrifices. It has to be a balance of give and take.

    Daria B
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When times get tooough-ough-ough, oh, they get tough, they get tough, they get toooou-ough-ough ♬♪

    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    5 years ago

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    Famously said by people who are in bad relationships. F*****g sick of this crap from every movie and tv show: "relationships are hard work" - yeah, because you have a crappy partner. Relationships can be easy if both parts are non-morons.

    #32

    People will criticize you even when you do perfect.

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    Daria Z
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially when you do perfect :D

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people just can't stand to see someone else succeed.

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Critics are people who are incapable of doing anything right themselves.

    Tiny Dynamine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How ironic! Written using bad English!

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    #33

    Your kid has no idea it's their birthday for the first few years. Stop making a huge deal about it. It's obviously about you and not them.

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    RaroaRaroa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it wrong to celebrate the milestone because you're happy they made it there? Many babies don't, so why not celebrate?

    Gëë Bëë
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not wrong to celebrate at all however to spend hundreds sometimes thousands on gifts and partys is just silly! Many people do this with money they dont even have. I understand the excitement but it really is about the parents when they do this.

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    Sasy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is often the time bigger families can get together, nothing wrong with that, they create memories, my first birthday was in the paper, nothing to do with my family it was my preschool...we still have the paper and that rocks. Other birthdays I remember a boy blowing out my candles I was 3. Extravagance is up to the person willing to pay...this pill was a placebo, no substance.

    Lousha
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Making a huge affair out of it is silly indeed. However you never know what people will remember. One of my first memories is actually my second birthday, and that's the only thing I remember from around that time. I know I've seen the photo of me sitting in front of my humble homemade cake with marzipan figures and two little candles on is, looking all happy with my cute pigtails but I also have a clear mental image from my point of view, looking at that cake like it's the biggest miracle on Earth, being absolutely overjoyed that I AM celebrated (you're right, probably didn't quite get why), I'm the center of the Universe for a moment and that wonderful cake is just for me, everybody loves me and all is so good in the world. That's the whole memory, just a glimpse, seeing the cake, having the anticipation of how great it will taste and how happy I am. Don't remember tasting it, or what I got as a present, or what else happened that they. But I still cherish that truly happy moment.

    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe they don’t but they can still enjoy a birthday party. 🥳

    Hans
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP obviously has no idea. What he or she says is true for a one and to some degrees a two-year old, but not for a three-year old anymore. The fact is rather that children percieve time and special occasions differently and the way we celebrate the birthday of toddlers is not necessarily how they would cherisch them.

    Foxxy (The Original)
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is why for my kids first 2 christmases and birthdays they got minimal presents and the presents they did receive were practical things they would need throughout the year like clothes, nappies, bedding etc. I got maybe 1 or 2 age appropriate toys and a book as well, I didn't go overboard. But that was my choice, others can so what they like.

    Lila Launehase
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you as a parent have survived the first year, that's definitely a good reason for some cake :D

    Amy Pattie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I told my niece I wasn’t buying my first child toys for the first two years. She thought I was a monster. I showed her a video of a child choosing to play with literally anything but their toys. (They need a snuggle toy and blankie of course!)

    serge
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's all part of their brainwashing into future life....

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kid just turned 2 a few weeks ago. We got her a big unicorn balloon and a little cupcake. And presents. That’s all. No party nothing. Same thing when she turned 1.

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    #34

    Money can indeed buy you happiness. People that believe that it can't, have never had to worry about money.

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    Katherine Boag
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once you have enough money to be financially secure, money can't buy you happiness. But if you are not financially secure, ANY extra money will make you HEAPS happier.

    YsaPur
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, not ANY money, but a moderate amount, yes. Too much money all of a sudden (like winning the lottery) can make you very unhappy.

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    lenka
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. I've been on both sides of this fence. Money can buy you less stress, more comforts and and perhaps a sense of satisfaction. But true joy and happiness come from the decisions you make and the people you surround yourself with.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For poor people, a windfall or gift of money are greatly appreciated. What may be pocket change to one person, may make a big difference for the recipient.

    DC
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. Not enough is pure stress.

    serge
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since money comes and goes so does happiness for a lot of people. But once you are finacially secure you shouldn't be in need of purchasing more happiness. If you are still unhappy it is not because of a lack of money so you should get help and get to the root of your problem.

    Victoria
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who say money can't buy happiness must be doing it wrong...... Give it to me, and I'll show ya :D

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't actually make sense. Ever heard of the lottery winners who commit suicide because everyone they know wants a share of it?

    Chris Jones
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't tell people. Don't change your life dramatically either. The ones that do are the ones that usually become incredibly unhappy. There are ways and means to do this. I have my plan ready - WHERE'S MY WIN???

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago

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    Money can't buy you the things that really matter.

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    #35

    Some people are just evil. There’s not always a reason behind it.

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    RaroaRaroa
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. I don't believe anyone is born evil, so something makes them that way. Whether it's childhood trauma, abuse, substance abuse, untreated mental illness, head trauma - there will be something behind it.

    Scyth
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The genetic makeup can make a person evil, and "evil" is subjective.

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    Lucka Rakowska
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are. And there is always reason behind... We might not agree or understand the reason, but it is there

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wrong. There is always a reason, whether it's behavioural or genetic.

    Kateryna
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe that nobody is the villain in their own opinion. They always have an excuse.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's difficult for me to understand. How can you ever be happy if you are evil?

    EA
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true. A thief is not born a thief

    JustAWeirdoGirlChild
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i feel like there has to be a reason behind everything, even if you/i don't know it yet

    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make that all people. Deep down we are evil. It's just nature, sorry.

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    #36

    Just because you've been doing something longer than other people doesn't mean you're better at it (driving, job role, sports etc).

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    Torchicachu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ehh i dont think this is necessarily true all the time

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It really irks them when a newcomer does surprisingly well and shows a natural talent.

    Miguel Denyer
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to agree with this one... if someone has been doing something for 47 years and still achieving nothing, then I guess that proves that experience doesn't always mean competence. ;p

    Aragorn II Elessar
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah! I’m sixteen and I’m a better driver than my mom.

    #37

    The vast majority of people don't care about you. Family and close friends will but everyone else is far more concerned with themselves and their family and friends. They don't really hate you and they don't really like you, they just don't really care. Some people may love or hate the idea of you but it's not personal.

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    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hey, If I'm being honest, I hate the idea of anyone dying. I don't love humanity, but I do care for them, and I think most people do to that extent. Few people in life should truly hate you.

    Daria Z
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's totally okay with me! Because I don't care either :)

    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have more than five close friends, you have none

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    #38

    Hard work may increase your odds of success. But it doesn't guarantee you [anything]. There will always be thousands of people out there who worked way less harder than you but achieved way more.

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another American opinion. There are lots of people who think they are successful if they have a steady nine to five job, their own house and car, 52 long weekends to spend with their family, 4 weeks paid vacation and no debts.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the other hand, there are millions who work very hard, but never get anywhere.

    serge
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a kid a millionaire was an old man with a factory. Now it's a 7 year old who opens boxes on Youtube. Everything has changed and will keep on changing.

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    #39

    Corona may never go away and be in our lives forever in some capacity.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son says that we will eventually develop a herd immunity. People will still get sick, but it won't be as severe. Kind of like the flu or the common cold. It goes around, and it's miserable, but you get well.

    TheGr81sComing
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this might be a good thing

    Miguel Denyer
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Black Death Pandemic lasted for over 400 years... and the bacteria that causes it (Yersinia pestis) is still alive and well today... and still killing people... let that sink in!

    Emilingo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no viruses go away though. If a vaccine is found, people get it, but don't get sick.

    Computernaut
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what happened to the regular flue. The question is, if this is the case, will restrictions stay in place forever or will people recognize that it becomes futile at some point?

    Kirsten Kerkhof
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. The first time a Covid virus hit was in the 1890s, we still carry the traces of it. It is the cause of that stupid persistant cough people sometimes have that just won't go away. We have just managed to adjust to that particular strand.

    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corona WILL never go away. It's here to stay and we humans better start to take it seriously and stop discussing crazy theories and acting like utter morons, because if we don't, the 1 million death people all around the world are just the start.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    5 years ago

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    Good thing is it not dangerous at all for most people, then.

    Fred and George Weasley
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    5 years ago

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    you mustve been living under a rock to even think about saying that. go watch the news

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    Scyth
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    5 years ago

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    If everyone on the planet got infected with corona, it will cease to be a problem.

    Becky Samuel
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not even close to being true. That's like saying that everyone on the planet has had a cold, so colds must not be a thing anymore. Right?

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    #40

    A lack of critical thinking and greed are responsible for most of the world's man-made problems. We can't eradicate greed. So, if the world's going to get better it needs to think better. Until critical thinking becomes a skill as basic and necessary as arithmetic, we'll continue doing stupid things.

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    lenka
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Case Study. America.

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    while It's true that America isn't great, It's much better than certain countries. (north Korea comes to mind)

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    DC
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We'll even continue. I enjoy a lot of those stupid things - and won't stop. It just may be that we'd know better.

    Terd Fergison
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Human greed is a huge problem. Corruption is in every human being with power. You can't legislate human greed away, because people write the legislation and control the enforcement of it. One proposition on how to save humanity is to create really great artificial intelligence to run our societies for us. A computer is not flawed with our human greed.

    #41

    No one is at the wheel. There is no one leading the planet, just powerful people, companies, and countries all struggling together against everyone else for power, money, and control.

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you're telling me there's no Deep State or Illuminati or Circle of 13 that controls the world? Sure, buddy. Just search the internet, there's so much evidence. Like how Christmas is always on the exact same date.. /Sarcasm=off

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the world is flat! The internet says so.

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    serge
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And now with internet it has become more divided than ever and it keeps on dividing, like a nuclear reaction. There is however and end to division, it may seem to go on forever but consequences will have to be paid sooner or later.

    Nicolas Pilot
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is exactly what they want you to think. Congratulations, you're successfully brain washed

    troufaki13
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. There are some lobbies that control the world

    Vorknkx
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Luckily, wearing a tinfoil hat will protect us from them :)

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    #42

    Whoever is reading this doesn’t have anything better to do at the moment.

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    EA
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I do but as usual I am procrastinating 👍🏻

    Steve Barnett
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been meaning to look up what procrastinating means, I just can never seem to get around to doing it.

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    Torchicachu
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yep im supposed to be paying attention to online classes

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hey me too! I prolly should get back on that....

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    djinnjeannie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have lots of better things to be doing right now, just don’t want to do them

    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, I do, I am just too anxious to do it.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do. I had a few minutes while dinner is cooking.

    Foxxy (The Original)
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have many things that would be a better use of my time but I just can’t be f****d.

    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m doing several things simultaneously, so nah. Wrong again.

    serge
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do, but the world isn't coming to an end right now is it? Not hard to swallow, just put some spin on the putting off things...I'm not procrastinating btw ;-)

    Nicolas Pilot
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be number one, vote it up

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    #43

    Animal agriculture does more harm to the environment than all of the cars, planes, boats, etc in the world combined. It's destroying our oceans, our air, our land, and our bodies.

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    RaroaRaroa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if we produced enough vegetarian food to feed the world, how much land and pollution might that take? I live in NZ. Our land is largely hilly. You can farm sheep and cows on it. You can't grow crops effectively on hills.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would probably pollute much much much less. We already produce enough to feed the planet, but we give that food to the animals. Bad energy investment. Also, getting rid of the animal-production would free up INSANE amounts of land, energy, etc.

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    Scyth
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plant farms cause deforestation more than animal ranches, just look at the soya farms.

    Rena
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    just google what the soy is needed for. 75% of all soy produced per year is used to feed animals.

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    Saico Hipe
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not saying that factory farming is good, it absolutely isn't, but this 'fact' is bullshit. And even if it were true, raising animals for food is not the inherent issue, it's corporate greed, and the fact that our politicians are owned outright by these corporations. Place blame where it is due. And for God's sake, please don't delude yourself into thinking that eating soy or black bean or pea burgers instead is saving the planet. It's like putting a band-aid on a gaping head wound.

    Lucka Rakowska
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and it is disrespectful to the animals... they are not thing, they feel the pain and misery of their life...

    hobbitly
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is indeed a hard to swallow truth for many people since so many people still eat meat or other animal products.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But lets not mention the single most important part of it: THE ANIMALS. First of all it's destroying the very animals that are slaughtered by the billions, you braindead moron who wrore this. (Not disagreeing here, except the "out bodies" part, we dont know that for sure.)

    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is very much correct.

    serge
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a very complex problem with no easy solutions and even less political will. It will take a major disaster for humanity to come together. Maybe this pandemic is a general rehearsal.

    Miguel Denyer
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact: Vegans and vegetarians cause MUCH more harm to the natural environment than they think... There are literally millions of creatures wiped out by habitat loss and "pest" eradication while changing natural areas (woodland, grassland, etc) into land to be used for growing crops.

    Danieletc
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got stats? Organic matter and water is naturally recycled, and the Earth's ecosystem is built to process this naturally, right down to the atom. I'm not saying it's 100% "green", but vehicle exhaust has lots of chemicals that are not made anywhere in nature. Without supporting evidence, I call Shenanigans!

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    #44

    We need to stop eating so much meat if we want to mitigate climate change. The earth cannot keep up with our demands for meat and eating it for every meal is not healthy for us either.

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    FloC
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should just stop wasting food and consume less.

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did you know that dinner plates in the US have increased in size in the past few decades? this makes me so sad.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are other sources of protein. Not a vegan myself, but people can live without meat.

    Jaded Queen
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about we apply laws so people don't produce babies like rabbits? Worldwide destruction of nature, resources, and ecology is acceptable to people. But forced permanent contraception after a specified number of children is not. It's obvious people as a whole r not going to be careful with where they put their d***s

    Katherine Boag
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the country, but this is generally a sensible, moderate point. Meat once a day and other proteins (eggs, dairy, vege proteins) at other meals is pretty healthy (individuals may vary), and most western countries could cut down meat consumption a fair bit.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just take "climate change" out of the equation, please. Climate change is just one tiny part of it. Meat production takes a serious toll on our resources, land, etc, not to mention the insane amount of suffering (billions of animals slaughtered in front of each other every year) it causes.

    Mimi777
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I eat meat. But I think it’s kinda neat how they’re making lab grown meat. Maybe that will help. I don’t know much about it.

    Jason Doakes
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here we go; consume LESS meat. I agree. Meat still has to be part of our diet if we don't want to become the planet of Gollums.

    Computernaut
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought this post was about things that were absolutely true. This sounds very debatable and like it's just some vegetarian's opinion.

    Lsai Aeon
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not that we're eating more or less meat it's how it's produced that is the problem.

    Vorknkx
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humanity (7+ billion people at present, and the number keeps growing) cannot survive on plant food alone - that's another hard to swallow truth that preachy vegans choose to ignore.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah, where you got that from? We produced more than enough plant food already, the problem is just that we're giving most of it to cattle for a very poor energy investment.

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    #45

    No matter what you do you polluted the planet.

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. And what's your point? Everyone pollutes the planet but stop making it sound like pollution isn't the fault of the companies. Who sells banana's wrapped in plastic? Who sells a tiny bottle of perfume in enough plastic to cover 50 acres of forest? Who is cutting down the rainforest for their projects? Who is still drilling for oil in nature reserves while we need to transition to electric transportation?

    Becky Samuel
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    5 years ago

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    I hear this argument over and over again and it's nonsense. Corporations exist to produce profit, it's up to us to decide not to reward them if they behave badly. If we hold them to account by withdrawing our $$$ then they will either have to reform their ways, or new, more responsible companies will take their place. Don't like the perfume packaging - vote with your $$$ and the corporations will follow.

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    serge
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course, even breathing pollutes. Nevertheless that doesn't mean we shouldn't try and help our planet when we can, even if it looks like spitting on a hot plate.

    Danieletc
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nonetheless, takes just a little effort to lower your "eco-footprint", and that little bit helps, so do that.

    Computernaut
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly so stop trying to pussy-foot around.

    Torchicachu
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not only humans do this - animals and plants can do this. so what will we do? kill off all life forms? then what?

    Tiny Dynamine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do other animals pollute the planet? They don't produce plastic, they can't even make a fire.

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    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not if you live in a small home you buildt yourself in nature using what you have around you, grow your own food, source your own water, use solar power, never use traffic, etc. Those people exist, yes.

    Tiny Dynamine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is true. Some people use no single-use packaging at all as well.

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    #46

    Some people will never find a long term partner and that's okay... ... because even if you live your life surrounded by people and love, you will die alone. Being married or with a LT partner, having children, having lots of relatives... All in all, it's no guarantee / insurance against ending up alone. People fall out of love for no reason and sometimes there's nothing you can / should do about it. Not everyone wants children, even the ones who will have them anyway.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was married 23 years, then 5years. Single nowf or 14 years. And I'm okay with that. I am enough. :-)

    Damon Gates
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As Jackson Browne put it, "...no matter how close the steps of another seem to have grown, in the end there is one dance you do alone."

    RaroaRaroa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "you WILL die alone"? You mean you might still die along?

    Nhaundar
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You die alone, it's a fact.. massdecease and schizophrenia... Are the only reasons to die not alone. Or your partner dies with you... I dont get the fuss about this topic. But a lot of people cant be alone.. So yeah, thats the reason. Or is it valid, that people watch you die and it counts as: not dying alone?

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    #47

    No one really gives a [crap] what your eyebrows look like.

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    Daria B
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you're a teenager, when the loudest ones give too much crap about the aesthetics of each other, and in detail too.

    postboredom
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. Reminds me of the McBrow. That was simply hilarious

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. We just laugh at people that have ruined their eyebrows so they look like clowns.

    Bob De Long
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never even noticed eyebrows until my 'a**l' wife exposed her obsession about them!

    DC
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until now, I didn't either...

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    5 years ago

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    #48

    Just because you love someone it doesn't mean they will love you back. No matter how hard you try to get them to, they just won't.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thankfully, they often do love back. 💕

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like someone is bitter! Maybe not, but someone can love you back.

    #49

    If you feel like you continuously have to fight for their attention, they probably aren't worth fighting for. If they only talk to you when you text them first, they have no interest in knowing you.

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    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn’t necessarily true. For example, a close friend of mine is a doctor. If I text her and she doesn’t text back for three weeks, it’s probably a bad month for the ICU ward. Now, if she texted back one word answers with no input...

    Chris Jones
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It says if they ONLY talk to you when you text them first. Every time. Not if they're too busy to respond at all sometimes and you know they're a doctor working in ICU.

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    Lauren Caswell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not always true. I avoid messages sometimes if I'm having a really bad anxiety day, or can't face socialising. My friends and family know this about me, and I know I don't want to hurt their feelings so I will always contact them just not always straight away.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call your Mama, if she is still living.

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    #50

    You can be incredibly talented, intelligent, beautiful and work your [arse] off and still go nowhere above an average paycheck. It is better to find happiness in life itself than bet on the rare occurrence of sublime success.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate those Youtube ads: "I used to be a loser like you. Now I'm a millionaire before I'm 30. And I can make you rich... Send me money."

    Emilingo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hmm. I'd like to think that I can change the world. (it needs changing.)

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I concur. Even if you can't make a living from it, if you can find something that you enjoy doing, that alone will be enough to make you happy. If I do a painting that I'm really satisfied with, no-one can take that away from me.

    #51

    Your spouse/child/home/job/vacation, etc. is not nearly as important to anyone else as it is to you.

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    #52

    That there are people who won’t like you or agree with you and you won’t be able to change their mind so you just have to deal with it.

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    #53

    Your dog will probably die before you.

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    Steve Barnett
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But I don't have a dog?! Will I ever die?!?!

    Gëë Bëë
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro. Did you just discover the solution to eternal life!? :)

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    Verena Gitterle
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope so - I dont want for the poor boy to be without his family!

    JN
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excactly! Of course, I fear the day my cat (ok, no dog, but similar situation :)) will die but I hope that I will live long enough to be able to care for my tomcat as long as he lives. He must have already made some bad experiences with humans in his mysterious past and I cannot bear the thought of leaving him unprotected in this world.

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    Damon Gates
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most often, when we get a pet, we do so knowing it will die before us. As George Carlin put it, it's like buying a little tragedy.

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    #54

    Just because you’ve been with someone since high school doesn’t mean they’re right for you. Don’t base your future on childish dreams.

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    Scyth
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, being with someone since high school means that you both passed one of the most challenging parts of growing up together and hence the bonds are stronger.

    Emilingo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no offense, but not necessarily. All you've done is proved you can commit to someone. Often times, high school couples who marry divorce because they're not right. They don't look around any other options that the ones they already have chosen.

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    Fred and George Weasley
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is just opinion not fact. some highschool sweethearts do marry. also, dreams arent necisserily childish.

    #55

    We're all just star dust.

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    Danieletc
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that is one of the most beautiful facts of our existence.

    Astrid Nineor
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just? I think that is realy cool. I wonder how long the atoms in my toe have been around

    Nicolas Pilot
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is straight up BS propaganda pushed on the naive public through cunning deception and logical fallacies

    Terd Fergison
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Prove it. What do you think is not BS? Your particular holy book? Is that where life originated? The magic man in the sky? Do you get all of your information from fairy tales?

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    #56

    Some people are hypocrites & preach that they are anti racism and pro feminism, but are really just fake woke activists.

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    Vorknkx
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the really sad part - these fake activists ruin it for the genuine ones.

    BusLady
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So they're like Archie Bunker?

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A quick glance on some social media teaches us that indeed some people are hypocrites. The majority is really racist and anti feminism.

    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    yes, we call them the woke

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    #57

    The only person responsible for -you- is -you-.

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    Linus Nilsson
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. This is a very conservative American thing to think. A society is built on cooperation, by taking care of each other, helping out when needed.

    Orillion
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can help someone as long as you like, if they don't want to change, they won't.

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    Robin DJW
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's like saying that your situation or condition is determined entirely by the decisions you make. This is patently silly.

    Chris Jones
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It isn't saying that at all. You are responsible for the decisions you make - people can persuade, argue or disagree but ultimately you still make the choice - even if it is to allow someone else to decide. However, most situations have variables that you can't control and life may lead you along paths you never intended. How you react to that is down to you, what you choose is down to you. You are responsible for you, no matter what s**t life may throw.

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    #58

    No matter how much you try to forgive your partner for cheating, there will always be remains of the pain it brought.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is why I could never stay with someone who cheated, the trust is gone and I would constantly be worrying. Not a way to continue with a relationship.

    Mimi777
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. It would be really hard. I’ve been there and tried it. And I could never fully trust them again it was pointless to stay.

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    Sasy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forgiveness and memories of past hurts are not the same thing, forgiving someone and staying or forgiving and leaving, does not change the hurt.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good lesson for why you shouldn't cheat. It's never worth it.

    #59

    Stop buying so many bananas, you're never going to make banana nut bread! Put them back!

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    #60

    You have to stop making excuses at one point in your life and get up and grow up. It sucks but you HAVE to, in order to be a decent human being. No one will do things for you.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a sense of pride in being responsible.

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    #61

    In most situations, most people will make the choice that benefits them even at the expense of others.

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    #62

    When you die, it could very well be nothing. Just blackness, like before you were born.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe that when we die it’s like being in a deep sleep without dreams, so I guess it is just like before we were even born.

    cade
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You simply go "home" and exist as one with unity consciousness, outside of time and physical space. Then you pick your next incarnation, and plan out your life lessons with your guides. Rinse and repeat.

    Aragorn II Elessar
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m Christian, so maybe I’m overly optimistic :)

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I envision peace, and absence of pain and worry.

    Fred and George Weasley
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so you just dont feel anything ant arent concious of being there? at least its not gonna b scary to die tho

    Alex T
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nopenopenopenope i dont wanna think about that, i know its true but im terrified of dying

    Scyth
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I imagine it to be like when you are passed out, not feeling time or anything at all, except that you never wake upm

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    5 years ago

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    It’s not. I’ve been there myself and I see the spirit world like I see other people. 💯% it’s not nothing.

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah wait so you're saying you're died?

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    #63

    There's going to be a day where you are totally forgotten by everyone.

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    #64

    You are always replaceable.

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    Kim
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is definitely not true. A mother isn’t replaceable. A grandparent isn’t replaceable. Your child isn’t replaceable. A loving love partner isn’t replaceable. A best friend isn’t replaceable. The one who had the idea and drove a company to the top isn’t replaceable. There are people that who’s choose nobody in the world could ever fill.

    Hans
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Globally yes, locally probably, for loved ones never.

    Steve Barnett
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, but this post needs to be more exact, because it's just a generalisation: How or why are we replaceable?

    Fabrice
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not for people who really love you

    Fred and George Weasley
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how the hell is someone 'replacable' dont be so shallow as to think that

    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hm, for 99,999999 this is true. But some very few poeple are not. Michael Jackson. Da Vinci. Elon Musk. Eminem. A couple others also.

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    #65

    The eradication of the most devastating diseases that we fight today (i.e. cancer) will have potentially devastating unintended consequences. Humans weren't meant to live forever, and a "cure for cancer" will have interesting effects in the economy and society as a whole with a world already overcrowded with people.

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    Amy Pattie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, research shows that people with better living conditions and longer life expectancy generally have fewer, healthier children.

    Becky Samuel
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not the only problem. Who will do the work in a population thats predominantly over 75? How does a 150 year old mind in a fundamentally frail body manage to keep up with human advancements? What are we going to do with all these extra years of life in a weakening body in a world that is increasingly beyond our understanding?

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    7.7 billion and growing. The year I was born, there were 2.8 billion. That's something to think about.

    Emilingo
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    people have been having less kids the past couple of decades.

    Alex Bailey
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but there are more people. More people having less children = still more children being born than in 1950s. So the population is still increasing. That is a significant problem that will need addressing at some point.

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    Lousha
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There were a few articles about similar topics where I just couldn't understand the authors' optimism. Like the one about how relatively close we are now to "eradicate" death and one day we will be able to extend everyone's lives infinitely. Yay! Except wait... What will we do with all those people while most will still also breed and make more and more? Or another about the possibility that in the near future we could have artificial wombs where a pregnancy could be "finished" it it cannot get to term in a mother's body. I could see the greatness of this for cases where a wanted pregnancy is e.g. dangerous to the mother. But the article was mostly about how amazing it would be to save all those babies that are otherwise aborted. It gave some staggering numbers just for that specific country. And again I'm like wow, great, and then what will happen with all those babies? Suddenly a pair of great parents will emerge from thin air for each?

    Kevin Camp
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mother Nature will always find a way to slow population growth. Always.

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    #66

    That if we don't start treating our planet better, we'll be gone in 50 years. Done.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe a huge asteroid will take us out before then.

    serge
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe not 50 years but probably not 1000.

    Tiny Dynamine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope so!!! Then the planet can thrive!

    Scyth
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    5 years ago

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    Haha yeah really. If these doomsayers were right, we would have been extinct back in the nineties. Humans can easily survive in the tropics, deserts, and the arctic. What disaster can truly eraze humans?

    #67

    Hard work matters.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should say Hard work matters but it doesn’t mean you will be wealthy, appreciated or irreplaceable etc.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It means you have a great work ethic. But it's easy to become a workaholic.

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    Kim
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    5 years ago

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    Boomer wrote this? 🤣

    Lauren Caswell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No idea, but hard work matters. I'm not a boomer, I'm a millenian I think, or gen something. I don't understand all the generation nicknames but I was born in the late 80s so whatever that makes me

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    #68

    It's our fault the world is not the way it's supposed to be. We didn't start it, it's just the people that came before us didn't fix it, and now it's our responsibility. Expecting politicians, athletes, and celebrities to influence positive change is [useless] when so many of us don't take extra steps to contribute positively in the world.

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    Terd Fergison
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't quite see how this is true. It may be partially true and very true that we all need to do more to fix things. But, if someone hands you a pile of s**t, it is that person's fault. We were born into a world of nuclear weapons and countries that hate each other. By the logic of this post, we're just supposed to easily fix these huge problems?

    Miguel Denyer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Newsflash... with or without your help, the world is going to end one day... the Sun, over which we have zero control, is going to die one day and every planet that orbits around it, will be destroyed in the process. Fact: 240 million years ago, the bottom of the ocean farted (released a whole bunch of methane gas as the result of a massive earthquake) the resulting conflagration that occurred when lightning ignited the gas after it reached the ocean's surface wiped out 95% of all life on Earth. 65 Million years ago, a giant asteroid (roughly the size of Mount Everest) struck Earth near what is known as the Yucatan Peninsula... the impact and resulting "nuclear winter" wiped out almost all land dwelling life at that time, along with a large amount of ocean dwelling life too... The point? Regardless of what we do to try to mitigate our impact on this planet, at any moment, Mother Nature can say "F**k it! I've had enough of this sh*t!" and wipe out most of life on this planet.

    Robin DJW
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    5 years ago

    The world hasn't been what it "was supposed to be" since we were hunters and gatherers, before agriculture began. Preserving our genes and propagating those genes (survival and reproduction) are the basic imperatives. They are hard-wired into the genetic code. It has been many millennia since H.sap. began to modify the earth to serve those two needs. This will continue to its inevitable conclusion. I truly believe that we passed the point of no return some time in the last 600 years. I truly believe that we, _as a species_, do not have what it takes to ensure the survival of the species. Our history argues strongly for that conclusion. 600 years is not enough time to effect change in our genetic imperatives.

    TwJh
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who's to say how the world is supposed to be.

    #69

    Anything about someone's dream. The MLM will never make you money, Britney. Although your parents say so, you cannot sing, Amy. You are not the smartest person in the world, Brandon. (Names random)

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    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that's why MLMs, songcontests and "Get your PHD here" websites exist.

    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you don't need to speak to the manager, Karen.

    Mimi777
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The “boss babe entrepreneurs” on Facebook I haven’t spoken to since high school need to hear this.

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My family says I can't sing....does that mean I can?

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    #70

    Having a culture that is so focused on getting high or drunk squanders much of the time in our youth that we need to develop into thoughtful, pragmatic, and mature adults.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It also sets you up for health problems in your future.

    Emilingo
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm never drinking smoking or doing drugs. I hate that idea. who'd WANT to lose all control over their consciousness?

    Katherine Boag
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got raging drunk in my late teens-early 20s plenty of times, and it didnt prevent me turning into a mature, responsible, thoughtful person who only drinks occasionally. I don't think it was healthy, but noone makes healthy choices 100% of the time anyway.

    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FFS: Let people enjoy their youth without forcing them to be "mature adults" before they even had the time to be immature carefree children.

    Tiny Dynamine
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true. It's part of growing up in many cultures. As long as people don't carry on doing this their whole life and keep acting immature beyond, say 25 years of age, then you'll probably grow out of it.

    Scagsy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah but it's a blast

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    #71

    All children are innocent, but they’re not all good. Some people will grow up to be [friggin] [arseholes] regardless of what they’re exposed to.

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    BusLady
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The school yard bully grows up to be the boss from hell. Or ends up in prison, whatever.

    RaroaRaroa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe there will be something in their life that makes them that way. Whether they were a child whose parents didn't say 'no' enough, or they weren't taught to accept that others sometimes get it better than you, or other life lessons. They don't just turn out arseholes for absolutely no reason. They may, however, choose to stay that way rather than try to improve when they realise it's not a good way to be.

    Foxxy (The Original)
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some children are “Bad” and it doesn’t necessarily mean it is always on purpose. Some people are born with things like Oppositional Defiant Disorder which is a neurological disorder, same as ADHD, ASD and more. The brain is a very complicated thing and some people just don’t have the proper understanding or control of their actions etc and can come across as “Bad”.

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    Miguel Denyer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Children are actually born sociopaths - they have no real emotions beyond "I'm hungry", "I'm tired", "I'm uncomfortable"... they learn their emotions, and how to interact with others, from us. Fact: the part of the brain that governs reasoned thought, and emotion is called the prefrontal cortex and is not properly developed until we reach around 25-26 years of age... this is why seemingly bright young adults make stupid mistakes... and why voting ages were dropped to 18 years of age, and why the military only enlists between ages 17 and 26.

    #72

    Costco has tubs of 7lb Nacho cheese for sale at $6.50 a piece. 7lbs of Nacho Cheese works out to about 2,800cm3 . A typical bathtub has a volume of 160,000cm3 . Here are your volumes based on weights (approximately) and how many bottles you would need to fill up the tub: 120lbs = 50,000cm3 means you need 40 tubs for 255 dollars 150lbs = 70,000cm3 means you need 32 tubs for 208 dollars 200lbs = 90,000cm3 means you need 25 tubs for 162.5 dollars 250lbs = 110,000cm3 means you need 18 tubs for 116 dollars See the trend? The fatter you get, the more cost effective it becomes to bathe in cheese.

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    Amy Pattie
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was a very random piece of information I didn’t know I needed

    WilvanderHeijden
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The trend is also that the fatter you get, the more likely it is you die while you're bathing in cheese.

    Andrew Gibb
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make your own: INGREDIENTS 2 Tbsp butter ($0.22) 2 Tbsp flour ($0.02) 1 cup whole milk ($0.30) 6 oz. medium cheddar, shredded (about 1.5 cups) ($2.25) 1/4 tsp salt ($0.02) 1/4 tsp chili powder ($0.02) INSTRUCTIONS Add the butter and flour to a small sauce pot. Heat and whisk the butter and flour together until they become bubbly and foamy. Continue to cook and whisk the bubbly mixture for about 60 seconds. Whisk the milk into the flour and butter mixture. Turn the heat up slightly and allow the milk to come to a simmer while whisking. When it reaches a simmer, the mixture will thicken. Once it's thick enough to coat a spoon, turn off the heat. Stir in the shredded cheddar, one handful at a time, until melted into the sauce. If needed, place the pot over a low flame to help the cheese melt. Do not over heat the cheese sauce. Once all the cheese is melted into the sauce, stir in the salt and chili powder. Taste and adjust the seasoning as needed. If the sauce becomes too thick, add milk

    Computernaut
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this not higher on the list? I love it.

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