We often don't know how nice a period of our lives actually is until it ends. However, there are a few things we can do to help bring back the memories of those precious times. Smelling a familiar scent, putting on a beloved song, or taking out the family photo album are all perfect options. But scrolling through online posts created specifically to induce nostalgia is also an effective one. This is where the Instagram account My Good Old Days comes in. Its pictures help us look back on the games we played, the clothes we wore, the technology we used, and so much more!
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While I don’t think the “I’ll give you something to cry about” was the right approach, I do know that children were taught to give up their seats to the elderly and/or the handicapped. I do know that children were polite and respectful, as adults were expected to be, also. I’m really astounded when I give up my seat to an old person who’s clearly struggling, and there are young people that are completely oblivious—usually on their phone. I am astounded by the way so many people talk to servers, cashiers, etc.
My daughter is 17, incredibly polite. It's in her nature. Both my ex and I are also polite, and the people around us tend to be, or get looked down on by the rest. If kids are not polite that comes from the people surrounding them, either the parents or the larger community the kids have around them.
Load More Replies...I heard that quite a few times. You wanna cry? I'll give you something to cry about. My Step-father.
The first one quoted, I've never heard anyone say that. Maybe it's not said so much in the U.K. Second one I hear occasionally when out in public.
AAAAAMMMMEEEENNNNNN!! and it shows.....we "oldsters can take anything and keep going....and we don't expect anything for free.....
What? Makes no sense to me. Grey hair happens to everyone who lives long enough and still has hair - what sort of maniac would apologise for it? And why "commit" to "not having plastic surgery"? I know it's fashionable these days amongst a minority to have "work done", but sensible people know that plastic surgery was always meant for those in need due to (and I'm about to use old-fashioned language) deformity - if you get badly injured, for example.
Load More Replies...Hollywood doesn't hire women that age even if she did. But I like her - I really like her.
Helen Mirren is almost 80, Judi Dench's last role was at 88, sigourney weaver is 75, Maggie Smith's last role before she died was at 89. Diane Keaton is 79, Meryl Streep is 75, Jane Seymour is 74, Susan Sarandon is 78, Michelle Pfeiffer is 66....to name a few. Hollywood doesn't have a problem hiring older women...so long as they are actually talented. If, however their career was based around their physical appearance alone.....yeah, opportunities are going to dry up. But we never seem to hear anything about the sexism that goes along with talentless eye candy being given a career, but once those looks fade, and they're actually held to the same standard as everyone else, suddenly is discrimination. What's that line? When you live a life of privilege, equality seems like oppression?
Load More Replies...What a sensible role model for those of us who follow her and others like Pamela Anderson who decided being who she is is so much better than the image she carried for so long
And she's absolutely beautiful to me. Of course, my name is Forrest.
Much better natural than being all plasticized . Nobody likes the effects of aging, but trying to turn what is natural into the unnatural very rarely results in improvement. Good for her !
Load More Replies...More power to her! If you want to go the other way, all good. Not sure why it’s so controversial for people to just want to grow old gracefully and comfortably?
Who says anyone should apologise for grey hair? I know the culture is that you should dye if you don't want to look old, but d**n expecting an apology is harsh, and many, many people (yes even celebrities) don't do it.
For hundreds of years, this type of reminiscence was considered unhealthy. In the 17th century, a Swiss medical student named Johannes Hofer studied mercenaries in the Italian and French lowlands who longed desperately for their mountain homelands.
Witnessing their weeping and despondency, he coined the term nostalgia and attributed it to a brain disease. Other thinkers of the time echoed this view, and it persisted through the 18th and 19th centuries as well.
Me too. I wonder who has it now? I could call it and ask, but that would break the Introvert's Code. (And yes, there is one.)
Load More Replies...Well, I only had one childhood phone number, and I have a password FOR EVERY STINKING THING. So, there is that
Once we got to seven systems at work needing passwords with all different lengths, rules, and expiries, I gave up and started writing them down (in a passworded document on my P drive).
Load More Replies...I live in what used to be my grandparents family home which was built prior to the 1906 SF earthquake and has a telephone nook. The woodwork has what was their (and my mom’s) old phone number etched into it: “Dolores X-13XX” which was shortened to DOL-13XX before becoming the seven-digit number (plus 415 area code) of today. There are plenty of landlines out there in the world today like mine, that are still their original number, even before they were solely numbers used. Obvs I can’t forget it, because I see it all the time.
I not only still remember my phone number from childhood, but also some of my friends’ from… well, longer than I want to admit. Today, I struggle to remember my hubby’s mobile number.
We had area codes, but you didn't need to dial it for local calls.
Load More Replies...I actually called a utility company the other day and they asked me my cell phone number that I was using to verify my account. I literally could not remember for a good 30 seconds. I was trying to think what setting there was to check it. It came to me eventually, but I got the impression the woman was wary that I wasn't who I said I was. Who calls their own phone??? But yes, I do remember my childhood phone number, oddly enough.
Yes, very different in a lot of ways from my younger days. New information and experiences and a willingness to have a look at myself and beliefs.
We don't grow more conservative as we age, we accumulate all the experiences and adjust our outlook to better reflect the complexity.
Load More Replies...I no longer drink mixtures of unknown alcohol out of a fire bucket. So that's a step in the right direction, I'd say.
Yes, I now drink from a glss instead of sticking a n****e on a bottle!
Load More Replies...Yes, but there are also some things about me that will never change
Learning & growing every day of every year, until my body suffers off this mortal coil.
No individual is staunch in their views and politics , we mature, we grow and open up to some of the things we may have been against in our past.
This absolutely has been my experience....:-)
Load More Replies..."A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines" - Ralph Waldo Emerson
And yet, for a politician, changing your position on an issue, or worse yet, seeking a compromise, will get you in trouble. Quare: why doesn't the US government work? Discuss.
Omg yes! Haha and mercurochrome! Put it in, stings like crazy but you know it “killed germs”.
And they came in a metal box, not cardboard. I didn't appreciate the metal until long after it was gone.
I still have a metal Band-Aid box. Found it when I was clearing out the family home after my mom passed away. I still use it.
Load More Replies...If you pull it wrong, you could pull the red string out. With me, then I would have a hard time getting the bandaid wrapper open.
Funny, I thought about that the last time I unwrapped a Band-Aid.
So much easier to open the bandaid that way, older fingers have a rough ti e opening them sometimes these days
However, according to Dr. Chelsea Reid, an associate professor of psychology at the College of Charleston, United States, it's a mistake to assume that nostalgia leads to entirely dreadful symptoms.
In fact, "Unpleasant experiences, such as loneliness and grief, can arouse nostalgia, which can then help people cope more effectively with these hardships," she writes.
Agreed. I’m a boomer and raised three great kids (mostly with mutual sarcasm 😘) but children cry out for boundaries. You are doing them a disservice if you let them wander about with no boundaries because they’re insecure when they don’t know where the end is.
That's why I don't like open world sandbox games. :) I'm 60. I definitely still need boundaries. Nor should I be playing video games but here we are.
Load More Replies...Some of the boundaries, expectations, rules, limits, rewards, and consequences of my childhood (1950s) should not have been inflicted on anyone, much less a child. Were the boundaries, expectations, rules, limits, rewards, and consequences placed on women back then something we want to return to?
Name me a time history when adults weren’t complaining that children ‘nowadays’ lacked discipline compared to when they were growing up, LMAO. I remember the boomers being blamed for raising children with too much of a laissez faire attitude, being encouraged to ‘express themselves’ over being disciplined, by the generation above them.
Respectfully treat kids like human beings and they'll learn that's how to act. It saddens me how that wasn't self-evident in some cultures.
I can't even put into words how much I hate this attitude. Nothing has changed. Sh*tty parents have existed since the dawn of time. I'm a parent, and pretty much every single parent I know gives their kids boundaries, rules, etc. The idea that there's an entire generation of people who simply don't discipline their kids is ignorant. People who say sh*t like this are mostly just trying to gaslight parents who treat their kids like actual human beings.
I gave my kids the latter, and with every consequence I explained WHY it was happening. No thrashings - just stern words, naughty step, privileges revoked, etc. My ex cited my disciplinary attitude as her reason for divorce, and she won custody of the children even though I'd given up my career to stay home and look after them. Way to go, UK legal system.
I find this funny because you'll hear some version of this throughout history. It's old, tired, and fails to actually do anything meaningful. It's vague and doesn't address the how. And when you ask how, you get infinite answers. Like, if you ask me, I'll tell you that the solution is to address individualism issue and how it's out of balance. Become more community based in our outlook. But then if you ask another, they'll say something radically different. That's why I've always hated these vague statements.
By "throughout history," I always hear of Cicero and Aristotle. The Roman and Athenian Republics both saw their citizenry zealously welcome to power bloodthirsty dictatorial tyrrants within a generation of Cicero and Aristotle, respectively. It's kinda like telling people on a sinking boat, "Oy, they've been worrying about the boat sinking since the Titanic and Andrea Doria." Granted, they've also been saying that in America since the 50s and in Europe for over a century, but again... the U.S. hasn't been capable of winning a war in generations, and Europe descended into utter barbary three times and needed America to grab it by the scruff and rescue its civilization three times since then.
Load More Replies...There are less social boundaries and expectations, but there are more physical ones. Which is a really, really bad combination.
What do you mean by this? I'm not quite following you, thanks!
Load More Replies...I am so proud of my granddaughters because they do set boundaries and foster the traits that I was raised to embrace. I know that there are more parents out there who are raising good little people. It is just that the obnoxious children get the attention.
In the "Fatal Contraption" (0313b) episode of "Rocko's Modern Life" there's a wonderful throwaway joke about this. In one scene, a roadrunner races across the background (meep! meep!) followed by a coyote. In the next, the coyote is shown in the background giving the thumb's up while sitting next to a barbecue pit with a bird of some sort rotating on a spit.
Load More Replies...LOVED the series by Nat'l Lampoon of Wile E. suing Acme for defective products.
The roadrunner was my grade school mascot. Our school song ended in "meep meep". 😁
I'd never seen an actual roadrunner and thought the coyote was a wolf, so I really needed the meep meep comments to get there.
New movie is going to be released soon... Coyote vs. ACME. Time for some coyote revenge!
It's supposed to be out next year. I need to see it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coyote_vs._Acme
Load More Replies...There was a series of small independent record stores were I grew up, but the big chain was Sam Goody. Most of the 200 albums I have(n't listened to in decades) cost $3.19.
Load More Replies...Yes, I did it about 6 months ago. There are still a number out there if you are willing to look. Often un underground or laneway shops.
Hopped on a leg of the Crowhurst 2016 tour as an opener... turns out Jay is a vinyl j****e, and the first thing we did upon getting to any new city was scour it's used vinyl stores. I spent so much more than I made that week...
While not as big a selection as that, vinyl is still around. I can buy some (horrifically expensive) records in my local supermarket in rural France.
Vinyl is making a comeback. Lots of artists are offering their albums in vinyl (at least the ones I listen too!)
Load More Replies...Thanks to scientific research, we now know that nostalgia also provides many benefits.
"It enhances feelings of optimism and inspiration and makes people view themselves more positively," Reid says.
"When people feel nostalgic, they feel a greater sense that their lives are meaningful."
And Trump and his sycophants in Congress just did raise it by three years. But it happens gradually over a few years, so they can make you numb to it. They told people they would raise their retirement ages and people lined up and pulled the lever for it. Anyone who tries to argue that MAGAts are not stupid people, this (and a ton of other things) proves they are beyond a shadow of a doubt.
I think you may be a bit confused about who voted for the orange grifter. Sure, theyre stupid, but a very significant portion of his voters are already locked in on the old/present retirement age, and (if they actually knew what they were voting for) they voted for a change that will only affect other people. Those who knew they were voting for a guy who said he would raise their retirement age were largely suffering from the delusion that he would do other things to make their lives better, such as upgrading their shitty job to a well-paying manufacturing job because they're stupid enough to think all it takes to start making iPhones in Iowa is renting a building and hiring people.
Load More Replies...It's not a matter of "want" it's a matter of acknowledging the reality that, where 25 years ago most people entered the workforce at 14 or 15 years old...whereas today, that age has risen to somewhere between 19 and 24. Less is going into the pot...and while life expectancy has began to fall, because the majority of americans are so unbelievably unhealthy, the life expectancy is still higher today, than it was the last time the retirement age was raised all the way back in 1983. It either gets adjusted, or it goes bankrupt.
In UK the state pension is based on how long people are expected to survive retirement, and that has increased
Load More Replies...Or are rich enough that it either won't affect them or so rich that it doesn't matter since they won't have to work that long anyway. I can retire in 2 years and get full social security and was hoping and planning to work till I'm 70 anyway because I will get almost $400 more a month more going by the statement I got in the mail a couple of mos ago. Not everybody is healthy enough to work until they get full benefits.
I have the same ideas but now I have the courage to use them - can I have another go please?
What's the cut off for this? I'm 36 and done all this, am I also old? Oh God...
No worries, they say 36 now is the new 26. Makes you wonder what being minus 6 is like...
Load More Replies...Still young . I listened to music on 45 and 33 1/3 rpm vinyl discs and only a few families in our street had black and white TV sets
Yay ..... me too ! What about the orange - coloured cellophane we put over the TV screen to prevent damaging our eyes ?
A lot less thanks to climate change. Where I live (and where I grew up) it used to snow a lot more than it does
Load More Replies...My roommates and I would jump into our cars and go joyride in the snow like 1am. Seattle suburbs and thought nothing of doing donuts and using the car as a sled down a hilly street. Looking back now, its amazing how stupid we were and lucky we didn't hit any parked cars. Good times lol
It was the perfect silence, broken only briefly by the quiet crunching of the snow and tinkle of tire chains when the rare vehicle ventured out. And it meant no school !
If it was cold enough, the snow would squeak when you walked on it!
Load More Replies...I LOVED that silence. Also the silence of a Christmas morning. We lived in a small town with little to no traffic that morning. I just grew up thinking that is the way it should be. It just doesn't seem the same now.
And the disappointment when it stopped snowing about 7 pm knowing that tired couple inches weren't enough to call school.
We never had snow where I lived, but I can remember when my town was still podunk-y enough that after 10 p.m. it was so quiet you could literally hear a dog walking down the street.
I live in the South of UK - we're lucky if we get 1/2 inch of snow a year.
And the sound of morning snow crunching under your boots. And the crinkling sound the wonder bread bags made as they rubbed between your socks and the inside of your boots…
Social benefits of nostalgia are especially well supported. It increases empathy and the willingness of people to give to those around them, such as volunteering for community events and donating to charities.
So in a way, creating and sharing posts like these is a form of public service. I know it sounds like a stretch, but the evidence is there!
OK, yes, this one is huge. It really was exciting picking up the pictures developed from film. Complete anticipation, excitement, and pleasure.
and then you realized half the pictures were horrible and whole parts of your vacation are blurry or a finger in the way
Load More Replies...I'm still holding a grudge against the local photo shop for losing my photos I took right after a record-breaking 3-day snowfall. Of all the rolls they lost, it had to be that one! 😠
I LOVED this as a kid!! My aunt was the picture taker in my family and also loved to travel so she had trunks & boxes full of pictures like this. I loved going through them even though I'd seen them already. Still do.
We'd all sit on the couch and mom would look at them and then past them down.
Yes this! I forgot about this, thanks for bringing back that memory ❤️
Load More Replies...Nor will they ever experience the frequent screaming frustration levels of "How the heck could only three of thirty-six come out in focus?" Gawd, I hated working so carefully with my 35mm film camera only to have so many unusable frames return from developing. I'm seventy and LOVE digital. Because now this is on purpose: DSCN9630_e...fb45e6.jpg
I used to get film developed at Costco. I used the last name "Xerox" so I could find it faster.
I did make the exit inspector at the Menards lumber yard laugh, when I said about the Cybertruck ahead of me, "never seen a dumpster rolling down the road".
Load More Replies...If your bulletproof truck can't stop a steel ball...
Load More Replies...STOP calling the cybercrap a truck. That is an insult to all pick-up trucks!
It is at best, a child's poor copy of an El Camino or Ranchero. But not as functional.
Load More Replies...75 year difference in technology. In another 75 years, one will still be on the road, the other in a museum. Do you know which one?
The dumpster will be in the museum. In the section where they exhibit the "You better learn from these disasters!"
Load More Replies...If I remember correctly ... that had a shift on the tree
Load More Replies...I want to know who thought the cybertruck design was a good idea. I also want to know why people buy this ugly thing.
Looks like a left over prop from a cheap 80s sci-fi B movie. Or a knockoff of a Matchbox toy car that your grandparents accidently ran over with a real truck.
Sometimes I come across a really old vehicle and then I'm reminded how little I miss the exhaust fumes.
Just getting out of bed in the morning can require a monumental effort.
Load More Replies...Never thought I’d be embarrassingly sprawled out on icy ground, trying to convince MY WATCH that I didn’t hurt myself (yeah, it hurt) and I don’t need emergency services.
When it happened to me, the staff in the emergency room caring for me were either former students or siblings of former students.
Or the "Plop Plop Fizz Fizz Oh What A Relief It Is..." What other jingles are we not making fun of now?
I had no difficulty believing that it wasn't butter.
Load More Replies...I never understood why anyone thought it was funny to see an old person struggle after a fall. Now I'm a frequent faller with several major injuries to show for it. Scoffers, your time is coming and it won't feel funny to you.
Always put a blanket over the card table to have a fort to lay in while watching cartoons.
Roadrunner!! Wylie E. Coyote, "Neep Neep" ACME!!! Also, Land Of The Lost!!
Load More Replies...I miss the old cartoons. I watched Woody Woodpecker, Scooby Doo, The Flintstones, Tom and Jerry, Speedy Gozalez, Foghorn Leghorn, The Smurfs, Bugs Bunny, Heckle and Jeckel etc....I loved Elmer Fudd and Bugs Bunny.........
And Popeye, Underdog, the Pink Panther, Rocky and Bullwinkle...
Load More Replies...Don't forget the cartoon showing in this picture - A hunter with a shotgun threatening to k**l an animal. Yeah, Looney Tunes was a bit violent, and we loved it!
We also knew it was fake violence, as in, nobody we knew would ever do such a thing.
Load More Replies...𝔸𝕙𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕘𝕠𝕠𝕕 𝕆𝕜 𝕕𝕒𝕪𝕤 ..𝕨𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕥𝕠 𝕨𝕒𝕚𝕥 𝕥𝕚𝕝𝕝 𝕤𝕒𝕥 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕟𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕔𝕒𝕣𝕥𝕠𝕠𝕟𝕤 𝕨𝕖 𝕨𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕤𝕡𝕠𝕚𝕝𝕖𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 24 𝕙𝕖 𝕩𝕒𝕣𝕥𝕠𝕠𝕟 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕝..
I remember the Saturday morning I was disappointed how little cartoons there were. It happened to so fast.
Load More Replies...In the UK I don't remember a lot of childrens TV. I do remember watching a lot of Westerns or black and white war movies and being so happy if it was a comedy!
Saturday mornings for me was wrestling and then roller derby. Saturday night was for watching old time horror movies with Dr. Shock. We had it made and never realized it.
Nostalgia also makes people feel more connected by reassuring them that they are loved by, connected to, and protected by their loved ones.
It also helps us to feel more secure in our close relationships and enhances relationship satisfaction.
Reminds me of college before the 2000s, so much time in the libraries, oh my!
How many students can explain what the Dewey Decimal System was anymore?
Was? My library still uses it. Card catalog was replaced by computers decades ago, but books are still shelved by Dewey Decimal system.
Load More Replies...Staying in one position on the couch too long. Getting up and walking like a newborn foal for 3 meters.
For a second there I thought you said 30 minutes...which I believe to be more accurate.
Load More Replies...Remember when you could lay on the floor comfortably? Not to mention getting up!
Until recently I could get down just fine, but getting up is another thing altogether.
Load More Replies...And you can't get up off the floor without grabbing on to something, while groaning at the sound of every joint doing the "snap, crackle, and pop."
I laid on one position and my kid came running to check if i was alive. Im not 50 yet....
You're so lucky, it takes you 15 minutes before you have to move
Yup, and even more annoying trying to avoid the light you left on in hallway as you now need the bathroom middle of night ( pane glass over my door) eyes still Pick it up when half asleep. Means another effortfull roll over to other side. Sometimes with a break in middle where I lie on back
DM even bugs getting married these days I feel single. lol autocorrect am I right
Load More Replies...Vent windows and don't forget about the hand crank instead of a switch.
We called them the TVW (Triangular Vent Window). They had the flip latch as shown; the "main" window had a crank.
Load More Replies...Quarter lights, and soo handy for a thief to slip their hand in and steal your tax disc. And there's another 'remember this'?
"this is a collect call from "i'mreadycomegetme" will you accept the charges?"
yasssss!!! I saw an old pay phone outside a gas station and told my kids they were lucky..they got to see an ACTUAL dinosaur in its original habitat
Load More Replies...“Be outside at 5:30, or you’re walking home” is how I was outside at 5:30… 🤣
School started at a certain time and ended at a certain time. Parents would be waiting. Until you were old enough that you could be trusted to walk home by yourself, even if it was two miles and half of that though woodland.
I noticed it when mobiles were becoming more prevalent - Fixed plans were no longer fixed. People didn't confirm where, when, or even if they were showing up. It's as though they were waiting to see if something better would show up. I was the last person to get a phone and i was laughed for getting pi$$ed off about this. Seriously - has it become impossible to saying, "I will mee t you at this location at this time and I will wait for you for x amount of time before I leave."
Same here. Never, not once. I walked or took the subway.
Load More Replies...That's how it worked with my kids until they got used vehicles and a flip phone for their 16th birthdays in 2005 and 2007. They had to call if they were going to be late or had car trouble. They had a full tank of gas and had to have a job before it ran out.
I remember checking the coin slot for coins and sometimes you were lucky. Sometimes they'd be on the ground. My husband had to walk up six blocks after getting off the bus to pick me up. My mom said if he wants to see you then he can walk up to get you. I never would've made it if I had a cell phone.
Once in a great while, I would hit the Coin Return Jackpot.
Load More Replies...Dr. Krystine Batcho, who is a professor of psychology at LeMoyne College in the US, says the beauty about trying to "pass on" and "infect" each other with nostalgia is that even if it doesn't work, it's not a negative experience.
"I never saw that [reminiscing about the past with in a group] can actually alienate other people because people don't necessarily want to hear about your nostalgic memories. They want to share their own," she explains.
The walk to my middle school was about a mile. On a section of road without a sidewalk, a car slid on the icy road right in to me. Thankfully it had been moving very slowly, and I was only startled, not hurt.
We did actually have to walk uphill (a fairly steep one) to get to the bus stop. However, coming home, under the right conditions, we would set down our metal lunchboxes, give them a shove and see whose went the farthest down the hill. Flintstone...a5917f.jpg
Hehe, once did PE which was a three mile run around some woodland (unsupervised) in snow like that wearing *shorts* and a *polo top*. The joy of boarding school. 😉 Now if there's a light dusting of snow, the country goes into crisis mode.
My house was a full mile away from the high school and the last stop on the bus route. Choice: walk in the snow or wait for the stinky super-crowded bus, crammed in three kids to the seat. No-brainer: good boots and jacket, walk.
It's today's kids I feel sorry for, at least if it was bad we got the day off. But since covid introduced remote learning, they're doomed.
And it was 17 miles to school and back, in the dark, up hill, both ways, in a blinding blizzard, in --67 degrees and your mother dressed you in shorts, a t-shirt and sneakers.
ONE sneaker. We didn't have TWO. What am I, made of money?
Load More Replies...Walked to junior high (middle school) about a half mile in North Dakota winter. Briefcase in one hand (no backpacks for books then) and tenor saxophone in the other. At least we had sidewalks which may or may not have been shoveled at that time in the dark morning.
Written by someone who hasn’t popped the hood of a car on 20 years. I triple-dog-dare them to point out a single valve in the black box tech that are modern engines.
Exactly. My partner (who is quite a bit older than me) reminds me that her ex-husband could do all sorts of repairs to his car, and I (while still fairly handy) am not so capable. I remind her that he worked on a 1980s Cortina with almost no electronic parts, whereas my car lights up like a Christmas tree if you look at the battery funny.
Load More Replies...bu think about this... Which generation was it that went around drinking the contents of the battery that necessitated that warning? It wasn't the "youngsters".
I don't think anybody did, we just arrived at a situation where companies are so scared of litigation that your new washing machine will come with a booklet warning you of all of the potential ways it can k**l you if you don't use it correctly (including don't put animals and small children into the drum), but a single sheet of paper telling you how to actually use it (and utterly failing to explain what all the cycles and options actually mean).
Load More Replies...For a few years I worked at a small office supply store that also did some other things. I assembled any desks or cabinets for delivery. And yes I am a woman. One day I asked 1 of the college kids that did the deliveries to hand me the phillips head screwdriver. He had absolutely no idea of what I was talking about. My kids who were 7 and 9 at the time knew the difference between flat and Phillips head screwdrivers! I told that idiot child to do Mommy and Daddy a favor and never raise the hood of his car. Turns out the little d*****s didn't even know how to! Still SMH over that & it's been 27 years since I worked there.
And there's not a single report of one dying as a result of improper care.
Load More Replies...Here I am in an assisted living and was just playing that with another old lady the other day!!!! She beat the pants off of me. She said it was because she had 4 older brothers that played football in high school. We laughed ourselves so silly that the whole dining room thought we were on something.
In 75 and get together on Zoom with a sine HS friends (I went to an all girls Catholic school). Some of the girls still have the notes we passed each other written in what I call “Franglish” or French and English because that’s the foreign language we took. 1960’s.
They're written in code! Kids now don't learn cursive writing and can't read these.
I can literally step outside right now and see kids riding around on bikes. There's a little hidden clubhouse down by the pond, built by a couple of boys. I see kids heading out with fishing rods, all the time. The idea that no kid plays outdoors any more is absolute nonsense.
It depends so much where you live. There are places where you can walk around during the summer holidays and not see a single child all day.
Load More Replies...You were the last ones because you stopped your kids doing this.
The only thing I think my generation was the "last generation" to have (older millennial) is privacy and freedom from the fear that something embarrassing you did/said would end up on the Internet. As a teacher, I see so many kids terrified to try things because of the possible social media consequences. It's brutal. We were lucky to not be chasing something fleeting like admiration from strangers.
The sound of neighboorhood children playing outside is the abosolutely the best music on earth to to me
Every generation sees its own childhood as natural and 'right'. But some are better than others...
"That's why I say I wish it were a little more open because we have so much to learn from one another's nostalgic memories," Batcho adds. "That's why I encourage people when they find themselves in a situation such as you're reminiscing about your past and other people start drifting away because they're bored, you might start asking them about theirs and start a conversation, a dialogue. In that sense, you can broaden it out a little more."
It's like sending your friends memes—even if they don't get every one, they'll send some back, and the fun chat just keeps going.
We were free to wrap ourselves around the cord during those long calls. That's what being tied to the phone meant to us XD.
One thing I have liked about my career, I have had a cellphone since the 90s but not allowed to have it at work so never really got attached to it. Morning Sudoku is probably my greatest cell addic tion.
Ironic. We went from freedom from a wired phone to having a portable phone to being enslaved by that phone.
Can't help but think that somebody massively missed the point here. 🤦🏻♀️
The point will become apparent, once you use the NEW built-in sharpener.
Load More Replies...I was happy if I had the 24. The 64 was too expensive. We just had one box to color with at home
Prussian Blue was my favorite color. Burnt Sienna was a close second. Those two always ran out before the others.
I so longed for this box of more colors than could be dreamed of Horatio AnD the built in sharpener,well!!
I ditched crayons as soon as I could. Pencil crayons were the only thing I wanted to colour with. I saw one girl trace the inside of every line in a colouring book and lightly colour in the image with the same pencil crayon. It looked so cool. I sort of copied what she did for a long time.
Load More Replies...I am so glad my granddaughter wants the crayons or beads to make bracelets!!! I loved getting crayons and a new coloring book!!!
Having the cassette tape microphone close to the radio speaker and waiting for your favourite new record to be played so you could copy it
And at the last few seconds your little brother came into the room and started making a row.
Load More Replies...For me, it was also trying to guess how many songs you could fit on each side of the tape. I remember looking at the tape and hoping that it didn't run out until the song you were recording was over. It was so frustrating to be in the middle of recording something and then hearing that click when the tape ran out. Cassettes and blank VHS tapes could drive you apeshit with frustration every time that happened.
And how we cursed the radio DJ for yapping at the beginning or ending of a song we were trying to record.
"mix tapes" were the ultimate love letter; writing the liner notes...
And glaring a 'don't you dare speak' look at anyone entering the room.
Yup. The degradation of education, and now, the pressure on Universities and libraries. The USSA is going to be a nation of imbeciles.
Load More Replies...There was a government agency a little while ago begging for people who could read cursive for this reason. To transcribe them I guess. That's some s****y handwriting though.
People love to harp on this "no one teaches kids cursive anymore" c**p. A) yes they do - most schools still have cursive writing in the curriculum, and B) even if you were never formally taught cursive, it's not that f*cking hard to figure out. It's not like people's brains just shut down because the letters are loopy.
Kids don't want to try writing in cursive. They are perfectly happy with keyboards and digital everything.
Load More Replies...Cursive is still taught where I live, I don't get the US aversion to it. The point of it is to be able to write legibly even when writing quickly. It doesn't have to look like 'old fashioned calligraphy' to be cursive.
I call BS. I can do cursive yet Ive never figured out information on old documents... Strangely it wasn't the written the same way 200 years ago.
I dunno, to my knowledge, my son has not been taught cursive, but he can read it.
I’m there. But honestly, when my guy and I are flossing and brushing, we often joke about how at the same time 40 years ago we would be getting ready to go out clubbing. We miss those days. Don’t take them for granted!
Depends on your lifestyle, I'd say. My wife and I (both fast approaching 60) work for ourselves - do our office chores at night because we're renovating an old mill by day. We eat when we're hungry and sleep when we're tired. Typically 4am bed time, wake up at around noon. Good 8 hours every night. And when we party, we stay on the dancefloor longer than teenagers manage to do. All about attitude and fitness, I guess?
Load More Replies...There isn't really anything to do at night. You just stay up for the sake of staying up late and then it's painful to get up in the morning.
True, but at least I'm not addicted to Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy. At what age was that supposed to kick in?
Not waiting 30 minutes to 1 hour before going swimming after you eat, because otherwise you'll end up drowning.... And it will be your fault! Edit: I realized that I needed to add the after eating part, so people will understand about that rule.
Load More Replies...I was raised without physical punishment. But, there was a “look” that was quite withering.
Nostalgia about threats of violence and abuse are usually voiced by the same people who ridicule newer parenting styles that emphasize listening to your kid. AKA waving a giant flag that says, "I'm Gen X and think therapy is stupid." Which usually have a bumper sticker of "And THIS time I'll actually get rid of the toxic people..." -Gen X, survived.the abuse and got therapy, and no "toxic" folks for 25+ years...
I didn't. I can honestly say that I have no idea what he sounds like.
Load More Replies...Wrong, talking back to your parents counted as a natural cause of death
Sadly, more than two. The best person I have ever known died at the age of nine.
Agreed, there were those who didn't reach adulthood, in many cases because of diseases that are now prevented by injections. But we only hear the ones who lived ...
Load More Replies...I didn't dare talk back because Mama would have knocked me into the next week. Yes she was a*****e, at 6 couldn't get a freaking cast iron frying pan clean or forget to sweep under the bed and be whipped for it. Wearing pants when it's hot so nobody sees bloody stripes from a switch or being hit with her belt. They didn't care in the 60's and early 70's if people beat their kids. I said nobody would EVER beat my kids. I can count on 1 hand the very rarely got a spanking between them.
I was a stay at home Mom. My children were born in the early 80s. Still lots of us back then. I feel so incredibly fortunate that I had that opportunity. I see what’s happening today, and I see the challenges my daughter is facing while BOTH she and her husband have to work. The wealthy are sucking the middle class dry.
As a man supporting a wife and 2 daughters in the mid 80's thru mid/late 90's, LOTS of overtime, very few weekends off, only looked forward to holidays (even worked some of those), and PTO. Wouldn't change it in retrospect.
Load More Replies...Women were allowed to work. If she wasn't "allowed" to work, it was her husband's demands, and not all husbands were that misogynistic.
Load More Replies...I remember my mom at home in the late seventies and into the early 80's, but it was because unemployment was so high. I also remember my dad's paycheck came once a month!
They still didn't have much money, but takeaways and going out to eat were much rarer occasions. Homecooked meals were simple. Often consisting of whatever meat was on sale, mashed potatoes, another boiled vegetable and maybe a dinner roll. Drinks were usually water or milk. Sometimes soups or stews were on the menu. You knew things were getting rougher when all you had to eat for that week was pasta or porridge.
apple usually allows a free weekend before the holiday to watch those classic charlie brown holiday specials. made sure to copy everyone and save it.
Load More Replies...One of my favs. I think of this every Halloween
Load More Replies...I am of the same vintage as the Christmas Special. I watched that each and every year like clockwork for my entire life, until I didn't F**k subscription services hard without any lube.
We'd all still be watching it if fockin Apple TV didn't hoard what should be a human right.
On CBS, not from any streaming app that's for sure, that's for dang sure!!
You. You are the parents now. It’s you sending the kids off with all the things you are complaining about, ffs.
You are swiping at the wrong generation, friend. Most of us Gen X folks are in the grandparent zone.
Load More Replies...I got spanked in front of the class for getting up to use the water fountain that was located within the room in 1st grade without first raising my hand and asking (she often said no, same with kids who asked to use the bathroom which led to kids having accidents). The “good ol’ days” are often selective memories.
Whenever I'd get the choice between detention or swats with a wooden paddle (and the more sadistic teachers would drill holes in the paddle for extra pain), I took the beating every time. Better than telling my parents they'd have to pick me up an hour after school ended.
Load More Replies...No water bottles (schools had drinking fountains), but many of us had thermoses. We certainly had snacks for recess, as well as our lunch. But, yes, thankfully, NO PHONES.
We weren't allowed bringing in water bottles to class. Not even in High School. Always thought that was an inhumane rule. We're allowed water bottles while working.
Load More Replies...You went to school? Softies the lot of you, previous generations pulled mine carts or worked in factories, your generation had it easy.
They let you pull mine carts? We had to queue up to pull mine carts ... and they only let *boys* climb up chimneys to dislodge the soot, girls weren't allowed ... not fair ...
Load More Replies...… and I went to the Nurse’s office for dehydration, and my parents forgot to pick me up and I had no way to reach them because everyone at school had gone home and left me on the sidewalk … just because it’s how we were raised, doesn’t mean there haven’t been some improvements since then.
We didn't have phones (and didn't care) but we definitely had lunchboxes and drink bottles. Especially in the Aussie summer, where our drink bottles would have been frozen overnight and have a tea towel wrapped around it, secured with a rubber band. If we were lucky we would also have a frozen prima/juice box in the lunch box to keep the lunch cool.
And I'd get home from school and want a cookie. Mom would say you can have an apple or it'll ruin your dinner. And I'd decide to wait for dinner. "Snack" was not in our vocabulary.
"And don't come running to me if you fall out of that tree and break your neck".
"Mom, I cut myself." "Is it spurting?" "No..." "Wash it and put a bandaid on it and go back outside."
"come here and I'll put some TCP on it" "oh no I'm fine, ta ta"
Load More Replies...Gentian violet is probably another one that few know. It was used to provide protection from impetigo.. at least that’s what mom told us.
We still use it in my home for various things
Load More Replies...For us it was Bactine, and it was NOT "no sting." Bactine-68...c9d4a9.jpg
I had this on my knees quite a lot as a kid I was always falling over
In my family, it was called "the orange stuff". In my mid-20s, I wanted to "the orange stuff" in a pharmacy. Guy knew what I was talking about but I had to learn it's no longer sold.
Load More Replies...The definition of s.e.x.u.a.l a.s.s.a.u.l.t is getting a little out of hand.
Load More Replies...The shock after doing some required reading in high school and discovering where this quote came from
It reads like poetry to me. It’s someone looking back in time, and seeing the differences in language from the past to now. And the final line is probably true: that’s when we had a lot of time for family and friends. We DID have more time for family and friends before personal computers and cellular phones. They’re not attacking anyone, they’re making an observation.
Slightly off topic, but I made the first blackberry crumble of the season yesterday. They are very early this year
It’s amazing because sure the time was there but people still ignored their kids, prioritized themselves and their career over their family’s well being and their own, etc.
I disagree. There's a tendency to think that the past is rosier but our advancements in technology have brought a lot of positives to our lives, including being able to spend time with friends and family virtually which makes it easier to talk to friends and family who are long distance or for people who are handicapped and disabled. There are always pros and cons to progress but I spend time with friends and family in so many different ways now and that can't be overlooked.
How do you see anything through such heavily rose-tinted glasses?
Just as bad: your roller skate clamps came off your shoe, so you rolled an ankle and did a face plant on the pavement. Almost. Every. Time.
My BMX pedals were literally called Bear Traps. Had 1/4" sharpened spikes for added traction. But man, when you missed...
my shins are still scared from my early 80's BMX days! and I'm 62yo! :P
Load More Replies...My flipflop bottom caught an uneven sidewalk and hammered all my toes into said sidewalk. Pulled all my toes away from the toenails which was excruciating and bloody. I was 7 and a block away from my dad's business. Rode there, walked in and made it to him then fainted. Haven't worn ant type of sandal since.
It will be demolished in a few years and my heart will be broken again, but in a different way.
Fifty years ago the city told us we had to cut down a row of poplar trees along one side of our property, because the roots were starting to infiltrate the sewer pipe under them. ( That's when I got my "cut my hand with a chainsaw" story. ) When I looked up that house on street-view just now, I saw that there is a row of evergreens in the same place that look 20+ years old. Wonder if I should write the current owners a letter to warn them.
Load More Replies...I live in my childhood home. It was passed to me after my parents died. I could have sold it but I couldn’t imagine anyone else living here. We’ve renovated it to our taste but it will always be my childhood home.
Yeah, live not far from it. Color changed from avocado green (it was built in the 70's), and now a dark blue. What stings is my father and I planted 4 pine trees on the 4th of July weekend. They grew well, probably 30-35 feet tall. New owner cut them down not too long ago. I get why, but still sucks a bit.
Ah don't, I drove past our old house from the 70s, my mother had grown two lovely jacaranda trees from seed, they had been cut down. I didn't tell her.
Load More Replies...I just did that last month after ordering a pizza near the area. drove and parked ate my pizza and let the old memories flood into my brain.....
7-Up Family here. It was a stay home from school multi-pack but that was when game shows were on all the networks in the mornings. Password, Match Game, Concentration.....
I used to watch Graham Kerr, the Galloping Gourmet! He was blotto drunk about a 1/3 of the time and much fun to watch.
"A little wine for the sauce, and a little wine for the cook."
Load More Replies...I am sooooooo old that for me the host of "The Price Is Right" is Bill Cullen.
And Bob Barker was on Truth or Consequences...great memories, but so long ago.
Load More Replies...7 UP or Ginger Ale, determined by which was on sale at the time. The chicken noodle soup was Campbell's if one or two of us was sick, otherwise Mom would bust out the HUGE pot and make homemade soup for us. That way when she was at work, whoever was the oldest and allowed to touch our gas stove could warm it up.
I don't recall my mom ever making homemade soup. It would be Campbell's or, more likely, store brand.
Load More Replies...Saltine crackers to eat alone or to go with the chicken noodle soup
Load More Replies...Lucozade - when you saw that familiar orange cellophane, you knew you were nearly better.
Margerine and vegemite, then when you squeeze two together, little vegemite worms came out
Your happiness is as much based as much on what you can forget as what you can remember.
We're not slower. Just no one has as much patience. They want all the information in an instant.
I have a deep file cabinet but often can't figure out which drawer.
I have a terabytes worth of information on an 80g hard drive...there are sector errors...
there's a lot of files to flip through to get that information back. but it's there
My parents went out for drives so my dad could teach my mom how to drive. Fortunately they loved each other.
My mom used to do this right to the end. In late 2018 after surgery to have lymph nodes removed, she drove a hundred odd kilometres to Josselin, just because she liked the name. The place has a big château that in the colours of sunset looked like something from a Disney film. Then 100 odd kilometres back home.
We used to do Sunday afternoon drives as a family. We often went to the nearby arboretum.
Yes, it was a wonderful thing to do. But in those days there was only 30% of today's traffic.
My Mom did that with us (4 sibs), usually on a Sunday afternoon. We'd pack a picnic and each of us got to pick a direction (into the basket). I almost always chose North, but it was a fair deal. We were really poor, but Mom always found a way to cheaply entertain us.
Let's see... I was born dead, then I drowned as a toddler, and as I teenager I thought it was smart to dodge a high speed train. Like, am I actually a cat? 🐈
Gen X here. Got hit by a van while on my bike. Mom told me to take a hot bath.
We used to ride our bikes all across town and find a polluted old canal to swim in.
I fell from the top of one in 1st grade and my knee landed on the chunk of cement around the pole. My stupid teacher d**g me to the office. Mama had a new job and asked my aunt to take me to the Dr. She took me to the other Dr in town that we didn't go to. He told me to look at the light and it won't hurt. It took him, my aunt and both nurses to hold me down because that a*****e didn't numb it before doing 21 stitches. I still have a huge scar almost 58 years later. Anytime I've ever seen a new Dr they ask about it. Oh that's from Dr virus when I was 6. I call him that because if he didn't know what something was most of the time he said it was a virus. My mother agreed, she was a nurse for over 30 years and was stuck with him for a while at the prison she worked at part-time while also working 3rd shift at a VA hospital.
I had a concussion in 5th grade, just walked home from school at the end of the day. Went to bed woke up and had no memory of anything
OK, you folks understand that the heat from the oven will warm the house regardless: faster with the door open and slower with it closed? It doesn't magically disappear.
I disagree. Look at your vent hood. It's designed to remove the heat from the rear of the stovetop and oven.. Opening the oven door bypasses that.
Load More Replies...You've alread paid for the heat. My ex'es fancy oven couldn't do this because the heat messes with the computer inside. My cheap oven on the other hand is best in the winter.
These are all still used in schools, and school kids still do this, because school kids have always done this.
Making the criss-cross in your arm or hand with your thumb nail.
I also poured glue all over my geometry set tools and peeled it off. It was so satisfying. I got in big trouble for that.
Why would you be nostalgic for a time when fresh fruit was a rare treat?
Those oranges were a big thing. They were expensive (in Winter) and a great treat.
And the perpetual fruitcake. Nobody ever ate the thing, just regift it next year. Those things don't decay, or digest.
We didn't have a fireplace, the folks used to hang them on the TV knobs. 😂😂
We lived in an apartment. Santa Claus came down the fire escape, so we hung our stockings at the window.
Load More Replies...Never got walnuts, but there was always an orange in the toe. And we used real socks.
Daughter Judy Jetson complained as she stood there and the laundry machine did everything, including folding. Every generation hates doing laundry.
I recall my Ma’s round washing machine with the wringer, in the ‘50s and her ‘dryer’, the clothesline in back yard
Thank you for saying "wringer" and not "ringer." My mom always had a Maytag wringer washer. Hers had the square tub. Maytag-687...79a9c5.jpg
I remember my mom using a ringer something similar to this but it was electrical and the tub was more square and plastic.
My mother used to do the washing in the bath, by foot. I still do if the machine breaks down
Yes but she didn't have to live with stupid energy efficient dryers. That leave all your clothes damp and wrinkled in the interest of 'saving energy.' So then you run them twice and use more energy than if they'd just let you dry the dang clothes in the first place.
I dry my towels on a rack, otherwise they don't soak up water quite as well. Same for sheets, fabric softener makes them feel oily to me.
Load More Replies...This is a good one, too. We played a lot of games outside. Hide-and-go-Seek, Kick-the-Can, Scrub, etc. I recently read something quite sentimental: "There was a time that you went out to play with your friends, and you didn’t realize it was the last time.”
And the next weekend after its been out in the sun hot and you try to cool it down and finish it off.
Let's just say there's a reason the population boomed to over 8 billion...
A keg of Leinenkugel in a trash can [that should be] full of ice. It also has the hand-pumped tap, which will make the beer go off in a few hours.
Load More Replies...And in the back of pickups. And small children were on their Mother’s laps in the front seat. Héll, we didn’t even have seatbelts! Lots of things have definitely improved.
Camper shell? You must have been rich! We just rode in the open bed of the truck.
Or how about camper shells over the cab?! You could sit up there and see forward like you were flying!
In a lawn chair, no less. With and without a cap on the back on the truck.
When I was a kid, my parents would leave for a long road trip (vacation) early in the morning, like 4-5:AM to get ahead of the traffic. They would put us kids in the back of the station wagon in our sleeping bags and prayed we'd stay asleep for a while. Pretty sure that's illegal now.
That all stopped because kids got hurt. My friends brother fell out of the car
When my mom died, a man walking on the sidewalk took his hat off and stood silently with his head bowed as the funeral procession drove by. A very profound moment for me. It meant so much to me
I'm still furious at the numerous drivers who decided to cut into my mother-in-law's funeral procession 3 years ago. Did they not notice that the hearse was passing and being followed by a line of mourners' cars?
I still remember the face of the bus driver who shook his fist at the driver of the funeral car I was in with my grandfather on the way to my beloved grandmother's funeral. That was 34 years ago.
Load More Replies...My mom taught us to slow down and turn off the radio and remain silent/wish the person well. Still do that and taught my kid that a well.
I've seen people around here break through a funeral procession that has a police escort. Entitled Karens, all of them. No respect, no civility, don't even know how to drive.
These masks were a pain. Your breath would form condensation on the inside and make it wet and nasty.
Yes! Those rubber masks are even worse, because they wrap around your head, rip off hair feeling like more than you actually have ... that ended my planned-to-become habit of driving looking like Saddam Hussein to prevent me from paying fines - simply can't stand wearing that thing longer than like 2 minutes.
Load More Replies...Ah, the tinsel on the tree. Just going by the amount of tinsel on this tree, it was put there a few years ago and left on. Eventually most of it will fall off and be sucked up by the vacuum.
Not every scroller was a kid in the 80s. I was a kid in the 50s. Some of these are for me
Load More Replies...Oh yes, I remember. Except that when they came out I was 12, old enough to do it to myself. Hard on the knuckles!
I lived through the 80s and have absolutely no interest in going back.
Do they want to re-loive the 80s, or do they want to re-live their childhood, which happened to be during the 80s?
I wouldn't go back either, mainly because there was apartheid in South Africa then and it was a h3llhole. Still segregated, cops in the townships, army roadblocks everywhere. Terrible. Even towards the end of the decade my friends and I were yelled at for taking pictures of ourselves at the public pool - because they were Black (I'm not). Ridiculous.
I dislike that sounds from flat screen TVs is worse. Solution, buy yet another power consuming device, a sound bar, just to hear the d**n broadcast. Then you get told "have your hearing checked" but you are the one that can hear the clock has stopped in the other room or the electronic buzz from the fridge.
Volume. You need physical space to have good sound. There's none in them.
Load More Replies...LOL. Too funny. Sadly, we only had a black and white. But that sucker lasted forever! And when something went wrong, it was repairable. Remember TV repairmen? It really was a thing. They actually made a living repairing TVs. That was before the “throw away and replace every 2 years” era.
My mom once called the tv repair man only to find out she'd forgotten to plug the tv back in after unplugging the vacuum.
Load More Replies...Playing a record on 78 to hear Alvin and the Chipmunks version of your music, or 16 for the barbituate version.
Also, throwing a TV out of a window has lost all its attraction. In the movie "Cokksukker Blues", you can see Bobby Keys and Keith Richards perform this act, and it's hilarious. Yeah, dangerous and all, don't be boring. Still funny. Yeah, messed up, they were, the throwing was, I know, but it was funny. Something happened upon impact. A flatscreen ... boring. Just a plastic box weighing next to nothing, peacefully sailing to the ground ... boring!
Well, maybe because now kids have to TikTok some elaborate way of asking someone to a dance to generate maximum views. Maybe?
Load More Replies...Had to put on the school blazer to go to church on Sunday (if you didn't go to church you had to do cleaning which was like being punished for not being Christian). I think that's the only thing we ever wore that stupid blazer for. Oh, and school tie as well. Because one must look their best in the presence of the kiddy-fiddler in the cassock (and no, I'm not joking).
I’m 75. One Easter my mom bought me purple raw silk coat for $60, with a handbag shaped like a doll. (I have the picture) That price is $686.40 today. I don’t know where she got the money but she did.
Every Sunday for many, we had a church at the end of our street and I remember the parade specially the hats.
You don't have to be religious for Easter. My folks did the egg hunt and dinner. I may have gone on one or 2 church services with my grandparents if I was with them for Easter, but that was about it for religion.
Load More Replies...I've still got the white gloves. They are super stretchy so I could still wear them if needed. Three little daisies on the back of the hand
Actually, I agree with this post. Children were hurt sometimes while climbing trees in neighbour's yards. They slipped on ice at the school ground. They got their tongues stuck to cold metal because of a “triple dog dare”. No one was sued. It was part of growing up.
Load More Replies...I grew up in a small town. There was never a snow day. There were a few days the buses didn't run for the kids in the country but there was still school for the kids in town.
That looks like the kind of wet snow that sticks together like glue. The best for making snowmen. The worst for travelling in.
Wow! We didn’t even go to school in the 60s in those conditions! Mostly because buses would cancel. My hats off to the perseverance in this school district!
No. Sorry. I'm seventy and I'm still traumatized by how he treated me at times when I was a kid.
With my whole heart and soul, my father died in a house fire 9 years ago. I never got to say goodbye. Hug and kiss your loved ones as much as you can.
No. My father cheated on my mother when she was sick with cancer, embezzled from his labor union, and collects N**i war memorabilia. But I digress...
Absolutely not. While he wasn't a*****e to *me* (that I remember), he failed in every conceivable way because he would rather empty bottles than do the whole adulting thing. I'd literally be walking with a stranger. I have no fond dad memories. I have no dad memories at all. So no.
My dad just died a couple weeks ago. I would love to have that opportunity again.
My dad had 8 living brothers and sisters. We would get together for holidays, pot luck, kids running all over the place. I’m not sure I would even recognize some of my cousins today. 😢
My dad was an only child and my mom had one brother. However, my parents had six children and my aunt and uncle had five. We saw our cousins only once when we were growing up. They lived in Massachusetts and we lived in Illinois back then.
Only child of two only children. Only a few cousins my age, but not first or second. Just cousins. 🤷♀️
Rarely saw my cousins, even in the 90s. Most of my first cousins lived in a country town over 1.5 hrs away and my mum's cousins, we only really saw once a year at our family reunion. I really wanted cousins I was close too, especially since I was socially awkward and didn't have many friends. When I was a teenager we met family friends, who I know call my cousins, but they were born when I was a teenager so it wasn't the same either.
IN MY DEFENSE, I have at least 12 great grandparents and several hundred second cousins scattered across the US.
It's a weird feeling, knowing that I now have no grandparents at all. The last one died earlier this year.
A one-ah and a two-ah from Welk, and Good Day from Paul.
Load More Replies...I'd pay more attention to this if the OP didn't self-describe as 'wise'. I'm old now and I'm not that sure I'm any wiser than when I was 40 ...
Well, my grandparents lived elsewhere in the country and have now all passed away, but I do love chatting to old ladies at the bus stop. And they're always so happy to have someone to talk to!
My grown son and I call or text each other about every 2-3 days. Glad we don't have long-distance charges (or roaming fees!)
haha; I walked all the way from my dorm to campus in them once. Dumb idea
Take away the phones though, and no one has anything to talk about.
Load More Replies...Seems to be a hugely unpopular idea now. But, that’s how young people used to meet. Congregating at dances, beaches, night clubs, cafe hangouts. No manipulated photos, no weird chats. Just real life.
We still have the DQ kiosks in our city. It's so cool to go for a walk and just be like, "Yeah, I'll have a dip cone."
You can like apps and be nostalgic for Dairy Queen. Think folks in Europe would be grossed out by my favorite from the 70s/80s...Oreo Blizzard with mint syrup. Folks not from the US probably think that tastes like tooth paste, but I'd love a Blizzard. The knockoff ones at McDonald's....suck.
So there's the go pedal, there's the don't go pedal, and there's the don't make awful grindy noises pedal. So what's the fourth?
Why are there 4 pedals? In all cars I've ever driven in (manual), there are only 3: accelerator, brake, clutch.
People did NOT have compassion back then. Do you know what they did to civil rights activists?
And gay people. And anyone who wasn't a white man
Load More Replies...People in the ‘60’s became violently enraged if people with darker skin used the same water fountain as them. WTF is this revisionist b*llsh*t?
No, only the MAGA types of the time and not even all of them. It was a very regional thing - which doesn't minimize it, of course.
Load More Replies...I remember a lot of dull suit wearing bands. Music didn't get cool until disco.
This would be more convincing if it was referring to "before Reagan cut the whole safety net for veterans and tripled the homeless population" or something else that hurt marginalized people.
Without Reagan, the Eighties might have been truly great. With him ... sigh ... and many people still praise this POS.
Load More Replies...Cold War anyone? Duck and cover? Maybe less rights for the marginalised? How about women as a lower class? Lower life expectancy? Oh the good old days. Vietnam maybe? How’s about cancer killing way more people? Mutually assured destruction globally if two crazy nations decide to cross swords? Happier times! Children growing up knowing all about the four minute warning? Strikes and four day weeks? Stock market collapses? U.S. and NATO bases dotted all over Europe, ready to send forces across the borders to repel Soviet tanks. Such a peaceful and calmer time. The rose-tinted 20/20 hindsight bifocals are awesome! PS Children do still play out, get skinned knees, play in mud, climb trees, enjoy simple lives and they’ll surprise you, but that’s no fun for the generation that thinks it did it best is it?
You might want to read through all you've written and realise that...not a lot has changed really. 😳
Load More Replies...Ok if I include vacuum cleaners with dust bags? When it was full you would open the front, as you grabbed the bag the thing would seal the opening and you'd dump it without dust going everywhere, now it's press a button, the bottom springs open, dust goes everywhere with a slightest of breeze.
Vaccum cleaners with dust bags? I remember them. Unzip the cover and dust flew everywhere because those old paper bags were terrible at trapping fine dust and loads of dust got trapped in the fabric cover. Remove the bag from the tube and dust flew everywhere. Wrap the end of the bag over to "seal" it and dust flew everywhere. Horrible, horrible things. Now, you just hold the dust cylinder in the wheelie bin, press the button, and the dust lands neatly in the bin with a tiny flurry escaping. Less than 1% of the dust exposure compared to the bad old days of hoovers with dust bags - *and* the modern vacuum cleaners do a far better job of cleaning in the first place.
Load More Replies..."Which method best helps you relive your '80s childhood memories?" None, I was a child in the 60s.
Right. I had to get up in the morning at ten o’clock at night, half an hour before I went to bed, eat a lump of cold poison, work twenty-nine hours a day down mill, and pay mill owner for permission to come to work, and when we got home, our Dad would k**l us, and dance about on our graves singing “Hallelujah.” :)
You had graves? That's dead posh that is. When I were a lad we had shallow ditches covered with leaves and that was enough for us...
Load More Replies...One of the things I miss the most is Top 40 radio. That was before radio stations were devoted to a genre of music, except of course for classical or country. You would hear Iron Butterfly then the next song could be Aretha Franklin. Keener 13 (WKNR) and The Big 8 (CKLW) forever.
In the UK, the top 40 was a single program on TV on a Thursday, then on the radio on a Sunday, with a DJ talking irritatingly over the start or end when one was trying to tape one's favourite tunes onto cassette.
Load More Replies...Anyone remembers taking the clips off highlighters and slipping them on your fingers to pretend you have super long flashy nails ? I don't think any of us kids ever expected that thirty years later, it would be considered "normal" to walk around with that kind of super long nails that could puncture your rect*m when you wipe.
Cold War anyone? Duck and cover? Maybe less rights for the marginalised? How about women as a lower class? Lower life expectancy? Oh the good old days. Vietnam maybe? How’s about cancer killing way more people? Mutually assured destruction globally if two crazy nations decide to cross swords? Happier times! Children growing up knowing all about the four minute warning? Strikes and four day weeks? Stock market collapses? U.S. and NATO bases dotted all over Europe, ready to send forces across the borders to repel Soviet tanks. Such a peaceful and calmer time. The rose-tinted 20/20 hindsight bifocals are awesome! PS Children do still play out, get skinned knees, play in mud, climb trees, enjoy simple lives and they’ll surprise you, but that’s no fun for the generation that thinks it did it best is it?
You might want to read through all you've written and realise that...not a lot has changed really. 😳
Load More Replies...Ok if I include vacuum cleaners with dust bags? When it was full you would open the front, as you grabbed the bag the thing would seal the opening and you'd dump it without dust going everywhere, now it's press a button, the bottom springs open, dust goes everywhere with a slightest of breeze.
Vaccum cleaners with dust bags? I remember them. Unzip the cover and dust flew everywhere because those old paper bags were terrible at trapping fine dust and loads of dust got trapped in the fabric cover. Remove the bag from the tube and dust flew everywhere. Wrap the end of the bag over to "seal" it and dust flew everywhere. Horrible, horrible things. Now, you just hold the dust cylinder in the wheelie bin, press the button, and the dust lands neatly in the bin with a tiny flurry escaping. Less than 1% of the dust exposure compared to the bad old days of hoovers with dust bags - *and* the modern vacuum cleaners do a far better job of cleaning in the first place.
Load More Replies..."Which method best helps you relive your '80s childhood memories?" None, I was a child in the 60s.
Right. I had to get up in the morning at ten o’clock at night, half an hour before I went to bed, eat a lump of cold poison, work twenty-nine hours a day down mill, and pay mill owner for permission to come to work, and when we got home, our Dad would k**l us, and dance about on our graves singing “Hallelujah.” :)
You had graves? That's dead posh that is. When I were a lad we had shallow ditches covered with leaves and that was enough for us...
Load More Replies...One of the things I miss the most is Top 40 radio. That was before radio stations were devoted to a genre of music, except of course for classical or country. You would hear Iron Butterfly then the next song could be Aretha Franklin. Keener 13 (WKNR) and The Big 8 (CKLW) forever.
In the UK, the top 40 was a single program on TV on a Thursday, then on the radio on a Sunday, with a DJ talking irritatingly over the start or end when one was trying to tape one's favourite tunes onto cassette.
Load More Replies...Anyone remembers taking the clips off highlighters and slipping them on your fingers to pretend you have super long flashy nails ? I don't think any of us kids ever expected that thirty years later, it would be considered "normal" to walk around with that kind of super long nails that could puncture your rect*m when you wipe.
