We often don't know how nice a period of our lives actually is until it ends. However, there are a few things we can do to help bring back the memories of those precious times. Smelling a familiar scent, putting on a beloved song, or taking out the family photo album are all perfect options. But scrolling through online posts created specifically to induce nostalgia is also an effective one. This is where the Instagram account My Good Old Days comes in. Its pictures help us look back on the games we played, the clothes we wore, the technology we used, and so much more!
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What? Makes no sense to me. Grey hair happens to everyone who lives long enough and still has hair - what sort of maniac would apologise for it? And why "commit" to "not having plastic surgery"? I know it's fashionable these days amongst a minority to have "work done", but sensible people know that plastic surgery was always meant for those in need due to (and I'm about to use old-fashioned language) deformity - if you get badly injured, for example.
Load More Replies...Hollywood doesn't hire women that age even if she did. But I like her - I really like her.
Helen Mirren is almost 80, Judi Dench's last role was at 88, sigourney weaver is 75, Maggie Smith's last role before she died was at 89. Diane Keaton is 79, Meryl Streep is 75, Jane Seymour is 74, Susan Sarandon is 78, Michelle Pfeiffer is 66....to name a few. Hollywood doesn't have a problem hiring older women...so long as they are actually talented. If, however their career was based around their physical appearance alone.....yeah, opportunities are going to dry up. But we never seem to hear anything about the sexism that goes along with talentless eye candy being given a career, but once those looks fade, and they're actually held to the same standard as everyone else, suddenly is discrimination. What's that line? When you live a life of privilege, equality seems like oppression?
Load More Replies...What a sensible role model for those of us who follow her and others like Pamela Anderson who decided being who she is is so much better than the image she carried for so long
And she's absolutely beautiful to me. Of course, my name is Forrest.
Much better natural than being all plasticized . Nobody likes the effects of aging, but trying to turn what is natural into the unnatural very rarely results in improvement. Good for her !
Load More Replies...More power to her! If you want to go the other way, all good. Not sure why it’s so controversial for people to just want to grow old gracefully and comfortably?
Who says anyone should apologise for grey hair? I know the culture is that you should dye if you don't want to look old, but d**n expecting an apology is harsh, and many, many people (yes even celebrities) don't do it.
Why would anyone feel they have to apologize for their hair color? Or lack or it? Or lack of hair?
"Refused to apologize" sounds like she's committing some sort of malfeasance for having the audacity to age.
Um. . .she's 77, her hair should be grey or maybe even completely white by now.
Apologize cuz she's not afraid to show her age?!?!? Good for her!!!
I'll give 10 dollars (Zim) to anyone who can tell me why TF she should "apologise" for having grey hair. Take your time.
Why would the coolest person ever need to look like a youngster again?
I always loved Sally Field. Such a beautiful face. She has good genes.
I always thought she was cute. I still do, even though she is 34 years my senior.
70 here haven't apologized for my gray hair for more then 10 years. As far as plastic surgery, no worries won't happen either. Can't afford it.
You should never have to apologise for grey hair. It doesn’t make sense!
Load More Replies...We were watching her in Gidget movies and The Flying Nun in the 1960s! Have loved her ever since.
Load More Replies...Again, Saltypepper being downvoted for a different font. Why? Have another upvote!
Load More Replies...Good for you Sally!! Our poster Child!!! I just noticed something on her photo. The horizontal crease right under her nose. We see mainly vertical, not horizontal. These usually occur of those who wear oxygen. Does anyone know if Sally has been ill?
Ah yes, because a woman’s only job is to look good for you, right?
Load More Replies...For hundreds of years, this type of reminiscence was considered unhealthy. In the 17th century, a Swiss medical student named Johannes Hofer studied mercenaries in the Italian and French lowlands who longed desperately for their mountain homelands.
Witnessing their weeping and despondency, he coined the term nostalgia and attributed it to a brain disease. Other thinkers of the time echoed this view, and it persisted through the 18th and 19th centuries as well.
Yes, very different in a lot of ways from my younger days. New information and experiences and a willingness to have a look at myself and beliefs.
However, according to Dr. Chelsea Reid, an associate professor of psychology at the College of Charleston, United States, it's a mistake to assume that nostalgia leads to entirely dreadful symptoms.
In fact, "Unpleasant experiences, such as loneliness and grief, can arouse nostalgia, which can then help people cope more effectively with these hardships," she writes.
Agreed. I’m a boomer and raised three great kids (mostly with mutual sarcasm 😘) but children cry out for boundaries. You are doing them a disservice if you let them wander about with no boundaries because they’re insecure when they don’t know where the end is.
Thanks to scientific research, we now know that nostalgia also provides many benefits.
"It enhances feelings of optimism and inspiration and makes people view themselves more positively," Reid says.
"When people feel nostalgic, they feel a greater sense that their lives are meaningful."
Social benefits of nostalgia are especially well supported. It increases empathy and the willingness of people to give to those around them, such as volunteering for community events and donating to charities.
So in a way, creating and sharing posts like these is a form of public service. I know it sounds like a stretch, but the evidence is there!
OK, yes, this one is huge. It really was exciting picking up the pictures developed from film. Complete anticipation, excitement, and pleasure.
Nostalgia also makes people feel more connected by reassuring them that they are loved by, connected to, and protected by their loved ones.
It also helps us to feel more secure in our close relationships and enhances relationship satisfaction.
Staying in one position on the couch too long. Getting up and walking like a newborn foal for 3 meters.
"this is a collect call from "i'mreadycomegetme" will you accept the charges?"
Dr. Krystine Batcho, who is a professor of psychology at LeMoyne College in the US, says the beauty about trying to "pass on" and "infect" each other with nostalgia is that even if it doesn't work, it's not a negative experience.
"I never saw that [reminiscing about the past with in a group] can actually alienate other people because people don't necessarily want to hear about your nostalgic memories. They want to share their own," she explains.
The walk to my middle school was about a mile. On a section of road without a sidewalk, a car slid on the icy road right in to me. Thankfully it had been moving very slowly, and I was only startled, not hurt.
Written by someone who hasn’t popped the hood of a car on 20 years. I triple-dog-dare them to point out a single valve in the black box tech that are modern engines.
"That's why I say I wish it were a little more open because we have so much to learn from one another's nostalgic memories," Batcho adds. "That's why I encourage people when they find themselves in a situation such as you're reminiscing about your past and other people start drifting away because they're bored, you might start asking them about theirs and start a conversation, a dialogue. In that sense, you can broaden it out a little more."
It's like sending your friends memes—even if they don't get every one, they'll send some back, and the fun chat just keeps going.
Can't help but think that somebody massively missed the point here. 🤦🏻♀️
I’m there. But honestly, when my guy and I are flossing and brushing, we often joke about how at the same time 40 years ago we would be getting ready to go out clubbing. We miss those days. Don’t take them for granted!
I was a stay at home Mom. My children were born in the early 80s. Still lots of us back then. I feel so incredibly fortunate that I had that opportunity. I see what’s happening today, and I see the challenges my daughter is facing while BOTH she and her husband have to work. The wealthy are sucking the middle class dry.
You. You are the parents now. It’s you sending the kids off with all the things you are complaining about, ffs.
It reads like poetry to me. It’s someone looking back in time, and seeing the differences in language from the past to now. And the final line is probably true: that’s when we had a lot of time for family and friends. We DID have more time for family and friends before personal computers and cellular phones. They’re not attacking anyone, they’re making an observation.
Just as bad: your roller skate clamps came off your shoe, so you rolled an ankle and did a face plant on the pavement. Almost. Every. Time.
It will be demolished in a few years and my heart will be broken again, but in a different way.
My parents went out for drives so my dad could teach my mom how to drive. Fortunately they loved each other.
Daughter Judy Jetson complained as she stood there and the laundry machine did everything, including folding. Every generation hates doing laundry.
This is a good one, too. We played a lot of games outside. Hide-and-go-Seek, Kick-the-Can, Scrub, etc. I recently read something quite sentimental: "There was a time that you went out to play with your friends, and you didn’t realize it was the last time.”
And in the back of pickups. And small children were on their Mother’s laps in the front seat. Héll, we didn’t even have seatbelts! Lots of things have definitely improved.
Ah, the tinsel on the tree. Just going by the amount of tinsel on this tree, it was put there a few years ago and left on. Eventually most of it will fall off and be sucked up by the vacuum.
Oh yes, I remember. Except that when they came out I was 12, old enough to do it to myself. Hard on the knuckles!
I lived through the 80s and have absolutely no interest in going back.
I dislike that sounds from flat screen TVs is worse. Solution, buy yet another power consuming device, a sound bar, just to hear the d**n broadcast. Then you get told "have your hearing checked" but you are the one that can hear the clock has stopped in the other room or the electronic buzz from the fridge.
No. Sorry. I'm seventy and I'm still traumatized by how he treated me at times when I was a kid.
My dad had 8 living brothers and sisters. We would get together for holidays, pot luck, kids running all over the place. I’m not sure I would even recognize some of my cousins today. 😢
It's a weird feeling, knowing that I now have no grandparents at all. The last one died earlier this year.
People did NOT have compassion back then. Do you know what they did to civil rights activists?
Cold War anyone? Duck and cover? Maybe less rights for the marginalised? How about women as a lower class? Lower life expectancy? Oh the good old days. Vietnam maybe? How’s about cancer killing way more people? Mutually assured destruction globally if two crazy nations decide to cross swords? Happier times! Children growing up knowing all about the four minute warning? Strikes and four day weeks? Stock market collapses? U.S. and NATO bases dotted all over Europe, ready to send forces across the borders to repel Soviet tanks. Such a peaceful and calmer time. The rose-tinted 20/20 hindsight bifocals are awesome! PS Children do still play out, get skinned knees, play in mud, climb trees, enjoy simple lives and they’ll surprise you, but that’s no fun for the generation that thinks it did it best is it?
You might want to read through all you've written and realise that...not a lot has changed really. 😳
Load More Replies...Ok if I include vacuum cleaners with dust bags? When it was full you would open the front, as you grabbed the bag the thing would seal the opening and you'd dump it without dust going everywhere, now it's press a button, the bottom springs open, dust goes everywhere with a slightest of breeze.
Vaccum cleaners with dust bags? I remember them. Unzip the cover and dust flew everywhere because those old paper bags were terrible at trapping fine dust and loads of dust got trapped in the fabric cover. Remove the bag from the tube and dust flew everywhere. Wrap the end of the bag over to "seal" it and dust flew everywhere. Horrible, horrible things. Now, you just hold the dust cylinder in the wheelie bin, press the button, and the dust lands neatly in the bin with a tiny flurry escaping. Less than 1% of the dust exposure compared to the bad old days of hoovers with dust bags - *and* the modern vacuum cleaners do a far better job of cleaning in the first place.
Load More Replies..."Which method best helps you relive your '80s childhood memories?" None, I was a child in the 60s.
Right. I had to get up in the morning at ten o’clock at night, half an hour before I went to bed, eat a lump of cold poison, work twenty-nine hours a day down mill, and pay mill owner for permission to come to work, and when we got home, our Dad would k**l us, and dance about on our graves singing “Hallelujah.” :)
You had graves? That's dead posh that is. When I were a lad we had shallow ditches covered with leaves and that was enough for us...
Load More Replies...One of the things I miss the most is Top 40 radio. That was before radio stations were devoted to a genre of music, except of course for classical or country. You would hear Iron Butterfly then the next song could be Aretha Franklin. Keener 13 (WKNR) and The Big 8 (CKLW) forever.
In the UK, the top 40 was a single program on TV on a Thursday, then on the radio on a Sunday, with a DJ talking irritatingly over the start or end when one was trying to tape one's favourite tunes onto cassette.
Load More Replies...Anyone remembers taking the clips off highlighters and slipping them on your fingers to pretend you have super long flashy nails ? I don't think any of us kids ever expected that thirty years later, it would be considered "normal" to walk around with that kind of super long nails that could puncture your rect*m when you wipe.
You are a jolly little soul aren't you? You have totally missed the point of this post!
Load More Replies...Cold War anyone? Duck and cover? Maybe less rights for the marginalised? How about women as a lower class? Lower life expectancy? Oh the good old days. Vietnam maybe? How’s about cancer killing way more people? Mutually assured destruction globally if two crazy nations decide to cross swords? Happier times! Children growing up knowing all about the four minute warning? Strikes and four day weeks? Stock market collapses? U.S. and NATO bases dotted all over Europe, ready to send forces across the borders to repel Soviet tanks. Such a peaceful and calmer time. The rose-tinted 20/20 hindsight bifocals are awesome! PS Children do still play out, get skinned knees, play in mud, climb trees, enjoy simple lives and they’ll surprise you, but that’s no fun for the generation that thinks it did it best is it?
You might want to read through all you've written and realise that...not a lot has changed really. 😳
Load More Replies...Ok if I include vacuum cleaners with dust bags? When it was full you would open the front, as you grabbed the bag the thing would seal the opening and you'd dump it without dust going everywhere, now it's press a button, the bottom springs open, dust goes everywhere with a slightest of breeze.
Vaccum cleaners with dust bags? I remember them. Unzip the cover and dust flew everywhere because those old paper bags were terrible at trapping fine dust and loads of dust got trapped in the fabric cover. Remove the bag from the tube and dust flew everywhere. Wrap the end of the bag over to "seal" it and dust flew everywhere. Horrible, horrible things. Now, you just hold the dust cylinder in the wheelie bin, press the button, and the dust lands neatly in the bin with a tiny flurry escaping. Less than 1% of the dust exposure compared to the bad old days of hoovers with dust bags - *and* the modern vacuum cleaners do a far better job of cleaning in the first place.
Load More Replies..."Which method best helps you relive your '80s childhood memories?" None, I was a child in the 60s.
Right. I had to get up in the morning at ten o’clock at night, half an hour before I went to bed, eat a lump of cold poison, work twenty-nine hours a day down mill, and pay mill owner for permission to come to work, and when we got home, our Dad would k**l us, and dance about on our graves singing “Hallelujah.” :)
You had graves? That's dead posh that is. When I were a lad we had shallow ditches covered with leaves and that was enough for us...
Load More Replies...One of the things I miss the most is Top 40 radio. That was before radio stations were devoted to a genre of music, except of course for classical or country. You would hear Iron Butterfly then the next song could be Aretha Franklin. Keener 13 (WKNR) and The Big 8 (CKLW) forever.
In the UK, the top 40 was a single program on TV on a Thursday, then on the radio on a Sunday, with a DJ talking irritatingly over the start or end when one was trying to tape one's favourite tunes onto cassette.
Load More Replies...Anyone remembers taking the clips off highlighters and slipping them on your fingers to pretend you have super long flashy nails ? I don't think any of us kids ever expected that thirty years later, it would be considered "normal" to walk around with that kind of super long nails that could puncture your rect*m when you wipe.
You are a jolly little soul aren't you? You have totally missed the point of this post!
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