Humblebragging — bragging masked by a complaint or humility — really infuriates people. Mainly because the disguise isn't fooling us.

A 2018 study from researchers at Harvard and the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill found that it is even worse than regular, straight-up self-promotion. The latter at least comes off as genuine!

However, some folks just can't help it. They let their insecurities get the best of them and put their false modesty on full display, ready to savor all the attention and recognition it might earn.

When that happens, they end up on a subreddit called r/HumbleBrag. The online community for shaming this pitiful self-presentation. Continue scrolling and check out some of its top posts.

#1

Very Pretty Girl Btw

Very Pretty Girl Btw

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Sarcastic Panda
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3 months ago

The. Ultimate. Response.

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"[Humblebragging] is such a common phenomenon. All of us know some people in our lives, whether in social media or in the workplace, who do this annoying thing," study author Ovul Sezer, an assistant professor of organizational behavior at UNC’s Kenan-Flagler Business School, said. "You think, as the humblebragger, that it's the best of both worlds, but what we show is that sincerity is actually the key ingredient."

Sezer and her team conducted a series of experiments, trying to determine how common humblebragging actually is and how others perceive it. They discovered that humblebragging is everywhere: Out of 646 people surveyed, 70% could recall a humblebrag they'd heard recently.

#2

Ah Yes

Ah Yes

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Sum Guy
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3 months ago

The reason they said Ex instead of specifics is because when being called out, they can claim it's just another ex

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The researchers then established that there are two distinct types of humblebrags. The first falls back on a complaint ("I hate that I look so young; even a 19-year-old hit on me!") while the second relies on humility ("Why do I always get asked to work on the most important assignment?"). The results showed that roughly 60% of the humblebrags people remembered fell into the complaint category.

#3

I Laughed More Than I Should’ve

I Laughed More Than I Should’ve

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 months ago

My almost 7 year old has recently learnt how to do his buttons up and I am very proud. It’s not a race to see whose child is the best, the smartest, tallest, best looking etc.

JuJu
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3 months ago

When mine was 3, he ate a mud-cake he made on the beach. <3

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Linus Nilsson
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3 months ago

I haven"t seen my two year old in almost a year, but then again he did say that it would take him seven years to go to the next galaxy and back with his homemade rocket. When I was his age, I only went to Venus.

Bobert Robertson
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3 months ago

Linus Nilsson sounds like the name for a genius. I have no reason to doubt the authenticity of this claim.

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Keri O'Donnell
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3 months ago

I know a 2 year old who knows abcs and can count to 17...is that not normal?

Silre
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3 months ago

I watched Sesame Street and was read to so, I could do it.

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Konpat
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3 months ago

That's pathetic. My son was only 4 when he received the nobel peace prize.

Marcellus the Third
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3 months ago

To be fair, he only got it for ending a war he had started when he was 2, so that was undeserved. I really felt that year mine should have won.

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Beth Dykes
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3 months ago

My 2 yrr old knew her abcs but also tried to eat a cat turd. Lol

Isabella
Community Member
3 months ago

This is not as unreal as it may seem. Lots of autistic children read books at age of 3 or 4. Using full sentences, naming letters and counting to 10 is not that rare at age of 2.

James016
Community Member
3 months ago

This, my son is autistic and could count to 100 at 2 and read at 3. It didn't mean he could understand what he was reading, that came with with being at school and us sitting down with him. His speech and language is not so great and like Foxxy's, he cant do his buttons up

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Pamela Blue
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3 months ago

I was chatting to a wife of a workmate and she was going on about how her son didn't study enough for an exam and missed graduating Summa Cum Laude. I commiserated with her and asked which college her son went to. He was in the 7th grade! It was all I could do not to burst out laughing!

Susan Trevaskis-Owen
Community Member
3 months ago

My sister taught me to read when I was 3 (not on purpose; we were playing school and well, I guess she was a good teacher!). On the other hand, I ate dirt until I was 7 so go figure.

Chich
Community Member
3 months ago

Hey! I just got into Harvard as well! You'd think they could afford better locks.

Joanna
Community Member
3 months ago

What kind of messed up preschool does class rankings?

Rissie
Community Member
3 months ago

None, she made that shirt up!

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Draco Malfoy
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3 months ago

Amateurs, my child can do magic.

Deanna Durben
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3 months ago

I could read at count when I was two... this might not be bragging depending on context

Louloubelle
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3 months ago

If you're going to humble brag about your kid being so smart, at least don't have misspellings. "Currntly"? Just sayin'

Luka Hamer
Community Member
2 months ago

The idea that they even have first honor s**t at school for toddlers disturbs me most

The_tattered_hippie
Community Member
3 months ago (edited)

my 5yo can’t recite the alphabet but he kicked the crap out of cancer. No 2 kids are the same. Lets stop holding children to some arbitrary standard that no one could possibly meet. We all have our strengths and shortcomings. Embrace both!

Danny Bai
Community Member
3 months ago

But what if it was a former 3 year old and not even his/hers, but some random one he/she doesn't evem know?

Julie
Community Member
3 months ago (edited)

It is extremely normal and common for parents to brag on their kids. Of course! To them it is all amazing and makes them proud because for each parent, theirs is the best in the world. (about the above lady, that all may be true, but I imagine that every kid in class was also given a '1st honor', whatever that means, certainly NO preschool teacher would proclaim one child smarter than all the rest). Be proud but don't lie. My kid learned to ride his bike without training wheels at 4, but wasn't potty trained until 3 1/4... according to my sister that was too old because hers were all trained before 2. Each triumphant, I want to tell everyone...first time he blew a bubble, first time he whistled, first time he could snap his fingers. We should all celebrate.

Qw3stion
Community Member
3 months ago

You should be proud!

Piper McLean
Community Member
3 months ago

Why do people have to run it in others faces that their child is “the best”

Rukkia
Community Member
3 months ago

My 14 year old still cant tie his shoelaces. Who cares. Still a proud mama of a great kid.

Debbie
Community Member
3 months ago

My son was 3 and could count to 20 but he also coloured our grey and white cat mistys white bits with a green permanent marker and she let him as she was his best friend , advice never trust a quiet toddler

Gaurav Beck
Community Member
3 months ago

Oh yeah! Well when I was 7 I made a time machine from table clock, n a drone I saw in chip n dale ,also made a electromagnet when I was 10 btw none of them worked for some technical issues Nd I might have blown off the whole house power

Mishte Tine
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3 months ago

Dayum. Great rebound. I remember going to the local pool with my fist kid - mother’s are so freaking competitive about pee and poop.

Incitatus
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3 months ago (edited)

My son was born without most of his urethra. When his surgeon built him one, he could pee like a race horse. I'll be glad anytime to sit down and brag about my son's pee.

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Violet Smith
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3 months ago

I guess Baby didn't get her spelling skills from her parents.

Analyn Lahr
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3 months ago

Nursery school has honor roll? What for?

just a hamilfan (hufflepuff)
Community Member
3 months ago

My fourth grade brother is learning linear equations!

Sol Connor
Community Member
3 months ago

Tbf, my kid had 100 words by age 1 and ai’d tell anyone that would listen. My Dad always thought I was exaggerating until he came to visit and they had a full conversation. I think it’s natural to want to share cool things your kids do.

Xylle Flora
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3 months ago

It's not a race, people shouldn't brag about this.

Miriam Brose
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3 months ago

Well, I actually knew a girl who could talk full sentences at 1½ years. Her mother work(ed) in a kindergarten and therefore taught her early on.

Marcellus the Third
Community Member
3 months ago

Weeellll my 3y old slept with her prom date! Got it from her mother.

Juan Alcorta
Community Member
3 months ago

I thought my friends were the only ones with genius babies

pusheen buttercup
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3 months ago

It could be a misunderstanding. I'd be proud of pretty much anything they learn at that age, I'm just glad I haven't f****d up yet!

Mockster
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3 months ago

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My son is 2.5 years old and he knows his ABC's, can count 1-30, knows all his shapes , colors, animals and we even just started working on telling time and writing. He loves to learn and its called working with kids so yes it is possible .

bryguy
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3 months ago

lol @ you humble bragging on an article about laughing at people who humble brag

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#4

Woman Got Called Out In A Facebook Group For Humblebragging About Paying For Someone’s Burger And Fries

Woman Got Called Out In A Facebook Group For Humblebragging About Paying For Someone’s Burger And Fries

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Robert T
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3 months ago

*you're

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The researchers also carried out experiments to see how people responded to humblebrags, particularly focusing on the bragger's perceived likability and competence. They found that regular bragging was better on both counts, it at least comes off as genuine, Sezer explained. Interestingly, even complainers were more likable and seemed more competent than humblebraggers of any type.

#5

These People Are Cancer

These People Are Cancer

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Shelp
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3 months ago

Please just catch fire and die (bis)

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#6

Loves His Niece

Loves His Niece

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Ryan Deschanel
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3 months ago

"Niece? Yeah, it's the nickname I gave to my ripped abs."

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"If you want to announce something, go with the brag and at least own your self-promotion and reap the rewards of being sincere, rather than losing in all dimensions," Sezer said.

It would be even better if there was someone to 'wingman' your boasting. "If someone brags for you, that's the best thing that can happen to you, because then you don't seem like you're bragging," Sezer added.

#7

Saw This In My Feed And Felt It Belonged Here

Saw This In My Feed And Felt It Belonged Here

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DC
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3 months ago

Rolex ... you a pimp, bro, are yooo?

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#8

Mum's Stretching The Truth

Mum's Stretching The Truth

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Shelp
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3 months ago

All the languages who disappeared without leaving a trace would like to have a word with your son.

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However, we may want to rethink our harsh criticism of humblebraggers. We may be doing it ourselves without realizing it. "We all do it, to some extent," Sezer said. "I hope I don't sound like I’m humblebragging when I talk about this research."

#9

If Only There Were A Way To Prevent This From Happening

If Only There Were A Way To Prevent This From Happening

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Serial pacifist
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3 months ago

Ah, the diamond bit through the glove, happens all the time.

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#10

" Just A Kid In My Bedroom" Who Is Actually A God

" Just A Kid In My Bedroom" Who Is Actually A God

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Sarcastic Panda
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3 months ago

wait what the hell did I just read?? Harry got the right reaction tbh

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#11

Bible Belt Humblebrag

Bible Belt Humblebrag

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Serial pacifist
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3 months ago

Yeah, and posting it on Twitter so angels could see your deed and retweet it in heaven.

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#12

Subtle

Subtle

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LeighAnne Brown-Pedersen
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3 months ago

It’s your humility that makes you attractive. Or your sarcasm.

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Additional studies examined the causes of humblebragging; in other words, if this strategy is so bad, why do people engage in it at all? After all, many situations in life involve either complaining or bragging. The humblebrag, the authors discovered, occurs when people try to elicit both sympathy and admiration.

#13

This Guy Has Too Many Friends

This Guy Has Too Many Friends

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HufflePuffleGothleGay
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3 months ago

me who no ones contacted for a week and a half

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#14

Such Grace. Such Restraint

Such Grace. Such Restraint

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Grumble O'Pug
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3 months ago

Gross

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#15

You Lose Touch So Fast

You Lose Touch So Fast

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Ryan Deschanel
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3 months ago

Actually, it is true, and really annoying. I am French, but sometimes I use English words because I cannot remember the French ones.

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#16

It’s So Annoying, Especially Because It’s Daily

It’s So Annoying, Especially Because It’s Daily

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Shelp
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3 months ago

They forgot to precise "roll my BEAUTIFUL eyes (did I mentioned the fact that I had BEAUTIFUL eyes?) and walk away".

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Unfortunately, as we already discussed, this produces the opposite effects. However, it is possible that even though you dislike seeing humblebragging in others, you feel that you’ve got no choice but to model the behavior of people in your network who use this strategy. But the Harvard-UNC study suggests you need to fight off this impulse. 

#17

So Embarrassing

So Embarrassing

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Lauren Caswell
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3 months ago

Sooo embarrassing.....that you feel the need to pretend to react for likes. Let your dancing speak itself, smh

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#18

This Is The Very Definition Of Humble Brag

This Is The Very Definition Of Humble Brag

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LeighAnne Brown-Pedersen
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3 months ago

Anyone with one comma in their account isn’t broke... but two commas! And do they have Wells Fargo in Dubai. No, really, this is from Warren Buffet in Omaha, right!

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#19

She Made Up A Story In Order To Flex

She Made Up A Story In Order To Flex

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Kisses4Katie
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3 months ago

It's "beemer" you uncultured swine /s I'm kidding

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#20

University Is So Wierd

University Is So Wierd

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N G
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3 months ago

That's nothing. Bored Panda just entered my comments into a contest and i won $501

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When you think about it, no wonder so many humblebraggers reveal their true colors online. Social media is a lot to blame for this.

As writer Roxanne Batty pointed out, Zuckerberg, for example, promised Facebook would "give people the power to share and make the world more open and connected." Systrom, a year after starting Instagram, described the platform as "a storytelling service…the way you go out in the world and tell a story about your life." Not to be outshone, Snapchat took this rhetoric one step further, their original mission being to "empower people to express themselves, live in the moment, learn about the world, and have fun together."

It all may sound lovely, but people have taken these slogans to the extreme.

#21

Ughhh, Im Sooeee Bad At Drawing

Ughhh, Im Sooeee Bad At Drawing

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Shelp
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3 months ago

How I understand it: what he drew was the eye on the right, but because people like him and don't want him to feel bad, they pretend his drawing to be as good as the one on the left. That's my headcanonical explanation and I don't want any facts or logical explanation to divert me from it.

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#22

A Humblebrag Of The Finest Quality

A Humblebrag Of The Finest Quality

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Serial pacifist
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3 months ago

Yeah, just a few more inches short of being secure, those darn two inches down there...

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#23

Good On You For Being Fluent In 4 Languages

Good On You For Being Fluent In 4 Languages

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Sarcastic Panda
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3 months ago

stop ruining theodd1sout!!

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Consider Instagram. The platform focuses on images, the perfect breeding ground for the infamous humblebrag. "Selfies, the bread and butter of the network, are a source of bragging in their own right. But to downplay this outright display of narcissism, they are now combined with heartfelt captions," Batty said.

#24

What She Said: Happy Mother’s Day, Ugly!

What She Said: Happy Mother’s Day, Ugly!

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Serial pacifist
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3 months ago

"You gave birth to a dynamite". Luckily it didn't blow up in her face.

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#25

Girl I Went To School With Always Posts Dumb Things Like This

Girl I Went To School With Always Posts Dumb Things Like This

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Sarcastic Panda
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3 months ago

i agree.

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#26

Humblebrag

Humblebrag

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HufflePuffleGothleGay
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3 months ago

why is catcalling immpressive? its usually creepy old men jackin off in allyways?

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#27

Self Explanatory

Self Explanatory

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Shelp
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3 months ago

If you precisely know how much the items you have with you are worth, then you're insecure about being rich.

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"Look at this amazing shot of me where my skin and hair are flawless! But oops, I actually wanted to talk about how life is a struggle and being a social media influencer isn't all it's cracked up to be... #selfcare #love #mentalhealth." Sounds familiar? That's probably because you've seen this post a million times.

#28

*my Wife- That's Amazing

*my Wife- That's Amazing

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Serial pacifist
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3 months ago

*Me - And that's not all, I did it anonymously!

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#29

Floyd Mayweather The King Of The Humblebrag

Floyd Mayweather The King Of The Humblebrag

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LeighAnne Brown-Pedersen
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3 months ago

Way to take a proud moment in your son’s life and make it about you. My mom would be so proud.

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#30

Everybody Wants To Do Me Lmao!

Everybody Wants To Do Me Lmao!

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Shelp
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3 months ago

"I'm 19, look at me, how unique I am, nobody ever was that age before me"

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"In a move to take some of the market share from Snapchat, Instastories also became part of the platform in 2016. These 24-hour windows provided a wealth of opportunities for a quick snappy humble brag (that disappears, so it’s all good). 'Oh, look at me with all my friends at this party! I should be studying for my law degree (at Harvard, whoops!) #FML #lifeishard.'"

#31

Poor Guy

Poor Guy

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Ryan Deschanel
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3 months ago

Not "intellectual". "Pretentious".

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#32

How Would I Know?

How Would I Know?

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Steffen Buchert
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3 months ago

Strange what autocorrect does to "I am in jail"

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#33

Hope Its A Good One

Hope Its A Good One

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HufflePuffleGothleGay
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3 months ago

youre also fluent in trash smh

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The term itself was coined by the comedian Harris Wittels, a writer for the NBC series “Parks and Recreation,” who collects hundreds of these cockeyed chestnuts on his Twitter feed and in his new book, both called “Humblebrag.”

#34

Don’t Mind Me Just Getting My Iphones Mixed Up

Don’t Mind Me Just Getting My Iphones Mixed Up

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Shelp
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3 months ago

By being unable to distinguish between his two phones, he admits to be a sheep for having bought both

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#35

He Wasn't Event Trying To Flex, Guys. He's Just That Rich

He Wasn't Event Trying To Flex, Guys. He's Just That Rich

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HufflePuffleGothleGay
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3 months ago

the use of adjectives suggests otherwise mr SouljaStan....

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#36

Weird Flex But Okay

Weird Flex But Okay

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Shelp
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3 months ago

Please just catch fire and die

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#37

Don't Be Too Humble

Don't Be Too Humble

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Alex K
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3 months ago

who the hell is she in the first place?

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#38

I Wish I Could Be Unhealthy But I’m Just Too Fit!

I Wish I Could Be Unhealthy But I’m Just Too Fit!

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Kit Tan
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3 months ago

Girl this post is unhealthy

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#39

Can’t Relate

Can’t Relate

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Carlota
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3 months ago

I don't know, I'm in Bali

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#40

Phew!! That Was A Close One

Phew!! That Was A Close One

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Kisses4Katie
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3 months ago

Doesn't she know that $600 shoes are Regina's thing?

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#41

Guys She's Struggling With Finding Herself

Guys She's Struggling With Finding Herself

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Serial pacifist
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3 months ago (edited)

I think you should unite your parents' affiliations and be an English patient.

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#42

$4000 A Day? How Will He Eat?

$4000 A Day? How Will He Eat?

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Jayne Kyra
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3 months ago

Keemstar is a piece of human garbage.

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#43

Yeah...the Switch Makes It Enjoyable

Yeah...the Switch Makes It Enjoyable

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Sarcastic Panda
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3 months ago

humble brag, you say?

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#44

Oh Such Agony

Oh Such Agony

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BorPand8
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3 months ago

This is the Daily Mail though...

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#45

I’m Sure Your Sister Appreciates That Post

I’m Sure Your Sister Appreciates That Post

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Kisses4Katie
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3 months ago

Someone needs a lesson in economics. And morality.

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#46

“Check Out How Many Guys Want Me!”

“Check Out How Many Guys Want Me!”

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Kisses4Katie
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3 months ago

One likes me that's all I need 😁

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#47

Mom, You're Making My Life So Hard!!

Mom, You're Making My Life So Hard!!

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Sarcastic Panda
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3 months ago

oh no, how sad (/s)

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#48

Girl On My Facebook

Girl On My Facebook

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Shelp
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3 months ago

But no friends whatsoever on WhatsApp or Instagram, I see.

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#49

She Is Fed Up With All The Guys Giving Her Business Cards

She Is Fed Up With All The Guys Giving Her Business Cards

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Steffen Buchert
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3 months ago

If he gives you his business card, he probably wants to do business. And 3 clients in a month is pretty lame.

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#50

“I’m An Actor”

“I’m An Actor”

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Shelp
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3 months ago

I feel like actors are the worst. They're bragging about it the whole time. Maybe there's a reason they were considered to be lower than prostitutes in ancient Greece.

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